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Africa: Sub-SaharanPlease Help!! Confused and Don't Know Where to Begin...
I have a question, how would the CO know if you met and married during your first visit?
Who's to say that you did not have a lengthy, intense, and fulfilling LDR?
I think (jmo) that sometimes we anticipate entirely too many variables and obstacles to our own success. Personally (jmo) if you want to meet and marry, go for it; I did, but then again, my situation has been a fiasco girlwerewolf2xn.gif whistling.gif
Simply_UnoFemale02008-07-27 14:36:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanHusband Granted Visa
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Coonnnnnnnnnnnngrrrrrrrrrrraaaaaaaaatulaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaations

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UNO


Simply_UnoFemale02008-12-13 10:09:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanMy Experience in the States
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Simply_UnoFemale02008-12-26 22:50:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanEvidence Question
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Simply_UnoFemale02009-01-04 12:10:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanFiance information-Please HELP
QUOTE (WhidbeyGirl @ Jan 25 2009, 03:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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QUOTE (Kanyiri @ Jan 22 2009, 11:54 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
DH didn't have any of his paperwork until we started this immigration process. He had no need for a passport or a copy of his birth cert, so he just never got one. We gathered everything shortly before we applied for his visa, and had no problems.



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Here's some more for ya Uno

DW = dear wifey??
DS = dear son???
DD = dear daughter???
IL's, MIL, FIL, BIL, SIL = I KNOW all of these

and I never had a DH mad.gif , more like DAH whistling.gif



still offtopic45vn.gif in-laws, mother in law, father in law, brother in law, sister in law.
{you did no0pb.gif read my comment accurately, I said I yes.gif all of these}

the "d" doesn't HAVE to stand for dear it can be other 4 letter words, depending on the circumstance.




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Simply_UnoFemale02009-01-25 19:53:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanFiance information-Please HELP
QUOTE (WhidbeyGirl @ Jan 23 2009, 01:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (UNO... @ Jan 23 2009, 09:28 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Kanyiri @ Jan 22 2009, 11:54 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
DH didn't have any of his paperwork until we started this immigration process. He had no need for a passport or a copy of his birth cert, so he just never got one. We gathered everything shortly before we applied for his visa, and had no problems.



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Here's some more for ya Uno

DW = dear wifey??
DS = dear son???
DD = dear daughter???
IL's, MIL, FIL, BIL, SIL = I know all of these

and I never had a DH mad.gif , more like DAH whistling.gif

Simply_UnoFemale02009-01-25 13:04:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanFiance information-Please HELP
QUOTE (Kanyiri @ Jan 22 2009, 11:54 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
DH didn't have any of his paperwork until we started this immigration process. He had no need for a passport or a copy of his birth cert, so he just never got one. We gathered everything shortly before we applied for his visa, and had no problems.



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Simply_UnoFemale02009-01-23 12:28:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanAffidavit
QUOTE (WhidbeyGirl @ Jan 25 2009, 03:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Perseverance @ Jan 24 2009, 09:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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QUOTE (Tiggi247 @ Jan 23 2009, 12:13 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hello again I have a few questions also, or am in looking in to this to deeply? I have a affidavit from the US Embassy in Conakry. My civil marriage was done at the Ministry of Foreign Affairs there in Conakry also. My marriage certificate however is in French which I tried to get in in english but they told me over and over again that its ok. They have done plenty of marriages and have never had any problem, and it just so happen that my wife Queen Mother in our wedding works there and I told her what I needed and I even signed online and showed her this site and the guidelines and she told us not to worry. Do I need to get more proof of "bonefide wedding" or will the proof that I have be enough. And 1 last question my wife birth certificate is in French also will I need to get that translated also and what about when she does her medical exam which will be a French speaking country also will we need to get those documents in english also blink.gif


First, I'd like to clarify that you need proof of a bonafide marraige not a bonafide wedding. The wedding is only the beginning of the marraige. Proving a bonafide marraige means proving your relationship is real. Think about things like letters, cards, emails, instant messages, phone records, pictures, shared leases or other contracts, shared bank accounts, shared health insurance, etc. Those types of things help you prove that your lives are linked which they infer to mean a true relationship.

Regarding documents, all documents submitted with your petition must be translated into english. Also use the guides up above to help you further.

Good Luck!
THANK YOU Thank you Thank you that is the reply that I was really looking for and the key word is bonafide, I have my wife on my job benefits plan, we have visa debit cards , money transfers from here to Conakry wire tranfer for the past 2 yrs, and well over $5000.00 in phone bills not counting the phone cards and pingo account, I think that I am reading to much in to why so many people have had problem getting thier visa approved. She has alot of family here in Delaware, Philly,New York and DC that we see each other alot and spend alot of time together as a family but all of that means nothing if the 1 that matters the most in your life is not there with you, and it is pure hell to do things with our family while talking to her on the phone. She even send clothes and cloths to my mother and aunts throughout the yr and you can imagine how much the shipping costs to do something like that from Africa. Thank you everyone once again for the answers. Now I wonder if I have to much information or to much proof. good.gif



I would really not worry about "too much" I would rather give them more than what they need, rather than recieve a RFE and have the case prolonged while you send what ever it is that they requested that could have been included when you submitted the petition good.gif


I disagree - good.gif star_smile.gif send only what is asked for. star_smile.gif good.gif
When the application says this OR that OR the other it doesn't mean ten of everything. Too much information is a red flag and asking for a detailed comb through, each piece of paper is a chance of an error, an inconsistancy, something to be thought of as a reason to deny. A huge packet of information is also one that gets set aside until time can be attributed to it, therefore other less "intimidating" packets will go ahead.

No, I haven't even started this process, BUT I have worked in government offices, so this is based on my personal experience working in the US Government.


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Edited by UNO..., 25 January 2009 - 07:47 PM.

Simply_UnoFemale02009-01-25 19:47:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanAffidavit
QUOTE (WhidbeyGirl @ Jan 5 2009, 10:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I suppose it's too late by now to call, ain't it.



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Simply_UnoFemale02009-01-06 00:19:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanAffidavit
I told you to call me, but no0pb.gif no0pb.gif no0pb.gif no0pb.gif no0pb.gif
you had to go and get a "forrrrmmmmm letttter" wacko.gif blink.gif dead.gif
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a hard head makes a soft a... devil.gif
Simply_UnoFemale02009-01-05 22:37:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanPoetry Corner
QUOTE (WhidbeyGirl @ Feb 20 2009, 11:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I am NOT a poet, but was inspired one evening last July (actually couldn't sleep, had to get this down on paper). It's not all lovey dovey as the other here, but it's the only one I've got.

CHERRY BLOSSOMS


Tiny, bright, pink blossums
announce spring has come.

Joyous and jubilant they
trumpet loudly their arrival

But what of those in Langley
that weep and mourn

Happiness left, for two
years have been gone

The blossoms fall to gound in saddness
as rememberance of two lives lost at their feet

They would have moved had the ablility been granted
but took the full force that March afternoon

Strong and tall they stood
as glass shattered, metal twisted and blood flowed.

Jason and Kelly, two lives just begun,
ended that day among the cherry blossoms.


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Simply_UnoFemale02009-02-21 02:28:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanPoetry Corner
bumpity bump.... rolleyes.gif
Simply_UnoFemale02009-02-20 23:05:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanPoetry Corner
QUOTE (Whippy @ Mar 11 2008, 01:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Here's one I wrote a couple years ago... smile.gif


Our Love, Our Ship ~ by Stephen Boland



The worker of a lady
Who served her men so true
She brought us home so many
From oceans green and blue

The masts of steel and hull of white
'Twas hard to see her go
As twilight came with driving rain
And took her down below

"So what to do?" the captain says
As we reminisce our love
"She is no more, she's on the floor"
Cries he to God above

When comes a shout from crew around
"We'll raise her once again!
We know from dreams of Fiddler's Green
That death is not the end."

So on that day it came to pass
She was ours to protect
"She lives" said we, "It's meant to be"
Our love we'd resurrect.

Remember by this tale of faith
Of men who persevere
To keep your hope to keep afloat
The things that you hold dear


I liked that, it was light and whimsical. Peace be unto you rose.gif
Simply_UnoFemale02008-03-11 13:09:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanPoetry Corner
QUOTE (Efia06 @ Mar 4 2008, 10:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
:::fanning self::: oh my! Im glad I will be seeing my baby soon. Tamer, huh? haha thank you. That was an experience.



yes, that was one of my tamer poems. I tried to "uummm"... make it light blush.gif
that was inspired by the "clean up man" and since y'all don't know, I am getting a DIVORCE!
and please, no sympathy is needed. he was acting a fool a long time ago, and I prayed on it and the more I prayed, the more of a fool he became.
so his a$$ is stuck like chuck and Uno don't giv' ah phuq!


Simply_UnoFemale02008-03-04 23:22:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanPoetry Corner
this is one of my tamer poems, I hope I don't violate TOS!!! (*shhh* denotes whispering)

I can't breath...mmmm
You can't sleep.....hmmm
to...ge---ther....baaabe
(its "too" heat)
you feel my bones *shhh* ache
I see you jonnnzzzing
*its all for me*
separated.....we are none
you plus me....that equals ONE
*oooh-weee baby*
I got chillz...ohh
You've got thrillz *shhh* give it all to me
place your hand....between my thighs
mmmm-hmmm *thats it*
run my fingers.....down your spine
its a must....everytime you thrust
feeeeel....me vibrate, its almost time
SEXPLODING...bodies entwined
I am your honey....you are my bee *shhh*buzzz
I'm your drug....you fein for me
I'm overdosing....you thirst for me
You can't sleep....mmmm
I can't breath....mmmm
Damn, LUST!!!

Simply_UnoFemale02008-03-04 20:43:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanPoetry Corner
QUOTE (Efia06 @ Feb 14 2008, 07:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (onwa @ Feb 14 2008, 01:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Beautiful poems. Here's one of my favorites I've written.

I sit at the grave of my grandma.
Kalani Kekoanui Esther Patterson.
My own granddaughter is with me,
her red hair dancing with the sun,
causing the memories to come.

Sunlight softens hard lines, life
on my grandma's dark weathered skin.
I wish my freckles would blend.

Grandma Esther sings
"Meleana E."
We are planting corn.
The earth yields to my grandma,
just as the forest trusts her
with a limping raccoon,
a bluejay with a broken wing.

Once, she stood in the clean, swept kitchen,
reading a letter from Hawaii.
Her mom had died last winter:
It was Spring.
She raised her apron to cover her face
and turned away.

That night in the garden I saw her
uprooting a strange, dense plant.
She cut the roots and
pounded them,
smashed them,
squeezed them till they bled.
She mixed the juice
with water,
with her tears.
Drinking the muddy liquid,
she saw the question in my eyes
and told me this story.

"In my village
there was one bruddah and one sistah.
They born da same time and get da same soul.
But they no mo'maddah or faddah.
Bruddah only get sistah.
And sistah only get bruddah.
One day sistah make, she wen die.
Bruddah wen bury her.
He so sad. He no mo' nobody.
He go her grave everyday and he stay cry.

Six full moons come and
all kine plants grow.
One day bruddah saw one rat.
Da rat ate da roots of one plant, one wit da leaves
like dis (grandma draws a heart in the air)
And da rat die, da boy fink.
So da boy say
'Dis plant grow from my sistah
and my sistah want me be wit her."
So bruddah ate da roots and his mouth all tingle,
his muscles all relax.
He fink he go'n die and be wit sistah.
But he no die, not even da rat.
So he go away and come back next day
and eat some mo' roots.

His mouth come numb again
And dis time his heart no hurt no mo'.
His mine come clear and he remembah.
He remembah his sistah and he stay all happy.
He den go back to da loi
and work again, and live again.
And he see dat dis plant grow from his sistah,
not so he can die, but so dat his heart no soa no mo'
at least for small time.

Scattered on my grandma's grave are
bracken fern, white trillium, purple foxglove,
a lone 'awa plant.
This tropical plant shouldn't grow here unaided
in the cold Pacific Northwest.
But this plant grows from my grandma.
It holds her stories, told and untold,
of a hard life, an island left
for a strange, cold place.
I dig some of the roofs and chew.
and tell my granddaughter a story.



That was so beautiful! You took me there onwa. Thank you, your poem truly touched me. Your words are so desciptive and inspire me. Thank you.

Uno, post one of your tamer rated PG poems biggrin.gif I would love to read some.

gimme until the weekend and I'll post one devil.gif .
(Efia, I had to laugh)
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Simply_UnoFemale02008-02-14 22:38:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanPoetry Corner
I want to post some of my poetry, but because I'm sensuous in nature, I don't want to get some one riled up and there SO's are not around to put out the flames. So, continue with the beautiful poetry. I'm reading and enjoying. biggrin.gif
Simply_UnoFemale02008-02-14 16:33:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanMarried to a Nigerian and still together?
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Simply_UnoFemale02009-02-11 22:48:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanMarried to a Nigerian and still together?
QUOTE (babynursetobe @ Feb 3 2009, 12:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
WOW, I can't believe how far this thread has gone. This was not my intention when I started it and now I'm not so sure it was such a good idea. Some have made assumptions about me and my husband that are totally incorrect, but
I'm not going to waste my time justifying my relationship.
I'm sure it would just be a waste of time.
{and you dont have to!}


Hello BabyN2Be,
I know you are not familiar with me, but my comment was in no way directed towards you or your personal situation. My statement was a spring board from what Sylvia stated, I agreed with what she stated whole-heartedly, and expounded upon that. I can't tell no ones story but mine and I am not here to judge, that is NOT my duty.
Forgive me if I have offended you and yours heart.gif
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Simply_UnoFemale02009-02-03 15:46:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanMarried to a Nigerian and still together?
QUOTE (Sylvia_n_Joseph @ Feb 2 2009, 10:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
There are huge classes of people that would sell their souls to come to America. Because they believe that here they will have a better chance no matter what. People who are in a desperately poor areas will most likely do more desperate things. Nigeria is one of the poorest countries in the world so there are many desperate people there. Does this mean that they are evil and all out to use love as a method to get ahead. No But it does mean that some will see it as a possibility. Just like not all cashiers will slip money from the register, but some will. I would guess they think they are disadvantaged and that the ones they are taking advantage of are just a symbol of the other extreme. Does a business owner hire a clerk expecting to be ripped off ? Where they negligent in hiring the person that eventually ripped them off. What signs did they miss. I bet many in hind sight will remember something "funny" about the bad employee. But I bet many praised early behavior ( They stay late every night making sure things are ready for the morning ) until they realize the real reason for it. Should they investigate every new hire ? How much checking out is good ? At what point is it useless. Every couple here has made the decision to have a relationship based on some sort of "qualification test" Was the test complete enough ? Time will tell. History shows that
many things we shrug off as cultural differences may in fact be early warning signs that aren't clear to us. Discussions like this may cause a few that have hidden questions to re examine their relationships. Hopefully whatever qualification tests we have preformed on each other were sufficient to let us know enough of the future that we will not enter the ranks of the scammed. It is a terrible thing that one person would knowingly do that to another. Fortunately many of us will have outstanding wonderful and interesting lives. The rest will fall somewhere in between the two extremes. But at least we have each other to help out.


Sylvia, you could not have stated it more clearly good.gif
{there is truly a difference between cultural differences, cultural practices, cultural ingnorance and inherent igorance. as adults dealing in transcontinental/transcultural relationships, one must educate him/herself to which is which and stop making excuses for jacked up behaviours for the sake of luuuvvvvv mad.gif }
I thank God for stepping in on my behalf
{thats what HE does when you ask for clarity and inclination to HIS will and not your own}and BLOCKING IT ALL so that I would not fall kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif
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Simply_UnoFemale02009-02-03 00:15:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanMarried to a Nigerian and still together?
QUOTE (idocare @ Feb 2 2009, 02:11 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
It's so hard to study anyone that lives so so far away. It's equally hard to just show up in their Country at their front door step. (some countries your can) Each and every time you go to visit a place like Nigeria it usually requires being sponsored. They know when your coming, and they prepare for that, so you find yourself seeing and doing what they have prepared. It's hard to tell what type of mate a person will be without
spending quality time.

In regular relationships within a state, the persons try to be together on weekends, or daily depending on work schedules and how far apart they live from one another; still it sometimes takes a while to discover that your intended mate has some personal flaws that you just can't tolerate. I heard the word love and decided to go on and try bringing a professional Alien here to America, believeing that he had morals and was an honest man. I believed all his e-mails to me proclaiming his ever lasting love etc.etc.

I understand when people on here read about how I was scammed and think that will never happen to them. Before my ex.-husband came I thought the same thing, I didn't understand that the morals and values and being respectful of others rule that I was raise with were so so different from what he was raised with. I could imagine liveing in any third world country would open up an understanding of who that person really is.
But while they are gettin others to spend money in their behalf and pretty much give them a guaranteed free trip to America ( As long as they do their part and Marry them once they get here) your gonna see the cooperative side of that Alien after all who ever the American sponsor is saving them lots of money too. ( apply for K-3 or K-1 visa )

They already know that they don't have to stay married too long; just long enough to get their papers; or they can leave sooner if they get an support system working with them just months after entering and sending in the adjustment papers.

The two times that I traveled to a third world country eveyone on the streets there were really nice people. It took a minute, but you do adjust. But trust me; if my ex.-husband treated me bad while I was visiting him in his country I would of known not to continue the K-1 process in his behalf. He knew to be a good man to me; and he knew that once I sent in his adjustment of statis that he was gonna leave. He became a very different person, yelling and screaming and blaming me for all kinds of crazy things.

Still I believe he's somewhere laughing and telling his other collegues ( potential scammers ) how it all went down and some things they could do to make the American spouse ask them to just leave.

What so ever a man sows; that shall he also reap.


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Simply_UnoFemale02009-02-03 00:00:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanMarried to a Nigerian and still together?
QUOTE (boo boo @ Jan 27 2009, 06:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (UNO... @ Jan 27 2009, 04:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (boo boo @ Jan 26 2009, 09:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (LagosFraud1 @ Jan 26 2009, 06:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Just keep your eyes wide and really wide open because, yes, there's a very very very high probability he'll leave you to marry in his tribe when all documents are in his hands. Yes, it's not a joke. HE WILL LEAVE YOU SOMEDAY TO GO BACK AND MARRY IN HIS TRIBE. I'M SORRY BUT I CAN'T BE ANY CLEARER. YES HE WILL LEAVE YOU WHEN HE GETS ALL HIS PAPERS.




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Boo-Boooooooooo, you know you wrong for all of dem head beats, LOL
{made me dizzy wacko.gif }



I am sorry Uno, I guess I did go alittle overboard yes.gif


its all good in da hood "boo to tha damn boo"...hollllaaa rofl.gif
Simply_UnoFemale02009-01-27 20:03:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanMarried to a Nigerian and still together?
QUOTE (boo boo @ Jan 26 2009, 09:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (LagosFraud1 @ Jan 26 2009, 06:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Just keep your eyes wide and really wide open because, yes, there's a very very very high probability he'll leave you to marry in his tribe when all documents are in his hands. Yes, it's not a joke. HE WILL LEAVE YOU SOMEDAY TO GO BACK AND MARRY IN HIS TRIBE. I'M SORRY BUT I CAN'T BE ANY CLEARER. YES HE WILL LEAVE YOU WHEN HE GETS ALL HIS PAPERS.




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Boo-Boooooooooo, you know you wrong for all of dem head beats, LOL
{made me dizzy wacko.gif }
Simply_UnoFemale02009-01-27 16:39:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanMarried to a Nigerian and still together?
QUOTE (Sylvia_n_Joseph @ Jan 26 2009, 10:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (WhidbeyGirl @ Jan 26 2009, 07:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (boo boo @ Jan 26 2009, 07:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (LagosFraud1 @ Jan 26 2009, 06:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Just keep your eyes wide and really wide open because, yes, there's a very very very high probability he'll leave you to marry in his tribe when all documents are in his hands. Yes, it's not a joke. HE WILL LEAVE YOU SOMEDAY TO GO BACK AND MARRY IN HIS TRIBE. I'M SORRY BUT I CAN'T BE ANY CLEARER. YES HE WILL LEAVE YOU WHEN HE GETS ALL HIS PAPERS.


It's so funny because ,come on REALLY who is going to believe someone who takes this approach to "warning", you can just hear the resentment, bitterness, anger and the inability to be rational and unbiased that LagosFraud1 has.


Makes one wonder if such a charming individual has better luck with American spouses or they just make everyone run run back home. Maybe the ex will log in under an account of rescuedFromHell2 whistling.gif

Daaannnng, Sylvia!! this quote had me laughin my a$$ off wow.gif
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Simply_UnoFemale02009-01-27 16:36:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanMarried to a Nigerian and still together?
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QUOTE (LagosFraud1 @ Jan 26 2009, 05:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Just keep your eyes wide and really wide open because, yes, there's a very very very high probability he'll leave you to marry in his tribe when all documents are in his hands. Yes, it's not a joke. HE WILL LEAVE YOU SOMEDAY TO GO BACK AND MARRY IN HIS TRIBE. I'M SORRY BUT I CAN'T BE ANY CLEARER. YES HE WILL LEAVE YOU WHEN HE GETS ALL HIS PAPERS.



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Simply_UnoFemale02009-01-26 19:32:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanMarried to a Nigerian and still together?
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Simply_UnoFemale02009-01-20 09:02:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanMarried to a Nigerian and still together?
eb0dfafc.gif very interesting...
Simply_UnoFemale02009-01-15 19:59:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanSub-saharan cyber cafe
Chis,
I have stated it before, you are sooo very intuitive idea9dv.gif rose.gif .
(damn, I had to catch myself from crying cray5ol.gif right then, ahem) wub.gif moving on...Yes, he is being asked all of the time about his departure ClockWatch2.gif , he sent me an email this morning and told me that he is thinking about turning off his cell phone due to all of the questions secret7vf.gif , but he needs to keep it on due to his family and when I call. So technically, he is screwed either way content.gif .

But when he arrives and you are tired of his behind hoggin' your closet, taking the sheets on a cold night, or the nooky when you are tired thing; remember how badly you wanted this process to end.

And as far as the aforementioned statement, I'll take the first five years of that with no problem goofy.gif ,
but after that....
"let the games begin and I'm ready to ruuuummmmmbbbbblllllle" ranting33va.gif about my sheets. headbonk.gif

so yeah, I feel a bit better mellow.gif
Simply_UnoFemale02008-01-28 08:48:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanSub-saharan cyber cafe
I'm posting here, this is still the say anything thread isn't it ?
Well if not, sue me mad.gif !
This immigrations process is getting the best of me and my husband sad.gif .
This is the second time we've argued over NOTHING headbonk.gif ranting33va.gif !!!
And I am soo very tired of it .
He's frustrated protest6wz.gif at how long it takes and asking me what are they doing with our petition,
like I know !
And I'm frustrated girlwerewolf2xn.gif at explaining every little detail, every little p and q, and all of the money that goes into the process.
I am so tempted to just smack'em in the back of the head and he probably wants to throttle the hell outta me !
But, noooo, there's distance between us and I can't get to him cray5ol.gif and he can't get to me crying.gif .
So we've agreed to take a breather for a while ClockWatch2.gif , and thats something else I'm tired of.
If we were face to face, after a good ole arguement girlwerewolf2xn.gif ranting33va.gif ,
we could do some good ole fashion makin' up secret7vf.gif heart.gif.
But, nooooo, theres distance between us ClockWatch2.gif .
Aw phuq diablo.gif!
Can y'all tell I am pisssssed devil.gif ?
Okay, I am done for now sad.gif ClockWatch2.gif cray5ol.gif .
Simply_UnoFemale02008-01-28 00:02:00
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thanks Zee tongue.gif
Simply_UnoFemale02008-01-26 13:53:00
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hey, has any one seen divine mercy? ClockWatch2.gif, eb0dfafc.gif
Simply_UnoFemale02008-01-25 23:39:00
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QUOTE (Perseverance @ Jan 25 2008, 01:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I had metal skates too, hand me downs from my sister, mine did not fit over the shoe mine had the boot built in and they where white.(they were way to big LOL) I still remember the sound they would make when I would skate down the road.
ching chong ching chong ching chong.... laughing.gif yes.gif laughing.gif yes.gif ohmy.gif my girl said "ching chong!! laughing.gif biggrin.gif
I feel you, I had the "white high-top boot-type" skates also, everyone use to call me
"pinky tuskadero" wearin' them hot azz skates. (I was the only one that had snow white high top skates), every one else had the metal strap on type.

We lived near a hill and I had the bright idea to skate down that damn hill.....well what do you think happens when you combine metal skates, black top, and high speed??? NUMB FEET LOL headbonk.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif

Oh and I had a pink bike with a banana seat LOL luv.gif
well as for UNO, I had a pink "Huffy" customized with revving handle bars, a red siren and a basket on the handle bars to boot star_smile.gif .
I told y'all, I was truly "hood rich cool.gif " and did not know it. tongue.gif


I did not live in the jungle but I did live in the mountains and we would always take off into the woods no one knew where the heck we were...gone all day...never occoured to anyone that an animal could have eaten us... huh.gif laughing.gif

Simply_UnoFemale02008-01-25 15:00:00
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hey every body,
this is a link that was posted on the K-3 forum concerning our petitioning issues.
go to this link to sign up for participation in a "tele-conference" regarding USCIS' services


http://www.dhs.gov/x...1038701035.shtm

Edited by unononehigher, 23 January 2008 - 11:26 PM.

Simply_UnoFemale02008-01-23 23:24:00
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QUOTE (We_Destiny @ Jan 22 2008, 08:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Chipas, Zainab and Zee playing in those environments must have been awesome. I don't care where children are, they always find a way to have fun.
Ladies what about the toy trucks made from cans and or large juice boxes and pop bottle tops for wheels being pulled by a handle made from a metal wire hanger. I'm kinda cheating, I have seen the kids in Jamaica pulling them. dancin5hr.gif


Mrs Chi Town (Uno) I have three words for you:

Chinese Jump Rope (with the rubberbands); Jump in, jump out, jump side to side, jump on, jump in, jump out. tongue.gif

Kick Ball with the big beach ball in the alley using people garages as the bases. goofy.gif

RED LIGHT - GREEN LIGHT (need I have to say more) idea9dv.gif


next level of
chinese jump rope, with the rubber band rope pull to your knees...ouch!
; clap in, clap out, clap side to side, clap on, clap in, clap out!
wait til' the lights go out to play "hide and go seek *cough* get some"
eigth grade graduation singing "children hold on, to your dreams, believe in love, let love be the light to show the way, and love will shine on you one day" whistling.gif
and "super transfers on sunday", ride all day long for $.100
"garretts" cheese and carmel mix


kicking.gif
Simply_UnoFemale02008-01-22 23:18:00
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yoooo, whoooo, did I here my name? yes.gif
I see y'all trying to get sumffin' started. lemme see dry.gif
Zain said "I don't know what's going to happen when she hits the preteens and acne sets in."
they gon' put her lil but in quarentine until she's finished blossoming into a beautiful flower goofy.gif
den herr come destiny ph34r.gif talkin' bout "Hey Uno" tongue.gif a blast from the past Remeber the metal skates you had to keep your shoes on to use them. What about when your best friend did not have a pair, and you let them use one of yours (so now both of you have on one skate) and you would push with one leg and then balance yourself on the one skate!" eb0dfafc.gif
girl, lukah' here, dem boys get the big ol' speakahs and setum in da window play'in "flash light, neon light' and e'ry body got a drippy curl talkin' bout I'm mixed with "porto rican" on my daddy'nem side and engine (indian) on my momma'nem side, see hur grandmomma was cherokee! den its dat one fyne brotha that know how to skate real good doing dem "crazy leggs" (holla, watch out der' nah!) but, wait, we had block parties, and its always them two families that gots to fight e'ry damn year fo' nothin' and speakin' of icee cups, do you remember dem penny strawberry cookies....oouuii, dem cookies was da bomb. don't forget about yo' pickle with the peppermint stick inah middle. Now damn..Hollah
oh, I can't leave out chis, talkin' bout "coochie", now girl thats a good one. roflmao laughing.gif
alright y'all keep'em commin!
Simply_UnoFemale02008-01-22 17:34:00
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(whispering) yeah, eeerrriiilly soo:cry2:

p.s. well I have tried to take you all down memory lane 70's style, gave some info about myself on a personal level, and I don't know what else to do to get this party started. so now I'm going to sit in my corner:ph34r:
Simply_UnoFemale02008-01-22 12:14:00
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my cousing sent this to me and I thought someone could use some inspiration
God Bless my cyber sisters and brothers in this struggle
UNO heart.gif


By TD Jakes

There are people who can walk away from you.

And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk
away from you: let them walk.
I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you,
loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you,
staying attached to you.
I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

The bible said that, they came out from us that it might
be made manifest that they were not for us.
For had they been of us, no doubt they
would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.

Let them go.

And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means
that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know

when people's part in your story is over so that you don't

keep trying to raise the dead.
You've got to know when it's dead.

You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something.
I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I

believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful,
it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God
means for me to have He'll give it to me.
And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it.
Stop begging people to stay.

Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you
and was never intended for your life, then you need to......

LET IT GO!!!


If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ......

LET IT GO!!!


If someone can't treat you right, love you back,
and see your worth.....

LET IT GO!!!


If someone has angered you .

LET IT GO!!!


If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge......

LET IT GO!!!



If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction......

LET IT GO!!!


If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets
your needs or talents

LET IT GO!!!


If you have a bad attitude.......

LET IT GO!!!


If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better......

LET IT GO!!!


If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take
you to a new level in Him........

LET IT GO!!!


If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship.......

LET IT GO!!!



If you keep trying to help someone who won't even
try to help themselves......

LET IT GO!!!


If you're feeling depressed and stressed .........

LET IT GO!!!


If there is a particular situation that you are so used to
handling yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it,"

then you need to......

LET IT GO!!!


Let the past be the past. Forget the former things.
GOD is doing a new thing for 2008!!!

LET IT GO!!!

Get Right or Get Left .. think about it, and then .

LET IT GO!!!

"The Battle is the Lord's!"

During the next 60 seconds, Stop whatever you are doing,
and take this opportunity.

(Literally it is only ONE minute!)

All you have to do is the following:

You simply say "The Lords Prayer" for the person
that sent you this message:

The Lords Prayer

Our Father, who are in Heaven, Hallowed be Thy Name,
Thy Kingdom Come, Thy Will be done, on Earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day, our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses
as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil.
For Thine is the Kingdom, and the Power, and the Glory, forever.

Amen.

Next, send this message to everyone you know. In a while, more
people will have prayed for you and you would have obtained
a lot of people praying for others!

Next, stop and think and appreciate God's power in your life,
for doing what you know is pleasing to Him.

If you are not ashamed to do this, follow the instructions!

Jesus said, if you are ashamed of me, I will be ashamed
of you before My Father"

If you are not ashamed, send this message... only if you believe.

"Yes, I love my God. He is my fountain of Life and My Savior.

He keeps me going day and night. Without Him, I am no one.

But with Him, I can do everything, Christ is my strength."

God loves you and watches over you everyday.





All great achievements require time.
-Maya Angelou
Simply_UnoFemale02008-01-21 15:10:00
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Yes, I remember Morgan Freeman on the electric co. smile.gif
Simply_UnoFemale02008-01-20 20:51:00
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hey, what ever happened to "the electric company" (screaming) HEY YOU GUYS!!!
and watching "love american style"
Simply_UnoFemale02008-01-20 17:07:00
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Salutations to you all.
every one here, or most every one claims "christianity" or higher power guidance. we all know what "sin" is, it is knowledge of right and still doing wrong. I am truly not trying to jugde or condemn. if you all take the time to read the verse I have posted below, maybe you all can correct your errors. heart.gif
Every thing is to be done with a "servants heart"

Romans 14:20-22 (New International Version)

20Do not destroy the work of God for the sake of food. All food is clean, but it is wrong for a man to eat anything that causes someone else to stumble. 21It is better not to eat meat or drink wine or to do anything else that will cause your brother to fall.

22So whatever you believe about these things keep between yourself and God. Blessed is the man who does not condemn himself by what he approves.

Simply_UnoFemale02008-01-19 11:53:00