Forum	Title	Content	Member	Sex	Country	Date/Time
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Interview date	I pray you the best.	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-01-29 23:13:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	How Will You Be Remembered?	I still have not formulated an answer yet, gimme time .	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-04 23:37:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	How Will You Be Remembered?	this is alot to think about ....lemme get back to you on this one . I have to do some retrospective and introspective house cleaning .	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-02 21:17:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	I just called NVC........................... am happy	QUOTE (chinemeze @ Jan 22 2008, 03:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I just got off the phone from NVC now. I was really surprised to hear the lady tell me that my case came in on the 18th of jan. with the #LGS................ and that they hope to send it to Lagos later on this week after processing. I was just barely approved form CSC on the 15th. I just wanted to share. Praise the Lord............Alleluia I am truly happy for you, go ahead and do yo' dance	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-01-22 17:42:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Real Talk	Hey Jomo_G, Are there any african clothing stores in your area? If so, do they have a website or a mailing list for perspective customers? Any information will be greatly appreciated.	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-07 12:04:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Real Talk	to every one, I graciously appreciate your sympathy/empathy. but I count it all joy. the three good things that came from my negative experiences down there (in the souf') are these... 1) I decided to end a very toxic relationship with my youngest sons father, I formulated an "exscape plan" and stuck to it. 2) I re-dedicated my life to Jesus and now I know my foot steps are ordered 3) my eldest son, my reason for breathing and my back-bone, not only dedicated his life to Jesus, he got Baptized and his gifts have been manifesting ever since. so yes, my time there was horrific; the bigg azz ####### roaches, the treatment my kids received, my eldest son being jumped for no reason (unless you count IGNORANCE and INSECURITY as reasons), the jacked up school system, the altercations I had because "they" thought the new chik was a punk, my illiterate-drug-of-choice-using-demonic-screw-faced-fork-tongue-pigeon-toed-stank-(fill in the blank)-azz ex, trippin all the damn time! OOOOhhhh, uuugggghhhhh I learned my lesson, I let it all go and, well, now I am on "my" visa journey. So nothing happens for no good reason, you have to go through the hard times, it builds character, makes you stronger, increases your endurance, humbles you, purifies you, and refines you, so that you can appreciate and thank God for the good times and sit back and let God be God during the bad times. It was hard, and I thought I was going to lose my mind, but the God I serve, told death (of my mind) to behave, for I am not through with her yet. When God speaks, troubling cease!. (You know, I don't know why I am tirading like this, somebody must need a word or an example so here I am.) But all I meant to say to everyone was "thank you " for your compassion. Okay, I'm done	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-06 09:04:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Real Talk	QUOTE (ara @ Feb 5 2008, 09:05 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hey Uno I thought it was better once you got closer to Atlanta. Thanks for the heads up. I have lived in southern Georgia my whole life but I would love for my husband and I to live somewhere where he and I can both relate you know what I mean. That is something I would definitely have to check out. Change has always been hard for me because I am so shy but I want a change from this city more than ever. Zainab I would move to St.Louis if I were you it sounds like a really cool place to live just think things over long and hard before you make a decision. On the baby thing my husband wants kids like yesterday too. We have time I am 29 he is 30 and I am kind of trying to wait because I just got him here and I want him all to myself right now but I guess we'll see what happens. Hey Ara, I was just speaking on my experience! I am accustomed to a certain life style. I am a midwestener through and through. So my moving "south" and noticing the different levels of "quality of life" which they considered standard, was substandard to "me". The educational system was severely lacking from my perspective. My children are considered "exceptional" from a standardized educational perspective and for them to have to repeat subjects "there" that they already have covered "here" was a kick in the face. Not to mention because we have "yankee" accents, we were singled out in a negative way. That was also the first time my children had experienced an "all black" school system. So the "atmosphere" left ALOT to be desired. I noticed that the adults were complacent and lacking in their parenting skills. They had a false sense of security and accomplishment. The economy was "poor". The healthcare, childcare, and social systems were operating under "poor" conditions. And one thing that my kids brought to my attention (I had already noticed), the boys clothes were too big for them and the girls clothing were too small for them. We also could not get over the fact that every woman regardless of age wanted to dress like a "fly girl" and every man thought he was a "baller, shot caller". I can't explain it, but the mentality down in the south, is mind boggling. But as I stated, I can only speak upon "UNOz" experiences, not anyone elses. For some one else, it might be "all gravey baby", but for me, it was "hell on earth!" Okay, I'm done.	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-05 10:24:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Real Talk	I could not edit, the diggity dang on button has a mind of its own!!! But my reply was and still is "HELL YEAH!!!" Life for me and my kids living in Georgia (college park) "colli-pawk" was the equivalent to living in HELL!!! But every thing aint for every body. Now don't get me wrong, I do have family down south, but, thats as far as it goes!! p.s. yes my husband wants children, but I got my plumbing tied several years ago, so he has to accept the ones I have or have some on the outside. I don't have a problem with that as long as he gives UNO a divorce. I don't accept no strays, that goes for cats, dogs and children. Edited by unononehigher, 04 February 2008 - 11:26 PM.	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-04 23:23:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Real Talk	lets see, to address your question "was it really that bad??"" HELL	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-04 23:02:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Real Talk	I am proudly african-american and I have lived in Georgia for one dreadful year. There is racism from white people to black people and from southern blacks to northern blacks. I HATED IT. So I packed up my crew and left the south and came right back to the mid-west. *closes eyes, clicking heels* "there's no place like home, there's no place like home!"	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-04 19:40:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Real Talk	QUOTE (JJWashington @ Feb 3 2008, 01:53 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> My husband got the same comments about not pissing me off or I would kill him because we all have guns here in the US. My husband has made friends with a Nigerian man who is married to a Nigerian woman who grew up here in the US. As I said, his wife grew up here, but she has made numerous comments about why he chose to marry a "caucasian." She only makes the comments to him and he has said I should "let it go", but I do get the impression, she really disapproves and wants to set him up with the appropriate Nigerian girl when he gets tired of me..... God maintains all that he Ordains! What God has brought together, let no man put asunder! So introduce her to the blessed ramblings of the Lord you serve via the BIBLE!	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-03 14:03:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Real Talk	Wow, this is interesting. I thought "I" was the only one being splashed with home grown/trans atlantic "hater aid". My experiences started at home from some "chuch folks". I was attending a charismatic evangelistic church before I met my husband. When the church elder found out about it. She asked me if she could "counsel" me about my decision to go and meet him. Mind you, I NEVER asked her for any input what so ever. Well after the "counseling session" *cough* christian beratement and scriptural chastisement session was over. She then attempted to put up barriers to my christian growth. She informed the other elders at the church that I was still going ahead with my plans and that as a christian servant, I had disobeyed her,"an elder" so I had to be corrected in my christian error by ostracizement. She even did a count down to the day I was leaving and sent me bible verses about how "the wise seek wise counsel and a fool continues in his folly." It was sad, but in retrospect hilarious. Now, once I arrived in ghana, I received stares, whispers and being called "obrunii" or "sweet honey." When my husband and I went to Labadi beach, the women were ruthless with their stares and whispering. it got to the point where I told them "a good hoe, would take a picture next time, for she knows that it will last longer! When we went to the western union office, there was this chick sitting in the chair ahead of my husband and I. She was to be facing the door, but she turned herself side ways and starting staring at my husband. I did not say anything, I even attempted to ignore her. Then she started "mean muggin" me. Oh, well now, that ####### did not go over very well with moi. So...my husband opened up his newspaper and attempted to put up a barrier. That did not work. So she went in between smiling at him and mean muggin me. I tried to be "nice" by flipping our hands so that she could see my wedding ring. The heffa got angry and started rolling her eyes at me. I told my husband, loud enough for her to here me, "baby, its about to be a kodak moment up in here if that hoe don't stop disrespecting me!" My husband did not understand what I meant so I told him, "I'm gonna hit that hoe in her eye so she can have a permanent memory of what she is missing out on!" Then, she turned around! My husband told me, "baby, let her heart burn with lust, for she can not have what her eyes are beholding!" Okay, thats enough of my #######. Next person....	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-02 14:04:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	African Nation's Cup	QUOTE (ZeeNusah @ Jan 28 2008, 07:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I go to the modern Ghana website: http://www.modernghana.com/GhanaHome/# There is a link on the upper right side for radio. There are tons of radio stations there. Different stations broadcast the matches so it may take a few but there is always at least one that broadcasts them in English. No downloads needed Thank you Zeeeeee	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-01-28 21:22:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	African Nation's Cup	how do I listen to the african cup thingy on my computer? I went to one of the links that was posted pre-game and I got some website that wanted to charge me for a download, I declined. any help...?? or was I suppose to pay a fee?	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-01-28 20:50:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	GHANA VISA	QUOTE (Bassi and Zainab @ Feb 4 2008, 08:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hey Efia. This has nothing to do with your visa question, but you've noticed I have trouble staying on topic. So forgive me in advance. I finished my book on the amish in Illinois tonight and picked up a book that I've never finished by Max Lucado called Everyday Deserves a Chance. The chapter I read really was pointed right at me, but I decided to share it with you too. (aren't I generous) Basically, he says in the book that God provides for us day by day. He doesn't provide for two weeks at a time, but rather day by day, exactly what we need. So we should learn to focus on each day completely and not start worrying about tomorrow, because it'll just sap the strength out of today's blessings. He quoted Montaigne, who said "My life has been full of terrible misfortunes, most of which never happened." Lucado said, "Worry scuttles our lives, hurts us, and most sadly dishonors God." God controls all our days, (AMEN!) whether we start worrying about them ahead of time or not. Our steps are ordered and we need only trust in His grace upon our lives. (PREACH!) Lucado advises that we should pray more, want less and live for today.(THAT IS GOOD TEACHIN'!) I found that message touched my heart cause I just worry and worry and worry; until I make myself sick. I'm gonna try to pray more. When you're praying, you're not worrying and when you're worrying you're not praying. That Max Lucado is one smart cookie. {hugs} I am all for a word from God, you gotta love the message and respect the messenger. Thanks Zaina	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-04 23:32:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	GHANA VISA	I sympathize with you. I can't help but to believe that your brother (his spirit) is fully aware of all of the love that his family has for him. You are worrying yourself needlessly, everything is going to be just fine. God has brought you through the physical separation from your brother to the physical union of you and your husband. God is in control. I don't mean to preach to you, but baby girl; you need to get a hold of your worries and tell them according to "psalms 27:1" The LORD is my light and my salvation,whom shall I fear? and then follow that up with "2 Timothy 1:7" For God did not give us (me) a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, of love and of self-discipline. And tell the devil to get off of your shoulder and quit whispering his lies in your ear! A verse in one of my favorite gospel songs is this "Even though the rain falls, I can still make this call, let there be peace! Now I can say, go away! I command you to move today, it's because of faith, I have a brand new day! The sun will shine and I will be okay, thats what I told the storm. So continue to walk in faith and while you are trying to figure it out, God has already worked it out! UNO	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-04 00:43:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	GHANA VISA	I would put both	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-01-31 20:58:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	flights	QUOTE (one love @ Feb 6 2008, 08:15 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hey Guys - ladies anyone know cheaper flights to Nigeria Im in Ga.. Willing to fly any direction to get cheaper flight but PARIS NOOOOOOOO done that never again... Also can i purchase my husbands ticke to return so we on same flight?? does any one know how its done I don't know if this will help, but you can check with this company and see what they come up with. I hope you enjoy your trip. http://www.tripdealers.com/	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-06 09:21:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Delta sky miles	Leeeeedaaaah, I wanna go see my husband. Can we do a buddy thingy also???? hmmm, can we?? I will have some scratch around here some where?? Commmm oooonnnn, how do I get some air freeway miles thingies??? Uno...	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-07 14:32:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Delta sky miles	QUOTE (one love @ Feb 7 2008, 10:38 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I was thinking its a idear.. OK hear I go If we all have sky miles Delta we not useing at this time why not transfer them to a sister or brother that needs t go to nigeria swap out miles because like ok I have 15,000 miles I can move up to first class.. but if i had more miles i can get a cheaper flight and when I fly i get more miles I would give back to person helped me.. out I saw it takes 62,000 miles to go free no pay I mean.. what u think Hello One, this is UNO, I think that is a marvelous idea, however; I don't have any sky miles to donate, but if I did, I would gladly share them with anyone in need. Also, you might want to expand this idea to other forums just to get some feed back and possible donations. Please note that, I have noticed that those of us with commonalities tend to stick together. But either way, get the word out, the worst that can happen is some one saying no. The best that can happen is blessings coming in from all sides. Good luck to ya	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-07 12:17:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	$$$$	I used tel3advantage, their service sux for me. I lost minutes, got cut off, fake rings, terrible connections...eeeyuck! I will never use them again. But that was just UNOz experience. The rest of them, I know nothing of. Currently, I use callingcards.com. They are...okay. Good Luck to ya.	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-01-31 02:51:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	$$$$	QUOTE (charlesandnessa @ Jan 30 2008, 09:23 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> oh dayum i thought there was free money here, given the topic title charles...haven't you learnt notting yet, t'aint notting free yeah, ricca, T-mobile got you and Qwest has me in indebted servitude	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-01-30 22:29:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Interview date!!!!!	All praises be to God	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-07 12:12:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Could this be the end our our Journey???	God is in control	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-04 23:38:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Medical in Accra	QUOTE (Bassi and Zainab @ Jan 9 2008, 07:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (unononehigher @ Jan 9 2008, 08:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I forgot to ask...okay, lemme back up. I have not received my NOA1 or NOA2 as of yet (they received it 10/12/07), but anywho, does my husband have to wait for his "packets" before he can have his physical exam or can he do it ahead of time to get it out of the way? p.s. and sadly yes, I am still a newbie @ all of this stuff. I read and read and read, and its still as clear as mud You can't do the medical stuff ahead of time cause you need the embassy letter. You can do stuff like get the police report, make sure that he has a birth certificate, passport (which I think had to have at least 6 months left on it at the time of receipt of the visa). If he's lived in other countries you have to get police reports from the other countries and that can take a while. So it might be something to get on. I don't know why I think your SO is from Nigeria but living in Ghana. I could be mixing you up with someone else though. If we didn't hate this process so much, we could start a business doing this for people for a fraction of the cost of the stupid attorneys. nope, he is 100% and I quote "ghanyan" (my sad perception of his accent )	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-01-09 20:46:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Medical in Accra	I forgot to ask...okay, lemme back up. I have not received my NOA1 or NOA2 as of yet (they received it 10/12/07), but anywho, does my husband have to wait for his "packets" before he can have his physical exam or can he do it ahead of time to get it out of the way? p.s. and sadly yes, I am still a newbie @ all of this stuff. I read and read and read, and its still as clear as mud	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-01-09 20:03:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Medical in Accra	QUOTE (ZeeNusah @ Jan 9 2008, 05:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hey everyone I just wanted to share my fiance's experience going for the medical in Accra. We decided to do the Holy Trinity/Akai House/Medlabs combination because it is much cheaper than the Akai House/Medlabs combination. He went and took them on Thursday, Decemebr 27 and he got them back today...so about a 2 week turnaround to get the results. Note: my fiance has not gotten the vaccinations done yet. Also, there is a nurse at Holy Trinity, Mr. Ray, who was VERY helpful. He is very knowledgeable about all this medical stuff for immigration and was soooooo super nice to my fiance. Make sure when your SO goes to Holy Trinity to have them ask for him. Holy Trinity: - Physical and Chest X-ray - he was there for 4 hours (10am-2pm) - cost: 56 Ghana cedis - no appointment necessary This is what they wanted from him: - 3 passport size photos - interview appointment letter from the embassy - passport - medical form that was sent from the embassy - letter from embassy (basically for the ACC case number but they wanted to see the actual letter) Apparently they have an area specifically for medicals for US immigration. It is located on the 3rd floor (or second floor in Ghana). The first thing they did was take his blood pressure, height, weight and pulse and then he went for the eye exam. Then he went and paid. The receptionist took the medical form that he got from the US embassy and put the passport pictures on them (1 for the doctor's report, one for the lab and one for the X-ray). He went to the lab and they took his temperature and a stool sample. Then he went and did the chest X-ray. Then he had the physical with the doctor. Then the receptionist gave him forms to take to Akai House (for the vaccinations) and Medlabs (HIV test). Medlabs: - HIV test - he was there for an hour and a half - cost: 50 Ghana cedis - no appointment necessary but there are long lines He gave in the forms to the receptionist and because there was a long line he went had lunch and returned. 30 minutes after he returned he went, they took blood (he said they took a lot of blood) and that was it. Medlabs sends the results back to Holy Trinity after they are processed and you pick them up together. You know, God is good. I was wondering how much all of this stuff is going to cost and here you come bringing the good news. I thank you very much and I can rest a bit easier knowing their fees wont cost us both an arm and a leg. "the value is da same"	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-01-09 19:56:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Happy Birthday Chispas!	happy birthday "Cheeeeesssspaaaaaassssssss "	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-12 22:39:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Those that have been Hurt form husband from Nigeria	QUOTE (boo boo @ Feb 17 2008, 12:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I agree with all of you. I hate when "nigerians" are labeled the bad people. It is not fair to say the least. We are only hearing one side of the story...and who knows how much "truth" is being told. It is sad when someone is extremely excited over their victory and then someone comes along and wants to pee in their cornflakes...that is very sick and twisted. Maybe next time a certain posts about nigerian ex-husband being accused of visa fraud, we can request that the posting be moved to the appropriate forum (effects of major family change on immigration benefits), wouldn't that be a more appropiate? Just food for thought. It is not right for a person to assume that nigerians are incapable of being real, open, loving, and honest people.	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-17 19:12:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Internet Love	wow, I'm still but now I need some ...	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-17 19:09:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Internet Love	good afternoon, this has been...entertaining and miseducational as well. my telepathic transmiter is currently out of range that is priceless (I LOVE IT ) Noel and the ran...I guess if "Noel was telling me it was going to ran" I would have ran also , but if Noah was telling me about the rain , now that deserves attention and pray tell...who is this Captain Wok...{the great VJ administrator from da' hood!} and did I hear some one mention VJ stock???? how much is "that" going for? y'all don't mind UNO, I'm just trying to lighten the mood, its thicker than new england fog after the rain on a humid day. now I'm going back to doing one of the things that entertains me the most... Edited by unononehigher, 17 February 2008 - 02:08 PM.	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-17 14:06:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Internet Love	considering the fact, that ignorance is bliss, have fun. anytime one has to resort to name calling and instigation and flamming, it reminds me of the loud mouthed bully in a crowd, once he is knocked out, all of his friends skit, skit, scatter. so just know that cyber-bullying is juvenile and UNO is far from miserable. These are my unfailing truths and promises from the God I serve, I am a Child of The King No weapon formed against me shall prosper My stumbling blocks shall become my stepping stones My father in Heaven did not give me a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, of love and of self-discipline. My father in heaven told me to "Sit at my right hand until I make your enemies a footstool for your feet." so while you trying to cause an uprising, I read in my bible that "The words of his mouth are wicked and deceitful; he has ceased to be wise and to do good." Psalm 36:3 (fo' ya !)	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-14 16:50:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Internet Love	QUOTE (Awa_Mugu @ Feb 14 2008, 12:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Efia06 @ Feb 14 2008, 08:07 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> A lot of people here celebrate valentines day. I heard on news that a lot of people break up during valentines, it is very stressful I guess. A lot are struggling right now and miss their loved ones because of this immigration stuff and may even come to this forum to express that or get cheered up and what a downer to read this. I understand you want to "enlighten people" but no matter what you say a person will not change their course if they are in full steam, so let them have their day. I would have encouraged more the aspect of being strong and happy with yourself or with what you have now than to again post a negative experience and also I would love to hear more about how you have survived and what things you have done to help you get over the pain and anger (has that happened?). There is a powerful illustration......if you want a man to move out his dirty run down shack you will get nowhere by telling him how bad it is and how ugly it is because he will only defend passionately what is his and refuse to budge. However if you build a beautiful home near him and draw his attention to the beauty and cleaness of the new home.....he will on his own see the difference and value and will eventually move out of the shack on his own. Idocare Im sorry about your experience....but maybe you should see someone to help you get over this. A counselor, whether spiritual or professional, if you have not already. I know I would have to if this happened to me (plus I would hire a hit man . But I think honestly, i would have to stay away from this forum because it would remind me too much of the bad aspect. I would try my hardest to find things not related to occupy my mind and heart. Although I know you are a voice that may keep some grounded I wonder if this is detrimental to your letting go and being happy again. Although love is the ultimate high and you crave that high again after its lost...no matter how many people you think you are helping ....you will not find it here. Im sorry if this will anger you but when I read your post I dont feel enlightened I feel sorry for you and it makes me feel ugly to think of such things. Someone can begin to absorb it and make it a reality when it fact it may not apply to their case. I hope the best for you. But go out and don something for yourself today, meditate or do something positive for others to help you realize beauty in you. If I am off base here, sorry. But this is what I see and feel when I read your posts. Valentine's day is another day. I prefer to get a check than a box of candy and senseless card. Considering my SO is in Nigeria I don't expect anything but a flash to call him back. Now you figure if that's a true statement or not. Now that I am over that, this is an open forum we can post anything that we choose. Now if Ms Idocare want to come on here and vent let her. My goodness she said if it didn't apply then don't reply. Who are you to use a phrase from the Bible but judge this young lady by coming to an open forum to voice her opinion. Why she has to be depressed or that you will anger her by her post? Is it because you have issue of your own? My SO and have discussed her situation and he agree. That others need to know, not to change their mind but to be aware. She's not saying abandon your journey but giving a situation that could happen or may not happen. My God we listen to Oprah. She tell us how to raise our children and don't have any, go figure. Now if it's God's will for her to move on let it be HIS WILL. By suggesting that she seek professional help is a bit too far girlfriend. Maybe you need help suggesting that someone need help. What's type of medical degree you have? You should have just came out and said she was mental. But we do appreciate you being tactful, if that is such a thing regarding your post. You are a bold woman, to tell her to go out and do something for herself. What are you doing for yourself? Wow! Talking about being arrogant. Whats up with the man in the shack, girl where you get that from. If want you a man to move out of his dirty run down shack, give him a job or a down payment for a new house or he need to contact Habitat for Humanity. Part 1 - I just got a flash. Salutations, I would like to "interject" my $.07 there is absolutely nothing arrogant about suggesting that someone seeks help to over come their pain. that is gentle encouragement. you don't need a degree to do that, you need compassion and common sense. and why is there so much hostility in your posts towards someone who is obviously attempting to encourage Idocare to embrace and overcome her pains? I would certainly hope in my time of despair and betrayal some one would bring me to the light instead of pushing me further into darkness. but then again, misery does love company...	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-14 16:18:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Internet Love	I commend you for your honesty. Take it easy, it was a lesson taught and a lesson learned. Revenge is mine said the Lord. UNO	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-14 08:24:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	We finally together here in Washington DC	I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU GUYS. GOD BLESS	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-18 10:49:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	This part is done...	QUOTE (Rodgiegirl @ Feb 21 2008, 10:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Thank you to all of you who have been praying for us! Rodgers went for his interview and it went well. They just asked a few questions and then said, "okay come back on Teus. and pick up your visa!" So I've booked a flight for the 11th of March! WOW, after almost a year apart!!! We'll be together again! Thanks guys! Cassandrea God has blessed and graced you through your journey . All praises be to God Most High . Congratulations to you and Hallelujah UNO	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-22 00:32:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	How many counting down now???	QUOTE (ose_n_me @ Feb 17 2008, 01:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> 59 days till interview Am hoping to be locked up in the bedroom by April 24!!!! hey watch it, thats Unoz birthday you betta wurk it gurrrllllll ::::purrrr:::	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-21 15:24:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Cameroon Crisis	you and your country are in my prayers.	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-28 23:58:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Journey Is over.....	You approaching the end of your journey gives me so much hope. I am truly happy for you, and by all means DO YO' DANCE!!	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-06 13:44:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Lets make a chart of where we all are from	QUOTE (chispas @ Feb 27 2008, 01:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Rass Zee! You have done a fantastic job with your chart. I am sure it'll grow further as more people add their information. Well done girl. QUOTE (unononehigher @ Feb 25 2008, 09:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> hey e'er body , I'm in B-E-T-T-E-N-D-O-R-F........ahem.....,:::whispering:::thats...in...iowa" okay, next You are really out there girl. How's the snow? the snow is non-stop, it snows, the temperature rises, the temperature drops, it freezes, the temperature rises...again, it snows again...aaarrrggghhhhh ! It wont stop but aside from that, its b-e-a-utiful!!	Simply_Uno	Female	0	2008-02-29 13:15:00