ForumTitleContentMemberSexCountryDate/Time
PhilippinesNOA2
u should post ur timelines BEFORE you ask for help!!! I'm sure you already know that...
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-09-02 08:03:00
PhilippinesThe in-laws
Sorry to hear that....just pray and ask God for guidance...but hopefully you will resolve whatever problems you have with ur in laws...


anyway my MIL(mother in law) is living in Florida ... i only seen her through webcam and i have talked to her few times...and i knew that she's really a good person in and out...and i knew deep in my heart that she welcomes me and my son to her family... I am honored that she's my Mother in law. star_smile.gif
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-09-01 09:40:00
PhilippinesShame on U.s. embassy in manila
QUOTE (maliciant @ Sep 15 2008, 01:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hollywood has already shown filipinas the good side, everyone knows america is a paradise already, I don't see the point of showing people that yes, you can earn more money in the US, you can have a good life, your own private jet, whatever... that's already the expectation (OK, I don't think people expect their own private jet). As for seminars for american's marrying foreigners, I think awareness is plenty high already, I've heard the warning about women marrying for visa's plenty of times, nevermind the fact that one of the first things I did was look into various scams and problems I could run into when I first considered any kind of relationship with someone from another country...

If you can't understand why they focus on what they focus on in the films, take a moment to consider what it's actually like if you are in a foreign country, an emergency happens (I have no idea who to call in the philippines if say... a kid fell off a roof and no one was around), the person who you most likely rely on, your future husband, happens to be manipulative and abusive, it happens, sometimes the things you find out about people you thought you knew are down right amazing, and unfortunately even when marrying in your own country, people end up in abusive relationships, but in your own country you *should* know how to get help, in a country you've only been in a short time you may not know where to go, especially if you haven't any friends, family, or even co-workers who you can rely on for help yet. I know that in the philippines I'd be lost in a lot of situations, as a foreigner I wouldn't know what to do at all... of course, filipinas in the US probably know enough english that they aren't quite as lost as I am in the philippines... but they are also on average about 5 inches shorter, and 30-40 lbs lighter than the average female here, nevermind the guys here. Basically an abusive husband with a foreign wife is a worst case situation and I'm willing to bet that domestic abuse is not as rare as you might want to think, maybe I'm going off the rails but heck, look at the sexual offenders lists (they actually map out where they live these days) if you want a wake up call of sorts on the kind of problems that exist in america.

I can't wait for my fiance to be here in the US, but I also worry about her safety here, being victimized in any way would be pretty devastating, even though I know she'll be able to rely on me. Our own schools teach our kids all kinds of things, like don't talk to strangers, if someone touches you a certain way tell your parents, an adult whatever... should we stop showing these educational films just because you yourself aren't a kidnapper, and are insulted someone might insinuate that you possibly could be because we teach our kids not to talk to adults they don't know, including you?

As for those fees though, I have to agree, it does pretty expensive compared to what people living in the philippines actually make.


ok, I understand what you have said and I agree with you !! but from what my wife has told me. the movies seem to be a lot more to scare than to educate. maybe they are trying to use a shock factor for educational purposes. I remember years ago they had a series on tv called scared strait, it reminds me of that sort of tactic. only used for educational reasons.. anyway I wish all the foriegn women no matter where they are from, a safe and happy life with their husbands in their new enviroments


QUOTE (Jomo @ Sep 15 2008, 01:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (JNUEM @ Sep 12 2008, 04:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
My fiancé went to her seminar after passing the interview. We thought the seminar would tell you everything about the USA, and what to expect and how to count money or something Or about the weather or something educational and helpful. Instead they flooded her brain with discouraging stories and videos of the Filipinas that got treated bad. Stories, pics and vids of prostitution, beatings and death etc. Can you believe the embassy passed fiancé visa interviews and the couple have only known each other for a month or so.. This really pissed me off to know they do that during the seminar instead of making you feel comfortable. I mean the process is frustrating enough, and then they do that at the end of it to stress you out more. How sad is that. And you have to pay for it.

Shame on The U.S embassy in Manila

MY fiance arrived on my bday. sept 2 woohoooooo!



While it doesn't sound like it was presented in the best manner, I think it is important information to be made aware of.


agreed !!!
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-09-15 12:38:00
PhilippinesShame on U.s. embassy in manila
QUOTE (envy_me @ Sep 14 2008, 12:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (ronjie @ Sep 14 2008, 06:03 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
are you trying to start an arguement with me? coz if so I will ruin your day !!! no, I didn't attend the pre-marriage seminar. I know what your talking about, but I didn't attend it. the things I wrote are my opinion. so just let it go, and we will both have a better day !!!!


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what are you talking abt??
why are you being aggressive??
why do u think im arguing with you??
im just replying to your post based on what i know..
and dnt scare me with your "i will ruin your day" statement..
oh yeah im scared..?? rofl.gif rofl.gif
the things that i wrote are my opinion too..
like what completely said, seminar is a normal thing is the philippines..
that is why i asked u if u attended one before u got married..
cos with your post earlier, it seems that your not aware abt the pre-marriage seminar for locals..
well, now i know why you're not that aware abt it..
cos like what u said.. you didnt attend it.. whistling.gif
so there.. thats my point.. cheers! wink.gif



MAYBE BEFORE THE USEM gives out the affidavit of eligibility to marry papers to the us spouse, they should have them attend a seminar and point out all the bad things about PI girls and scam marriages.., but that wouldn't be fair either since we know that is a very small percentage of the philippine girls. the point here is that yes there are bad people everywhere and we need to be aware of this. but being an adult I would assume you are smart enough to already understand that. and you would be careful before you marry someone. did your husband get a prenuptual before he married you to protect himself (just incase you are a gold digger) or did he enter the marriage with trust and faith. of course you want him to trust you and there should be no need for a prenuptual. and if you trust and love him there should be no need for the seminar. and yes in the US if a woman is abused there is many places where she can get help for FREE. and that would be a place to stay, money, lawyer services, etc. so its 2008, but there are still FREE services for abused women. and I would think that the response time would be relitively slow with some of the numbers the girls are given from the seminar. If someone is being abused in anyway they should immediately call 911 and report it. I'm sure that will be the fastest way to get help !! and of course I am aware of the pre-marriage seminar. which I did go to but did not have to complete and was excused from. so cheers to you sweetheart and have a great day !!!!
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-09-14 11:44:00
PhilippinesShame on U.s. embassy in manila
QUOTE (Completely @ Sep 14 2008, 07:31 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (ronjie @ Sep 14 2008, 06:03 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (envy_me @ Sep 14 2008, 02:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
PS: ronjie i noticed you're under k3..
did u get married in the philippines?
if so dint u attend the pre-marriage seminar?



are you trying to start an arguement with me? coz if so I will ruin your day !!! no, I didn't attend the pre-marriage seminar. I know what your talking about, but I didn't attend it. the things I wrote are my opinion. so just let it go, and we will both have a better day !!!!



Hi Ronjie,

Seminar is normal in the Philippines.. getting married, going to work overseas, marrying someone from the other countries..

These seminars are being done because some of my fellow filipinos did experience abuse and bad treatments from different countries, so our government is just there to guide us, but this does not mean to scare us but to increase our awareness and what to do when we come to the Foreign Land.. They sure did show the beauty of the country they are going to but of course, they have to show the negative side of it..

Before I went overseas to work in the Middle East (where women are dressed up with only eyes open), they briefed us how to take care of ourselves, what to do, and what should not..

I have never done CFO Seminar when I married my husband because our visa get processed in Middle East... But I think this seminar is just an awareness that maybe it could happen to any one of us....

Most K-1 Visa,whether what country they are from,.. (although they married for love Im sure), but majority of them just met once for how many days..... If you read some topics in Forum on Effect of Moving in the USA.. you will understand what I mean.. Someone told me before that you will not know the person until you two live together..

I am glad your wife found a nice husband like you.. I'm sure, that thinks about the good things you can give for your wife.. but all countries has bad apples and oranges..

If someone thinks the seminar in a positive way, this is just basically a situational awareness... Like when American goes overseas, when they came on board, during the inprocessing, my job is to brief them about country terrorism, a situational awareness in the Middle East not for them to be scared but for them to be aware of what is happening outside their country for their safety.. Some dont give a #######, because for them its a waste of time, but majority of people appreciate the briefing we always do to increase their level of awareness..

PEACE!


ok, I do understand what you say. and thank you for sharing your experience with me. have a great day....peace to you also..
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-09-14 07:11:00
PhilippinesShame on U.s. embassy in manila
QUOTE (envy_me @ Sep 14 2008, 02:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
PS: ronjie i noticed you're under k3..
did u get married in the philippines?
if so dint u attend the pre-marriage seminar?



are you trying to start an arguement with me? coz if so I will ruin your day !!! no, I didn't attend the pre-marriage seminar. I know what your talking about, but I didn't attend it. the things I wrote are my opinion. so just let it go, and we will both have a better day !!!!
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-09-14 06:03:00
PhilippinesShame on U.s. embassy in manila
QUOTE (envy_me @ Sep 13 2008, 10:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (ronjie @ Sep 13 2008, 02:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (envy_me @ Sep 12 2008, 06:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (ronjie @ Sep 12 2008, 04:57 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I couldn't agree more with you. what a bunch of bullsh-t. they know who's money is paying for this #######, airfare and hotels for some of the spouses/fiance's. and then when they get the visa, they have to go back to have it stamped.


you dnt have to go back..
you can go to CFO branches where you can have the seminar and stamp same day.. wink.gif
that is why it is best to attend the seminar after you got your visa..



just wondering if they showed the other side to the lady's... like the house in the country. or the new car she will have. or maybe the man that works 50 or 60 hours a week to give his family everything he possibly can. how about the day trips, weekend trips or yearly vacations. or maybe the christmas tree with many gifts under it for the family.
if they are only showing the bad ####### that can happen then its wrong. they do this just to make money, there are other ways to inform the girls, like papers attached to their visa or whatever.
i go into my marriage with full trust and faith that it will be forever. I never asked for or wanted a prenup. If my wife were to bring phone numbers with her, (just in case) I would be offended. for me, when it comes to trust, its all or nothing. I have explained to her in ANY emergency, she should call 911 and get help. OH by the way,... what does the men from PI who immigrate here watch ? Is it the same movie ?


yes.. yes.gif
guys watch same movies too..
like what other peeps said, the seminar is not to discourage women/men to marry foreigners..
it is to open the eyes of filipinos.. that it is not always a good fortune for everybody..
and also i would just like to react on the highlighted part..
with all due respect, i dnt think that's the point of marrying a foreigner..
we fall in love regardless of where that person is from and what that person has..
i mean i believe most of us here marry someone cos of LOVE..
not cos of money or any luxurious things on earth..
if you marry someone and u get to have the nicest things on earth then it is just a plus, IMO!
also, why would u get offended when your wife would bring phone numbers?? blink.gif
i mean it is not a bad thing.. i dnt see why u would get offended..



of course it is for love !!, I'm just wondering since they pointed out the negative things, if they balanced it by pointing out the positive aspects. and I explained why I would get offended so if you don't understand I won't explain it again. besides do you have any idea what kind of things a foreign wife could do to a spouse here in america ? we don't sit around watching movies about the GC searching, gold digging, home wrecking, foreign spouses. yes, that happens too !!! we are all adults. and we should do our homework and learn who are SO is before we engage or marry. terrible things happen home and abroad, why don't they have these ceminars before locals marry each other ? if its so important and they care for the women so much, and they want to be a womens advocate. then why isn't it FREE ? wake up and smell the coffee. do the math. how many spouse/fiancee visa's a year for PI x the fee they charge. its always about money.
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-09-14 00:49:00
PhilippinesShame on U.s. embassy in manila
QUOTE (tedjen @ Sep 13 2008, 06:23 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (ronjie @ Sep 13 2008, 02:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (envy_me @ Sep 12 2008, 06:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (ronjie @ Sep 12 2008, 04:57 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I couldn't agree more with you. what a bunch of bullsh-t. they know who's money is paying for this #######, airfare and hotels for some of the spouses/fiance's. and then when they get the visa, they have to go back to have it stamped.


you dnt have to go back..
you can go to CFO branches where you can have the seminar and stamp same day.. wink.gif
that is why it is best to attend the seminar after you got your visa..



just wondering if they showed the other side to the lady's... like the house in the country. or the new car she will have. or maybe the man that works 50 or 60 hours a week to give his family everything he possibly can. how about the day trips, weekend trips or yearly vacations. or maybe the christmas tree with many gifts under it for the family.
if they are only showing the bad ####### that can happen then its wrong. they do this just to make money, there are other ways to inform the girls, like papers attached to their visa or whatever.
i go into my marriage with full trust and faith that it will be forever. I never asked for or wanted a prenup. If my wife were to bring phone numbers with her, (just in case) I would be offended. for me, when it comes to trust, its all or nothing. I have explained to her in ANY emergency, she should call 911 and get help. OH by the way,... what does the men from PI who immigrate here watch ? Is it the same movie ?


Yes, same movie... you gonna watch it by group, so if there's a man with the group he will also watch it. Like when I attended this seminar there's one guy in our batch...


thanks for the info !!
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-09-13 17:51:00
PhilippinesShame on U.s. embassy in manila
QUOTE (envy_me @ Sep 12 2008, 06:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (ronjie @ Sep 12 2008, 04:57 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I couldn't agree more with you. what a bunch of bullsh-t. they know who's money is paying for this #######, airfare and hotels for some of the spouses/fiance's. and then when they get the visa, they have to go back to have it stamped.


you dnt have to go back..
you can go to CFO branches where you can have the seminar and stamp same day.. wink.gif
that is why it is best to attend the seminar after you got your visa..



just wondering if they showed the other side to the lady's... like the house in the country. or the new car she will have. or maybe the man that works 50 or 60 hours a week to give his family everything he possibly can. how about the day trips, weekend trips or yearly vacations. or maybe the christmas tree with many gifts under it for the family.
if they are only showing the bad ####### that can happen then its wrong. they do this just to make money, there are other ways to inform the girls, like papers attached to their visa or whatever.
i go into my marriage with full trust and faith that it will be forever. I never asked for or wanted a prenup. If my wife were to bring phone numbers with her, (just in case) I would be offended. for me, when it comes to trust, its all or nothing. I have explained to her in ANY emergency, she should call 911 and get help. OH by the way,... what does the men from PI who immigrate here watch ? Is it the same movie ?

Edited by ronjie, 13 September 2008 - 05:16 PM.

ronjieMalePhilippines2008-09-13 17:15:00
PhilippinesShame on U.s. embassy in manila
QUOTE (JNUEM @ Sep 12 2008, 05:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
My fiancé went to her seminar after passing the interview. We thought the seminar would tell you everything about the USA, and what to expect and how to count money or something Or about the weather or something educational and helpful. Instead they flooded her brain with discouraging stories and videos of the Filipinas that got treated bad. Stories, pics and vids of prostitution, beatings and death etc. Can you believe the embassy passed fiancé visa interviews and the couple have only known each other for a month or so.. This really pissed me off to know they do that during the seminar instead of making you feel comfortable. I mean the process is frustrating enough, and then they do that at the end of it to stress you out more. How sad is that. And you have to pay for it.

Shame on The U.S embassy in Manila

MY fiance arrived on my bday. sept 2 woohoooooo!


I couldn't agree more with you. what a bunch of bullsh-t. they know who's money is paying for this #######, airfare and hotels for some of the spouses/fiance's. and then when they get the visa, they have to go back to have it stamped.
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-09-12 16:57:00
PhilippinesCheating
QUOTE (shes @ Sep 24 2008, 01:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
thats why one should really get to know their partner before going into marriage..if someone goes into marriage right away, say aftr a few a months of having a bf/gf relationship and the cheating suddenly happen, the victim always end up saying.." why??"..

the answer is...cus they dont REALLY love you.

true love takes time to grow... it takes time to develop... it takes time to get stronger....and true love never hurts.

you'd rather get the true ones than the fake ones eh?

**for the thread's concern: old people, just be cautious when falling inlove with a very young one.



true maybe, but you never really know someone till you live with them.
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-09-25 04:32:00
Philippinespls help.. filing out ds156
QUOTE (iamincognito @ Oct 11 2008, 05:17 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Ronnie and Kris @ Oct 11 2008, 04:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hi ....


Quick Question about the ds156 form no.25. AND 26???



PLS...help!!!!


Thanks


number 25: name and telephone of the person you will be staying in at the US -- put in your fiance's details, name, address, home phone or mobile
number 26: how long do you intend to stay in the US: indefinitely
number 27: purpose of your trip: marry US citizen fiance

that's what i did on my ds156 and it seemed to be okay.


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ronjieMalePhilippines2008-10-11 04:44:00
PhilippinesTHANK GOD.. WE RECEIVED THE NOA2 WOOHOOO
QUOTE (Mike and Karol @ Oct 8 2008, 01:42 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
THANK GOD WE RECEIVED THE NOA2.. WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE good.gif good.gif kicking.gif good.gif good.gif



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ronjieMalePhilippines2008-10-08 23:56:00
PhilippinesTHANK GOD.. WE RECEIVED THE NOA2 WOOHOOO

ronjieMalePhilippines2008-10-08 02:00:00
PhilippinesMarriage Index or CENOMAR
thats great news !!
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-10-16 18:39:00
PhilippinesShe arrives tomorrow!
so, will you sleep tonight ? congratulations, it must feel great !!
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-10-15 23:53:00
PhilippinesWE GOT our VISAS!!!!!! YIpppeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!

ronjieMalePhilippines2008-10-11 04:40:00
PhilippinesSa Mga Kapwa Ko Pinay
QUOTE (Pinay Wife @ Oct 24 2008, 11:28 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Ito naman ay para kay Roi "bakla" Aggie.

QUOTE (roi_aggie @ Oct 24 2008, 03:26 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I speak many languages, because I happen to be a world traveler, and guess what... a hell of a lot more educated than any of you pinays on here. What doesn't your little bf speak Tagalog? Are you jealous becaue I do? Tsk Tsk Tsk...

World traveler ~ ah oo nga pala may advertisement na "Join the Navy and see the world". Ports of call: Subic and Angeles City bwahahahaha. Safe daw trabaho nya kasi US govt. daw. Oo nga, isa ka sigurong retiradong sundalong na-shell shock kaya utak mo nasa pwet mo na at nakalawit (ano ba ito mga kapatid, ako ba itong nagsasalita? Nanliliit ako sa mga sinasabi ko pero at the same time nae-enjoy ko yes.gif . Sarap palang manlait ng mga MIB hahaha!).

Wala raw kwenta ang Pinas pero nungka, nag-aral ng Tagalog. Isa kang ipokrito Roi. Kung wala kang interes sa aming bansa, magtitiyaga ka bang pag-aralan ang lenggwahe namin?

Siguro suki at parokyano ka ng mga bars sa Subic at Angeles tapos may nagustuhan kang kapatid naming pokpok na hindi ka pinatulan kasi kung anong pangit ng kalbo mong mukha, siya ring pangit ng ugali mong mala-hayop. Dahil nabasag at nadurog ang puso mo, takbo ka sa Bangkok kung saan dumaong ang barko mo at kung saan bumili ka ng babaeng Thai (kaawa-awang babae) dahil walang Pinay na pumatol sa iyo. Hoy Roi, pwede ba tanggalin mo litrato mo sa profile mo, halos masuka ako nung nakita ko pagmumukha mo. Mukha kang sangganong preso doon sa Munti.

Mga kapatid kong Pinay, maganda itong ginagawa nating ito. Kung mabasa ito ni Roi, maghirap siyang mag-Tagalog o kahit sumagot siya sa wikang Ingles, sagutin pa rin natin sa wikang Tagalog. Palagay ko walang kakampi sa kanya. Ang hirap yatang mag-Tagalog noh. Kapag nagalit siya ang maaari lang nyang gawin ay magsumbong at baka isara ang sinulid na ito. Magkagayun man, ako naman ay maligaya na dahil kahit paano ay nakapaghigante tayo.

Hala sige, batuhin ng bato ang mga Filipina haters. Isa pa yung Amby-syosong lalaki na yun. Sunod nating batuhin at laitin ay iyong si PlatyPus (nana) at iyong si Mawilson. Tingnan lang natin. Kapag nagsisagutan sila ditto, atin silang kukuyugin. Okay ba mga kapatid?



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Agree ako sayo.... pero dadaanin ko na rin sa dialect ko...para mas lalong mahirapan syang umintindi....hahhahaha indi guid sya kabalo mag translate yong akon nga dialect....mabuang lng sya sa pag intyiende sang akon nga isulat....so sis sama ako sa laban na to!
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-10-24 10:34:00
PhilippinesSa Mga Kapwa Ko Pinay
Sila ang mga klase sang tawo nga nami ihulog sa kalayo sa impyerno!....wala sila ga pa respito sang ila kaugalingon....sila ang klase sang tawo nga dapat ibasura sa kalibutan....so sa tanan nga mga pinay...bato guid kung kinahanglan....viva filipina...
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-10-24 10:18:00
PhilippinesSa Mga Kapwa Ko Pinay
QUOTE (LastChance @ Oct 24 2008, 11:01 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
O ano na naman hinihirit ng kumag na to???



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Ang sabihin mo KUtong ito !!! hahahaha


wifey...

QUOTE (acidentaly_n_LOVE @ Oct 24 2008, 11:03 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (charles! @ Oct 24 2008, 07:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Pinay Wife @ Oct 24 2008, 09:28 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
As for you charles, you just confirmed what Filipina haters have been saying all this time that Filipinas are the center of VJ universe.

ya'll can think that if you wish. i'm also in mena, sub-sahara, canada, the "divorce forum" and the k-1 visa forum in addition to this one.
don't pat yourself on the back too much, you might get carpal tunnel. ;)



Bobo! pag-aralan mo kung ano ang lingwahe namin.... puro english ka lang eh!!!! Tagalogin mo kasi tagalog ang thread nato...



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Go go go sis! mango ka ayo sya....hahahha! nami kaayo ipahiwitan...hahahhaah...
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-10-24 10:09:00
PhilippinesSa Mga Kapwa Ko Pinay
agree ako sa lahat ng sinabi nyo...hindi lng kayo ang nakaranas ng panglalait dito pati na rin ako...at ang nakakainis yong nanglait sa akin e my fiancee na pinay....para akong apoy na nag uumapaw sa galit noon...sabi ng husband ko sya na daw bahala sa MIB na yon...pero sinubok ko pa ring maitanggol sarili ko at ang buong lahi ng pinay dahil dapat lng at karapat dapat na ipaglaban...ngunit d rin sila patatalo sasagot at sasagot pa rin sila ng pabalang...hanggang may isa silang kaibigan na forum moderator na kumampi sa kanila...kahit na alam ng moderator na yon na mali sila pero pinagtatanggol pa rin...hanggang sa punto na pati pag popost namin ng sagot sa sinulid na yon ay inalis...so galit kami ng asawa ko sa ginawa ng forum moderator na yon...ang ginawa ng asawa ko e sinulatan nya ang pinakamataas na tao dito na may position ng site na ito at sinabi nya ang lahat na nangyari...at alam nyo kung ano ang nangyari sa kanya...siya ay inalis sa pagiging forum moderator .... dahil lumabag sya sa TOS!!! at karapatdapat lng na tanggalin sya dahil hindi sya pantay kung humusga...so masaya talaga kami na natanggal sya sa pagiging FM nya dito...para na rin malaman nyo ang mga maling ginawa nya...so sa lahat ng pinay mabuhay talaga...kahit kailan kahit saan pinay laging nagtatagumpay!

wifey...MJ


email me kung gusto nyong malaman kung sino ang natanggal na FM dito! hehehhe
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-10-24 09:27:00
Philippinesi plan to have my medical tomorrow
QUOTE (Hunnybaby @ Nov 5 2008, 08:34 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hi There,

I still have my period now. Also, I am trying to figure out what alibi I will give to my boss if I will be gone 2 days smile.gif

Where are you staying? I plan on staying in the Hotel.... Have u arranged ur flight yet?

You can YM me if you want...

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I hope you can join me on monday with the medical....




Ive already book my flyt...on sunday morning...im from Bacolod city...and im also staying in the hotel...yes we can chat on YM...whats ur email add..?

QUOTE (Hunnybaby @ Nov 5 2008, 08:34 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hi There,

I still have my period now. Also, I am trying to figure out what alibi I will give to my boss if I will be gone 2 days smile.gif

Where are you staying? I plan on staying in the Hotel.... Have u arranged ur flight yet?

You can YM me if you want...

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I hope you can join me on monday with the medical....


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Glad we have the same interview date appointment at USEM....
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-11-05 08:41:00
Philippinesi plan to have my medical tomorrow
QUOTE (Hunnybaby @ Nov 5 2008, 08:19 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
wow.gif Until now you still dont have your interview schedule???? huh.gif

It only takes a week for them to receive it and you said NVC sent it last 10/16

Well, my opinion is just bring the copy of the NVC letter...that's enough already...

I will have my medical next week. I am hoping we could do it together star_smile.gif

When was the last time u called the embassy for interview schedule?



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I hope you can join me on monday with the medical....
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-11-05 08:26:00
Philippinesi plan to have my medical tomorrow
QUOTE (mikeuday19 @ Nov 5 2008, 06:58 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
te okay lang sa akin, kaso lang, andami daming tao pag monday, san ka pa ba manggagaling? smile.gif


QUOTE (ronjie @ Nov 5 2008, 06:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (mikeuday19 @ Nov 5 2008, 06:44 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
would slec accept the letter from NVC?

sensya na po, makulit lang, naitanong ko na rin kasi to sa isang vj'er, and she said it's okay, in fact, she was the one who encouraged me to do my physical as early as now kahit wala pang interview appointment,

anyway, just for my peace of mind, i still want some opinions,

at syempre, sino kaya pwede kong makasabay bukas?


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hi... why don't you join me on monday...and on sunday morning i will be in manila...sana sabay ka na lng sa akin...hope its ok with you..




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Bacolod pa me...

What should I bring to my medical examination?

* Appointment letter sent by the National Visa Center or an e-mail print out of your appointment sent by the Call Center or the appointment date shown on our website (http://manila.usembassy.gov/wwwh3238.htm)
* Appropriate medical examination fee.
* Passport (valid for at least 6 months)
* Two colored pictures (2 inches x 2 inches) with a white background

ronjieMalePhilippines2008-11-05 07:07:00
Philippinesi plan to have my medical tomorrow
QUOTE (mikeuday19 @ Nov 5 2008, 06:44 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
would slec accept the letter from NVC?

sensya na po, makulit lang, naitanong ko na rin kasi to sa isang vj'er, and she said it's okay, in fact, she was the one who encouraged me to do my physical as early as now kahit wala pang interview appointment,

anyway, just for my peace of mind, i still want some opinions,

at syempre, sino kaya pwede kong makasabay bukas?


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hi... why don't you join me on monday...and on sunday morning i will be in manila...sana sabay ka na lng sa akin...hope its ok with you..
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-11-05 06:49:00
Philippinesdelbros confuse pls help
QUOTE (marshanetexas @ Nov 1 2008, 10:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
guys tell me what to do now pls ...i need reply now pls,,,guys do i still need to pay delbros? i heared that delbros is not necessesary now, guys anyone here jus t pay thier delbros recently?like just pay thsi month? or lastmonth? pls let me know an dtell me what to do pls i need to know now pls guys
thanks a lot

marshane



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Just want to let you know that DV thing is not in the list now on the applicants interview preparation instructions ...chk it for yourself so you will know...

http://manila.usemba...ov/wwwfk1en.pdf
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-11-06 07:20:00
Philippinescalling the US Embassy Manila
QUOTE (dphus @ Nov 6 2008, 02:28 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (ronjie @ Nov 6 2008, 12:14 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (dphus @ Nov 6 2008, 02:03 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (dphus @ Nov 5 2008, 11:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hello out there,

Is anyone having trouble contacting the US Embassy in Manila? I call the number and it just goes silent. I've been able to get a hold of them before. This has been relatively recent and was wondering if anyone else is having the same issue.


I called the number on the website....(63-2) 301-2000

I am trying to get the status on my wife's K3 visa. It has been in AR since sept 22

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did u dial the extension number?





American Citizens Service

Tel. No. : (632) 301-2000 extension 2555, 2246
Fax : (632) 301-2017

Applicants, Agents or Petitioners calling from within the United States will also be able to use this service by calling 1-888-877-9888. The cost of the 888 service from the United States is a U.S. $18 PIN payable using a Visa or MasterCard once you have called into the service.


I can't even get the recording at the beginning that asks for the extension number in the first place. When i call (63-2)301-2000 there is no ring at all. I could swear i use the exact same number and got through.


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i will just inform you tonight how did my husband contacted the embassy in manila and i will post the number he used to dial ....hope u can wait...but in the meantime just try to look at the site of US manila embassy and look for another number..

wifey
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-11-06 02:46:00
Philippinescalling the US Embassy Manila
QUOTE (dphus @ Nov 6 2008, 02:03 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (dphus @ Nov 5 2008, 11:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hello out there,

Is anyone having trouble contacting the US Embassy in Manila? I call the number and it just goes silent. I've been able to get a hold of them before. This has been relatively recent and was wondering if anyone else is having the same issue.


I called the number on the website....(63-2) 301-2000

I am trying to get the status on my wife's K3 visa. It has been in AR since sept 22

**************

did u dial the extension number?





American Citizens Service

Tel. No. : (632) 301-2000 extension 2555, 2246
Fax : (632) 301-2017

Applicants, Agents or Petitioners calling from within the United States will also be able to use this service by calling 1-888-877-9888. The cost of the 888 service from the United States is a U.S. $18 PIN payable using a Visa or MasterCard once you have called into the service.
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-11-06 02:14:00
PhilippinesDS-156 and Document Verification fees
no DV fee
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-11-08 01:25:00
Philippinesremeaning days in pinas is being deffecult!!!!!!
QUOTE (RickMj @ Nov 8 2008, 03:20 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (MJ3lasvegas @ Nov 8 2008, 01:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (ladyinpink @ Nov 8 2008, 09:56 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
TO MJLASVEGAS SHE IS VERY HAPPY WHEN HER MOM DIE!!!!!! OR HAVING A HEART ATTACK!!!!!! RUD!!!! PILIPINA WOMAN GURLS YOU ARE NOT IN THIS WORLD IF YOU DON'T HAVE MOTHER!!!!!! I AM BORN WITH FULL OF LOVE AND ATTENTION OF MY FAMILY
DO SENT CARE HER MOTHER OR HER FAMILY HUH?


hmm, i'm not quite sure what this mean.. unsure.gif


Me neither...(shrugged)

hey rickmj, post a timeline, or are you just a troll !!
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-11-08 17:37:00
Philippinesmaybe my friend is wrong??
ok Mari, at this point we ask you to please fill in your timeline or at least start one. your questions will be answered faster and more accurate. it helps us and also lets us help you better. It is the form, and the reciept number will be on it. with that you can set up a profile on the USCIS website and track your case........

QUOTE (jamesNrei @ Nov 21 2008, 04:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ronjie lol, i thought you don't like our language yet you know how pinoys would say it? biggrin.gif

maribob, you heard it right.

your wrong about that !! I love your language.....it is very gwapa.
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-11-21 09:12:00
Philippinesmaybe my friend is wrong??
your friend is korek
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-11-21 04:42:00
PhilippinesNVC to MANILA EMBASSY, HOW LONG?
well its not going to get there in 1 day !!! they only sent it yesterday. give it 5-10 daysw and they will have it.
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-11-20 15:12:00
PhilippinesTaxi Cab or Private Car service
I use a man from the hotel car service. his name is Mike. and he has a very clean car and will be very accommodating. take you where you need to go and wait for you as long as it takes. if he say's he will pick you up at your hotel at 4 am he will be there. his number is 0919-403-3903 or 0919-403-3642. if you call him tell him Ron from new jersey and Jojie from Bacolod gave you his number. My wife and son will also be calling him soon, around that date.

Edited by ronjie, 23 November 2008 - 01:13 AM.

ronjieMalePhilippines2008-11-23 01:12:00
PhilippinesDocument Verification Fees (DELBROS)
yes no more DV..... good.gif
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-11-28 08:22:00
Philippinesneed some help or advise...ASAP !!!!
QUOTE (pepe N pilar @ Dec 1 2008, 11:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
my thoughts to you is that you should ask your husband to check your English grammar before you post a topic ... I hate to tell you this, but there's a bunch of you people who lack proficiency in the English language. It's quite shameful and that's why the gangsters and the mobs are mocking the hell out of us ...


try to refrain from being ignorant please. this is a family immigration site. not english 101. I think she did a fine job ! and I thank her for posting in english, so some of us can understand and try to help. just coz some of the VJ gangsters are immature doesn't mean you should be too!!
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-12-02 02:51:00
PhilippinesPsoriasis
QUOTE (spartan @ Dec 2 2008, 02:23 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
She need not to worry with her psoriasis cuz it will not be the reason for denial. Only applicants who have contagious disease will be rejected. So no need to worry. Please tell her that she need not to be STRESSED because that can cause psoriasis to get worse. Stress is one of the causes the psoriasis to get worse and here are some; Infections,Diseases that weaken the immune system, Skin irritations, Cold weather, and Smoking. Psoriasis is curable, hopefully whe will get well soon. Just think positive always. yes.gif

God bless



psoriasis is not curable. but it is treatable to great success today. this journey will bring it out, due to the stress factor of things. she should not have any problems with the medical coz of it. I would suggest to her, to go to the beach and swim in the salt water and expose her skin to the sun. I have had it for half my life and I can tell you it works on your mental state of mind as much as it does your physical state. stress reduction is probrably the most important.
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-12-02 02:37:00
PhilippinesI need your help
sounds to me, like your over thinking this. go to your accountant show him the checks you wrote to yourself as pay or income. have him (or her) work the numbers backwards showing the taxes that was or will be taken from your income (deductions) and print you paystubs for the last 3-6 months. the more, the better. that is what I did, along with a notorized letter from employer (me). and other required documents.
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-12-02 19:00:00
PhilippinesDe la Hoya vs Pacquiao
anybody know what the vegas odds are on the fight right now ?


oh yea !! The Golden Boy
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-12-04 17:48:00
PhilippinesBar girl and K1
QUOTE (stuartx13 @ Jul 24 2008, 06:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (franklie @ Jul 24 2008, 05:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (dbears @ Jul 24 2008, 03:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I beg to disagree on the highlighted statement. There may be former bar girls but I believe MOST of K1 petitions are for filipinas working in less questionable fields. There are lawyers, doctors, researchers, teachers, designers, web programmers, sales reps, entreprenuers, accountants, nurses, sales ladies in department stores, etc. Former bar girls constitute the minority.... well at least here on vj and also amongst the people who filed K1 or K3 visas outside vj that I know of. Saying somebody was a bar girl has negative connonotation but I agree with stuart, bar girls do not automatically mean they are/were prostitutes. And even if they were, if they are truly reformed then there is no problem giving them a fair chance in love right?

Perhaps this old thread could be of help: http://www.visajourn...h...109645&st=0


Thanks to all for the input.

As related to me, his GF/SO/fiance did in fact engage in prostitution. His concern is now related to crimes of "moral turpitude". I do not judge any girl for being a prostitute. I have on occasion been asked to talk with girls and see if I can convince them to leave the trade. A mother that I have never met in person is forever thankful for my intervention in her daughter's life. Most of these girls to use a Biblical analogy are like the "prodigal son".

The comments by nephew's "friends" are IMO are ex-pats speaking out their a$$.

the other link has a lot of good info as well. I'll send him the links

Have you ever been arrested or convicted for an offense or crime involving moral turpitude.No arrested or conviction then no moral turpitude
first u quote the bible and then u think its ok to lie? which side of the fence are u on?
ronjieMalePhilippines2008-07-25 11:14:00