Forum	Title	Content	Member	Sex	Country	Date/Time
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	NOA2 FINALLY!!! 112 days from NOA1	CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hope you rub some of that luck on me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-07-31 22:20:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	USCIS email notification 2+ months later	This scenario makes me sooo scared!!!!!! I have a lawyer that is horrile and all my mail goes to her..If i cant depend on the e ail notification then what do i do??????????? Now im lost ..God forbid i get an approval and i have no clue about it!!!! Im so upset readig this!!!	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-08-07 19:41:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	BANK ACCOUNT BALANCE	I think that is all that needs to be shown..I HOPE!!	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-08-12 18:30:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	BANK ACCOUNT BALANCE	I am not taking any bank info , when God willing , i get my interview...i make roughly about 55k on the books, and another 17k off the books..unfortunately i dont have much saved up...mortgage, car payment, insurances and just plain life living in NY is not cheap...and to top it off , my four trips to see her this year wiped out what i had saved...but from what i heard , if you have enough income on the tax transcripts and the W2 forms , you should be fine	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-08-12 00:59:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	ANOTHER MAY FILER APPROVED!	Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-08-16 13:53:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	Approved Today YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!	Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-08-21 08:38:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2007 129-F Filer NOA2 Received!	Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Go VCS ....Go VCS!!!!!	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-08-28 14:58:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	MAY FILERS!! SHARE UR GOOD NEWS!!	Anyone have any updates? Nothing new for Sofia and I. I sent my i129f out on may 18th...they got it by the 21stand check was cashed by the 24th...i had never gotten the hard copy, but then a fellow vj member tod me that my receipt number would be on the back of my cashed check...sure enough it was...come to find out that my lawyer had the NOA1 the whole time and didnt send it to me until i called to inquire about it...i am so close to getting rid of this lawyer and just going at this by myself with the help of other members on here....and i dont know if anyone has seen a thread that has projected delivery for NOA2's ...and for me who got a receipt on may 30th...they say expect it in mid Sept....this is so aggravating!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-07-17 15:03:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	Flood of NOA2s near at hand(?)	This is all really so frustrating!!!	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-09-04 23:07:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	After 114 days....Approval!!!!	Congratulations Zee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-09-05 21:47:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	How do you know if your case has been touched?	Just compare the date of the NOA1 to the date they give you...if its different then the date they have is a date you might have a touch.	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-09-11 21:47:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	K-1 Processing times	The ####### they say as far as the 6 month wait is just status quo!! they are so annoying...it feels like they enjoy sticking a dagger right through us when they give these dates!!!!!!!	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-09-12 12:10:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	Oh Yes Approved!!!!	CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-09-07 15:41:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	NOA2's are coming soon.....	I am more than sure that adjudicators DO NOT aswer phones!!! They have to have operators that are trained to give the answers we all get when we call!!	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-09-13 23:13:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	NOA2!!!	CONGRATULATIONS Claudia!!!!!!!!	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-09-17 17:57:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	we've been approved!	CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!! I was also curious....was it in VSC or CSC????	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-09-24 19:14:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	This is what's going on.	QUOTE (rebeccajo @ Sep 27 2007, 06:57 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Oh, the things I miss when I'm up to my backside in cardboard boxes and drywall dust. As for the point of whether or not people were grumbling about processing times last year - of course they were. They were when I processed two years ago. They were when the site was started more than five years ago. In fact, lack of information and lengthy processing times were the REASON the site was started. So there is nothing new under the sun in that regard. Is it something new on VJ that people have jealousy about those with shorter processing times? No. Is it something new for those members with shorter visa processing times to be told they 'can't possibly understand'? No. Not new at all. The ONLY reason some of us who have been at this a while occasionally come forward to take another beating is to ask you all to look inward. The intent of my post (way back in this thread) wasn't about JUST the immigration processing you will have to endure after you are reunited. I'm sure all of you still separated often say what my husband and I used to say - that you just want to be together. That you just want a 'normal' life - you just want to be a 'normal' couple. Well, guess what? One day, you will. One day (probably several years from now) you will wake up and realize that the foreign born spouse you wake up to each day is just another man or woman with only a few minor differences from the conventional mate you might have found in the states - you know, they have that lovely accent or beautiful skin color you couldn't find around the block. They probably have some virtues similar to what you were looking for in a spouse. I assure you they come packaged with some of human natures annoyances too. So.....in time.......all the waiting will fade away, it will pass, and you will have to deal with your long-distance lover just as you would have the boy or girl next door. For all of your sakes, I hope and pray you have not romanticized your separation beyond the point of not being able to see that eventual horizon. But there is a layer to these relationships that is unlike the conventional kind. Are you prepared? Are you prepared for all the things previously mentioned - delays in being able to work and drive? Language barriers? Are you REALLY ready to help your spouse start over just like a child - having to learn all over again how to function daily in society? Learning how to post a letter, count currency, find a favorite cereal on a shelf? Learn what words and phrases are socially acceptable here, and what ones are not? Are you prepared to help them with everything and everyone they miss from home? And are you prepared for how society will react to them? Are you prepared for the employers who subtley discriminate against hiring the non-American born? Are you prepared to help your spouse translate their foreign credentials so those willing to hire them can assess their qualifications? Are you prepared for the people who DON'T find your spouses' accent or skin color as charming as you do? Are you prepared for the hostility of them being viewed as 'another immigrant' seeking a greencard, looking to suckle off the great American prosperity machine solely for their own benefit and at the expense of American workers? Are you aware that all the media attention towards immigrants these days is not productive to your loved ones future in America? Are you aware that as laws are crafted (as they surely will be in the near future) they WILL affect your spouse? Even if those laws are designed to stop the flow of so-called 'illegal immigration' - are you aware that some they those laws will possibly reach in and touch your family? Your journey is not over when you receive NOA2. It is not over when the visa is approved. It is not over when the greencard is received. It is not even over if your spouse naturalizes. Each step of the process brings you to another plateau and THAT IS ALL. Because we have chosen to love and marry someone from outside our culture and border, the rest of our lives will be different. In most ways, it will be beatifully and wonderfully different. Our families will benefit from blended cultures and our eyes will be opened to the differences of humanity. But in other ways (and hopefully they will be few for each of you) you and your spouse have challenges to face normal married couples don't experience. I am here to tell you that the fact your relationship survives this separation now IS NOT PROOF you will be able to endure all that life, immigration, society, and bigotry will throw at you. Because one day, your life will be NORMAL. Can you handle the unique challenges you will face as a blended-culture couple once you are finally NORMAL? With patience and understanding - you can. So - become patient now. The government is not the thing that will kill your relationship or your marriage. But American impatience and intolerance can - and I say American because that 'microwave mentality' is so prevalent in our culture today. We want what we want now and on our own terms. Funny - life isn't really like that. Never has been and never will be. Rebeccajo, great post.....In my case its a little different, i have stopped to think about the things that come in a relationship when living together but that's the only thing in my case....My fiance is Colombian and so am I....New York, thank God is extremely diverse and she has some family here...as for work, i told her she doesnt have to work, she is going to get here and just try to refine her english, but that will be maybe a year after she is here..I live where i work so i will always be around for her...I want her to take the first year just to see all the new things about this country and to do simple things like take a walk with her son down the block to central park and just see what life is all about here...Thank God i never forgot my spanish, so the language barrier is not an issue...She is an esthetician in Colombia and thats her passion so after refining her english we will look for her to get her licensing to follow her passion for esthetics.....Allin all i think i am very fortunate that ur transition will be a little easier	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-09-27 09:04:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	This is what's going on.	like i said , VJ is heaven for all of going through this process....someone brought up a very good analogy earlier. If thousands of people protest Iraq and nothing happens , why would anything be done if a couple af hundred , if even that many, VJ members protest against the Immigration policy or process......DXont get me wrong im p for doing anything but imnot getting my hopes up! Oh and LisaD....go where??? nothing was being directed towards you...I wasn't " lashing out" at you	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-09-26 23:15:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	This is what's going on.	You are absolutely right...but everyone should be allowed to vent and let out frustratio without being told to stop complaining	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-09-26 23:04:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	This is what's going on.	Im curious to know , about a year ago, were there VJ members upset about the processing times??? Just curious to know if there has been that much of a drastic change?	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-09-26 13:17:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	This is what's going on.	QUOTE (meow mix @ Sep 26 2007, 02:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (devilette @ Sep 26 2007, 01:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I was separated from my fiance for 5 months, is my opinion worthy enough for VJ? My interview took 151 days from filing - hope that's good enough! A year ago we had crazy IMBRA delays. This year fees went up & there was a mass influx of apps to beat the date. OF COURSE THERE WILL BE SLOW DOWNS. You'll get thru it, ike the thousands before you, no matter if it's 2 months or 10. I was long distance for 8 months, but we were in the same country so we didn't have to do K1 and our AOS didn't take that long so I know I'm not good enough for half the people here. (I thought the interview letter was a fake, took me 2 days to believe it.) It's always a struggle, and everyone's always going to think they have the short end of the stick (when they don't, at least they can bring their loved ones here), and everyone is always going to have issues that make their case nervewracking to them. I'm just so tired of seeing this entitlement minded ####### and these pissing contests about WHO'S JOURNEY IS MORE DIFFICULT!! We're all in this together, or we're all supposed to be. This isn't support, this is more just trying to bring people down because OH NO THEY COULD NEVER UNDERSTAND MY BEING AWAY FROM MY FIANCE. Newsflash: THIS IS WHAT WE CHOSE. I'd question the US government if the US government just let anyone and everyone in who said they were a fiance of a USC. If you can't accept the long wait times, then move to their country. I'm sure I could move to Peru in an instant (or if I can't, it's hella hard to find information on the process which leads me to believe it can't be that complicated) but we didn't choose to do that so I have to accept that which I cannot change. The US is the country with more fraud than any other, and a lot of these applications are coming from high fraud posts and they have to be careful. I'd so like to see a little more of "we'll get through this" as opposed to "my journey's harder kthxbai" but that will never happen. This is America, after all. (And dev you know none of that is directed at you, I agree with you completely ) OK, first ill say that the waiting , i expected...its the disorder, or more, the being kept in the dark thats so bothersome...I guarantee that if the customer (us) was kept better informed, none of the feelings of frustration would be expressed...At least we would have an inckling as to what is going on	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-09-26 13:05:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	This is what's going on.	QUOTE (Cassie @ Sep 26 2007, 01:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (BYRON-LEIDY @ Sep 26 2007, 12:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (devilette @ Sep 26 2007, 01:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I was separated from my fiance for 5 months, is my opinion worthy enough for VJ? My interview took 151 days from filing - hope that's good enough! I have been separated for over 4 months without even receiving my NOA2!!! so 5 months doesnot even seem realistic, for me or for the many others with the same predicament!! apparently not, Devilette. At least you have more of a fighting chance than I, who "only" waited 2 months, but whose empathy and or sympathy is not welcome because I didn't suffer enough. But that's ok, since TSC is coming back to bite my butt on getting my 10 year green card. karma's a pain, hey??? VJ, sheesh! Not about empathy not being welcome....its that im sure they way the process is going now, i would trade it for the way your process went any day...its very aggravating being kept in the dark...the first couple of weeks, no make that months , i was patient waiting , but as time goes by and its like looking for a needle in a haystack...to be separated from the one you loveand yearn to be with....not easy	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-09-26 12:59:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	This is what's going on.	QUOTE (Kass @ Sep 26 2007, 01:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (BYRON-LEIDY @ Sep 26 2007, 01:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> It is very easy for those who were processed or united with their SO in under 2 months to defend USCIS....i don't think it is understod how hard and stressfull it is to wait so long and on top of it, to be kept in the dark without a single clue as to when you might be getting an NOA2....Something is seriously wrong with this!! Byron I am not exactly sure that this is a fair to state as this is not really about defending USCIS it is about understanding that there is a reason someone is an ASYLEE. For the most part they are generally her for their safety. As for being processed quickly....well if you read our timeline this is not the case for us. If you read the RFE thread you will see my posts in there. We had a hard time of it due to USCIS (VSC) errors not our own. It took over 4motnhs to get our NOA2 from VSC and never we did we get a correct answer when we called the center itself. It was not easy, however I can honestly say wit hand on heart that I cannot compare the k1 process with those that are ASYLEES...not the same at all. Like I said the wait is difficult, not knowing anything is even worse, however at least we are safe and our loved ones are safe. If you feel the need to be upset over time frames, then think about how hard it is when those that applied after you are receiving their NOA2's and you have not even had a touch....been there done that! It is the way the process is. Does it need to be fixed..sure I believe so. But when it comes to ASYLEES, I will not complain. On a personal note I have been a victim of a violent crime, and I can promise that there was nothing more important to me then the need to feel safe. Hence why I am a Victims Rights Advocate today. I for one would not want to be an ASYLEE. I feel for those people for the most part. I could understand the asylee point completely, but like i said, the system needs revamping....why not separate it into visa type divisions!! Let be a steady pace for everybody !! Especially now that they raised the prices, and mind you , not by a little...there should be no excuse for the stop, because thats what it has become, not just a slow down but a stop	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-09-26 12:55:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	This is what's going on.	QUOTE (chris4gretchen @ Sep 26 2007, 01:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Kass @ Sep 26 2007, 10:35 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> "If there are asylees in this country who were victims of political oppression in their homeland, and the US government wants to make some exception to process their cases prior to family based cases, that is admirable in my opinion. Being separated from your boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse a few weeks longer in order to save removal of persons who might possibly be sent back home to tyrannical governments should not be a reason for outrage". I have to agree with RebeccaJo on this one. It is not easy to have to wait through the USCIS process. I for one was not happy with the process, however, I do believe that those in NEED should have some priority. It is not different to being TRIAGED at the ER. Heart Attacks should and do go before ear aches. If we were being set aside for back ups do to their own accord that is different. There is a reason why they are Asylees and if we can help then we should. If the way we help is letting them be a step ahead then it is all good. We may have to wait a bit longer (not easy I for one know this), but at least we are safe and our loved ones are safe. oh ok cool. currently there are a few thousand Iraqi asylees in Syria looking to get a visa to come to the usa. I figure its only a year to process them then sure, we wont mind them getting to our petitions. And i think that most of the cuban petitions put to the front are given an interview in switzerland, not cuba. I dont mind waiting for asylees, but i do mind waiting on ineffiecnt government #######. cutting the service centers down to 2 when they already had a backlog before the fee increase was the worst decision. They are a business just like any other and i can complain all i want if i so choose to. they are responsible for their decisions to their paying customers. And thats what we are, even on their own website. Customers... Chris The worst part is that they RAISED the prices so damn much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! For what...to close down centers and slow down the process!!!! QUOTE (devilette @ Sep 26 2007, 01:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I was separated from my fiance for 5 months, is my opinion worthy enough for VJ? My interview took 151 days from filing - hope that's good enough! I have been separated for over 4 months without even receiving my NOA2!!! so 5 months doesnot even seem realistic, for me or for the many others with the same predicament!!	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-09-26 12:49:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	This is what's going on.	It is very easy for those who were processed or united with their SO in under 2 months to defend USCIS....i don't think it is understod how hard and stressfull it is to wait so long and on top of it, to be kept in the dark without a single clue as to when you might be getting an NOA2....Something is seriously wrong with this!!	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-09-26 12:35:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	We got our NOA1 yesterday:)))	QUOTE (Madzia @ Oct 4 2007, 02:18 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Just wanted to let you know that my fiance got our 1st Notice of Action yesterday:)))) CONGRATULTIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now you must learn patience...im in vermont also and im at day 136 now and still waiting for my NOA2.. Hopefully they resolve the backlog and you wont have to wait as long as i did!	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-10-04 01:21:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	Any May filers approved yet ?	Im a May filer who is also still waiting for the NOA2....nothing yet...62 days and counting	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-07-25 18:39:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May Filers will have many approvals this evening....	I know God forbeid i want to come into VJ to vent!!! Its the only place where anyon knows what im going through and the you have these people who try to tell everyone...stop complaining ..	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-09-26 22:39:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	THANK YOU EVERYBODY ...FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART!	GOOD LUCK ANNETTE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-12-04 12:00:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	THANK YOU EVERYBODY ...FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART!	QUOTE (Annette @ Dec 4 2007, 01:09 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Byron and Leidy... Ever Hopeful, Annette Thanks Annette!!!!!!!!!!!!!! STRANGER!!!!!!!!!!!!!! How is everything with you???	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-12-04 01:15:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	THANK YOU EVERYBODY ...FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART!	Jason ...you the man!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sasha will be herfe before you know it!!!!!!! We have passed the hardest obstacle which was the NOA2.....If we didnt learn patience from that then we never will!!!!!!!!!!!! GOOD LUCK JASON!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I HOPE YOUR RIGHT AND LEIDY CAN BE HERE SOON!!!	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-12-04 00:34:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	THANK YOU EVERYBODY ...FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART!	Thank you Zee....jrmach!!!!!!!!!!!	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-12-03 11:59:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	THANK YOU EVERYBODY ...FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART!	I Just wanted to take a minute and thank everybody for their prayers when Leidy was going through her tough ordeal in the hospital...Its not like i wasnt worried when it was happening but today for some reason it hit me like a ton of bricks to realize how close i came to losing her...I love her very much and all your prayers mean the world to me. THANK YOU!!!	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-12-02 20:47:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	Waiting for a NOA2 from VSC for your I-129F?	QUOTE (Scott and Marta @ Dec 5 2007, 01:59 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (rae_and_scott @ Dec 5 2007, 08:21 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> My SO took me cross country skiing this past weekend. I had never been and he's a really good skiier and teacher, so it was great. One thing he taught me, which I think works as a wonderful analogy to what's going on with a lot of us here and echoes what Amrssnoangel said: "Look at where you want to go, don't look down at your feet. If you look at where you want to go, you'll get there." Nicely said Byron did you write a big red RFE on it or did you have a special envelope or anything? I didnt write anything at all!!!!	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-12-05 14:09:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	Waiting for a NOA2 from VSC for your I-129F?	Mirla THANK YOU GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! God i want you and Mel and Syl APPROVED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!	BYRON-LEIDY	Male	Colombia	2007-12-04 23:38:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	APPROVED!!!!	CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!	Asante Maroon	Female	Ghana	2007-11-03 19:44:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	She was approved!	QUOTE (roverdriver @ Nov 1 2007, 07:25 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Of course, I've always approved of her Laura's interview was at 9.....at 10:50 I got a call from her..she was approved! I have to admit, when I saw her number ringing me, my heart fell. Based on embassy reviews I wasn't expecting her call until 12 or so. My god I was relieved when she gave me the news! So she should have her visa in hand next week (they mail it to her). I was already going to visit her, so now she hopefully will be coming back to the US with me! I'm so excited! I'm hoping we can get a half way decent fare and a seat for her on my return flight. I know you are soooooo happy!!!! CONGRATS!	Asante Maroon	Female	Ghana	2007-11-03 18:23:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	RFE	QUOTE (Jamie76 @ Nov 4 2007, 08:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Yes, I am very frustrated...so my apologies to you. No worries...its all good. They have me wanting to pull my hair out too! It sucks, but I guess this whole process will definitely reaffirm our love and commitment in our present or future marriage with our significant other. Once again I wish you luck! QUOTE (Missy1 @ Nov 5 2007, 09:52 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Please guys...don't let the frustration get us down. I are here for one purpose and supporting one another will get us there. I appreciate all your comments and ideas. Thanks for sharing them! no problemo missy	Asante Maroon	Female	Ghana	2007-11-06 06:32:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	RFE	QUOTE (Jamie76 @ Nov 4 2007, 07:59 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Then don't say people have nothing to worry about if they haven't heard anything in the first few weeks or whatever. It's not true. Ask just about anyone here that has received an RFE. Customer disservice has given everyone here accurate information? Is that what you are saying? Good night to you too. Maybe you forgot what I said initially. if so here goes "I was really nervous when I first filed and I was wondering if I would be sent a request for additional info. When I called the USCIS a few weeks after they received my petition, I was told by an agent that a request for additional info would have been recorded in the system already, so I had nothing to worry about. Maybe you can call and inquire for clarification. Hope this helps" Once again this is my experience that I shared. If you have something to say about how inaccurate the USCIS may be, thats fine but don't try to make a case against me...I am obviously not the person you should be targeting your frustration at. Its all good though. We are all frustrated...but lets direct it to those who deserve it. I wish you luck in your process. Take Care.	Asante Maroon	Female	Ghana	2007-11-04 19:20:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	RFE	QUOTE How would you know if the agent was telling the truth? You didn't get an RFE so the point is moot. Your case isn't even looked at in detail until it hits the adjudicators desk. How could they issue you an RFE 4 or 5 months prior if they haven't even looked at it? I am not going to get into a debate about whether or not the agent was telling the truth. Neither of was standing over him when he looked into the system and told me that if there was a problem it would have been noted already. I simply stated what occurred. You seem like this issue hit a hot spot with you, but once again I am not the one...find some one else to argue with. We are here to share our experiences. Have a good night	Asante Maroon	Female	Ghana	2007-11-04 17:08:00