Forum	Title	Content	Member	Sex	Country	Date/Time
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!	Thanks so much Tee, that was a simplified answer and basically exactly what the doc said! Thanks for the well wishes from everyone as well. I'm just trying not to stress about it because I easily break down, I'm teary eyed as I'm writing this... LadyC don't send no damn money, Jaheim can't eat more than a slice of that cake and I am POSITIVE him must have atleast 1 pair a shoes! KJ I wish you all the best with this girl... KISSTEETH..mi neva send none. And him have more dan shoes.She lucky	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-27 12:16:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!	No you don't Lady C. The way I see it, you and G are the ones that will be taking care of him so why shouldn't you do what's in Jaheim's best interest because obviously she aint! Cho... anyway, politely ask G to handle this. Thats what I think....and if he don't, don't be too upset with him. Sometimes you have to pick and choose your fights sis! T girl this is no fight for me. I am paying her no damn mind. She is in her own world so mek har stay in it. I told G to call your babymother she needs to talk to you. Im so out of it. I have bigger fish to fry.	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-27 12:14:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!	So listen to dis mess. G babymother sent me a message last week saying she was keeping a farewell party for Jaheim and she bought a cake but it was too small and she wanted me to send money for her to buy a bigger cake ???? She must be smoking some big head splif. Any hoo now she wants money to buy him shoes to come up with. Whay cant she send him with what he has. So since I have all kinds of issues right im goona stay quiet cause if I ever open my big mouth all hell will break loose. What yall think?	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-27 12:01:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!	WOW Part 26 already...UNO CAN CHAT EEEE	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-27 11:55:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies at home and a farrin, Part 27!	Hi Yardies...Whats Poppin? Congrats Bajan and thank you all for your prayers and advise	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-07-28 13:21:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies at home and a farrin, Part 27!	Im home today because my job has no power so Jaheim stayed home with me. He was making so much noise because i took away the TV from him until he learns some manners and respect. I said to him instead of making so much noise come and do some school work....who told me to say that well it started from there I called G so he could hear him in action I put him out my house but since I dont want no cops knocking on my door I brought him back in. He would not stop I took him to the sitter cause I fell like I would beat his azz terrible if I touch him. I have had it. This is not me this kid is costing me my peace of mind. Thanks Ladies for listening to my Rant....	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-07-27 11:04:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies at home and a farrin, Part 27!	I know Im going to offend people when I say this but send this child back to Jamaica sis. You don't need this. You've raised your girls. If G can see it nor understand it SEND JAHIEM HOME!!!! You have absolutely tried your best with him and to no avail no change. How can you raise a child who you get no support from his own dayumm fadda *kissteeth*. Your time with him is done.. He got to go!!! It would be different if you didn't give it your all, but you have to think about your daughters too. This is not fair to them nor you. Im here if you wanna talk. ((((((HUGSSS)))) I will call you lata so we can talk...Im so stress I woke up at 3am with a severe headache. Im at my wits end	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-07-27 10:57:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies at home and a farrin, Part 27!	THAT'S IT!!!! I AM CALLING NANNY 911 on that boy! Seriously I really feel for you and I know you are frustrated beyond belief. There is only so much a person can take especially if you aren't getting the support you need from his father. Have you guys discussed sending him back to his mother? Hi Dills We have talked about it but you can tell in G response that he wont be happy if we do. So if we do send him it might start a new one for me and G. Girl I might call Nanny 911 myself.	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-07-27 09:35:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies at home and a farrin, Part 27!	Thanks Ladies for your reply I have been saying the same things to G but all he says is he is gonna do better but he never does. We started counseling but we have not gone in a few weeks but we will be starting back.	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-07-27 08:48:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies at home and a farrin, Part 27!	Hi Yardies sorry i have been away for awhile now. I hope everyone is doing great. Congrats, prayers and good luck to anything i have missed. JaP you can do it girl. Congrats and Good Luck. Well here is my up date...Jaheim has moved to another level of evil. Some may not like me saying this but it is what it is. This child will put me in jail soon enough and he knows what he is doing. My hubby cant seem to control him and he cant seem to understand my feelings. He has turned my life upside down. My friend that used to watch him no longer wants him in her home because he is so disrespectful. He told her 5 year old son that his mom was so big and fat that she cant fit in my van. My husband said nothing, no punishment nothing he just went and sleep and when he woke up he was mad at everyone because we said he should have done something. Well now my hubby and my friends are not on speaking terms and I am in the middle. G says he is my husband and they are just my friends. The smoke is still coming from my ears. Moving on everything I do as punishment G undo. He treats Jaheim as if he is a baby. When he dont want to eat G sits and feeds him, this child looks at me like I am sh&t under his shoes and do not say good morning or anything. Well on Sunday his mother called him and he took the phone into the closet between the clothes and proceed to disgrace my name. I told his mother that I never ill treat my kids and I dont ill treat hers the pickney just dont have no F'ing manners. G did nothing or said nothing. Im so pissed I just want to runaway. My 19 year old had to step in and explain to G that he is wrong. Im at my ropes end with this situation. ****Help***	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-07-27 07:34:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies at home and a farrin, Part 27!	C -- I'm here trying to stay awake. ... DC carnival dis weekend, right? Was up all night trying to tell someone who is a size 20 that they can't fit into a size 16 custom....jeezeeee Nah Lawny I wont be at carnival...I will be in NYC for my 20 years High School Reunion. I dont really like DC carnival. Living in Brooklyn for over 20 years spoiled me. No Carnival is like Labor Day Carnival. Nothing has to fit on carnival day you have to be damn near nekkid...	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-06-22 13:13:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies at home and a farrin, Part 27!	Yes it is...u crazy woman. Whats up lawny....Girl im not crazy I just have to stay FIT fi mi hubby	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-06-22 12:41:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies at home and a farrin, Part 27!	Good Afternoon Yardies...How things????	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-06-22 12:28:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies at home and a farrin, Part 27!	Okay Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! I just couldn't wait to jump on here to say that my hubby has a job!!!! He got the very first job he applied for!! Yayyy.. He will be working at a Senior complex doing Custodial work. Funny thing is that he applied and when he went back the next week to check on his application, they said they hired someone. He was dissapointed. The lady was very impressed with him though and his resume (patting myself on the back and thanking Lady C and Sunny) she said she would call him if they needed anyone else. Low and behold she called today!!!! He will be starting on 7/1 (what a nice birthday gift for him) It has full medical coverage, 401k benefits, paid vacation and sick time. We go tomorrow for drug-test. It's pretty much a done deal. He can walk or ride a bike (which he wants to do) and his hours are 8 to 5. Weekends off... IM SO PROUD OF HIM!! Anyone's hubbies who he talks to ladies, please don't say anything especially on FB. He wouldn't want me talking about it just yet and I understand it.. but shoooo yall family Praise God!!! CONGRATS STEVE...... MrsTee im doing Cart Wheels for you girl (and you all know I can still do it. Proof is on FB )Tell Steve I said BOOM BANG BANG	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-06-22 12:24:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies at home and a farrin, Part 27!	lady c you inspired me..we have a road trip this weekend and i am so spoiled i wanna take off monday morning, but that will cut out on my vacay time.. so i think imma do like you and be soldier.. lol :-) Quana girl I usually drag my tired butt in here and get it done. I tell myself I will go home and sleep and I never do. I have a few more weekends to go before I will stop. You can do it girl...I am sending you some of my stamina	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-06-21 15:52:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies at home and a farrin, Part 27!	Congrats My3 on your hubby EAD Lawny I feel so sorry for that mother. The guilt she will feel is horrible. I pray she finds some type of peace.	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-06-21 15:44:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies at home and a farrin, Part 27!	Sounds like fun C Hows Jaheem Hi JQ....how is the bambino doing? It really was fun. Jaheim is ok. He has changed alot but we still have some issues bvut nothing that I cant handle. I am the SUPER STRICT parent so he does not mess with me too much.	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-06-21 13:27:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies at home and a farrin, Part 27!	Hi Yardies whats poppin...I have been so busy I dont find too much time to stop in and chat. How is everyone doing? Im so dang tired too. Me and hubby and friends went to NYC for the weekend and we had a blast. Yesterday my friends aunt made breakfast for the fathers and her hubby's in law made dinner for them. All the women had to serve their men and they were presented with awards a the end. it was really nice and Garfield really enjoyed himself. After that we went to a boat ride. We left NYC at 2:15 this morning and made it home by 5:30 am. I am a walking Zombie.......But I had a blast	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-06-21 13:21:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Oh and they asked me if I had a Facebook account and did my husband have the password... and do I have pictures on there... he tried to get on but it BLOCKED him hahaha! WHATTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT ah wah do dat DUTTY MAN Lord USCIS has lost their DAMN Mind	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-11-24 11:36:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	First of all, I agree with JaP and thats all Im going to say about that. Secondly, Our interview was an interview from hell! The officer was very militant... He started us off by reprimanding us for talking... which fine, I get that. It is an interview. Then he asked for our LPR documents and my documents of proof as a US citizen. Then he proceeded to talk about our age difference. Then he asked for our documents of shared things. We didn't have a lot to begin with. I explained why. He asked if either of us was married before or had children. He asked random questions off of the I-485. He then proceeded to seperate us. I kept saying a prayer to God to help Steve and I be on the same page with things and to tell the WHOLE truth as we knew it. When Steve left, he proceeded to remind me that Jamaica is high fraud country and that I needed to be careful because they needed to make sure he wasn't trying to use me to gain access to the good ol U S of A. Questions asked in no particular order: (This is when I looked him square in the eyes in "Rashida mode" Have you ever been married before? Do you have children? How many? What are there names and ages? Oh they have different fathers.. What hours do I work? What hours does he work? How much money does he give you? Does he give you extra money? What are you in school for? What is the make and model and year of your car? How do you get to work? How does he get to work? Do you have wedding pictures? Who was at your wedding? Can I have two of the pictures for your file? Who helped him get his job? What color are the bedsheets? What color are the rugs in the bathroom? When did you meet? How did you meet? How many times have you been to Jamaica? Why did you go to Jamaica? Im probably forgetting the rest of them. Then he called Steve back in and questioned him: Where did you meet? What year did you meet? How many times has your wife been to Jamaica? What color are the bed sheets? What color are the rugs How many times have you been married. How old are her children? Do you get along with her son? What is she in school for? What time does she get home? Do you give her money? Probably more questions but I can't remember... Steve told them the wrong year and I kept kicking his foot. He then remember by saying "I got the dates confused, I met her in blah blah blah" After all of the questioning, he said well you started off rocky, but I will make my decision by the end of the day. You should receive something in the mail in the next 2 to 3 weeks. If you don't agree with the results you can schedule an infopass appoint and blah blah blah thats all I heard. I damn near ran out of the building. We were there for 1 and 1/2 hours. I DESPISE USCIS!!!!! OMG Tee He sounded like an AZZ...Im praying for you guys sis	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-11-24 11:17:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Morning Yardies...Whats Poppin? Well we leave for NYC today I cant wait to be with my entire family. My mother will finall meet Garfield this weekend. We will have a blast. I wish everyone a Very Happy Thanksgiving.	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-11-24 10:44:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Lol!! C I'm just kidding, just wanted to see what you would say I feel ok, not bad. I've had worse days... Ok girl..Im glad you not feeling the worse. How far along are you?	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-11-12 12:40:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Goodmorning yardies!! Hey sugar! I would tell my mother in law the same thing if I were you. I don't know how visas are issued in JA. I thought that once you make a certain amount, show proof that you have ties to JA such as a property, job etc that that qualifies you. SMDH, immigration, embassy, all a hot mess! Hello MyJamWifey, congrats!! I don't know the answer to your question, I would guess that it would be to the embassy, since they're th ones that requested it and that's where he'll have his interview... Your baby is CUTE!! Goodmorning C, don't come saying hi if you're not here to announce that the VJ wata hit you! Just kidding C! KJ mi neva know seh yuh was against me. Is wah mi duh yuh? Girl my shop is closed sorry I meant CONDEM... you all can keep the VJ wata. How are you feeling today casue your ####### got jokes Hello Yardies, My step daughter's I130 approved November 9, 2010. Now here comes NVC Congrats myjam	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-11-12 12:07:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Good Morning Yardies.....	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-11-12 10:12:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Morning Ladies..Congrats to all the new mothers to be and to all the new GC holders. Lawd JQ keep that Buckett of Baby Water/Dust away from me......	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-11-09 10:01:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Hey Ladies... How yall dong? Well we finally got the GC today..... Thank God this is over for now. Hope everyone s doing ok.	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-11-08 18:28:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	*** DO NOT RESPOND TO THIS E-MAIL *** The last processing action taken on your case Receipt Number: Application Type: I485 , APPLICATION TO REGISTER PERMANENT RESIDENCE OR TO ADJUST STATUS Your Case Status: Initial Review On October 12, 2010, we transferred this I485 APPLICATION TO REGISTER PERMANENT RESIDENCE OR TO ADJUST STATUS to our NATIONAL BENEFITS CENTER location for processing because they now have jurisdiction over the case. We sent you a notice of this transfer. Please follow any instructions on this notice. You will be notified by mail when a decision is made, or if the office needs something from you. If you move while this case is pending, please use our Change of Address online tool to update your case with your new address or call our customer service center at 1-800-375-5283 Tee I got this same BS letter too. Its just them sending the package to your local office...	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-11-05 13:35:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	He's in Jamaica for a little over 3 weeks. Have a great weekend as well. awwww I feel your pain	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-11-05 10:13:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Morning Mama! I been trying to stay busy with work... I have a couple of things planned so my weekends will not be just sitting up in the house going crazy Poe thang! The storm had the internet down but he was able to get on last night and we were able to video chat. DW where did Den go? Have a great weekend	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-11-05 09:52:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Morning Yardies....Whats Poppin Post Decision Activity On November 4, 2010, we mailed you a notice that we have approved this I485 APPLICATION TO REGISTER PERMANENT RESIDENCE OR TO ADJUST STATUS. Please follow any instructions on the notice. If you move before you receive the notice, call customer service at 1-800-375-5283.	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-11-05 08:18:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Hey Yardies..... Card/ Document Production On October 29, 2010, we ordered production of your new card. Please allow 30 days for your card to be mailed to you. If we need something from you we will contact you. If you move before you receive the card, call customer service at 1-800-375-5283. LAWD this is GREAT News......	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-10-29 16:03:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Lady C, so they didn't say approved or not? I always wanted a girl 1st but at this point I don't care what the sex is, I just can't wait for it to be born so I can look it in the eye and say "so you're the one that was making me miserable" DW thanks but I wish I felt as good as you say I look. Actually, today is the 1st day in a long time since I woke up feeling good, maybe its because I know I don't have to go to work. JQ, you and those pictures stay cracking me up! Damn, sucks to be your coworker, I got chills reading that! No they did not say. From what i have read Baltimore sends it in the mail. But i have a great feeling about it.	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-10-27 10:43:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Girl First Trimester is a HOT MESS! You'll get over it, your lucky its not like my friend here at work, she is 18 weeks and she has to have some kind of medicine pumped in her stomach so she can keep down her food. She wears it inserted in her stomach and she has a pouch that she wears to keep the syringe in. Yay lets see if its a baby or My crystal ball say it a Girl.....	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-10-27 10:19:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	DONE...was a breeze in and ot. Questions: Garfield how many times has Corilss been married? Corilss what is Garfield's full name? Corilss when did yo get married? Garfield how many kids do yo have? Ok show me your joint assets. Ok if we need anything else we will contact yo. if not yo will get the answer n the mail. Short & Sweet Edited by LadyC, 27 October 2010 - 10:16 AM.	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-10-27 10:12:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Good Morning Ladies... Today is the big day... interview Here we come. JQ ... GET SOME REST KJ... Feel Betta Edited by LadyC, 27 October 2010 - 05:39 AM.	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-10-27 05:38:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Well gurl.. you not alone.. Our is Nov 24th @ 8:15 am See this proves we are sisters for real..Our journey is so similar. I will be bugging you tomorrow...:-) Good Morning Yardies......	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-10-26 08:17:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Hey Yardies....Well today is Monday and the nerves are statring to hit me. Our AOS interview is on Wednesday...Wish us luck	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-10-25 12:26:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	We are great thanks for asking. Hows my friend Gar, and Jaheim is his behavior getting any better Girl Garfield is doing good. Jaheim has his moments. The biggest thing now is his education. We have another meeting on Wednesday to see if they will put him back in 1st grage. Its really hard. He does not retain a thing and he is not interesded in anything that has to do with learning. Other than that we hanging in there.	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-10-22 15:44:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Hello, mama jew Hello Lady C aint seen yall here in a bit!!! Hope everyone has a good weekend. Always hun, thinking about you!!!! Hi preggo Boom how are you and Baby Boom doing?	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-10-22 11:16:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	I been gone a long time. I gotta catch up. My job has put this girl on the road for training. Back now. We had two major inspections over the past few weeks and I have been working extra to get things in order. Thank God we passed them both. So I am enjoying my Friday off. Also I been under the weather for the past three weeks. I had a damn sinus infection, the meds to help that gave me a yeast infection (which is horrible when you are prego), now I have a cough that is killing my ribs. And of course you can't take a whole lot of meds, so I a suffering. Ok. Now that, that is out of the way...... Eric, took his test about 2 or 3 weeks ago. He doesn't ask many questions. But they told him that now they will have to send DNA test kit to Jamaica Embassy, then my daughter will has to come in and do her part. Then the Embassy sends kit back to U.S., then results are drawn up and notice sent to Eric and Embassy. Longer process then I thought. But we are now offically on the wait list....Once again I hope you feel better soon. Being preggo and sick is no joke. Good luck on your new visa journey.	LadyC	Female	Jamaica	2010-10-22 10:49:00