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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part15)
QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Jun 11 2009, 10:11 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
OK..TOPIC

every one that had children in a previous relationship

Is ur current relationship the 1st one after u separated from ur ex? why are they "concerned". Don't get me wrong. I would be a maniac too if my children all of a sudden have another woman in their lives to confuse the heck out of them in regards to mommy and daddy relationship.. BUT do u guys see where I'm going with this?


I may have dates a few guys but my daughter never met them. My daughters father HATES Louis.. but it is all jealousy. Louis gets to spend more time... blah blah. I can say some of the problems btween my daughter and Louis stem from her father. He questions her about stuff (asked if Louis touches her!!) Also told her Louis will never be her real dad... all that. Tierra gets very confused...
On the other she has a stepmom that I get along with. We can talk when I have a concern. I also let Tierra know she can love us all the same. That should should respect Stepmom and Louis equally. She should listen to us all becuase we love her and want her to be safe.

Its hard when it is one-sided! But I think Tierra's dad's "concern" is selfesh! He doesn't want Tierra calling anyone else daddy.
I might be crazy but I dont mind if Tierra calls step-mom "mom".. I know who I am!
IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-11 09:31:00
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I GOOGLED Visa info and found it. Wanted to do this whole thing without a lawyer...
I think I posted a question and someone from the Yardie Thread invited me over. Maybe ForeverYoung or Lawny. Not alot of "Lucian Luvahs" on VJ. :-)
IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-10 15:49:00
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QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Jun 10 2009, 03:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Irie, I may have missed it, but which order does Louis follow

Bobo, Nyahbinghi or Twelve tribes



In St Lucia there are alot of Rasta's but not real strict like some in Jamaica. I would say he most relates to the Twelve Tribes. He is spiritual and tries to be a good person. But he drinks rum! If you were to read about a true Rasta, they dont drink, just smoke the herb. He doesn't gamble, would never go to a strip club etc... he has real respect for women. I like that. His Rasta friends refer to him as "Levi", the tribe for June.
I sure wish he had some Rasta friends here to gather with.... his closest "bredren" is in VA Beach.


IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-10 14:53:00
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QUOTE (IrieCat @ Jun 10 2009, 03:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You ladies make me feel lazy! I haven't worn makeup since the wedding last summer. I wash and brush my hair every day! Oh and I do the roots when neccesary! whistling.gif
I work at home so there is no need for dressing or anything. Like this morning... I got up, took a shower, got clean sweats on and have been sitting on the bed all day working.
Cannot do much with my hair anyhow.. and Louis doesnt want it cut... its a Rasta thing. He would love me to lock it but I told him "I am a white girl with STRAIGHT hair... I



Irie; most West Indian men do not want their woman to cut their hair. My husband don't like short hair, but I cut it, like it can't grow back. He doesn't like makeup either, so vaseline on my lips do just fine.



what is the big damn deal about it? i have long hair and have been wanting to cut it for awhile just for a change and my husband says he hates short hair...and is so serious about it...acts like I would be cutting off an arm or something..


With Louis its a Rasta thing... not supposed to put "tools" or whatever to your hair. His ex was a stylist and she would have weaves and different color hair and stuff.. he didnt like it but put up with it cause he liked her. So if I really wanted to ... what could he do, he still loves me. Even the tattoos... not real "Rasta" of me but that me.. and he loves me!

IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-10 14:30:00
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QUOTE (IrieCat @ Jun 10 2009, 02:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Jun 10 2009, 03:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
don't feel no way irie.. i know i am NOT the norm.. but i do what makes me feel good and u do too.. so we are BOTH divas!!!!



This sounds so silly... but I always wanted a big curly afro! LOL... I would just look like "Roller Girl"
I guess thats what happens... my daughter has the most beautiful curls.. and wants it straight!


yep, we always want what we don't have.. crying.gif u outta try and perm it so u can have it curly.. no scissors LOL did u always eat rasta style or did it take getting used to?? does ur daughter eat like that too



I was a vegetarian for 8 years out of HS, then moved to VA and started eating meat again... I WAS HUNGRY! LOL ... then when I met Louis went back to veg. It is easier now and I like tofu and soya and all that stuff. I do eat eggs and Louis doesn't. He has alot more to choose from here in the states also. He has gained 3 inches on his waist since getting here. He TRIES to tell me I shrunk his pants!
I let Tierra eat what she wants... but I buy healthy alternatives. She eats chicken and fish but doesnt like red meat anyway.

OMG... look at my pics on FB there are some old ones of me... covered in make up and I used to get perms all the time in High School. I was a "big hair" girl! I dont think I could do all that teasing and hairspray anymore... maybe for Halloween!
IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-10 14:26:00
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QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Jun 10 2009, 03:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
don't feel no way irie.. i know i am NOT the norm.. but i do what makes me feel good and u do too.. so we are BOTH divas!!!!



This sounds so silly... but I always wanted a big curly afro! LOL... I would just look like "Roller Girl"
I guess thats what happens... my daughter has the most beautiful curls.. and wants it straight!

IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-10 14:14:00
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QUOTE (newlynluv @ Jun 10 2009, 01:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Jun 10 2009, 01:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
newly.. i am laughing cuz i am NOTORIOUS for trying to stay DIVA at all times LOL i know i am CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! even w/ my first hubby i would sleep w/ my wigs on when we first married LOL!!!!!!!!!!

Roger has just now seen me w/out all the frills so its taken what a year LOL.. i would wear my weave all down letting it flow KNOWING i am just matting that mess up by not wrapping it LOL


lmao quanna this is me too i be like damn i wanna put on my scarf my damn edges!!! i just started putting it on after i he fall asleep lol


newly..u a smooth criminal girl.. and then get up b4 him and look all ravishing huh???
i like that roger can appreciate my "diva" mentality!! i would put on make up everyday KNOWING its gonna sweat off right?? but he still wait on me and nuh say a ting. . well on the last day i was going straight to the airport so i went clean face.. him say,, baby, u don't want to put on ur face?.. at first i was like DYAM do u think i NEED to?? mad.gif but i know he was just letting me know i had time to do all i needed and didn't have to rush LOL


You ladies make me feel lazy! I haven't worn makeup since the wedding last summer. I wash and brush my hair every day! Oh and I do the roots when neccesary! whistling.gif
I work at home so there is no need for dressing or anything. Like this morning... I got up, took a shower, got clean sweats on and have been sitting on the bed all day working.
Cannot do much with my hair anyhow.. and Louis doesnt want it cut... its a Rasta thing. He would love me to lock it but I told him "I am a white girl with STRAIGHT hair... I will look like a dirty cat" hhahahah!
Now back in my Art School days I had all kinds of crazy hair color....
I guess I am just a hippie. biggrin.gif I got my nose ring and tattoos

IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-10 14:08:00
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QUOTE (dillon @ Jun 10 2009, 02:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Jun 10 2009, 10:48 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
thanks finesse and 1 luv for ur thoughts..
my girls are soon to be 12 and 7.. they were very much ANTI roger at first cuz they have never seen me w/ anybody else but their dad... they are also very possesive..their dad was a workaholic and so for all our lives it has been me and my girls ONLY.. so Roger was like threat to them..
but w/ 2 years past they are sooo much better, they are cool w/ the IDEA.. lets just see how long it takes for them to get comfortable w/ the real deal..



Hi Quana-
I have a 7 year old and I didn't leave her with him right off the bat. But since school has been out she has been at camp Hubby and they are having a great time. I think it is really good for them to spend time with just the two of them so they can bond and get to know each other too without me in the way. This way they can work out their differences and come together on things too. This week has been great...Monday they rearranged her room and yesterday I came home to a clean house even the basement. Camp Hubby is working out great. LOL! You just have to do what the kids are comfortable with. If she wasn't comfortable with it I would have made other arrangements.



That sounds so nice! My daughter is 7 also. I think Louis needs to be more "fun".... She would love to do that stuff with him. I am going to use your story as example! :-)


IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-10 13:43:00
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Holocaust Museum Shooting
IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-10 13:37:00
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QUOTE (JaHoney @ Jun 10 2009, 12:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
How bout a card? $1.97 at Walmart.....LOL

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IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-10 11:27:00
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QUOTE (KKHoliday @ Jun 10 2009, 12:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Irie...u rasta? u know a lot!!!


My husband is. :-)

IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-10 11:04:00
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QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Jun 10 2009, 11:47 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
sus/Irie; I was so proud, but the Jah Rastafari, caught me off guard...after he said thank you he told the audience he'll be in Jamaica for a month in August. So, all the students were like ooooooooooooo.

He wanted me to explain the 12 tribes to him, but I had a memory block.



The 12 Tribes is a few things... a "spinoff" so to say of the Rastafarian religion. Bob Marley belonged to the 12 tribes at his time of death. They beleived all races/sexes should be treated equally. They gave more rights to women, treated them better. For instance a woman isnt isolated while on her period.

the 12 tribes also signify the 12 sons of Jacob. They coinside with the 12 months of the year too. The Tribes are Reuben,Simeon,Levi,Judah,Dan,Naphtali,
Gad,Asher,Issachar, Zebulun ,Joseph and Benjamin.

I am sure there is so much more... but that what I know off the top of my head.

IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-10 10:59:00
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QUOTE (sus @ Jun 10 2009, 11:41 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Jun 10 2009, 11:32 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
morning Ladies;

My son (5 years old) received his first award this morning "Student Achievment Award"...so, he goes on stage to get his award and shouts out, "what's up mommy, I love you" -- then flashes the I love you sign with his hand...it's also cultural awareness day, so they give him the mic (BIG, MISTAKE)... he shouts out "big up to all the JAMAICANS - Jah rastafari, then says thank you. My friend sent him a DVD on the true history of rasta (not) dread and he's watched it so many times. I'm so proud of him though, he's been through a lot this school year and he's managed to perform well above his age level.

just wanted to share....sus; I need a happy picture, co-workers pissing me off



That is so cute! Will look for a pic in a minute -

Got this in an email:

Special Offer from JetBlue Airways: How HOT is this deal?
1 2 3 4 5 6

$99 -- JetBlue Announces New Caribbean Routes from NYC*
New York, NY to Saint Lucia, Kingston and Barbados


Top 20 deal - sells out quickly!
Travel dates: Oct. 1 - Nov. 14


By Steve Bertogli
Travelzoo Staff

JetBlue announced new nonstop to three Caribbean cities from New York City (JFK). Fly to Barbados, Saint Lucia or Jamaica for $99 each way (based on roundtrip purchase).
These introductory fares are valid during the following fall travel periods:

Bridgetown, Barbados ... Oct. 1 - Nov. 14
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Kingston, Jamaica .... Oct. 30 - Nov. 14
Click here to book online. Book by June 17.

JetBlue flights feature leather seating, unlimited snacks and 36 channels of free DirecTV. The airline's new cabin configuration on all of its A320 jets now provides more legroom than any other airline's coach cabins. Plus, the first checked bag is FREE on all JetBlue flights.



Yes! I am so excited about the JetBlue thing!! I can get 99 from Portland Me to NYC then 99 to SLU! that would bring it down to about 1200 I think for all of us. I hope they extend those rates for New Years!
IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-10 10:44:00
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QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Jun 10 2009, 11:32 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
morning Ladies;

My son (5 years old) received his first award this morning "Student Achievment Award"...so, he goes on stage to get his award and shouts out, "what's up mommy, I love you" -- then flashes the I love you sign with his hand...it's also cultural awareness day, so they give him the mic (BIG, MISTAKE)... he shouts out "big up to all the JAMAICANS - Jah rastafari, then says thank you. My friend sent him a DVD on the true history of rasta (not) dread and he's watched it so many times. I'm so proud of him though, he's been through a lot this school year and he's managed to perform well above his age level.

just wanted to share....sus; I need a happy picture, co-workers pissing me off


That is just so cute... congrats to your son. My hubby would be smiling ear to ear if he heard the Jah Rastafari shout out! :-)
IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-10 10:39:00
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QUOTE (DaDa @ Jun 10 2009, 09:21 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (IrieCat @ Jun 9 2009, 05:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Wanna go? Oh I love St Lucia... can't wait for it to be permanent home someday!


I would LOVE to go for New Years!!! I'm trying to talk my girls into going somewhere for New Years but so far no such luck. I think it would be so neat to be on the beach at countdown instead of in a ice storm. If only they would budge!!!!



Yes! Thats the plan! Bring the girls on down!
IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-10 08:26:00
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QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Jun 9 2009, 05:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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roger and i are always laughing about women flirting.. i tell him, tell them bout ur girlfriend, he said NOOOO baby that makes girls go after u even more cuz girls are competitive. its better to just stop their advances without an explanation.. i was like hmmmm, nice observation..

i told him get ready.. cuz that accent could get his rass in some sticky situations down here in the dfw.. lol. don't get sent back to JA rofl.gif .. i am not too worried about him tho

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QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Jun 9 2009, 05:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
irie. i hope i am not offending u in any way.. i am not talking bout ur hubby per se, just discussing the topic. alot of times, our men have no interest in these women anyway so decide simply to ignore it and move on.. i mean she is in a whole other state, but if it bothers u as much as it seems to, then i hope he does at least ask her to ease up on the kissy kissy talk LOL


Oh no, I am not offended at all. I am not even the "jealous type", she is just annoying me. She is a grown woman, doesn't work, and expects men to pay her way! I know Louis, I know he wouldn't go anywhere with it. I agree he needs to tell her to ease up.
I have no problem with him chatting about back in the day in St Lucia, I know he needs this, but he can get it from friends who don't have am ulterior motive! :-)

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when are ya'll headed back to St lucia?



We are hoping to go for New Years.. both have the time off ok, but 3 tickets are around $2500 right now and that is just not feasable at the moment! And we cannot stay with moms, cause she just has a little shack with no running water and no room really. We can find a cheap guest house no problem but we have to save for car, food etc.... I am saving all my pennies and hoping for Christmas Cash! LOL

Wanna go? Oh I love St Lucia... can't wait for it to be permanent home someday!
IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-09 16:46:00
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QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Jun 9 2009, 05:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
offtopic45vn.gif

roger and i are always laughing about women flirting.. i tell him, tell them bout ur girlfriend, he said NOOOO baby that makes girls go after u even more cuz girls are competitive. its better to just stop their advances without an explanation.. i was like hmmmm, nice observation..

i told him get ready.. cuz that accent could get his rass in some sticky situations down here in the dfw.. lol. don't get sent back to JA rofl.gif .. i am not too worried about him tho



OMG... Louis works in a garden center here... WOMEN LOVE HIM! I mean older women, women my mom's age! There are 3 or 4 that come in every week just to flirt with him!! One calls him "the handsom devil", one called him a "sexy freak" and another came in 4 times in 1 day just to tell him he had nice teeth! I love to hear all these stories, they crack me up!
IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-09 16:43:00
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QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Jun 9 2009, 05:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
irie. i hope i am not offending u in any way.. i am not talking bout ur hubby per se, just discussing the topic. alot of times, our men have no interest in these women anyway so decide simply to ignore it and move on.. i mean she is in a whole other state, but if it bothers u as much as it seems to, then i hope he does at least ask her to ease up on the kissy kissy talk LOL


Oh no, I am not offended at all. I am not even the "jealous type", she is just annoying me. She is a grown woman, doesn't work, and expects men to pay her way! I know Louis, I know he wouldn't go anywhere with it. I agree he needs to tell her to ease up.
I have no problem with him chatting about back in the day in St Lucia, I know he needs this, but he can get it from friends who don't have am ulterior motive! :-)


IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-09 16:37:00
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QUOTE (newlynluv @ Jun 9 2009, 05:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
owww nite nite ladies i have another focus group today so far today this will be my second one and i made 450 que tha music **imma hustler imma imma hustler hommie** lmao lata ppl smile.gif smile.gif smile.gif



Go head girl, I love the focus groups too, well really I love the $$ LOL

Have fun, I am out of here running from the storms!



I want to do this!! I could use the $450!

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QUOTE (jawi876 @ Jun 9 2009, 04:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I agree that he is going to have to correct the behavior...ignoring it won't work. Why doesnt he remove her from his friends list? Step over any boundaries...whose boundaries? I know not that tricks....you are the WIFE. Let me at her. devil.gif devil.gif

C!!!!! Mi taught yuh sey yuh naa bite!!!!!!

Quana an Sus are too sweet and Nat is going to agree wid dem too but not mi. Nope I would sway my hips an move em out dat chair and get to typing. By the time he got off de floor I would be hittin the send button... That's what a wife is a HELPMATE and I HELPED him git rid of her..

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u know that i know u and i have different approaches and dats cool.. i don't think we are being sweet, my husband is the one condoning it and if he LET her keep it up HE should get checked by me..

okay i call her all vex.. ray ray.. and then what? if he didn't take care of it, she will still think he is okay w/ it and his crazy wife just ranting and raving and will call him or text him or email him again and again.. ..now if my husband has told her to calm her rass AND deleted her from his page AND she still going after him.. then she might deserve a call from me.. but right now hubby haven't done what he need fi do.. a woman not gonna give ur marriage anymore respect than ur hubby does..


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IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-09 16:11:00
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QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Jun 9 2009, 05:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If she DIDN'T know, I'd make sure she did, but she she already knows, sound better coming from HIM


I agree! I will let you all know what the outcome is. She knows about me...
IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-09 16:09:00
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QUOTE (IrieCat @ Jun 9 2009, 03:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Ladies... I have a question... maybe a RANT!

Louis has FB and Gmail etc... he knows I log in once in a while. He isnt real computer literate and I am the one who set up the accounts for him. He has hooked up with Lucian friends in the states as well as keeping in touch with people back home....

Anyway... there is the chic in MD, from St Lucia originally, that has been sending him messages... "I Love you", "call me"... ish like that. Louis knows I am annoyed and doesnt answer her. He doesnt call her... but she is bugging me! She knows he is married!!! WTH does she think he is going to do??? Leave me for her old azz?? From what Louis says she never works, just lives with friends and dates men who pay her way.

WHat would you all do? Send her a message, call her? I want to message her and tell her she needs to stop... but I don't want to step over any boundaries.


Boundaries... are you serious??? first of all she over stepped her bounderies by contacting your married husband with the foolishness i would email or call her and tell her to stop or better yet have him call her...


I will do that! Then I will give all you ladies who live near MD her address! LOL
IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-09 15:19:00
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QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Jun 9 2009, 04:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i am w/ sus.. i would not tell her nothing.. that is Louis' job.. i love u and call me??? OKAY, that CAN be harmless, but if she is not a family member or old friend why is she saying that to him??? who is she exactly??
he needs define this relationship to u and terminate it if necessary.. i believe women and men can be friends but she sounds like she has overstepped her bounds and he needs to check her..


YEs! Well this woman was a friend from younger days... I think he told me she dated friends of his, he may have dated her... can't remember.

He has other woman friends, in fact I am friends with one of his exes and another friend I talk to on the phone as well. She is so nice, we talk about kids, her immigrations issues etc..

I am going to talk to him tonight. He needs to cut off the flirty e-mail ####### coming from her! I can deal with female friends, not a problem... but not this one's kind!


IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-09 15:12:00
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Ladies... I have a question... maybe a RANT!

Louis has FB and Gmail etc... he knows I log in once in a while. He isnt real computer literate and I am the one who set up the accounts for him. He has hooked up with Lucian friends in the states as well as keeping in touch with people back home....

Anyway... there is the chic in MD, from St Lucia originally, that has been sending him messages... "I Love you", "call me"... ish like that. Louis knows I am annoyed and doesnt answer her. He doesnt call her... but she is bugging me! She knows he is married!!! WTH does she think he is going to do??? Leave me for her old azz?? From what Louis says she never works, just lives with friends and dates men who pay her way.

WHat would you all do? Send her a message, call her? I want to message her and tell her she needs to stop... but I don't want to step over any boundaries.




IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-09 14:56:00
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QUOTE (IrieCat @ Jun 9 2009, 02:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Louis and I are good - already like an old married couple! LOL...


That's my biggest fear.... unsure.gif



HAPPY old married couple. It just seems like we have known each other forever. Its a good thing. :-)

IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-09 14:48:00
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QUOTE (Shemmy @ Jun 9 2009, 02:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
NC is nice. I would love to move there but would have to divorce Damien first wacko.gif Think he wants to stay here forever.


Ryan loves where we live. He says will just buy a single family home across the street from our townhomes. I'm like..can we at least move where we get a little more land... blush.gif


Damien almost had a heart attacked when we moved from Maryland last summer. The new place is only 10 minutes from his job wacko.gif.

He wanted to move to ATL but not many jobs available for me.

Jawi - rose.gif So happy for your short term disability was approved. We'll be praying for you.



I was thinking about moving us down to GA (savannah) this summer but changed my mind... Louis thinks I am nuts. Now I can't say I like the snow but the rest of the year here in Maine is beautiful! I lived in DC,VA,MD area for 10 years.... daughter was born in VA. But now she is in the BEST school system in Maine.
Louis has a friend in Norfolk area and thinks thats where he wants to go... not sure I want to. Not sure I want to sacrafice Tierra's education. I know Louis left his fam and friends behind in SLU but no sure I can do that again.
I think in a couple years when he can get citizenship... we will just move back and forth from ME to St Lucia. Would like to open a guesthouse in SLU. I can work from anywhere ( I telecommute) but wherever we go Louis would have to find a job again. I try to tell him we should stay here and he can further his education and then move on...
I like change but it is hard to make that 1st step...


IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-09 14:13:00
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QUOTE (JaHoney @ Jun 9 2009, 02:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey irie cat, long time no see ( waving) i saw others giving you congrats so i will follow suit.

how is that pretty daughter of yours doing? hope things are going well for you and louis.


Hi! Thanks! I can't wait to get the letter now... wanna see what it says!

Tierra is doing ok, spoiled as usual! She is SO BIG! Going to be in the 2nd grade next year - new school. Our school district here has a school with K and 1st, then Elementary has 2 - 5. So when she was "little" she isnt with the bigger kids...
Louis and I are good - already like an old married couple! LOL...

Hope all is good with you too!


IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-09 13:22:00
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hi yardies

that's heart breaking my2
you must feel helpless



i do and i dont like not being able to make her feel better.. but she is a strong girl and very mature so im sure we will get through this..


You both will, but I know the feeling. Last year, when my mother-in-law passed in Jamaica, we were all at a water park and my husband started crying after he got the phone call. My son asked him why he was crying and my husband told him that his mom just died. My son was 5 at the time and he gave my husband a hug and told him it's okay, you can share my mommy that way you won't be said. I just started to bawl... I don't know, but children are a lot stronger (emotionally) than we think they are.


Oh my gosh! That is too sweet, gets me all teary reading it.
Kids can say just the right things sometimes and they always know when a hug is needed!

My2, you should make sure you get the twin's address. I am sure it would make them feel good if your daughter kept in touch.. letters, pics...


IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-09 08:39:00
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Thank you Thank you!

The time I waited for Louis seemed to go so fast, and now we will be married 1 Year in August! Time really seems to be flying! I have been blessed for sure!

I will send all that VJ Fairy Dust on! ;-)
IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-09 07:31:00
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Good Morning Ladies! Thanks for all my new FB friends! YAY!

I woke up to an e-mail from CRIS this morning......

Application Type: I485 , APPLICATION TO REGISTER PERMANENT RESIDENCE OR TO ADJUST STATUS

Current Status: Notice mailed welcoming the new permanent resident.

On June 8, 2009, we mailed you a notice that we had registered this customer's new permanent resident status. Please follow any instructions on the notice. Your new permanent resident card should be mailed within 60 days following this registration or after you complete any ADIT processing referred to in the welcome notice, whichever is later. If you move before you get your new card call customer service. You can also receive automatic e-mail updates as we process your case. Just follow the link below to register.


GOOD NEWS!!

Anyone know what ADIT processing is?



Happy Tuesday!

....Irie
IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-09 05:47:00
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hey mrs lady d! hope all is well.. ya made it to jamrock yet??
irie, wats ur fb name again.. im bout to find u LOL

never mind mrsladyd.. i just read ur post on FB...sorry..



Catherine Francis
IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-08 17:31:00
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[quote name='my2rmylife' date='Jun 8 2009, 06:18 PM' post='3003521']
iriecat i love you pic on facebook you got me missing real snow


this is the pitiful snow we get

[quote name='dancehallquana' post='3003512' date='Jun 8 2009, 06:15 PM'][quote name='my2rmylife' post='3003491' date='Jun 8 2009, 05:10 PM']

Ha! I used to live in the DC Area and NoVA.. I miss that! I love Maine but wish I could "winter" somewhere else!!!
IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-08 17:26:00
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I sometime wish they would take them for the summer since i have them all the time ...But then again they were gone a week one time and i was lost without them.

Good evening everyone .. Hope every one had a great day


My daughter will be with her dad for more than a month this summer... she can be a pain, but I miss her already!!


Awww..but do you perk up just a little when you think of the alone time with hubby?



Adult Time!! WOooo Hooo! I can go out and drink and pretend I am in my 20's again! LOL
IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-08 17:12:00
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I sometime wish they would take them for the summer since i have them all the time ...But then again they were gone a week one time and i was lost without them.

Good evening everyone .. Hope every one had a great day


My daughter will be with her dad for more than a month this summer... she can be a pain, but I miss her already!!

IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-08 17:05:00
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I don't know half the folks on facebook. I think we should put our screenname somewhere in there. I just accept the friends invite but don't know who it is..I guess I could just ask.. wacko.gif

I have a spreadsheet linking the FB names with the VJ names. (No comments, Philly)


Nat,

LOL! Can you send me a copy of THAT list?


I want more FB Friends!! biggrin.gif
You all need to find me!

You can add your VJ name as a name people can search you by....
IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-08 16:22:00
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How is he liking it here so far T?


Good so far - other than no "good" food, no domino tables on the "block", and no music playing at every corner. On Saturday we were outside and the kids were in the pool so I had the music cranking from the car so he was grinning about that - chatting about a beach party in yard. blink.gif But I heard him singing along to some hip-hop music.


Oh Louis' misses dominoes also! We got a set and teach everyone how to play... he has a couple hooked!
Only problem...no swearing, drinking and SLAMMMMMMING the tiles down on plywood tables! tongue.gif
IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-08 14:21:00
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Good morning!!! Time to focus on work this morning.

You're right about that! Since I was out sick on Friday, I had extra messages to take action on & respond to.

IrieCat, how did you teach yourself to do that? My SO plans to lock it up, too, and I'd love to save money by doing it myself.



Well I think it might be easier with Louis' hair.. it goes down to his butt now!
I watched the lady at the salon do it, then watched a friend do it for him while we were in DC....

When his hair starts growing he gets a fuzzy afro on top and it looks messy, so we tried to make an appt and they lady was gne for 2 weeks. (you don't get many "black hair salons" in Maine... so I tried it for myself. Louis likes beeswax so that is what I use. (bought in DC). I gather the growth and twist it into the locks pulling the hair back in clips or a pony tail as I go. then when I am done he keeps in a tight pony for a couple days with a bandanna over it when he sleeps!

Jeesh - he is more high maintenence than me! LOL
IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-08 13:17:00
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Ok...been having some behavioural issues with my 8 (soon 9 year old)
Been asking for some alternative punishments and my co workers have suggested

making him stand in the corner
making him do yard work for neighbours
making him eat unsweetened oatmeal for dinner
standing in the corner arms outstretched with a can of beans in each hand

Can anyone else suggest some legal and effective punishments??
I have been taking him toys and games away, making him stay in his room, to no avail. So will try these, but would love to hear some more!


Tierra is 7, but I have some issues also. I must admit I have spanked, but that never worked... so I stopped.

She is old enough to be grounded. She is a social butterfly. So I take away "playdates" for a week. That actually helped!
She also likes to ask for a couple bucks and go to the corner store. I have taken that away for a week also.
These little things help becuase they are her favorite things to do.

I have also made her stay home when I go to the store or to run errands. Sounds silly but she loves going with me so it really hurts her when I don't let her.

I must say making her stay in her room wouldnt work because all her stuff is in there. Make him stay in the kitchen or something! Somewhere boring!


IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-08 12:54:00
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iRE--WELCOME BACK...!!!

English..NO POSS NO MROE BAXIDE PICHA..MI MOUT IS WATERING OVA YAH SO..AWWW AUGUST SOON COME..LOL



Hi! Thanks!

Hey are all you ladies on FB?

Find Me! "Catherine Francis"


IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-08 11:52:00
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Irie Cat, so nice to see you back here posting again!!



Thanks!!
I got behind - didnt think I would ever catch up! LOL
Now I have been sucked back in. biggrin.gif
It is a nice distraction from work....


IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-08 11:34:00
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So I have a lil adjustment story for ya'll to start the week with:

As some of you know we have had a lil barber issue in that A keep saying he wouldn't go to a white barber. I took my son to the barber on Saturday but A still wouldn't sit in the chair. Well in the afternoon my daughter comes running in the kitchen dancing and grinning and said A wants to know if you want to cut his hair. I said I would be honored - I walk down to the bathroom and shout OMG!! He was bald!! Apparently he let Alexa cut his hair - WITHOUT THE GUARD on the razor. I said that is pure love if you let a 7 year old cut your hair!!



That is the cutest thing! Was he upset that he was bald??

I am pretty proud of myself.... I have tought myself how to twist Louis' dreads! I do just as well as the salon we pay $50 for them to get done. I asked Tierra if she wanted to try and with her little 7 year old attitude... "ew no!". LOL!
IrieCatFemaleSaint Lucia2009-06-08 10:34:00