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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part15)
Ok, Ok, I will br bringing my camera, but I promise I won't take any photos of you....dammit.....so where we meeting??
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-23 14:51:00
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ok, we going to have a VJ carnival link up or what????
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-23 14:42:00
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QUOTE (newlynluv @ Jun 23 2009, 12:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Wait.... hold up first of all you coming at the wrong f*cking one!!! don’t be pissed at me cause I aint the one who said sh*t!!! sweetie you barking up the wrong tree but if you wanna go there I’m all for it... and further more I can careless what YOU call me cause it's obvious what everyone else calls YOU... thanks for putting me on yardies!!!! Usually I’m very nice and not with the drama but you best to believe if you wanna play cutesty i will get NASTY! next...

mek mi hol a seat...anyone have some popcorn??
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-23 12:39:00
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QUOTE (finesse @ Jun 23 2009, 11:47 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
smadi just PM me and give me the scoop. so now mi in di light!!

however, if roxcie is the know it all, why jaenglish cannot just say it? devil.gif

and why oonuh fraid fi say it too?

Mi baxside!! An mi frontside tuh!! Smaddy PM mi nuh as well?/ rofl.gif rofl.gif

I am a sweet innocent person. I an I nah guh stawt nuh chubble....
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-23 12:38:00
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QUOTE (Jomo's girl @ Jun 23 2009, 09:21 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Jun 22 2009, 03:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
damn...why is it that SOME people feel the need to turn EVERYthing into a battle?? whether it's to show how much they know about SOMEONE ELSE'S culture, or just being a plain know it all. We are here to HELP and SUPPORT, not to prove who's the best JAFAKAN!!
Just because you are SLEEPING with a Jamaican man, doesn't make you an EXPERT on all things JAMAICAN even more so that JAMAICANS themselves.

Rant over.



You okay, JAE?

I am now rofl.gif

Just came to realization, either they are aware of they aren't. If they ARE aware, they aren't going to stop. If they AREN'T aware, then nothing anyone says is going to make a difference anyway....So I release myself from any stress associated with them biggrin.gif
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-23 09:25:00
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QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Jun 22 2009, 04:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Jun 22 2009, 03:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
DISCLAIMER

This rant is directed to YOU if you think it's you. If you know it's not you, then it's not. If you think it COULD be, it most definitely is.


the bad part is that the ones it IS meant for, probably will not think its them rofl.gif rofl.gif

LOL, you see it!!!

QUOTE (sus @ Jun 22 2009, 04:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Sorry I pissed you off, JAEng innocent.gif rofl.gif

I forgive you since you apologized so nicely rofl.gif
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-23 04:59:00
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DISCLAIMER

This rant is directed to YOU if you think it's you. If you know it's not you, then it's not. If you think it COULD be, it most definitely is.
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-22 15:41:00
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damn...why is it that SOME people feel the need to turn EVERYthing into a battle?? whether it's to show how much they know about SOMEONE ELSE'S culture, or just being a plain know it all. We are here to HELP and SUPPORT, not to prove who's the best JAFAKAN!!
Just because you are SLEEPING with a Jamaican man, doesn't make you an EXPERT on all things JAMAICAN even more so that JAMAICANS themselves.

Rant over.
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-22 15:27:00
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Sorry to hear Philly.
I know your husband is upset right now, and yes I know that stress is not something you need to go through, but I would be careful about blaming the boys for your loss.
I don't think that's fair.
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-22 10:17:00
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This


JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-20 05:43:00
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QUOTE (Jomo's girl @ Jun 19 2009, 01:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Jun 19 2009, 01:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
mad.gif Which one of ya'll took the twix bar off my desk



JAE did it whistling.gif

You PROMISED you weren't going to tell!!
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-19 14:46:00
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Lawny, I bet yuh neva gi mi har number mek mi cawl har rass LOL!!
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-19 11:32:00
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QUOTE (finesse @ Jun 19 2009, 11:17 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Jun 19 2009, 10:08 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Please let's NOT go there on the subject of STOLEN FOOD!!!

This week in our office

my HALF EATEN burrito was stolen
someones's orange juice was slurped
someone had a hole poked in the foil covering her food, possibly to check whether it was worth stealing
half of someone's breakfast sandwich was stolen this morning


#######??? why would anyone want someone elses food???? that's nasty. wha kinda people u work wid english?

Funny thing is, that's what EVERYONE in my office said!! But ONE of those mofo's is obviously NOT disgusted!
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-19 11:20:00
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Please let's NOT go there on the subject of STOLEN FOOD!!!

This week in our office

my HALF EATEN burrito was stolen
someones's orange juice was slurped
someone had a hole poked in the foil covering her food, possibly to check whether it was worth stealing
half of someone's breakfast sandwich was stolen this morning
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-19 11:08:00
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she's having a meltdown of happiness lol!
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-18 13:09:00
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CONGRATSSSSSS!!!
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-18 13:06:00
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Most airlines won't let you book unaccompanied minors on connecting flights...
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-18 09:07:00
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I would let him fly by himself!!! My then 7 year old flew to England by himself no problems. Money would be better spent on him when he gets here.
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-18 08:47:00
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I am BEYOND pissed!!

Sunday I made ackee and saltfish, ackee =$15 saltfish probably $5.
Put in the fridge, and was eating some here and there. Look in the fridge this morning, it's gone. My MIL THREW IT OUT because she thought I didn't want it??????????????????????????

I am so frigging pissed, would I see her LOBSTER TAILS or her STEAK and throw it out???? #######?????
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-18 08:17:00
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lang time mi figure Lawny fi one dem LABORITE enno!
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-17 09:04:00
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Dada, that would KILL me....I would be dying to know too.....maybe someone told him something...or picked up the phone...or he has someone else and they found out about you....I would just want to know though....All I can say is that you are better off without him, NO MATTER what, he owed you an explanation.
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-17 08:56:00
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J2A, are you going to Jamaica in 16 days???????
We're going to Jamaica on July 2nd!!! We'll be in Negril for most of that....
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-17 05:30:00
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I don't really see the question as being rude. it's something that is polite to ask if you're talking about someone's SO. I ask it all the time, just like I'd ask how kids they have and what ages. Also ask it just in case the husband does something that I need at a later date, ie mechanic, lawyer etc...Then, when I see the person in a few months, years or whatever, I ask them how the kids are doing, ie 'how's your youngest enjoying starting kindergarten'...and say the husband worked for Jiffy Lube, something like 'I took the car into Jiffy Lube the other day, remembered your husband works for them, which one is he at?' etc...For me, it is an effective networking tool, something polite to ask.

I think perhaps the reason why some are thinking it's rude is that you are not happy with what he does?? In which case I guess you could be vague 'he works in banking/transport/hospitality/retail' etc and keep it moving. For me it's a sign of interest, not being nosy. In a corporate environment, it could be considered rude NOT to ask!


JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-17 05:05:00
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QUOTE (Bunzarelli @ Jun 16 2009, 10:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
soooooooooooooo jlp won the by election
but more importantly
i am now a gold member
yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay only 1,939,485,895,893,892,829 more posts before i am platinum!
Dada i'm coming after your spot girl!
lol
good night yardies

Laborite yuh!! whistling.gif whistling.gif
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-17 04:48:00
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Stone Love, while I can most definitely understand him feeling or imagining a 'vibe', the part that worries me is the fact he's saying he wishes you both could move away and won't even make an effort for YOU. That says to me that your feelings don't mean enough to him. It would be different if they had actually done or said something to him. And even if they had, I would expect him to make that EFFORT knowing how much they mean to you.
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-16 18:05:00
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QUOTE (Islandwoman @ Jun 16 2009, 12:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I agree with Dillon here. Within a couples weeks of being here A said the same thing about my mother - he doesn't like her and she doesn't like him. I just let it rest because there wasn't anything that happened with either of them for him to come to that conclusion. If we are hanging out there, I always invite him to go - it's his choice to go or not. But if it's a holiday or something, I expect him to go.

I remember you posted awhile ago that your mom did everything for/with you until your hubby came here. Perhaps he is feeling like she or your family is too much into your marriage. There is a fine line there of support and interference. See if you can get him to talk about what really is bothering him about your family. Just my 2 cents...

To be 100% honest, I must say in my eyes that's the actions of a man with something to hide....Ie, he feels that family can see through him...

JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-16 15:57:00
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QUOTE (StoneLove4Ever @ Jun 16 2009, 11:31 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
offtopic45vn.gif

I have a question....How would you feel if your SO wants to have nothing to do with your part of the family...and your family did nothing to him to show that they have anything against him...but your SO said he "feels" it and doesn't have to see it...and then says that sometimes he wished they lived far away from your family so they don't have to see their baby..... huh.gif wow.gif

Any response will be highly appreciated...Thanxs luv.gif

I would be SERIOUSLY questioning our relationship and his motives. To me that sounds like he can't be bothered with getting to know your family or caring about your wishes.
If the woman was a citizen and he was the immigrant, I would go far as to shout RED FLAG from the rooftops.
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-16 15:54:00
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Lovely to see you typing again Jawi!!!!!! Now you can come here EVERY day!!

Congrats Doodles!!!! Cannot WAIT until I can type those words!! How long did the citizenship process take????

Thompson CONGRATS!!!

I sent my oldest son off to London for two months, was crying like a baby. No idea why it hit me harder this time sad.gif
Still crying this morning sad.gif

He messaged me a while ago and asked me why I was crying at the airport lol!
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-16 04:38:00
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MD/DC people!

http://baltimore.cra...1212139243.html



JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-13 14:55:00
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QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Jun 12 2009, 02:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Ladies;

I have a question, do you think relationship/adjusment is easier if you and your husband/fiance/wife/fiancee were from the same country/culture -- had a dicussion the other night with some friends from a yahoo group -- it got so heated, that I didn't even finish my food.

abso-fricken-lutely!!!

You both understand where the other is coming from, the things you each do aren't outlandish to one another, you are more likely to share opinions...
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-12 14:47:00
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QUOTE (Jomo's girl @ Jun 12 2009, 02:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Jun 12 2009, 02:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (solsoeur @ Jun 12 2009, 01:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well I think everyone who has shared a story on here is somewhat brave because they are not afraid to share their pain just like they shared their joy. What I do find funny and somewhat hypocritical is the fact that some people are so "happy" for people when they get their visa etc and make plenty of posts about how excited for each other they are but these same people never said anything to the person when they filed for the visa 1 month after meeting the SO but then 6 months after the SO gets here and leaves or some other drama everyone want to talk about how they saw the signs! WELL MY QUESTION IS IF YOU SAW THE SIGNS WHY DIDN'T YOU SAY ANYTHING? MAYBE YOU DIDN'T SAY IT ON THE BOARD BUT DID YOU PM THE PERSON? This is a rhetorical question I have about things I have seen and heard on this board.


Well, I guess you are definitely right in that sense, I USED to talk my mind a lot more than I do, and was almost run out of town.

Now, when people post their bullshit, I'll question them on it and depending on their reaction, I'll move on from there.
And YES, even now there are people posting who I have my doubts, but I refrain from saying ish to them because I honestly don't think they want to hear.
If and when they break up, I would never say 'I knew it', because I didn;'t say it to them.
But in NowMrs case, I say it because I DID say it.



I will actually give you credit here. Cause I do remember you saying it out loud long ago.


Thing is, it doesn't give me any pleasure to be right. Would have preferred to be mistaken.

Gill can tell you I was uneasy about her and Ken, and look how they turned out!!
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-12 14:36:00
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QUOTE (wakeywakeup @ Jun 12 2009, 02:23 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Exactly my point.. and the people I see recounting others bad stories never seem to post anything about their own relationship. Come on now, not all stories involve cheating or green card scams but I'll be dogon if anyone can sit up and say hey I'm pissed at my man for "xyz"

I'm one of those who probably never posts anythuing about my relationship, mainly for two reasons, one that my husband and I don't really argue about anything very interesting and the other that he would not be AT ALL happy to know I was posting about him on a message board.
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-12 14:29:00
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QUOTE (solsoeur @ Jun 12 2009, 01:57 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Yes Sus I know you are not one to keep your suspicions quiet but I am just wondering how vocal others are if they see something wrong. I know I for one will always let someone know if I think they are getting played or being mistreated prime example this girl in my department keeps getting beat up by her man. Well after awhile I got tired of seeing it and hearing about it so I talked to her about it. Ok that didn't work so then I talked to her good friend who in turn talked to her mom after that I just pray. She still has not left him but at least I can sleep better knowing I did what I thought was right in my heart now what she does from there is on her. I offered my assistance she can take it or leave it. All I am really saying is are we here to build each other up or are we here to laugh and gossip about all them who fall? I personally take no satisfaction in hearing about anyone being hurt in ANY relationship because LDR or otherwise it ALL HURTS the same.

To be 100% honest, I have doubts about your relationship. I hope you don't see this as being mean, because it's not intended this way. Cannot bring a firm piece of evidence, but I must admit to having my doubts.
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-12 14:22:00
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QUOTE (solsoeur @ Jun 12 2009, 01:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well I think everyone who has shared a story on here is somewhat brave because they are not afraid to share their pain just like they shared their joy. What I do find funny and somewhat hypocritical is the fact that some people are so "happy" for people when they get their visa etc and make plenty of posts about how excited for each other they are but these same people never said anything to the person when they filed for the visa 1 month after meeting the SO but then 6 months after the SO gets here and leaves or some other drama everyone want to talk about how they saw the signs! WELL MY QUESTION IS IF YOU SAW THE SIGNS WHY DIDN'T YOU SAY ANYTHING? MAYBE YOU DIDN'T SAY IT ON THE BOARD BUT DID YOU PM THE PERSON? This is a rhetorical question I have about things I have seen and heard on this board.


Well, I guess you are definitely right in that sense, I USED to talk my mind a lot more than I do, and was almost run out of town.

Now, when people post their bullshit, I'll question them on it and depending on their reaction, I'll move on from there.
And YES, even now there are people posting who I have my doubts, but I refrain from saying ish to them because I honestly don't think they want to hear.
If and when they break up, I would never say 'I knew it', because I didn;'t say it to them.
But in NowMrs case, I say it because I DID say it.
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-12 14:20:00
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QUOTE (RoxcieJoe @ Jun 12 2009, 01:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I will put myself out here, by saying this, who cares why or how someone's relationship failed. Relationships are failing every day.... Be it for a CGs, baby mama drama, baby daddy drama or friend’s drama...etc. I feel that we are all adults on this site and if anyone of us decides to sleep with a dog, we were probably quite aware that he was a dog before we got bitten.

I care.
Because maybe if he was subtle, or it was a problem me and my husband experience, someone else's experience might help me or someone else.

We are all adults, and as adults we need to develop a sense of being thick skinned enough to hear what others have to say, and either keep it as being useful or dismiss it as being irrelevant.
I don't rejoice in ANY relationship's demise. I am not here to hate on anyone either.
But as an adult and a human being if I think someone is being used, I most often have NO problem telling them or at least giving them food for thought.
Some people however, do not want to hear ANYTHING that casts a shadow of doubt on their fantasy/fairytale story. So I leave them in their own little world. I'll comment, I will tell them upfront what I think if they ask, or make it my business by bringing incidents to the board. But, I will not feel too much pity when the sky comes crashing down.
I offer advice to warn of potholes, not to steer people into them or to scare them from travelling.

And YES, I want to hear why a relationship failed, what things he did, because it is a pattern that one day may be a warning signal to me.
Unlike some posters, I don't feel ASSURED my relationship is perfect, i feel it's a lot of work and will appreciate insight.
Perhaps not on the matters of being used for a visa, but most other issues relate to me or could relate to me at one point or another.
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-12 14:12:00
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QUOTE (Jomo's girl @ Jun 12 2009, 10:12 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Jun 12 2009, 09:50 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Clairey yuh no cound iina dis

and yes mi figet bout Jonesie..

thought I saw Jawi on here..anyone here about her surgery?

Claimed...i think is because SHE said so..most dont really know what happened..

U know ..why when a LDR fails from an international country some say its b/c of the GC...u know when ur being used from DAY ONE u just didn't want to SEE IT



I personally don't always believe it is cause of a green card, Kimmy. Sometimes they just don't work out cause of differences.

I agree not always....but in her relationship there were HUGE red flags from day one....I remember her always having send money for this and that reason....I also remember being tarred and feathered for telling her so too....
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-12 11:24:00
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Sus, here's the link!


http://blog.360.yaho...W...--?cq=1&p=6
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-12 05:17:00
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Heyyyy Yaads, hope you're back to STAY! Missed you!


Congrats Roxcie!!
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-11 18:57:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Jun 11 2009, 09:11 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
OK..TOPIC

every one that had children in a previous relationship

Is ur current relationship the 1st one after u separated from ur ex? why are they "concerned". Don't get me wrong. I would be a maniac too if my children all of a sudden have another woman in their lives to confuse the heck out of them in regards to mommy and daddy relationship.. BUT do u guys see where I'm going with this?

First one my son ever knew about...said I'd give myself TWO chances at a serious relationship, ie where my son knew the guy etc....If they both failed, would remain single until he was grown....mi still have one more chance! whistling.gif
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-11 11:40:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Jun 11 2009, 09:11 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
OK..TOPIC

every one that had children in a previous relationship

Is ur current relationship the 1st one after u separated from ur ex? why are they "concerned". Don't get me wrong. I would be a maniac too if my children all of a sudden have another woman in their lives to confuse the heck out of them in regards to mommy and daddy relationship.. BUT do u guys see where I'm going with this?

First one my son ever knew about...said I'd give myself TWO chances at a serious relationship, ie where my son knew the guy etc....If they both failed, would remain single until he was grown....mi still have one more chance! whistling.gif
JaEnglishGirlFemaleUnited Kingdom2009-06-11 11:33:00