ForumTitleContentMemberSexCountryDate/Time
CanadaWeather & Road Report
Thank Krikit... we are too wink.gif

My sis and best friend are both without power. Sis is staying with friends... 5 adults, 4 kids, a ferret, and 4 big dogs (boxers). blink.gif I think it's a 3 bedroom house... I would be out of my mind.

Edited by Aaralyn, 29 January 2009 - 03:20 PM.

AaralynFemaleCanada2009-01-29 15:19:00
CanadaWeather & Road Report
We're in Kentucky and it is/was nasty. We were very lucky here. We lost the roof of the front porch. Well, we didn't lose it... it's just lying *on* the front porch now. We have numerous trees and branches down everywhere, but we managed to keep electricity. They are estimating over 200,000 people without power, and at least 7-10 days before it's restored. They declared a State of Emergency here and in Indiana.

I think the final totals were between 1 1/2 to 2 inches of ice, then around 3 inches of snow on top of that here in Louisville. I didn't sleep a wink Tuesday night. We live in a trailer, surrounded by huge trees and every minute or so you could here a loud crack, then the crash of ice/branches falling. I finally tried to lay down around 2am, but every time I would hear another branch fall, I would be up running from window to window, checking on the kids etc. Like I said, the roof of the porch collapsed, and we were trapped inside until my father came over and cleared enough away from the door to open it a bit and slide out. We have a few large limbs on the trailer, but thankfully, not too much damage. Very very very lucky.
AaralynFemaleCanada2009-01-29 12:48:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsWaiting for a NOA2 from VSC for your I-129F?
I'm soo going to be late for work, but I wanted to add my thank you for posting the list!

#129!! Yay!!

(yeah, I know.. but if I don't laugh, I'll cry! jest.gif )
AaralynFemaleCanada2007-10-26 09:29:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsHe's Finally Coming Home!
Congrats!!!!! smile.gif (and such a sweet letter, too!) I hate that he had some problems, but so happy they were easy to remedy. He'll be with you soon! You must be bouncing off the walls. smile.gif
AaralynFemaleCanada2008-04-07 11:52:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsVisa in hand, flight booked
That's awesome! Congrats!
AaralynFemaleCanada2008-04-07 20:39:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsWaiting on the VSC to make a decision?
Thanks so much!

I haven't posted much since I joined, but this site (and of course all of you) has/have been a lifesaver to me. It helped so much to read your posts and know we aren't the only people in the world in love and far apart.
AaralynFemaleCanada2007-12-06 21:12:00
Removing Conditions on Residency General DiscussionDO I NEED TO RENEW MY PASSPORT?
Just a reminder.... Passport fees are increasing here in the United States as early as April 1.
prettyuniqueFemaleUnited Kingdom2010-03-24 07:45:00
Removing Conditions on Residency General Discussionguess were the first january 2014 filers getting package together
Hello,

We just sent ours too few days ago. It shows that it was received and signed by T Cioppa on Jan 21st. They still didnt cash my check.

Good luck everyone.




Edi & SuaMaleBosnia-Herzegovina2014-01-24 11:44:00
PhilippinesNOA2 APPROVED
QUOTE (Imran and Safiya @ Nov 11 2007, 09:36 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
CONGRATS!

Congrats to the both of you. I just got my NOA2 on the 28th of Nov. Should be going to Manila soon.
Good luck to you guys.
Todd & BellaMalePhilippines2007-12-06 14:29:00
PhilippinesAnyone with February Interview Gotten Your Packet 4?
I don't understand why it would take so long for a letter to get across town. I called the embassy and was told the packet 4 was sent on the 20th of Dec. Then was told that my baby could go to the hospital cause a copy would be there. After wasting a trip there on the 2nd of Jan only to find out no copy made it there yet???? I heard of slow mail this is crazy. Lucky for us my baby spoke to one of the nurses and was called that the copy showed up and she was able to do the medical on 4th of Jan.

The appt. letter finally shows up on the 8th of Jan (19 days for mail in Manila?) Oh well just the interview to go and we can battle the forms and waiting together in the states.

TLT
Todd & BellaMalePhilippines2008-01-09 04:51:00
PhilippinesPhone Communication for Philippines
If you have high speed internet on both ends when not think about using Vonage then it is like a local call. Set it up in the states and then send or take the phone on the next vacation. only about $25 per month.
Todd & BellaMalePhilippines2008-02-07 02:03:00
PhilippinesFeb 7th... He passed!
I'm just spreding the Congrats love dancin5hr.gif
Todd & BellaMalePhilippines2008-02-07 02:08:00
PhilippinesVisa is Approved in Manila
God Bless you all for the Thanks and support you have shown to us.
Todd & BellaMalePhilippines2008-02-10 02:14:00
PhilippinesVisa is Approved in Manila
Man after 7 months of waiting and spending a ton on FedEx to get all the paperwork on time. Her getting up today at 5am for the appointment.

It took 10 mins for a adjudicating consular officer to know that our love is real as can be. This the second best day of our after us meeting on the plane 23 Feb 06' is the first. I'm sure we will have many more happy days ahead.

Thanks to all the folks at VisaJourney who answered question I had, and Good Luck to all those that are still waiting

Todd & Bella

interview 7 Feb 08'
Todd & BellaMalePhilippines2008-02-07 00:56:00
PhilippinesFeb. 7 Interview Experience, and Request for Visa Pick-Up
Congrats to you two!

Just wish my Fiancee had that kind of luck for visa pick-up. Cause she was told flat out no that she couldn't pick it up in person. I guess when the petitioner is there also they my be more willing to give in to the request. Oh well at lease we still got approved.
Todd & BellaMalePhilippines2008-02-10 02:22:00
PhilippinesI was approved!!!!! Feb 6 interview, wohoooo!!!!
CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Todd & BellaMalePhilippines2008-02-07 00:43:00
PhilippinesVisas Approved - Family on its way!!!
Congrats on the new beginning dancin5hr.gif
Todd & BellaMalePhilippines2008-01-09 04:34:00
PhilippinesMy interview experience
Congrats on the approval.

My quick question to you is for the request to pick up the visa what is the name of the adjudicating consular officer did you use and address? Where is this information found?

Todd
Todd & BellaMalePhilippines2008-02-06 01:26:00
PhilippinesVisa Tracking - Interviewed and Approved on February 2008
My Lady just called me and told me she has VISA in hand and she all ready went to CFO and got the required paper stamped and attached to her passport kicking.gif . Now we just have to get her a ticket on the same flight as me and we'll be all set.

Todd
Todd & BellaMalePhilippines2008-02-13 02:01:00
PhilippinesVisa Tracking - Interviewed and Approved on February 2008
My Lady just called me and told me she has VISA in hand and she all ready went to CFO and got the required paper stamped and attached to her passport kicking.gif . Now we just have to get her a ticket on the same flight as me and we'll be all set.

Todd
Todd & BellaMalePhilippines2008-02-13 02:01:00
PhilippinesFebruary interviews at US Embassy Manila
I got bumped off the list some how but it don't matter. My baby got APPROVED today on7 Feb 08'.
Now we can really make some plans. good.gif dancin5hr.gif

Good Luck to all other Feb interview dates

Todd & Bella
Todd & BellaMalePhilippines2008-02-07 01:57:00
PhilippinesFebruary interviews at US Embassy Manila
Well I just found out my Honey-ko's dates

Jan 30 @ St. Luke's
Feb 07 @ Embassy

Very happy indeed to get to this point.

Good Luck to all.

Todd kicking.gif
Todd & BellaMalePhilippines2007-12-21 15:47:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reportscase moved from TSC to Vermont
QUOTE (aaron&lidia @ Sep 1 2007, 11:48 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hello every one, i mailed our case to the Texas Service Center and now it is at the Vermont Service Center is this normal to move the case from one service center to another. i lve in oklahoma city


I had the same thing happen to me. I don't think it will be a problem but I wish they would of said something about so I could of sent in to Vermont instead of Texas and got in the line sooner. I guess they wanted to see us sweat it out a little bit.
Todd & BellaMalePhilippines2007-09-01 20:53:00
US Citizenship General DiscussionOath Ceremonies over the holidays?

I'm still waiting too..interviewed last Nov.14,2011 at louisville ky office.. 2 months and 12 days still no oath letter..I decided to wait until feb.14 (my 90 days waiting after interview) if i didnt get it i will make an infopass..Hope this oath taking will be over before traveling in the philippines this coming april.

And i got this from other post calendar schedule on court house and on Feb 3, there having an oath ceremony..i was hoping i can get my oath letter soon in the mail to be in this ceremony.
http://www.kywd.usco...rtCalendars.php



Just check my case status online and this is what i see:

Oath Ceremony

On January 24, 2012, we placed your application in the oath scheduling que. We will send a notice when the ceremony is scheduled. If you move prior to the scheduled ceremony, please use our Change of Address online tool to update your case with your new address or call our customer service center at 1-800-375-5283.

Naturalization Applicants: you will receive your certificate at your oath ceremony. You can expect to be scheduled for an oath ceremony within 45 days of receiving your recommended approval. Many offices schedule approved applicants for the oath ceremony on the same day as the day of the interview. Please check the local office profile page on our website to determine if the office where you will be interviewed schedules same day oath ceremonies.

Thanks God it means i will be on the list of people for sure will getting a ceremony soon. If not this Feb. 3 maybe next to that..


And DOGWOOD_POET check your status maybe they also update ur wife status..
Philippiniana2011FemalePhilippines2012-01-26 14:23:00
US Citizenship General DiscussionOath Ceremonies over the holidays?

Kathlene still hasn't gotten her oath letter, should we keep on waiting or should we contact them?

I think we should just wait a little while longer, I just worry what would happen if for some reason we did not receive her letter & missed the ceremony . . .


I'm still waiting too..interviewed last Nov.14,2011 at louisville ky office.. 2 months and 12 days still no oath letter..I decided to wait until feb.14 (my 90 days waiting after interview) if i didnt get it i will make an infopass..Hope this oath taking will be over before traveling in the philippines this coming april.

And i got this from other post calendar schedule on court house and on Feb 3, there having an oath ceremony..i was hoping i can get my oath letter soon in the mail to be in this ceremony.
http://www.kywd.usco...rtCalendars.php

Edited by Philippiniana2011, 26 January 2012 - 01:59 PM.

Philippiniana2011FemalePhilippines2012-01-26 13:50:00
US Citizenship General DiscussionOath Ceremonies over the holidays?
I guess theres a lot of us here that on the same boat... Waiting time.. "sucks" ( i apologized for my language) but its true. I called uscis talk to costumer service he said i still have to wait bcoz even thought they give me an approval paper its not gurantee bcoz they will still run thru ur paper works again,make sure they didnt missed anything. And have to wait 90 days, and after that time period i didnt hear anything i should make info pass to talk to the local office... God lordy... This waiting is killllling me... Hoping for everyone here that we can be scheduled nxt month.. That will be a nice new years gift...
Philippiniana2011FemalePhilippines2011-12-22 09:06:00
US Citizenship General DiscussionOath Ceremonies over the holidays?
I am waiting for my oath taking letter too..I done my interview last Nov.14,'11 at Louisville local office..im hoping i will be scheduled next month. :unsure:
Philippiniana2011FemalePhilippines2011-12-21 20:17:00
US Citizenship General DiscussionWaiting for Oath Ceremony Letter still!

You all not alone. I'm on the same boat,too. And i'm waiting for 15 days now, since they put me on que.I waited 2 1/2 months after my interview before they put me on que for oath taking, now its another waiting game for the letter for ceremony schedule..I really want this to get over with specially i'm leaving the country for vacation this coming april. And passport takes a while before they release it.. :clock:


I'm happy, some of you got an oath so quick.. Since my interview no oath letter yet, today its my 104 days of waiting and i guess i will still counting. Im happy they put me on que last Jan 27 for oath taking but im still here waiting for the final letter.. :crying:
Philippiniana2011FemalePhilippines2012-02-09 14:09:00
US Citizenship General DiscussionWaiting for Oath Ceremony Letter still!
You all not alone. I'm on the same boat,too. And i'm waiting for 15 days now, since they put me on que.I waited 2 1/2 months after my interview before they put me on que for oath taking, now its another waiting game for the letter for ceremony schedule..I really want this to get over with specially i'm leaving the country for vacation this coming april. And passport takes a while before they release it.. :clock:
Philippiniana2011FemalePhilippines2012-02-08 19:56:00
Removing Conditions on Residency General DiscussionFILING I-751 AND BEING DIVORCED
Me and my ex file joint I-751 but after a couple of months or relationship fell apart and we end up divorce..so i have to cancel the first file and refile for I-751 waiver..I hire a lawyer to advise me and help me get through with this, because my case is complicated.But hiring a lawyer is worth every penny bcoz i was one of successful I-751 waiver for Removing condition. My advice is if you have a complicated case you really need to hire a lawyer. But if yoy think yours will be ok just trust your guts..Just submit all the evidence and info that your marriage from your ex are in good faith.and be your self on the interview.just answer what they only ask dont add more...Good luck..if u have question just ask me,im more than happy to asnwer it?
Philippiniana2011FemalePhilippines2012-01-03 15:15:00
US Embassy and Consulate DiscussionUS & Mexican Couples - K-3/CR-1/IR-1 Group, Juarez experiences, comments
The first time we stayed off of Avenue Lincoln, I think it was called Suites Marta. We had a car so even though it was a little distance the room was nice and big, even had a sitting area. (This is when we discoved the restaurant El Torro Bronco, just a block away. We liked it so much we ate there on 2 nights and also on our return trip it was the last place we went before we left to go across the bridge to El Paso). We made the mistake of thinking we were done and checked out, so we just stayed in Hotel la Playa (DO NOT RECOMMEND). First they want a deposit and then the rooms suck.

The second time we stayed in Hotel Americano, it was OK, the restaurant even though it was small had wonderful food. The room was just ok, but it did not matter, because we were only there to sleep. It is just around the corner on Av. Hermanos Escobar.
chagalafamiliaFemaleMexico2006-03-28 15:19:00
US Citizenship General Discussion5 Years Restriction???
Here is the information you are looking for:


Residence and Physical Presence

An applicant is eligible to file if, immediately preceding the filing of the application, he or she:

has been lawfully admitted for permanent residence (see preceding section);
has resided continuously as a lawful permanent resident in the U.S. for at least 5 years prior to filing with no single absence from the United States of more than one year;
has been physically present in the United States for at least 30 months out of the previous five years (absences of more than six months but less than one year shall disrupt the applicant's continuity of residence unless the applicant can establish that he or she did not abandon his or her residence during such period)


has resided within a state or district for at least three months


I will try to attach the link:

http://www.uscis.gov...00045f3d6a1RCRD
chagalafamiliaFemaleMexico2007-06-06 11:10:00
Asia: East and PacificIt's been a while since I posted on VJ
Hi Everybody,

It's been a while since I posted on VJ, so I thought I would post a little update.

I flew to Vietnam in late May of 2008, to be with my fiance for her interview. I gave her my passport wso she could take it in with her. (she was 5 months pregnant at the time). When she went in, she about the middle of the line. I waited outside with a couple other Americans who are now very close friends (Matt & Linh).

She came out about an hour later with a pink slip (1st interview). I guess it pays to have a good lawyer (Thanks Marc)

She flew back to the US with me a week later!!!

W were married June 27, 2008. Our baby was born September 1st. A little girl named Lisa...

I filed her AOS papers September 5th. By february we had received her EAD, Advance Parole, and her Green Card.

The wife and baby are now back in Vietnam visiting her family. This is her parents first grandchild, so I would guess they are spoiling her.

The wife and baby will be back around the middle of May. We will be returning to Vietnam again for TET 2010.

Attached is a picture of daddy's little girl...


IMPORTANT: Forthose of you who have a VIETNAMESE spouse, you and your children are eligible to apply for a 5 year visa exemption. My daughter and I now have one, it costs $20 each, and took less than 2 weeksw to process.

Edited by b_weeks, 28 March 2009 - 07:45 PM.

b_weeksMaleVietnam2009-03-28 19:41:00
Asia: East and PacificBlue Slip requesting List of Family Members
QUOTE (YuAndDan @ Mar 17 2009, 05:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
1 Both, consulate in China issues a form that has family of petitioner and beneficiary listed in detail out to siblings.

2 Siblings and immediate family (Father, Mother)

3 Addresses. and A#s if they have immigrated to the USA.


I believe they are reffering to any relatives your fiance has that already live in the US.

They request a list of all relatives, we provided a list with my wife's Aunt, and Cousin, with address and telephone number.
b_weeksMaleVietnam2009-03-29 22:54:00
Asia: East and PacificBirth Certificate
QUOTE (Anh map @ Mar 29 2009, 08:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
There is a recent thread on here in an Adjusting Status forum about the options when a birth cert. can't be obtained/doesn't exist. I think the OP's fiance was born in India and living in the UK. Sorry I can't remember more details to help you search.

Her VN passport will work to confirm a birthdate.

I'd think that you/Xuan are going to need something that serves the purpose of a birth certificate as you work your way through life. That documentation will be easier to get while she in in VN than doing it long distance from the US.


If I recall correctly, there is document that wold have had to provide a document stating that she does not have a birth certificate. You will more than likely need more copies of this when you go to the US.
b_weeksMaleVietnam2009-03-29 22:05:00
Asia: East and PacificWhat to do in Vung Tau?
I know many Vietnamese from the HCMC area go there to enjoy the beaches.

Apparently they are very nice, but I also hear they are crowded at times.
b_weeksMaleVietnam2009-03-29 22:35:00
Asia: East and PacificFirst Blue Slip at HCM - Vote of members
QUOTE (Jack & Xuan @ Mar 29 2009, 07:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (b_weeks @ Mar 29 2009, 05:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (AnhSau @ Mar 28 2009, 07:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
In your last posting you wrote:

"But one trip they usually deny unless 1. your wife is pregnant or you share common children 2. you and your wife share a common language and she aced the interview, 3. You got an interviewer they use for congressional inquires they almost always pass everybody."

Well either I am fortunate or just lucky.

I only made 1 trip. I have no matches to your outline.

The short order is did the interviewer wake up on the wrong side of the bed that day.


AnhSau is right.

Here were our red flags:
  • Introduced by sister
  • 1 trip to vietnam (6 weeks)
  • 1 month Pregnant at time of filing - 5 months at time of interview


We got PINK the very first interview. They didn't even make her speak english at the interview. She said hello when she walked in, but that was it. I really think they wanted to get her out of the building, as they interviewed her first. I think they wanted to avoid having a baby born in the US Embassy (automatic citizenship, hehehe)

But, you have to remember to present ALL the facts of your case, regardless of the situation. I was smart enough to document our relation ship and KEPT EVERYTHING.

Hiring a lawyer is personal preference. Because I had spent time reading the forums on VJ, I knew about the RED FLAGS. We visited Marc Ellis before my first trip was over, and hired him. He and his staff helped prepare all the papers for filing, and made sure all the facts were present.

But you can't just present the facts. Your papers need to tell a story of true love and committment. Plus we overwhelmed them with evidence at the interview.
  • 3000+ pages of chat logs
  • 200+ pictures
  • 200+ emails
  • Receipts for everything (jewelry, rental car, hotel, reception, dress rental, band, food)


And the TIMELINE is a MUST. You WILL get a blue slip without one. Here are some samples: TIMELINES

Another RED FLAG for HCMC, 99%sure they will NOT accept a co-sponsor.

Please people, ask the questions before hand. Save EVERYTHING.


Rental car? Dude you drove a car when you were there? That is some kind of crazy. I thought about that until the taxi left the area near the airport and I saw the traffic in Siagon. Then I see how cheap the taxi's were and that was it for me. I give you much respect if you drove a car in Siagon. Not me brotha. wow.gif


I was referring to the rental the day of the ceremony. I had to go to her aunts house, and go with the procession of other man to her house that morning. It is very typical now to rent cars and vans.
b_weeksMaleVietnam2009-03-29 22:08:00
Asia: East and PacificFirst Blue Slip at HCM - Vote of members
QUOTE (AnhSau @ Mar 28 2009, 07:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
In your last posting you wrote:

"But one trip they usually deny unless 1. your wife is pregnant or you share common children 2. you and your wife share a common language and she aced the interview, 3. You got an interviewer they use for congressional inquires they almost always pass everybody."

Well either I am fortunate or just lucky.

I only made 1 trip. I have no matches to your outline.

The short order is did the interviewer wake up on the wrong side of the bed that day.


AnhSau is right.

Here were our red flags:
  • Introduced by sister
  • 1 trip to vietnam (6 weeks)
  • 1 month Pregnant at time of filing - 5 months at time of interview


We got PINK the very first interview. They didn't even make her speak english at the interview. She said hello when she walked in, but that was it. I really think they wanted to get her out of the building, as they interviewed her first. I think they wanted to avoid having a baby born in the US Embassy (automatic citizenship, hehehe)

But, you have to remember to present ALL the facts of your case, regardless of the situation. I was smart enough to document our relation ship and KEPT EVERYTHING.

Hiring a lawyer is personal preference. Because I had spent time reading the forums on VJ, I knew about the RED FLAGS. We visited Marc Ellis before my first trip was over, and hired him. He and his staff helped prepare all the papers for filing, and made sure all the facts were present.

But you can't just present the facts. Your papers need to tell a story of true love and committment. Plus we overwhelmed them with evidence at the interview.
  • 3000+ pages of chat logs
  • 200+ pictures
  • 200+ emails
  • Receipts for everything (jewelry, rental car, hotel, reception, dress rental, band, food)


And the TIMELINE is a MUST. You WILL get a blue slip without one. Here are some samples: TIMELINES

Another RED FLAG for HCMC, 99%sure they will NOT accept a co-sponsor.

Please people, ask the questions before hand. Save EVERYTHING.
b_weeksMaleVietnam2009-03-29 17:05:00
Asia: East and PacificFirst Blue Slip at HCM - Vote of members
We hired Marc from the beginning. We met with him the weekend before my first trip ended. Marc knows the law, and understands the culture wthin the embassy. Marc and his team had my wife totally prepared for her interview.

OUR SITUATION:
1 trip to Vietnam ( 6 weeks)
she doesn't speak very good english
engagement ceremony after 5 days in vietnam (but we chatted for about 1 1/2 years
found out she as pregnant beforemy 1st trip ended
2nd trip to vietnam was in May of the same year for her interview (That's right, sent application for K1 Jan 23'rd 2008, approved mid-march, interviewed May 30th (fiance is now 5 months pregnant), 1st interview approved (PINK SLIP)

Now, everyones situation is different, and there are many people who have an opinion or think they know everything about immigration (you will see them handing out flyers outside the embassy). Hiring Marc is not a guarantee your fiance will pass, but he will tell you honestly what the red flags are, and will help you and you fiance prepare for the whole process.
b_weeksMaleVietnam2009-03-08 09:27:00
Asia: East and PacificNoticed something
QUOTE (bryonm4 @ Mar 31 2009, 08:30 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If it wasnt' for this site and the support I recived I would already be in Vietnam. My relatives, this board, and the people at work have been so supportive.

Tran's brother that lives in NY lost his job a few months ago he wants to move here and get a job but I tried to tell her if her brother moves in with me that will look suspicous even if he doesnt live with me just by moving to the same town could hurt our case.
so right now I'm one of her familys main source of income most of the money I send Tran goes toward her family to pay bills and buy food the thought of them denying my visa because they think im getting paid off (which they do quit often without any proof) is enough to push me off the deep end. I don't enjoy working 67 hours per week actually I'm working 72 hours up untill the time I leave for my trip then when I come back I will be back down to 67 hours.

It's a known fact that most people give up after a denial I have never given up on anybody in my life and I'm not about to start now. Money does play a big part in this I do know that but it is also possible to get the visa without having allot of money. I keep trying to make excuses to justfy there denial to make sense of all this but thats getting harder and harder when I hear cases that were approved that had the same red flags as mine. Maybe my case was weak since we only had about 10 pictures maybe we should have been kissing in some of them but she is shy about kissing in front of a camera. We had allot of evedence however most of it we didn't have untill the lawyer asked us to start saving it wich was after when we got engaged. Maybe that hurt our case. Will we be able to recover from it I don't know but I'm sure going to try.


Kepp your head on straight and don't give up. None of us would be here if we did. I know sometimes people are very forward on these boards. I know I am. Some people don't discover this board until 1/2 way throught the process.

Do what your lawyer says. Get together as much evidence as possible. Try and get your girl over her shyness for a couple of pictures (we're not saying make a porno).

I was fortunate enough to find VJ before I filed , and have a cople friends that have done the same, so I knew somewhat, what I was getting myself into.

Stay strong, keep the faith, and ever give up if this is what you truly believe in....

Edited by b_weeks, 31 March 2009 - 08:33 PM.

b_weeksMaleVietnam2009-03-31 20:32:00