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PhilippinesMen Your Thoughts On Filipina

I think the thread is about why our Filipina is "the one".


Yes please!:ot2:


The reactions to the hijacker is like a noise pollution in my ears already.
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2011-03-17 16:14:00
PhilippinesMen Your Thoughts On Filipina

Hi please do not judge all American men by someone's out the park comment. I myself am a black American that has been to Phils several times in my life and I absolutely enjoy and respect the country and it's people. When I am there the people do not see my color well let me back up, certain remote areas I get a fair share of stares, shy smiles, and hey Joe...but for the most part I am treated with respect and return the favor. There are so many beautiful women in Phils and the temptation to be a bad boy is tremendous, but finding the one woman who you click with is key and stick to her is the remedy for doggish ways. The ultimate key here is maturity and respect for women, not just pinay but every woman.

Take care


I was not stereotyping all american. I was mainly referring to the crowd favorite, Mr. TCO.
But what you said about the treatment that you will get from my country as a foreigner is indeed tremendously heart warming.

I just don't understand why some men who are "mature" by age acts like little kids who brags about this, and that.
It makes me think that this guy had a rough past which has became stranger with "attention" and now just wants it all.


Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2011-03-16 21:42:00
PhilippinesMen Your Thoughts On Filipina

Why is always the girl coming to USA. It's a much better deal for the USC especially a Man to go to Philippines and live. It's a man's world over there.

Woman work and men hang out and drink and chill out. Divorce is Illegal, A man can have as many girlfriends as he wants in Philippines and can get as many girls pregnant he wants since there is no such thing as child support.

Being a Man in Philippines is the way to go, the Man Run the Show over there, and the woman obeys his rules..........


How sad. That you have to be in a country where you feel like you are special because of your skin color. You must have an extraordinary amount of insecurities in your self that you need to feel better by simply going to the Philippines and be treated like KING, do all you want and imply to the world that men in the United States are are simply lethargic.

What you have written simply reflects of what kind of person you are.

Edited by Cutie_Patootie, 15 March 2011 - 03:56 PM.

Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2011-03-15 15:56:00
PhilippinesMen Your Thoughts On Filipina
You can't say "she's the one" not until you bring your sweet pinay in the US, until both of y'all completely can say that things have worked out after she moved , adjusted and actually have gotten comfortable and learned with the way "YOU" (the USC) lives, this is only the time that marriage might work after several years of getting to fully know each other.

Yes, you can say she is sweet as a honey while you are dating, and actually marry but sometimes unforeseeable circumstances that adjustment in US seems to be a an uphill climb, then lonesomeness takes over, then the idea of wanting to come home arises., then a sour divorce unfolds.

You might admit it or not, there always certain qualities that we all tend to hide in the "courting" stage, because we want to look perfect to the person we also love, but once we are all signed up in that marriage contract, these tiny little flaws shows.

In other words, "she's the one" is mainly a confirmation of what you have felt since the day you realized " you can spend the rest of your life" with this girl. Not unless you live with her, and see how she has lived and has become a wife to you, then you can only say that she is the right one.

I can say that my wife is the one for me, because she knows exactly what I don't want to eat now, and we can watch football all day long and I can converse with her anything and everything under the sun.
She is my best friend, and my strength when I don't have any.

She's the one!

-the husband

Edited by Cutie_Patootie, 14 March 2011 - 04:55 PM.

Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2011-03-14 16:54:00
PhilippinesWife as Joint Owner of Credit card account

If you have a joint card with him you inherit the history of that account even if he has had it for 20 years.


Does this mean, I will have the same credit score as what he has right now?
How long will it takes to build my credit score then?
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2011-03-19 09:32:00
PhilippinesWife as Joint Owner of Credit card account

Yes, make sure you're not an just an Authorized but actually Joint Account Holder.

Also you can apply here for your own card, my wife got approved with no Credit History and no Job!


Thank you guys!

yes, I am a joint account holder.

As for the link Bob, I don't think I am ready yet to have another one this soon. :D , as the economy gets sour and sour, I'm good with only one.
But I will definitely keep this in mind.
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2011-03-18 21:45:00
PhilippinesWife as Joint Owner of Credit card account

Yes, if you use the card and pay it off right away it will slowly build your credit. You are on the account so either he or you can use the cards and build your credit. Also if he can add you to some of his older accounts, like a credit card he has had for awhile would be really good. Having a longer credit history builds better credit, the age of the account is factored into your score.


Thank you for the quick response.

As a matter of fact, his account which is also mine now has been with him since he has qualified for one.
So does that mean, It won't take long for me to have a good credit?
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2011-03-18 20:20:00
PhilippinesANYBODY HERE LIVING IN LOUISIANA?
QUOTE (AbbynSheryl @ Dec 17 2009, 06:29 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (robbie jeannet @ Dec 16 2009, 06:22 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
HELLO GUYS, I AM ABOUT TO GO LOUISIANA WHERE MY FIANCE WAS LIVING. JUST WANNA KNOW IF I HAVE A KABABAYAN GOING TO LIVE ALSO THERE....ARE THERE ANYBODY???

which city in louisiana r u moving in?
abby n sheryl

QUOTE (LÜvtechwifey @ Dec 16 2009, 03:59 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'm here in LA too. Just an hour away from Lafayette.
Ville Platte is my place. =)

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HELLO GUYS, I AM ABOUT TO GO LOUISIANA WHERE MY FIANCE WAS LIVING. JUST WANNA KNOW IF I HAVE A KABABAYAN GOING TO LIVE ALSO THERE....ARE THERE ANYBODY???


Hi, i live in alexandria, pineville, la. Good luck and welcome to USA. smile.gif

Oh, I was just in Alex 2 days ago for my Christmas Shopping. smile.gif

I badly want to have some Pinay friends around, it would be nice if all the ladies here who is bound or in LA already can get together too.
That's something we can look forward, eh? smile.gif


hey kathleen i love ur saints sign here. go saints.............
abby n sheryl


haha Abby.. First of all, my name is not kathleen. lol.. Ask Sheryl about it.

Yeah, Saints is really doin so well.. I can say they are goin for Superbowl. good.gif
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2009-12-16 17:12:00
PhilippinesANYBODY HERE LIVING IN LOUISIANA?
I'm here in LA too. Just an hour away from Lafayette.
Ville Platte is my place. =)

QUOTE (Nelly228 @ Dec 16 2009, 11:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (robbie jeannet @ Dec 16 2009, 04:22 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
HELLO GUYS, I AM ABOUT TO GO LOUISIANA WHERE MY FIANCE WAS LIVING. JUST WANNA KNOW IF I HAVE A KABABAYAN GOING TO LIVE ALSO THERE....ARE THERE ANYBODY???


Hi, i live in alexandria, pineville, la. Good luck and welcome to USA. smile.gif

Oh, I was just in Alex 2 days ago for my Christmas Shopping. smile.gif

I badly want to have some Pinay friends around, it would be nice if all the ladies here who is bound or in LA already can get together too.
That's something we can look forward, eh? smile.gif

Edited by LÜvtechwifey, 16 December 2009 - 03:01 PM.

Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2009-12-16 14:59:00
PhilippinesFilipino Dishes
Hm, let's see.. since I am from BICOL, I would suggest bicol express. I dont think your sweety has already tasted it.
If you aren't really familiar with the dish, it's like this.

You will need
-Coconut milk, (they dont have fresh ones, only in cans)
-of course meat should be pork or if you prefer pork fat
-pepper, cut it into pieces
-( i dont think they have equal stuff just like bagoong here) lol
-seasoning and salt
-onions and garlic cut 'em into pieces too.

Just let the coconut milk boil and put everything in there. and balance your desire taste.

My husband loves this dish cause it's soo hot. He said it has unique taste..

Edited by my_panacea = Greg, 28 August 2008 - 05:03 PM.

Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2008-08-28 17:00:00
PhilippinesI HAD NO CLUE WHAT THE CONSUL'S DECISION WAS.. I JUST HAD MY INTERVIEW TODAY. I GOT HUMILIATED...,
I'm sorry about the whole interview experience.
I don't know if that consul was the little chubby, because if he was, I have heard that he really does scrutinize peeps.

IMHO, You, having your mom and brother here in States really raised a red flag especially when your mom has a US cit husband.
Some takes like a month or two to be out of AP. Just keep your hopes high.
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2009-12-18 10:50:00
PhilippinesUSCitizen or Filipino-USCitizen?
You have like 3 years to think about this if things work out well.
Its way to early. :whistle:
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2010-01-28 21:05:00
Philippines1ST TIME IMMIGRANT VISA AIRFARE to SAN FRANCISCO
You can inquire at Alisto travel and ask for Lali. here email ad is alistotravellali@yahoo.com
She can give you the dates which immigrant visa discount is available.

I got my 1st time immigrant discount Manila-Los angeles direct flight via PAL for only $ 578.90

Fare: $396
Foreign Taxes: $148.60
Ph Taxes: $34.30
Total: $578.90
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2010-01-28 21:11:00
Philippineswhy do Pinays
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QUOTE (JelloShotGirl @ Dec 6 2009, 11:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
????



Pinays dont only marry white men...most of them marry Filipinos. Some marry blacks, latinos, chinese... any ethnicity. Pinays marry men, period.


Meron pang isang tanong Ria, Why white men prefers Pinay? laughing.gif

Wow, preggy kana pala. Congrats ha.



E maganda daw tayo! ahahaha!

at huli ka na sa balita! nanganak na ako! hahahaha! kumusta na?


owww, Congrats!!!
Its just that I don't check the pregnant thread. I would love to see some pics of your little angel.
I bet you have FB or FS, kindly Pm me your email ad. smile.gif

take it easy girl. Enjoy your motherhood.
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2009-12-12 20:36:00
Philippineswhy do Pinays
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QUOTE (godsgift @ Dec 7 2009, 07:13 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

QUOTE
To me a Man is the King of the Household, he makes the decision for the family and the woman should support his decisions....... good.gif



The man is the King of the Household indeed, but the woman is the Ace whistling.gif

Marriage is not about leadership but PARTNERSHIP.


Yes, the man is the head of the household...the woman is the neck that makes the head turn smile.gif

QUOTE (LÜvtechwifey @ Dec 9 2009, 03:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I am wondering what made you asked yourself why did you marry your partner then... blink.gif unsure.gif


Since you obviously didn't read her other posts, I'll answer for you...SHE IS AMERICAN AND HER HUSBAND IS PHILIPINE. So, the question does not apply to her situation.


haha.. read! didn't you notice I used "partner". yeah, I can read. whistling.gif



QUOTE (tallcoolone @ Dec 11 2009, 05:47 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Cacerez @ Dec 10 2009, 02:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
SHE IS AMERICAN AND HER HUSBAND IS PHILIPINE. So, the question does not apply to her situation.


Where is Philipine?

Is it close to the East Texas Piney Forest?


haha, TLC. good.gif

Edited by LÜvtechwifey, 10 December 2009 - 04:37 PM.

Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2009-12-10 16:35:00
Philippineswhy do Pinays
QUOTE (STEPHnRIA @ Dec 11 2009, 04:32 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (JelloShotGirl @ Dec 6 2009, 11:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
????



Pinays dont only marry white men...most of them marry Filipinos. Some marry blacks, latinos, chinese... any ethnicity. Pinays marry men, period.


Meron pang isang tanong Ria, Why white men prefers Pinay? laughing.gif

Wow, preggy kana pala. Congrats ha.
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2009-12-10 15:23:00
Philippineswhy do Pinays
I am wondering what made you asked yourself why did you marry your partner then... blink.gif unsure.gif
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2009-12-09 16:15:00
PhilippinesSnowing in Texas
QUOTE (LÜvtechwifey @ Dec 5 2009, 05:17 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
We'll have our snow here in Louisiana tomorrow morning, based from the weather forecast.
I'm bit anxious to witness my first snow here in states.

We'll see.


Here are some pics from our Snowy day. smile.gif








Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2009-12-05 15:09:00
PhilippinesSnowing in Texas
We'll have our snow here in Louisiana tomorrow morning, based from the weather forecast.
I'm bit anxious to witness my first snow here in states.

We'll see.
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2009-12-04 15:17:00
PhilippinesNO CLUE WHATS GOING ON!
I can say that your husband has no amount of respect for you. He doesn't care what you feel, he doesn't care what his acts affects your marriage. And he is choosing this girl over you... the wife.

How can he treat you like this when he knows that the root of every argument you both have is that "FRIEND" next door.
Girl, save yourself from deeper heartache. This man will not stop his acts until he sees you broken into pieces.
I know there is the other side of the page but, as you have mentioned... you spoke with him about this issue couple of times and still, he seems doesn't care at all.

Talk to him once again, and tell him that you are not happy about what is happening between you and him. if he continues to have such a colorful friendship with your neighbor, CUT THE ####### and go home. You will find a man more worthy of your time, love and affection.

Edited by LÜvtechwifey, 03 January 2010 - 10:24 PM.

Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2010-01-03 22:23:00
Philippinespasensya na po
I'm sorry to hear such a hoarse happening to you.
Your future husband is pretty insensitive, but it not going to end unless otherwise you do something for him to be fully aware that you are getting pissed off how attached he is to his step daughter. Yeah, let's say he loves his step daughter, but there has to be a limit now how he'd like to see memories that reminds him about his past since you are now his present.

As what others said, Sit down and talk... if you already talked to him and still doesn't work. then put your ex's picture too in your computer, which of course I don't recommend for you to do. headbonk.gif

Just calm down.

Edited by my_panacea = Greg, 23 January 2009 - 01:21 AM.

Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2009-01-23 01:20:00
PhilippinesHas anyone gotten a chest X-ray in the Philippines before the medical exam?

I was thinking of having my fiancee get a chest X-ray before the St. Luke's medical exam to find out if she will need a sputum test. I am 99% positive she doesn't have active TB now, but a neighbor in her village died from TB when she was a kid. She doesn't remember having a TB infection, but I can't rule out the possibility that she has latent TB or that something will show up on her chest X-ray that requires a sputum test. And I heard that the St. Luke's clinic is particularly strict with any abnormal speck or dot that shows up on a chest X-ray. So do you think an early X-ray is a good idea or not?

I want to go with her to the St. Luke's medical exam, but I can't stay in the Philippines long enough to wait for a sputum test or TB treatment if either is necessary. And I really don't want to have to leave the Philippines without her!

Can anyone just walk into a doctor's office or hospital and request a chest X-ray? Has anyone here does that before? If so, do you have any idea about the best place (hospital, clinic, doctor's office) to go and how much it will cost?

Thanks in advance for your help!


You can have thousands of thousands of Xray and bring it to St lukes, but none of these will be valid.
So just wait or have an advance medical in St. Lukes for your immigration process.
Good luck!
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2010-03-07 00:14:00
PhilippinesGREEN CARD WAITING TIME
I received my GC and SSN card altogether in just 10 days.
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2010-03-07 00:28:00
PhilippinesWe are pregnant!!
Congratulations!!!
May she have a blissful pregnancy.

Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2010-03-07 00:25:00
Philippinesmedical at st. lukes
For me, I would suggest to take it after before lunch. I was there before 12 noon, and done in just 2 hours.
As long as you know your Case number, passport, you should be good. :)
Good luck.
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2010-03-21 21:38:00
PhilippinesDental Health during medical ?
They do check for dental issues. But none of it would be a concern.
Literally, they would count how many teeth you still have, if you have denture(false teeth, or pustiso)and they will take down notes on that.
They won't do anything on your teeth on the medical day,however if the physician ask you to fix it, then might as well do it.
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2010-03-22 08:04:00
PhilippinesNOA2 TODAY!

Holy #######! I gotta clean my house, and empty her side of the closet, and get the garden planted, and get her a dresser, and buy welcome gifts, and actually use my treadmill, and shave, and I better get busy.... :bonk:


Better hurry. She is almost home. :D
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2010-03-22 13:02:00
PhilippinesNOA2 TODAY!
Keep it rolling!
Congrats!
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2010-03-21 21:29:00
PhilippinesPre-nuptial agreement

Your case of not signing the pre-nuptial is understandable coz as you mentioned he does not have assets.

But why would a guy without any assets would ask her wife-to-be sign pre-nuptial? Does it indicate that the pre-nuptial is so widely acceptable here that even a guy without assets do it.

I always associate pre-nuptial with assets. Please educate me if i'm wrong. If there is no assets, i could not find the logic in doing a pre-nuptial without assets.


As to what I can remember, he will be RECEIVING a good amount of inheritance from his mom. That's prolly why he asked me for pre-nup.
However, my then fiance now husband talked over things and I clearly cited to him that if he doesn't trust me, or he is in doubt of me, then, he is very free to not marry me. He apologized and now, we are about to celebrate our 2nd yr anniv.
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2010-03-22 13:00:00
PhilippinesPre-nuptial agreement
I understand why your aspiring husband would ask you to sign pre-nup. But as echoed above, he should have asked you earlier even before you arrived here in the States. As for me, when I WAS asked to sign one, I NEVER sign it since he doesn't even have assets to begin with. I was pretty insulted at first.
If you know your intentions are true and clean on marrying your husband, I would stand on my point that he doesn't have to ask me a pre-nup.
Marriage is "what ever is yours is mine, and whatever is mine is yours".

Edited by Cutie_Patootie, 22 March 2010 - 08:10 AM.

Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2010-03-22 08:09:00
PhilippinesNewest addition to the family
What a good nature.
Congratulations to both of you. :)
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2010-03-23 16:59:00
PhilippinesSputnum test

Again for give me she tells me if it come back negative she might get an interview with in two weeks is this so? And she might file and get a Waiver for it to be treated in USA has anyone done this if so How do u do this??????????

PLEASE HELP


If its negative. Then great. She can have an interview date again (to be scheduled by St. Lukes at the embassy)
if its positive.. She can't have any interview date until she is CURED, which she has to go back at St Lukes everyday for 6 months.
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2010-03-26 22:46:00
PhilippinesVisa received today
Congratulations!
Tell her Welcome to the Pelican state!
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2010-03-26 22:30:00
PhilippinesLooking for the best deal on phone service: USA/Philippines
If she has a good connection on her internet,and she has land phone line, the BEST way is for you to purchase a MAGICJACK (or her buy the magicjack in PI). for only $19.95/YR YOU and her will have solid communication.

Her, having a magicjack will allow her to have a US number that you can call anytime, and unlimited which should not cost you a penny if your mobile provider cover nationwide calling. The magic jack is just a plug in play USB that should be connected to a handset so she can utilize its feature.

I hope that helps!

Edited by Cutie_Patootie, 28 March 2010 - 01:45 PM.

Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2010-03-28 13:44:00
Philippinesfor the guys!! How do YOU deal with Tampo?
TAMPO = I want something!!!
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2010-03-26 22:50:00
PhilippinesDon't know what to expect
From my previous post on your other thread.

"If its negative. Then great. She can have an interview date again (to be scheduled by St. Lukes at the embassy)
if its positive.. She can't have any interview date until she is CURED, which she has to go back at St Lukes everyday for 6 months. "
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2010-03-28 13:31:00
PhilippinesSending package to philippines
Shame of Phil postal system!!!

I sent my mom the peso bills that I brought here in the states amounting to Php 2,700 which was suppose to be my pocket money. That was like Nov '09. I thought there will be an available money changer on the day that I had my POE (for my food, and stuff). But then there wasn't since I arrived night time at LAX.

ok.. So the envelop was comprised of 2.5K peso bills, an atm card (account is blocked now)for my bank in PI( I accidentally brought it with me so I had to return it home), and a letter. The bills and ATM was sealed and there's no way they can see it through from outside. I know it is risky to send this type of belongings but I threw a shot.

So in my despair, I called USPS to tell them about the concern. They said, the item was not traceable by the time it goes out of the US. YES, it went out of US territory.

So SHAME on Phil postal system and postal people. They are so hard to entrust with the service that they are rendering.
It's better to use private courier than expect your stuffs to be stolen!
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2010-03-29 22:57:00
Philippinesmy moms tourist visa 1st time applicant
Jons, Congratulations!
I know you have gone through a lot of hardships from your process down to Sophie.

My hailing happiness for your and Milo. <3

Edited by LÜvtechwifey, 07 March 2010 - 12:32 AM.

Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2010-03-07 00:30:00
PhilippinesMy life is over....
I'm so sorry about how things went in your end. (F)

I, myself can't stand a marriage that has violence, immaturity, and selfishness involve. Assuming that she was a good wife to you all these years, but the way she has been acting lately is something that she has forgotten to act out as a wife. Each story has two sides. But as I can see, she has some troubling thoughts why she was acting like that. Ask yourself as well if is there anything that you might have done that caused the marriage to slowly deteriorate.

Tough love. If she wants to go, let her go. I know its going to be hard but you have to walk through and save yourself from more damaging situation.
Good luck!
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2010-03-26 22:27:00
Philippinesquestion about bringing money out of PI
What I can suggest is, she should bring more dollar bills than peso ones since she will just need to pay Php750 for the terminal fee and (x) travel tax (if not yet included in the ticket). If she can exchange peso bills into dollar of at least $150 for her trip while she is still in the Philippines, that would be enough. If she bring too many peso bills and expect to exchange it in the money changer in the airport, chances are she will end up sending it back to the Philippines like I did though I only brought Php 2,000. If she arrives at night in the airport say LAX with just peso bills, and would want to convert it to $$..not gonna happen. Changers are closed after 8PM in most humongous airports.

Snap! $150 for the trip should be enough id she doesn't have long layovers and stops. As she will be fed in the plane.
Cutie_PatootieFemalePhilippines2010-04-18 00:37:00