Forum	Title	Content	Member	Sex	Country	Date/Time
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedures	Hit a major snag... it may be over	That's fine, but not necessary. You do not qualify on last years income. You qualify with current income. There is no need at all for the government to get money they did not earn in order for her to appear to make more than she did. For example, lets say you were self employed all of 2010 and do your taxes in February and write off ALL your income and show a loss. THEN in March you get a regular job making $45,000 per year and fill out the I-134 in April. What is your current income in April? $45,000 per year. What does last year's loss have to do with anything? Nothing. Or you can show a profit in April from your business when you do the I-134. The number of people that get visas approved now when they had very low income the year before is huge... alomost all students, for example. Student last year, employed in a job this year. Making $40,000 this year...-0- last year. No problem. Seems like the OP has it well under control. She should answer that she is self employed and combine all her forms of income to arrive at the statement of her current annual income and then attach documentation of each. I would advise her against paying more in tax than needed. Since I've done this before I would have to disagree. If you are employed by someone else this makes sense but for self-employed you have to establish that you have constant income. Being self-employed you can lie through your teeth about what you make and they know that. If I didn't have a job I could write down whatever I want for this year and it's unprovable until you file my taxes next year. So If you show a good amount of income for the previous year makes it more believable when you tell them your unprovable income for the current year. Self Employed gets cash and 1099's. Edited by soulprovider915, 12 October 2010 - 09:42 AM.	soulprovider915	Male	Ecuador	2010-10-12 09:40:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedures	Hit a major snag... it may be over	We've hit a major major snag and things may have to be called off because of it. Even though I work 7 days a week at 2 jobs and get a hefty child support payment a month, I still don't make enough for a family of 4. I am self employed. This year I will make about $23,000.00. I also work another job that I make about $15,000.00 a year at. I also get $1600.00 a month in child support. Yep, sounds great doesnt it? Here's the problem: 1. Because I am self employed I have to count my income as what I make AFTER business expenses. Well, when you are self employed there are A LOT of expenses. So that cuts that income in about half. 2. My ex pays my mortgage every month instead of giving me the cash directly. It's a verbal agreement we have. He has written a letter stating that he is obligated to pay me $1600.00 a month but in lieu of cash, he pays the mortgage. It has been signed by both of us an notarized. But because of this I cannot count his support as income. 3. Even though I technically make over $50,000.oo a year I still don't make the $125% over poverty to support a family of 4. 4. I am an only child so I have no siblings who would co-sponsor. And my parents are retired and wouldnt even cosign a car loan for me. They've always been the type of parents who insist on me making it on my own. My fiance and I are devastated. If anyone has any suggestions, please help. I don't want to lose this dream because of this. thank you, Lori Hi, I'm self employed and I had to go through this. It's almost the end of the year. Take most of your expenses and throw them out the window for this year's taxes and get yourself above the 125% poverty line. You'll pay more in taxes, but your love for each other is strong so it won't matter. File ASAP in January or February and there you go. If you can't afford the extra taxes make a payment plan with the IRS. I've done this many times and they have never given me a problem. The government is not going to care if you give them more money. You're not obligated to report all of your expenses, just all of your income. If you do this you'll have no problem. I've done it with great success. You'll have your future spouse's income when he arrives here. Live your dream!!!	soulprovider915	Male	Ecuador	2010-10-12 01:00:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedures	DS-156	Hello, I'm helping someone fill out a K-1. Her Fiancee in Ecuador doesn't know any English. Since the ds-156 is an Electronic form could we fill it out here an list someone else as helping him with the form then send it to him for him to sign and print? Could we print it here? Thanks! Edited by soulprovider915, 05 January 2013 - 01:10 PM.	soulprovider915	Male	Ecuador	2013-01-05 13:05:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	all VJ members who recieve NVC RFE..pls..pls..share ur story here...	I got an RFE from the NVC for "Original Birth Certificate", "Original Marriage Certificate" and "DS-2019 from Prior VISA" I guess the certified copies weren't good enough for the birth cert and marriage cert, and Wife had to dig up a DS-2019 from 2004/2008. Now all those docs have been at the NVC for 2 weeks. no AVR update, no trace of NVC doing anything except for my FedEX delivery confirmation. They sure are taking their sweet sweet time with this.	kayo_michael	Male	Ireland	2010-11-16 15:50:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	March 2010 CR1 filers	I Got an email this morning at 10:00am Eastern. Receipt Number: WAC1017513*** Application Type: I130 , IMMIGRANT PETITION FOR RELATIVE, FIANCE(E), OR ORPHAN Your Case Status: Post Decision Activity On July 30, 2010, we mailed you a notice that we have approved this I130 IMMIGRANT PETITION FOR RELATIVE, FIANCE(E), OR ORPHAN. Please follow any instructions on the notice. If you move before you receive the notice, call customer service at 1-800-375-5283.	kayo_michael	Male	Ireland	2010-08-02 09:24:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	March 2010 CR1 filers	I'm happy to see someone with 3/30 NOA1 was approved. My NOA1 was also 3/30. I hope to see my NOA2 in the near future. I will update my timeline once I get my good news.	kayo_michael	Male	Ireland	2010-07-23 09:55:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	March 2010 CR1 filers	Right now. I would say another 5-7 months atleast for march filers. If they start approving soon, then this time would be less than 4 months if everything goes right without any RFE. So we're looking at sometime around (big emphasis) end of October to end of December. I hope I don't have any RFE's since we're working with a professional. The main reason we went with a lawyer is to prevent any delays. Thanks for the feedback.	kayo_michael	Male	Ireland	2010-05-28 12:31:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	March 2010 CR1 filers	I just wanted to say hi to my fellow March filers. I am patiently waiting for my NOA2 as well. Question: When do you expext your spouse to be able to immigrate into the US? With all the information available online, it's been tricky to make a good approximation. 6 months? 9 months? 12 months?	kayo_michael	Male	Ireland	2010-05-28 12:18:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	12x14 envelope	My wife got some letters from NVC stating the she needed to bring a 12x14 envelope to the interview. I'm helping her from the USA and I'm having a difficult time finding an envelope of such size. Where did you find yours? I called staples and they don't carry in that size... Thanks,	kayo_michael	Male	Ireland	2011-01-10 15:39:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	Don't try to think get some help from Lawyer...they're stupid!!!	NVC Stuff - DS-230 - http://travel.state..../info_3190.html I-864 - http://travel.state..../info_3730.html General NVC stuff - http://travel.state..../info_1335.html and the Grand-Daddy of all short Cuts - LingChe's Shortcuts - at http://www.visajourn...he_NVC_ShortCut [that'll be 300 venison jiaozi, please, in lieu of cash payment ] Thank you! I will bring this up to my lawyer the next time I sit down with her. -M	kayo_michael	Male	Ireland	2010-06-04 07:17:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	Don't try to think get some help from Lawyer...they're stupid!!!	Your husband can send in the documents himself, no need to wait on lawyer, once the casefile is at NVC. IMO, using a lawyer who wants to wait on postal mail from NVC ACTUALLY slows down the process - usually 3 to 6 months . If you'd like to tell your husband to 'submit them himself' - just remind him - it doesn't matter if the documents come from him or the lawyer, at NVC stage. Husband has a DS-230 that you signed ? He can handle the I-864 himself. Addresses on 'where to send' are in the coversheets, to be printed from the online payment portal website. I tend to have violent reactions to news similar to yours, suggesting a PARTIAL refund from any attorney, due to attorney's ignorance. When he refuses to pay the partial refund, is great reason to file in small claims court. IMO, you have enough fodder to prove that the lawyer is wrong, and a judge would make the award to your husband. Don't worry about this now, just remember it's something else to be done (if you want), later, after you are in the USA. Good Luck ! Sorry to hijack this thread with a lengthy post, but I'm new to this and I just want some clarification. (and also say not ALL lawyers are stupid) From what i'm grasping from this toppic, the OP is frustrated because her lawyer is waiting for a written notice from the NVC before taking action to submit the supporting docs? Which means, the supporting docs can be sent before the notice is in hand? If so, I see how this could expedite the process, but by much as 3-6 months? how? When exactly after my NOA2 can I submit the required documentation to the NVC? I am working with a lawyer. I am just making sure I'm educated on the process so I don't just follow the lawyers advice blindly. This is how I was able to make an educated decision and switch lawyers. My first lawyer wasn't only expensive, unavailable, and would not listen to what I had to say because I wasn't the "expert", but strongly suggested we do a K-3 because "it's faster". My current lawyer is VERY pleasant to work with. Her legal assistants are always answering my calls and questions, appointments are conveniently available after work, has 100's of immigration AND deportation cases under her sleeve, and she knows exactly what I want. When I presented my case to her she said "Criminal history? no. Bad Financial? no. Legitimate marriage? yes. This is a PIECE OF CAKE!" I gave her all the required information, all i had to do was signed the dotted lines, and I don't have to worry about RFE's. The piece of mind she gives me is worth the money. I still visit VJ and other sites because I want to educate myself on the whole CR-1/I-130 process. Where can I go exactly to read up on the 'tips and tricks?' (exact timing and timeline of these events and procedures)? OP, how did you know you can submit forms before the notice arrives? Thanks.	kayo_michael	Male	Ireland	2010-06-03 13:47:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	How much is your phone bill?	I have the skype app installed on my iPhone and make calls over 3G. The unlimited calling plan to Ireland costs me about $10/month. iPhone 3GS: $200 AT&T Voice: $50 AT&T Data: $30 Skype: $10 Intl Text: $10 So initial setup cost me $200 and the monthly is about $100. But even if my wife was living here with me I would be paying for the same thing(change intl text plan to domestic) minus Skype. So really it only costs me $10. I use the 3G data network to make skype calls so it doesn't use any of my mobile minutes. Once she moves over, her iPhone will have skype so she can talk to her parents back home.	kayo_michael	Male	Ireland	2010-08-03 15:47:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	NVC required Documents and information??	Good morning VJ amigos! I have a couple of questions. My Lawyer recommends I get a Bank Letter from the institution whom I bank with. Is this really necessary? I've been gathering all other required documents and information, but I thought I didn't need a bank letter unless I was near the poverty line. Can I submit my pay stubs instead? The reason I ask is because my bank tells me it will take approximately 2 weeks for the bank letter to be delivered. I don't want to wait that long. Previous years tax information. I've also been told to get a tax transcript for 2009, 2008, and 2007. Problem is I didn't file taxes in 2007 because I didn't work (in college was student), and I only made about $10,000 working part-time in 2008. I work a full time job since May 2009. Lawyer believes I may have to get a co-sponser. Why do I have to have 3 years of income history to show I'm capable of supporting my wife and she is not going to be a burden to the government welfare system? My monthly paystubs shows I make over 400% above the poverty threshold! I understand my lawyer is erring on the side of safety, but I don't want to delay this any longer than it needs be. Can someone offer me some advice?	kayo_michael	Male	Ireland	2010-08-25 08:47:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	Current timeline from I-864 and DS-3032	thanks loto. I'll call her on monday to find out exactly what was mailed to NVC. I was okay to leave after we filled out the 864, she said "i'll take care of the rest" and rest i think she meant the 230 package. I'll call to double check.	kayo_michael	Male	Ireland	2010-09-19 20:00:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	Current timeline from I-864 and DS-3032	AOS and IV fee have already been paid online by me a few weeks ago. Does this help move things along? Edited by kayo_michael, 19 September 2010 - 07:01 PM.	kayo_michael	Male	Ireland	2010-09-19 18:59:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	Current timeline from I-864 and DS-3032	Ugh, typo... and i don't know how to edit my original post... Meant to sat DS-230, not DS-3032, sorry for the confusion.	kayo_michael	Male	Ireland	2010-09-19 17:54:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	Current timeline from I-864 and DS-3032	I had an appointment with our lawyer on Friday and We filled out the I-864. She told me she will fill out the DS-3032 and get it in the mail same day. So my question is, what is the current trend in processing time at the NVC like? I see some people that were on the ball have an interview date already, but I can't really figure out how long it's taking the NVC to case compete. Can anyone help me? I want a rough estimate of when the NVC case complete will be. Is it likely to have an interview date by christmas? P.S. what else do I have to do now? we were told get ready for medical, and start scrap booking some evidence of our relationship for the interview. Thanks VJ!	kayo_michael	Male	Ireland	2010-09-19 17:42:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	RFE for J1 Visa Foreign Residence Requirement HELP!	Sorry to resurrect this old thread, but we just got RFE'ed for the same thing. Beneficiary was here on 2 visas prior, both time J-1's I believe. We have yet to receive the letter for detailed info, but I am proactively trying to gather info so we aren't as delayed in the end. I don't think we will be able to find the original IAP-66 or VISA forms. What did you guys do to get through this RFE?	kayo_michael	Male	Ireland	2010-10-22 15:28:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	Interview Schedule at NVC	Last week when I got my CC at NVC I asked the operator about when they schedule the interview dates. They told me they schedule interviews during the second week of every month. my question is, is this week of 6th-10th the second week of December? Should I expect to get an interview date this week?	kayo_michael	Male	Ireland	2010-12-06 09:04:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	Money Transfers	I am currently looking into a similar situation as well. my research tells me it all depends on the amount you are sending. The lower the amount, you are better off with westernunion or moneygram. If the amount gets higher then you are better off going with a bank. This is because the money transfer services like WU and MG make their profit from the exchange rates. They have ####### exchange rates, but cheap service fees. Banks on the other hand have reasonable exchange rates, with high fees. I would just do the math and see which would be the better option.	kayo_michael	Male	Ireland	2011-01-12 08:58:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	POE	I'm interested in this too. My wife will be coming in through JFK. Thanks.	kayo_michael	Male	Ireland	2011-01-18 21:34:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	after POE, what now?	I've been pretty much hands off through the whole process of our CR-1 because we had an immigration lawyer. However, with the wealth of information available on this website I feel that I can do the rest on my own. What's the next step after POE? I know there is the removal of conditions during 90 days before the 2 years, but other than that I have no information. Is there a separate forum for ppl after POE? Can someone point me in the right direction? Thanks	kayo_michael	Male	Ireland	2011-01-31 09:19:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	Sheka I know how u feel I felt the same way when ppl around me were gettin approved and not me.......ur time soon come Wow Yankee can u imagine they will be two in no time.....I swear the days are goin by so fast...before you know it the year is ova....den its ur wedding! Awwww Bunz we miss u....weh yuh deh and how come u not my friend on fb!?!? QUOTE (Mrs. Palmer @ Oct 27 2009, 11:23 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I cannot wait...5 more sleeps until I hear the first bumbaclaat because the dog has jumped in the bed and taken over the pillows! QUOTE (thisislove @ Oct 27 2009, 11:57 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> wha gwan massive??????????? sorry, i haven't been around.. i am really focused here at work, i hope it pays off in a promotion.. Well just wanted to update u guys.. we got our interview letter in the mail yesterday!! NOV 30th 11:30!!! i am stunned, cuz i was sure we would have a late dec interview.. Praise God for his favor! now let that EAD hurry up and come!! God bless u all on ur individual journeys.. big up di approvals and other milestones.. condolences for the disappointments and frustrated but God's will in due time! YAY!!! QUOTE (Jo & Danny @ Oct 27 2009, 01:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hi Haymsmorgan, I noticed that we have similar timelines. How did you mail your DS 230? I email mine on October 16th and also overnight it the same day - tracking show they received it on October 20th and the package 3 was mail on the 10/20, still have not received it. Called DOS this morning still not showing it in the system. Does anyone know how long it takes to hit the system? I have also sent three follow up emails with no response. Thanks a bunch and good luck for a speedy interview date. Hi Jo & Danny I emailed the DS-230 on the 10/15 and mailed the DS-230 on 10/16.....but I called DOS today and they said that packet three was sent out 10/26....idk if they processed the Ds-230 either.....I have gotten an email saying that as soon as the docs are processed I will get a date.....im hoping I will know soon.....did you write 2nd request in the Subject line along with ur KNG # and try both email addresses Mstee I guess u gotta go out and buy a coat this weekend......wouldnt want the goods to freeze off....ROFL! QUOTE (Jamerican Queen @ Oct 27 2009, 04:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Good Afternoon Hays I know im late was catching up! I can't wait to hear from Heaven I know she said she will be back tonite....hopefully we get an update Edited by Haymsmorgan, 27 October 2009 - 04:14 PM.	.:MzMorgan:.	Female	Jamaica	2009-10-27 16:10:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	Hey Yardies	.:MzMorgan:.	Female	Jamaica	2009-10-27 15:35:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	Jamerican Im glad ur mother in law is feeling somewhat better....and what hubby is doing is a typical Jamaican thing......oh hope ur filing is a quick one!!! I know many who beleive in not sharing certain info even to those u beleive are ur friends because ppl are badmind.....Ryon said hes not tellin till hes gettin ready to leave also Sheka SunRay that was a good article! Heaven sorry u didnt get the medical as of yet........i would feel the same way after goin thru this process....but I will be praying for you .....can't wait to hear the news tmrrw! Jap I didnt know u had gestational diabetes but im glad ur feelin better and safe travels next week! Jakeswife the babies are adorable......glad everyone is ok.....in no time Jacob will be home.....CONGRATS Cant wait to see the pics from the welcome Home party Jamerican Q	.:MzMorgan:.	Female	Jamaica	2009-10-26 23:27:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	ok off to take a nap....havin a bad headache....will chat later	.:MzMorgan:.	Female	Jamaica	2009-10-23 12:36:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	Hey Ladyc, Jamerican, Irie and JaP.....gonna go catch up now! Edited by Haymsmorgan, 23 October 2009 - 12:21 PM.	.:MzMorgan:.	Female	Jamaica	2009-10-23 12:20:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (*SunRay* @ Oct 21 2009, 11:07 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hey Yardies.... Sus, how did things go with the car. Irie, I love Tierra's costume. She is so damn cute. I'm going to buy myslef the Wii since it went on sale. lol maybe hubby would like that instead of trying to wrestle with me all damn day. Putting me in head locks and #######. This will give him something to do. lol Sounds like fun......u guys can play plenty of games together! QUOTE (IrieCat @ Oct 21 2009, 12:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Tierra in her costume.. for those who havent seen on FB She is sooooo adorable....luv the creativity with the costume!!! QUOTE (*SunRay* @ Oct 21 2009, 02:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Chiney*Eyes @ Oct 21 2009, 10:57 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (finesse @ Oct 21 2009, 01:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> mi fren juss bring me chocolate chip brownies FINESSE..YUH ONGLY A SEY DAT NOW..U WAIT TIL YUH CYAA TEK OFF DI WEIGHT Damn, what's my problem. I don't even have any yet. Sheesh. Was thinkin the same thing SunRay QUOTE (Jamerican Queen @ Oct 21 2009, 03:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> MRS P- reply on breeding I know what you mean girl... My hubby just came from JA 2 months ago and all he do is sneaking around and wanting a sexy party (or a finesse party) daily. In the kitchen in the living room. Im tired, but he want to breed me so ima stop taking my bc next year cuz he dont know im still on it. SHHHHHH! VJ Im ready but I want to make sure I dont have any more vacays in the near future because I would hate to say I cant go on the cruise due to a big belly. Lets see how long u can keep this from him....hope u aint drink none of the water or ur next...lol QUOTE (sus @ Oct 21 2009, 09:23 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Mrs. Palmer @ Oct 21 2009, 08:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (1luv @ Oct 21 2009, 08:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I have been off the bc for 2 months now and nuttin. U guys trying? Mi neva kno dat! I have been off since Feb (not my choice)...we've been using the "prayer method" I am familiar with the prayer method - it will be interesting to see which one of us has a stronger prayer In time we shall know	.:MzMorgan:.	Female	Jamaica	2009-10-21 21:47:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	Hey JQ Im Haymsmorgan Im 5'7 Im a Capricorn I luv to read, cook/eat, and spend time with family/close friends	.:MzMorgan:.	Female	Jamaica	2009-10-20 22:15:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (IrieCat @ Oct 20 2009, 02:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Oh JG when you said "chi chi" that reminds me.... When Louis and I went out to the island to go to "reggae sunday" this summer... I was standing to him (real close I must say) and talking. This girl yells to him from about 6 feet away... "hey mon" in her best Jamaican accent... "You from Jamaica mon"... "yeah mon"... Oh she sounded like a drunk idiot... He said "no I am from st lucia" ... she says "WHERE???" "What are you a chi chi man".... Louis says "EXCUSE ME?" He only knew what it meant cause his roomate in SLU was Jamaican. Oh her face went blank and she said sorry and turned away... I think she thought she was all cute talking in "patois".... she almost got her #### kicked! Whoooa! Oh I can't stand these girls sometimes! Bwoy she was scared of Louis......why would she say that.....damn idiot QUOTE (mstee @ Oct 20 2009, 03:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> We scared to have sexy day.. I can't even have babies and Im scared! LOL MsTee.....finesse tryna get the rest of us Yardies pregnant	.:MzMorgan:.	Female	Jamaica	2009-10-20 22:01:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (*SunRay* @ Oct 20 2009, 10:40 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> News Flash... Did anyone see on the news that a guy was arrested for espinage? That nut worked in my office. Spies everywhere. Wow SunRay....thats crazy you never know the people u work with! Portland I know U feel caught in the middle with the drama of hubby and baby mama.....like many was sayin I dont beleive this woman is ova him and so she doesnt want nothing to do with you no matter how much u help. Also just the thought of u raising her child (whether its a better life or not) is making her upset....no mother would want to lose their child, but since it would have only been for a few months at a time i dont see the problem. She could have saved you a whole lot of damn money if she made up her mind earlier! Jap I know u cant wait to leave....Nov. 5 will be here b4 you know it QUOTE (PortlandAngel @ Oct 20 2009, 02:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> We were doing the K2 but she wasn't going to live with us permantly, her mother said no, and I can understand that. But we were going to get her 3 months out of the year, and see how that works for now and make any other decison later. But hubby asked her over and over before she went back and forth changing her mind and before we the contacted the embassy he asked her again, and she was ok with what they worked out. That's what I can't deal with all this back and forth. She called the other day and I answerd his phone she asked if she can speak to her child's father, I was like who is that? lol! Bwoy Portland she really facety and bright.......mi woulda hang up and tell her when she find some manners fi call back (kissteet) Edited by Haymsmorgan, 20 October 2009 - 09:59 PM.	.:MzMorgan:.	Female	Jamaica	2009-10-20 21:59:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	Hey Haymsmorgan, IrieCat, 1luv, jawi876, Shaunsgal and all other Yardies, Gonna catch up....soo happy its not too many pages!	.:MzMorgan:.	Female	Jamaica	2009-10-20 20:15:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (*JG* @ Oct 19 2009, 10:12 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Well, after 2 months of studying my butt off, having someone quiz me almost every other day, taking the various online pre-tests, and 15 hours of classes this weekend............... I PASSED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 98%. Missed just one. I can now go buy any hunter licenses I wish and any hunting firearm. I went yesterday and bought bibs, a coat, boots, orange vest and orange hat. I am stylin the camo! And if it doesn't work out, I can get a part-time job as a school crossing guard Wow JG u finally have what u want..Great job on the test...now enjoy hunting (gotta take a pic of u in ur gear for us to see) QUOTE (BunzTheMagicSnail @ Oct 19 2009, 01:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> ok when you see people who got approved after you mailing off their packages before you, and it's making you angry at everything, that's who you know you need to take a break this process is bringing out my inner bytch right about now i need a break, i am sick of thinking, i am so sick of this i kid you not when i say i feel EXACTLY like my avatar be back next week or whenever i hear something from nvc that leads me to ask a question, whichever is sooner Bunz where are u goin....u've been there for us all during this trying process .....well after ur week break(if u can stay away that long) make sure u come back to us....dont worry its all in God's timing, which is the best time! QUOTE (JAPrincess @ Oct 19 2009, 03:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> afternoon ya'll Good News, the doc says I can still travel!! I am to take it easy when I am there, but he thinks it will be okay. The placenta looks fine in the ultrasound so he thinks it was just a blood vessel in the cervix. I got the afternoon off and am going to go nap. Thanks for all the messages and well wishes Just, congrats on your big day May the two of you have many, many happy years to come! Yay Jap Im glad everything worked out in ur favor..nothing is wrong with u or the baby...so now u can see ur SO in a few weeks! QUOTE (NatPatBen @ Oct 19 2009, 03:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> We went to visit my parents/brother in New Orleans. My mother had us sleep in different rooms (one upstairs, one downstairs). LOL Neither of us could even sneak to the other room, cause the stairs CREAK when you walk down them. I'm not gonna even get started on how different my brother & his fiance were treated when they practically LIVED at my parents house. Other than that, the visit was good. We went to a Blues & BBQ festival then to the French Quarter on Saturday. Also, this was the first time Steven & my brother met. I was curious to see how that would go, but no drama at all. Im glad u guys had a good trip and everything went well with your family and Steven....just wiondering how did Steven feel about not being able to be in the same room? Edited by Haymsmorgan, 20 October 2009 - 12:08 AM.	.:MzMorgan:.	Female	Jamaica	2009-10-20 00:07:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (PortlandAngel @ Oct 16 2009, 07:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Why my step daughter grandmother took her for her medical yesterday and said she need 3 shots and they paid $4500 but they didn't get the medical done cause they needed $9000, so why would you pay $4500 and don't get nothing done. What 18month old child needs 3 shot if she is up to date with her vaccination record!!! I am so calling the medical office Monday, you would want we are dealing with honest ppl and they wouldn't be trying to get over on us.... Nothing more than they spend the money we sent for the medcial and visa and want more...... They not getting it, I am so done with this process!! Wow yuh just can't put nuttin pass certain ppl.....its hard when yuh nuh trust ppl wid money.....best of luck with this Portland QUOTE (acrow @ Oct 17 2009, 07:10 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> But even a tiny baby knows who his/her daddy is. My husband was gone for two weeks. My baby, who is just nine months old, statrted acting a little fussy right after he left. When we finally joined him in Jamaica (for his mom's funeral) my son LOST HIS MIND when he saw his daddy. The poor baby didn't know if he would ever see him again. He was so happy he screamed and laughed...and in the cab on the way to the house my baby laid in his daddy's arms and stared into his face for 45 minutes straight...pure love aaaawwwwww this is an adorable picture in my head! QUOTE (justucia @ Oct 19 2009, 05:31 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> we are getting married today; i can't believe it i can't sleep stay blessed Congrats Just	.:MzMorgan:.	Female	Jamaica	2009-10-19 23:56:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	Evening Yardies, Feel better Mstee Hey Bunz I suggest you mail it in also if they are not responding to ur emails QUOTE (yankeesgirl79 @ Oct 16 2009, 08:03 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> morning yardies! all yardie babies got my vote this morning! hey jess.....well the babes are still in bed so i am not sure how they are yet......they both actually slept all night! leighana was awake with my dad when i got home from work and didnt want to be in bed when i attempted to lay her down so i thought it was going to be one of those nights.....but i ended up finally getting her to go down and she slept right thru...... and on a different note.....i have snow on my damn car......ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Snow.......i would be sooo pissed if I walked outside and saw snow......Hopefully Leighana feels better! QUOTE (SweetSugahDumplin @ Oct 16 2009, 08:16 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hi good morning VJ fam. I need u right now. Youve always been there for me, I have some huge decisions to make ...again....please keep me and my family in your prayers. My mom has canger again. Lung Cancer. Non Small Cell Metastatic Adenocarcinoma. Not cureable and cant operate on the tumor. What do i do? Do i move home? She may not have but a few years left(thats Gods decision ) noone can tell u when u will no longer be on earth. I just moved from NJ to TX. Do i go back, will they even let me come back lol this places me closer to home 2.5 hours and my mom would not have to deal with the stress of selling her home in MD and moving to TX while she is sick. My dad has early onset alzheimers too so i have alot on my plate to think about as well as my lil sweet Sanaa and my husband. What do i do? All i know is i want to see her everyday,who knows when its the last. Especially, my wish is for her to spend as much time with her only grandchild who is just turning 1. I am TORN. I am praying that God tells me what direction to take. Girl you are in prayers this is a hard time for you and a big decision that you must make. Like the other yardies said its a family decision and u also have to take into account jobs/money. Maybe you should take ur daughter on trips to see her grandmother, spend the holidays there.....try to spend as much time possible without having to move. I pray God gives you strength during this time, remember with Him all things are possible! QUOTE (JAPrincess @ Oct 16 2009, 12:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Yardies I was in the ER last night I started bleeding. Scared me bad. The Kaiser nurse said to go to the closest ER. I drove myself and they hooked me up to all the monitors. Baby's heartbeat is okay, no contractions, they did an ultrasound and everything looks okay. The bleeding stopped and they sent me home and told me to take it easy until my regular pre-natal appointment on Monday. I am so thankful that baby is okay, but right now all I can think is they are not going to let me go to JA and see Astley. I cry every time I think that... I know the baby is most important, I know that... but it's been 6 months since I've seen my man and I am scared. I just want to curl up in his arms and know it will all be okay... I hate that my country won't let him come see me. I hate that he is so far away. I hate that the embassy won't respond to me and there is NOTHING I can do but lay here and take it. Jap, I know u are missing your boo....we know how that is but most of all I am glad to hear that you and the baby is ok.....like JG said just relax over the weekend and you will hear on Monday if you can travel or not. Ur time soon come sweety QUOTE (dillon @ Oct 16 2009, 01:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> JQ love the smileys...doesn't surprise me in Vegas When I lived there Snoops cousin or Brother-in-law was being chased and held up in an apartment right down from where I lived. Helicopters flying around for hours...tear gas bombs going off. I thought I was in a war zone. LOL that does sound like a war zone......i could only imagine you lookin for cover.... Edited by Haymsmorgan, 16 October 2009 - 04:06 PM.	.:MzMorgan:.	Female	Jamaica	2009-10-16 16:04:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	Evening Yardies!!!!!!!!!!!!!! QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Oct 15 2009, 11:42 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Usain Bolt Breaks 100m World Record and Hitler Reacts LOL now this is funny and original , there are a bunch of other Hitler reaction videos too Edited by Haymsmorgan, 15 October 2009 - 04:07 PM.	.:MzMorgan:.	Female	Jamaica	2009-10-15 16:06:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	Mawnin Everyone....boy is cold outside QUOTE (sus @ Oct 15 2009, 08:52 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> LMAO QUOTE (sus @ Oct 15 2009, 08:55 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> This is so cute: aaawwww that video was cute........glad they had fun......nothing worse than a boring wedding	.:MzMorgan:.	Female	Jamaica	2009-10-15 08:24:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (thisislove @ Oct 14 2009, 02:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> honey im w/ u on the chicken foot soup.. roger making some cuz its cold, but mi nuh even like chicken noodle soup let alone "alien baby hand" soup.. LOL QUOTE (thisislove @ Oct 14 2009, 02:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> okay sungold fanatics.. they have some new weddings posted.. i like wali and ayanna right now.. my hair is twisted up like ayanna's hair now, but her hair is MUCH thicker.. i am hating LOL.. yeah... i couldn't work w/ honey's ppl.. its enough i hear them on the phone..up close an personal??? NOOOO WWWAAAYYYYY.. but i love the stories LOL me too she comes with the good stories...lol!! QUOTE (thisislove @ Oct 14 2009, 03:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (sus @ Oct 14 2009, 01:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Oct 14 2009, 02:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Ok Ladies these Cash for Gold commercials are all over the air waves and I never thought of actually doing it, well mailing it anyway. However there is a new spot that opened near my job and they are advertising heavy, bring in your old and broken jewelry for cash. I have a lot of broke stuff I don't plan on fixing and old items I won't ever wear. The stuff is just sitting there in there chillin for forever and day, I am thinking about doing to to get rid of it and make a few bucks, What yall think? Has anyone done this yet? Be careful with those - One of my friends used the mail in one - You mail it in, they send you a check - if you don't accept the amount they send you, you have to pay $20 to get your item back - They sent her a $15 check on a half carot diamond ring! On the other hand, my cousin took a bunch of stuff to a Gold party (they have reps that come to your house), and made $250 thats what i was afraid of.. its always something.. rg wanna sell his mavado watch.. i told him, he might as well keep it.. he will never get even half the value anywhere.. times a get better my yute.. WHYYYYY did the ex send me an email asking bout meeting to get some money to the kids and he ACCIDENTALLY attached ushers video for "Papers" ... im sure that happens everyday.. soooo immature.....that doesnt accidentally attach itself.....he needs to say whats on his mind and grow up QUOTE (finesse @ Oct 14 2009, 04:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I feel like such a shytbag right now... hubby and I went shopping last night at one of those big blasted babies r us stores to start getting some kind of idea of what we wanted to get for our nursery. we decided before we even got there that whatever we decided to buy we were each going to pay for half....since the furniture was going to be a be a big expense. so hubby was picking out the most expensive shyt...he wantes everything to be matching and get the whole damn collection including all the dressers and chairs...not to mention we need two cribs. I was getting so frustated looking at all this #######....the selection was unbelievable and I was just overwhelmed. I cussed him out, went to the car and barely spoke to him for the rest of the evening. he called me earlier today and said how important it was to him for our babies to have the best of everything and he ws sorry for stressing me out... why am i such a biyatch sometimes? i'm going to hell... Girl I think he understands that u felt overwhelmed.....it normal to feel like this i guess blame it on the hormone changes x 2 QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Oct 14 2009, 04:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Frankie got a bit tearful…ok a lot tearful…on the BET Awards red carpet this weekend when she talked about her money situation and her daughter Keyshia: Does she look High or what? yes she does......did u see her grills!!!! QUOTE (Bunzarelli @ Oct 14 2009, 09:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Bunz ur thinkin of Christmas already......not ready for it yet($$ ) Edited by Haymsmorgan, 14 October 2009 - 11:43 PM.	.:MzMorgan:.	Female	Jamaica	2009-10-14 23:41:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 22)	OMG I am so scared now, this pic just made everything so real Dieu Benit l'Haïti !!!!!!!! Priez s il vous plait pour les gens de l'Haiti My Heart is so heavy right now.... the babies...... Haiti victims Philly tears just fell from my eye lookin at the pic of the dead children. Im praying for help to reach Haiti because time is tickin before they can save those ppl trapped under the rubble and buildings	.:MzMorgan:.	Female	Jamaica	2010-01-13 17:33:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 22)	Hey Yardies, I know yall probably think I forgot all about yall, but I been busy. Between work, church, and spending time with ryon its hard to keep up on here...I sometimes pop in anonymously{sp}....but I wanna thank all of you for the B-day luv. Ok so its been a month and 4 days since Ryon got here, he got his social and since yesterday he has been workin at Golden Krust...He is soooo happy cause he was tired of not workin and being in the house while I was at work. Im happy for him even though its a minimum wage job its something for him to do. We will get married on 1/22/10 until then I am gathering everything I need for the AOS stage. I know I've missed A LOT but I wanna congratulate everyone that has been approved, im rooting for all the upcoming interviews, JAP congrats on the beautiful healthy baby girl u were blessed with. MrsTee thanks for draggin me back.....and I noticed that u have unleashed the sexiness and are teachin the rest....LOL Glad ur back SUS. I would luv if someone can recap for me....	.:MzMorgan:.	Female	Jamaica	2010-01-13 17:28:00