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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and farrin (part 10)
Howdy Family,

I hope everyone had a blessed and truly thankful thanksgiving. I haven't been on in awhile. I had to rush my Dad to hospital last Sunday. He was having horrible stomach pains...long story short...he had an obstructed bowel...had surgery and is coming home today! So even though I didn't have a REAL Thanksgiving...I am still really THANKFUL!! luv.gif

Hope all is well with the gang! Going back to skim and see what everyone's been up to!

Bless-ed,
Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-12-01 14:04:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Nov 19 2008, 02:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (kkholiday2006 @ Nov 19 2008, 02:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'm so glad Ryan realized that I DON'T talk in the morning. My neice is the same way. I need time to wake up and gather my thoughts. Only thing is...he likes to talk to me while I'm sleep at night and get wonder why he gets weird responses.

The other day he said You were smiling when I gave you kisses when you were sleep. I said....you gave me kisses???? I had no idea. Please beware of what you do to me while sleeping..neva no wha u might get. headbonk.gif helpsmilie.gif



rofl.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif a not even me a him totally out of it in the mornings..mi no even bodda no more...and guess wah his girls are the same way...no try wake up Kimora a mawnin time w/o some incentive

Fuh us it's nuh deh mawning dats a problem it's bedtime!!! Ken love watch em blasted Karate movie when I'm trying to sleep and it never fails...The sounds work themselves into my dreams. A couple of weeks ago it was mi han poor John McCain inna wan RASS karate fight!!! laughing.gif That ole man was kickin' my RASS!!! Em mussi learn something all that time in Vietnam. But inna deh hen mi cyatch em wid wan head chop!! laughing.gif laughing.gif

When I try to explain this to Missa Young all I hear is ..."Yuh too lie!! My movies don't ave nuttin fuh duh wid your crazy dream dem! mad.gif Yuh just waan 'some' before yuh guh a bed!!" blink.gif

Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-11-19 14:45:00
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QUOTE (kkholiday2006 @ Nov 19 2008, 01:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
He calls me KC (my initials) and I call him papi as nicknames. He hated Papi at first...say he is not an old man. But now he likes it.

We call the puppy...mookstar!!!! She's so rude. She got on the bar and drunk a little bottle of wine. Imagine a drunk puppy wacko.gif She chewed the top of it. It was a turn top.


Gurl, as long as it was a one time thing...now if you came home to chewed up alcohol bottle tops everyday...I'd say you gotta a problem and maybe needs a seven paw rehab program!! rofl.gif laughing.gif (Don't say it Kimmy...I know...AHDM...A HOT DYAM MESS!!)

Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-11-19 13:50:00
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QUOTE (sus @ Nov 19 2008, 01:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Thanks for all the thoughts from the other thread -

So, to give the condensed version of my full story, which some of you here already know - When I broke my engagement to my ex, and walked away from him, something else decided to take a walk whistling.gif I was tired, run down, and surprise!!! Pregnant. My ex was useless and self centered, and totally not involved in my son's life. When he was 18 months, we were broadsided by a drunk driver and he was killed instantly - He was the light of my life and my joy - Yes, it was hard going through what I went through, but I truly believe that everything happens for a reason - My son was a wake up call to me to make some serious changes in my life, and now he's my angel.

Here are a few pics:





OMG-D Sus...wata a cute likkle chunkster cherub!!! innocent.gif Again, I am so dyam sorry...you are such a good person...this shouldn't have happened to you! Although you are right about taking life for granted. Sometimes we get so caught up with what we don't have...we forget about what we do!! Thanks for the reminder!!

Bless-ed love ALWAYS,
Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-11-19 13:46:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Nov 19 2008, 01:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (kkholiday2006 @ Nov 19 2008, 01:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
My post from other thread:

Thanks

Thanks to everyone for the Happy Anniversary!!! I can't wait to get home to my honey bun....if he only knew I just called him this.


hehhee..honey bun...Kashi is my Sugah Bun rofl.gif and yes him know mi call him so..when him no inna di mood yuh fi si him face headbonk.gif

ok..is it me or VJ just got faster...ahahahaaa..i think they are teachin us a lesson laughing.gif


Like Tanya Stephens seh...Em coulddah yuh Honey Bun or Suga Bun..as lang as he nuh give yuh 'Bun' em arright!! biggrin.gif
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-11-19 13:41:00
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QUOTE (sus @ Feb 11 2009, 06:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I just sent you a friend request Gill -

Got it Chica!! luv.gif
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2009-02-11 18:46:00
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Ok... I actually took it one step further and started a new FB group for us! The name of the group in 'Who's who from VJ Yardies@home & Farrin' thread'. It's a private group to protect us from cyber-stalkers and what not. I am the Admin...but I have already sent out invites to my VJ friends that are also on FB! As soon as they decide to join...I will make as many people Admin's as possible. This way it's not just one person that you have to depend upon to get access to our group!


Again....once you sign into your FB page...just do an FB search for the page!
If you still can't find it email me and I'll send you the link!
Bless,
Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2009-02-11 18:34:00
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QUOTE (BELIEVE IT BABY!! @ Feb 11 2009, 04:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (JaHoney @ Feb 11 2009, 03:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
looks like im talking to myself quite a bit today....

Can someone explain to me the difference in FACEBOOK and MYSPACE..is facebook better?



to me facebook is more for adults facebook is better



Hey Guys,

I LOVE FACEBOOK!! I've been an addicted member of FB since 2005/2006...my students told me about it! Then I begged all my family & friends to join...it's finally starting to catch on! yes.gif

I agree with you Nels...I feel like I have greater control over who can view my page in FB!

There is also a 'Who's who from VJ' topic page on FB! Just search for it under your FB 'Search' bar!

It's a good way to figure out who's who and 'friend' people you know! I put my name on the list....so feel free to 'Friend' me biggrin.gif ...just let me know your VJ name so I know who you are!

Take care,
Gill

Edited by Forever Young, 11 February 2009 - 06:03 PM.

Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2009-02-11 18:02:00
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QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Feb 11 2009, 12:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hey long time no see ladies, BEEN CRAZY BUSY thursday.. i am on facebook too, just started this week so pm me u guys emails so i can find u (if u want me to)
mine is dancehallquana@yahoo.com

hey ladies, let me tell u GOD is a good God, YES HE IS..



ALL THE TIME!!! Congrats Quans!!! I agree with Kimkim...divorce is not an easy way out! I think your entire process is proof of that! I am proud of you! You could have took the easy route and stayed in a comfortable ...although loveless marriage! But you wanted more! GOOD FOR YOU!!! good.gif Good that you went for what you deserved and didn't just settle for what you had...like Nels siggy says!

Congrats again Chica...and walk bravely into the next chapter of your life!!

Bless-ed heart.gif,
Gill

QUOTE (sus @ Feb 11 2009, 05:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I was just browsing around and saw this:



Maybe I am in a stupid mood, but it had me crying laughing



I'm sorry that ish is funny!! laughing.gif laughing.gif

Poor puppy!!
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2009-02-11 17:52:00
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QUOTE (BELIEVE IT BABY!! @ Feb 10 2009, 08:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
good evening ladies, whats going on


Mawning Family,

Nells,

I LOVE YOUR NEW SIGNATURE!!!!!! It is so damn true!!

Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2009-02-11 09:31:00
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QUOTE (Ryon4life @ Jan 29 2009, 09:44 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
good morning ALL

this has been a long week - i need to catch-up

i came to work this morning and the lady that works for me added a new plant to her small desk!



Howdy Family...been a Crazy week! Jus stoppin in tuh hail onnuh up!

R4L...I LIVE for you photojournal updates!! Please don't change! Do you walk around with a camera around your neck!?

laughing.gif laughing.gif...Well, you will have plenty of CO2...thanks to your 'green' cubiclemates!

Take care all!

Bless-ed,

Gill

Edited by Forever Young, 29 January 2009 - 04:23 PM.

Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2009-01-29 16:23:00
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QUOTE (BELIEVE IT BABY!! @ Jan 23 2009, 04:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
whats going on gill, kk i just got home from work

Nada Chica!! How are you doing? Do you think our strategy is working? hehehe tongue.gif

Love ya,
Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2009-01-23 16:53:00
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QUOTE (JAPrincess @ Jan 23 2009, 02:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hello everyone kicking.gif


Hey J'Cess...WELCOME!!!!! How are you doing?

We are kind of wild in here...but we don't bite...mostly...you caught us on a good day! laughing.gif

Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2009-01-23 16:36:00
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QUOTE (Jomo's girl @ Jan 23 2009, 11:20 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You know, no matter how much we fuss with each other, today it makes me proud to be a part of this yardie thread. Reminds me why I come back again and again. Love you all!



AMEN JG!!!! Couldn't have said it better! luv.gif

Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2009-01-23 11:26:00
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QUOTE (jawi876 @ Jan 23 2009, 11:16 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Forever Young @ Jan 23 2009, 11:12 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Mawning Family,

I just went to check on our 'friend' Missa Hawkins dis mawnin...laughing.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif laughing.gif ...mi haffi seh mi luv mi sistren dem! Yuh cyann mess wid wan widhout tekking on deh oddahs!!

If 'Missa Hawkins' nuh bloodclaat catch-on afta our 'Welcoming messages' and all of your beautiful pictures...she...oops I mean he never will!!!

Is wat Bob seh inna 'Bad Card'?

"You a-go tired fe see me face;
Can't get me out of the race.
Oh, man, you said I'm in your place
And then you draw bad cyard"
..... rofl.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif ...

I'm sorry dat ish is hilarious to me...I can't stand when someone tek mi friend dem fuh fools!!

Blessed,
Gill


Yuhseeit? I KNOW it was NOT him that created the profile. Pleeeeaaaaassseeeee....get the h*** outta here!

EXACTLY!!! She mussi tek Nel fuh some dyam hidiot!! I was so vex that she did that....I just had to blast her! I didn't even care if it meant getting in trouble with the VJ police! I WAS VEX!!!! mad.gif Don't do that! Cause now I'm about to blow up your dumb azz!!!
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2009-01-23 11:19:00
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Mawning Family,

I just went to check on our 'friend' Missa Hawkins dis mawnin...laughing.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif laughing.gif ...mi haffi seh mi luv mi sistren dem! Yuh cyann mess wid wan widhout tekking on deh oddahs!!

If 'Missa Hawkins' nuh bloodclaat catch-on afta our 'Welcoming messages' and all of your beautiful pictures...she...oops I mean he never will!!!

Is wat Bob seh inna 'Bad Card'?

"You a-go tired fe see me face;
Can't get me out of the race.
Oh, man, you said I'm in your place
And then you draw bad cyard"
..... rofl.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif ...

I'm sorry dat ish is hilarious to me...I can't stand when someone tek mi friend dem fuh fools!!

Blessed,
Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2009-01-23 11:12:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Jan 21 2009, 06:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
OMG U GUYS..GILL IN DC U KNOW.... WELL SHE IS WITH HER SISTER AT THE WHITE HOUSE..HOW ABOUT THEY MET MICHELLE OBAMA!!! SHE STARTED BAWLING..SO SHE SAID MICHELLE SAID TO HER "WE HAVE TOO MUCH TO DO FOR TEARS" HEHHEHEE..HOW AWESOME IS THAT !! MI TELL HAR FI HAIL UP MICHELLE FI....


Mawning Family,

I was going to come on here and tell you my good news...but I see my likkle Chatty Kimmy already filled you in! laughing.gif no0pb.gif laughing.gif D.C. was awesome! My Sister did alot of volunteer work for both the campaign and the inaugural committee in D.C. So she was selected to visit the White House yesterday.

She asked me to be her guest! I gave her my ssn on Friday and then the Secret Service called her on Tuesday night (11PM!!) saying we had both been approved. They told her NO CAMERAS. Ok, we get there at 2pm...we see WAN RAS of a line outside the WH!! I'm like who are ALL these people?? AND WHY THE HECK DO ALL OF THEM HAVE CAMERAS!! I WAS PISSED!!! mad.gif mad.gif (cause I went against my instincts to bring my camera cause of my sister's nagging) laughing.gif

Ok, so we move through the crowd and get in to the WH. We are doing a tour ...ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL!! We saw David Axelrod (Barack's right hand man) and Rob Gibbs ( Left hand man) walk by and we are about to pass out! We see the back yard...HUGE and go upstairs. We enter the main ballroom...beautiful and there's wan ras line! Wan J'Can ooman start fi mek hup noise bout wat tekking dis line suh lang fuh look pon some pictures han come hout!! laughing.gif A MESS!!

NOBODY knew that we were meeting Michelle in the next room. So, I'm beefing to my Sis about her forbidding me from bringing a camera, smacking my gum and a secret service guy finally says to us..."There are to be no pictures with Mrs. Obama." I was like ... ohmy.gif blink.gif huh.gif ...WHAT DID YOU SAY...WITH WHO??! I chocked and then swallowed my gum!

He was like "They didn't tell you...you're meeting Mrs. Obama!" My sister and I looked at each other like OMG!!!! So, they open the door to the State room and we see her! She looked so beautiful and regal...like she had been doing this for YEARS!! Shaking everyones hand! Seriously there werr about 300 out us!!

To see this beautiful black woman as First Lady in a home that was built and maintained by Slaves for a good part of it's history...brought me to tears. It made me realize how far we, as not only Blacks, but as Americans had come! I couldn't stop Bawling! So , Mrs. Obama reaches out and shakes my hand! She looks at My sister says "Thank you for everything you have done!" She then turns to me and says "No, No ...we have no time for tears now. We have too much work to do for tears!..Save them we will all have a good cry in 4 years! Please go out and encourage all you know to help us...by helping each other...get involved! We CAN do this!" I nodded my head and told her "Thank You" (Still blubbering)

We then went to the main dining room and they handed out White House cookies! We saw the red carpet to the Oval Office and left out of the front of the White House! It was amazing!! Our whole trip was surreal! Ken, I and the boys stood in the Mall and bawled as we watched Obama become our President!

Just an amazing time!

Bless-ed,
Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2009-01-22 13:47:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaLet's Get Fine in 2009
AWESOME IDEA Mar!!

I for one am down for gettin' fine in 09! I started the year by 'TRYING' to quit my 25 year (on and off) addiction to nicotine! It's been about 55 hours so far and no cigarettes! Next up is to get some of my weight off...but right now it's the smoking thing! Good luck to all who are striving to look fine in 09! good.gif wink.gif

Bless-ed,
Gill

Edited by Forever Young, 03 January 2009 - 07:00 PM.

Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2009-01-03 18:59:00
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QUOTE (rhondapayter @ Mar 14 2008, 01:02 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (BelwinMills @ Mar 13 2008, 09:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Welcome back Rhonda!!!

Thanks jest.gif I can't believe you only have about 6 weeks to go!!! How's the pregnancy going? Got any names picked out?



RHONDAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA....YOU'RE DAUGHTER IS BEAUTIFUL!!!! I'D MISS HER TOO!! luv.gif luv.gif luv.gif

Many many blessings to all of you!

Gill

P.S.- I LOVE CHUCKY BABIES!!!!! And she is a CHUNKSTER!!! luv.gif heart.gif luv.gif heart.gif
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-03-14 14:02:00
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QUOTE (Marlita @ Mar 14 2008, 12:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Gill, mi seh mi luv yuh meez outfit dem!!

Thanks Chica...but time fi change up now...she's been rockijng that for AWHILE!!! laughing.gif laughing.gif It was very similar to the outfit I wore down!

Bless,Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-03-14 12:04:00
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QUOTE (Marlita @ Mar 14 2008, 12:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Mar 14 2008, 09:12 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Yeah Nbees,

I agree she was really mean to Andrew(We were sitting in the back...Ken had on a light Green shirt & I had on a black & white dress)...which I thought was unecessary! I also agree that if you can GO for the interview! For whatever reason they are brutal on those that go without their SO.. I heard one interviewer ask "This is a very big day for you...Why isn't your fiance/wife here?" A number of times to different applicants.

I swear so many people were trying to get over...it started to piss me off! Cause it just makes it harder for legit couples to get through...Everyone han dem Momma filed a 'Fiance Visa'!!

Mi seh people can say what they want about VJ and my Yardie thread...but if you come in and ASK yuh questions dem...yuh won't go wrong! Ken was like Thank you VJ!! DYAM RIGHT!!! good.gif good.gif

Blessed,
Gill


Thats very true. I know there are many reasons why a person can't be there...financial...work...other commitments...but it is a big day and its like not showing up for a job interview. Even though the visa is for your SO, the ONLY reason why they are even in the process of getting this visa is cause of you so I beiliev you should definitely go and treat it just like it was the 2 of you having the interview.


So for all these fiance visas that you guys say people were there for, were their SO there too? I wonder about these "fradulent' cases. Were these people like someone who was trying to get over on their SO, or do you think it was a situation where the SO from the States new this was a sting operation all along?

Bwoy Lita,

I'm telling you. One lady Ken saw at his medical was at the interview and told the USCIS officer she met her fiance over the phone! OK, she was like 60 years old...yeah I know love don't have an age but...The interviewer was like so he just randomly called your number one day? No, my uncle set us up! Oh, then you just fell in love with him...over the phone???The lady was like "Hmmmm...Yes...I guess so?!" He came to visit you once in 2 years and you know this is the man for you? "Hmmmm....Yes...I believe so!"

NOW C'MON!!!!!

A next young gyal was just a mess and the USCIS told her she was going to throw her out of the Embassy if she didn't stop lying! On the original paperwork is wrote that she was living with a man...but then when the interviewer asked she said she was by herself when she met her Fiance!

Then she asked her for proof...pictures, cards, ...letters phone bills! She pulls out phone bills...The interviewer was like "You went MONTHS without speaking to your fiance and that was ok with you!? You're a very trusting woman...cause I couldn't do that! Can you give me ONE reason ...just one as to why you have to go to the States?"

Deh dyam fool gyal seh..."I don't know...tuh see him!" NO WRONG ANSWER!!! "BECAUSE I LOVE HIM AND CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT HIM!!!" The interviewer LACED har rass!!

"1). I in no way shape or form believe your ####### & bull story! 2). Do you know that the JA gov't. can have you arrested for lying to an international officer! 3). Yuh cyan see your 'fiance' deh next time he comes down here, if that's the only reason you NEED to go! You are denied!"

Both of those 2 examples were by themselves.

The next guy that was WITH his 'fiance' had been married and tried to enter the US previously...only to be denied entrance b/c the wife withdrew her paperwork BEFORE he got there...because he had had another woman file a fiance visa for him! And his current Fiancee knew nothing about any of this! But the dyam fool ooman stood by his side anyway! They called her into a room...by herself... and I know that had to ask her if she knew what she was doing!?

I don't agree with the wear whatever you want statement. Dress as if you are going to an interview. Honestly, in my opinion the people that came in jeans and looking sloven & raggedy...they kindda pushed harder. They KNOW this is a big day for you and I think they expect you to dress the part! Not a suit, but a button down dress shirt or polo and a pair of dockers will work.

Bless,
Gill

Edited by Deyoungting, 14 March 2008 - 12:02 PM.

Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-03-14 12:02:00
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QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Mar 14 2008, 12:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey Gilli...

Hey Chica,

What are we doing bout yuh dyam tings dem!?!?! Dem jussa sit inna mi fridge a wait pon yuh! Let mi knoa how yuh waan fi duh this! Lawd, Ken & I felt like we were on some claating scavenger hunt looking fuh halla items dem! We got the Cane outsida Ochi and deh rest of deh tings dem inna Falmouth from a Ras!! I was so happy when we got the last item on the list...yuh doan knoa!

Bless,Gill

P.S.- It's a DYAM good ting I love yuh RASS!!!! laughing.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif Han waan seh yuh give burt tuh a nice fat baby! luv.gif ...CHO!
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-03-14 11:27:00
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QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Mar 13 2008, 11:30 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Yaads..U CYAA GET PUMPKIN ???!!!! laughing.gif laughing.gif


Kimmy, the only time I can buy pumpkin is around Halloween & Thanksgiving ---- and I live in the same GD state as you - LOL! whistling.gif I already warned Anthony we will have to make the trip to the "city" once a month to buy groceries for him.

Oh my goodness my favorite. Only can get that in the fall season. I wanted that for my wedding in JA. I asked for it and they served me Manish soup what is up with that. EWWWW. The person I got for my food at my wedding stunk. Wish I would of listened to my wedding coordinator. mad.gif I cant wait for my mother inlaw to cook me some this summer. smile.gif



You have to have that at your wedding....tradition!



yes.gif Mannish water is sooooo yummy!


Welcome back Rhonda!!! luv.gif

Hope you start feeling better D heart.gif



Yuk!! Mannish wata smells good, but oh no the things floating around in it... no0pb.gif

Nbes, that was a great story. Thanks for sharing. I'm sure his family is just sad to see him leave. I mean its not like he's moving to another parish or something its a whole nother country....and a country that they don't have the ability to visit very often. This whole visa process and the move really does affect more than just the 2 people in the relationship, I'm sure they'll come around after they have the time to process him being away. I went to Carib...i think it was Carib...its the big theater right? I saw Jumper there.

***I haven't checked the VJ Jamaica portal, but just a reminder to you all with recent interviews to post your experience on the Embassy experience page. Those really do help us pre-interviewees alot. I

QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 14 2008, 08:57 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hey everyone,


I just haven't been in a good mood over the past couple of days.



(((Jengs))) luv.gif

Lawd Lita,

I love Mannish wata! Yuh kindda haffi navigate AROUND deh floating tings Lita! laughing.gif

I posted my experience already!

Bless,Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-03-14 11:24:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
QUOTE (nbesaw @ Mar 14 2008, 10:56 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Firstly congrats to Gill!! We got approved on Tuesday as well!!!! You can wear whatever you want. There is no dresscode. If you have any shyness get rid of it because they talk to you through a speaker where everyone can hear what they say to you! We went there early, checked in. You have to the appt letter in your hand before they will let you in and they check for your name on the list. You go through security and metal detectors, and then take a short walk bacak to where the actual embassy is. You go to the check-in desk, the space is so small so make sure you stand where you can fit, but also so no one tries to take your spot in line. I carried a folder with dividers and all the forms very organized. The reception guy was so impressed. He asked for 4 photos, the DS 156/DS 157, the police, birth, non-impediment, and passport. He checked them and gave us a number and we went in and took a seat in section A. They called our number and requested the same docs the recptionist did, plus my tax info and I-134. She was tossing our stuff around, guess she was having a bad day, but then she asked me to stand to the left and let Andrew be in the center. She checked the docs, kept them and told us to proceed to section B. In section B, you just wait to be called for fingerprinting. Andrew had trouble with this. He is an electrical technician at Federated Pharmaceutical and they work him to the bone literally. The guy had trouble trying to get his fingerprints because they were rubbed off a bit. After that you proceed to section C. This is where you can hear everyone's interview. So many people got denied or turned around because they didn't have all the docs. If you can go with your fiance to this interview..please do! Those who were there without their partner were given a very hard time. Everyone was getting denied left and right and you could hear every reason why...not all the docs, not making enough money, one guy was being fraudulent. He had tried to sneak into the US before. Lots of people were lying when asked questions.....how did you meet, when, when did you get engaged, how, how do you know they love you, where is proof....ect. It was so scary to watch. Then our number was called....we got to the window and had to swear to tell the truth. She asked us how long we have been talking Andrew said Dec. 23, 2005..I said...no, it's 2006. Then she asked how we met and he said myspace.com. Then she got hard in asking well how is it the two of you got together, do you want to marry everyone there, do you date all who sends you a message...just gave him a hard time. He stutters a bit at times, but this time he was having an extremely hard time, so I asked if I could answer, she was rude and said no..he should no for himself. Finally she let me answer, truth is he went blank. Then she asked him when the wedding was and we said June and she told me in my statement of intent I out April, and I said yeah because I didn't know Jamaica would take so long so we had to push it back! Then she asked him what kind of work I do and he answered. Then she granted us the visa. Told us to have a happy marriage! I should have been happy, which I was, but I was so upset with Andrew because he forgot and tensed up..we went to airpack just across the street, and then we left. I apologized to Andrew, we made up and had a great day and I am looking forward to him being here soon. His family is not so happy because he is leaving. They feel like he is abandoning them. his mom won't speak to him and all....so much. if they only would remember how they felt when they found love..once you find it, you do what you have to to keep it and help it grow. We also went to the movies that night. It was his first time there at Carib. We went to see Step Up 2. I had already watched it before. It was a lovely evening and now my family and I are just awaiting his arrival....and our big day...June 7, 2008 @ 2pm!!! To God be the glory for all He has done!! He is good all the time and all the time He is good!!! Sorry so long, but I want you to have as much info about going to the interview as possible. If anyone has any questions, let me know. God bless you all!!


Yeah Nbees,

I agree she was really mean to Andrew(We were sitting in the back...Ken had on a light Green shirt & I had on a black & white dress)...which I thought was unecessary! I also agree that if you can GO for the interview! For whatever reason they are brutal on those that go without their SO.. I heard one interviewer ask "This is a very big day for you...Why isn't your fiance/wife here?" A number of times to different applicants.

I swear so many people were trying to get over...it started to piss me off! Cause it just makes it harder for legit couples to get through...Everyone han dem Momma filed a 'Fiance Visa'!!

Mi seh people can say what they want about VJ and my Yardie thread...but if you come in and ASK yuh questions dem...yuh won't go wrong! Ken was like Thank you VJ!! DYAM RIGHT!!! good.gif good.gif

Blessed,
Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-03-14 11:12:00
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Congrats Gill!! It was lovely hearing about your interview.. My husband use to work at the Holiday Inn Sunpree as a musician. Congrats on your new journey he will be sooner than you know it. Welcome back good.gif



A lot of us on here have that HI connection.



FUH REAL!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm glad I found that out AFTER the interview...or I'd been suspicous (sp?) unsure.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif

Bless,Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-03-14 09:49:00
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Mawning Fams,

I just thought of something for those filing after me!

Make sure you have a copy of your original petition. Make a copy and send it to your SO. That's where they get MAJORITY of their questions from...duh! I didn't realize that until I keep seeing the same pattern of questions being asked over and over again.

Also if you haven't filed yet. Make your description of how you met as brief and concise as possible. The more details you give them...the more questions they can ask! I only wrote a paragraph of how we met (because I was too dyam lazy & annoyed fuh go inna more details at the time). But it worked out for the best in the end!

For those of you that have interviews coming up...GET YOUR 2007 tax returns!! If you have those for whatever reason they are pleased! You DO NOT have to have the transcripts for 2007...just the return. Nuff people went up with 2006 and they seemed annoyed...some people even got a blue slip to come back when they have them!

Hmmmmm...I think that's it!

Bless, Gill

P.S.- How is everyone tiddeh?

Edited by Deyoungting, 14 March 2008 - 09:46 AM.

Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-03-14 09:45:00
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GOOOOOOD MAWNING FAMILY!!!!! BLESS-ED BLESS-ED MAWNING TO ALL OF YOU!!!!


I want to SINCERELY thank ALL of you guys...newbies, veterans...ALL of your prayers definately worked!!!

We were Blessed for the entire journey. We decided to drive Chalky Hill into town (because less police checks- if we remember were we left off Ken's license will not arrive til 3/17/08 and Gill was NOT used to driving on the other side of the road!)

So if anyone knows Chalky Hill you KNOW that it's PURE corners and narrow streets! ohmy.gif ohmy.gif Ken did EXCELLENT witht he driving and I would take over at the more straight runs! THANK G-D we reached Portmore (Ken's Aunt's House) safely with NO stops...G-d is good!

So, we wake up bright and early the next morning it a WONDERFUL breakfast of Ackee & saltfish with Fried dumpling and hot cocoa tea w/condense milk...YUM!! After that Ken's Aunt...put dung a pissa prayers for us and our interview! She all ask the Lord to bless & touch the person interviewing us!

We got to the Embassy at around 8AM...the whole bus, taxi ride Ken kept repeating dates, names and other things they could test him on... wacko.gif no0pb.gif ( Driving me CRAZY!!)

So, we found a nice Ras to hold our things...(he remembered Ken from when he went to drop-off the DS-230)
They let us in...the guy in the front (really nice Jamaican Guy) walked us through what papaers we would need! I then realized I had only filled out 1 copy of the DS 156 & DS 157 (I KNOW!! blush.gif ) So I quick quick filled it out! He gave us our number...(LUCKY NUMBER U 042)and we went inside to Section A.

Waited for about 20 minutes...we were called up...we handed in all our documents and she told us we could move on to Section B! Went to Section B in 5 minutes we were called up and a lady asked if I had my tax returns I told her yes from 2004-2007. She said "wonderful...the 2007's please. She went through it and took out what she needed and handed me back the rest! She also wanted the official copy of my divorce! Whipped it out and gave her! She told us to have a sit back in Section 'B'!

Then 2 minutes later a gentleman called us to take Kens fingerprints...then we moved on to Section 'C'!

OK, offtopic45vn.gif for a second! Can I tell you my hat goes off to the people working in Section C ...they have one HELL of a job to do and from what I could tell they do it well!! NUFF NUFF people were trying to get over!!!! One guy had had 3 women fil for him since 2001 (unbeknownst to his current fiancee), a next girl lied on her and wrote in 2006 she was living with a common law husband...but then told the interviewer she was by herself in 2006! Nuff foolishness

So we go to section 'C' and Wait...and wait...and wait!! Ok, so I saw Nbesaw (I think) who had her appointment after us gets called before us for the last part! (They got through ...congrats Nbes...BTW!) So, you done know me already. Ken is still spewing out family facts and I am going CRAZY with the waiting! So, I go to get up and ask what's going on... Ken pulls my dress and says..."Just watch your tone!" Like I don't knoa dat! mad.gif

I get up and brush my dress off and approach an available officer, in my finest American accent say " Good Morning, I am not trying to be difficult. But now I am beginning to get concerned that something happened to our file. We have been waiting a good amount of time now. I understand you guys are swamped to day...but I just wanted to make sure we were still on the radar. biggrin.gif biggrin.gif "

She said "I know...what time was your appointment? "8:30" " Ok, we should be getting to you very soon. Try to bare with us!" Ok, at this point I look down cause she just opened a new file and I see Ken's name biggrin.gif biggrin.gif

" OK, Ma'am, thank you for your time , no problem, I totally understand!" So ,I slowly walk back to my chair (cus mi doan knoa wi NEXT!!!) I mouth to Ken "We Next!" As soon as mi seh dat "Mr. Ken Young to window 23 please!"

Ken jumps up like a gunshot and I turn to the same lady and approach the window with a smile and say "I guess you were right!" (More biggrin.gif biggrin.gif )

She laughs and says "I guess so!" Then Ken says "Good Morning, How is your day going so far?" She then looks up at him ans smiles and says ' not bad, thank you for asking"

She asks Ken why he's here...who filed for him he says his fiancee and she gives him a paper to write my name and sign his name. (My man was so nervous he spells my name WRONG! laughing.gif But with his scribble she can't tell) She makes us swear in to tell the truth! So she begins with asking Ken how we met! "

We were following how everyone else answered this question and they (USCIS) want DETAILS in this answer! So Ken starts with "I work at the Holiday Inn and had the pleaseure of meeting this beautiful lady next to me when I was walking down the hall on the 4h floor or building #1!! From the first time I saw her I was just drawn to her beauty and vibes. I asked her to go out with me and after several rejections, she finally said 'YES!" He's about to go on and she says "ok!'

When did you met your Fiance? My man blurts out April, no January!!!!! (WRONG!!!!!!!) So she looks at the 129f that I completed and says "When?" At this point I jump in cause I know he's nervous as HELL!! I say "Ken look at me ...when did we meet?" He says when did we meet? "November 23, 2006!!! " (DAT'S RIGHT!) "Please tell the lady when we met!

"Oh, November 23, 2006...I am a little nervous today...sorry!" The lady then goes "No, my error I must have misheard you say January!(My girl played it off!! wink.gif - Let's not forget that there are cameras and mic's everywhere...the interviewers are being watched just as close as the interviewee(sp?)) they are suppose to take your first answer.

Tehn she asks if he has children and if his son has met me "Oh Yes!!" says Ken. Then she asks about my sons "Does you fiancee have children?"
"Yes, 2 beautiful boys!" says Ken
"Have you ever met them?" she asks
"They are wonderful kids!" says Ken (totally off the dyam subject!)
" Yes, but have but have you met them?" She asks again
"Oh, I'm sorry...Yes I have....would you like to see pictures?" says Ken

"No,. Mr. Young that won't be necessary. Your visa should arrive in approx. 2 weeks ....please go across the street to Airpack and blah blah blah!!!!!"

Bwoy, at that point I just put this shyt-eating grin on my face!! Ken says "thank you Ma'am!" I walk away and turn back and say "Thank you so much...you won't regret this!" She says..."I know!" with a wink and and smile!

We walk out of the waiting area into the hall where the nice Jamaican guy was helping us and Ken starts singing the Lupe Fiasco song...."You are what you say your are a SUPERSTAR!!!" and puts his shades on (Mr. confidence all of a sudden!:lol:) I tell the guy we get through he smiles and says congrats!! I then said "GREY GOOSE TONIGHT!!!" All of the embassy people start laughing!

What an experience!! Again, I thank ALL of you for your support and prayers...THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!!! heart.gif luv.gif heart.gif luv.gif

Blessed love always,

Gill

(PS- Lawny, I saw ONE indian looking dude that got a blue slip...but he said his "wife' filed for him...not "fiancee'. I didn't have a picture of Marla...so I didn't know what she looked like!)
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-03-13 11:14:00
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Good morning,


everyone, it doesn't look like it's raining yet up here.

Gill is probably going to see Movado tomorrow at a fraction of the price she would have paid here!!

Nanny don't get me started on the pedophile and rape thing. i think all pedophiles should be charged with muder, for murdering a child's innocence...and I don't see a dyamn thing wrong with chemical castration.


Yuh dyam right Jengs! Dem want $45.00 at Club Amazura tonight! Dem cyan kiss mi claat! Mi a see em pon deh gully side! wink.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif ( I crack myself UP sometimes blink.gif yes.gif )

Bless,Gill


OK, mr jengles almost drop dung when he saw a flyer for an artist and the prices we have to pay, mi would rather pay that $1000 j.a. anytime


Fuh REAL!!! yes.gif yes.gif Ken was trying to tell me how much something 'should' cost up here yesterday...I HAD TO LAUGH!! He was SO OFF!!!


Thanks,

Gill


Gill,

You have anyroom lef fi mi inna u suitcase?

gurl,
Mi arready pack a likkle suitcase inna a big suitcase...suh Ken ave two suitcase fi bring em things...if yuh waan fi queeze hup between the space...come along! But nuh boddah fi tell mi seh yuh clothes dem crush when yuh a come hout! laughing.gif

Bless,
Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-03-08 10:11:00
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Good morning,


everyone, it doesn't look like it's raining yet up here.

Gill is probably going to see Movado tomorrow at a fraction of the price she would have paid here!!

Nanny don't get me started on the pedophile and rape thing. i think all pedophiles should be charged with muder, for murdering a child's innocence...and I don't see a dyamn thing wrong with chemical castration.


Yuh dyam right Jengs! Dem want $45.00 at Club Amazura tonight! Dem cyan kiss mi claat! Mi a see em pon deh gully side! wink.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif ( I crack myself UP sometimes blink.gif yes.gif )

Bless,Gill


OK, mr jengles almost drop dung when he saw a flyer for an artist and the prices we have to pay, mi would rather pay that $1000 j.a. anytime


Fuh REAL!!! yes.gif yes.gif Ken was trying to tell me how much something 'should' cost up here yesterday...I HAD TO LAUGH!! He was SO OFF!!!


Thanks,

Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-03-08 09:34:00
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Application Type: I485 , APPLICATION TO REGISTER PERMANENT RESIDENCE OR TO ADJUST STATUS Current Status:

Card mailed to applicant. On March 7, 2008, we mailed the new card directly to the address we have on file. You should receive your new card within 30 days. If you do not, or if you move before you get it, call customer service.


all i have to say is about freaking time......

Congrats Nans
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-03-08 09:13:00
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QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 8 2008, 09:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Good morning,


everyone, it doesn't look like it's raining yet up here.

Gill is probably going to see Movado tomorrow at a fraction of the price she would have paid here!!

Nanny don't get me started on the pedophile and rape thing. i think all pedophiles should be charged with muder, for murdering a child's innocence...and I don't see a dyamn thing wrong with chemical castration.


Yuh dyam right Jengs! Dem want $45.00 at Club Amazura tonight! Dem cyan kiss mi claat! Mi a see em pon deh gully side! wink.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif ( I crack myself UP sometimes blink.gif yes.gif )

Bless,Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-03-08 09:06:00
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Anyone know anything about student loans? I'm wondering if I can take out a larger student loan. I won't tech. be a grad student, but I'm trying to take undergrad and grad classes at the same time?

Hey Brownie...you can take out a supplemental loan...however. be careful who you use! Sallie Mae, Citibank are a few of the better ones...also find out what there interest rates is and deferment policy....meaning if you go back for grad school will it be deferred until graduation and how long is there grace period between graduation and start paying back (typically is should be 6 months).

Also, do they have a forebearance policy...in case you run into economic hardship? I typically tell my students ALWAYS go through US. Dept. of Ed FIRST!!! Then supplement with a REPUTABLE company!

When you go to Grad school you will ONLY have loans (unless you have an outside fellowship) and I beg you ONLY USE THE DEPT OF ED then!!! They will give you more than enough $$ annually (unless you are going for med. school or law school).

Good luck,
Gill

PM me if you have any other questions...

OK, guys...I'm really getting nervous now! You know when you FEEL like you are forgetting something and you can't remember what!!! unsure.gif ohmy.gif DYAM DYAM DYAM!!!

I know I don't have to ask but PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PRAY for us!!! Lawny, on Tuesday mawning brite and early please post one of your FABULOUS PRAYERS!!! Mi ah beg yuh!! DUH!!!

I don't have a laptop...so I probably won't post til Thursday...But I will send a texts out and ask mi VJ sistren dem fi post fuh mi!

On the good side...Ken tell mi Mavado playing inna MoBay tomorrow night...suh wi a guh go fi tek our mind hoffa deh stress! It's funny cause Mavado and Erupt are playing in Queens tonight!(and I REALLY wanted to go!) I'm thinking we may be on the same flight back home! wink.gif ph34r.gif cool.gif

Love you all THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ALL OF YOUR SUPPORT...YOU WILL NEVER KNOW HOW MUCH I SINCERELY APPRECIATE ALL OF YOUR SUPPORT AND ASSISTANCE!!! luv.gif luv.gif heart.gif heart.gif

Blessed love to you all,
Gill

Edited by Deyoungting, 08 March 2008 - 06:27 AM.

Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-03-08 06:25:00
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YES


Gill, mi olda sista is the gossip network fi mi fambly. I hate it!! She was the one who told my dad of my engagement before I could do it. And she was the one who spread all this negative thinking and energy about him while I was planning my wedding. Thus making half my family not even support my engagement and not plan to go to my wedding. And don't get me started at how she went on at the wedding. Mi swear!!! Mi wan fi box her right then and there inna mi wedding dress!


that was jealousy, she married???

dyam come in like , mi a write to meself


Mi God sister actually said..."It's not fair you've had TWO marriages and I haven;t even had one!" ohmy.gif "Well, I hope it's not just a green cyard em looking...cause den yuh a guh be han0-2!!!!" Now I ask yuh is WAT kindda shyt DAT!!!!

Mi jus laugh han tell har..."Bwoy, is NOW mi understand WHY mi ave two marriage han yuh ave NONE!!! Mi woulddna waan fi married yuh eiddah!" Now mine you this was all said in a shrewd laughing type manner...BUT SHE GOT MY POINT AND MOVED DEH HELL ON!!!! wink.gif ...Don't ramp wid mi wid such foolishness!

Gill

Edited by Deyoungting, 06 March 2008 - 04:54 PM.

Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-03-06 16:53:00
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YES!!!!! MI waan fi hear deh answer tuh dis...cause all hell is about to set loose inna fi mi family when dem here wat mi a guh duh! laughing.gif laughing.gif IT'S GOT 'STELLA' ALL OVER IT.... mad.gif mad.gif ...But only Ken and I know it's NOT!! luv.gif

Bless,Gill


All now mi a wait fi answer on what to do, mi nuh get it yet!!!

anyway, you haven't told your family about Ken yet?? are they invited to the wedding??


Jengy,

I told my 'supportive' family members and my father. Aunts, Uncles...everyone one else jus a guh haffi find thorugh my family's gossip network! They will all talk ish amongst each other...but not to my face! I tried to tell the 'head' of deh gossip tree last night( so she could kick hoff deh new 'NEWS')...but as soon as she hear seh mi a guh Kingston...she start wan bag ah fussin'! Mi neva even git round fi tell har WHY mi a guh Kingston! laughing.gif

It's exhausting...I told 2 more family members this week...both of them immediately said the sane thing..."Yuh sure hit not Green cyard em a look!" On one hand I know I have matured alot ...cause deh old Gill wouldda cuss dem han keep moving. I see it as them looking out for me...which is sweet! But I'm a grown-a$$ ooman...Good or bad is my decision fi mek!

Yup their all coming to the wedding! It'll be VERY INTERESTING!! laughing.gif laughing.gif

Bless,
Gill



Gill, mi olda sista is the gossip network fi mi fambly. I hate it!! She was the one who told my dad of my engagement before I could do it. And she was the one who spread all this negative thinking and energy about him while I was planning my wedding. Thus making half my family not even support my engagement and not plan to go to my wedding. And don't get me started at how she went on at the wedding. Mi swear!!! Mi wan fi box her right then and there inna mi wedding dress!


that was jealousy, she married???

dyam come in like , mi a write to meself


yeah it was some serious jealousy. She not married but "supposedly" engaged and then not engaged...who knows. But get this.....she was supposed to get my dad from his hotel day of wedding. Why was i already like 1.5hrs late for my wedding cause people left me at the hotel by myself. mad.gif Then when i finally get there, my dad is MIA. I'm pissed, cause I think he's not trying to walk me down the aisle or something. So I say I'll walk mi own rass self. Den dem seh no no, yuh cyaan do dat. So a brother frum mi husband church walk me. My dad....never been to JA, had to hail his own taxi and got to the site while I was at the alter.....all cause my sister didn't go get him. mad.gif WOOOIIIEEEE!!!! Mi on fiyah!!!!! So then she get mad all day at the wedding cause people start fi chat so how she nah want mi dadfi walk mi (the younger sister) down the aisle before im walk har.......lawd god, if I didn't have Evan there, and just the spirit to enjoy being withhim and getting married that day i swear yuh would heard ol head of dutty wud cum out mi mout!


Lawd G-wd ( wink.gif ) Lita,

That sound like a Toya han Fitz(ish) wedding! laughing.gif Baby Gurl, I learned a LANNNNNNNG time ago...hit's not deh wedding...it's deh marriage! wink.gif luv.gif

Bless,Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-03-06 16:48:00
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Gilli girl nuff ppl a go seh suh.."a no GC him want" u just affi mek sure a no suh..well den again liek useh a fi ur decision fi mek good or bad !

Gurl, yuh right...nuttin nah guh suh! Cyan I seh 100% fuh sure...no, but 99.9% is pretty dyam close and yuh doan knoa what Bobby seh..."time will tell!"

Bless,
Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-03-06 14:21:00
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bwoy mi ave one RASS headache it a mad mi !

Sarry fi hear dat Sweet...yuh tek hennyting? Yuh cyan tek tylenol right?

Bless,
Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-03-06 14:19:00
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YES!!!!! MI waan fi hear deh answer tuh dis...cause all hell is about to set loose inna fi mi family when dem here wat mi a guh duh! laughing.gif laughing.gif IT'S GOT 'STELLA' ALL OVER IT.... mad.gif mad.gif ...But only Ken and I know it's NOT!! luv.gif

Bless,Gill


All now mi a wait fi answer on what to do, mi nuh get it yet!!!

anyway, you haven't told your family about Ken yet?? are they invited to the wedding??


Jengy,

I told my 'supportive' family members and my father. Aunts, Uncles...everyone one else jus a guh haffi find thorugh my family's gossip network! They will all talk ish amongst each other...but not to my face! I tried to tell the 'head' of deh gossip tree last night( so she could kick hoff deh new 'NEWS')...but as soon as she hear seh mi a guh Kingston...she start wan bag ah fussin'! Mi neva even git round fi tell har WHY mi a guh Kingston! laughing.gif

It's exhausting...I told 2 more family members this week...both of them immediately said the sane thing..."Yuh sure hit not Green cyard em a look!" On one hand I know I have matured alot ...cause deh old Gill wouldda cuss dem han keep moving. I see it as them looking out for me...which is sweet! But I'm a grown-a$$ ooman...Good or bad is my decision fi mek!

Yup their all coming to the wedding! It'll be VERY INTERESTING!! laughing.gif laughing.gif

Bless,
Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-03-06 14:11:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
Sorry I'm late but....


kicking.gif kicking.gif HAPPY BURTDAY YARDIE, MI LOVE...WISHING YOU MANY MANY MORE!!!! : kicking.gif kicking.gif



Kimkim....mi nuh tink hit chocolate...yuh can eat hit! unsure.gif

LOVE YA YARDIE!!!!! luv.gif heart.gif luv.gif heart.gif luv.gif heart.gif

Gill

Edited by Deyoungting, 06 March 2008 - 06:24 AM.

Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-03-06 06:24:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 05:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
OKAY,

NEXT QUESTION

how do u handle people who don't respect your relationship - or think your s/o is with you only to get their papers.


mr jengles met this older guy from j.a. at school, the guy lives with his daughter, the guy is in his 50's mr jengles says. ok so they talk every once in a while. the school had something for xmas and mr jengles made two dishes. They guy calls and invites mr jengles over to his house for xmas dinner. so mr jengles asks me if we can go, so i said sure in the evening. the guy then calls mr jengles and says to him, too bad mr jengles couldn't come over and cook xmas dinner for him and his daughter. I'm like huh???? mr jengles just took it as a complement to his cooking. I didn't cause u know the man has his family so what the hell are u talking about. anyway xmas day I was sick so we didn't go anywhere.

then the man calls and mr jengles says to him he is going to j.a. and the man could call me and get mr jengles cellphone number in j.a. o.k cool. the man calls a week later when he thinks mr jengles is in j.a. (remember now he lost his passport) so he was supposed to be in j.a. when the man called. the man says oh my duaghter went down yesterday. she's wasn't even staying anywhere around ochi, but still that is what u're calling him to tell him. not how u are doing or how is j.a. Is it just me reading too much into something. I asked one of my friends and she said I wasn't, just want to make sure. I haven't said anything to mr. jengles. the man has been calling since mr jengles has been gone but never when i'm home. so how do deal with something like that??



YES!!!!! MI waan fi hear deh answer tuh dis...cause all hell is about to set loose inna fi mi family when dem here wat mi a guh duh! laughing.gif laughing.gif IT'S GOT 'STELLA' ALL OVER IT.... mad.gif mad.gif ...But only Ken and I know it's NOT!! luv.gif

Bless,Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-03-06 06:20:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
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QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Mar 5 2008, 03:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Mar 5 2008, 03:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
that, they find it VERY hard to believe, but once you've been through something like that, it kind of messes with your head. But you have to realize at some point that all MEN are not the same and I love and respect my daddy and brothers very much. So my HEART has been through it.



Good for you Lawny. rose.gif It's important not to carry that into your next relationship for sure.

Ditto good.gif I was carrying ALOT of my insecurities about my ex-husband into my relationship wid Ken...until Ken said one day..."Gillian, yuh a guh mek yuh hex-husband broke us hup...yuh knoa dat!" I never even thought about it like that before! Then I finally had to let go and let G-d! And realize Ken is NOT Dorian(my ex)- (Thank G-d)...and Dorian was NO KEN! laughing.gif laughing.gif I just had a DEEP DOWN FEAR and never wanted to be PLAYED out like that again. But it's true what they say...you live and learn!

Thus far, I haven't regreted(sp?) it! It is hard though to move on and forgive him and even more importantly yourself! But I had to close that door, so my Ken window would open biggrin.gif

Bless,

Gill


Thank God and AMEN! Gwaan thru sistren. Mi a tell u...once you REALLY, REALLY realize your SELF-WORTH...nobadi can bring u down. U deh pon top a di WORLD... I feel like swinging on a swing. A wah wrang wid mi. Lawd mi glad mi have unu fi support.


So true Lawny...Swing through Sistren!!! laughing.gif

Lawd, Lawny, it look like yuh Meez a lose some weight..halla dat deh jumping...nuh mus! laughing.gif laughing.gif
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-03-05 15:45:00