Forum	Title	Content	Member	Sex	Country	Date/Time
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Feb 21 2008, 02:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JALOVE @ Feb 21 2008, 02:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> ok i know this sounds crazy but i love when i call Jamaica and i can hear those bugs chirpin in the background i want to say they are crickets? or what is that makin that sound crickets are more annoying so it cant be them. It reminds me of JA when i hear it. Bwaay when mi hear dem cicadas a sing, mi KNOW mi in Jamaica....lawd mi cyaa wait fi reach dung! Mi ave wan bettah Engy...when mi step outside ah Sangster and smell deh sweet sweet smell a Yard...mi knoa seh mi home! Ya'll knoa deh 'smell' (nooo not deh cook goose smell ) Yard smell...all when yuh reach back ah deh states han unpack yuh clothes yuh can smell Yard inna dem! MI LOVE DAT SMELL YUH SEE!!!!!! Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 14:41:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Feb 21 2008, 01:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Yardiewife @ Feb 21 2008, 01:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Feb 21 2008, 10:33 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Lita .....I WISH I WAS IN JAMAICA RIGHT NOW ..INSTEAD OF IN THIS HOUSE !!!! I was just thinking about Lita When is she coming back? I sure hope she is living it up for all of us jealous peeps Bwoy ..mi no sure how long she staying but mi kow anytime in JA is great times...I WANNA BE THERE...I AHTE THE COLD !! Suurrrrrrppppps- Gurl -yuh naah lie! One of my best friends went down yesterday for a wedding. She, Cupid (Ken) & wan a Ken's brethren link hup han went liming! When mi call deh whole lot a dem sound drunk as HECK han music blasting inna deh background! Mi haffi hask dem where yuh deh? "Dead End Beach...a play some pool and listen some music!" Gurl, I wanted to BAWL I hate when heveryone else ah fulljoy dem self han mi wan leave hat home ah wuk! Suurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrpppsss! Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 14:37:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (JALOVE @ Feb 21 2008, 01:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Good news ladies!! i have to share i feel great!! Mommy got her her pet scan results today to see if the chemotherapy is working they said that her lymph nodes are shrinking and she may only need 6 treatments instead of 8! She is a trooper she is hangin in there! i admire her strength. They said there is a chance the cancer may return but for now things are looking great. God is good. Treatment 5 is next week. Chica...that is such wonderful news!!!! Congrats to Mom and your whole Fam!! As ALWAYS you are in our prayers for continued blessings!! Love you, Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 14:29:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Feb 21 2008, 01:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Feb 21 2008, 01:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Lita .....I WISH I WAS IN JAMAICA RIGHT NOW ..INSTEAD OF IN THIS HOUSE !!!! Kimmi I wish I was too. Was speaking to my cousin this morning and I had him on speaker phone and my boss comes into my office, you could hear the ROSTER crowing in the background ...Just deh oddah deh Ken call mi Hearly inna deh mawning han I could hear deh roster!! I was like 'GOOD MAWNING MISTA ROSTER HOW ARE YOU TIDDEH!!!?" I was so excited to hear em...deh sounds of home! AHhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Ken was like mi a guh git wan rock stone han fling pon em...if em doan SHUT MI RASSCLAAT HUP!!!! Cho! A chat bout..."Mawning Roster...Evening Foul fuh mi supper if em nuh tap em noise!" Needless to say he couldn't relate to my joy! Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 14:21:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Feb 21 2008, 12:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 21 2008, 01:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Feb 21 2008, 11:45 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Feb 21 2008, 12:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> hahahaaa...bwoy mi woulda get my pickney dem passport yuh know...fly high ar fly low...dem live wid mi and cause him a bi selfish....kissteet...MEN Yep..so sad when the children have to suffer. He keep a lot of ####### when I leave them. But won't dare help mi so that I can tek them with me. All #### gone hit the fan if they don't have passports come Dec. I can't wait I called this morning asking when he could met, he seh he haf ti call mi back That' he's been saying for the past year and never calls back. His mother asked me the other day about when i was going to get them. I seh when ever your son decides to come with. Brownie, It's not a MUST dat yuh HAFFI git his signature yuh knoa! I tried the legit way wid my two boys han dem faddah! But b/c his rass never left the country except when when we went to the Bahamas...he didn't want to give my boys the opportunity either! Dyam eediat crab! Suh...mi call em hask em fuh sign nuff times...afta deh fifth time I filled out that I have attempted to contact Mr. J. and have had no success. I have no idea where he is and just sign the part of their application that stated that! End of story! I seriously have no patience for foolishness...hit jus bun em cause my boys were going to JA. before him...He is what I call a Jafakecan. Talked ish bout Yardies all deh time...but furst ting outta em mouth was 'Bumba and my wife is Jamaican...' He ALWAYS wanted to go to JA...so that his son's were able to do it TWICE jus bun em! Na na na na naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa...I'm lovin' it!! Gill You know what..... I'm going to try doing it with out him and see what happens. He can be such an ###..I can see him calling the police or somebody to report me. Yes gurl, Em cyan't do yuh nuttin'. Yuh ave a round trip tkt fuh deh pickney dem...yuh nuh sell yuh house! They main reason for this is for parents that pack hup han gwaan wid deh pickney dem...never to be seen from again! Surrrrrrrrrps...I wish jackhass wouldda try fi tell mi sittin' bout dem passport! Mi wouldda seh officer hask em fuh mi where is my $20,000 em owe mi in child support!? Puh-lease...tek weh yuhself hold Bwoy!! Bwoy deh Babylon tek yuh weh fuh mi!!! Gill QUOTE (Jengles @ Feb 21 2008, 12:23 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 21 2008, 12:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jengles @ Feb 21 2008, 12:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 21 2008, 11:33 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Feb 21 2008, 11:11 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Feb 21 2008, 10:02 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> TOTALLY off topic...my brains are fried now.......I have a question. For those of you who CREAM/PERM/RELAXER unu head...how long do you wait before getting a touch-up. about 6 weeks.. I used to be able to go almost 6 months...now I'm down to every 3 months! Lawd, it need hit rightya now! I was think if I should do it before I go down or after! Because seriously, when I get it permed I look like a wet dog for a month (SOOOO FLAT)before it gets some body back! Plus, I sweat...so I am not even THINKING about trying to wear it straight for the interview! Lawd WHY is OUR hair such a trial!!!? Bless, Gill sounds like mi, what stregnth are u using. careful, cause we tend to get our hair overprocessed. Olive Oil Brand...regular... Gill try mild and have them work it in. Will do Chica...that's a good idea! Bless, Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 12:27:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Yardiewife @ Feb 21 2008, 11:58 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Good Morning Feels like it is Wednesday but it is Thursday I need a weekend bad. QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Feb 21 2008, 08:48 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 21 2008, 12:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Lawd WHY is OUR hair such a trial!!!? Bless, Gill I live by micros I really need to do sumting different tho:wacko: I would love to have hair that I could actually do something with. My hair is thin, fine and frizzy and I hate it!!! All I can do is wear it up and in a bun. Even a ponytail looks a mess with it all crazy and frizzy. I would get my hair done in twists or corn rows in JA and loved it. Unfortunately to get it done here is mad expensive plus I get way to many looks. Jams, I saw a picture of you in the Yahoo photo book with twists...they look so nice! I waer my hair in a ponytail EVERYDAY!! Until, my hair line started to look like Susan Taylor (from Essence)!! Than's when I cut them into bangs...then I looked like a fat, brown, Portia Simpson Miller...moral of the story...I am NEVER blood cleat happy wid my hair! So now it back into a ponytail with bangs...hot dyam mess!!! Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 12:22:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Jengles @ Feb 21 2008, 12:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 21 2008, 11:33 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Feb 21 2008, 11:11 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Feb 21 2008, 10:02 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> TOTALLY off topic...my brains are fried now.......I have a question. For those of you who CREAM/PERM/RELAXER unu head...how long do you wait before getting a touch-up. about 6 weeks.. I used to be able to go almost 6 months...now I'm down to every 3 months! Lawd, it need hit rightya now! I was think if I should do it before I go down or after! Because seriously, when I get it permed I look like a wet dog for a month (SOOOO FLAT)before it gets some body back! Plus, I sweat...so I am not even THINKING about trying to wear it straight for the interview! Lawd WHY is OUR hair such a trial!!!? Bless, Gill sounds like mi, what stregnth are u using. careful, cause we tend to get our hair overprocessed. Olive Oil Brand...regular... Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 12:14:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Feb 21 2008, 11:45 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Feb 21 2008, 12:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> hahahaaa...bwoy mi woulda get my pickney dem passport yuh know...fly high ar fly low...dem live wid mi and cause him a bi selfish....kissteet...MEN Yep..so sad when the children have to suffer. He keep a lot of ####### when I leave them. But won't dare help mi so that I can tek them with me. All #### gone hit the fan if they don't have passports come Dec. I can't wait I called this morning asking when he could met, he seh he haf ti call mi back That' he's been saying for the past year and never calls back. His mother asked me the other day about when i was going to get them. I seh when ever your son decides to come with. Brownie, It's not a MUST dat yuh HAFFI git his signature yuh knoa! I tried the legit way wid my two boys han dem faddah! But b/c his rass never left the country except when when we went to the Bahamas...he didn't want to give my boys the opportunity either! Dyam eediat crab! Suh...mi call em hask em fuh sign nuff times...afta deh fifth time I filled out that I have attempted to contact Mr. J. and have had no success. I have no idea where he is and just sign the part of their application that stated that! End of story! I seriously have no patience for foolishness...hit jus bun em cause my boys were going to JA. before him...He is what I call a Jafakecan. Talked ish bout Yardies all deh time...but furst ting outta em mouth was 'Bumba and my wife is Jamaican...' He ALWAYS wanted to go to JA...so that his son's were able to do it TWICE jus bun em! Na na na na naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa...I'm lovin' it!! Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 12:13:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Feb 21 2008, 11:11 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Feb 21 2008, 10:02 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> TOTALLY off topic...my brains are fried now.......I have a question. For those of you who CREAM/PERM/RELAXER unu head...how long do you wait before getting a touch-up. about 6 weeks.. I used to be able to go almost 6 months...now I'm down to every 3 months! Lawd, it need hit rightya now! I was think if I should do it before I go down or after! Because seriously, when I get it permed I look like a wet dog for a month (SOOOO FLAT)before it gets some body back! Plus, I sweat...so I am not even THINKING about trying to wear it straight for the interview! Lawd WHY is OUR hair such a trial!!!? Bless, Gill Edited by Deyoungting, 21 February 2008 - 11:33 AM.	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 11:33:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Jengles @ Feb 21 2008, 10:38 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (nannygirl82 @ Feb 21 2008, 10:34 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jengles @ Feb 21 2008, 10:32 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> what goes around comes around, or should I say gets kicked out...i hope he moved back in to his tenament yard...u cousin nice, too bad she had to bring his clothes to the police station. i would have thrown bleach pon dem and rub dem inna di dirt. or a huge bon fire and roasted marshmellows.... right can just imagine....just burning each of his pants leg in the front. She should have pour bleach by deh crotches area inna each one of em pants!! Like a Scarlett Letter!!! Edited by Deyoungting, 21 February 2008 - 10:53 AM.	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 10:51:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Feb 21 2008, 10:01 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Gill, My cousin is a grown woman...a lot older than me, so you know this was very embrassing for her. She was trying to keep it quiet, but when she returned to the house and the two of them was there it just turned into a disaster. She said if he knife had dropped to the side of the fridge, he would have been stabbed in his belly and she would have been charged with assault, but it just scrape his skin on his hand. My cousins stayed at the house last night and her sons are coming to stay there for the weekend. They're officers in Kingston, so I dear her EX to go back to the house. I'll PM you his real name...Coral Gardens big, but you know how word spread and news spread quick in Jamaica. His nickname is Mr. Mention(need I say more)..some call him Pretty or INDIAN. Tell Ken, yes, men can be so damn foolish, same some women can be just as foolish. Mi naw mek no BUDDY tun mi inna ediat. My poor fiance said my cousin is a good woman. She tried to handle it with some kind of grace, but it's so much one person can take. My fiance said during the incident at the house yesteray morning she didn't cry once...not once in his presence. He told her if it was some other Jamaican woman, they don't care if the other woman pregnant...dem wouda kick her rass down the flight of stairs in front of the house, run down and kick her some more. Then dem wouda go aftah di man and cut up im clatt. Gill, check this out...yesterday morning my cousin ex a dash wud pon my fiance, bout im a informer...my fiance tell im fi go suck imself dutty bc'self...see my fiance would him at the club all the time....way before he every met me. Everybody know disyah man. My fiance would see him in Pier 1 or the Ville surrounded by women. Like my cousin said, she knew something was wrong from November last year, but she wanted confirmation. When she came back for the rebel salute, she was kind of suspicious, but she had so much fun she let it pass. I see my baby in 47 DAYS!!!!!!!!!! Unu might feel the EARTH'QUAKE/RUMBLE I'm so bad. Dyam shame...but I am so happy she found out now...Cause tuh have DAT albatross around her neck for 2 days, much less 2 years would have been too much to bear! She will find her 'one'. Tell her to keep the faith...he's out there! Crazy rass a chat bout, em a guh find a nex sponsor! Em need fuh find a CLUE!!! USCIS doan work suh! I am almost PRAYING that he shows up! Is wat dem really tek dis ting fuh! Frigging leach han vampire dem! Bless, Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 10:24:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Jengles @ Feb 21 2008, 09:16 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 21 2008, 09:09 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Feb 20 2008, 09:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Feb 20 2008, 06:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Good afternoon all, this situation here has me speechless..Like ya'll said, not only is dude wrong 100% but what was his girlfriend thinking?? You know this is another woman's house you living in and your man is going to go be with HER in the US, so you and your new baby is pretty much homeless. yuh tink ya gwaan stay in di yaad and ya man visit ya hevery tree monts from farrin?!? And then you foolish enough to talk noise to the woman who house your pregnant RASS been living in!!!! Chat bout ie cosponsor?? Be happy di cousin spare di pickney and naa bop ya pon ya headtop ediat gyal!! You see it. Seems unreal. It's oo sad. I'm so glad she found is pretty bwoy rass out. I'm speechless as well and pissed all the same. Got the never to talk SHYT in sombobbi elses Shyt I don't know what I would have done, surely I'd ave lost it, Thank goodness is was pregnant cause mi ah try fi kill har too. gain some some bloodcl## class why don't you. Yuh Dyam right Brownie! but don't ya'll see that she did, she moved up in the world, she get nice house to stay in, somebady is paying her bills, she couldn't want anything more. but a good tump ...mi seh deh part dat hurt mi is...she nuh feel nuh way fi siddung inna nex ooman house!! Bwoy, em buddy good suh...til hit ton yuh fool!?!?! Den fi hall a bring har pickney dem fi live inna deh home! No suh! She mad fuh real! I don't blame Lawny's cousin fuh selling it! Honestly, it would hold nothing but bad vibes for me! She need fi git riddah every!bloodclaat ting! Git riddah em...deh house...deh visa application...hevery claating ting! Lawny, when yuh git a chance please give mi em name...cause mi ears a guh be pon ####### dat mawning! I told Ken about deh appens last night...Em tell mi seh one ah em brethren back in Greenwood tell Em sittin a gwaan on suh inna Coral Gardens yesterday Mawning! Em tink hit was lie em brethren a tell em! Cause em coulddna believe henny man couldda DAT fool and nasty! ...No clue....what nasty dutty dawgs some men can be! Lawny Cousin...mi dear PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DRY YOUR TEARS!!!! TO G-D BE THE GLORY!!!! Yeah see how he loves you! My love, C-E-L-E-B-R-A-T-E!!!! Mi knoa yuh did spend plenty money pon dissa CLAAT!!! But Sistren, dem tings deh is nothing!!! Yuh cyan wuk dat back!! What wouldda hard fi git back is your life. sanity and happiness. After dis clown reach pon US shores!!! Sweetheart, trust me...I knoa yuh don't see hit now...BUT THIS IS TRULY A BLESSING!!!!!! You are truly a child of his favor! Bless-ed love to you always, Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 09:31:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Feb 20 2008, 11:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hey Gil.. I see you are a Barack Obama supporter.. he was here in Dallas today. I couldn't get off from work, but I heard the energy was CRAZY. A friend told me the diversity that was in the place was a sight to see, just as he states, he has supporters from every end of the spectrum, rich/poor, young/old and of course ALL races...Just a beautiful thing to have seen I can imagine... WOOOO-HOOO!!!! Yes Quani!!! Mi see Obama feva a cyatch on inna Texas!!! It's not like I dislike Hillary. As a matter of fact she pretty much had my vote up til mid- January. I just think we need a unifier (sp?) right now and she is not that! I am sick of Red State/Blue State foolishness because NO state is winning! Analysts say We are about to go into one of the biggest recessions our nation has seen in 40 years! Personally, I think we already are in one! I need someone that is gonna figure out how to fix our broken economy, educational system, foreign affairs policy etc. I just thing Barack has the best shot of doing that! We can't do that if the Republicans in congress are going to be blocking us every step of the way! We need them to fix this mess! If you get a chance you should try to hear him speak...the vibes in the place are just so positive and uplifting! I have been a fanatic Dem for years...working campaigns, knocking on doors, voter registration drives, gone to a lot of rallies...this man was TOTALLY different! Bless-ed, Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 09:19:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Feb 20 2008, 09:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Feb 20 2008, 06:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Good afternoon all, this situation here has me speechless..Like ya'll said, not only is dude wrong 100% but what was his girlfriend thinking?? You know this is another woman's house you living in and your man is going to go be with HER in the US, so you and your new baby is pretty much homeless. yuh tink ya gwaan stay in di yaad and ya man visit ya hevery tree monts from farrin?!? And then you foolish enough to talk noise to the woman who house your pregnant RASS been living in!!!! Chat bout ie cosponsor?? Be happy di cousin spare di pickney and naa bop ya pon ya headtop ediat gyal!! You see it. Seems unreal. It's oo sad. I'm so glad she found is pretty bwoy rass out. I'm speechless as well and pissed all the same. Got the never to talk SHYT in sombobbi elses Shyt I don't know what I would have done, surely I'd ave lost it, Thank goodness is was pregnant cause mi ah try fi kill har too. gain some some bloodcl## class why don't you. Yuh Dyam right Brownie!	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 09:09:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (typee0 @ Feb 20 2008, 09:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I will pray with you all for Gods Complete Will, and peace in our lives. I enjoy my yardie fam here on vj. I pray for a hedge of protection around you all and your families and all that concerns you. In Jesus Name Health and Wellness Always!!! Beautifully said Ty...thank you so much!!! Bless-ed, Gill QUOTE (JALOVE @ Feb 20 2008, 09:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 20 2008, 09:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JALOVE @ Feb 20 2008, 06:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> HI GUYS... DOES THIS MEAN NO IN PERSON INTERVIEW???? IF ITS GOIN TO CALI WILL THEY SEND IT TO NEWARK OR IF ONCE XFERD NO MORE XFERS... ?? *** DO NOT RESPOND TO THIS E-MAIL *** The last processing action taken on your case Receipt Number: MSC0XXXXXXXX Application Type: I485 , APPLICATION TO REGISTER PERMANENT RESIDENCE OR TO ADJUST STATUS Current Status: Case Transfered to Another Office for Processing On February 19, 2008, we transferred this case I485 APPLICATION TO REGISTER PERMANENT RESIDENCE OR TO ADJUST STATUS to our CALIFORNIA SERVICE CENTER location for processing and sent you a notice explaining this action. Please follow the instructions provided on the notice. AHHHHHHHHHHHHH...Congrats Chica!!!! I'm so happy for you...cyan't answer none of yuh question dem...but you'll be able to answer mine (when...(mek dat) ...IF mi reach dissa part!!!! ) Congrats to you again...I LOVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVE YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU!!! , Gill thanks i sure will lol im make notes for u now so i can email them when done hahah u sure keep my spirits up you know i be goin thru alot! pray for me !!!! i need it!!! ALWAYS CHICA!!!! Love ya, Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-20 22:10:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (JALOVE @ Feb 20 2008, 06:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> HI GUYS... DOES THIS MEAN NO IN PERSON INTERVIEW???? IF ITS GOIN TO CALI WILL THEY SEND IT TO NEWARK OR IF ONCE XFERD NO MORE XFERS... ?? *** DO NOT RESPOND TO THIS E-MAIL *** The last processing action taken on your case Receipt Number: MSC0XXXXXXXX Application Type: I485 , APPLICATION TO REGISTER PERMANENT RESIDENCE OR TO ADJUST STATUS Current Status: Case Transfered to Another Office for Processing On February 19, 2008, we transferred this case I485 APPLICATION TO REGISTER PERMANENT RESIDENCE OR TO ADJUST STATUS to our CALIFORNIA SERVICE CENTER location for processing and sent you a notice explaining this action. Please follow the instructions provided on the notice. AHHHHHHHHHHHHH...Congrats Chica!!!! I'm so happy for you...cyan't answer none of yuh question dem...but you'll be able to answer mine (when...(mek dat) ...IF mi reach dissa part!!!! ) Congrats to you again...I LOVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVE YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU!!! , Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-20 21:17:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Feb 20 2008, 02:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Feb 20 2008, 01:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Feb 20 2008, 01:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hey Ladies... Sorry had to get some people to go calm my cousin's mom down. She wanted to get on a flight to Jamaica this afternoon. My cousin didn't have to go to the consulate in Montego Bay, she spoke to someone at the embassy in Kingston. The same councilman from her district helped her out. She was on the phone for 20 mins. She told the person about the situation without making it too personal. The appointment for the interview was cancelled immediately. She has to called USCIS for them to do something with the record and she has to call another place (can't remember where it is). My cousin was only planning to be in Jamaica for 2 days, but now she'll be there until next Friday. She has to secure the house, since he threatened to burn it down. She has to get a no trespass order in place (not sure what good that will do in Jamaica). She has to change all the locks on the doors. She went down to the Court house to look about the arrest, but was direct back to the police station at Carol Gardens. I told her not to do that. She was release and not charged with anything. As far as I'm concerened it was over and done with. If they wanted to lock her up they would have done so this morning when they came out to the house or when she dropped of the clothing at the police sation. My fiance helped her to pack her ex's things up in a boxes and brought them to the police station as instructed. The sargent told her that this guy is going to be a problem and she needs to get someone to look after the house. One of the officers also heard him say he was going to burn down the house. What a mess. Thanks for the support. The only thing that was concerning to my cousin was him being able to get through with the interview, getting the visa and flying to the states. I guess he's A$$ out now. Dirty #######. I'm so sick to my stomach I can't eat lunch. This is just too much for one person to deal with. She says it has not hit her yet. And she could have brought a new car with the money she spent on the DA.... I'm hoping he shows up for the interview and dem dash im rass outdah di door. A dem time deh im ago mad fi real. Dutty bc no ave no weh fi live now...mek im galang back a dutty FLANKERS weh im come fram. One more thing she should do is file a police report that he said he was going to burn the house down, JUST IN CASE!! Sweet mi suh til seh di dutty bwaay sheg up himself BEFORE him get weh him did a look......mussi did all tell pregnant gyal how di two a dem did a guh a fariegn..... But my question is, HOW OOMAN SUH DUTYY??????? Imagine a) yuh know yuh man have ooman yuh mek dat pass yuh c) yuh breed fi a man wid NINE pickney d) YUH GUH HITCH UP INNA DI OOMAN YAWD????????????????????? har shame tree DEAD man English, I said the same thing...she don't have no shame. I told my cousin to let him go when he lied the first time about how many kids he had, but she said she forgave him. But when he moved his family up in that house...that would have been the last straw for me. If she didn't cuss and carry on they would have still been hitched up in the house. Imagine you build you nice house and people just wah tek liberty pon u. Then this pu##*$ ago bring his woman in the house. And yes, pregnant girlfriend knew my cousin existed, but she didn't care (and with her brite self bout...im can use another co-sponsor)...im no need fi ar help no more... Weh Gill deh...I have to tell you what he look like. I want to know if he will show up for the interview (can't miss this MF....he's a pretty boy with long hair). He looks Puerto Rican. I think his mom is Brazalian and his dad Jamaican. and im MOUT loud. I think the interview was scheduled for 8:30 on 3/11/08. Bway mi no know...she a handle it well, but I would have been facing a charge. That is just too painful...next ooman a ansah u'r door...rahtid smadi avi dead and get bruck up. And of course...ex fiance had nothing to say (he was just standing there like a frighten PUSS!) Chica..yuh doan knoa mi arready!! Mi a guh be WATCHING fuh henny pretty bwoy!! Mi a guh LAFF LOUD WHEN DEM kick his RASS HOUT!!!!!!! YEAHHHHH ... ican tell em mi 'Funny smell' story miself!!! I'll be like "KENNY DHHHARLING...YUH SMELL SITTIN?????" ...When we standing on line for the interview...@ 8:30!!!!!! Kenny will whisper...."Ooman Duh...nuh boddah fi start wid yuh madness rightta now...jus' low hit!" I'll Laugh... HAN seh 'KENNY DHHHHARLING...Mi waan wan COOK GOOSE fi dinner...yuh 'ear!!" Han look pretty Bwoy dead inna em pretty yeye dem!! Ken will just look pon mi han laugh at dat point!! (Thank G-d mi ave a man dat see wid mi han mi madness ) Watch mi if yuh nuh tink a suh hit a guh go!! Nuh suh...madicks Pretty bwoy couldda never come Embassy pon MY day!!! Beg yuh WARN Em fi mi Lawny...WARN EM!!!!! Bless, Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-20 15:08:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (JALOVE @ Feb 20 2008, 11:55 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Any ideas on how this will work. My friend met a guy from the Bahamas. He came as a vistor on his passport and police record to the US. I dont think they need a visa to visit the US. His family then filed for him. That is still pending over a year now. No activity on his file. So he marries my friend this past november. If she files for him does he have to go back to Bahamas? Does the old petition from his family get thrown out. Should they even file again? JA-JA, You doan knoa my answer to hevery dyam thing these days is ..."Call the '202#!" What are the winning Mega Million numbers gonna be?..."Call the '202'#!" Where is my tax refund?..."202#" But it might not be a bad idea for her too call. They would probably be able to tell her what their next step would be! Mi seh mi han dat deh 202 # is deh best a friend!!!! Sarry Chica...that's the best I can offer! Love ya Im probably GONNA GIT a call from deh 202 # saying..."B1tch, tap tell heveryone fuh call yahso!!!" Edited by Deyoungting, 20 February 2008 - 12:36 PM.	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-20 12:33:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Jengles @ Feb 20 2008, 11:35 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> police called back (wasn't that quick) my uncle is ok, something is wrong with his phone. thank god, because i couldn't take one more thing this week Thank G-d!!!!!!! (leave me alone, Lita ) So happy to hear Jengy...finally some good news! Love ya, Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-20 12:12:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Jengles @ Feb 20 2008, 10:12 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (sus @ Feb 20 2008, 10:00 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Here's some info: http://www.jamaica-g...air/flair4.html Maybe squatter wasn't the best term - but there are laws regarding co-habitation, even if the house was only in her name - QUOTE Joint ownership may impact on rights which individuals may acquire through marriage or cohabitation. For example, pursuant to the Property (Rights of Spouses) Act, each spouse is presumed to be entitled to a 50 per cent share in the "family home." However, the presumption will not arise if the couple resides in a home which is registered in the joint names of one spouse and a third party. So, the family home must be owned solely by one or both spouses. I think that she is best to talk to an attorney down there if he refuses to leave the house - I know that sometimes things work different inna yard, but in light of the arrest she needs to keep things on the up and up - Thanks for the welcome, Gill but the pregnant chick has to go Deh hole bloodclaat dutty mongle lot of dem haffi guh! ESPECIALLY EM!!!!! Dyam dutty Dawg!! Lawny, I know your cous isn't up for it...but I swear given the opportunity I wouldda seh sittin like: "Eheh...What's dat smell?" Infronta deh officers and the whole claating lot!! "Bwoy, yuh smell hit?" "Hit smell like sittin a bun...Yuh leave sittin pon deh fiya?" "Yes, man yuh mus smell hit! It smell like.................... BURNT GOOSE!! (Dead- a$$ serious face) Eh eh...yuh goose cook til hitta BUN!!!! Come hout da mi Yard. Mek Dawg come nyam yuh supper!" Gill QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Feb 20 2008, 10:28 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jengles @ Feb 20 2008, 10:22 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> *sigh* my grandmother just called, she's been trying to call her brother in bronx since Monday and not getting him, so now i have to find his address and send the police over to the house. hope he's ok. JENS.. Sorry to hear that. I hope all is well. Oh lawd Jengy...what a week what a week! Hush Mama...deh good news is...nuttin' stay deh same fu lang! Love ya, Gill Edited by Deyoungting, 20 February 2008 - 10:31 AM.	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-20 10:32:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Jengles @ Feb 20 2008, 09:50 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> they have squatter's rights in J.A. ?? doesn't squatter mean the place was abandoned and then they moved in. where is jomo's girl ??? she can find this out for us, she good at stuff like this. I think JG had surgery tidddeh...Memba Jengs..she's out for a few! I think they do have some sort of right though! We have people living on our property in country for donkey donkey years and have been trying to GET them OUT for the longest! However, I believe you are right about abandoned property and the length of time they have been there, could be a next piece! Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-20 09:56:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (sus @ Feb 20 2008, 09:46 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Thought I would pop on here and intro myself in light of the duppy posts (No, I am not one, lol) - Long story short - Joined VJ when I was in the K1 process years ago with a man from Barbados - relationship ended prior to him coming here. I have lurked on and off for a few reasons - (1) I work in the legal field and love immigration, this site is a great resource, and (2) now I am in a relationship with a JA man, not sure where it's going, but trying to keep up to date on the process. Anywho - Trelawny, your post made me come outta the dark, lol - The police want your cousin to surrender her passport so that she doesn't leave the country before facing court. Immediately have her get in touch with the consular office and an attorney - There is a list of attorneys here: http://kingston.usem...v/arrested.html Also another contact at the Consulate in Mo Bay: Consular Agencies *Montego Bay Mr. Robert Garth is the consular agent in Montego Bay and is available to assist American citizens residing in Hanover, Westmoreland, St. James and Trelawny: Address: St. James Place, 2nd Floor, Gloucester Avenue Montego Bay, St. James, Jamaica Tel: (876) 952-0160; Fax: (876) 952-5050 E-mail: usconsagency.mobay@cwjamaica.com As for them having to leave the house - that's a whole other issue - there's squatters rights, etc... She needs to concentrate on the arrest and dealing with the police - The rest can wait. Thanks for the info Susie, I'm sure Lawny appreciates it! Welcome Back!! Please don't be a 'duppy'! We love new voices and insight on this thread!! Good luck with your Yardman ...tek it slow and keep your eyes open!! You more than anyone knows what you are looking for in a man...and I hope you have found it in him! Bless, Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-20 09:54:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	Mawning Fam, I hope everyone had a restful night... ... . Not looking like that from all the drama going on pon this thread lately! Aright...mi soon come wid the chuckle but have you guys seen this youtube clip!? This young man gives me hope in the youth!! Not just b/c he is for Obama...but b/c he KNOWS EXACTLY WHY HE IS FOR OBAMA!!! Check it out and give me your thoughts!!	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-20 09:41:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Feb 20 2008, 09:07 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Thanks Gill. Now, she had another problem. My uncles are on their way to Coral Gardens now, you know that mother)(*#$ is still in the house after all that took place yesterday. I'm on the phone with her now and the police is arguing with her because they want her passport. Can they take her passport? She was arrested because she and the other woman was fighting and the (the A$$ - fiance) got stabbed in the process. So, now the fiance and the other woman are both saying that it was my cousin that attacked them and he stood in the way so he could protect his pregnant girlfriend. But the neighbors say different (they attacked my cousin) that's why she was released this morning. She has to see a Judge today. This is a big friggin mess. The other woman was also arrested. Lawny, Call the US Consulate in Mo Bay! I second Jengy...does she have proof that is her home! Title and all...den dem haffi come HOUT!!! Tell har fi call dissa ooman inna MoBay: Montego Bay Lisa Gallimore-Hyde is the consular agent in Montego Bay and is available to assist American citizens residing in Hanover, Westmoreland, St. James and Trelawny. Address: St. James Place, 2nd Floor, Gloucester Avenue Montego Bay, St. James, Jamaica Tel: (876) 952-0160; Fax: (876) 952-5050 E-mail: usconsagency.mobay@cwjamaica.com Office Hours: Monday-Friday, 9:00 a.m. - 12:30 p.m. Blood claat foolishness! Keep us posted! Bless, Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-20 09:35:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Feb 20 2008, 08:37 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> MAWIN...MAWIN ladies...I need ya'll to help my cousin out...I'll try and give the short version She met her fiance in Sept. 2006, filed K-1 Sept 2007, got approved Dec. 2007, INTERVIEW 3/11/08. I tell you US, WE, WOMAN make the best damn detectives and private eyes someone could hire. I say when you gut tells you something is wrong, it must be true. Now, when she met this man in '06 he told her he had 4 kids (turns out be be 9!!!!!!!!). Forgave him (mistake - 1) She completed her house May 2007 and he moved into it with some of his family (mistake 2). Family have since moved out (FREELOADERS). But things still going well. This month (I think was the REBEL salute in Negril)...she goes to visit for a few days (things still okay I guess) but he would dissapear for hours after work. Well........ My cousin decides to fly home yesterday, picked up her rental car, drives to her home in Coral Gardens MoBay, walks up her steps to open her front door and well, a (VERY PREGNANT) woman opens the door and says (MAY I HELP YOU). I'm trying to keep this short. They let my cousin out of jail this morning. I just spoke to her and this is her question. Can this )(*#$)#$ still move forward with the interview next month even though she has not completed the I-134 (I think that's what it's called), she did not give him any documents as far as her income, bank statements and tax records. His new woman tells my cousin, he don't need her no more in the process, because he can use a co-sponsor for the affidavit of support. Is that true? The way I understand it is, you the petitioner, you only need a co-sponsor if you don't make enough $$$$$, right? Sad thing...I knew something was not right with this guy. When I went to Jamaica in November women were all over him at Pier 1 and it was worse when we went to Amensia in Ocho Rios. I didn't matter were we went, someone knew him. I wanted to tell my cousin, but I left it alone. When my fiance went there to paint the garage, he saw some woman there and he told my fiance that she was the helper. Whatever. So, what does she do now (I say fly back to the states)? Can he proceed without her? So, please help me to help her. Lawny, Mi sarry fi ear bout dat!! Jah knoa what a DYAM good ting she did findhout wat a pissa shyt he was BEFORE the interview!! NO...HE CAN NOT MOVE FORWARD WITHOUT HER!!!!! Especially because he has non of the documents necessary for approval! Co-sponsorship mi RASS!!!!!! If it ain't the name of the Petitioner on the paper work...they will not accept documentation from ANYONE else! I wah dem tek dis ting fuh!!!! Is not like dem a buy a cyar and someone else can co-sign!!! She need to withdraw her application IMMEDIATELY!!!! PLEASE BEFORE YOU DUH HENNYTING ELSE CALL DEH 202-663-1225 # HIT OPTION '1', THEN '0'!!! Since she dung deh tell har fi CALL deh Embassy!! Citizens Services should be able to help her sort all of this out! Such a dyam shame...we had the same interview date!! Mi seh some man SO dyam FOOL yuh see!!!! Please stress to har Lawny...dat G-d loves her by showing her the light BEFORE she brought em hup here fi mek a fool outta har!! Now, em jus hen hup playing em DYAM self!!!! Please keep us posted!! Love ya, Gill Edited by Deyoungting, 20 February 2008 - 08:52 AM.	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-20 08:52:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Feb 19 2008, 09:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 19 2008, 09:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Feb 19 2008, 09:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Look like mi a go deh yah ole night..cause mi stil no have a clue... QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 19 2008, 09:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Mistress Benz, Yuh finish yuh paper yet? ...Mi a watch yuh! , Gill Gilli all a now..if mi nah lay down mi a vomit or mi just cyant come up wid nuttin wah mek sense..at this point mi just want hand in something wah mek likkle sense...kissteet Look, mi nuh need yuh fi stress ova dis sittin'...is there hennyway yuh cyan ask him for an extension, given your current condition? Gilli A dat mi did a wonder..but mi a seh cause a di final paper him may no want do it..but nuttin try nuttin done Kim, Ask em for an Incomplete for the semester. Most schools have it that you can have an incomplete for a semester to make up the work. Nothing ventured.... Love ya, Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-19 22:04:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (sjb1221 @ Feb 28 2008, 02:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Feb 28 2008, 10:29 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Wow...I was-am stressin wit the older mom ting. I'm turnin 32 dis year not gettin any younger, I guess, Gill look like you and I might be preggers bout the same time. My husband in a suttle way asked me to remove my BC as soon as possible. I have not , I figure if he really wants me to get preggers he'll demand it which is what I need to hear to really get moving on it???Do yall agree? I know probably not. I plan to start my Master's in the Fall. I don't want to sound selfish but I really want to get it done first. but I guess I can do it all at the same time. I'm torn ova the situation. Part of me really wants to and de res, well seh heck no! I must be mad to even consider it. I don't consider my self nasty or unclean but I was taught to wash my underwear out in the sink, while hubby has never observed this, he did see me wash my bathing suit out in the sink while on vaction and had an absolute cow ova it, and asked me if I did my undies the same way. All of a sudden he just stop talking and would not say a word afterward for a while. Then he explained that it was "nasty" or unclean to wash your under wear in the same place you wash your face. That I am to wash dem in the bath or when I shower. I just pondered over it for a while dumfoundedly and descided he could win this one. Hello VJ family. Brownskinn - we're almost in the same boat. I feel stressed out the baby issue too...it's an issue for us. Damien gave me until June to stop taking my BC I love babies and being a mother but it scares me to take one child to college and the other to kindergarden. My friends and family keep telling me to get over it...I have a large support system but I have mixed emotions about it. Back to the underwear thing - is that true for the men to? I was also taught to wash my undies out but we had a special soaking pan under the sink then we rinsed them out in the tub. Brownie & SJBeenie, I feel you on this convo! I'm no spring chicken and I don't want to just DIVE into having a baby cause my clock is ticking. I want to give us adjustment time for our family of FIVE to get acquainted and settle-in first. Plus, I want to start my second masters in the fall. If Missa Young tell mi seh em a guh 'Breed' mi by Christmas one more time mi a guh SCREAM!!! the only reason he has been this patient is because he KNOWS I was pregnant during my first wedding and it SUCKED!!! Heverybody drunk as skunks acting the fool han I just waan guh a mi yard han sleep! I want to give him another child because he only has his son & he LOVES children but...Bwoy it is a serious decision! He is open to adoption (he wants to adopt 3!!!! plus us have 1 of our own) Mi haffi tell em dat we are NOT Brad & Angelina!!! Cho...MEN!!! But, like Bob seh..."Time Will Tell" Bless, Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-28 15:05:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Feb 28 2008, 09:20 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Feb 28 2008, 09:03 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jengles @ Feb 28 2008, 09:03 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> good morning everyone! JENGS...mi deh yah a wait pon u fi come and start trouble. How u do and how u feeling? Mawnin everybadi, mi ago start do something new. If you want to join in, please feel free to do so. UNU BOW UNU HEAD... Heavenly Father, Please watch over my VJ sisters and brothers who are going through the immigration process. Please hold them close to you dear Lord and as we bond together as a family, please guide us and give us STRENGTH to look forward to a new day and to face the new challenges in our lives (whatever they may be) HEAD-on. We ask in your name dear Lord, AMEN. Unu can git up now. AMEN.... Beautiful Lawny!! Bless-ed Mawning Heveryone! Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-28 10:52:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Feb 27 2008, 11:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> i'm wishing i could eat that bowl of rice...!! Lawd Kimkim...yuh hurt mi tuh mi core when mi read dat!! Love ya, Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-27 23:40:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (JALOVE @ Feb 27 2008, 10:59 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Im 38... Due date is supposed to be oct 18... ok today i got bad news boss says i cant move to tx unless i find a tx person to swap places with me so here i go bawling at work all these thoughts come to my head of how in the ####### im do this all one bedroom apt, 1565 a month one car chris no license we broke live paycheck to paycheck oh boy what im do i jsut see more expenses coming our way will need another car/insurance/75 bucks for another parkin space i know ead will soon come we did biometrics today but wow and if we move to cheaper place in jersey no guarantee what that place will be like the cheaper places i have looked at i would sleep wid one eye open i just ready to go i want a nice settle environment. I cant afford a home here!!! calgon take me awaaayyyyy.... Look Kim, I know it all seems TOTALLY overwhelming right now...and it is! But believe me Sweets...G-d has a way of providing a way! Do you hear me!? You have 7-8 whole months..hopefully by then Chris will be working and if you have to stay in the little apartment for a minute...so be it!! He will not let you down Kims...Baby Gurl...trust me on this one...He who feels it knows it...and trust me...this one I have felt! YOU WILL BE FINE!!!! Love ya , Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-27 23:37:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (JALOVE @ Feb 27 2008, 09:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Feb 27 2008, 09:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JALOVE @ Feb 27 2008, 09:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (sjb1221 @ Feb 26 2008, 02:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Great topics I'll post my experince soon. But I have question - Is there anything your SO won't do in the house? Damien and I share the housework. We both clean and do our own laundry. I do majority of the cooking. My daughter does the dishes. However, the first year we lived together he would get so upset when I asked him to take the trash out. I mean we would get into huge drag out fights over the trash....our neighbors knocked on the door once because we were too loud. It wasn't like I woke him up in the middle of the night to take it out or anything like that. He would simply get upset because I asked him....the nerve of me. be right back... Chris will do anything in the house he does not mind. He washes clothes, dishes, cooks straightens up stuff. However when he first got here he had an issue with washing our clothes together and also mention gettin his own towels/wash clothes i just laughed on that note but after we went to my moms and he saw they all wash their clothes together, he was like i guess its ok lol. I admit i did kinda get mad i said are ur clothes too good to wash with mine? So what is with the separate washing of men and womens clothes anyone know? We had the same isssue with washing the clothes....I just laugh too. He's over it now. Thank G-d. My husband still uses that rag of a towel he brought ova from JA. I thought I threw it away but it keeps comin back lol thats cute. lol...i remember havin this baby blanket i could not part with i wonder where it is lol it had clowns on speakin of babies im havin one im 6 weeks and 2 days ! pray for me guys i got those fibroids but dr said that good thing they are on the outside of my uterus but i have 3 big ones. Did any of u have the genetic testing to see if there are any deffects? Dr says cuz of my age theres a chance it could have deffects OMGoodness JA-JA!!! That's wonderful news!!! CONGRATS TO YOU & CHRIS!!!!I had testing for my eldest...but at 5 months...the needle in the womb thing (I can't memba deh name right now) Everything came back OK MANY MANY BLESSINGS TO YOU & CHRIS!!! Love ya, Gill QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Feb 27 2008, 10:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Really, and this is just my belief-n If you don't have a family history of any thing major. Like sickle cell for instance. I don't really see the need for genetic testing. We had this bid discussion about it in class the other day. There are soo many things that cause birth defects, it's unreal. I can't believe he suggested it just because of your age. I've seen many older women have healthy babies. CONGRATS!!! QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 27 2008, 11:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Feb 27 2008, 09:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Feb 27 2008, 07:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Feb 27 2008, 06:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> where everybody? lol, your meez is cute but she looks like she NEEDS to pee! She's doin a yoga pose...it doesn't show all of it. Bwoy, Brownie...yuh keep yuh likkle Meez busy eh? Yuh a tek cyara har good! She get a nap, social activism, laughed a likkle...now she getttin' her workout in! , Gill yep it's kinda fun.. nite all. She bout to get her rooks on No Meez fuh dat one...yet!	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-27 22:29:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Feb 27 2008, 09:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Feb 27 2008, 07:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Feb 27 2008, 06:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> where everybody? lol, your meez is cute but she looks like she NEEDS to pee! She's doin a yoga pose...it doesn't show all of it. Bwoy, Brownie...yuh keep yuh likkle Meez busy eh? Yuh a tek cyara har good! She get a nap, social activism, laughed a likkle...now she getttin' her workout in! , Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-27 22:10:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (cejf @ Feb 27 2008, 06:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> i sorry still ... i keep gettin' invited to dis t'read, but i come in only so often. why? it kinda overwhelming for me. so much going on, and i can't keep up. anywho, i just wanted you to know still. i still struggling with my processing. The NOA2 arrived in the mail here today and the package from Kingston with our case number and instructions arrived at my parents today also. So, it's time for me to get my behind back to Kingston and start the running around. /sigh Just thought I'd keep you all updated. Sorry I haven't participated in the ongoing discussion. YUSH CONGRATS SCOTT & CAMILLE!!! Many blessings for a speedy journey! Gill Edited by Deyoungting, 27 February 2008 - 10:09 PM.	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-27 22:08:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	...DWL...Ok, I just told Ken what I did with the Meez things! He was like "Ooman...yuh put mi cap pon mi head...cause yuh doan knoa seh mi ave a likkle head han mi doan like walk nuhwhere widhout mi hat!" When mi describe em outfit...he was like dem doan ave nuh Sean John or Lacoste polo!?!?! It's den mi start fi cuss...He was like "Arright man arright...deh Yard shirt han Rasta jacket Good man! Baby Gurl...Mi ave hon henny jewelry?" Mi jus kiss mi teet, tell "Good-Bye Missa Young!" han hang hup deh blasted phone! Dyam foolishness bless, Gill Edited by Deyoungting, 27 February 2008 - 03:18 PM.	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-27 15:17:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Feb 27 2008, 03:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hi eric!---How's the wyfee. Good to see you! I like your sign Brownie! Thanks, Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-27 15:09:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Feb 27 2008, 02:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Yes Jamie mi notice..but she tink wi no notice..ok Gill one more time...NOW U HAVE TO LIST A1 THING U HATE ABOUT UR SO..NOW !!! Kimkim is what appen tuh yuh glasses dem! Mi post seh mi cyan't tek Ken's hiccup burps inna mi ears hevery 2 seconds han dat em cyan NYAM dung deh rahtid house han not gain a BLOODCLAAT pound! Deh...onnuh appy now??? Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-27 15:04:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Yardiewife @ Feb 27 2008, 02:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Feb 27 2008, 11:15 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Yardiewife @ Feb 27 2008, 03:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> awwww So sweet Gilly! The rules are tuh post one ting wey yuh like an one ting yuh doan like. That protective stuff mek a gayl hot, hot!!.....AND you're only to name ONE ting That is our Gilly...neva follow di rules She muss show us all up and name 3 blasted good tings and no bad tings J/K Mi sarry...mi never read deh rules fuh true...	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-27 14:44:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Yardiewife @ Feb 27 2008, 02:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 27 2008, 11:06 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Feb 27 2008, 01:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> It's not fair....I can't name just one thing. I TRULY LOVE MY HUSBAND WITH ALL OF MY BEING BUT IF I JUS HAVE TO NAME ONE TING I love the way he holds me at night....all night long, and the min I venture away he searchs in his sleep and pulls me RIGHT BACK!! wear I belong. I don't know where he ends and where I begin we are so intangled in each other. I just LUV IT!!! "Thanks for holding mi" he seh once. The one thing I cannot stand or have trouble dealing with is his stubberness. The JA way is NOT the only wey Ahhhhhh Browns...dat's so sweet! Wuh mi love bout Ken is deh weh wi move together! Like I will start a sentence han em can finish hit! At Rebel Saluate wi would just look at each other han knoa seh wi waan fi move now, Den wi would start fi laugh! I love that he is so protective of mi...one night at a club...he wanted some chicken form deh Chicken man across deh street! I was like "Go, I'm not hungry ( I KNOW AMAZING!!)...I'll just wait here for you!" I was on the balcony and could see the Chicken Man across deh street! He was like "Nuh suh...yuh Mad...me miss yuh fi SIX months...mi nah guh spend a second widhout yuh!! Come Baby Gurl...wi ah guh git some Chicken!" After I stood ther for 5 minutes and realized he wasn't playing I went!" My boy don't play! When he went to the bathroom...I had to draw the line! I also love that he knows I ave a crazy playful personality and he plays along wid me and doesn't call mi crazy! He is secure enough in himself to try new tings! Most of all I love that he is my Best Friend above everything else! Mi nuh knoa if mi name too much but mi nuh read deh game rule furst! Love ya, Gill awwww So sweet Gilly! The rules are tuh post one ting wey yuh like an one ting yuh doan like. Oh... deh one ting mi doan like bout em is...his burping...not like BLAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA...but likkel hiccups inna his conversation! Like.. Ba--by Gurl! Han em mahgerness... don't git mi wrong...he is SO my typa man. My family knows if Gill has a new man he is ridiculously tall and skinny. But the other day he was like I went to deh nurse at work and I'm 6'3'' and 157lbs...#######...han he is ALWAYS eating!!!!!?!?! Em jus call mi han tell mi em hungry BAD!!! Edited by Deyoungting, 27 February 2008 - 02:39 PM.	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-27 14:37:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Feb 27 2008, 02:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> look at my meez dats how i feel..MAD !!! a MESS !!! Ahhhhhh...she's cute! But she pon deh Red Carpet widhout har shoe dem? Is arright! Mi just glad dem doan ave a vomit meez. gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-27 14:31:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Feb 27 2008, 01:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> It's not fair....I can't name just one thing. I TRULY LOVE MY HUSBAND WITH ALL OF MY BEING BUT IF I JUS HAVE TO NAME ONE TING I love the way he holds me at night....all night long, and the min I venture away he searchs in his sleep and pulls me RIGHT BACK!! wear I belong. I don't know where he ends and where I begin we are so intangled in each other. I just LUV IT!!! "Thanks for holding mi" he seh once. The one thing I cannot stand or have trouble dealing with is his stubberness. The JA way is NOT the only wey Ahhhhhh Browns...dat's so sweet! Wuh mi love bout Ken is deh weh wi move together! Like I will start a sentence han em can finish hit! At Rebel Saluate wi would just look at each other han knoa seh wi waan fi move now, Den wi would start fi laugh! I love that he is so protective of mi...one night at a club...he wanted some chicken form deh Chicken man across deh street! I was like "Go, I'm not hungry ( I KNOW AMAZING!!)...I'll just wait here for you!" I was on the balcony and could see the Chicken Man across deh street! He was like "Nuh suh...yuh Mad...me miss yuh fi SIX months...mi nah guh spend a second widhout yuh!! Come Baby Gurl...wi ah guh git some Chicken!" After I stood ther for 5 minutes and realized he wasn't playing I went!" My boy don't play! When he went to the bathroom...I had to draw the line! I also love that he knows I ave a crazy playful personality and he plays along wid me and doesn't call mi crazy! He is secure enough in himself to try new tings! Most of all I love that he is my Best Friend above everything else! Mi nuh knoa if mi name too much but mi nuh read deh game rule furst! Love ya, Gill	Forever Young	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-27 14:06:00