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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
QUOTE (Mrs. Palmer @ Aug 5 2008, 08:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey guys...don't mean to rain on everybody's parade, but I was reading back a few pages and a topic that is very real to me came up, and honestly, a lot of your answers have surprised me. The topic was what would you do if you were faced with a 3 year ban. I saw several folks say that they probably wouldn't do a LDR for 3 years...well...quite honestly, that puzzles me a bit. For this reason only: everyone up here is either wanting to marry or already married. We've all found people that we say we will pledge our love to forever. That we will stand by our SO's side in good times and bad, yadayadayada. I've definitely learned that life will definitely throw you curve balls, and no matter how well you plan your life and what kind of decisions you make, things may not always go as we would like. Does that mean that we abandon our dreams, our desires, what we believe to be ordained and blessed by God? In my opinion (and I stress, this is just my opinion), I would say I hope not. What happens when you'fre living together as man and wife and you go through a dfficult spell...as many marriages do...that can't be fixed in a month, or 2, or hell even 8? Do you leave, or do you fight for what you believe to be right and good? I feel so passionately about this because the 3 year ban was imposed upon us because my fiance (now my husband) admitted that he had smoked months earlier (his blood tests and drug tests came back clean). At that moment is seemed that our lives were over, and for a while, I'm not even going to lie, I felt like I wouldn't be able to do it. I went back and forth with what being in this relationship would mean from that moment foward, because the whole scope of it had changed. I made a deliberate, and prayerful decision to continue in this relationship because I truly believed that he was the man that God had created for me. And while I resented him for a long time, we eventually worked through it, and I promise you that I could not be happier. This time apart has truly given us time to grow as people and as a couple. We have truly had time to think about what it is we truly want from this each other, this relationship, for our lives. I think when we were doing the K1, we got swept up in everything that was going on==it occurred so quickly (6 months from start to finish). We married nearly a year later. Now, our time for re-filing will be coming up soon. And we are much more focused, and more prepared. I believe that God definitely had a plan for us, and trust me when I say that as a result of what happened to us, I definitely had to learn that I would learn to follow HIS plan--not my own. We have put everything in God's hands, and I believe that we will be blessed this time around. I originally considered moving down to JA after the denial first occurred, but after talking over everything and trying to plan for our future we decided that it would be better if I stayed here. So, we do our best, like everyone else, to make the most of our visits and phone calls. We're hopeful about our future, and we appreciate and feel so much better about one another as spouses. I pray that no one ever has to experience what we had to---but if it came to the worse, I hope that you all would not abandon the ones that you love so dearly because things did not occur as we hoped they would. I know this was a long post guys, but I had to speak what was on my heart. Everyone up here has given me so much strength and encouragement, whether you know it or not...that's why I have continued to come back. Now, I want 2 enjoy all of these videos, so talk to you soon!

Love you,
Tamisha

Mrs. P.,

I appreciate your honesty and determination on this. I always said that I would have moved on if Ken had been positive...but in all honesty ...I probably wouldn't have.

Your SO's test came back clean, but his conscience dictated that he tell the truth...I respect that.

Look Girl, when I first came to the Yardie thread I was determined not to judge, but to support other Sistrens (and Brethrens) going through this crazy process. The decision whether to stay or go was yours to make... supporting your decision is ours to give.

You have mine! Gwaan through Gurl...your time soon come! good.gif

Thanks again for the share. That's what I hope this thread is about... sharing and learning...not judging and hurting!

Bless-ed love,
Gill

Edited by Forever Young, 07 August 2008 - 11:32 AM.

Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-08-07 11:32:00
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QUOTE (sus @ Aug 5 2008, 04:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Forever Young @ Aug 5 2008, 04:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
headbonk.gif (Pregnant or not we will be gettin the Vaseoline out! laughing.gif)
Gill



Okay, my whiteness just showed - I read that line fast and my mind went way way way to the gutter - Think Lawny's heat is blowin my way.


Oh Sus-ie...thank G-d only 36 days til you see your Honey! laughing.gif laughing.gif

Bless,

Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-08-06 05:51:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Aug 5 2008, 12:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
JG..u ave mi a dead ova yah..ahahhaa..send mi a PM to nuh smile.gif devil.gif

Ur on ur way Dillion

Welcome Momto2

Hey Journee

Honey..u figet who we're dealing with here...the EMBASSY...SATURDAY..YEA OK ! rofl.gif

Quana..now mi know why mi check fi yuh smile.gif mi love Beenie man....he is mi husband ..but him no know yet..and Spragga to smile.gif

Lawny...girl everything happens for a reason..it may no seem liek it but a dat mi believe..so mi nah go sit here and seh mi sorry..yuh done know mi deh yah heart.gif rose.gif

Where is Gilli..haven't seen her in a bit...

Jengs yuh lef yet ? weh yuh deh

I'm here Baby Gurl! biggrin.gif ... han come offa mi husband...yuh doan knoa seh Spragga is mine!!! headbonk.gif (Pregnant or not we will be gettin the Vaseoline out! laughing.gif) We 'discussed' this arready!! Tek Betweenie Man and gwan!! laughing.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif

Love ya still, luv.gif
Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-08-05 15:25:00
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Hey Guys,

I got some very sad news from Lawny today.

Marcel's Mom passed away eithr yesterday or today. She is trying to find out if there is ANYWAY possible for him to go home to JA to attend the funeral and not have to go through the initial process of having to file a K3 or IR/CR again!

Bwoy, I really feel it for them. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE keep them in your prayers today and going forward. If anyone knows of any route they may be able to go please post and let her know.

I told her to call the 202# tomorrow and if that does not work the Dept. of Homeland Security or/and the State Dept. Someone has to have a heart to at least hear her out!

I know we all believe in the power of prayer...and I know we all know ANYTHING & EVERYTHING is possible through the Lord. So please keep Lawny & Marcel in your thoughts and prayers.

Blessed love,
Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-08-03 12:38:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Aug 2 2008, 09:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
SUMMER CLASSES ARE OVER..AND I GOT OUT B+ IN BOTH...YIPPEEE...GOD BLESS CAUSE MI NEVA PUT MUCH IN THIS SUMMER AT ALL....I GET A BREAK FOR THE FALL kicking.gif kicking.gif

NOW I ONLY AWAIT THE BIRTH OF MI PICKNEY smile.gif GODS WILLING kicking.gif

WEH EVERYBODY DEH....GUESS MI WI CHAT TO MISELF


WOOOOOOO-HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!! good.gif DYAM GOOD JOB GIRL!!!!! good.gif MI PROUDDAH YUH CHICA!!!!! kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif

and if you think about it by taking 2 summer classes...you will be good to go for the Spring...at least you wouldn't be behind!

GOOD GIRL!!!! Now sit back and wait for La Bambina to make her appearance!! luv.gif

Bless,
Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-08-03 05:14:00
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QUOTE (nannygirl82 @ Aug 1 2008, 09:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (classychic77 @ Jul 31 2008, 06:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hi friends! I am finally all moved, settled, and have internet in the new house (after a long week) YAY. Now back to catch up I have like a hundred pages I've missed.

hey girlie!! glad to hear you are all settled in!!! how did everything work out with that friend of yours you just moved to her mom's house??? the picture you have of you kids is SO cute!


I'm lovin the pic that youh ave up now! She is too cute. Well I still have not spoken a word to the "friend" she came her ####### a few days after I moved out. I let the landlord deal with her. The new place is so nice, big, brand new, and peaceful. I am a much happier person. I didn't realise how much I was being brought down! Anyways..... how and you? Did you get anymore info on school?


Congrats on the move Classy...finally!!!! How are the kis...do they like it?

So happy for you!

Bless,
Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-08-03 05:08:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Aug 1 2008, 02:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
NYCGIRL...yes, i know what ur hubby is saying...smile.gif i remember when i was a kid and barrel used to come..my my those clothes smell sooo good...when i got here...i wondered what happened to the sweet smelling clothes rofl.gif

NYC ...I have te reverse issue. I love when I come from JA and EVERYTHING has that sweet Jamaican smell pon it! The first night I would come back from JA I would hug up a piece of clothing out of my suitcase and fall off to sleep!

I used to love when I stepped outside of Sangster...I would just inhale and smile!

Never heard of a farrin smell...though I suppose it is possible!

Bless,
Gill

Edited by Forever Young, 01 August 2008 - 08:10 PM.

Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-08-01 20:10:00
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QUOTE (Jengles @ Aug 1 2008, 11:39 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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QUOTE (Forever Young @ Aug 1 2008, 05:45 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Jengles @ Aug 1 2008, 01:34 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>




my feet hurt...mr jengs and i went out this evening..the man made me call boston when we were outside and then said when are we going to boston to see them..I gave him that who me look.

rofl.gif laughing.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif ...Jengy leave my friend alone...Poor Missa Jengy is missing the kiddies...ain't nothing wrong wid dat!!!

Bless,
Gill


girl i love mi pickney dem bad, but i am enjoying myself and getting a lot done and they are having a ball, the baby a put on weight...i feel fi me back now


jengy, ya pickney, weh dem deh?? wid the granny dem??
I know how ya feel, my girls were w/ their daddy for a mnth and the a mnth w/ me.. I felt sooo guilty cuz i enjoyed my free time sooo. if nothing else I could REST. my children are very spoiled when it comes to mommytime..they wan hug me, talk to me, JUST SEE ME IN DI ROOM.. rofl.gif
a break does us good..


my kids are in boston spending time with their great-grandmother...i feel like they should have their time, my grandmother gets lonely sometimes since my grandfather passed three years ago so i would send my son down every summer to keep her company...its a whole nother level of spoiling that goes on down there, i'm going down there soon to keep them company and spend some time with her...so hear missa jengs he wonder's if he can survive for a week by himself.... whistling.gif good.gif


Awwwww...poor Missa Jengy...BUT...mi nuh waan be deh wan fi mention this past winter tuh em!! whistling.gif whistling.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif He'll mek hit!

Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-08-01 11:08:00
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QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Aug 1 2008, 10:37 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Good Morning Everyone!!
Tre, glad those coworkers of yours got caught in their mess.
Praying for your custody situation, u know I feel your pain right now. " Let the peace that passes all understanding guard your heart and mind" babygirl..

ITS FRIDAY..do ya dance.. put ya lightas up!!! dancin5hr.gif idea9dv.gif laughing.gif



kicking.gif It's Friday kicking.gif It's Friday kicking.gif Mi need to borrow a lighta!


AMEN CHICA TGIF!!!! jest.gif energy.gif goofy.gif

I am somewhere between this...



and this...




laughing.gif

Gill

Edited by Forever Young, 01 August 2008 - 09:46 AM.

Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-08-01 09:45:00
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QUOTE (Awakening_1 @ Aug 1 2008, 09:19 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Morning Fam!

This is so much fun having Dwayne home! He is blessng from God for sure. I have a lot of pages to catch up on while he is still asleep. My man loves to sleep and wake up late. We survived air conditioner last night. I just didn't have it so cold.

Lawdd di fried snapper for dinner was delicious.


It looks like Jawi already fill you in on our lunch so I will just add that your friends can be some haters but you have to check dem. they were cool when Dwayne and I arriveed but they'd made some Stella jokes before I arrived. I told them to say what they had to say so i could straighten it.

Talk to you soon

Wakey


That's wonderful Wakey!!

Look Gurl...haters will be haters...can't change them...only your reaction to them!! You handled right... good.gif ...mi prouddah yuh!

Love,
Gill

P.S.- I will be expecting my pissa deh snapper at my door step tomorrow at the latest!!! FedEx one day express should do it! laughing.gif Enjoy gurl!!
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-08-01 08:39:00
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offtopic45vn.gif Ok... unsure.gif ...I didn't want to mention this... whistling.gif unsure.gif ...but did anyone notice we are up to page 813?

I think this is the longest 'Deh Captain' has last us chat pon on thread!!!" JG, correct me if I am wrong but I think the most before was in the 750's???

Hennywho...anytime we mention the length of the thread our handy dandy Capt. Ewok does a swoop down and locks us off and tells us we are hanging up the site and he's opening a new part! (Wow...we'll be up to Part 7...already) laughing.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif

Never fails deh Captain come in like Duppy or Candyman...yuh mention his name... unsure.gif whistling.gif ...and he just appears! laughing.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif

We'll see if it happens this time... unsure.gif

tongue_ss.gif
Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-08-01 08:36:00
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QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Jul 31 2008, 07:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'M SO FLIPPIN MAD RIGHT NOW...my ex called the police on me when I went to pick up my son to take him to vacation bible school. I'm so heated right now.........I can't think straight. Police said nothing to me, because my son was crying to come to his mommy. They talked to my ex and I left with my son, but I saw them right down my tag number and they asked him for my name. #######...when is this going to END?


Lawny,

This is foolishness. Enough is enough...time fuh stap chatting han tek action. You don't haffi settle for this! Have you gone to the MD. courts to request sole custody yet? Also, you need to start putting your foot up his a$$!!! Fight fiya wid fiya. If ever there was a battle tuh wage here it is...nuttin' comes before your Baby's welfare! You need to start walking with a tape recorder and if possible tape his harrassing phone calls and threatening words.

This may take leg work but it does have a solution...file a restraining order on his ### until you are able to go to court for the custody issue.

DO IT...HE WILL NOT STOP TIL YOU STOP HIM!!! Trust me...I know! Here, check this out...http://www.womenslaw...p;state_code=MD

Bless,
Gill

P.S. - Don't forget who is stuck in the middle of all this...he deserves better!

Edited by Forever Young, 01 August 2008 - 05:02 AM.

Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-08-01 04:59:00
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QUOTE (jawi876 @ Jul 31 2008, 07:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
How much time do you think I will get if I knock my sis off...and pretend to be her?

Dwane calls to find out what time am I arriving for suppa. He has already gone to the Farmers Market...and prepared his first meal in America. I told him that I don't get off until 9PM...to which he replies "Inna de nite???? Well, you will just have to re-heat it." He wanted me there now just as he pulls it off the burners.

Some of my best co-worker friends and I met up with the love birds for lunch...we had a great time. Now, I have to find room for dinner...I don't eat this much normally (which is why I'm fat as a donkey with my low metabolism).

He wants me to take him partying before I head to Jamaica...so I got to do some research on the best night in Atlanta for dancehall.

I love my new BIL!!!! Woo-hoo yaaaddddddd food!!!! kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif good.gif luv.gif

Ahhhhhhh, that's wonderful Jaw-Jaw!!! When yuh leave fuh Yard...Itch-Bay!!!? mad.gif rofl.gif laughing.gif I know it's LONG overdue...have a good time!

Love ya,
Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-08-01 04:49:00
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QUOTE (Jengles @ Aug 1 2008, 01:34 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Lawny,

I'm so sorry to hear about the b.s. he is putting you thru...I know you what to keep him in your son's life and I don't blame you for that. I thinking maybe u should sue him for sole custody and no visitation (for now)...just keep a log of all the stupid things he puts you thru. men are so stupid...you could be a real bytch....i am predicting that this will end with a beatdown...given by Marcel....but we can't have that just yet whistling.gif



my feet hurt...mr jengs and i went out this evening..the man made me call boston when we were outside and then said when are we going to boston to see them..I gave him that who me look.

rofl.gif laughing.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif ...Jengy leave my friend alone...Poor Missa Jengy is missing the kiddies...ain't nothing wrong wid dat!!!

Bless,
Gill

Edited by Forever Young, 01 August 2008 - 04:46 AM.

Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-08-01 04:45:00
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QUOTE (lovelyjodie @ Jul 31 2008, 08:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hey everyone. i jus had a baby two weeks ago and i know should b happy but i am jus not.i crying for no reason at all and my husband jus doesnt make it any better.helppppppppppppp please

Hey Chica...it's ok to feel the way you do! It's called 'Baby Blues'!! Your hormones are running rampant right now and you feel like you are losing your mind. In your mind nothing is good right now...everything is just horrible. I remember that feeling well. You feel like the worst Mom...cause you shouldn't be feeling like this..you should be overjoyed...but instead you are overwhelmed...Bab, that's ok.

As far as hubby goes...whether you guys were having problems before or not..this is not the time to act on your feelings. TRY to start doing things for you...whether it's a pedicure, eyebrow wax or just going on a walk. It has all been medically proven to help boost the stimulants in your brain that control your emotions.

I am so sorry you feel this way..but you are NOT alone!!!

Take care of yourself and your Baby...everything else will fall into place eventually. luv.gif
Bless-ed love,
Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-31 20:13:00
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QUOTE (tnw @ Jul 30 2008, 07:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Jul 30 2008, 07:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
WELCOME COME TO AMERICA DWAYNE

Just to warn you...Wak devil.gif ey been exercising

That's right.....WELCOME HOME DWAYNE!!! Have fun Wakey and let us know how it goes. kicking.gif kicking.gif


SJB1221......In case I forget, You and the hubby have a WONDERFUL time in JA this weekend! good.gif


Nish



DITTO!!! Gurl, Enjoy it for all of us that can't!!!!

Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-31 13:09:00
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Alright Wakey...

Good luck tonight! Have a great time! Take a camera...if you can and make that first kiss last!!! Please enjoy this next part of your journey...from here on out at least you will be going through it ...TOGETHER!!!

Talk to you later Ladies!!
Bless-ed,

Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-30 15:26:00
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QUOTE (Asante Maroon @ Jul 30 2008, 03:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You are so right... That's one of the reasons why I am proud to say I am Jamaican. We do preserve our culture and that is such a wonderful feeling to have.

My last visit to Ghana was during Ghana's 50th year anniversary of their independence. They had a program celebrating this where this Jamaican man read a poem that his father wrote talking about Ghana and the connections he knew about through his ancestors. It was absolutely remarkable! He even used the very words we have spoken about.

People may not always like the way things are in JA, but you have to respect it because we are a strong people and many notable people have come out of JA who have made impacts in this world...Garvey, Collin Powell, Marley, and so many more. Bob is so powerful that his music still have a big impact today.

Just to think a small island like Jamaica producing such great people. You hafi respeck!

QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Jul 30 2008, 04:53 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'm sure your parents (and maybe you!) have heard the saying 'If yuh cyaa ketch Kwaku, yuh ketch him shirt'...A direct reference to Kwaku Anancy....I heard that 'unu', 'yaso' and 'deso' were all African words.
I think that's why Jamaicans are so resistant to change for the majority, you do things the way you were raised and never deviate.....I think it was done to preserve the culture we could remember...

QUOTE (Asante Maroon @ Jul 29 2008, 08:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Some one in my has a whole manuscript tracing back our family to the Ashanti's of Ghana. Maroons are a direct decedent of the Ashanti's. I know you heard that the Maroons were warriors... well, the Ashanti's back in the days were fierce in Ghana. They too were warriors who were hard to defeat.

A friend of mine who is also a Maroon, remembers her granny saying words that she knew did not derive from any English words she knew. When she asked my cousins what some of those words meant he was able to translate for her. And she said that the translation made sense in the context that her grandmother used it.

In Ghana they talk about Anansie the spider too....They refer to him as Kwaku Anansie....same stories, same message. There are so many similarities that its crazy...I mow understand even more why roots reggae speaks highly on Africa. It's pretty cool.

So I guess we are truly Sistrens then laughing.gif good.gif




This is so true. I am extremely proud to be Jamaican. I am one of those obnoxious J'can's that have a flag everywhere. In my car...in my office and I raise my flag on up the flag pole in my front yard for J'can Independence Day (which is Monday BTW!) Considering everything we have gone through...that J'can's are still are a proud people gives me strength. I mean if you think about music today. Jamaica has had a HUGE infulence in hip hop & latino musical genres. Forget about the influence over British culture...it's endless.

Which is funny because the British tried to break us from our heritage, roots and culture and we broke them! good.gif

"Jamaica...Land We Love!!!"
Bless-ed,
Gill

Edited by Forever Young, 30 July 2008 - 03:23 PM.

Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-30 15:22:00
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QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Jul 30 2008, 03:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
MY TIME TO VENT;

So, they gave me a party before I got married and one when I got back wich was yesterday, very nice. Why some people have to hate on others. I just got into it with my coworkers I got tired of her comments. I was trying not to say anything, but sometimes you have to kick people in their face. She send an email to several of my co-workers that I'm close to (she doesn't know that)...since she's only beenhere 3 months and I've been working her 11 years and of course the forward it to me. She was like why the hell would someone want to marry a woman with a child and that at my age I should never think about getting married blah...blah...blah and why I my son's father didn't marry me. That should have been a big red flag to my new husband...blah..blah..blah. Then here is the kicker..."I can't believe they gave her all that money she must be dead broke and can't pay her bills"...now, was I wrong for cussing her out.




WHY, why battle ignorants with ignorants. You don't feel she is correct in her statment, right. Get a fly swatter and swatt her away. Every morning, you comes to work with a big chessesy smile on your face, no matter, if your hair is a mess. She on the other hand, is only using her hand, and it is not givining her any satisfaction.

Roxcie kicking.gif

EXACTLY!! I would come in and give har an ish eating grin HEVERY mawning! And yawn inna har face ..."Boy, hubby had me up late again last night! wink.gif wink.gif and giggle while you walk away!!

Dyam outta horder..."Hi Hater...bye hater!!" Yuh cyan sing that as yuh pass har tuh! Some people just don't want to see anyone else happy....'F' har!!
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-30 14:24:00
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QUOTE (Jomo @ Jul 30 2008, 02:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Gill.........if you DO this now, you know the visa is not the end. She will be bugging you for the rest of the process to help her (i.e. do everything) all the way through. Do you really want her calling you 12 years from now and every 10 after??????????????????????

ohmy.gif AYE DIOS MIO!!!!!!!! Yuh dyam right JG , Lawny, Kimkim & Sunny.

I called her back and told her honestly if that were the J'Can embassy dem wouldda hang-up inna yuh ears wan time BOOM!!! I also told her she has to call...I am not the Pet or the Beni or a lawyer...so they will not talk to me and I am not lying to no one!

End of story!
Dyam foolishness!

Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-30 14:19:00
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QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Jul 30 2008, 02:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Jul 30 2008, 12:57 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (honeychild36 @ Jul 30 2008, 01:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Anyone like that new song by Jazmine Sullivan " need you bad", the one with Missy Elliot, it has a reggae flavor too it??? I love that song, she reminds me of Lauryn Hill.

Y'all remember she ( lauryn) used to be the bomb...till she met that JA man and lost her mind...didnt want sing no more, just wanted to get some of that good jamaican loving day in and out....


Guess Jamaican men have that effect on everybody wink.gif


Is that what it is? I thought I was just born crazy. So, HONEY; I can FEDEX you some FISH HEAD soup (with the eyes and teeth) or would you rather GOAT HEAD soup (better know as ) Manish watah (and ya'll know what that's good for)...I know JAWI, Gill, Lita, JG does. They say WOMEN not suppose to drink it. Haaaaaa LIE DAT! devil.gif



speaking of food ya yaadies from baan tell me dis..
y dey ave so many vegetables wid di meal LOL.. i do 2 MAYBE TREE here at home,
but RG family dem feed me one meat (fish, mackrel) han mi ave plantain, dumpling, rice, HAN sweet potato..
mi sey LAWD GAWD, mi can tek ongle sooo much STARCHES LOL gwaan put on 20 lbs fa mi lef here!!

Fish head soup is not my favorite. But I like Manish wata( and yes I drink it! ) and goat head & cow cod soup!
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-30 14:14:00
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offtopic45vn.gif OK...I HAVE TO VENT!!

Remember I told you guys I was helping my friend prepare for a K1 from Aruba...although her man is Jamaican(chef for one of the hotels down there). Ok, so here we go...this fool does not go to the embassy in Venzelua (sp?) on 7/22/08...because his boss had dual eye surgery that day and he couldn't leave... wacko.gif ...WHATEVA!!! After that I started having sdoubts that these 2 were for real with this thing!

So, my ftriend calls me today and asks if 'I' can call the Venzeluan (again sp?) Embassy and ask them if they can move up the new date from September 16 to sometime in August. Cause she is at work and doesn't want anyone to know that she is doing this filing. I explained to this Chick that this interview date is not like a Doctors appointment. I told her how dyam lucky she was to get a September date and that all August dates were given out in Early July.

She's like I can't live without him ...blah blah blah...please call the Embassy. So, I am going to call her back and tell her the Embassy said no! ####### am I calling the Embassy for...NO WAY!!!! They need to get they ish together!

AM I WRONG FOR THIS!?!?! I MEAN I SPENT ALOT OF TIME HELPING THIS FRIEND PREPARE AND TOLD HER AHEAD OF TIME HOW IMPORTANT IT WAS TO SHOW UP ON TIME AND ON THE RIGHT DATE! She's like but the NOA2 expires the same day as the 2nd interview...I told her ...she'll be fine they will extend it when he arrives. Then if the visa is granted the Visa will trump the NOA2!

#######!?!?!?!?!?!?! mad.gif

Thanks for listening...Gill Off-Topic2.gif laughing.gif
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-30 13:03:00
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Wakey...bandi leg is suppose to be HOT smile.gif



REALLY! I thought ya'll were saying he had a bandage on her leg from it being broken or hurt. Man I have alot to learn. LMAO rofl.gif


OMG...Wakey you crazy...

She bow legged. Want to be Kimmy's size when I'm pregnant. All belly. mi no know if dat ago wurk.

JG -- I'm tired of seeing the floating oats too. He tells me he's a natralist. There's a section in the cabinet with raw peanuts. When I saw him picking those up in Trader Joes I knew exactly what he was about to mix. I just tell him don't come near mi for 3 days.



I love Trader Joe's especially the wine section!!



Greek yogurt with honey on it. Nothing else like it.

Trader Joe's is the bomb!

OMG, guys. This just made me cry. How sweet is this?

Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-30 12:44:00
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Wakey...bandi leg is suppose to be HOT smile.gif



REALLY! I thought ya'll were saying he had a bandage on her leg from it being broken or hurt. Man I have alot to learn. LMAO rofl.gif


OMG...Wakey you crazy...

She bow legged. Want to be Kimmy's size when I'm pregnant. All belly. mi no know if dat ago wurk.

JG -- I'm tired of seeing the floating oats too. He tells me he's a natralist. There's a section in the cabinet with raw peanuts. When I saw him picking those up in Trader Joes I knew exactly what he was about to mix. I just tell him don't come near mi for 3 days.



I love Trader Joe's especially the wine section!!

DIT-TO!!! And Whole foods is good...I just have to dedicate an entire paycheck to them whenever I go! It stinks that eating healthy is SOOOO much more expensive than eating #######...anyone ever notice that? blink.gif

Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-30 12:39:00
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Wakey...bandi leg is suppose to be HOT smile.gif

TRUE!! Most Yard men love fi see a nice paira bandi legs...teks there mind tuh other 'situations' where bandi legs would be an asset! ...devil.gif
Hole dutty dawg dem!! laughing.gif

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Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-30 12:36:00
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okay, serious question...no matter how bad it sounds...LOL.... do they sell Ensure or Boost in JA? cuz my SO needs some, i cant get any weight on him till he gets here, but he lost weight behind his car accident and he is thin. Hell if i "throw" it the wrong way, i might hurt him...LMAO devil.gif

WOnder if i can pack some in my suitcase and take it with me???


They do but it's called something different, like Nutrigen or something to that effect.


A Supligen yuh chat bout? Evan was always on that stuff chat bout all the nutrients an thangs blink.gif .



Andre made some concoction last night of Vanilla Supligen, oats, and Guinness. I almost lost it when he made me try it. OMG, that was nasty.


RG drinks the supligen w/ guinness too in the mornings.. I don't like alcohol so he said the supligen makes it less bitter TASTE IT.. I taste it and dead.gif JG ya right, di stuff nasty fi tru!! I told him that is just ur excuse to drink Guiness in the morning, this is not no dyam breakfast shake!!! LOL


Ken made some Irish Moss the other day. All I can say is...THANK GOD I AM NOT A MAN!!! Cause Mi nuh cyare wat dem seh...mi coulddna drink dat nastiness!
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-30 12:33:00
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I'm fine. It wasn't a bad EQ. The media will make it sound worse than it is. It was a rolling one so it just felt very swayie. I was at work and just sitting here like "is that an EQ?" Then we all just left the building and went ot lunch.


There you are! *Jawi taking a running start arms wide and flailing in the air...JUMP HIGH and land on Marlita's lap* MMMMUUUUUAAAHHHHH! kicking.gif luv.gif I'm glad to see you are okay. Whew!

Now, who else needs some of my loving? I'm feeling real frisky after thinking about Kimmy's bandi legs. waaaaaaaiiiieeeee rofl.gif laughing.gif rofl.gif biggrin.gif devil.gif whistling.gif blush.gif

LOLOLOLOLOLOL rofl.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif ...A Mess...yuh knoa even wid har belly...har leg dem still look noice and bandi!! laughing.gif luv.gif laughing.gif luv.gif wink.gif

We love yuh Gurl.
Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-30 05:32:00
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I figured Thursday we would go for SSN and marriage license. From what I've read it takes 30 days in Ga to get it back. Of course the rest will be put in order for sho! devil.gif

Only my siter has met him. My brother talked to him on the phone and so have most of my close friends. I'm nervous about mama she doesn't approve of anyone. Dwayne said he will win her over though!

You can't go for his SS for at least a week or so. He won't be on the system yet.


You can apply for his SSN as soon as he gets here. However, they will need to verify w/USCIS that he is here on a K1 and eligible for an SSN. I urge everyone to go ASAP cause to wait a week for them to get in the system only to wait three-four more weeks for the card is annoying.

This way you are pushing the SSA to check the system periodically instead of waiting for the system to push through his data whenever it feels. I took Ken the day after he arrived and they processed it. They just told us they would have to verify his status w/ USCIS. He got his SSN 2 weeks later.

Bless,
Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-29 15:45:00
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Wakey...you must be through the roof right about now!! I remember how that felt...like in what will Thursday be like...what we friday be like...trust me Chica...it's ALL GOOD!!!

Congrats to you and Dwayne and enjoy each other!!


Hey Lita,

Thank G-d you are OK! I was a worried cause the media will mek a 1.2 sound like an 7.0 EQ!!!!

Jawi...Chica,

it is so good to see you posting and see you around...I ALWAYS say this... I MISSED YOU!!! As well as our Girls Phatty, Jonesie and Yardie! crying.gif We were a CRAZY bunch back in the day! But now we have a whole new CRAZY bunch!!!! laughing.gif laughing.gif Including Roxie, Sunny, Isles, Quannie and Honey!!! I love ALL of my Yardie Fam!! luv.gif

Bless,
Gill

P.S I just spoke to Missa Young he was like "Did you chat bout wat mi tell yuh nuh fi chat bout wid yuh VJ Girlfriend dem?"

whistling.gif whistling.gif whistling.gif ... and then... huh.gif ('What you talking bout Willis' look)

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Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-29 15:06:00
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more Jamaican gossip then I know about my own city....even after I read all the papers and watch the news. Everyone we know in Jamaica knows everything about everyone else.
Yuh dyam right...Ken came bolting upstairs last night after speaking to Marcel all in a teather about someone they both knew. After he told me I was like..."Alrighty then..." huh.gif dry.gif and started walking away... and then he shouts... "and don't tell yuh VisaJourney Sistren dem bout dis!!" I didn't want to hurt his feelings and tell him that ya'll (like myself) probably wouldn't give a rat's batty about his foo-foo gossip! Cho! laughing.gif laughing.gif


Gill;

I wish it was gossip, but it's the truth. The boy (not man) is a damn EDIAT. Mi a tell u...mi nevah know seh punny can mek a man tun inah ediat.

I agree...I mean it was a dyam fool thing to do and I don't think em a guh git dep...I think he is going to be there for AWHILE...unless he can prove otherwise! no0pb.gif

Stupid Man!


Gill,

I mean Marcel WARNED and WARNED and WARNED him to stay away from the other women and he did not listen. When we were in Jamaica he would walk off and leave her alone in the club. Then he would leave her for hours at a time at the house. Then she would go crying to Marcel and he would tell her why you staying with him if he's treating you this bad. She's full of crosses and he's a DUMB'A$$. When dude left Jamaica she kept on calling me and texting me for his location telling all kind of lies and Marcel had to put her in her place and tell her never to contact me again.

I know...he didn't seem to be one of Ken's favorite people eiddah! Ken just gets pissed when anyone, especially Yardmen...waste a golden opportunity to do better for themselves and their family!

I didn't realize there was a 3rd ooman involved...like I said ken was taking a shower I was sitting on the counter listening to him tell it and became distracted! devil.gif devil.gif laughing.gif


Ken was taking a shower and talking on the phone?

No Silly! laughing.gif He had finished talking on the phone. He was telling me the story and taking a shower! wink.gif

Ok, going back to read whats up wid Quannie!

NP Sunny...the KNG has a rhythm...although it's usually off beat! Ignore your a$$ all month long than the last week send yuh wan likkle foo foo email and end of the month post your interview date. I found the closer to the beginning of the month that they receive your ds-230 the earlier in the month you will have your interview date!

bless,
Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-29 13:28:00
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more Jamaican gossip then I know about my own city....even after I read all the papers and watch the news. Everyone we know in Jamaica knows everything about everyone else.
Yuh dyam right...Ken came bolting upstairs last night after speaking to Marcel all in a teather about someone they both knew. After he told me I was like..."Alrighty then..." huh.gif dry.gif and started walking away... and then he shouts... "and don't tell yuh VisaJourney Sistren dem bout dis!!" I didn't want to hurt his feelings and tell him that ya'll (like myself) probably wouldn't give a rat's batty about his foo-foo gossip! Cho! laughing.gif laughing.gif


Gill;

I wish it was gossip, but it's the truth. The boy (not man) is a damn EDIAT. Mi a tell u...mi nevah know seh punny can mek a man tun inah ediat.

I agree...I mean it was a dyam fool thing to do and I don't think em a guh git dep...I think he is going to be there for AWHILE...unless he can prove otherwise! no0pb.gif

Stupid Man!


Gill,

I mean Marcel WARNED and WARNED and WARNED him to stay away from the other women and he did not listen. When we were in Jamaica he would walk off and leave her alone in the club. Then he would leave her for hours at a time at the house. Then she would go crying to Marcel and he would tell her why you staying with him if he's treating you this bad. She's full of crosses and he's a DUMB'A$$. When dude left Jamaica she kept on calling me and texting me for his location telling all kind of lies and Marcel had to put her in her place and tell her never to contact me again.

I know...he didn't seem to be one of Ken's favorite people eiddah! Ken just gets pissed when anyone, especially Yardmen...waste a golden opportunity to do better for themselves and their family!

I didn't realize there was a 3rd ooman involved...like I said ken was taking a shower I was sitting on the counter listening to him tell it and became distracted! devil.gif devil.gif laughing.gif

Edited by Forever Young, 29 July 2008 - 12:27 PM.

Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-29 12:26:00
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Leave it up to u Gilli...smile.gif it's September 10th

Oh Shucks...September 2nd for Kim-Kim and September 10th for La Bambina...what exactly goes on inna fuh yuh house at Christmas time!?!?!?! whistling.gif devil.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif



you got me laughing on this one, my son's b-day is september 15th.....it cold outside dem times so what else is there to do.


Is that like when it rains in JA?? A will call me crying that it's raining and how I should be there, blah, blah. crying.gif I'm like heck no, I want to come when there is sunshine!! devil.gif


Somehow mi neva really mind deh rain suh much inna JA. We always found SOMETHING to do!!! devil.gif devil.gif wink.gif

Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-29 12:24:00
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more Jamaican gossip then I know about my own city....even after I read all the papers and watch the news. Everyone we know in Jamaica knows everything about everyone else.
Yuh dyam right...Ken came bolting upstairs last night after speaking to Marcel all in a teather about someone they both knew. After he told me I was like..."Alrighty then..." huh.gif dry.gif and started walking away... and then he shouts... "and don't tell yuh VisaJourney Sistren dem bout dis!!" I didn't want to hurt his feelings and tell him that ya'll (like myself) probably wouldn't give a rat's batty about his foo-foo gossip! Cho! laughing.gif laughing.gif


Gill;

I wish it was gossip, but it's the truth. The boy (not man) is a damn EDIAT. Mi a tell u...mi nevah know seh punny can mek a man tun inah ediat.



Dangit, you big teases...........someone tell me, PLEASE!


okay cause now mi want to know too

Dyam it afta all...now look what I've done! Ken ah guh kill me! unsure.gif Ok, some guy from HI was dating two women from the UK. A young lady and an older lady. The younger lady filed for him and brought him to the UK. Well, the eeidat bwoy went fuh guh check fuh the older lady...dem mussi rooks and ask mi if deh older lady nuh call police pon em and tell dem that the guy raped her.

Now, homeboy has been sitting in jail for 2 weeks and can't get bail! The younger lady is standing by his side and they are suppose to get married in September.

Lawny is that right..cause Ken was telling me this while he was in the shower and I think I lost some of it.

Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-29 11:21:00
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more Jamaican gossip then I know about my own city....even after I read all the papers and watch the news. Everyone we know in Jamaica knows everything about everyone else.
Yuh dyam right...Ken came bolting upstairs last night after speaking to Marcel all in a teather about someone they both knew. After he told me I was like..."Alrighty then..." huh.gif dry.gif and started walking away... and then he shouts... "and don't tell yuh VisaJourney Sistren dem bout dis!!" I didn't want to hurt his feelings and tell him that ya'll (like myself) probably wouldn't give a rat's batty about his foo-foo gossip! Cho! laughing.gif laughing.gif


Gill;

I wish it was gossip, but it's the truth. The boy (not man) is a damn EDIAT. Mi a tell u...mi nevah know seh punny can mek a man tun inah ediat.

I agree...I mean it was a dyam fool thing to do and I don't think em a guh git dep...I think he is going to be there for AWHILE...unless he can prove otherwise! no0pb.gif

Stupid Man!
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-29 11:14:00
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Leave it up to u Gilli...smile.gif it's September 10th

Oh Shucks...September 2nd for Kim-Kim and September 10th for La Bambina...what exactly goes on inna fuh yuh house at Christmas time!?!?!?! whistling.gif devil.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-29 10:58:00
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Yeah, we still get that gossip every time one of them calls.

It would be interesting to put Andre in the mix and see if that were true of him as well. Although, he ran with all the bartenders.


I bet cha they would know some of the same people...Ken loves HI gossip. Although he calls it "Man Talk and tingsa gwaan" and would die if em hear me call it gossip!

Let me know if you want to set it up. laughing.gif laughing.gif

Gill



I swear I know more Jamaican gossip then I know about my own city....even after I read all the papers and watch the news. Everyone we know in Jamaica knows everything about everyone else.

Yuh dyam right...Ken came bolting upstairs last night after speaking to Marcel all in a teather about someone they both knew. After he told me I was like..."Alrighty then..." huh.gif dry.gif and started walking away... and then he shouts... "and don't tell yuh VisaJourney Sistren dem bout dis!!" I didn't want to hurt his feelings and tell him that ya'll (like myself) probably wouldn't give a rat's batty about his foo-foo gossip! Cho! laughing.gif laughing.gif

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Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-29 10:55:00
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I bought my husband up here Feb 08, thinking what we really had was a marriage. Come to find out that we really didnt. Once he located his family and established relationships he moved a couple states away. What can I do, could i send him back? I discovered that he neither his family care for americans and thought all types of things of me. I feel horrible. I bought him up here, and has supported him since because he still hasnt worked.


Tidanemu - I'm so sorry it worked out this way for you. rose.gif



i guess that is life, but it sucks. we have a child together.



Your child will be your blessing. It's his loss,not yours. If you think he will take care of his responsibility, Iwould re-think that. Please remember you are not alone, this will work itself out. You have already taken the first step.

Be Bless
Roxcie


he does not have a 10 year, he just came up Feb 08, he is still on a 2 year conditional.

Tida,

Know this...YOU DID NOTHING WRONG..but take a chance on love!! He should be disgusted with himself! I would call the 202# and find out what your options are. They maybe able to help you because he is working of a conditional visa. If not they will at least be able to point you in the right direction!

I am so sorry he did this...but don't sell yourself short...you are a wonderful person that has the ability to love and care about another human being...and he doesn't! and in my eyes that makes you the winner.

I would also start the process to file for a divorce. Baby, I know that might not be what you want to hear...but ...what he did to you is NOT love and I don't think anyone could do that to someone they actually loved. Without the marriage and your sponsorship, he will not be able to remain hear legally. Also gather proof that he left of his own free will...not under duress or any other USCIS immunity that he may apply for.

Best of luck to you and remember we are always hear to lend an ear!

Bless-ed love,
Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-29 10:50:00
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Yeah, we still get that gossip every time one of them calls.

It would be interesting to put Andre in the mix and see if that were true of him as well. Although, he ran with all the bartenders.


I bet cha they would know some of the same people...Ken loves HI gossip. Although he calls it "Man Talk and tingsa gwaan" and would die if em hear me call it gossip!

Let me know if you want to set it up. laughing.gif laughing.gif

Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-29 10:40:00
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Ok Tianedum...so sorry this happened...

Since he has a conditional thats a negative against him

however, i thought he could adjust by himself

does he care for his child? would u want ur child to not his/her father ? what he did is wrong but there is still a child involved

u a re hurting..just think with a clear head...non of here is in ur shoe so only u know whats best...

and how would u "send him back"..easier said than done..just can cause red flags on his file for the future

good luck to yah

Is wahappen tuh Tianedum? Let mi guh back han read...

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Congrts Island..it will be splendid that's my daughters birthday !! kicking.gif kicking.gif

But wait...Kimmy...what is your due date again?
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-29 10:36:00
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That's funny you ask. Marcel said that Ken's face looks familiar and Ken said the same. But I think they worked different shifts or something! But, they are so much alike! Ken called Marcel last night and they spent an HOUR chatting pon deh phone! Ken loved it cause it looks like they ran in the same circle but never met each other before. They know alot of the same people!

Ken says he remembers what it felt like being here the first few months (he's only been here four..but whateva blink.gif ) and every phone call that came in would be for me. So he is trying to make Marcel know em ave a bredren up yahso even if they are close in distance.

Ken came off the phone telling who git fired, who leave han gone a farrin...etc...I was like "Great Honey!":wacko:

Gill

P.S.- Mawning and Greetings Fam! luv.gif


Ken is such a great guy - always thinking of others! Just like you Gill, match made in heaven. good.gif

Thanks Chica...I am truly blessed to have him! Yesterday he came home from a hard days work (11 hours). Told me to go rest...while he mopped the kitchen floor, and washed and cleaned that disaster we call a car laughing.gif,and still found time for family game night (Dominos). Somedays, I wake up and think I am dreaming...because just 3 short years ago I woke up to a nightmare everyday called my ex-husband!

But I give thanks for him! Because if it wasn't for him treating me and putting me through ish... I would not GIVE THANKS & appreciate Ken the way I do. So , the Lord does EVERYTHING for a reason...best believe it! good.gif

So, you ready for your interview?

Gill
Forever YoungFemaleJamaica2008-07-29 10:34:00