ForumTitleContentMemberSexCountryDate/Time
PhilippinesVJ family I Need prayers again...
You have come to far to fail. So the victory is already yours. Now it is time to enjoy it because I'm already partying on your behalf.

Cheers!!!

Sheriff Uling
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-18 13:22:00
PhilippinesWife's family demanding money
QUOTE (alexandra8886 @ Jan 6 2008, 01:25 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Sheriff Uling @ Jan 4 2008, 08:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
There should absolutely be a firm understanding of the expectations from both the boyfriend and girlfriend before the "Will you marry me?" even takes place. I mean really soul search and be honest about what your (your meaning anyone) willing to accept and do when it comes to the essentials like finances, religion, children, and family. However, this type of situation is not uncommon, but should be discussed beforehand in order to avoid any confusion and strain on the relationship and families.


http://annie-thejourney.com/?p=25

firm understanding in different aspects....

That is exactly what I mean. It may seem a tad "uncomfortable" and "over-the-top" but like most things in life, if you put in the work up front, it typically pays off in the end. So think of asking the hard questions and over communicating like the Visa process. It's long and agonizing, but in the end, your prize will be all the more worthwhile.

Cheers!!!

Sheriff Uling

p.s. - Keep in mind that nobody is perfect and not all situations are going to be perfect either. That concludes my two cents for today...

Edited by Sheriff Uling, 07 January 2008 - 05:33 PM.

Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-01-07 17:32:00
PhilippinesWife's family demanding money
QUOTE (tangkas @ Jan 4 2008, 03:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
When I married my wife I didn't think I would have to support her entire family.
There's a woman in Cebu who's married to a kano who is feeding my wife's family a false view of USA. You know the view USA = The God Lord's heaven including the perly gates and streets of gold. This woman in Cebu also never been to the USA, and her kano husband doesn't reside in USA anymore either. Her husband is also a jerk. He feels he can talk down to Filipinos and make a handsome profit by paying them cheap labor. They just dont see how nasty he is. He treats his maids like no American would treat their maid. Its almost like legalized slavery.

Husband and wife are both telling my wife Americans make tons of cash and should be able to support the entire family back in Ph. I am student, a dad, and a husband. My job isn't the best now. Just enough to take care of me, my wife, and my kid's needs. Its not enough to support others. Even when my wife begins working I dont think it would be wise for her to send most of her check there back home.

Most of her family members there dont even work. They seem to be wanting a hand out while they enjoy their lives. I didn't know what I was getting myself into when I married my wife. I refuse to support her entire family when they want to kick back and enjoy life while I am busting my chops all week. All of you marrying make sure you lay down all of this with your fiancee before you get married.

There should absolutely be a firm understanding of the expectations from both the boyfriend and girlfriend before the "Will you marry me?" even takes place. I mean really soul search and be honest about what your (your meaning anyone) willing to accept and do when it comes to the essentials like finances, religion, children, and family. However, this type of situation is not uncommon, but should be discussed beforehand in order to avoid any confusion and strain on the relationship and families.

There is my five cents. Can someone give me back my change? (((smile)))

Cheers!!!

Sheriff Uling

Edited by Sheriff Uling, 04 January 2008 - 10:09 PM.

Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-01-04 22:08:00
PhilippinesPinned Document Verification Fee - Where did it go?
QUOTE (David-Mae Forever @ May 19 2008, 12:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Sheriff Uling @ May 19 2008, 02:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
A new Document Verification: A Step by Step Guide has been posted within the Manila Embassy Thread [CLICK HERE] and is also referenced within Section 4.5 of the Manila Embassy K1 Visa Guide. Per the author's request and for violations of the TOS by our members, the previous Document Verification thread was closed and removed.

Cheers!!!

Sheriff Uling


How about your thread that's pinned too? How come it's locked? Did you misbehave, Sheriff? You need some spankin' then! devil.gif

--Mae

How did you know... Hehehehe... devil.gif
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-19 14:38:00
PhilippinesPinned Document Verification Fee - Where did it go?
A new Document Verification: A Step by Step Guide has been posted within the Manila Embassy Thread [CLICK HERE] and is also referenced within Section 4.5 of the Manila Embassy K1 Visa Guide. Per the author's request and for violations of the TOS by our members, the previous Document Verification thread was closed and removed.

Cheers!!!

Sheriff Uling

Edited by Sheriff Uling, 19 May 2008 - 02:04 PM.

Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-19 14:03:00
PhilippinesJocelyn is Pregnant!
Good deal...


Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-16 17:53:00
PhilippinesCan one marry on K1 before going to the US?
NO! NO! and NO! then NO! again...

Please read the "Spouse and Fiance(e) of an American Citizen" from the Department of States (DOS) website [CLICK HERE]. When you are done with that please thoroughly read the Manila Embassy K1 Visa Guide.

Cheers!!!

Sheriff Uling

Edited by Sheriff Uling, 17 May 2008 - 10:10 AM.

Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-17 10:05:00
PhilippinesVisa validity
If I were you, I'd request my money back... tongue.gif
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-19 21:13:00
PhilippinesMay is Asian-Pacific American Heritage Month
I'm proud of my asian pacific heritage that I have adopted... tongue.gif

Edited by Sheriff Uling, 20 May 2008 - 02:53 PM.

Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-20 14:53:00
Philippineshow will i know if USE received package from NVC?
May I invite you to please review the Manila Embassy K1 Visa Guide...

Cheers!!!

Sheriff Uling
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-21 01:18:00
PhilippinesShaSha Has Arrived
Good deal! I remember the overwhelming feeling of joy when I saw my baby come down that tunnel at LAX... Congrats...
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-20 17:14:00
PhilippinesThank you to all of you!
Hoy, we charge a fee for this service. Please pay Shape who I have nominated as the treasurer. Hehehehehe...
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-21 01:20:00
PhilippinesShe's on her way!
Merry Christmas... biggrin.gif
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-20 14:15:00
PhilippinesVJ MEMBERS EYEBALL
I am just now getting the eyeball thing... You Filipinos crack me up... And NO... I did not ask my wife... which is why it took me so long to get it...
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-04-28 22:59:00
PhilippinesVJ MEMBERS EYEBALL
Why is the title VJ Members Eyeball? I don't get it... Is this a Filipino mind trick? Hmmm... laughing.gif
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-04-26 14:25:00
PhilippinesManila Embassy
QUOTE (edp333 @ May 21 2008, 05:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
PS. Sheriff, violated sounds so defiling.

Ok... I changed violated to ackward... devil.gif
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-21 19:39:00
PhilippinesManila Embassy
Is it just me, but when a thread has Manila Embassy in the title, I feel ackward because there is only one true Manila Embassy Thread here... (((shrugs)))

Edited by Sheriff Uling, 21 May 2008 - 07:38 PM.

Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-21 19:10:00
PhilippinesGot the Pink
I thought you were going to write that you had pink eye. devil.gif
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-21 14:21:00
PhilippinesInterview passed, visa approved! yay yay yay!
Congrats!

I don't want to go into my wife's pre-screener nightmare. It's all par for the course, as we say. The worst is over now. You can relax and enjoy the ride with ease through the rest of the visa process.

Kudos!!!

Sheriff Uling
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-22 00:38:00
PhilippinesWhat is wrong with me?
What is wrong with you? tongue.gif
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-20 16:15:00
PhilippinesLoterly is on the plane :) WOOHOO
Good deal... Hopefully she's able to sleep during the loooonnnnnngggg flight... Keep us posted...
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-24 01:02:00
Philippinesunable to get an SSN for K1 until EAD is approved.
I don't have the information readily available, but what I did was printed out the SSA regulations, which state that K1 visas holders may be issued a SS number. I also printed the immigration information that stated the same thing. We live in Southern California and we didn't have any problems. In fact, I didn't need any of the back-up information that I printed in order to plead our case. I tell you the truth, this process, at times, is more about being lucky than good. Gssss!!!

Cheers!!!

Sheriff Uling
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-23 15:50:00
Philippineshow did you know your appointment date
Please review Section 4.6 of the Manila Embassy K1 Visa Guide. By the by, sometimes the interview dates are not transposed/encoded to the database and there the interview date will not be available.
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-24 00:40:00
PhilippinesThe One
Great Message! good.gif However, this is the Philippines Forum. KEEP OUT! diablo.gif

Edited by Sheriff Uling, 24 May 2008 - 01:28 PM.

Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-24 13:28:00
PhilippinesChange of status
QUOTE (GrahamandMegan @ May 22 2008, 05:05 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
guides6ly.gif

Heheheheheh... devil.gif
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-22 13:27:00
PhilippinesManila Embassy K1 Visa Guide (Your comments)
QUOTE (o0pink0o @ May 25 2008, 01:23 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

yes , i strongly agree that it is helpful and very informative. thanks sheriff and kudos to you!! good.gif

:|: PiNk :|:

Thanks Pink... You are a gem!!! good.gif
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-25 03:51:00
PhilippinesManila Embassy K1 Visa Guide (Your comments)
Philippines Forum (Phil-Am Family)...

I have also itemized the Table of Sections and made editorial updates throughout the guide. Please let me know what you think...

Cheers!!!

Sheriff Uling

QUOTE (KC?MP @ May 23 2008, 08:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
The Manila Embassy K1 Visa Guide helped me a lot so I strongly agree Sheriff smile.gif.Thank you for saving us spending on Immigration lawyer along with other helpful members in the Manila Embassy Interview thread smile.gif. Don't worry Sheriff, if I win in lottery here I'll give you on what should have been my lawyer's fee laughing.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif


Thanks a bunch!!! good.gif I'm taking donations also... tongue.gif

Edited by Sheriff Uling, 25 May 2008 - 02:55 AM.

Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-25 02:53:00
PhilippinesManila Embassy K1 Visa Guide (Your comments)
Shape...

You are awesome!!! Maraming Salamat!!!

Cheers!!!

Sheriff Uling
QUOTE (SHAPE OF MY HEART @ May 23 2008, 12:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I am not a K1, but i have read your guide and yes it's very informative for everyone.

Thank you for being with us Sheriff. smile.gif

Shape
QUOTE (Sheriff Uling @ May 23 2008, 12:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Philippines Forum (Phil-Am Family)...

I have attempted to segment Section 4.3 of the Manila Embassy K1 Visa Guide, which covers the Manila Embassy (USE), into more logically subsection that I feel would be more applicable to the types of question that I receive and have read.

Let me know what you think...

Cheers!!!

Sheriff Uling

p.s. - I have also itemized the Table of Sections for easy reference to sections that are more applicable to the reader.

Edited by Sheriff Uling, 23 May 2008 - 02:52 PM.

Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-23 14:46:00
PhilippinesManila Embassy K1 Visa Guide (Your comments)
Philippines Forum (Phil-Am Family)...

I have attempted to segment Section 4.3 of the Manila Embassy K1 Visa Guide, which covers the Manila Embassy (USE), into more logically subsection that I feel would be more applicable to the types of question that I receive and have read.

Let me know what you think...

Cheers!!!

Sheriff Uling

p.s. - I have also itemized the Table of Sections for easy reference to sections that are more applicable to the reader.
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-05-23 14:14:00
PhilippinesManila Embassy K1 Visa Guide (Your comments)
QUOTE (David-Mae Forever @ Apr 14 2008, 01:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I strongly agree... You have been doing a great job, Sheriff! rose.gif Aren't you going to run for '08 Election? whistling.gif I'll definitely vote for you. biggrin.gif

--Mae

You are so crazy. Thanks...

--Ahmari
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-04-14 18:35:00
PhilippinesManila Embassy K1 Visa Guide (Your comments)
FYR - I also updated Section 4.3 and Section 4.7 of the Manila Embassy K1 Visa Guide.

Edited by Sheriff Uling, 14 April 2008 - 02:35 PM.

Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-04-14 14:34:00
PhilippinesManila Embassy K1 Visa Guide (Your comments)
FYR - I also updated Section 4.6 of the Manila Embassy K1 Visa Guide.
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-04-13 14:19:00
PhilippinesManila Embassy K1 Visa Guide (Your comments)
ikhing:

(Q) - Do you know if the US embassy in Manila sends out a letter or a notice to the fiancé(e) to inform her/him that they received the application and it's ok to schedule a visa interview?

(A) - I'm not sure about the current practice/policy on notifying the beneficiary that the hard copy package of the case file had been received from the NVC and that they may proceed with scheduling their visa interview/medical exam. Prior to the March 2008 update, it was the USE's practice to send notification to the beneficiary. I recommend a continued follow-up with the USE to ensure the hard copy package file had been received by the USE so that you can move forward with scheduling the visa interview/medical exam. If you discover any news on what the USE is doing, please let me know.

RyaNRiza:

(Q/S) - Just checked the "What to bring during the visa interview." for K1. Found out that CENOMAR is not included on the list.

(A) - I added as a recommendation to obtain a CERNOMAR (original/NSO Authenticated) because as of the Feb 2007 version of Packet 4 and even the recent version, the CENOMAR is no longer listed as required document, but some beneficiaries have been asked if they have a copy (as you have stated). Thanks for the info and if you come across anything else that can be updated... please let me know.

Cheers!!!

Sheriff Uling

Edited by Sheriff Uling, 09 April 2008 - 01:53 PM.

Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-04-09 05:25:00
PhilippinesManila Embassy K1 Visa Guide (Your comments)
dbears -

Thanks a bunch!!!

Cheers...

Sheriff Uling

p.s. - I would like to thank everyone for their support in keeping the data as viable as possible. God Bless...
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-04-08 14:47:00
PhilippinesManila Embassy K1 Visa Guide (Your comments)
Phil-Am Families:

Based upon the recent updates to the process and the new Packet 4, please take a glance at the guide (particulary Sections 4.3, 4.6, and 4.7, which are most effected by the recent changes) and let me know if there is anything that you feel should be added or amended.

Thank you so much in helping to keep this guide a viable tool for our VJ Members.

Cheers!!!

Sheriff Uling

Edited by Sheriff Uling, 07 April 2008 - 05:29 PM.

Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2008-04-07 17:27:00
PhilippinesManila Embassy K1 Visa Guide (Your comments)
QUOTE (dannyrmartin1 @ Nov 16 2007, 06:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
The info you have provided will be forever appreciated! Thank You Sheriff Uling for making Ruchie's Manila Quest a little less stressful....... Again, I say THANK YOU SIR!!!!!!!!!!! good.gif

No problem! Thanks for the love and I'm pleased that the guide was a blessing for you. It's rewarding to be able to give back and to leave a worthwhile legacy that folks can hopefully benefit from... To me, that's part of what life is all about...

Cheers!!!

Sheriff Uling

NOTE TO ALL: Section 7.2 has a link to a list of things to consider in "Preparation for Adjusting to Life in the United States" if you are interested.
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2007-11-17 12:50:00
PhilippinesManila Embassy K1 Visa Guide (Your comments)
B)-->
QUOTE(Bill B @ Nov 14 2007, 07:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Qullyracer,
Thank you for sharing the experiences.[/quote]
Absolutely!!! That is the very essence and strength of this website... IMO!
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Manila Embassy K1 Visa Information
4.2 National Visa Center (NVC) | (603) 334-0700 press 1, then 5....
4.3 Manila Embassy (Immigrant Visa Unit) | 011-632-301-2000 ext 5184 or dial 0
4.4 Department of State | (202) 663-1225, press 1, press 0,
4.5 Document Verification | CLICK HERE
4.6 Visa Interview Appointments website | CLICK HERE
4.7 St. Lukes | 011-63-2-521-0020
5.1 DELBROS website | CLICK HERE
6.2 CFO Guidance and Counseling Seminar | MANILA or CEBU
6.3 I-94 Arrival / Departure info | CLICK HERE

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Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2007-11-16 20:29:00
PhilippinesManila Embassy K1 Visa Guide (Your comments)
If you find something that needs to be updated in the Manila Embassy K1 Visa Guide, please shoot me a PM so we can stay as up to date as possible. Thanks a bunch...

Cheers!!!

Sheriff Uling
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2007-11-12 19:48:00
PhilippinesManila Embassy K1 Visa Guide (Your comments)
DATA CALL: Any inputs or suggestions...??? unsure.gif
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2007-10-29 15:35:00
PhilippinesManila Embassy K1 Visa Guide (Your comments)
DATA CALL: Any inputs or suggestions...??? unsure.gif
Sheriff UlingMalePhilippines2007-09-13 17:21:00