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K-3 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresHusband and I haven't seen each other since our wedding..

Thanks for all the insights..just some clarifications in here and I hope the consul will also take into considerations the following;

first, If my only reason to go to the US is to be an LPR, then why on earth I married someone who was still in college and was not financially stable and who can't even afford to petition me right away?why didn't I chose to find a financially stable USC, have him petition me as a fiancee, get married out there, adjust my status then maybe divorce him after i get the permanent greencard?...why wait for 5 years for someone who can't even afford to buy a plane ticket to visit me as often as what other people see as the way should be?..long absence may not be the normal way of things specially in a relationship but then somehow what's REAL (REAL love and REAL commitment) seems to appear as beyond what is normal.

second, I have a good banking career here..why would i be so giddy to jump on a plane to fly to the US knowing that my husband is not yet financially stable out there and can't afford to support the 2 of us? Why would i demand him of things he cant afford and beyond his control? Isn't it sticking with each other and understanding each of our own limitations and flaws all through these years enough to prove that what we have is a genuine marriage?

third, I dont understand what immigration laws you're talking about that we're trying to "circumvent" in here..as far as we know we married in good faith.

Bottomline is: my husband wasnt ready financially in the past..he is now and we're giving it our best to make things work at the immigration..and with all the prayers and good intentions, nothing is impossible.

Again, that you so much for all the insights.

Juvy

Is this the same Juvy that posted over at PinoyInfo?

I'll pray for your approval whenever your interview is.
alohaspiritMalePhilippines2007-03-10 04:03:00