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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
yaaaay quana
prayers are indeed being said
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-21 15:09:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
lol @ jayankee
i like that term
yea i'll be ok, things will work out
as JG said, they always do
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-21 15:08:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
QUOTE (MsSheka @ Sep 21 2009, 02:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hey y'all help!! R on my phone saying he's sorry what do i do??? helpsmilie.gif i don't know what to say (i'm just quiet blush.gif )


why yuh not accepting di man's apology?


Congrats Ells luv.gif
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-21 15:00:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
I figure since I am one of the few ppl on the other side of the visa process (recipient as opposed to petitioner) i'd share some of the feelings going through my head these past couple weeks

up until the time i got my approval i had tunnel vision on the initial part of the process and i was kind of agonizing over the approval. i just wanted to get that part over with. i kept hearing ppl talk about how fast it goes after that but it didn't register with me until we actually got the approval notice. even though its still taking a while, when i think about it, i'm gonna be sending off packages sooner than i think

now all of a sudden i am feeling anxiety and i am not sure about what. it is as if, i'm unsure of what i was so anxious for all along. i don't know how to explain it but i can identify with all your stories about your men having a hard time adjusting because in a sense, i am already having a hard time adjusting. it's very conflicting because i miss and so badly want to be with my hubby but it's hitting me that this is gonna be a drastic change. for one, i don't know how i'm gonna manage without a job for a while. i'm kinda envious of some of you ladies whose men get their visas today and by next week they're gone. i have bills that will continue to be incurred even after i leave and i'm pretty much responsible for them. hubby is in a transition mode right now too. there are so many things taking place and i'm not quite sure how they will end up.

i'm trying to put more faith in God and leave it to Him to work out. sometimes i think as long as i am with hubby i'll be ok but then other times i am soooo scared of the uncertain.

i say all of this to say, seriously i know sometimes dealing with your spouses can be a pain in the a$$ because it may seem like they are ungrateful or just whining but be patient. maybe i am just emotionally drained right now. i think that's a big part of it.

anyway, umm let me shut up now

Edited by Bunzarelli, 21 September 2009 - 02:52 PM.

BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-21 14:49:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
QUOTE (NatPatBen @ Sep 21 2009, 01:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Bunz, what is the next part of your visa journey?


have to send them a document saying hubby is the person they communicate with
have to pay these ppl to tell them i won't be a public charge ($70) and submit that package
then have to pay for the visa itself ($355) and submit that package
then they tell me my case is complete and i schedule an interview
this usually takes a couple weeks but i think the recent surge in approvals is causing something that would take 3 days to take 2 weeks instead. it seems its gonna take about 3 months, hopefully not more than 4 months from approval to interview date
i'm not too worried because we have a couple things to sort out.
but at the same time i don't want it dragging out
i gave you more than what u asked for didn't i? oh well, just thinking out loud


QUOTE (IrieCat @ Sep 21 2009, 01:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I hope they send me to JA and let Louis come along... that would be soooooo nice!


oh that would be so much fun

BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-21 14:30:00
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wow italy 8 times! sounds like fun
how do u manage with your hubby now
can u travel like u used to?
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-21 13:42:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
seriously? is there a holiday we don't know about?
ppl gone pon vacation? wha?
not even finesse is here to give a likkle mischief
irie your job sounds like a dream
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-21 13:36:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
i have lotus notes too
we don't use sametime though
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-21 13:17:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
why the heck is it so quiet in here today
i guess this will force me to actually work :/
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-21 12:24:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
hi yardies
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-21 12:06:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
morning yardies!
this will be another day of work sad.gif
farewell
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-21 10:37:00
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QUOTE (Marie876 @ Sep 20 2009, 08:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey Yaardies!

Just hailing everyone. Hope all is well star_smile.gif

- Marie


hey marie
have u sent off the info for the rfe yet?

BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-20 21:36:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
woo hooo!!!
now u can rest for a couple weeks

BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-19 22:18:00
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i love the first pic of that baby where she has that mean face
she looks just like her daddy
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-19 18:22:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Sep 19 2009, 04:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
dammit, I'm on tenderhooks wondering what happened with Natt???????????????????????

Bunz, text her and find out!!


she'd probably mail a bullet to me if i texted her and sent up her roaming charges
lol
she flying back to texas by now anyway
so we'll find out tonight or tomorrow


Edited by Bunzarelli, 19 September 2009 - 06:19 PM.

BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-19 18:18:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
yep, i agree with quana
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-19 10:29:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
Sheka start getting your stuff ready
i see a couple august filers getting approved
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-19 09:44:00
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man Nat always has an exciting element to her story
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-19 09:25:00
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QUOTE (NatPatBen @ Sep 19 2009, 09:14 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I called DHL. The customer service lady (Kerri-Ann or Terri-Ann) told me that the package is in the head office in Kingston. blink.gif I told her the website says that it's in Montegy Bay and went out for delivery last night, which seemed strange since we opted for pick-up. She said that the Montego Bay location is closed on weekends, but it will be available for pick up Monday morning.

I asked if there is anything we can do, because we need the visa in that package in order to fly out today. We're willing to pay extra. She said she'll call the manager and see if he will extend the service. They wouldn't charge extra for that, she said; give her an hour.

So the waiting is extended.

I feel like we should be driving to Mo Bay now, but 1) we don't know if Steven needs to say goodbye to his family/friends and 2) we don't know if we need to bring all of his luggage or not.




i think u should start driving to mobay
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-19 09:23:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
post already damnit
lol
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-19 09:11:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
what a cute baby
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-19 09:06:00
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morning yardies!
about 7 more minutes nat
i have a question that was kind of answered in another thread but i always like to get the word of the yardies
if we do an interview in january, do we have to bring an '09 tax return?
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-19 08:55:00
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lol @ hubby
every night we have the same conversation about his cat
she just goes off on him, biting and scratching
he has to put her out every night
philly this must be a relative of one of your crazy cats
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-18 22:42:00
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hi 1luv
hoping yuh feel better
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-18 22:03:00
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BOAL @ pedicure
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-18 21:44:00
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umm, so after all this reading.....i don't have much to comment on
other than the FACT that chicken feet are disgusting
omg how can u not feel like you're eating an infant's hands?
mi love the soup though yummy! but i can do without the feet. UGH!!!!
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-18 21:23:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
hey sunny
i'm just at page 392 and i'm already tired from all the reading
lol
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-18 20:54:00
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oh wow Nat
you are blessed
i was gonna txt you but i figure since you're roaming it's gonna cost u to get a txt so i will wish you a safe trip back from now
it was a pleasure meeting you
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-18 20:49:00
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QUOTE (jawi876 @ Sep 17 2009, 08:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
God forbid it doesn't work out for me and A...but I would know with everything in me that we loved each other once upon a time...had a great friendship...but our life paths changed routes at some point, and we had to part ways. I know the sacrifices he has made to be here with me...fearing that there will probably never come a time when his girls can join us. I witness his turmoil everyday wanting to be in their lives and wanting to be happy with me. He told a pastor and his family that he has never been so happy in his entire life...told his sisters (they are his best friends too) that he could marry me everyday...he doesn't have to spit game to me...when he reaches out to rub eye buggers out the corners of my eye...he silently tells me that he loves me. When he tells his little girls at night...daddy loves you...I know that he loves me too. When he wakes up to watch me shower and dress for work just so he won't miss kissing me later...he silently tells me he loves me. When he gets to the last sweetie in the bag and he bites in half and saves me the other piece...he silently tells me that he loves me. When he softly caresses the scar on the back of my neck while we lounge in bed...he silently tells me that he loves me. When he leans in to kiss me goodnight because I fell asleep as soon as I laid down (despite the drool)...he silently tells me that he loves me. When I come home late at night from working this stupid A$$ shift they gave me....to a spotless home and a STARVING man...and he tells me baby nuh fret bout cooking...I'll grab a bowl of cereal the boys are good...he silently tells me that he loves me.

ohmy.gif
i've been reading, trying to catch up and this brought tears to my eyes
it hits so close to home and it makes me miss hubby even more cray5ol.gif
man i just miss the $hit out of him
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-18 20:46:00
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ohmy.gif a how onoo chat so?
mi gawn one day and onoo dun di next thread and start a new one?!! wow.gif
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-09-18 17:15:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaHome Coming
three cheers for mrspalmer!
mstee yuh time is fast approaching
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-11-01 18:51:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaHome Coming
congrats mstee!
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-10-23 13:54:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaFinally on the Road Again
best wishes sam!
its always good to see movement
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-11-04 19:10:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaPolice Record
2 gran for 3 business days
1 gran for a month

BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-11-06 20:48:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaFYI Yardies applying for non-immigrant and K1 visas
Just heard on the news and thought I would pass it on to you guys.

The US Embassy will now only accept reciepts for payments for non-immigrant or fiance visas from National Commercial Bank (NCB)
Ppl used to be able to pay with cash or credit card at the embassy, they will no longer be able to do so

I know I have heard discussions about this before, but I have never really paid attention
hope this helps those who are still in the process star_smile.gif
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-11-25 17:22:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaIn need of Advice
unless he has some STRONG ties to jamaica, the chances of him getting a visitor's visa are VERY slim, esp when he gives an explanation of his fiance having his baby
just out of curiosity, why didn't you guys start the process sooner?
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-11-28 17:35:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies how long between case complete and interview?
oh wow sam
that is a well deserved turn of events
i think i will be looking forward to your approval the most

BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-12-02 13:51:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies how long between case complete and interview?
got mine for the 22nd Sam
very relieved that we finally have a date!
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-12-01 17:44:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies how long between case complete and interview?
yaaaaaaaaaaay Sam i see you have a date for January
can't wait to hear how it goes girly!
best wishes!

Edited by BunzTheMagicSnail, 01 December 2009 - 05:39 PM.

BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-12-01 17:37:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies how long between case complete and interview?
thanks Roxcie!

Edited by BunzTheMagicSnail, 01 December 2009 - 10:07 AM.

BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-12-01 10:07:00