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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part15)
QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Jun 4 2009, 10:29 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Jun 4 2009, 11:18 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Morning Ladies

Its a crazy day today again at work but I am trying to catch up again LOL.

I think my teenage boys have lost their minds! WE got into a big fight this morning and I ended up taking the cable box, PC, Xbox and PS3 and phone out if their room and Hubby padlocked the Fridge! They have become out of order with their smart remarks, nonchalant attitude and slackness! I'm like what deh raas yuh got your period or something? Anyhoo I guess these are the ages when they really show their a$$es Teenagehood is a hot mess, but they won't defeat me! I will just stay in prayer and with Hubby's support I will get through it! star_smile.gif

One good thing, my new washer was at my door @ 7:45 this morning! dancin5hr.gif

Dada I live in PA and never been to the Burg whistling.gif

Lawny sorry I just your message, and yuh dash weh?


Philly, we going through the same thing with my niece (my brothers daughter)...she's 15 now and been smelling herself since she turn 13. She tried to fight me last year and I had to throw her down and I do mean that. She's about 6ft. 3in and 270 and her mom is afraid of her but not me. So, she felt she could try and slap me and that was the end of it. Her mom tried to bend her when it was too late, if a did mi, mi woudah kick ar baxide dung from lang time. I grew up different and knew my place. I had to respect every and all adults and know when to speak when spoken to. At my age, I can't even say HELL or DAMN in front of my mom or dad or aunt and uncles, I just can't, it won't come out my mouth. I pray your boys will find their way, I'm wondering if they're jealous of hubby.


lmao @ that visual

BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-06-04 11:17:00
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QUOTE (KKHoliday @ Jun 4 2009, 10:36 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (RoxcieJoe @ Jun 4 2009, 10:14 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
That is the Federal Law in every state for Child Support


Here u get to sue the dad no matter what. So what if he doesn’t have a job he still has to pay something and then they give him a certain amount of time to get a job. If not he gets locked up, his driver’s license can be revoked and it goes on his credit. He sits in jail for a while and then they let him out to find a job and if not well back to the slammer buddy…

If you take him back to court, the Judge will enforce it.



I have issues with this and maybe because I don't have kids...but I've seen it done to other people. Actually a mother. See in Florida in order to get any public benefits..insurance/welfare for child you are caring you. You must file child support on the parents.

I just don't see how locking them up, revoking his/her driver's license is even going to "help" (using that word loosely) get a job. It's like a lost cause. Now they have a record...and can't drive to work...which means the likelihood of them finding a new one is going to be harder. So they already aren't paying..I'm sure they are not worried about no credit score.

Then the effect on the child...I mean now are they really going to try to be in their life now. Shoot...they will be in jail half the time.

There has just to be a better way to enforce child support.

Just my view on it. I admit it might be because I haven't experienced this.


i've always thought that as well
that doing all of that just makes his chance of getting a job worse
but if nothing else it should serve as a warning to men that they shouldn't be spreading their seed casually
but some ppl never learn
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-06-04 10:53:00
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WHAT!!!?!?!

brandon won?
i knew some foul ###### like this was gonna happen
this is effery at its highest!
i demand a recount
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-06-03 21:59:00
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tonight is the finale for make me a supermodel
*team sandhurst!
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-06-03 21:08:00
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i've had that steve harvey book sitting in my inbox for a while now
but i have no drive to read it

BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-06-03 20:37:00
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how onoo chat so
i left this thread at page 15 i think
and i come back and there are 13 additional pages
lol


BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-06-03 20:36:00
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QUOTE (RoxcieJoe @ Jun 3 2009, 08:13 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Bunzarelli, do not use DHL to send any packages to the USA. We used them to send out a 2 page doc, from last Friday, and it got held up in customs for a whole day. I have yet to receive something that was supposed to be delivered on Sat.

DHL SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


a neva you mi tell not to use dhl?
or was it JAPrincess?
they SUCK!
i've used fed ex and it has gotten there by the next day and out of convenience i used them to send my docs to hubby
2 WHOLE days and like yours, mine got held up in customs for an entire day
never again
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-06-03 08:35:00
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i was hoping maury would have a good episode so i would have a good excuse to be late for work
but its a lame repeat so....now i have no excuse for why i'm still home
plus my shoulder hurts
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-06-03 08:09:00
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QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Jun 3 2009, 05:07 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Actually, just go to my website http://tara956.zenfolio.com/ and click on the Jamaica album!


those pics should be on postcards or in the tourist brochures
very very nice
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-06-03 07:16:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Jun 2 2009, 09:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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QUOTE (KKHoliday @ Jun 2 2009, 09:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Bunz...in this episode for Housewives NJ..are they going to spill what's the rumor on danielle?


yep it's on now

nah blue draws is not the same as roti, blue draws is sweet potato and some other mix up
i haven't had it in ages


isn't blue draws something like run dung?


nah
run down is salt mackerel cooked down in coconut milk with seasoning

blue draws is tied up in banana leaves


yea..mi know wah run dung is...salt fish or salt mackerel...mi neva ave blue draws before..mi did tink it's like run dung inna banana leave..Kashi a try memba..all him can tell mi a yam, banana leave..someting someting..what a help..mi a go ask mi modda


lol
i know sweet potatos are in it
and coconut milk
like a paste and they shape it and put it in a banana leaf and bake it i think
i haven't had cornmeal pudding in a while too
ok i need to stop talking about sweet stuff because its late night and this is my vice lol


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QUOTE (NatPatBen @ Jun 2 2009, 09:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Not sure if someone answered, but you can see your posts either by clicking on My Controls, or by going to your profile and clicking that drop down box & "see member's posts." If you do that, it'll show the total number of posts next to each post.

I'm good. I have a conference call with the other Children's Ministry coordinators in 5 minutes.... so I might have to catch the second airing of Real Housewives of New Jersey. I'm looking forward to tonight's episode.

Yeah My2 told me how to check thanx though


damn i'm just at 230 and i feel like i've been chatting off my face



I know what you mean i felt like that at first but now it seems to be growing fast . i think it just took me time to get comfortable talking with everyone ...


yea i hear that
every board/thread has its own sub-culture that u have to get used to

g'nite hays

BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-06-02 21:36:00
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QUOTE (Haymsmorgan @ Jun 2 2009, 09:02 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (NatPatBen @ Jun 2 2009, 09:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Not sure if someone answered, but you can see your posts either by clicking on My Controls, or by going to your profile and clicking that drop down box & "see member's posts." If you do that, it'll show the total number of posts next to each post.

I'm good. I have a conference call with the other Children's Ministry coordinators in 5 minutes.... so I might have to catch the second airing of Real Housewives of New Jersey. I'm looking forward to tonight's episode.

Yeah My2 told me how to check thanx though


damn i'm just at 230 and i feel like i've been chatting off my face
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-06-02 21:27:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Jun 2 2009, 09:23 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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QUOTE (KKHoliday @ Jun 2 2009, 09:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Bunz...in this episode for Housewives NJ..are they going to spill what's the rumor on danielle?


yep it's on now

nah blue draws is not the same as roti, blue draws is sweet potato and some other mix up
i haven't had it in ages


isn't blue draws something like run dung?


nah
run down is salt mackerel cooked down in coconut milk with seasoning

blue draws is tied up in banana leaves
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-06-02 21:24:00
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QUOTE (NatPatBen @ Jun 2 2009, 08:57 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Bunz, I thought you were in Jamaica. You get Bravo there?

Whoa! Are you seeing this new show, NYC Prep. The subtitle should be "preparing people for future seasons of Real Housewives."


yea i'm in ja
got cable
and i'm so sick of those shows like nyc prep/gossip girl/90210 showing kids acting so wild
and i'm so mad cw is cancelling the game and everybody hates chris for this kind of foolishness
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-06-02 21:23:00
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QUOTE (KKHoliday @ Jun 2 2009, 09:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Bunz...in this episode for Housewives NJ..are they going to spill what's the rumor on danielle?


yep it's on now

nah blue draws is not the same as roti, blue draws is sweet potato and some other mix up
i haven't had it in ages
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-06-02 21:20:00
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oh wow
danielle just said "i got the pu#$y" and bravo didn't blur it out
lmao
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-06-02 20:45:00
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QUOTE (Haymsmorgan @ Jun 2 2009, 08:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Bunzarelli @ Jun 2 2009, 09:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
philly

i had curry chicken for lunch for the first time in about 3 weeks
i was in heaven today
curry chicken, rice and roti, with just the right amount of pepper

Bunz that sounds yummy....i havent had that in a while too....my grandmother makes good roti


and it was from moby ####### too good.gif
but i'm gonna have to stop buying because their food is getting too expensive
but its soooo hard to resist lol

watching real housewives of new jersey
danielle is gonna make this season memorable
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-06-02 20:42:00
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philly

i had curry chicken for lunch for the first time in about 3 weeks
i was in heaven today
curry chicken, rice and roti, with just the right amount of pepper
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-06-02 20:29:00
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SECOND POST!
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-06-02 15:18:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaOUR WEDDING
QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Jul 23 2009, 01:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hey portland.. a couple of those weddings on sungold are at coyoba gardens..


i was just about to say that
and from the pics, the location seems pretty nice for a wedding
i've been to hibiscus lodge, its very pretty there too
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-07-23 14:20:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaLet's Get Great in 2008
bump
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-07-23 16:03:00
Mexico, Latin & South Americaa question for yardies.. or anyone
atsleumas welcome to vj
this is a question ppl ask ALL the time and is hotly debated so its a very valid one
i have heard mixed responses
we sent our wedding cert, 2 affidavits, as well as a statement from a joint account we have together. he included his passport as proof of his citizenship and copied all the pages so they will also see the jamaican immigration stamps as proof as well.
i don't think he put any pics with it (hubby put the package together) and i have heard its not necessary but as JaPrincess said, it can't hurt to include a few.
sometimes i get paranoid and wonder if what i sent will be enough but i have heard of ppl sending less and getting through and as you can see roxie didn't send alot of stuff and she got through


BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-07-30 15:20:00
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QUOTE (JAPrincess @ Aug 6 2009, 12:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Alright I am just gonna ask this blush.gif


Does ANYONE have experience with going through the embassy with an expunged record?

Please PM me...


Princess me see a message but me nuh see nuh suggestions
not so sure bout the expunge record business, but i know there was a thread about it a while back. its probably still pinned

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QUOTE (Bunzarelli @ Aug 6 2009, 01:23 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
sus how is DJ? yuh hear nuttin further?
i hope tre reaches ok and gets to give grandma some jokes
japrincess and i are frenz biggrin.gif



Bunz, don't even get me started - talked to moms last night - SHE ASKED ME HOW HE IS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She hasn't been to the hospital - His brother hasn't answered his phone for 2 days - bout to kill someone


you would think is a mosquito bite di man get
why are they so laid back?
but i'm gonna take that to mean he is doing better
if he was doing worse his mother would have to know....i hope
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-08-06 12:50:00
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QUOTE (MrsBuggy @ Aug 6 2009, 12:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So no one can find BUNZ on FB?? hmmmm *as i put on my detective hat*


mi seh me and japrincess a fren! onoo look troo fi har fren list and onoo will find mi!

is Ikea the store that had ppl lining up from the night before when they did a grand opening in new york?

BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-08-06 12:34:00
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sus how is DJ? yuh hear nuttin further?
i hope tre reaches ok and gets to give grandma some jokes
japrincess and i are frenz biggrin.gif
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-08-06 12:23:00
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QUOTE (JAPrincess @ Aug 6 2009, 11:29 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Shemmy @ Aug 6 2009, 06:53 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well ladies....6 years ago (tomorrow) I met the love my life heart.gif . And we are going back to JA as husband and wife to celebrate ATI and our anniversary of meeting....we are so excited. Cannot wait to see my inlaws and PAR-TY.






loving the smileys
congrats shemmy!
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-08-06 11:36:00
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QUOTE (NatPatBen @ Aug 6 2009, 07:57 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Yay, Bunz for getting on Facebook! As far as tearful goodbye's, I was kinda glad that last week they were giving me such a hard time with my boarding pass at the airport... it gave me something to focus on instead of being sad that I was leaving.


there was a time when i could not hug and say goodbye at the airport. it had to be just a nod of the head and i had to turn around quickly and walk away or else i would burst into tears
but i have gotten MUCH better. i can now hug and maybe kiss, maybe. i'm not big on pda though
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-08-06 08:08:00
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QUOTE (newlynluv @ Aug 5 2009, 10:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Bunz im here im in the same time zone as u so it's not that late lol... so tomorrow is a holiday what do ppl usually do?? i know saturday im going to ATI!!!!! yeah boy hey this was suppose to be a non party trip oh welllsss


girl you came the wrong time if you wanted non-party
lol
but you will thoroughly enjoy ati
as far as today is concerned, ppl usually relax
its not what it used to be with all the cultural fairs and events
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-08-06 07:49:00
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QUOTE (^KK^ @ Aug 5 2009, 09:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Bunzarelli @ Aug 5 2009, 10:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
umm, so who is on fb?

yea he's planning on coming with me



Me!!! I'm on facebook.


yaaaaaaaaaaay!
i need a camera now to start taking pics of my life
i've not been in the mood to buy one since the last one i had was stolen

so can i tell you tomorrow is a public holiday............and i'm going to work mad.gif

yardies i think i am the only one left so its time to go to bed.............or go fass in other ppl threads lol
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-08-05 21:30:00
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umm, so who is on fb?

yea he's planning on coming with me
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-08-05 21:03:00
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QUOTE (DaDa @ Aug 5 2009, 08:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Bunzarelli @ Aug 5 2009, 09:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
boredom and restlessness i guess


U neva told us or did I miss it how the ending with your hubby went. U weren't at the airport doing a Lawny were you?? Speaking of Lawny she leaves in te AM right? I hope she has a good trip and her grandmom bounces back. I know she'll be so happy to see her.


lmao
nah i did the lawny before we went to the airport
i snuggled up beside him and woke him up with my tears rolling down his shoulder and asked him to take me with him or just stay with me and keep me company

Edited by Bunzarelli, 05 August 2009 - 08:59 PM.

BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-08-05 20:57:00
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so i'm now on facebook (fassbook)
yay for me!
i am now in the loop
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-08-05 20:51:00
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QUOTE (^KK^ @ Aug 5 2009, 08:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Jawi - I typed a whole message to you and then just decided to erase it.

I'm now waiting on what it is that God has in store for you. Keep your faith and call on God's name.

I know I kid around on this thread a lot...but you situation is really sitting heavily on my heart this evening. Soon you'll look back and say..God is in control.

God bless.


so true
it bothers me but i have run out of comforting words to say
but you are right, she will look back knowing God was in control
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-08-05 20:41:00
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why is fb giving me error messages?
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-08-05 20:38:00
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boredom and restlessness i guess
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-08-05 20:35:00
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Ok i think i'm gonna get on fb
i think nat had a spreadsheet of fb names
i'm thinking of a screen name cuz i'm not too keen on using my govt name

Edited by Bunzarelli, 05 August 2009 - 08:26 PM.

BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-08-05 20:26:00
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QUOTE (JaHoney @ Aug 5 2009, 06:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
HELLOO??? ( anyone home)

Hey Ladies,

Wha gwaan? Just decided to stop back thru to say Hello. All is well with me.. my Journey is done, kaput, gone.. but im okay with it. I have prayed, cried and at the end of the day, did what benefitted me the best. I hope everyone is doing well!!! Though there is no more mister and i have a damn size 14 wedding dress i cant get rid of, JA soon come again, cause one monkey dont stop my show.



Be blessed ladies


(((((((hugs))))))))
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-08-05 19:39:00
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Nat how do you think Steven will adjust to your relatively sophisticated palate?
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-08-05 18:15:00
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jawi what caused this back pain to begin with? was it an accident?
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-08-05 18:01:00
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QUOTE (jamerican @ Aug 5 2009, 04:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
offtopic45vn.gif


some of you might know of issues I have had with my teenage son (seems to be going around) so he is going to live with his auntie and uncle in Louisiana..... BUT GET THIS... The principal of the school told me today that they will only allow him to go there if I give up custody to my SIL and BIL! I said that I have signed to have them have temporary guadianship but he said NOT GOOD ENOUGH! #######??? this is a public school... anybody heard of such a thing b4?

Thanks
Off-Topic2.gif


so nuhbady nah go answer di lady question?
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-08-05 16:26:00
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DaDa you do not look like the fool in this
because you still have your dignity....AND YOUR MONEY
the rest of them are the ones looking like fools
and at least you know now what type of ppl they are
BunzTheMagicSnailFemaleJamaica2009-08-05 16:22:00