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K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsGot our NOA2 today
Nearly the home stretch now....Congrats kicking.gif kicking.gif
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-07-27 00:58:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsAnd so it ends...
QUOTE (jimmy477 @ Jul 6 2008, 12:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I don't know why I'm posting this here. It certainly won't accomplish anything. I'm nearly 6 months into the process and I must bow out just as our papers are reaching the embassy. It is very disappointing to have come so close only to have to quit now, but I know it is for the best. Just a month after my last trip to see her on her birthday and our life together is over.

As it turns out my fiancée, with whom I have felt happier than ever before in my life, has been cheating on me. What's worse is that she was doing it for money. Yes, she was selling herself. I don't want to believe it, but there is no denying the evidence. I believe I may still be in a bit of denial myself because the grief of breaking up has not hit yet. I imagine the crying will begin within the next 24-48 hours. The vomiting has already started and I feel very numb.

I was reading travel and tourism pages last night, which led me to other pages, which led me to other pages, which led me to a message board about sex tourism, complete with detailed first hand stories and photos. I opened a thread about Cartagena, and lo and behold, I am greeted by half a dozen recent pictures of my now ex-fiancée in a seedy motel room in her lingerie and in the other man's clothing, along with a brief account of her time with the poster. She had been acting very strange the past few weeks and this certainly explains her behavior. I called her, very calmly stating that it is important she tell me the truth about what she had been doing during that time. She continued to lie even when confronted with the photos. I told her very truthfully that I will always love her, but that I did not know what to do. She said she would call me when she woke up this morning, and that was that.

She has not called yet and I don't know if she will. If I do not hear from her today, I will call her mother to say goodbye, leaving it between the two of them to discuss the specifics. I'm sure she will lie, but I don't want to directly cause a catastrophe between them. I will then send her an upbeat email thanking her for her time and wishing her a fond farewell. In a few days I'll notify the Department of State of my desire to cancel the petition.

Thank you, visajourney.com community for providing so much information to guide me through the process. I hope things work out better for the rest of you. Please excuse me while I go ball up in a corner and await my fate.


You made the right decision, and probably dodged a bullet too. The pain will recede, and life will go on. Hang in there!!! yes.gif
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-07-07 00:04:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsAnd so it ends...
QUOTE (Mel and Syl @ Jul 6 2008, 07:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Yes, trust is extremly important in a relationship and yes a lie is a lie. All im saying is that he should hear the other side of the storry befor making any decision. After all he told her that he will always love her after finding those pics on the web.


I don't get it. What POSSIBLE explanation could she give at this point?
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-07-07 00:01:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsNOA1 IS HERE.
Nice work!! kicking.gif kicking.gif
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-07-25 21:05:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsNOA1 IS HERE.
Congrats.... but what do you mean that you got it by calling the ISCIS?
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-07-25 20:51:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsK1 interview in less than 36 hours!
Hang in there - Good Luck!!
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-08-05 22:51:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsSuccessful at Kyiv, but suffered a rude and misinformed staff person
Congratulations on getting through the process!!

I would write the embassy Consul General about the situation (Landon Taylor). Also, the Deputy Assistant Secretary of State for Visa Service (Stephen Edson), and there is a Chief of Consular Affairs, but I don't know who it is currently. The more specifics you can give about the consular officer, the better. Good luck!!

Edited by Brad and Vika, 29 July 2008 - 11:28 PM.

Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-07-29 23:26:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsWE'RE APPROVED!
Congratulations kicking.gif kicking.gif
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-08-08 03:25:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reportsgot visa
Congrats!!! kicking.gif kicking.gif
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-08-17 15:27:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsAPPROVED !!!
Nice!!!! Congratulations kicking.gif
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-08-16 23:51:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsVisa in hand!!!!
Congrats kicking.gif
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-10-14 18:57:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsI received an RFE because they want my fiance's parents info
QUOTE (Cmehat @ Oct 19 2008, 11:21 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Okay, so I finally found out whats really going on. His birthdate is on the birth certificate but it was posted on another date. I guess they date the birth certificate on the day they file the certificates. So they want a letter from his parents stating his proper birth date and a better copy of the certificate! That clarifies everything for me. Great, now back to waiting...


Glad to hear it was nothing serious. Good Luck!
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-10-19 10:24:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsVermont update processing dates
QUOTE (cdneh @ Oct 21 2008, 03:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I have read here that the only petitions being sent Vermont to California were k3's.


The Congressional Aide I spoke with said it was K-1 and K-3, transferred by date, whatever that means.
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-10-22 06:44:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsVermont update processing dates
QUOTE (ronjie @ Oct 21 2008, 03:00 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Laura+Tom @ Oct 20 2008, 09:40 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Means, apparently it will take six months from NOA1 to NOA2. Personally I don't believe it as they are implying they are on track with processing. Tell that to people who filed in Jan/Feb/Mar and haven't been approved yet.



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Just want to update you guyz that were approved oct 20. Good luck!





Congrats kicking.gif
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-10-21 03:24:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsVermont update processing dates
I also was told that the reason for the delay in processing goes back to June of '07. USCIS increased processing fees around that time, and they were buried under millions of additional applications of all types from folks trying to avoid the fee increase. The staffing and work distribution, as well as processing delays all stem from that. None of that helps us though.
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-10-20 10:13:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsVermont update processing dates
I just had a call back from the staffer I mentioned before. She says that 17,000 cases were sent to CSC from VSC, and that the new directive is that anything pending over six months will be pulled and processed.
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-10-20 09:56:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsVermont update processing dates
QUOTE (Laura+Tom @ Oct 20 2008, 10:34 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I think they are trying to cover their a$$'s.


Absolutely. I have been in touch with my Congressman's immigration staffer. She tells me that VSC recently had a large budget increase that was supposed to facilitate "staffing up" to fix this backlog. The immediate response was that now all the new-hires needed training, so there would be no appreciable increase in processing for maybe six months. That was six months ago or more - and processing is slower now than before. The latest excuse I heard was transfer of files from one processing center to another, and the priority of emergency processing for Iraqi and Afghani visas.
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-10-20 09:40:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsVermont update processing dates
What a pile of #######. When the queue of petitions gets too long, they change the timeline to reflect a longer period - so they are once again "meeting guidelines". How frustrating. Sorry - had to vent.
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-10-20 09:33:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsIs this normal!?!
Another week....then worry
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-10-31 14:38:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsJanuary filers VSC lottery, who gets the jackpot next?
QUOTE (greeneyedgirlfl @ Jul 24 2008, 10:23 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (pattilou47 @ Jul 24 2008, 07:51 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Steve's interview was today, I got the call at 6:15 he was APPROVED kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif


Congratulations!!!


Well done and congratulations kicking.gif kicking.gif
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-07-24 21:34:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsAnyone familiar with Igors List and timelines
QUOTE (cdneh @ Nov 10 2008, 02:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Wow. That worked out well.

Costs more these days, they hire more staff, and the end result is it takes takes longer. blink.gif Sounds like the government to me laughing.gif


Our tax dollars at work! devil.gif
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-11-11 02:44:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsNOA2 Received! - Question about next step
QUOTE (inGODShands @ Nov 12 2008, 11:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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CONGRATULATIONS!!!
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I'm really happy to hear that ANOTHER HAPPY couple got approved today! smile.gif You give us HOPE!!!! biggrin.gif I can't wait to be in your shoes!!!!! My fiance & I wish you both the BEST of LUCK in the rest of your Visa process. May God grant you a smooth & speedy approval! good.gif Congrats, man! wink.gif May God bless you both with a marriage full of happiness & love!!!!


It looks like you are about a month away. Hang in there!!
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-11-12 23:47:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsNOA2 Received! - Question about next step
Thanks everybody, Vika asked me to thank all of you for your congratulations too! We wish all of you a speedy and easy visa process. star_smile.gif
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-11-12 23:26:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsNOA2 Received! - Question about next step
QUOTE (estadia @ Nov 12 2008, 11:42 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
congratulations kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif


Thanks from both of us!!
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-11-12 11:44:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsNOA2 Received! - Question about next step
QUOTE (mikelovesgracey @ Nov 12 2008, 11:24 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Brad and Vika @ Nov 12 2008, 08:15 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I finally received our NOA2 yesterday - nearly 150 days after filing. kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif The notice says that the petition has been approved, and has been forwarded to the listed consulate. I assume they mean consulate listed in the petition. My understanding is that the petition now goes to NVC for processing, then to the embassy in Kiev. Is this not correct?

Thanks to all for your support and advice so far. VJ has really helped me to better understand and cope with the process.



Hi Brad and Vika,

Congratulations to you! kicking.gif I'm so happy for you BUT I'm soooo envious! crying.gif

Today Mike called USCIS and he was told our case got touched on Nov.6.
The online status still isn't working but we sure hope we were told right.
We pray that touch is our NOA2. unsure.gif

Congratulations again to you! rose.gif luv.gif

xoxo,
Gracey


Thanks Gracey - your time is coming. Hang in there!!
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-11-12 11:40:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsNOA2 Received! - Question about next step
Thanks - timeline was updated this morning.
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-11-12 10:20:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsNOA2 Received! - Question about next step
QUOTE (stevew158 @ Nov 12 2008, 10:08 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
K1 visa usually just stay at NVC about 3 days after they recieve them, NVC has no processing to do on them just assign a new case number they they electroicly and via couier send the pack to the embassy. Good Lucky, it goes much faster from here own out.


We are sure looking forward to that star_smile.gif
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-11-12 10:10:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsNOA2 Received! - Question about next step
QUOTE (nowhereman @ Nov 12 2008, 09:24 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Brad and Vika @ Nov 12 2008, 10:15 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I finally received our NOA2 yesterday - nearly 150 days after filing. kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif The notice says that the petition has been approved, and has been forwarded to the listed consulate. I assume they mean consulate listed in the petition. My understanding is that the petition now goes to NVC for processing, then to the embassy in Kiev. Is this not correct?

Thanks to all for your support and advice so far. VJ has really helped me to better understand and cope with the process.

Yes National Visa Center is the next stop... it's usually pretty quick (two weeks or less). After that your packet goes to the embassy. Check the embassy web site for instructions... in the Philippines once you clear the NVC you can schedule the medical, but it may be different in your case.

Good luck!


I think medical is ususlly scheduled immediately before the interview in Kiev. Thanks

QUOTE (nyhazmat @ Nov 12 2008, 09:27 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Congrats Brad,
After a really quick stop at the NVC it will go to Kiev. Good luck, you are getting close!!!


I appreciate it! We can see the light at the end of the tunnel now.
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-11-12 09:32:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsNOA2 Received! - Question about next step
I finally received our NOA2 yesterday - nearly 150 days after filing. kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif The notice says that the petition has been approved, and has been forwarded to the listed consulate. I assume they mean consulate listed in the petition. My understanding is that the petition now goes to NVC for processing, then to the embassy in Kiev. Is this not correct?

Thanks to all for your support and advice so far. VJ has really helped me to better understand and cope with the process.
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-11-12 09:15:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsCould Someone explain Igors list questions?
We were just approved about a week ago, about five months. This is about average from comments I received. For the most part, I ignored Igor's list from the start for the reasons stated above, plus the limited sample size. It simply didn't strike me as a good indicator of our timing.
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-11-16 02:12:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reportsgot it
SWEEEET!!! kicking.gif
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-11-27 21:06:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reportsatlast...NOA2 approved
Congratulations!!
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-11-25 23:20:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsVisa received!
Nice one kicking.gif
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-12-03 01:44:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsWOOT finally
Sweeet!!!! kicking.gif kicking.gif
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-12-11 01:23:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMedical exam in progress!
QUOTE (RyDa @ Dec 16 2008, 02:26 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Congrats!

You know what's funny? Not only our interviews are on the same day, but turns out we both honored ProCredit Bank with our humble visa fee donation on the same day )))

I am now all set too, and just waiting for the Big Day smile.gif See you guys there!


Cool! A funny story about ProCredit. When I send Vika money, I put it in an account with an ATM card she keeps. Since the card has only my name on it, I have told her several times to use it only as a bankomat card, even though there is a visa symbol on it. She didn't want to carry lots of cash on the metro in Kiev, so she did "guess what" at the bank.

The call I got was "Bradik, I had a small problem paying the visa fee" smile.gif . The clerk ran the transaction by swiping the card, and then said "OMG - this isn't yours!!". Vika used almost every hrvna she had to pay the fee, then went outside to the bankomat and discovered the money in the account was not available. It takes a refund several days to work through the system. Fortunately it was easy to solve the problem with another small transfer. I did however have to give our life stories to the bankers here to keep them from closing the account on suspicion of fraud whistling.gif When I asked her if she remembered me saying to never EVER present the card to a person, she actually started to sniffle a little. Very funny, a little cute, and no harm done. good.gif
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-12-16 21:48:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMedical exam in progress!
Medical exam passed and visa fee paid kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif I also made reservations for a flat in Kiev, VIP pickup, and excursion. All set but the waiting now.
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-12-15 10:13:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMedical exam in progress!
Thanks all - exam concluded, and Vika has paid the visa fee at Procredit bank. She will pick up the results in another few hours. I am sure the exam results will be good, and we just have to get through the interview on January 12.
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-12-15 06:04:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMedical exam in progress!
My SO is in the medical exam clinic right now. She is also trying to pay the visa application fee today. Keep your fingers crossed for us y'all!

Edited by Brad and Vika, 15 December 2008 - 02:44 AM.

Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-12-15 02:44:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsJune 2008 Filers
Vika passed medical and paid the visa fee, and we are scheduled for a January 12 interview. And in reference to my earlier post on this thread, yes I did have to change my flights, etc. all around. innocent.gif
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-12-17 16:03:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsJune 2008 Filers
QUOTE (Scott & LC @ Nov 19 2008, 09:37 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
yayyyyyy brad and vika!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i'm sooooooo happy for you both!!! smile.gif good luck for the rest of the journey! i'm now waiting for the packet 3!!!


Interesting. The Kiev embassy instructions talk about an information packet - taking the place of packet three and four.
Brad and VikaMaleUkraine2008-11-19 22:00:00