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Philippinesmarriage troubles
QUOTE (DianneWalgreens @ Dec 20 2009, 08:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hi everybody i just want to clarify things that he had posted. Im his wife... He really doesnt understand my feelings and situation.. On the frist place he knows that my sister is sick and she is treated here in manila for 18 mos.. Everything in manila is expensive.. I ask him heartily if he can help my mom financially coz it is needed..he said of course.But since theres a global crisis and he has no overtime he stop sending money and i understand.. If i got a job in there i wont ask him to support my family.. I am not expecting that i will become a princess when i got there in usa.. I am a hardworker person..And its not my attitude to depend on someone if i know i can make it on my own. But because his place is a small town,, car is needed and he cant afford to buy a car for me coz he still paying for his car loan, so i cant find ways to find a job.. I dont demand him for financial.. He knows i just stayed at home taking care of him and her 18 yrs old daughter like cleaning her room, wash her clothes, fix her bed etc etc.. His daughter decided to live with us when i get there.. He said im not socializing with his friends and family? WHY he say that? Him and his friends, nieces, nephews used to hang out in a bar drinking , etc.. Do u think this is the right place for the married couple to hang out? He just think of his hapiness and ignore what makes me happy. I mean he married me he should focus his attention with me coz im all alone there and the place is boring.. He cant even invite me goin to watch a movie till i say so.. Do u think u will be happy stayin at home 24 hrs? I never ask him money to buy something for myself coz i understand him..i just wait till he ask what i need for my personal. I decided to get back home because of his mom and the text ive read in his fon.. His mom is bitchin me in fon telling that i am stupid bla bla bla.. So i call him at work telling that his mom is bitchin on me.. I cried like a baby coz i know i didnt do wrong.. I told him i deserve to be bitchin if they caught me cheating.. ive read his send messages to his daughter tellin his daughter that i miss ur mom, just thinking of her.. who among of the wives wont get jealous of this messages??


Anyways, its his decision to file a divorce.. Its his loss ..

I guess he didnt sacrifice to get her here. Come on lets be real here. She could not be telling the truth also, shr gets on here and posts something and now awwww poor her, shes the victim. I think its your loss after all he was helping your family financially, now you have to go and find another ssatm.




you go girl!!! if i read that on my husband's phone thats the end of the story i will be OUT! he doesnt know how much you sacrifice for him just to be with him here in the US you dont deserve this man


Mford019MalePhilippines2009-12-23 01:35:00
Philippinesmarriage troubles
QUOTE (JelloShotGirl @ Dec 20 2009, 09:51 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Maybe she had different expectations about America. You know everyone overseas thinks America is so easy, when in essence I believe in some ways Philippines might be easier to live in etc etc. WHen my hubby came here from Phils he assumed he would get a job instantly making $60,000 a year, get a loan for like $200,000 instantly and buy a new car. LOL. Maybe your wife thinks she was gonna be a princess when she got here! 5 months you are both adjusting to marriage and shes adjusting to new culture. It took hubby about 2 years to ajust to culture here.........I hope you still love eachother maybe you can work it out just be patient!


You hit the nail on the head there. I think my wife thought the same thing and now that she is here and she sees life is not what what she thought it would be, trouble has started brewing. I love my wife and would not trade her for the world but it is time to grow up.
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-12-23 01:27:00
PhilippinesPacquiao on PEDs?

Agreed. :thumbs:
He is willing to draw blood immediately after the fight. Paquiao just thinks it harms the body to do so 48 hours prior to the fight, yet those in Mayweather's camp are ignoring that and trying to get him to do it before the fight and trying to tarnish Paquiao's image. By the way, Paquiao is filing a defamation lawsuit against Mayweather and co.

I honestly think that Mayweather doesn't want to fight Paquiao and is grasping for straws to avoid that fight.

Mayweather needs Paquiao to make money.
Paquiao doesn't need Mayweather to make money.

BoxingScene.com, insidesports.ph, Standard Today and Viva Sports learned that crack lawyer Dan Petrocelli who nailed OJ Simpson in a civil suit will handle the case for Pacquiao and Top Rank.

And why does Mayweather need Paquiao to make money? Please enlighten me
Mford019MalePhilippines2010-01-03 20:13:00
Philippinesplane tickets
Yup thats all she needs, my wife flew in October with no problems.
Mford019MalePhilippines2010-01-03 19:41:00
PhilippinesMisspelled name on visa
Is it a problem that my middle name is spelled wrong on my fiancees visa? They just put 2 letters in the wrong place. Will she be able to come through?
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-06-06 11:23:00
PhilippinesWhere's your hometown?
Hello everyone, I was born in Jackson, Mississippi, but have been living in El Paso, Texas(little Mexico) for the past 8 years. My fiancee is from Magallanes, Agusan del Norte on Mindanao. I loved that place, along with Butuan City, Cebu, Lapu-Lapu, can't wait to go back.
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-03-04 21:40:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsDoes VSC send emails
So how do I know whats going on until they cash the check, just wait?
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-02-19 14:04:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsDoes VSC send emails
Do the service centers send out emails for the NOA1 or is it only by regular mail?
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-02-19 13:56:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsWorried
I have been viewing other peoples timelines and I see there was an avergae of about 3 days before the check was cashed, VSC received my packet on th 17th, but still no check cashed. I am in South Korea right now, so I know if I do get a NOA1 it will take a few days to get here in the mail. Im just wondering did anyone else wait this long for them to cash the check? Also, how do I change my address, I leave here and go back stateside in April, and I know my case wont be done by then.
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-02-21 23:15:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsWhats next?
So what do I need to do now, where does my packet go next and how do I set up the medical and interview?

Mford019MalePhilippines2009-03-23 06:48:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsEmails
I signed up for email alerts and I have not received anything, I got a RFE by snail mail but still nothing of an email from VSC. Is this common?
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-03-12 20:37:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsAPPROVED
Approved in 35 days with military deployment expedite, I am so happy I don't even know what I need to do now!
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-03-23 06:36:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsWhats Next?
My case is now at the NVC, they assigned a case number already, what do I need to do as far as the NVC goes, do I pay any fees or anything and do I need any toher forms to get ready? Please help, I dont see anything as a helper for NVC on the site.
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-03-24 18:12:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFeb / VSC
Yes we were approved from February, although I did apply for expedite, but dont know if it got approved or not.
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-03-24 15:16:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsOK I-134
I want just the full brunt of what I need to send as support of this form:
Since I exceed the poverty line by 125% do I need the letter from the bank still?
How many tax reuturns?
How many w2's?
Question 11?
Someone who went through USEM and passed all the way through, please help me out with this.
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-03-26 11:04:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMedical Done
yes she had to get 3 shots, and the cost was p10514 which is about 220 dollars.
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-05-05 14:04:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMedical Done
My fiancee finished her medical today and she passed, now only 1 more hurdle, which is in 2 weeks, Lord please be with her. kicking.gif
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-05-05 04:19:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsInterview 7 hours away!
Sorry for the delay, she got the pink slip, and only asked a few questions, I am so happy right now, and it was eating me up because I had to get on a plane from Korea to Alaska right when the interview started so I just found out the results. But she passed and everything is good!
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-05-20 01:37:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsInterview 7 hours away!
I'm nervous, good luck baby.
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-05-19 11:05:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
Hello all, I zm back in el paso and my fiancee will be here on the 16th, has anyone gotten their noa2 yet?
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-06-06 12:07:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
Interviewed this morning at 7 finished at 9 and we got the pink slip, I want to thank everyone here for your prayers and best wishes. I pray now that all of you get your NOA2's and on to approvals soon.
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-05-20 01:41:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
QUOTE (minimule @ May 8 2009, 09:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (lee b @ May 8 2009, 07:05 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Good morning everyone.



hi star_smile.gif

i don t think anyone who filled feb(vermont) got approved yet
so far it s about mid januray i think
so i think within a month at least half of feb should be approved, if they work hard that is


Actually yes, I got approved and my fiancee interviews on the 20th of May. My circumstances were different from all of you, I had an expedite.
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-05-08 15:27:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
blush.gif kicking.gif biggrin.gif
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-05-05 14:17:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
Hey Marc, congrats, geesh what a tough crowd, whats up people, I understand the wait is tough but hey a congrats doesnt hurt.

Edited by Mford019, 05 May 2009 - 01:58 PM.

Mford019MalePhilippines2009-05-05 13:57:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif Medical Passed kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif
One more hurdle in 2 weeks, wish us luck!
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-05-05 04:21:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
First day of medical down, 1 to go, just 3 shots for my, "SO" today and hopefully here that she passed. From what she says, it was not a bad experience at all, but then again she looks at the glass half empty. But I love her to death so now I wait to hear the news of the day. kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-05-04 13:14:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
My fiancee is on her way to medical, wish us luck, although everything should be good! I always wonder why people wish luck on medical? But anyway, I hope you all start getting your NOA2's soon.
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-05-03 14:54:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
Hello everyone, I just want to thank you all for being there to answer questions for me, it has been quite an experience, my fiancee has her interview on May 20th, and I am prying everything goes well. She will do her medical May 4 and 5. Goodluck to everyone and I will keep you posted to let you know how things go. Once again Thanks!
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-04-24 04:38:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
Yea, I was really expecting to move a little faster, my problem was having to wait for everything by mail because after USCIS mailed me my NOA1, I was told by the operator that they could not mail anything outside the U.S., and I laughed and told her ya'll just mailed me the NOA1, and she told me I was not certain of what I had just said. Funny! Anyway yes I plan to make the interview, I'm hoping for late May, early June, because I redeploy mid-month May, and then I get my 30 days PCS leave so that would be perfect.
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-04-18 19:23:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
OK, finally left NVC, forwarded to USEM on the 14th, so I hope to be getting things scheduled soon, to all of you who are still waiting i pray for you all and good luck.
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-04-15 19:52:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
This sux, got a fast NOA2 to get stuck in AP at NVC.
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-04-03 19:30:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
WOW, got expedited, got approval in only 27 days according to vj timeline, only to get to nvc and get stuck in AP, I love these people. mad.gif
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-03-27 20:10:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
I think I have to request expedite again for the interview, I will wait to see what the date is they give us first.
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-03-23 08:03:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
Yes Yes Yes
Receipt Number: EAC0909851836

Application Type: I129F, PETITION FOR FIANCE(E)

Current Status: Approval notice sent.

On March 22, 2009, we mailed you a notice that we have approved this I129F PETITION FOR FIANCE(E). Please follow any instructions on the notice. If you move before you receive the notice, call customer service.



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Mford019MalePhilippines2009-03-23 06:26:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
HaHa, yea I got all excited too, I got that same email.
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-03-20 21:31:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
Well VSC got my RFE response today at 1101AM, so hopefully I will hear something about my expedite soon.
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-03-16 19:15:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
ok i filed online, is the 1040 that was printed out from hr block good, or do i need something else"?
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-03-14 08:48:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
Yes it was very simple, they didnt have any evidence, I filed on the phone with the military help line, and I asked could I go ahead and send the documents, and she told me to wait for communication from them. So I mailed out all the evidence, and I'm crossing my fingers now. The only bad part is that its being mailed from Korea so it will take 3 days to get there. So I hope to hear something next week.
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-03-12 01:15:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
RFE for expedite received today, sent response today.
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-03-12 00:26:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
kicking.gif Wow touched again, I hope someone is working their magic.
Mford019MalePhilippines2009-03-05 15:24:00