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K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsJuly '08 filers
LMAO its okay I forgive you...I still love you guys hehe good.gif kicking.gif
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-27 02:03:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsJuly '08 filers
Not Just VSC but CSC as well...WOW it is almost NOVEMBER you all!! Count down to november is 6 days! HOLY COW!
(well for me it is still six days it is 1141 pm ROFL!)

I am sitting and watching the Big redneck wedding and I swear Some of these folks are really BACKWOODS! they remind me of my Fathers side of the family. They live in some small town outside of Crossville Tenn ..with a population of 500+ ROFL...

This one couple was trying to make homemade wine...They bought some Grapes and stompped on them and seemed disapointed when it did not taste like wine but like grape juice ROFL!!
I needed a good laugh after the day I had..WOW


These next two days I have to go over some stuff with kai for the interview...He has been so nervous LOl..I told him BABE you will have about 3 to 4 more months left...STOP STRESSING...we got time ..IT IS OKAY!

* shakes head*..Men I swear...sometimes worry more then us women wow.gif laughing.gif ohmy.gif
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-27 01:47:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsJuly '08 filers
QUOTE (JulietteDumont @ Oct 26 2008, 03:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Anyone ?



I agree with the others. They are two different countries BUT to be on the safe side maybe grab a letter from your boss on WHEN you are expected back from your job on a company letter head envelope. I would also get an electric bill maybe or something to shows the addy and that you live there.
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-27 00:43:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsJuly '08 filers
You are very welcome! I love hunting things down others need LOL...

I know I really miss just holding his hand:( SOOOOOOOOON!!! I been keeping busy and planning our wedding, working YOU name it and him to!
He sends hellos your way and lots of luck as well to you all!!


HUGS
Merilee and Kai
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-26 04:22:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsJuly '08 filers
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Anyways, I was just wondering about marriage license in USA. I read that you have to get a license a month before you get married. Do you have to both be there in person to apply for it or can your USC fiancé do it by himself? Or is it all done by mail? Do you have to show birth certificates etc the day you get married or when you apply for marriage license? I realize it may differ for different states. I will be living in California. I'm just a bit confused about the process. I was hoping we could get married pretty much straight away but won't be able to, if you have to wait a month for the license.


OKAy I will help you will California marriage LOL

It is recommended that you call the California County or City Clerk's office to see if they suggest setting an appointment. You could find yourselves in a long line with as much as a 2 hour wait without an appointment in some California locales.

California requires a picture id such as Drivers License or other valid identification. Some counties recommend bringing certified copies of your birth certificates.
You do not have to be a resident of California to apply for a marriage license there.

Information you need to know before you start filling out the marriage license application:

Where each of your parents were born (city and state)
The names of your parents including your mother’s maiden name

Previous Marriages:
You must show proof of divorce, death or annulment. You need to bring a copy of your final divorce decree if you have divorced within the 90 days through past year (varies by county).
California Waiting Period:
There is no waiting period in California.
Fees:
It will cost you $45.00+ to get married in California. The cost of receiving a marriage license varies from county to county and some California counties will only accept cash ... so don't leave home without some cash!
Other Tests:
California doesn't require blood tests.

License is valid for 90 days.


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LMAO. That so cheered me up, tried to tell Rob but was laughing way too much!



HEHE Dawn I am glad to be of service ROFL! HUGS to you and yours



Well all i pray as well we get this going to because I miss me man so much. We have been apart for 1 year 5 months. I see him on the web cam and wish I could just touch him once. I would give 10 years of my life to just to be with him again for 1 minute. I can't WAIT till he gets off the plane. I Really Pray we get the visa.
I get scared they will say *well HOW come YOU never seen her again after that or HOW come you did not have her come there to you..How come YOU send her money (he helps with bills)
As everyone knows I am 21 years older then him. We been together over 2 years now. Those 3 months with him here were the best in my life.
I get scared they will ask WHY the divorce was finally finalized while Kai was here. (my ex would NOT give me one and we were separated for over a year HE was and still is with my sons ex girlfriend..THE MOM OF OUR GRANDCHILD!!!)
I want them to understand we have been through HELL to be together and overcame so many obstacles. We have become so strong and he is one of the most amazing men I have ever met. I never have felt so blessed!
My children and sisters (even my son in law and future daughter in law ) are writing letters to the embassy telling them that they are in full support of our relationship. they offered and let me tell you, THEY never liked ANYONE I dated ROFL!!

Sorry about going on like this. I just miss him and it has been a LONG day. We lost a resident I love a few days ago where I work and I did not handle it to well. I been working my Honey OFF
I lost 71 lbs in almost 6 months JUST from working and sweating LOL I work in the laundry room and housekeeping so I am busy busy busy there. when I started I was 295 lbs. and now I am 224. I feel SO good. I am about 20 lbs smaller then when he was here and he just is in shock..Says he loves me no matter the size..BUT I do not want to be a huge bride. I want to be a HEALTHY one..chubby or NOT. LOL


ANYWAY enough of my babbling!!! I love you all my July sister and brothers. ((((GROUP HUG)))) It will be over soon and We will have our hunnys home SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Love you all
Merilee and Kai
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-26 00:59:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsJuly '08 filers
*sniffs the pile* OKAY WHO FARTED!!!!! mad.gif
Look I love you all and I do not mind sharing desk space and being piled up together BUT can we have a COURTESY flush sometimes


*SIGH blink.gif blink.gif crying.gif


rofl.gif wow.gif YEP I lost my mind
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-25 02:46:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsJuly '08 filers
QUOTE (cdneh @ Oct 25 2008, 01:10 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (kiwiana @ Oct 25 2008, 03:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Chris and Steph @ Oct 24 2008, 07:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey July filers! I've been lurking around VJ for quite a while now. Just thought I'd say hi and wish everyone a speedy approval. Not too much longer now! biggrin.gif



Welcome!! smile.gif One thing that i have noticed on this thread, is that most of us seem to have NOA1's dated between 23rd - 31st July (at both service centres) So i wonder if we all have our files stacked on the same pile as each other? Of course, it's hard to believe there is such a thing as a pile, the way the forms are processed out of order whistling.gif But anyways, not sure if they just send out NOA1's in bulk once a month or if daily but is interesting to see that most of us are within a week with our NOA1.

(I know that was a bit of trivial information but it's the weekend, it is raining outside and am trying to keep myself occupied. ok back to routine again . ClockWatch2.gif


We're in good company...in the same stack...somewhere yes.gif


Just dont fart on me if I am in that stack ROFL!!!
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-25 01:31:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsJuly '08 filers
QUOTE (TeeKol @ Oct 22 2008, 11:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (darkraven_cna @ Oct 21 2008, 10:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
A lot of June filers who recieved their noa1 at around the 20th or so of june are recieving their noa2s!!! This is exciting...it is getting closer to us. And im moving up fast on the igors list for VSC! Man I shouldnt get my hopes up to fast but I have been waiting for this day and as it gets closer it gets harder but more exciting to wait! anywayz just wanted to leave a quick note!


It is getting more 'real' isnt it? We have started getting some proof of our wedding plans too biggrin.gif I am so excited when we move up Igors list as well, so know where you are coming from. It helps to see something moving when you cant see where you are in line on USCIS.

Hope things start moving for all of us soon biggrin.gif



I know we been busting some hump here ..I am so excited for us all!!!!!!!!!!!!! GO JULY FILERS!!
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-22 11:11:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsJuly '08 filers
QUOTE (Rob&Dawn @ Oct 20 2008, 09:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Cham @ Oct 20 2008, 01:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
OMG I drew a BLANK on what we needed!!
okay he is updating his immunizations
Bank statements
Work info and letter from boss
Irs papers
letter from IRS
the letter of intent
paystubs
letters from family (cant hurt to have them do this for us..they offered WOO HOO)
copies of Yahoo messenger calls and chats plus emails and mail

umm passport photos
appt letter

omh helpppp what else lol


Cham

You'll drive yourself nuts girl!! lol.

London Embassy ask for:
Birth Certficates
Adoption Cert
Proof of name change if applicable
Passport
Marriage cert & termination of prior marriages
Military records
Affidavit of support, including pay slips, IRS info, employer letter.
police cert
photographs x2 (+1 for medical)
vaccination records & medical info
copy of original I129F application, with original birth cert etc
Letter of intent
proof of ongoing relationship

PLUS with packet 3 you get forms DS230-I, DS-156, DS-156K, DS-157 (males aged 16-45 only) & DS-2000, these need to be returned to the Embassy.
Unsure if all the forms only pertain to London Embassy.

There's probably something I missed from the above which will result in me flapping around like a loon!! hehe


ROFL SO everything basically in pkt 1 I sent in with all our info PLUS the extra...WHEW ROFL I have 3 copies!!
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-20 20:00:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsJuly '08 filers
OMG I drew a BLANK on what we needed!!
okay he is updating his immunizations
Bank statements
Work info and letter from boss
Irs papers
letter from IRS
the letter of intent
paystubs
letters from family (cant hurt to have them do this for us..they offered WOO HOO)
copies of Yahoo messenger calls and chats plus emails and mail

umm passport photos
appt letter

omh helpppp what else lol
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-20 07:47:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsJuly '08 filers
QUOTE (Terri and Seb @ Oct 20 2008, 12:20 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You can stay here, Rob & Dawn smile.gif. I'm in the same boat as you and I mainly stay in this thread because these are the people I filed with and impatiently waited to get my NOA1 with.

Do you guys all have your police reports? Sebastian is not being very timely with this and I'm worried about how long it will take. He needs one from the UK AND one from Australia since he spent a gap year there. Ugh.



I go to ALL of them ROFL aug july june ...


Oh gosh all we need to buckle it down..I have SO much to do!!
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-20 00:38:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsJuly '08 filers
QUOTE (kiwiana @ Oct 19 2008, 02:07 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Cham @ Oct 19 2008, 01:16 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
The only holiday Kai got to spend with me was valentines and Easter. I wanted him home for Christmas and I know that wont happen LOL I know he will be here between Jan and Feb (maybe march)
I have decided to save ALL his presents and KEEP the tree up UNTIL he gets home. My whole family giggled BUT we have planned a Christmas party for the next day of his arrival. The first night he is back I am taking him to a hotel!!
THEN the next day make that 2 hour drive home where they will say SURPRISE LOL
we have all the holidays he missed with us wrapped into one day.


I hope he likes it



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Does anyone know if the adjudication dates are based around timelines that get filled in on here?

Ours has gone back 2weeks...i know its only 2weeks but darn!
Think the chances of having visa in hand in 2008 have diminished!
07/15/2008 I-129f sent to VSC
07/19/2008 I-129f received at VSC
08/06/2008 NOA1 dated


THIS is based on other VJ timelines and an estimate. Being that you sent out your I-129f on the 15 and it was stamped on Aug 6th. I would not expect Oct or november (you are not a july filer you are actually August, even though you mailed it OFF in july your NOA1 is dated for august)

I looked at last years AUgust filers and the beginning of august was not until the MIDDLE Of Deceber. SO I would NOT get excited about what your time line ays. IT could be the time line time it could be a little early OR it could be a month later. ( it has been known to that.)

The best advice is BE PATIENT and expect around feb or march for your sweetie to be home

I know we all want our babies home..SOON ALL SOON. I been praying HARD for us!

HUGS HUGS HUGS!
Meri




Awww that is soo lovely Cham! What a wonderful idea!! Something you will both remember forever!
I have mainly spent 4th July's with my SO, so am really looking forward to our first Christmas together (hoping it will be 2009 one! wink.gif )


Rob&Dawn: As Cham said the vj timelines are just estimates. Sometimes I think that the process at both service centres have no rhyme or reason. Some people get approved after 4 months, while other can wait 6 months and even longer.

sorry that there are no firm dates anyone can give you for your approval. But it does seem that generally, forms filed at vermont centre usually are processed quicker than csc.

Hang in there! it won't be long until you are together again! rose.gif


AWW thanks sweetie!!
I remember when he came to see me and it was Valentines. He never had a Prom so I made our home in the living room like a prom LOL
I made a disco ball out of foil and those HUGE styrofoam balls and had Songs from his senior year playing..We had gone out to eat at this amazing restaurant and my son and his girl were there LOL..Kai was soooooo green ROFL..He proposed to me and my son and others clapped... I have NEVER had a romantic meal before..SO THIS was like my first time as well.
My ex husbands idea of romance was a candle light dinner at pizza hut (NO I am NOT joking)
P A T H E T I C! LOL

anyway off to bed I go!! I love you all and will be thinking of you tomorrow at workies!

HUGS
Meri and Kai
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-19 05:07:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsJuly '08 filers
The only holiday Kai got to spend with me was valentines and Easter. I wanted him home for Christmas and I know that wont happen LOL I know he will be here between Jan and Feb (maybe march)
I have decided to save ALL his presents and KEEP the tree up UNTIL he gets home. My whole family giggled BUT we have planned a Christmas party for the next day of his arrival. The first night he is back I am taking him to a hotel!!
THEN the next day make that 2 hour drive home where they will say SURPRISE LOL
we have all the holidays he missed with us wrapped into one day.


I hope he likes it



QUOTE
Does anyone know if the adjudication dates are based around timelines that get filled in on here?

Ours has gone back 2weeks...i know its only 2weeks but darn!
Think the chances of having visa in hand in 2008 have diminished!
07/15/2008 I-129f sent to VSC
07/19/2008 I-129f received at VSC
08/06/2008 NOA1 dated


THIS is based on other VJ timelines and an estimate. Being that you sent out your I-129f on the 15 and it was stamped on Aug 6th. I would not expect Oct or november (you are not a july filer you are actually August, even though you mailed it OFF in july your NOA1 is dated for august)

I looked at last years AUgust filers and the beginning of august was not until the MIDDLE Of Deceber. SO I would NOT get excited about what your time line ays. IT could be the time line time it could be a little early OR it could be a month later. ( it has been known to that.)

The best advice is BE PATIENT and expect around feb or march for your sweetie to be home

I know we all want our babies home..SOON ALL SOON. I been praying HARD for us!

HUGS HUGS HUGS!
Meri
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-19 01:16:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsJuly '08 filers
QUOTE (Aubrey @ Oct 18 2008, 01:52 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (kiwiana @ Oct 17 2008, 11:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Aubrey @ Oct 17 2008, 10:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Is anyone else worried about the non-USC's job prospects?



As a non USC, not being able to work for at least 3 months IS a worry to me. Not only for financial reasons but also because i am so used to working all the time that i really don't know how i will manage to NOT work for that long. It may sound silly but true.

At first i will probably not be able to drive either. So I am going to have to find ways to occupy my days. I'd like to maybe do volunteer work but not sure what organisations there are in the US.
Of course i will also be keeping an eye out for jobs for when i do get my EAD.
And as far as jobs go. I really don't care what i do at first.. work in a fast food place, wash dishes. Just anything really. As long as i can get "A" job at first and have an income and get some US job experience.



Very great ideas -- especially the volunteer work. Having a reference to call is so important for getting hired, and volunteering definitely offers that, plus something on your resumé for a lengthy period of time. You might check out the local Humane Society/SPCA or local animal shelter. They pretty much always need help, and I can say from personal experience that it's very gratifying to help save an animal's life.

Thanks for your response, it was a big AH HA for me!



Fantastic Idea!
I was also going to say The salvation army needs volunteers as well. St vincent DePaul is wonderful along with the YWCA or YMCA. Even the libraries need volunteers!!

(not long now all till 2cd part and let us pay that NONE of us get snagged along the way!)
love you guys!
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-18 11:23:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsJuly '08 filers
AWW we do understand..Sometimes I wish kai would have NEVER gone back on that plane. Sometimes I wish we would have gone another route. Sometimes I hate my old boss because HAD I not been laid of with a few others I would have had him here sooner.
BUT then I think I am happy I even got to afford to file and that time is passing by fast. I am thankful that this man waited for so long like he has....Hell I am just lucky to have this incredible creature in my life


Hugs to all!!!
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-17 01:43:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsJuly '08 filers
QUOTE (chie_weng @ Oct 15 2008, 07:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Count me in! We filed July 9 and receive NOA1 July 23! Goodluck to all of us! good.gif



OOOH another July couple! GOOD LUCK! Sit down take your shoes off BUT do not put your feet on the coffee table...have some forums cookies and milk to!

ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-16 03:19:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsJuly '08 filers
HUGE QUESTION!!!

Kai has been sending money through paypal to me to help with our bills. SHOULD I include those copies from paypal showing he has sent me money for that reason???
He is helping me pay for rent and other bills...even though I make enough he feels he needs to pay his part as his name is on the lease.

Thanks all!
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-15 04:33:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsJuly '08 filers
JulietteDumont I know the feeling!! I miss Kai's smell..I know it sounds weird..BUT sometimes I can smell him and its been over a year since we been physically together!!
I think I would go insane if it was not for the web cam or Mic.
I have OFFICIALLY broken the Mic AGAIN...SIGH..so 4 this month already!!
I think tomorrow when I get paid I will buy 5 and use that for our interview!! LOL I think the IRS should also reimburses anyone who has to get a visa and who has broken a million headsets for chatting LOL

It will get better I know. I have read on here a few folk have been WAY over a year ours is 1 year 5months...i found one person at almost 2 years.
I know a lady who lives in Australia and she waited up to 3 for here indian Hubby to come be with her in OZ. they got to visit one time! they been together a total of 10 years!!! ROFL...mostly talking though on the phone and webcam/voice chat. NOW they been married almost 2 years and so damn happy!

So if they can do it WE can do it!!


CD AWWW i know the feeling to with work..I throw myself into work so it goes by FAST
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-15 04:16:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsJuly '08 filers
QUOTE (cdneh @ Oct 15 2008, 12:53 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (MactanLove @ Oct 15 2008, 06:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Aubrey @ Oct 14 2008, 11:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (MactanLove @ Oct 14 2008, 09:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Wow, what a bunch of babies. I have never seen a group of "grown ups" who feel they have a right to citizenship in another country complain about that country so much. I've been waiting a long time for my K-1 too and I come to VJ to gain insight into the process and have learned a great deal from those who have been through this and can answer questions. But this thread has degenerated into nothing more than complaining about how terrible the USA is for placing a premium on citizenship in that country. Let me ask you. Once you get to the USA and begin enjoying all the benefits of citizenship there, do you want the USA to hand out visas like candy? Grow up people! Your prospective citizenship in the US is a privilege - it is NOT a right!

Believe it or not, there is a rational justification for the US to make this a little more than a walk in the park. You guys are complaining about 75 days and no touch!! Are you kidding me? The six to eight months that it takes to gain citizenship in the greatest country on earth is a blink of an eye. Stop complaining that your instant gratification appetites aren't being satisfied over night and start appreciating the fact that you have a chance to live in the USA. Personally, I can't wait to get to the US and I miss my fiance very much. But I know I am going to be there soon. But before I get there, I refuse to have a negative attitude about my new homeland. Chill out people! It's 3 more months! You'll survive, trust me.


First of all, this is MY country, and one of the things I appreciate about it is my FREEDOM OF SPEECH. I can say what I wish about my country, and I think I have every right to complain about a broken system.

Second, nobody invited you here to pick on people. We're all here to support each other through a long wait. If you don't like what is being said here, exercise your own right to BUTT OUT.

Third, you should spend more time reading up about this process. K1 has nothing to do with US citizenship. And the long waits have nothing to do with making the process better in any way, shape, or form. The long wait between NOA1 and 2 (approval) is primarily because USCIS doesn't have enough manpower for the job. So, I'm rightfully angry that I'm waiting around while my file is sitting in storage. Don't dare to judge me or my friends here in this thread when you haven't even educated yourself as to what this process is, or bothered to fill in a timeline, or even to read the MANY POSITIVE POSTS IN THIS THREAD.

Finally, if you decide to contribute to this thread, please be respectful of everyone and don't jump to conclusions. We're a supportive group, and everyone has difficult times during our long wait. Some people have been apart a very long time, and it hurts. Be kind, or please don't bother posting here.



Just like your country, my country has freedom of speech as well. So I think I also have every right to express how you people are (i donot want to be speicific). This is not a private site so unless you can kick me out here, that is fine.

I am neither here to pick on anyone. Gee, I have read all your posts non really is significant but patting each other asses (sorry that harsh but saying "F" online is harsher" ). Its pathetic how you can understand each other's complains but not what the government is trying to do to protect the US citizens from people who are doing this for fraud.

I understand how this process works and I understand that k-1 is non-immigrant visa. Anywez you people just misunderstood what I was trying to point out earlier. So be my guest in pissing yourselves off. Sorry to pissed everyone here. I came on the wrong thread. Okay this would be the last post.



If you can't be supportive, and are here in this forum to attack you are right. That will be your last post. You won't be welcome anywere.

I didn't misunderstand your vitriol in any way. You made yourself very plain. And so have we.



kicking.gif


You doing better??
I been keeping so busy!! working harddddd saving like mad
Tomorrow going to go over some visa stuff with Kai and wedding plans..tonight I am SO BEAT
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-15 01:11:00
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QUOTE (MactanLove @ Oct 15 2008, 12:39 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Aubrey @ Oct 14 2008, 11:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (MactanLove @ Oct 14 2008, 09:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Wow, what a bunch of babies. I have never seen a group of "grown ups" who feel they have a right to citizenship in another country complain about that country so much. I've been waiting a long time for my K-1 too and I come to VJ to gain insight into the process and have learned a great deal from those who have been through this and can answer questions. But this thread has degenerated into nothing more than complaining about how terrible the USA is for placing a premium on citizenship in that country. Let me ask you. Once you get to the USA and begin enjoying all the benefits of citizenship there, do you want the USA to hand out visas like candy? Grow up people! Your prospective citizenship in the US is a privilege - it is NOT a right!

Believe it or not, there is a rational justification for the US to make this a little more than a walk in the park. You guys are complaining about 75 days and no touch!! Are you kidding me? The six to eight months that it takes to gain citizenship in the greatest country on earth is a blink of an eye. Stop complaining that your instant gratification appetites aren't being satisfied over night and start appreciating the fact that you have a chance to live in the USA. Personally, I can't wait to get to the US and I miss my fiance very much. But I know I am going to be there soon. But before I get there, I refuse to have a negative attitude about my new homeland. Chill out people! It's 3 more months! You'll survive, trust me.


First of all, this is MY country, and one of the things I appreciate about it is my FREEDOM OF SPEECH. I can say what I wish about my country, and I think I have every right to complain about a broken system.

Second, nobody invited you here to pick on people. We're all here to support each other through a long wait. If you don't like what is being said here, exercise your own right to BUTT OUT.

Third, you should spend more time reading up about this process. K1 has nothing to do with US citizenship. And the long waits have nothing to do with making the process better in any way, shape, or form. The long wait between NOA1 and 2 (approval) is primarily because USCIS doesn't have enough manpower for the job. So, I'm rightfully angry that I'm waiting around while my file is sitting in storage. Don't dare to judge me or my friends here in this thread when you haven't even educated yourself as to what this process is, or bothered to fill in a timeline, or even to read the MANY POSITIVE POSTS IN THIS THREAD.

Finally, if you decide to contribute to this thread, please be respectful of everyone and don't jump to conclusions. We're a supportive group, and everyone has difficult times during our long wait. Some people have been apart a very long time, and it hurts. Be kind, or please don't bother posting here.



Just like your country, my country has freedom of speech as well. So I think I also have every right to express how you people are (i donot want to be speicific). This is not a private site so unless you can kick me out here, that is fine.

I am neither here to pick on anyone. Gee, I have read all your posts non really is significant but patting each other asses (sorry that harsh but saying "F" online is harsher" ). Its pathetic how you can understand each other's complains but not what the government is trying to do to protect the US citizens from people who are doing this for fraud.

I understand how this process works and I understand that k-1 is non-immigrant visa. Anywez you people just misunderstood what I was trying to point out earlier. So be my guest in pissing yourselves off. Sorry to pissed everyone here. I came on the wrong thread. Okay this would be the last post.



Thank you because maybe WE DO understand..do not THINK we do not..JUST because we do not like our government or what is going on WITH it does not mean we do not understand..if any one does it is US
BUT we are here for one thing and one thing only..to get our loved ones home a support each other while we are down and depressed.
Unless you have been in DEEP love and far away from someone you love YOU will not completely understand...
This would be WISE to take your political issue elsewhere..We would not come to your country or a site with your country on it and preach about what needs to cange...


oh and an FYI when you said this Chill out people! It's 3 more months! You'll survive, trust me. NO you trust me..it is NOT three months longer try longer..there is MORE to the visa then just waiting for the NOA2 so read up before you judge

Thank you
back to supporting!!

Edited by Cham, 15 October 2008 - 12:45 AM.

ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-15 00:43:00
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QUOTE (cdneh @ Oct 15 2008, 12:01 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Don't you just love know-it-all newbies, What an A$$.



good.gif you got that one right hun!!
A HUGE donkey one at that...This is why animals eat their young LOL
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-15 00:23:00
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Mac SHH..Unless you have something nice to say then close thy trap of a mouth. you dont THINK we know this..that was moronic in thinking! Listen..we miss our loved ones is all AND yes we know it takes time..WE KNOW THIS..BUT we can still miss them and cry..If you have a heart YOU would understand..but no I forgot..TROLLS do not have hearts

Mac is a troll PLAIN and SIMPLE ..a huge douche of a troll..as far as I am concerned If you continue with the snotty rude behavior and are not here to support the others who are waiting for the return OF their loved ones I would advice you to be quiet OR you will be reported and banned.



OKAY to those on here who are supportive..ignore the jerk...he has NO idea what the heck he is saying..all he is ..is a bitter boy who got crapped on somehow and is taking it out on us.


anyway Aubry...i was reading the redflags...and I am hoping that we not being able to see each other physically except that one time will not be one...We do not have the funds to visit as a two ticket from oz is over 2500..
we have HEAPS of evidence though..letters...calls you name it..just only one visit...

I have seen though were people like us only were able to see each one time due to funding...so I should stop stressing

sigh I just miss him MADLY...soon all SOON!!!!

Edited by Cham, 15 October 2008 - 12:22 AM.

ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-15 00:18:00
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I was checking last july 2007 and noticed people were getting there NOA2s between Nov AND dec
those who recieved their noa1s between the 1st and the 13th..recieved them in nov and the others the END of nov to the middle of december

Just an FYI...remember all..the noa2 is the longest part of the visa..and they recieve thousands of them. We are only a small number of what they recieve..so be patient and lets all cheer each other on!!
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-14 17:49:00
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QUOTE (JulietteDumont @ Oct 14 2008, 02:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
F**k ! Day number 75 since NOA1 and nothing, no touch nothing... I will have to go back to France next sunday and I don't know when I will be able to comeback cuz' of this f**king visa K1. I'm depressed !!! Maybe I will get lucky and get it in 3 month huh ? Tell me it is possible !!!!

Love



You wont see a touch that soon..for California it takes 4 to 5 months according to Igor's list AND fellow Vjers from the past.
Patience is the key
Based on time line data, your I129f may be adjudicated between December 8, 2008 and December 16, 2008*.
So MAYBE you will see it in November. You are a little after me when you filed.
I know it gets fustrating..but be happy YOU get to see your sweetie.
I have not been able to afford and nor has Kai to see each other for 1 year 5 months. If it was not for web cams and voice chat we would go INSANE.
A flight from Australia to here is close to 3 k for a round trip. SO this is not feasible at all for a visit. SO be happy and feel lucky YOU got to see your sweetie...I get jealous sometimes because I hear people get to visit their loved one..BUT then I think how lucky you all must be to be able to afford a trip or even ONE trip for a short visit.

IT WILL BE OKAY...the time will go by super fast..I stopped checking everyday on Igor's list AND the Uscis website until about Nov Th to the Th OR WHEN i see a CSC member from July get the first noa2...otherwise I will go insane and cry a lot.

keep busy sweetie..it will be over with soon and then no more of this waiting and wishing to be back in your sweeties arms:(sad.gif

HURRY JULY FILERS HURRY..come on CSC!!!! I want us ALL to be happy..no RFEs..JUST a quick visa so we can not worry and miss someone:(


BIG HUGS!!!!
Meri


QUOTE (cdneh @ Oct 14 2008, 05:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (mkg265 @ Oct 15 2008, 10:41 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So I don't understand who are the people that are getting approved on the processing times page on VJ? I'm a July filer and haven't heard a thing since July and people with other K3 from who filed in mid-August have their NOA2 according to the processing times.

#######?


I know.. and it drives me nuts to see people who didn't even MEET until after we filed getting K1's approved. ohmy.gif


It's beats me how that happens.



I do agree with you...It kinda makes me not only fustrated but angry at it all.
I see Folks getting it like you said and I am thinking ####### as well...
It makes me wonder what they are drinking or smoking sometimes! wacko.gif blink.gif
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-14 17:17:00
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AWW aubry I know what you mean! I been busting out some overtime and I am pooped ..today I work and it was my day off BUT it would mean more ot WHICH we need.
SO I can feel your pain.
I also am helping my sister and her 2 kids. they are living here until she can get a job..Its been tight. she started a displaced homemaker class and I am so proud of her. She has been drug free for over 2 years!! She might have a job so lets hope!! it looks good. She is also signed up for section 8 and other low income housing

NOW I have a question and HOPEFULLY someone can answer this.

I am claiming my neice and nephew on this years taxes as I will get more back then she will. This way it will give us about 1500 for us and the rest to her (extimated 3 to 4grand) so she can get her own car and a place with it.
I know I will probably have to show those taxes after we are married. SO how do I explain I only took care of them for 6 months and am no longer doing this?????

ANYWAY I will be practicing my cake stuff on tuesday at home so I can get out of this job after he is home and get into a better one, doing something i love!!
I also got our bouquet and I am so stoked
I put it in our album on here (NOW that I got the dang thing figured out.
This lady made the bouquet and his flower for 20 bucks (found her on ebay) and the others which will be the flower girl basket, tossing and maid of honor bouquet, best mans flower and the corsage for my daughter all for 50!
SO i have been scoring big time.

take a look and let me know what you all think



WE ARE GETTING CLOSE YOU ALL!!!!!
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-13 08:52:00
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QUOTE (Chris&Kaori @ Oct 12 2008, 05:17 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Aubrey @ Jul 4 2008, 12:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
My fiancé and I just mailed off our package today to the California Service Center. Who else is filing this month? I'd love to hear from you!

I'm a nervous nelly as we're headed out of town for several weeks so he can meet my parents. I mailed the package certified/return receipt so I can check that they received it. I guess I will just keep anxiously checking to see if they cash my check while I'm away!



hello we files K1 at july too
they got our case at july 29
last updated date in USCIS is august 1st 2008



WELCOME TO JULY WAITING ROOM!! We all are hoping your journey is speedy right along with everyone else in july:)smile.gif
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-12 05:39:00
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QUOTE (Donna-marie @ Oct 11 2008, 07:55 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ooooh i wondered why it did that.
im an August filer so if u all get your noa2s quick they will move on to August lol
Good luck all



lol thats the plan!
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-12 01:15:00
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QUOTE (kiwiana @ Oct 11 2008, 04:36 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (darkraven_cna @ Oct 10 2008, 05:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Daniel Brillit @ Oct 9 2008, 05:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
APPROVED!!!!

NOA 2 - 10/3/08
received letter today - 10/9/08



CONGRATS! THat is awesome...I hope we will all start getting good news like that soon...

why does my timeline keep jumping backwards??? It is so frustrating...


it jumps backwards when new timelines are added.
it is frustrating to see it yo-yo-ing all the time wacko.gif



I know! When I first saw it change I thought I had done something wrong lol So I sat trying hard to fix it until I realized it was due to others joining and doing new ones...*bonks self on the head*

SO how goes all????
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-11 05:44:00
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QUOTE (Aubrey @ Oct 10 2008, 11:42 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Cham @ Oct 10 2008, 12:09 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
if I got a copy of last years tax return, do I also need my w-2s as well and I also need to get my reward letter from social security for my disabilty to.


According to everything I've read on VJ, you don't need to submit W2's if you use tax transcripts (as opposed to your tax return). If you are using your SS as income, I'd probably include a copy of that, since you normally include paystubs for traditional income.

Ya I have my award letter and I am also getting an amount I am being paid PLUS my pay check stubs
letter from boss ( my w-2 or tax transcripts SUCK because i barely worked BUT that is okay...doc just released me last year)

THEN my son will co-sponser JUST to be on the safe side.

I am hoping that my age difference will not be a factor and the fact that i got divorced WHILE kai was here (fought for over a year to get it done THEN the s-o-b signs then WHEN kai was here...JERK)
I am also taking screen shots of all the calls i made to kai and he will to on his end from yahoo messenger.
I have a LIST ROFL

I just want to be PREPARED!!!
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-11 01:13:00
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if I got a copy of last years tax return, do I also need my w-2s as well and I also need to get my reward letter from social security for my disabilty to.
I cant WAIT though until I am off of that and the doctor can fully release me!!!!!!!! GRRRRR I do hope I get DONE with this baking classes soon THIS way I am WELL set with money and I do not have to stress so darn much.
lol

HUGS ALL

ps..i looked at the calender and CRAPPED..yep only a few weeks left all till nov!!!!!!
our time is COMING!
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-10 02:09:00
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QUOTE (Aubrey @ Oct 9 2008, 10:03 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'm 172 on Igor's CSC list. Don't expect me to jump for joy until I get a touch. tongue.gif Till then I'm just keeping my head down and moving forward. I can't get on the emotional rollercoaster from Igor's.

Requested my tax transcripts and trying to earn a few bucks selling stuff I don't need anymore. Worried more everyday about this economy and jobs.



AMEN TO THAT!!! I did find out I can use my SSI for income as well. thank god so I am well over what I need to support him BUT still using my son to..he has been so awesome

BUT selling stuff as well!
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-09 14:48:00
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Ya I noticed to! I do hope BOTH csc AND vermont will get it together so we can all have our loved ones

IT IS OFFICIAL I AM UNDER 200 ON IGORS WOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOO
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-09 02:01:00
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QUOTE (chadherm @ Oct 8 2008, 07:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
anybody from july filer got their noa2?



not yet.....although im praying!
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-08 19:08:00
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QUOTE (Naglfar @ Oct 7 2008, 08:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Istan-ns @ Oct 7 2008, 08:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
One of the people who applied to the CSC in June got accepted! There is hope that ours will come sooner than we thought.

That is if the trend keeps up.


There is definitely more than one. I see at least three. But they all appplied in the beginning of June, so everything is going as expected. No pleasant surprises so far. Let's hope than not too many people filed in June, so CSC can quickly switch to July.


4 now

igors list csc

QUOTE (Cham @ Oct 7 2008, 08:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Naglfar @ Oct 7 2008, 08:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Istan-ns @ Oct 7 2008, 08:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
One of the people who applied to the CSC in June got accepted! There is hope that ours will come sooner than we thought.

That is if the trend keeps up.


There is definitely more than one. I see at least three. But they all appplied in the beginning of June, so everything is going as expected. No pleasant surprises so far. Let's hope than not too many people filed in June, so CSC can quickly switch to July.


4 now

igors list csc


also aubry I do not know about your question so I am on the search!
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-07 20:48:00
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AWWWWWWWWw SO CUTE!!!!!!!! Hi auntie! LOL


I found out my daughter is having another baby around april! So we both have some fantastic news!!

I love babies so much!


Oh and ty! He is doing that friday.
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-04 14:20:00
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QUOTE (cdneh @ Oct 4 2008, 12:39 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I had a titre test done to see what I needed. It's a blood test that gives you immunity results. I only needed tetanus in the end.



SWEET i thought that was what it was, but could not remember what it was called. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-04 01:59:00
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GRR
Kais mom has his shot record and refuses to give it to him! She has been such a *insert YOUR choice of word here*
So how do we know what shots he got and so on for the medicals???


I swear If you all knew here you would not WANT to. From day one she has hated me; and I have tried HARD to get her to like me, but she has not liked anyone her children date...SO I just ignore it now and let him deal with it.

SIGH...MAYBE one day

anyway HOW does he find this out? any?? LOL
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-04 00:15:00
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QUOTE (JulietteDumont @ Oct 3 2008, 12:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If it is 4 months I will have my approval at the end of november (for my birthday...). But you know what, everything can happen, it will maybe be 3 months, cross your fingers, we can have some good surprise !



Then I should have mine around midle of nov IF that happens...LETS PRAY!! How cool would THAT be!! I see most on here though FROM what I counted are 4 months a few 3 months and some 5 month wait.
SO if it IS 4 months then those who filed and received their NOA1s in july should HOPEFULLY see the NOA2s in NOV


I want this to be SWIFT! No RFEs...ALL approvals! YOU NAME IT! I just got my tiara in the mail and I cried because it is so elegant and fragile...I tried it on and I felt so BEAUTIFUL!. I showed it to Kai and he was in awe of it. It just made us feel so good that WE are getting married soon and I finally get to Have him back home!
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-03 12:10:00
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QUOTE (Rob&Dawn @ Oct 1 2008, 05:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Just been reading all the recent posts...i don't agree with everything that has been said but i don't want to embelish myself in any additional stress...getting this visa is stress enough for me! (i like sitting on a fence!haha)

Just wanted to send my support for everyone waiting for the darn elusive NOA2!

Unfortunately time is what we have alot of whilst we wait but with each sunrise we are getting a day closer to where we all want to be...with our loved ones.

Any how, just wanted to check in and show my support for everyone.

Has anyone started turning the heat up on the wedding preparations? I am getting so twitchy that i want to get it all booked NOW! Mmm does no good being impatient though!




I have! I been making my garter and the tossing one...got a few things for the honeymoon to LOL...

anyone check igors list...This morning I looked and we were 214 ..I just checked and we are now 209! WOOO HOOOO


COME ON CSC


sorry all all this last week has been so stressful...things I will not post with family *rolls eyes*
but kai and I are working hard and just saving and praying!!


HUGS ALL!
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-10-02 00:06:00
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AWW Aubry and all I done love ya (does a back roads hick voice!)
HAHA

Work was LONG LONG LONG! Those older folks make me laugh though and make being sore MUCH better.

I got my Veil in the mail today and tried it on at work ROFL...Everyone was wanting to touch it and a few of the girls who work in the kitchen have offered to help serve food and make some dishes to help us out.
I was so tickled and touched by this offer!

I looked on the Calender today and I felt better for some weird reason! I thought OMG!! It is not long now and he will be home so I have to start busting my butt and finish painting the inside of the house!! LOL
SO I am doing the rest of the ceiling on monday (its a soft mint green) so THAT is done...IT goes AWESOME with the pine herringbone slats I put in the living room and I found paint for 99 cents!!! I found it at a place called The Habitat house. People donate left over building supplies and sell them for heaps cheap!!

I have to get a dryer and a stove next though on the 15th WE need one BAD!!


anyway enough of me babbling ( I swear I babble more then an older lady who lost her dentures on a roller coaster!)


HUGS ALL!!!
Meri and Kai
ChamFemaleAustralia2008-09-29 00:56:00