ForumTitleContentMemberSexCountryDate/Time
PhilippinesHave we gotten lazy?
if someone disagrees with something that was been said, point it out. the member might not have been implying what you think. all just a part of having a civil discussion.
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2010-12-09 16:18:00
PhilippinesHave we gotten lazy?
your point probably would have been taken better if you had said some USC's. I'd guess the vast majority of petitioners are involved in the process from the beginning to the end.
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2010-12-09 15:26:00
Philippinesthree biometrics received

Just go to the first appointment date and take all three letters just to be sure. There should be no problem as the whole process takes about 10 minutes.


:thumbs: don't worry about being turned away if you have appointment letter. some ASC even allow early walkin if you have a appointment letter for a latter date.
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2010-12-18 01:44:00
PhilippinesK1 Visa Processing is taking too long!

What's the "Brown Envelope Thing" I am not at this point yet.


The brown envelope contains your physical file. It's delivered to your fiance with the passport and visa. it must not be opened. it's turned over to immigration by your fiance at the POE when she arrives in the USA
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2010-12-15 17:34:00
Philippinesk1
if you haven't already, good idea to check out the K-1 interview preparation instructions on the Embassy website.

http://photos.state....et _3__rtf2.pdf
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2010-12-23 23:31:00
PhilippinesBDO payment

Hi,

Does anyone know if a payment made to Banco De Oro in November this year will be honored by the US embassy in Manila, i see they changed banks now its BPI? If not how do i get my money back from BDO?


visa fee payments are valid for one year. since you paid in November, you've paid the current fee of $350. I would think you are good to go. if someone doesn't provide you with a definitive answer, you can try calling the Embassy's Immigrant Visa Unit at 011-63-2-301-2000 ext 5184 or 5185.
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2010-12-30 16:25:00
PhilippinesWhen can I file for a K1 during annulment

Can't file for K1 until you have the certificate of finality AND the old marriage certificate annotated and scanned into the NSO database. How soon you can get that done largely depends on how competent your lawyers are (they are supposed to help get the documentation ready for NSO processing after the annulment is final).

As Bob said, her previous marriage is not erased; it will remain on record, however, the annotated marriage certificate will reflect that it is annulled.


:yes: :thumbs: do not file until both parties are free to marry.
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2010-12-30 16:28:00
PhilippinesProblems with CENOMAR in the Philippines
OP's NOA2 date is Dec. 20th. time would also now appear to be a factor.
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-01-03 20:20:00
PhilippinesSt. Lukes Extension Clinic Website
Visting this website may be helpful to answer some questins members have about the medical.

St Lukes Extension Clinic Website. http://www.slec.ph/u...pplicants.shtml
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-01-13 19:29:00
PhilippinesVIVA PIT SENYOR TO AL CEBUANOS!
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-01-14 19:05:00
Philippineshey guys!!

Here a some Guidelines for meeting girls in PI.

Stay away from Manila

Don't marry a girl with a kid

Don't marry a girl from a dirt poor family

Make sure your girl has some type of degree so she can make you money when she gets to USA

Age range between 18 to 26


and once you've found her, she should follow these guidelines...

Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have be thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favourite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.

Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.

Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.

Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables.

Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.

Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Encourage the children to be quiet.

Be happy to see him.

Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.

Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.

Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure and his very real need to be at home and relax.

Your goal: To try and make sure your home is a place of peace, order, and tranquillity where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.

Don't greet him with complaints and problems.

Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.

Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.

Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.

A good wife always knows her place.

{ The Good Wife's Guide circa 1955 )


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kIKsQ127BWM

Edited by sunandmoon, 16 January 2011 - 11:37 PM.

sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-01-16 23:33:00
PhilippinesScheduling the Interview - Manila

HEADS UP TO ALL, today, December 14th, I just got into the on line scheduling system at 1:24PM
Interview is set for January 3, 2011 7:45am
Available dates were from January 3rd to 19th, I think I got that right, sorry I was freaking a bit.
confirmation letter in hand with bar coded UID


best of luck with the interview. :thumbs:
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2010-12-14 00:32:00
PhilippinesScheduling the Interview - Manila
I don't now if this is why some members have had trouble scheduling an interview. in the past, the physical petition had to be at the Embassy before an interview could be scheduled. when you call NVC and they give your MNL case number and say your petition has been sent to the Embassy on a certain date, an electronic version of your petition was sent to the Embassy. the actual physical petition could take a week to 10 days. if having trouble scheduling an interview, you might call the Immigrant Visa Unit at the Embassy 011-63-2-301-2000 ext 5184 or 5185 to see if your physical petition has arrived at the Embassy.
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2010-12-04 17:14:00
PhilippinesWhich city and state are you?
QUOTE (RyaNRiza @ Jun 26 2008, 09:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (reijoandedlet @ Jun 26 2008, 10:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hi.. please count me in!
buenar park, california
thanks

QUOTE (PhilandBel @ Jun 26 2008, 10:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
count me in:: Sacramento California


Hi guys, I will include you on the updated list later today good.gif smile.gif



RoyandYazi.... Fremont,Ca

on reijoandedlet, drop the r. Buena Park. on Ca. list, kennethandjoyce, it should be Daly City. it's not to far from me.
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2008-06-26 23:15:00
PhilippinesWhich city and state are you?
QUOTE (Sheriff Uling @ May 30 2008, 03:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
The gay friendly state of California...


with alittle help from the State Supreme Court... whistling.gif
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2008-05-30 19:32:00
Philippinesattend CFO even w/o Medical/interview Schedule?

Yes, I believe you can. All you will get is the yellow certifcate from PRISM or SMEF and then keep it and once you have your visa, proceed to CFO with passport and certificate to get the stamp and green certificate



I did mine a few days ago and I am still waiting for my NOA2. so yes, your mom can. Just have to come back for the CFO sticker once she has her visa :)

Good luck!


the procedure is alittle different for Emigrants and Fiances/spouses.

I do not think you can.


:thumbs: , but PDOS is not needed if the mom is over 60 years old.
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-01-21 00:04:00
Philippinesattend CFO even w/o Medical/interview Schedule?
looking at the CFO webpage for emigrants, it looks like it's done after she has her visa. if your mother is over 60, she does not have to attend the Pre-Departure Orientation Seminar, but does have to register with CFO.

http://www.cfo.gov.p...d=297&Itemid=77

if she needs to attend PDOS, perhaps you can call CFO to see if the seminar can be done ahead of time.
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-01-20 23:38:00
PhilippinesShare some Filipino Recipes!
Pork / Chicken Adobo Recipe



Estimated cooking time: 50 minutes. Adobo is the most popular Filipino dish enjoyed by all classes. Adobo is typically served with steamed white rice.



Adobo Ingredients:

1/2 kilo pork cut in cubes + 1/2 kilo chicken, cut into pieces or

choice of either 1 kilo of pork or 1 kilo of chicken

1 head garlic, minced

1/2 yellow onion, diced

1/2 cup soy sauce

1 cup vinegar

2 cups of water

1 teaspoon paprika

5 laurel leaves (bay leaves)

4 tablespoons of cooking oil or olive oil

2 tablespoons cornstarch

Salt and pepper to taste

3 tablespoons water

Adobo Cooking Instructions:

In a big sauce pan or wok, heat 2 tablespoons of oil then sauté the minced garlic and onions.

Add the pork and chicken to the pan. Add 2 cups of water, 1/4 cup of soy sauce, vinegar, paprika and the bay leaves. Bring to a boil. Cover and simmer for 30 minutes or when meat is tender.

Remove the pork and chicken from the sauce pan and on another pan, heat cooking oil and brown the pork and chicken for a few minutes.

Mix the browned pork and chicken back to the sauce and add cornstarch dissolved in water to thicken.

Add salt and/or pepper if desired

Bring to a boil then simmer for an additional 5 minutes.

Serve hot with the adobo gravy and rice.

http://www.filipinof...ecipes_list.htm
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-01-26 16:57:00
Philippineshow can i bring my brother here in the usa?
the current priority date for Philippines of brothers or sisters of US Citizens is Jan 15 1988.

http://www.travel.st...letin_5228.html
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-01-29 14:26:00
PhilippinesRob Schnieder - Greatest Fil/Am Actor in USA
a little diversion from the thread topic...

The greatest Texan Comedian..

sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-01-25 19:47:00
PhilippinesRob Schnieder - Greatest Fil/Am Actor in USA
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-01-25 19:04:00
PhilippinesHow to get married in the USA, even if we live abroad

I'm not certain, but I don't think it's allowed to use a tourist visa to enter the U.S. [i]with the intention of getting married.[/i]Also, if your fiancé uses a K-1 visa to enter the U.S. and get married, I believe there are restrictions on the amount of time he can remain outside of the U.S. when he has his conditional (two-year) Green Card. You might want to check into this.


the OP has stated that there is no intent to immigrant, so as long as the then husband returns to the Philippines before his I-94 expires, then I don't think there would be a problem. getting a tourist visa could prove to be difficult.
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-02-09 13:15:00
PhilippinesHappy Yipee Yehey
The new ABS CBN noontime show to debut Feb 12th
'Happy Yipee Yehey' debuts on February 12

abs-cbnNEWS.com
Posted at 02/04/2011 8:50 PM | Updated as of 02/05/2011 1:13 PM




MANILA, Philippines - ABS-CBN on Friday revealed its newest noontime show, "Happy Yipee Yehey."

The network introduced the 8 hosts of the new program, led by former noontime show hosts Randy Santiago and John Estrada.

They will be joined by Mariel Rodriguez, Toni Gonzaga, Benton, YouTube star Jober, Bianca Manalo, and Pinoy Big Brother winner Melai Cantiveros.

Manalo and Cantiveros said they are excited and nervous, as the show will mark their hosting debut.



"Syempre tao lang ako, sobrang kabado talaga ako, Hindi ko alam kung ano ang gagawin ko dito, pero tanggalin natin ang negative at puro positive lang tayo para mawala ang bad sa mundo," Cantiveros said.

"Kung ano naman ako sa tunay na buhay, 'yun ang nilalabas ko. Gusto nila beauty queen na kikay na maingay na makulit, eh ganyan talaga ako," said Manalo.

The show promises to offer exciting games, surprise numbers, and big-time prizes.

The show will begin on February 12, with a grand pilot episode. - with a report from ANC

http://www.abs-cbnne...uts-february-12
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-02-09 21:26:00
PhilippinesHow Fast Is The Mail In Philippines ?
not sure how soon the letter will arrive, but if your physical petition has arrived at the Embassy and it's entered into their system, your good to go. have you already checked out the K-1 Visa Interview preparation instructions?
http://photos.state....3__rtf2_001.pdf

Edited by sunandmoon, 13 February 2011 - 11:08 PM.

sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-02-13 23:07:00
Philippineshow many weeks we should received our green card from USACIS and ss number

Thanks Darnell, How are you doing? My wife arrived in the US finally on Feb 2, 2011. Life is now much better.

My question now is about her VISA. It expires on April 26, 2011. Its a CR1 VISA so why is it only for 3 months? Do you have a link were I can read about renewing it. I am Clueless on this. Do I have to visit the nearest USCIS Office to get this renewed? Anyone else? Thanks for the help.


I believe you do not need to worry about the expiration date of the visa. that date is the time by which she needed to enter the USA. she should now have an
I-551 stampp in her passport, as has been prvoiusly noted by Darnell.

When You Have Your Visa - What You Should Know
If you are issued an immigrant visa, the consular officer will give you your passport containing the immigrant visas and a sealed packet containing the documents which you provided. It is important that you do not open the sealed packet. Only the DHS immigration official should open this packet when you enter the U.S. You are required to enter the U.S. before the expiration date printed on your visa. When traveling, the primary (or principal) applicant must enter the U.S. before or at the same time as family members holding visas.

http://travel.state....es_2991.html#17

Edited by sunandmoon, 11 February 2011 - 01:21 PM.

sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-02-11 13:19:00
PhilippinesYellow envelope from Embassy

LOL! I could see that happening to me. Thankfully, I posted here first, and my fiancee found it in her passport :) It still baffles me why they have an envelope that says in bold letters DO NOT OPEN, yet several people (including my fiancee) noticed a tear on the edge of their envelope before they even touched it :wacko:


probably so if it's inspected at immigrations, it can be seen it only contains documents.
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-02-16 17:22:00
PhilippinesK-1 Visa - Fiancee concerned we engaged before I was divorced

However I would address any red-flags, divorce followed by a quick engagement or marriage can be a red-flag.

I would attach a letter in the petition filing detailing prior relationship, divorce, and how met fiancee and engagement. The reasoning is if USCIS sees it and approves, the consulate tends to not be able to use it as a reason for denial.



Petition was already filed back in October, but a good idea.

Thanks!


having what YuandDan suggests might also be a good idea for when you take the CFO Seminar. it's possible they might ask more questions than the CO when you have your interview at the Embassy
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-02-22 20:51:00
PhilippinesB2 visa question

Thanks again. I think We'll just try and see.Even if it's a 5% chance of success it's worth the shot. Our fallback plan is a second wedding in Phil next year. Actually we'd planed it also, but the first would be great to have them here.

Question, does a second wedding there involve all sorts of paperwork and forms, or should it also just be a faux Wedding? Once married here or anywhere it would seem another wedding is just like having seconds at a buffet.


I think it can be if your planning a Catholic Church Wedding.

Church Wedding Requirements

Note: A Catholic religious ceremony may be performed even without a civil ceremony and the marriage will still be considered legal in the Philippines. Other non-Catholic churches may require documents and/or seminars not specified below. To be sure, inquire with the church in which you plan to be married. The process below describes the general procedures for arranging a Catholic wedding in the Philippines. However, the policies and procedures of individual churches may vary.

1. Baptismal and Confirmation Certificates - required for both the bride and the groom. These documents must be new, be annotated: "FOR MARRIAGE PURPOSES ONLY", and have been obtained not more than three (3) months before the date of marriage;


For mixed marriage (different religions) -- a dispensation must be secured from the Parish Office which will be released after the canonical interview with the parish priest or his assistant. These have to be presented one week before the wedding.

2. Marriage License
For those who are first married in a civil ceremony, a certified true photocopy of the Marriage Contract with the registry number of the city or town where the marriage was performed must be submitted one week before the wedding date. How to obtain a civil marriage license. See also Obtaining Philippine Documents

3. Canonical Interview - The parish priest or his assistant will conduct an interview with the bride and the groom one month before the wedding date. The interview will be scheduled upon the signing of the application form.

4. Pre-Marriage Seminar - The seminar will be scheduled during the canonical interview or you may inquire at the parish office. Some churches will allow you to attend other pre-wedding seminars such as the Discovery Weekend or Catholic Engaged Encounter.

5. Permission - The bride must receive permission to marry from her parish, if the venue is in another parish.

6. Wedding Banns - The couple must post the schedule of their wedding in their respective parishes. These will be provided during the canonical interview and have to be immediately brought to the respective parishes of the bride and the groom for posting. These have to be returned to the office after three Sundays. (The respective parishes may ask some requirements for the posting of the banns i.e. a picture each from the bride and the couple.)

7. List of names and addresses of principal sponsors (Ninongs and Ninangs) - The list has to be submitted to the parish office one week before the wedding date. Church policy requires at least a pair of sponsors and, ideally, a maximum of six sponsors.

8. For widow or widower - A copy of the death certificate of the former spouse must be presented to the parish office.

9. For renewal of vows - remember to bring a copy of the Catholic Marriage Contract.

http://manila.usemba...v/wwwha009.html

Edited by sunandmoon, 25 February 2011 - 07:52 PM.

sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-02-25 19:52:00
Philippinesquestion about k2 for child

Thanks for the reply.
My fiancee thinks that she submitted the DS 156 and DS 157 to St lukes when they asked for her passport is this normally the case or is she suppose to give it to the embassy directly at the interview?
Also she put on the DS form that she checked the box stating the child to follow later but actually she should have marked to bring the child with her, will this be a problem or can she just change the request by calling the embassy or submitting a new updated DS form?
When scheduling the interview is it best just to call to make a appointment date I know theirs many others having problems with the online system or is everything done online now?

Thanks again for the assistance.


the DS Forms are submitted at the Embassy on the day of the interview. I believe she should prepare new DS Forms to be submitted at the interview. if there are concerns over the DS Forms submitted at St. Lukes, you might call the Embassy.
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-02-26 15:56:00
Philippinesquestion about k2 for child

Hijacking the thread for a second: Please?

Can the mom gets her interview first then applies for her kid's K-2? Assuming the mom gets her interview in Dubai then after she gets her visa, she goes to manila and applies for her kid 's K-2. Is that possible?? Like that both can come to USA at the same time


:yes: when the K-1 is issued, it is usually valid for 6 months.
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-02-25 23:09:00
PhilippinesMarriage Fraud, Divorce and a life on hold . . .

Once she has a US Immigrant Visa in her Passport she will need the CFO Sticker to leave the Philippines. If she is living/working abroad and has met the residency requirements for the foreign country then she can get a K-1 through the US Embassy in that country. Note that she must not return to the Philippines until she is a US Citizen though or she will get stuck in the Philippines unable to leave without the CFO Clearance.

The best route is to be patient and file for the recognition of foreign divorce.


:yes: :thumbs:
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-02-26 15:50:00
PhilippinesMarriage Fraud, Divorce and a life on hold . . .

. . .but once in the US - they must marry, or leave, or file for an extension of some kind. The Poodle Guy


:no: there is no extension possible. options would be marry original petitioner, return home or go TNT.
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-02-26 02:39:00
PhilippinesWhats the fee for a passport?
950 Php

http://dfa.gov.ph/ma...rvices/passport
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-02-28 19:33:00
PhilippinesUSEM LETTER

Hey everyone,

I had a question about the USEM letter. How long does it take them to send those out once the embassy receives the case? Do they send those out to the beneficiary? And do they send out packet 3?

I also wanted to know what is the best way to find out if the case has been received by the embassy. I have called the NVC and they said that my case was sent on the 18, but when I tried calling the DOS, they said that they have not received my case yet. So I was wondering how to find out how long it takes for the case to reach the Philippines and if there is a way to see if it is entered in the system so that my fiance can set up her interview.

Anyone going through this or have gone through this? Any experiences and answers will be greatly appreciated. Thanks again.


the packet is available online. http://photos.state....3__rtf2_001.pdf

did you recieve your MNL Case Number when you called NVC? IF yes, you can try calling the Embaasy IV Unit at 011-632-301-2000 ext 5184 or 5185, however they will be closed from March 4 to 8.
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-03-01 19:36:00
PhilippinesCFO w/o passport

you only need two valid ids that they accept and a COPY of the passport serves as one valid id. contact them if you are still unsure.


The OP is trying to find out if an Emigrant can attend the Seminar, then get the sticker at another time. the CFO Website does not say if that is possible. guess the only way to find out is to call CFO.
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-03-03 21:48:00
PhilippinesCFO w/o passport

No,my mom is 50 years old


then she would need to attend, PDOS. I know the Fiance/Spouse Seminar can be attended before Visa is in passport, then go back later for the sticker. you might want to contact CFO to see if others can do the same.

CFO Website. http://www.cfo.gov.p...d=297&Itemid=77
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-03-03 17:58:00
PhilippinesCFO w/o passport

I mean you can attend the seminar with out passport and come back and get the sticker after you got your passport with visa?


is your mom over 60 years old?
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-03-03 16:59:00
PhilippinesCFO w/o passport

Thank you for the reply just a question if its right after the interview that means no passport right coz your passport is in the embassy. So you can go with out passport, am i right?


the passport is needed to get the sticker.
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2011-03-03 16:51:00
PhilippinesConcern Filipina
QUOTE (PhiLandShiR @ Jun 22 2009, 11:14 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (mariquita linda @ Jun 22 2009, 12:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
The highlighted sentence is pure nonsense. You are obligated to retribute if you have been insulted and attacked. Did Gabriela Silang, my fellow Ilocana, just sleep on her couch when the treacherous colonists were rampaging Northern Luzon with their atrocious acts? No, sir! For only a wimp or a woman who talks or writes a lot, but without any real action, would refuse to fight back. So, I suggest that you get armed and ready and cut down on your essays as it's getting to be boring and monotonous! good.gif



Obligated???? wow.gif

I simply can not agree that anyone is obligated to escalate a confrontation...

The earth would be a radioactive wasteland by now it everyone believed this...

-P


good.gif and this is just a public forum, where anyone can make an anonymous comment.... whistling.gif
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2009-06-22 13:29:00
PhilippinesConcern Filipina
QUOTE (edp333 @ Jun 22 2009, 08:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
There are some old quotes that also apply here. Why old quotes? Because some things do not change over time and the old quotes tell it all.

"Two wrongs do not make a right."

"Never argue with an idiot because spectators cannot tell which is which."

"People who fight fire with fire usually end up with ashes."


yes.gif good.gif

" don't stoop to their level "
sunandmoonMalePhilippines2009-06-22 12:51:00