Forum	Title	Content	Member	Sex	Country	Date/Time
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (mommy2B @ Mar 28 2008, 03:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (sus @ Mar 28 2008, 01:23 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (clairern @ Mar 28 2008, 01:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Mar 28 2008, 01:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I LOVE having an RN on our thread...now we jus need a lawyer...anybody...anybody! Gill Mommy2B is one I think!!! Mommy2B is a lawyer - I am a paralegal, and you should all know that we do most of the work! :whis yes I am a lawyer but I'm a young lawyer which means I do my own work Hi ladies, happy Friday! I just wanted to share I had a Dr.'s appointment today and I heard my baby's heartbeat for the first time.. I even called my SO so he could hear it too looks like u and i are due same time i see ur ticker below...im 11 weeks and i wanna say 5 days too baby is due oct 19 or maybe it was 18th	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-28 16:00:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Mar 27 2008, 07:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hey Kim..Hey Ton...how u'll doing Kim how the baby treating yuh ? Hey Kimmy im doin ok now i got real bad sinus issues now and the belching lol i be trying not to but i know these people at work be like ohh she is gassy lol other than that im ok. chris got his ead and travel papers so thats a plus hope all is well with u!!! yall type so much i dont even try play catch up beyond two pages anymore i estimate part 7 will start end of april!	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-27 18:18:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (sunnyja21 @ Mar 25 2008, 09:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Congratulations Claire....... Wonderful News Tonight!!! JALOVE, when you coming back to the area???? I just left! sunday i was there for the holiday. Ill be back 4/4 to celebrate my bday early which is 4/8.	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-25 21:14:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (clairern @ Mar 25 2008, 09:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Well it is my time to jump and scream for joy. Mike got his interview date schedule for May 6th @ 0930 am. I have so many mixed emotions right now I can't even express my self. Thanks to all my VJ yardie family for your help and support and for listening to me whine and complain about this process. Special thanks to Kishmar, who I keep in touch with and who encouraged to me give NVC a call tonight. Gill, Kimmie, Lawny, Classy, JaLove, Jengs, Sunny, Sus, JG, Jawi, Sonny, Marlita, Tonya, Mrs Palmer, Mrs Scott, Doodle, and everybody who have given me kind words and encouragement. Forgive me if I forget your names but Me lub oonu like cook food. congrats claire im sure you will go to sleep with a big ole smile on ur face tonight:) i know the feeling!	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-25 20:42:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Mar 24 2008, 05:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Update of my friend's husband the one who used the MONISTAT creame to brush his teeth. He just released from the hospital. It appears that he's severly allergic to something in that cream. So, he now has to have a lot of allergery test done. Poor thing, but mi still a DEAD WID LAUGH...ok Lord forgive me now. His wife say she naw kiss im fi a while. Oh my	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-24 16:27:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (nbesaw @ Mar 24 2008, 01:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Mar 23 2008, 12:22 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> BLESSED BLESSED EASTER TO MY YARDIE FAM!!!! Good News Guys!!! I called the same lady that had the room to rent to ask her if she knew anyone else renting and she said...SHE WAS GOING TO CALL ME...she changed her mind and wasn't gong to be bullied by some jerk! I went over there and gave her 1st month and deposit...walked out with the keys!!! Then I came home and was READY to book my Baby's flight...everything was SKY HIGH!!! I checked this website called 'Lastminute.com'....Guys...I found a NON-STOP flight STRAIGHT TO JFK for $199...TAXES INCLUDED!!!!!! As horrible as my Good Friday was...my Saturday was truly blessed!! Thank you for all of your prayers!! Blessed love always , Gill [/size][/color]HALLELUJAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [size="4"]Gill that is so amazing!! God is so good! I also have a praise report. I received an e-mail yesterday @ 11:28...while I was in church praising my God and thanking Him inspite of and lifting you all up, from Kingston stating that Andrew's visa will be printed tomorrow!!!!!!! I am so happy!!!!!!! I was like I know that is God...no only did they email me on a weekend day, but a holiday???? GOD ALL THE WAY!!!! I have learned something to be ever so true through this process and want to encourage you all..... He may not come when you want Him, but He is always on time!!! Can I get an amen on that!! [color="#FFA500"]I appreciate you all and thank you so much for everthing thus far. I know that God will provide more praise reports to be given. I will let you all know when he has it in hand!! I'm still reading to catch up from the weekend:) Congrats im happy for you.	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-24 15:01:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (JALOVE @ Mar 12 2008, 05:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Mar 12 2008, 04:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Yardiewife @ Mar 12 2008, 04:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Mar 12 2008, 01:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hey Kim..how yah feeling these days ? Lawd she gone mad an a chat wid herself Her head nah right fi tru hahaa a cyaa laugh..woieee ok mek mi try dis a gain Hey Jalove how u feeling these days ? and by di way mi name KIMMY not KIM lol hi kim im ok doing pretty good and you!! oops my BAD "Kimmy "	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-12 16:41:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Mar 12 2008, 04:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Yardiewife @ Mar 12 2008, 04:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Mar 12 2008, 01:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hey Kim..how yah feeling these days ? Lawd she gone mad an a chat wid herself Her head nah right fi tru hahaa a cyaa laugh..woieee ok mek mi try dis a gain Hey Jalove how u feeling these days ? and by di way mi name KIMMY not KIM lol hi kim im ok doing pretty good and you!!	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-12 16:35:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Mar 7 2008, 06:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JALOVE @ Mar 7 2008, 06:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> ok why is my meez not doin her full break it down dance ! Mine u shake up di pickney lol u see her tummy she supposed to be prego	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-07 18:40:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	ok why is my meez not doin her full break it down dance !	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-07 18:38:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (JALOVE @ Mar 7 2008, 06:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Mar 7 2008, 06:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JALOVE @ Mar 7 2008, 05:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 04:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JALOVE @ Mar 7 2008, 03:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> hi guys do u think any of ur SOs would object to being a stay at home dad if need be if its cheaper than daycare? By the way what are infant daycare costs like and the times in which u can drop them off and pick them up. I can't say this loud enough but YES, most jamaican men do not like to be at home, looking after pickney, even if it's theres. they want to work be out the house. yup that was his response when i asked him. My thoughts were that it may be cheaper for him stay home. Its just a thought. Now if he gets paid like 11.75 im estimating at 40 hours a week that would give about 350 maybe? and that will only just cover daycare and we need a lot more than that im trying figure what cost i will cut to afford daycare and any other expenses right now i have no extra to cover that so i been praying on it and trying find a cheaper place to live. Daycare here can range from $80+a week. You can send your child partime or fulltime, looking for a cheaper place to live sound like an option. Even if his pay only goes to payday care, I'm thinking it's best to let him work for it. He might try find a position where he works a different shifts than you: you day, and he evening....or nights ..FT weekends in a hospital where he works two days, everyweek for partime benefits. Also I really hate to pull the G-D card, but I know what works for me: Pray about it and forget about it. I never would have thought my hubby would have a partime job makin about what I make with my nursing degree. They don't keep him very busy all the time but we have what we need. Everything has a way of workin itself out. I was all emotional in tears this morning when he seh got the the rent..put your check in the bank. he'll tek care of you, you jus have to believe it will happen. yup after today im not gon stress abt it anymore im just let it go im gon pray he find a 26 dollar hour job then lol whats crazy is now they do this shift bid thing at work based on senority nice so im in the middle somewhere so ill end up with either a late night shift with weekdns off or early shift that includes weekends and they do this every 6 mos im wondering if overnights would be the best one those u get weekends off but yall i see mi fallin asleep pon the desk and get fired lol need some tooth picks keep eyes open lol i must work on my run on sentences lol i tend to type like im talking ha	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-07 18:29:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Mar 7 2008, 06:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JALOVE @ Mar 7 2008, 05:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 04:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JALOVE @ Mar 7 2008, 03:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> hi guys do u think any of ur SOs would object to being a stay at home dad if need be if its cheaper than daycare? By the way what are infant daycare costs like and the times in which u can drop them off and pick them up. I can't say this loud enough but YES, most jamaican men do not like to be at home, looking after pickney, even if it's theres. they want to work be out the house. yup that was his response when i asked him. My thoughts were that it may be cheaper for him stay home. Its just a thought. Now if he gets paid like 11.75 im estimating at 40 hours a week that would give about 350 maybe? and that will only just cover daycare and we need a lot more than that im trying figure what cost i will cut to afford daycare and any other expenses right now i have no extra to cover that so i been praying on it and trying find a cheaper place to live. Daycare here can range from $80+a week. You can send your child partime or fulltime, looking for a cheaper place to live sound like an option. Even if his pay only goes to payday care, I'm thinking it's best to let him work for it. He might try find a position where he works a different shifts than you: you day, and he evening....or nights ..FT weekends in a hospital where he works two days, everyweek for partime benefits. Also I really hate to pull the G-D card, but I know what works for me: Pray about it and forget about it. I never would have thought my hubby would have a partime job makin about what I make with my nursing degree. They don't keep him very busy all the time but we have what we need. Everything has a way of workin itself out. I was all emotional in tears this morning when he seh got the the rent..put your check in the bank. he'll tek care of you, you jus have to believe it will happen. yup after today im not gon stress abt it anymore im just let it go im gon pray he find a 26 dollar hour job then lol whats crazy is now they do this shift bid thing at work based on senority nice so im in the middle somewhere so ill end up with either a late night shift with weekdns off or early shift that includes weekends and they do this every 6 mos im wondering if overnights would be the best one those u get weekends off but yall i see mi fallin asleep pon the desk and get fired lol need some tooth picks keep eyes open lol	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-07 18:28:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Mar 7 2008, 05:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JALOVE @ Mar 7 2008, 05:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Mar 7 2008, 05:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jomo @ Mar 7 2008, 03:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Mar 7 2008, 01:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 03:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> mi can't wait for clarien to come wid the topic and the day soon done...so mi have a ??? This is sort of the flip side of most of us ladies were handling our business before we met our s/o. How do u handle that because we have it together sometimes the men, think it's okay to send down unreasonable sums of money to J.A. when mr jengles first came he threw out a three figure amount that he wanted to send down every WEEK. I had to ask him who he wanted to send that too?? It does kill me a little bit, that some people down there don't work and i'm up here busting my butt every day. I explained to him how much daycare cost, the fact that they we needed a bigger place to live and most importantly...di fact that he didn't have a job or knew how much money he was going to make. off to a meeting back in a few Not here, other than to his daughter..who we send $300 a month. No!! When everyone else come begging he usually say no, unless they make him feel really bad, then he'll send 20 bucks here and there. Can I be nosy and ask how he sends $20? I hate to send anything less then $100 cause of the fees associated with Western Union. You have an easier way? Either western union...10 bucks.... or most of the time he'll put it on his daughters debit card and they have to pick it up lol yo meez out shoppin up a storm and hubby waitn for her to get home lol thats cute Jah'love how is the baby? so far so good i back to dr end of this month 24th	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-07 17:44:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Mar 7 2008, 05:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jomo @ Mar 7 2008, 03:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Mar 7 2008, 01:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 03:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> mi can't wait for clarien to come wid the topic and the day soon done...so mi have a ??? This is sort of the flip side of most of us ladies were handling our business before we met our s/o. How do u handle that because we have it together sometimes the men, think it's okay to send down unreasonable sums of money to J.A. when mr jengles first came he threw out a three figure amount that he wanted to send down every WEEK. I had to ask him who he wanted to send that too?? It does kill me a little bit, that some people down there don't work and i'm up here busting my butt every day. I explained to him how much daycare cost, the fact that they we needed a bigger place to live and most importantly...di fact that he didn't have a job or knew how much money he was going to make. off to a meeting back in a few Not here, other than to his daughter..who we send $300 a month. No!! When everyone else come begging he usually say no, unless they make him feel really bad, then he'll send 20 bucks here and there. Can I be nosy and ask how he sends $20? I hate to send anything less then $100 cause of the fees associated with Western Union. You have an easier way? Either western union...10 bucks.... or most of the time he'll put it on his daughters debit card and they have to pick it up lol yo meez out shoppin up a storm and hubby waitn for her to get home lol thats cute	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-07 17:42:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 05:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> JaLove, his schedule sounds like mr. jengles the school is at the end of our block and has weekend and evening classes now that he has his EAD, he'll probably do one of those. he used to go Mon-Fri before. and mr is dying to work, he started to apply to some stuff before he left. QUOTE (IrieCat @ Mar 7 2008, 04:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Yardiewife @ Mar 7 2008, 04:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 01:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> but I must say this mr jengles ended up staying home with our daughter until he started school and he is so into her, it's not even funny, now he sees what he missed with his kids even though he lived with them because of his work hours in j.a. sometimes when i get home he reminds me that I have to "spend likkle time wid her" lol but he didn't do it out of choice. Yeah that is a big part of it. There is a big difference between staying home and watching the children every now and then or even for a few hours a day while the other person is working but it is completely different when staying home and watching the kids is your FT job and you don't do anything else. I think that is what gets most people (male or female) - they kinda lose themselves because they are home all day without much adult social interaction and a lot of people identify themselves through their jobs. I AGREE! I have been teleworking since Tierra was born... 6 years now! I go mad sometimes. Especially since coming back from St Lucia. I have no car and where I live there is no public transportation. I rely alot on my mom and friends. My friends know when it is time to get Catherine out of the house... I call them all crying!! LOL I sure love Tierra but sometimes I need to get dressed up, have a drink and laugh and talk with some adults!!! I am a stay at home mom that works full time. UGH! I could never quite tell what was in style but could tell you all about the kid shows. lol Since he got moved up he may end up in evenings or with extra classes he studys hard! always in the book when i get home. Its wonderful that its free and they really didnt ask for much info when he signed up. And he can walk to school its not so far so thats a plus.	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-07 17:10:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (Yardiewife @ Mar 7 2008, 04:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 01:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> but I must say this mr jengles ended up staying home with our daughter until he started school and he is so into her, it's not even funny, now he sees what he missed with his kids even though he lived with them because of his work hours in j.a. sometimes when i get home he reminds me that I have to "spend likkle time wid her" lol but he didn't do it out of choice. Yeah that is a big part of it. There is a big difference between staying home and watching the children every now and then or even for a few hours a day while the other person is working but it is completely different when staying home and watching the kids is your FT job and you don't do anything else. I think that is what gets most people (male or female) - they kinda lose themselves because they are home all day without much adult social interaction and a lot of people identify themselves through their jobs. Chris says hes bored and wants to work. I thought school would be an outlet for him to at least not be so bored. He goes to school mon-thur in the mornings. He bought home a paper for fedex im not sure of their requirements as far as GED but they are starting at 11.75 an hour. He just passed the pre-ged section now will be in the GED course starting monday so thats great. School ends in June.	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-07 16:57:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 04:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JALOVE @ Mar 7 2008, 04:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (IrieCat @ Mar 7 2008, 04:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 04:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JALOVE @ Mar 7 2008, 04:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 04:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JALOVE @ Mar 7 2008, 03:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> hi guys do u think any of ur SOs would object to being a stay at home dad if need be if its cheaper than daycare? By the way what are infant daycare costs like and the times in which u can drop them off and pick them up. I can't say this loud enough but YES, most jamaican men do not like to be at home, looking after pickney, even if it's theres. they want to work be out the house. yup that was his response when i asked him. My thoughts were that it may be cheaper for him stay home. Its just a thought. Now if he gets paid like 11.75 im estimating at 40 hours a week that would give about 350 maybe? and that will only just cover daycare and we need a lot more than that im trying figure what cost i will cut to afford daycare and any other expenses right now i have no extra to cover that so i been praying on it and trying find a cheaper place to live. did u price daycare where u are??? know any older ladies who want to supplement their income??? Is your mother near you she might know someone When my daughter was in Daycare ... and I even found preschool this way ... I called churches. Both the churches that helped me happen to be Methodist but Church people know people.... They know the community. Open the yellow pages and call and visit everyone you can. When I moved back to Maine I cried and cried because I didnt think I could afford it. Even though I work at home I couldnt get work done with a wired kid running around. I eventually found some GREAT care. You have to hunt the good ones down! I been crying and cryin too already and baby is nowhere near here yet. Going to do some OT now while i can to try save up some money and finish off my jamaica travel debt and the visa stuff. Im going to start lookign into and call some places. Im still hoping the TX thing will come through for me by summer that will tremendously cut my costs. They need 8 people to leave before i can come. So far one is leaving so now thats 7. Ill keep prayin on it. Ive also been trying to find places here cheaper where i dont have to sign a 12 month lease. Thank you all for ur advice i truly appreciate it, its like noone outside this visa/adjustment process can even begin to understand. I know u want to transfer thru your job. have u thought about trying to find a job on your own, after u have the baby. you can apply for jobs from up here thanks to the internet and plan a week and go and interview. that is one of my friends did. companies will/should be flexible if u say i'm coming down this particular week Yes that is the plan if nothing comes through i have even been looking at other jobs with my company in TX, CA, ATL, FL nothing that fits what i do or thye wont pay enough. My job now is pretty flexible so im gonna need that while pregnant. SO after baby comes ill see whats next. Ive been here 7 years its kinda hard to leave but we will see what happens 10 years one more week of vacay time that makes 4 weeks vacay 7 personal 5 sick	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-07 16:46:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (JALOVE @ Mar 7 2008, 04:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (IrieCat @ Mar 7 2008, 04:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 04:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JALOVE @ Mar 7 2008, 04:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 04:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JALOVE @ Mar 7 2008, 03:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> hi guys do u think any of ur SOs would object to being a stay at home dad if need be if its cheaper than daycare? By the way what are infant daycare costs like and the times in which u can drop them off and pick them up. I can't say this loud enough but YES, most jamaican men do not like to be at home, looking after pickney, even if it's theres. they want to work be out the house. yup that was his response when i asked him. My thoughts were that it may be cheaper for him stay home. Its just a thought. Now if he gets paid like 11.75 im estimating at 40 hours a week that would give about 350 maybe? and that will only just cover daycare and we need a lot more than that im trying figure what cost i will cut to afford daycare and any other expenses right now i have no extra to cover that so i been praying on it and trying find a cheaper place to live. did u price daycare where u are??? know any older ladies who want to supplement their income??? Is your mother near you she might know someone When my daughter was in Daycare ... and I even found preschool this way ... I called churches. Both the churches that helped me happen to be Methodist but Church people know people.... They know the community. Open the yellow pages and call and visit everyone you can. When I moved back to Maine I cried and cried because I didnt think I could afford it. Even though I work at home I couldnt get work done with a wired kid running around. I eventually found some GREAT care. You have to hunt the good ones down! I been crying and cryin too already and baby is nowhere near here yet. Going to do some OT now while i can to try save up some money and finish off my jamaica travel debt and the visa stuff. Im going to start lookign into and call some places. Im still hoping the TX thing will come through for me by summer that will tremendously cut my costs. They need 8 people to leave before i can come. So far one is leaving so now thats 7. Ill keep prayin on it. Ive also been trying to find places here cheaper where i dont have to sign a 12 month lease. Thank you all for ur advice i truly appreciate it, its like noone outside this visa/adjustment process can even begin to understand. I forgot i have to do my taxes too that i hope will def give me a nice refund	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-07 16:32:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (IrieCat @ Mar 7 2008, 04:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 04:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JALOVE @ Mar 7 2008, 04:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 04:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JALOVE @ Mar 7 2008, 03:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> hi guys do u think any of ur SOs would object to being a stay at home dad if need be if its cheaper than daycare? By the way what are infant daycare costs like and the times in which u can drop them off and pick them up. I can't say this loud enough but YES, most jamaican men do not like to be at home, looking after pickney, even if it's theres. they want to work be out the house. yup that was his response when i asked him. My thoughts were that it may be cheaper for him stay home. Its just a thought. Now if he gets paid like 11.75 im estimating at 40 hours a week that would give about 350 maybe? and that will only just cover daycare and we need a lot more than that im trying figure what cost i will cut to afford daycare and any other expenses right now i have no extra to cover that so i been praying on it and trying find a cheaper place to live. did u price daycare where u are??? know any older ladies who want to supplement their income??? Is your mother near you she might know someone When my daughter was in Daycare ... and I even found preschool this way ... I called churches. Both the churches that helped me happen to be Methodist but Church people know people.... They know the community. Open the yellow pages and call and visit everyone you can. When I moved back to Maine I cried and cried because I didnt think I could afford it. Even though I work at home I couldnt get work done with a wired kid running around. I eventually found some GREAT care. You have to hunt the good ones down! I been crying and cryin too already and baby is nowhere near here yet. Going to do some OT now while i can to try save up some money and finish off my jamaica travel debt and the visa stuff. Im going to start lookign into and call some places. Im still hoping the TX thing will come through for me by summer that will tremendously cut my costs. They need 8 people to leave before i can come. So far one is leaving so now thats 7. Ill keep prayin on it. Ive also been trying to find places here cheaper where i dont have to sign a 12 month lease. Thank you all for ur advice i truly appreciate it, its like noone outside this visa/adjustment process can even begin to understand.	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-07 16:31:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 04:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JALOVE @ Mar 7 2008, 04:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 04:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JALOVE @ Mar 7 2008, 03:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> hi guys do u think any of ur SOs would object to being a stay at home dad if need be if its cheaper than daycare? By the way what are infant daycare costs like and the times in which u can drop them off and pick them up. I can't say this loud enough but YES, most jamaican men do not like to be at home, looking after pickney, even if it's theres. they want to work be out the house. yup that was his response when i asked him. My thoughts were that it may be cheaper for him stay home. Its just a thought. Now if he gets paid like 11.75 im estimating at 40 hours a week that would give about 350 maybe? and that will only just cover daycare and we need a lot more than that im trying figure what cost i will cut to afford daycare and any other expenses right now i have no extra to cover that so i been praying on it and trying find a cheaper place to live. did u price daycare where u are??? know any older ladies who want to supplement their income??? Is your mother near you she might know someone nope only folks i know in jersey are the peopl i work with no friends here outside. Mom is in MD. Id have more options there if i were still living there	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-07 16:26:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 04:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JALOVE @ Mar 7 2008, 03:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> hi guys do u think any of ur SOs would object to being a stay at home dad if need be if its cheaper than daycare? By the way what are infant daycare costs like and the times in which u can drop them off and pick them up. I can't say this loud enough but YES, most jamaican men do not like to be at home, looking after pickney, even if it's theres. they want to work be out the house. yup that was his response when i asked him. My thoughts were that it may be cheaper for him stay home. Its just a thought. Now if he gets paid like 11.75 im estimating at 40 hours a week that would give about 350 maybe? and that will only just cover daycare and we need a lot more than that im trying figure what cost i will cut to afford daycare and any other expenses right now i have no extra to cover that so i been praying on it and trying find a cheaper place to live.	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-07 16:18:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	hi guys do u think any of ur SOs would object to being a stay at home dad if need be if its cheaper than daycare? By the way what are infant daycare costs like and the times in which u can drop them off and pick them up.	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-07 15:43:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 6 2008, 10:01 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> OK, my question for the day is suppose you had a friend who was in a relationship and for whatever reason, you thought the man was using her. You have no hard evidence, but you just have STRONG misgivings. DO you tell her? Or since you have no hard facts, do you just leave it alone??? If a friend told you that she thought your SO was using you, but had no evidence, how would you react? Would you prefer she said nothing without hard facts to back it up? Oh boy this hits home. I have a friend like that now. I know this man is using her its evident and have witnessed evidence...BUT i think she knows it too but is looking through rose colored glasses however, i stop telling her that i think hes a loser. Why, because she is thinking with her heart and not her head and anything i tell her or even give her scenarios as to how hes using her she just dismisses it. Its so obvious. He will tell her lil sweet things to keep her going and she buys it. Once shes ready to see the light she will, so i stop getting involved but it hurts me because i know she can do so much better and she is a lovely person, but i hope she wakes up before shes broke for a fool. In respect to the second part of ur question, if someone says my SO is using me then i need to understand/hear facts as to why they think such to back that up. Anyone can say oh such and such is using u.	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-06 18:38:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 05:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I wanted to add that the reason why the guy hasn't spoken to me is because, he's calling when he thinks only mr jengles is home. yeh something seem a bit shady abt mr man	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-05 17:43:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 04:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JALOVE @ Mar 5 2008, 12:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 03:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 12:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 03:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Mar 5 2008, 11:32 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Mar 5 2008, 03:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Pardon mi...mi might too kuntri fi dis...How do you FLIRT with class in front of your SO? Please, enlighten me or elobratishhh fi mi. DWL.... ...I don't know. I know how to flirt when he's not around always playful and never any intent...unless I need help with a tire, or some bags or some tile or something. Hubby get all kinds of stuff for free...I know he flirts his self up on some stuff. woo hoo, dis a how mi flirt....mi seh mi pimp miself out fi di free tings dem. haha fi real , the man at the gas station like me, all he does is give me free soda, but mi want free gas, mi can buy a dollar soda *cha* haha, this remind me of when I was little, like 7 and miy older sis11 use to pimp me out to the local corner market store clerk tuh get free pickles and cookies.....she say, "go smile at the man nah' haha, yeah we started young. lol nice.... ok with that bein said now u have me wanting corner store onion pickles and pickled pig feet and a pack of rainblow and lemon cookies Girl, this was the lick! Walters Market! thats where I would go for all that when I was little. They always had the pig feet on the counter in the back with the pickles in that big jar. i loved that place, til it got burned in the LA riots in the '90's..so sad. Darn i forget about the pickled hot sausages too. Now the eggs i was not even gonna try. I cant imagin what a pickled egg taste like imagin that.	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-05 16:37:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	part 6 sho is moving fast lol its we are at page 11 already in not even one day.	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-05 15:51:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 03:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 12:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Marlita @ Mar 5 2008, 03:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Mar 5 2008, 11:32 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Mar 5 2008, 03:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Pardon mi...mi might too kuntri fi dis...How do you FLIRT with class in front of your SO? Please, enlighten me or elobratishhh fi mi. DWL.... ...I don't know. I know how to flirt when he's not around always playful and never any intent...unless I need help with a tire, or some bags or some tile or something. Hubby get all kinds of stuff for free...I know he flirts his self up on some stuff. woo hoo, dis a how mi flirt....mi seh mi pimp miself out fi di free tings dem. haha fi real , the man at the gas station like me, all he does is give me free soda, but mi want free gas, mi can buy a dollar soda *cha* haha, this remind me of when I was little, like 7 and miy older sis11 use to pimp me out to the local corner market store clerk tuh get free pickles and cookies.....she say, "go smile at the man nah' haha, yeah we started young. lol nice.... ok with that bein said now u have me wanting corner store onion pickles and pickled pig feet and a pack of rainblow and lemon cookies	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-05 15:40:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	Have yall heard this. Jayz remix of Mavado's On The Rock http://www.partyspre...hp?ID=466&tbl=N	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-04 22:06:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Mar 4 2008, 09:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> GIRLS I WANNA SHOUT...I FEEL THE BEST I'VE FELT IN 1 1/2 MTH..OMG NEVA THOUGHT THIS DAY WOULD COME..MI A PRAY IT STAY THOUGH...MI EAT ACKEE AND SALTFISH TODAY AND MI CRANBERRY JUICE SOMETHING I COULDN'T KEEP DOWN...I'M LOVING IT..MI A TEK MI TIME DOA MY GOSH ...THANK YOU ALL FOR EVERY WORD OF PRAYER AND GOOD THOUGHTS..MI LOVE OONUH wonderful kimmy	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-04 21:49:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	DOESNT THAT LOOK NICE thats my birthday dinner in Jamaica last year. That is my husbands lil niece and my cousin Sam. It was her first time In JA and my mom would not let her out of her sight lol	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-04 21:17:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Existing in Shades of Blue	QUOTE (jawi876 @ Jun 23 2008, 08:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JALOVE @ Jun 23 2008, 06:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (jawi876 @ Jun 23 2008, 06:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jonesie @ Jun 23 2008, 04:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Wait...Keisha...blonde hair, sapphire eyes...either she's rockin a good dye job and contacts or she white Please continue You were the only one to catch that. Im loving this story! here i am peeking back looking for more more more i read it all yesterday! Thank you girl. Did you catch up on Stella? I am trying to find the motivation to write again...it's not there right now. I lost my muse. WEll im on search to find your muse nope i havent read that yet i will try to start that today...i was about to read it the other day.	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-06-24 08:11:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Existing in Shades of Blue	QUOTE (jawi876 @ Jun 23 2008, 06:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jonesie @ Jun 23 2008, 04:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Wait...Keisha...blonde hair, sapphire eyes...either she's rockin a good dye job and contacts or she white Please continue You were the only one to catch that. Im loving this story! here i am peeking back looking for more more more i read it all yesterday!	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-06-23 17:38:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	JAMAICA	JAMAICAN HISTORY I 1494-1692 COLUMBUS TO THE DESTRUCTION OF PORT ROYAL The recorded history of Jamaica may be roughly divided into six periods: The first period may be said to date from Columbus? arrival in the island in 1494 to the destruction of Port Royal in 1692. This covers nearly 200 years. But very little is known about the days when the Spaniards were masters of Jamaica. On the other hand, a good deal is known about the first fifty years of Jamaica as a British colony. The second period of our history extends from.the destruction of Port Royal to the abolition of the slave trade in 1807. During this time Jamaica flourished as an agricultural colony and became very rich. It reached the height of its prosperity just before the slave trade was abolished; that is, just before the British Government decided that no more slaves were to be brought from Africa and sold as private property The third period of Jamaican history covers the years between the abolition of the slave trade and the Morant Bay rebellion in 1865. During the 46 years between the abolition of the slave trade and the rebellion, the country passed through many misfortunes and there was a great deal of misery and ill-feeling among the different classes of people in the island. The fourth period dates from 1865 to the end of July, 1914. The fifth period began with the outbreak of the First World War on August 1, 1914 and ended on August 1962. The sixth period began on August 6, 1962, and records the history of Jamaica as an independent country. In 1494 on May 4, Christopher Columbus arrived at the island of Jamaica. This was on his second voyage to the New World, which was afterwards called America. Columbus annexed the island in the name of his master and mistress. the King and Queen of Spain. But it was not occupied until Juan de Esquivel came from Santo Domingo in 1509. and for 146 years Jamaica remained a Spanish colony. Jamaica was then inhabited by a gentle race of people called the Arawaks or Tainos. They had probably come from the country now known as Guyana, where Arawak Indians are still to be found. They were short people, rather stout, with straight black hair and flattish noses; they were copper-coloured. They lived in huts shaped like those of the peasants of Jamaica. They slept in hammocks. They made rough seats of wood, and spears tipped with stone, or with the teeth of sharks. They did not have the bow and arrow. The men were skilful fishermen, and caught fish and turtle to eat. They made their cooking vessels out of clay, and burnt them in fire till they became hard. The women grew cassava, corn and sweet potatoes for food. Cotton grew wild in the island, and they twisted the fibre into cloth, strips of which they wore around their waists. They also wore strings of beads and shells. But the Spaniards made slaves of them and put them to difficult tasks. The Spaniards treated the Arawaks so harshly that in about fifty years all of them were dead. They had numbered fully sixty thousand. The Spaniards got slaves from Africa to take their place. The Spaniards first settled on that part of the northern coast of Jamaica which is now known as the parish of St. Ann. There they built a town called Sevilla Nueva, or New Seville. Afterwards they moved to the southern part of the island and built the town of St. Jago de la Vega (St. James of the Plain), which is still called Spanish Town. The island was given to the Columbus family as a personal estate in 1540, but they did nothing to develop it. The Spanish colony in Jamaica was never a very large or a very flourishing one.	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-09-10 09:43:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	JAMAICA	Starting this thread to learn more about our loved ones Culture and the History of Jamaica, land we love Out Of Many Cultures The People Who Came	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-09-07 19:51:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	10 yr Green Card & Traveling	Good morning. My friends boyfriend has one of the green cards that have no expiration. He wants to come back here. 1. Doesnt he need to get that changed over to the 10 year kind? he has had it since a child 2. He has been in Jamaica, i want to say since end of 2005. What does he need to do to get back to the USA? I was reading about the re-entry permit, I-131 however that one appears to be only for if you apply in advance to stay out of the country before you leave the country. So at this point, what are his next options if any. He attempted to go to the airport to come here and they said no sir. Any advice? What agency should she call to find out more info if any. I have been looking on the net trying to find something that advises what to do if you have been out of the country more than one year.	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-10-02 08:57:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	10 yr Green Card & Traveling	Hey this sounds a bit diff. check this out http://kingston.usem...ion_letter.html Department of Homeland Security Transportation Letter Requirements In order to process your application for a Transportation Letter which will allow you to travel to the United States, the following documents and/or information are required by the Department of Homeland Security Sub-Office in Kingston, Jamaica: IMMIGRATION & NATURALIZATION SERVICE SUPPLEMENTAL QUESTIONNAIRE AND SWORN STATEMENT IN AFFIDAVIT FORM: This will be given to you when your number is called to come to the DHS window. Every question on the Questionnaire form and the attached "Record of Sworn Statement In Affidavit Form" (Form I-215W) require complete responses. Please take your time in responding to each question. The more thorough and concise information you provide, the better the DHS Office will be able to assist you. A NON-REFUNDABLE PROCESSING FEE OF US$120.00 OR THE EQUIVALENT IN JAMAICAN CURRENCY: This fee of US$120.00 or the Jamaican currency equivalent must be paid in advance for each Transportation Letter requested. All travelers are required to have separate Transportation Letters. This non-refundable fee must be paid to the American Consulate, located at 16 Oxford Road, Kingston. You will be given a "Consular Record of Fees" form at the DHS window which you must take with you to the Consulate at the time of payment. You must bring the receipt of "Consular Fees Paid" back to this Office. POLICE REPORT: If your Permanent Resident Card is lost or stolen, you are required to obtain a local Police Report describing the circumstances surrounding the loss of the Permanent Registration Receipt Card (previously referred to as a "Green Card"). VALID PASSPORT: Your passport and information indicating your most recent departure from the United Sates and arrival into your country of origin such as your Jamaican "Immigration Landing Card." PICTURE IDENTIFICATION CARD: This can be a driver’s license, student I.D. or employee I.D. PROOF OF LEGAL PERMANENT RESIDENT STATUS: Your Permanent Resident Card, any written communication received from DHS confirming your status, or the presence of your Permanent Resident Card Number which begins with the letter "A". FOUR IDENTICAL NATURAL COLOR PHOTOGRAPHS: These photos of yourself must have been taken within the last 30 days. The photos must have a white background, be un-mounted, be glossy, and must not have been retouched. The photographs must show your entire face in a three-quarter (3/4) view showing your right ear and your left eye. The photographs cannot be larger than 2x2 inches. Once you have the photographs you must lightly print your complete name and Permanent Resident Card or Registration Number on the back of all four photographs. PROCESSING TIME: Requests for Transportation Letter(s) will be officially accepted only after the above DHS requirements have been fully met and satisfied. The process takes from four to eight weeks to be completed. Please contact this Office after the fourth week from the date your request was officially accepted at the DHS window for an update on the status of your individual request(s) at (876)-926-6098. When your Transportation Letter(s) are completed, this Office will confirm a scheduled appointment date and time for you to appear at the DHS window to collect the Travel/Transportation Letter(s). Instructions for the Transportation Letter Questionnaire Instructions: To better assist you in the Transportation Letter process, it is extremely important that this Office is able to read the responses/information you provide on this form. Therefore, please print your responses to all questions legibly. In the event that you are unable to fill out this form and the attached "Record of Sworn Statement In Affidavit Form" on your own, the signature of the person preparing/answering the questions on your behalf will be required. Transportation Letter Questionnaire	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-10-01 19:11:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	10 yr Green Card & Traveling	ok glad i found this post. If someone has been out of the country, in JA since 2005 do they send the I131 form to the embassy or to USCIS? how would they get an appointment? Im checkin on this for my friend. They think that they r supposed to fill out the DS156 and make appointment online via the NIV system. Any advice.	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-10-01 18:45:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	no interview dates available	Here is how my timeline went last year. 8/23 ds230 arrived at embassy 8/31 embassy advised ds230 rcvd 9/5 notified that interview date was 10/16 10/16 interview	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-10-04 08:21:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	CT/NJ/PA Yaardies	QUOTE (sus @ Oct 4 2008, 04:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Are you thinking about work in NYC, Marie? Lots of people in CT live and work in the city -Costs are high living expense wise though - If you want CT, you want to be on the Metro-North trainline - Highest cost - Greenwich / Stamford area (closest to NYC) http://www.ci.stamford.ct.us/ - expect to pay at least $1400 and up for a one bedroom in an okay neighborhood - Or Fairfield - http://www.fairfieldct.org/ - a little further north, still on the trainline, but apartments for around $1100 and up - Best bet cost wise is Bridgeport - http://ci.bridgeport.ct.us/ - can get a one bedroom for around $900 a month, but there are MANY not good areas, so you have to be careful. Lots of JA restaurants in Bridgeport and some in Stamford - For a ton of JA stuff in CT, look at the Hartford area - one of the largest West Indian populations in the US, but furthest from NYC Super expensive, thats why i just left NJ my rent was 1535. I lived in New Brunswick, i drove often to east orange, thats where i found all the carib spots. Its stra8 hood but i can get what i want there! plus get my hair done like i want it. Decent place will cost 1200 and up. Took me 35-45 min driving in good traffic to manhattan and the train is like 7 min walking so that was great. Lots of JA Restaurants, food shopping etc. I could always find what i needed there. If ur looking for the convenience of finding anything carribean, cultural melting pot(which i loved the diversity), shopping and lots to see the tri cities area is great. I found it not to be the most friendly place out of all ive lived, experienced much rudeness! My reason for leaving is i want a more frienldy relaxed place to live and most of all since starting a family i want to get the most for my money so im moving south where its more affordable and i can get more for my money. The further south Jersey u live the cheaper it is. I was exit 9 off the NJ turnpike. Newark airport was 30 min ride if that, i loved that part, goin to JA i would park and ride. Spent bout 90 bucks. OR u could catch the train, which stops right at the airport. I alwaays had to many bags for that!	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-10-04 16:38:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	labor	QUOTE (sus @ Aug 29 2008, 08:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JALOVE @ Aug 29 2008, 08:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> did some researchin' for u seems like it all says castor oil n sex(orgasm) like someone said above in the thread im typin now so i forgot who said it! I was being sarcastic but also honest with my comment - My sister was late with each and every one of her boys - Her dr. told her to have lots of oral sex. wow!!	SweetSugahDumplin	Female	Jamaica	2008-08-29 19:36:00