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K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsSeptember 2009 K-1 Visa Filers
Don't worry Maggie. I think I soaked up all of the bad luck in this group. None left for you! :P
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-10 21:23:00
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Jenn I did see your message but for some reason it wouldn't let me reply and I was in too much shock to realize that I could have just started a new message, LOL. But I'm so very very happy for you and Fuat!!!

Still no visa. I called my congressmans office on Friday but the girl who handles the immigration stuff was off until Monday so I'll have to call back monday. According to Montreals website the visa should have been here in 5-7 business days and we are almost at 15 business days.

I did end up getting my monthly bill, but it is so weird that I'm still thinking I could be pregnant. I took a Pregnancy test on Friday and it said negative but I'll take another one in about a week to make sure. If it says no again I'll probably go to the doctor just to make sure that it's not a tubal pregnancy. I want to be on the safe side and not end up like one of those girls on I Didn't Know I was Pregnant, LOL.
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-10 18:11:00
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Still no visa, guys.

I'm thinking about contacting my congressman, but have no idea what to say when I do. I called again today and found out the girl yesterday didn't know what she was doing. It has been printed since the 24th, just not mailed. :angry:
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-08 10:59:00
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Maggie was approved!!!!!!!!!!!
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-08 08:41:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsSeptember 2009 K-1 Visa Filers
I just called dos again and was told that our visa hasn't been printed and that it's still in processing. I asked her how that could be since I was told last week and again yesterday that our visa had been printed, just not mailed. I'm so upset I could cry. I am crying, actually. How could they tell me one thing and then suddenly tell me another???
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-07 16:02:00
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Maggie text me this morning and her papers did get there for her!!! Now it's all just smooth sailing from here.
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-07 11:53:00
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WHAT????? I thought you were on BC? Either way CONGRATS, wait, you said you weren't sure. Let us know as soon as you find out :yes:


I am on BC, but I also missed a couple of days worth of pills right before he surprise visited me. There's a 50/50 chance either way but I wont be taking any more of those pills until I find out if I am or not. And I'm not even letting out a peep to him about it until I know for sure either.

As bad as I want a baby, I don't know if I would say that right now is the perfect time. Mathew and I have ALWAYS been LD and I think we need some time together to just be married and together. Of course, if it turns out that I am we're going to love it and consider ourselves blessed because so many other people in this world can't have children but I would prefer to wait a bit.

But this anxiety is killing me!!! :clock:
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-06 21:15:00
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One of the March 30th interviewees got their visa in the mail today. Ugh....why can't anything ever be simple for me? I mean, Mathew lives in LAVAL, LAVAL! It is seriously less than 10 minutes away from Montreal yet it's been 2 weeks and they've not sent it. :ranting: :ranting: :ranting: :ranting:
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-06 18:45:00
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Okay, so I actually did find a website like that. www.tulumba.com
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-06 17:42:00
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Jenn you just have to give him time to adjust a bit. He's scared and has never been out of his home country. I know you're being your awesome self and being all patient right now for him, and I know it will be hard. Just know that we're all rooting for you.
:thumbs:


Oh, and I know that there's a website where people can order things from Canada that we can't get in the US, but maybe there' something like that for Turkey too? Might be something worth looking into and it would probably make him feel less homesick.
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-06 17:22:00
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Maggies documents have cleared customs and if they make it to Canada Post by 8pm tonight she should have them in the morning.

She's almost in the home stretch! :dance:
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-06 15:27:00
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I'm going to wait another week or two before I take a test. It could just be all the stress we've been under because of the interview and now his visa(which has still not arrived), but I'm feeling a little different than I was before. It's hard to describe...but just different. I guess we'll know soon.

Good luck Maggie! I just know everything is going to work out and be there on time. I wish Canada Post was more reliable though.
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-06 14:13:00
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Maggie just sent me another update. Her I-134 is in customs and she called Canada Post and was told that it was hard telling when it would be released and if they don't have it for delivery tomorrow morning they wont let her pick it up either. So basically, Canada Post has to get it before delivery tomorrow morning or Maggie is screwed. :(
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-06 10:59:00
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Ney I'm so happy for you that she's here!!!

And Krystle might not be the only one expecting a bump. I'm a little late too. :yes:

Going to work on our website today and get it somewhat running if it kills me.
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-06 10:00:00
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So Maggies letter came through and her medical was approved. All that's left for her is to receive her I-134 and then her interview on Thursday. I thought it was tomorrow but it's actually Thursday. So lets all send good luck and wishes Maggies way!
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-05 18:50:00
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Live Action Roleplaying. If you've ever seen the movie Role Models they've got something similar, but called Laire.

I've never actually seen this happen in person but I would like to just once. I swear I would try my best not to laugh at them. :blush:
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-05 08:11:00
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Maggie did text me and tell me that people were LARPing on Mont Royal.

And all I can picture is the scenes from Role Models, LOL.
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-04 19:50:00
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Just got on my dads facebook because my sister told me to and I found out that he has his step-daughter listed as his only child. He has 4 children, and Paige isn't one of them. This makes me so mad I can't stand it. Out of sight really means out of mind for him. :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry:

I sent him a message about it, but we'll see what he says back. If my mind doesn't change he wont be walking me down the aisle and I don't care if he even comes to the wedding. Why would I let someone like that give me away??? My papaw has done more for me anyway.
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-04 19:46:00
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Karen is busy...um...hunting easter eggs. ;)

I'll text Maggie tomorrow and find out what's going on. I hope everything turns out okay for her.
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-04 12:46:00
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I just went to the store and on my way I saw that someone had murdered the easter bunny. :( I hope he had a chance to give out all of his eggs before some truck or car ran his little cottontail over.
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-04 12:15:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsSeptember 2009 K-1 Visa Filers
Okay, so Maggie text me today. :(

Seems that there's a problem with her medical because she was on Paxil 10 years ago. They want a letter from her doctor about it, but her doctor isn't in until MONDAY! Her interview is on TUESDAY. They signed some kind of form for her saying that it was okay for the consulate to overlook that, but that they will remove that if her doctor faxes that letter to them on time. So naturally she's worried to death about it.

I just pray that she gets the letter she needs on time, or that if she doesn't, the consulate approves her anyway. I mean, she was on Paxil when she was 17! It's insane.
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-02 19:49:00
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If Mathew doesn't call about his vehicle compliance letter today I'm going to strangle him. :angry:
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-01 08:26:00
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Well that's given me a lot of great ideas so I'll let you know later today what I come up with. :)
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-04-01 07:57:00
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Wow Kayla that's a great price!
Speaking of which, I know you have creative ideas, how can I make my own bouquet for the ceremony? I mean I'll buy the flowers but how do I make it all pretty to walk down the aisle with??



What kind of flowers are you thinking about having and are you doing your wedding outside or inside?
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-03-31 22:12:00
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My meeting with the florist went awesome. I just love this guy and he did the flowers for one of the girls I work with, which were GORGEOUS. He took notes on everything that I said and promised to give me updates on what he finds so I can okay it. And best of all, he works wonders with what you tell him you'll spend. I told him my budget is $400, so we'll see what wonders he comes up with.

I'm getting so excited for the wedding. Everything is falling right into place.

Now I just have to get RSVP cards for my invitations and send them out.
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-03-31 21:27:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsSeptember 2009 K-1 Visa Filers
Oh my goodness DOS just scared the life out of me!!!

I called again, and I didn't get the message that they were closed and when the lady answered the phone the first time she told me she couldn't find our case and then transferred me to NVC before I could get a word out. So I hung up and called back.

The second lady got my case number and then she says "eww...are you sitting down?". My heart fell and I said yes. She then says "Well it looks like, and I'm sorry to say, that the visa has been printed!". I thought I was going to die!!! She was very friendly and nice and I thought it was so funny afterwards. She said the visa had been printed a few days ago and he should receive it soon.

So now I'm happy!
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-03-31 11:45:00
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I'm so excited for you Krystle!

I was cleaning out my bag just a minute ago and I noticed that the gift card holder for the gift certificate his job gave him to Baton Rouge was in my bag. I opened it and Mathew wrote in that it's from him to me and the amount is all of his love.

He's so sweet. :wub: :wub: :wub: :wub: :luv: :luv: :luv: :luv:

For some weird reason DOS is closed today.

Edited by Kayla*Mathew, 31 March 2010 - 11:27 AM.

Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-03-31 11:26:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsSeptember 2009 K-1 Visa Filers
I'll call DOS here in a bit. It's just more annoying than anything. He isn't moving until May 14th, but I'd like for him to have his visa.

I'm going to go meet with my florist today. Yay!!!
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-03-31 09:29:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsSeptember 2009 K-1 Visa Filers
Okay good! At least you've got a way to get it in time.

I know that some of the Canadian VJers have had to wait like 2 weeks for their visa to finally arrive, but I was hoping we wouldn't be one of those couples. I should just be thankful that we're approved but the CO said that the visa would be mailed Wednesday and it should arrive Friday or Monday. Today is Tuesday. I just wonder if DOS ALWAYS gets a hit on everything that goes on, or if it's like the USCIS online website, and sometimes misses updates.
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-03-30 17:15:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsSeptember 2009 K-1 Visa Filers
It's been one week exactly since the interview and Mathew still doesn't have his visa. I got him to call DOS today and they said that a visa was issued, but there were no notes about a shipment. Seems kind of odd since just about everyone from Canada has their visa within like 3-4 days of the interview. Worries me a bit.

Maggie you may have said earlier, but do you have a backup plan??? Do you have someone that can get those papers and overnight them to you?
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-03-30 16:59:00
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I'm going to kill my uncle.

He works for Frito Lay and today is loading day(whatever that is) so he asked me to come pick him up because he has to leave his truck for a while. Well he text me and told me to come, and no sooner had I walked out the door did he call me and tell me nevermind that it's not going to take that long and he'll be able to get back to his truck on his own.

I had already closed the door.

Yeah, that's right.

Locked out.

I had to climb through a freaking window! I'm 5'1! That aint no easy feat!

Plus I'm sure the neighbors thought I was breaking in.

He's dead. Sooo dead. :ranting:
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-03-29 14:27:00
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morning all!

kayla - sucks about your luggage! I am always so worried about losing bags, so I try to just carry-on as much as possible. Of course that's not always possible, but i try. :)

i'm battling a nasty cold...hoping it will be gone by the time my honey gets here on friday!

hope everyone has a great day...



I would love to be able to carry-on but for some reason I just can't seem to do it. Of course, this last time I had 10 pounds worth of wedding invitations in my bag, but that's besides the point. :blink:
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-03-29 10:26:00
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Geez louise. That really sucks, Kayla. I hope you do get a free ticket or something. I'm almost glad I'm too scared to fly, lol. People seem to lose their luggage WAY too much for my liking.



This is the very first time I have ever lost my luggage.

I just sent Delta a lengthy email, so hopefully it warrants some action on their part. Mary Goods needs to be fired because if that is the kind of person they want to put on the front lines to deal with customers then they will lose those customers. They've already lost me as a customer and as an airmiles member.
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-03-29 08:21:00
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Damn Kayla, the 2nd time! Make a big deal about it, you might get a free ticket!

On another note, I hope everyone enjoy their day!

Karen I know you're beyond anxios; I bet Seb broke his bed lastnight and had to move to another room in the house, lol oh and Jenn too!
Hope you get your luggage back soon Kayla.



I'm on hold with them right now.

I told them under NO CIRCUMSTANCES was my bag to be left on the front stoop. I told that girl that no matter what time it was to call me before delivery so I could be awake to grab it.

Well apparently when my aunt or uncle left the bag was sitting on the front stoop. No one knocked, called, or anything.

And I just got a hold of a Mary Goods and she told me that she didn't understand why I was calling if I already had my bag. She was a COMPLETE ####.

I will be filing a complaint.
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-03-29 07:38:00
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I'm not even kidding when I say that Delta misplaced my bags AGAIN.

Fury does not describe what I'm feeling right now. :ranting: :ranting: :angry: :angry:
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-03-28 23:17:00
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Kayla I'm sorry to hear that you left so soon but don't worry he'll be here soon.
BTW Kayla, now that your interview is all over we should beat you up for making us worry AND having us wait all day to hear the good news!!
Oh ####### scratch that, I forgot you sent me a text msg...
I'm going to the movies tonight and I wanna see How...Dragon but he wants to see Alice in Wonderland sooo we're just gonna go and whichever is playing at the time we go we'll watch.

Seb I know you're super excited!!

Wow Ney, you've done a awful lot and now she's finally coming!! I wish you all luck with finding the rest of stuff thats needed.



I`m serious, you need to see the dragon movie. Mathew and I both loved it and all of the people watching it laughed the whole time. It`s one of the best movies I`ve seen in a long long time. This one tops Finding Nemo for me, and that was my favorite movie forever. When we left the theater I asked him if we could go back and watch it again, lol.

And strangely enough there was only 2 children in the movie. The rest were adults, LOL.
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-03-28 09:13:00
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Everyone needs to see how to train your dragon.

Is AWESOME!
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-03-27 22:53:00
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tonight is my last night with my babybunny. :(

He took me to the poutine place, which was awesome, and then to Old Montreal.

Now we`re getting ready to go eat dinner and see How To Train Your Dragon in 3D!!!!!!!
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-03-27 18:54:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsSeptember 2009 K-1 Visa Filers

The longest L and I have been apart, since we met, was 6.5 months, and it was really rough at the end. It wasn't our choice, either; we had applied for his tourist visa, and he was to come for a month in August, between his classes ending and work/school beginning, but his tourist visa was denied because apparently girlfriend trumps work and a free college education.

I honestly don't know how couples who are apart for years at a time can do it.


Wedding licenses where we're getting married (New Orleans) are walk-ins too. They're also walk-ins where I live (about two hours east of frenzy :P).



It's not that bad. It really isn't. We finished ours (except for the SSN, visa number, and I94 number) last week.

But make HIM do it if you aren't ready to handle more paperwork. It'll take him no more than a day (and probably more like an hour if he has the VJ examples open in another window while he's doing them) to get all the paperwork but the I864 done, and I'm sure even with all the wedding planning and preparation, he can carve out two hours to do HIS paperwork. They're HIS forms, in HIS name and HE has to sign them.

The only thing that has anything to do with you and requires your signature for the AOS is the I864.


Yeah...anything that HE has to fill out I fill out. Always been that way with us. But I love him so meh.
Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-03-26 14:29:00
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I just went to go apply for marriage license & was told I have to make an appointment first, so I said ok. Next available appointment is May 6th; it takes 3 days to recieve it & I'm not sure how long it takes to get an appt get married in court. The church ceremony isn't looking good because no pastor wants to marry me without pre'marital counseling, which takes 3-6 months.. Sooo, hopefully I'm not screwed.

Kayla: I printed the papers for AOS as well and it's CRAZY!


Wow...our marriage certificates can be gotten the same day. :blink:


Why dont you call the county clerks office and tell them that you need a justice of the peace to come and marry you at a church. That`s what we`re doing, and we`re only paying the guy $50. His family is catholic and mine is christian so we didn`t even want to have to worry about offending someone.

Or see if you can find a non-denominational person in your area to do it.

Edited by Kayla*Mathew, 26 March 2010 - 11:09 AM.

Kayla*MathewFemaleCanada2010-03-26 11:09:00