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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies a home and a farrin (Part 22)

From that reaction/reply, you can assume many possibilities such as that the child is w' someone who she wish was the father; the child IS w' the REAL father; she doesn't want this man asking for the child unless he has something to offer; she's just so upset she had to say something hurrtful.
Now with the 3 hour gap :unsure: Had to be she's unsure who the father is but wish that it's the one that the child is w'. Just my personal opinion and sometimes when people say things you have to sit and think deep about what was said, how it was said etc

For instance, monday @ work my coworker asked me where & how am I having my wedding. Me wanting my wedding on the beach in Jamaica responded "I'll be having the ceremony at a church, take some pictures at the park in my dress and then me and my family and closest friends go out to eat" Her response was "well, that's a cheap wedding and I really don't wamt to see you get married because I envisioned a man for you that you wouldn't have to work , but instead you pick up someone you're going to have to support"!!! My stupid response was "i don'tcarte what you think" but I should've lighted her stank #### on fire and tell her to get the F out my face w' what she thinks :angry: Rant over :star:

Thank you, I am sorry that your co worker was prying in to your business, some people just don't know when to keep their stupid comments to themselves. I do not think your reply was stupid either because just because you are the one that is making the money does not mean that later on that tables will turn and you at that point may not have to work. Best wishes on your upcoming interview.

Then that makes doing the DNA test easier - They have kits in almost every drugstore now a days, and although it won't hold up in court, for under $100 you can get piece of mind - And if the child is definitely his, I would take it to court and put some type of formal child support / visitation plan in place -

Again thank you sus , I agree 100% with this .
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-02-03 08:38:00
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Sounds to me like she is angry and lashing out at him, and trying any which way she can to hurt him / make him feel like he has been replaced - If there is ANY doubt in his mind that he is the father, I would do a DNA to confirm it - I can't even imagine how hurtful it would be to get to the interview phase at the embassy and be told that you are not the father - which has happened plenty of times.

Thank you. She is pregnant again by another man already 5 or 6 month the child in question is only a 1 yr 6 months old and here in the states
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-02-03 08:27:00
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Just a random questions for all of you with children oe those of you without. Lets say the baby's father is not able to contribute at this time do to not working but has faithfully contributed in the pass, however he calls daily to check on the child. Now lets say he calls you on Saturday as usual and asked how the child is doing and the comment back is he is with his father! and you hang up . Three hours later you call back to appologize.

A) Would you as a parent knowingly being 100% sure that this man is the father of your child say something as hurtful as that?

or

B) Would you say something like that if you weren't to sure if the child is actually his?

My opinion is that a real WOMEN who is a 100% sure who the father of the child is would not say something like that unless truely they are uncertain that the man is truly the father. I also feel it took three hours for a call back because now she would have to come up with some sort of story to try to correct what was said.

Any reply would be greatly appreciated.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-02-03 08:11:00
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Good Morning All,

Hope eberyone has a blessed day.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-02-03 08:02:00
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:dance:


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Current Status: Card production ordered.

On February 2, 2010, we ordered production of your new card. Please allow 30 days for your card to be mailed to you. If we need something from you we will contact you. If you move before you receive the card, call customer service at 1-800-375-5283.

Amen Congrats
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-02-02 15:11:00
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Thank you girl!!! Den is on the plane now and I'm glad cause if he would have called me one more time... :whistle:

Oh let me update you on Nat and them birth certificates (Nat please forgive me) but Nat & Steve had the birth certificates the whole time. :lol:

Oh!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL Thanks
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-02-02 13:33:00
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Imma add you Im Tracey Guerrant-Gardner!

No problem, i will accept ya :)

Good Afternoon everyone, I was just trying to catch up I been busy at work the last week and this week is just as busy (I think they are trying to make up for my time off starting on the 11th for my wedding.

Congrats to your daughter shemmy that is great news!
Dens I am so happy for you woohoo
Yankee 7 more days YEAH! (I understand the nervousness)

If I am forgetting anything else I appologize.

Nat have you heard anything from the RGD yet about the birth certificates?
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-02-02 13:00:00
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Girl that is great! Are you on FB?

Yes ! Julianne Kohl
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-02-02 12:36:00
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We have mostly everything ready! We have to apply for the license, get our rings, and get Den a suit. I brought my dress months ago and my BFF got my veil as a gift...I'm so excited. So looking forward to marrying the man I love!

Congrats to you and yours and I know everthing is going to be wonderful! :thumbs:

That sounds great we got our license on Friday, only thing I need now his to get his Fruit cake and my cheesecake and we are all set.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-02-01 12:33:00
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[quote name='MRStee' date='Feb 1 2010, 11:12 AM' post='3677413']
Seems like you had a nice weekend. Thats great. Good luck with the SS. You should be okay with it now :)



How are you feeling? Getting excited?

I am feeling much better, thank you. I am so excited I cant wait!
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-02-01 12:28:00
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[quote name='Dens Wifey' date='Feb 1 2010, 11:02 AM' post='3677392']
Morning! Only 13 more days and we're married women!!!! :dance: :dance: :dance:
I'm so excited and nervous...Denton is cool as a fan though! I'll see how long that last once he is actually here. :unsure:



Yes mam,

I am so excited! I cant wait. Do you have everything ready?
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-02-01 12:24:00
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Morning Everyone,

Hope all of you are well. Have a blessed day.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-02-01 10:50:00
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Good Morning Everyone!

Today is the first day in a very long time that I do not have a migraine woohoo! Maybe the chiropractor is working :) or maybe I have took the advise of others and slowed down a bit.

My wedding plans are coming along just fine and just about finished with everything so that is one less stress for now. This weekend bringing everything up to my parents place since the wedding will be by them in Orlando, Gosh 19 more days and I will be Mrs. Gilmore. <3
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-26 08:35:00
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Good Morning Everyone,

Hope everyone has a blessed day.

Irie glad your daughter is feeling better.

Den's any word on the visa yet?
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-25 09:20:00
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Bunz, best of luck
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-22 08:48:00
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Good Morning Ladies,

Hope everyone has a blessed day. Irie thank God his friend found the wallet, my God that would have freaked me out as well.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-22 08:14:00
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That would be nice *looking at nat* :unsure:



Tia is newlyinlove


I believe my2 had posted something on her facebook wall a week or so ago and ask people who they were from here to there.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 13:17:00
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Kingston is definitely the place to get it popping, but if you just want to cool out and have some quite time with hubby the country is D place!

I have stayed in Kingston a few time Jones town and Seaview Gardens. I also was almost arrested in Kingston (which was my first trip there. Not such a nice experience so I stick more now to the Country sides.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 09:37:00
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Aww, how sweet!

I found that the pain with tattoos varies, depending on where you get it - the more muscular the area and less fat, the more it hurts - The one on my azz didn't hurt at all :whistle: but the one on my thigh, I almost passed out. It also depends on how detailed it is -




Tam, do you know Bunz? She's been quiet lately, but is in the same situation as you - her hubby is from the US, they have their interview tomorrow - and she's in Kingston

I have to agree with Sus . It depends where you get the tat. I have 5. 1. Taz on my left ankle (I am having it removed and it hutrs more to have it removed then to get it) 2. A butterfly with roses on my right shoulder (did not hurt), 3. My lower back has a huge Hibiscus flower (Cover up hurt more since it has alot of color),4. I tribal sign with two hearts on my right front part of the ankle (hurt at certain places) and then a huge cross on the top of my left foot (hurt like hell)It was suppose to have more to it but It hurt to bad I wanted to wait and then the artist passed away so I left it as is.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 09:23:00
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Good morning Yall! I think Den's Visa is ready. I have him calling today to confirm. :unsure:



Morning! (Waving) If you don't mind me asking, what part of JA do you live in? I'm so wanting to be back there right now. :crying:



Always, I'm claiming it for you as well. I had one of those days on Monday...actually its been one of those weeks for me! We'll get through it though! :star:

Thanks Dens! Yes we will get through it. I hope Den's visa is ready will he be coming right away once he has the visa in hand?
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 08:44:00
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Morning All,

Hope today is a great day. Yesterday was one of those days for me, so today I claim it to be much better.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 07:50:00
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I know its like you can't win for losing...I read on a post where someone asked if you can get a copy of the medical at the POE? I never saw any responses but I'm wondering if this is possible and if I need to drill it in Den's head to ask when he arrives at POE at Hartsfield... :unsure:

I had Odean ask wen he flew into FLL, They told him no. but on the upside, he has all his record with the vaccinations and xrays he had done.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-20 10:57:00
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Good Morning Everyone,

Hope you have a blessed day
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-20 09:01:00
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Morning, everyone!

I'm up 2.5 hrs earlier than I like to be, due to this wonderful 6am meeting my team lead called.

We got a text message last night from USCIS! :dance: They acknowledged receipt of the requested evidence (which they actually received last Tuesday). It said we can expect to hear again in 60 days. I'm hoping it's smooth sailing from here on out.

Amen ! congrats Nat
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-20 09:00:00
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As I suspected, once I emailed multiple addresses for RGD, I got a response. If they really did FedEx them, it should be easy to find out where the package is via FedEx's tracking.

Please be advised that the certificates were FedEx on the 16/12/2009. I have asked the Supervisor to make contact with GoGlobal Courier to investigate the circumstances surrounding the reason why you are not in receipt of the certificates. You will be notified of the result as soon as same is made available.

If there is any other matter you will like for us to address please feel free to contact information@rgd.gov.jm

Do have a great day.

Well Nat I am glad you got a response, hopefully now the problem will be corrected and you will received what you order. They should give you back your express fee but they probably won't.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-19 15:05:00
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Morning, All



I noted all their phone numbers to call today.

Since you mentioned that they responded via phone call, I emailed them again (3 different addresses in one email: specialapps@rgd.gov.jm, information@rgd.gov.jm, and admin@rgd.gov.jm). This time I included a phone number for them to get back with me.

I'll give them until my lunch break to respond via either email or phone. If nothing, I'll call.

I have found that it seems people respond quicker when they see that others were copied on the note. That's actually how I got the embassy to respond way back when we were trying to schedule Steven's interview. I kept getting no responses, so I finally emailed both of the embassy's email addresses at once (instead of separately) and both responded within a day.


I hope you hear from them. Please keep me posted.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-19 09:23:00
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hey julianne.....i am 90% almost ready! i am a basketcase trying not to think about it so i can keep my sanity LOL.....how bout you?????

LOL I understand the feeling, I know it will be beautiful. I can't wait to see pictures. Mine is just about done as well Thank God! Just needing to get my dress steamed and set up my hair appointment.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-19 09:17:00
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Thanks Always! Yes its back on for the 14th. I've lost 5 more lbs so only 5 more to go so my dress will look just right!!! :rofl:

How are you doing with your wedding planning? We don't have much longer at all.

That is great that other 5lbs will fall off in no time LOL if you are anything like me running around like a crasy woman trying to get everything done (since we are having a do it yourself wedding) Eveything is just about done just need to get my wedding dress steamed and set up my hair appointment other then that I think we are ready.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-19 09:10:00
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YES you need to get a transit visa thru US and you also need a visitor visa to get into canada......i deal with this at work so i thought i would jump in and answer.....someone prolly already did but i havent read beyond this yet! LOL

GOOD MORNING LADIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey Yankee are you all ready for the wedding??
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-19 08:58:00
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Good morning Sus! Good luck on back to school. Wow on all the reading...you're going to be busy with your head in the books! :blink:



I know I'm in a slump. Just ready for Den to get here at this point. It seems like I'm taking the return home worst than I have before....I guess since we're so close to him being here and I'm getting anxious!


Congrats to you Dens on the approval. He will soon be here . Is the wedding back on for the 14th ?

Morning ladies, home from work today for a lingering migraine/sinus headache.

If i really wanted i prolly could have drug myself in, but im just not feeling it. Dont know whats wrong with me, combo of stress i guess, being tired of my job( though im thankful for it) and a lingering head cold since i returned from JA...


wha gwaan?

Hope you feel better. I understand about the migraines all too well.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-19 08:56:00
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!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT! That's unacceptable!! I'm about to call.

Hey Nat did you find out anything when you called? I sent off a request for Odean's BC about two weeks ago so hopefully soon I will receive it. I emailed them regarding something else and they responded within two days through a phone call.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-19 08:36:00
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Morning Everyone,

Hope you all have a blessed and wonderful day.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-19 07:59:00
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My Mother just called me and told me that the last person that saw my cousin was in Petionville near the hotel Montana and as we know it was totally destroyed and no one has seen him since. I pray my dream wasn't a sign...... My Mom keeps telling me not to be so hard on myself but I can't help to feel guilty I feel so helpless. I just keep thinking about the last time I saw him.

Philly I know it is hard for you, Just keep yourself up in prayer sweetie and it shall all turn out ok. I know right now words aren't so comforting but beating yourself up over it won't help either. God Bless you.

Just saw this recipe - I would think it would be tough?

Yummy
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-15 14:39:00
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any plans for the weekend?

any plans for valentine's day?

Anyone?

Valentine' s Day I am getting Married. WoohOO
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-15 14:31:00
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morning Ladies can't sleep...I've lost a few friends in Haiti -- one the brothers is staying with my parents they're waiting to tell his mom but she's recovering from surgery he says he can't do this on his own...so, we're going to go with him later this morning. His mom has been asking and we don't know how she'll take the news. She's 72. He left Haiti on Sunday to be with his mom here while she recovered. He lost most of his family in Haiti.


Morning All Hope you have a blessed day.

Tre,

I am sorry to hear about your friends you have lost in Haiti, I have also lost 6 friends so far in Haiti and 12 are still not located, All we can do is pray.

Philly any news on your end ?



Morning all - TGIF, the end of this day cannot come soon enough!



I am so much in agreement with that, this whole week has been so slow for me
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-15 08:27:00
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Thats good always, It unnerved me when u spoke of your accident. Im just happy your alive and well :)
Thank you, I appreciate it. At first I couldn't get past the fact that the idot that ran the light & totaled my truck (even now I still have issues with it cause that truck was my baby) but anyhow I am alive and greatful for that

Note to maself: Pick up on pg 23 for the african movie lol



aww hell i meant 12 :rofl: :rofl:


Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-14 13:45:00
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[quote name='sus' date='Jan 14 2010, 01:38 PM' post='3630281']
LOL, should and do are two different things when it comes to the Jamaican embassy!



This is very true .:)
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-14 13:40:00
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How are you feeling always?

I am having some good days and bad days but for the most part just dealing with it and moving right along :) thanks for asking
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-14 13:34:00
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Sorry everyone for my rudeness ! I should have started the reply with Hello hope everyone is havinga good day.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-14 13:09:00
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Irie: too funny!
The Red bull is for energy and I'm just adding the guiness coz that's what they do @ parties to stay up & energized.
I know I don't need packet 3, especially that I did almost everything required but I'm just worried he might not get packet 4 in time & I know you do have to have your appointment letter to do the medical & enter the embassy on the day of the interview. I have until the end of the month to freak out about it if he doesn't get it.
By the way, they responded to my email saying my interview is February 12th @ 8:30 PM!!!! They kill me.

I tend to be a nervous wreck over simple things so I'm trying to calm my butt down.

They should send you a copy of Packet 4. You can forward it to him or if he has access to email forward him the emil that you received from the embassy and they will except that.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-01-14 13:02:00