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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!
[quote name='kjenkins86' date='13 April 2010 - 11:04 AM' timestamp='1271171048' post='3867789']
Great!

Oh ok.

On another note I'm so P'D OFF!
I'm sure I told y'all I'm not sure if I'm preggo, anyhow I had an appt today and he knew. So I woke up, got dressed and left. At the doc office he called and said he's coming so I said fine. Waiting and looking out for him, waitng and looking out for him :whistle: :whistle: Then he calls to say he's drinking tea he'll be there in a minute so I said ok. The receptionist came out and told us the doc is gonna be late so we can leave or wait so I left without calling him, I walk in the door to see him sitting on the computer on FACEFRIGGGINBOOK!! His response "you couldn't call and tell me you left the doc, what if I had walked up there?" So I slapped the ###### outta his azz (shouldn't have) and grabbed my laptop and walked away. Now tell me, if you don't wanna come to the doctor's office just fcuking say so, but don't have me sitting there looking out for you and here fcuking rapping on facebook. Rant Over.
I'm trying my best not to put my hands on him because I'd stab his azz if he dare try to hit me back but I was pissed :angry:
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WOW! KJ take it easy I understand your fustration, my GOD so did you find out are you pregnant? Do a home pregnancy test or something? I believe I might be pregnant to but I am holding out til next month just in case my cycle decided to change course this month. Anyways I am hoping I am and so is hubby

[quote name='kjenkins86' date='13 April 2010 - 11:04 AM' timestamp='1271171048' post='3867789']
Great!

I have know idea why that doubled posted.

Edited by Always Blessed, 13 April 2010 - 10:11 AM.

Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-13 10:10:00
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Always Blessed: Amen sista, great prayer and avdvice to Ells.

Lady C: congrats to G on his 1st job!!
Didn't you move a few months ago, maybe I'm mistaken. Where you moving to?
Wow C you're doing alot, make that money girl and I hope you catch a break soon.

MoAcory: great that he got his appt, goodluck on the rest of the process!
Wow that's crazy, I gotta start looking at my statements because I usually shread them since I pay my bills online.

Thank you KJ I only say and do what I feel is right and even when others or myself are going through things I know it always helps to pray not only for myself but for those who are in similar situationor have similar troubled feelings
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-13 09:25:00
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Morning, everyone!

I need to catch up from Saturday, but I did want to drop some good news: Steven got an A on his Business class test! So far, he has a B in the class, but I hope he gets A's on the next 2 tests to get an A overall.

Nat That is great! Go Steven get them A's.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-13 09:21:00
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Good Morning!!!! With all that has been going on, I forgot to mention that Acory received his biometrics letter Friday past(4/9/10). His appt is 4/23/10, next Friday. I before hand was thinking i'd have to push apt closer when we get one. But the 23rd actually isn't that far so we can wait until then.

Thats great
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-13 08:24:00
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Good Morning Yardies...I hope everyone is having a good week. Well my hubby started working with my friend/coworker Landscaping company today and he had to take the Metro Bus and Train all by himself. He got ther so it was ok. We are also packing to move on Friday so its been hectic. Me with my 2 jobs one at Jackson Hewitt so the end of tax season rush and hours are killing me. Now hubby started working (thank you lord) and my step son will be here on the 30th. Whew I feel so damn tired :help:

Congrats on your hubby working that is excellent. Hope all goes well with the move Friday. Do not overdue it .
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-13 08:12:00
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Afternoon Yardies!

I have a bunch to reply to but I'm feeling some urgency that I just need to put some business out here first. I may need to be talked down off the ledge so to speak today. I'm gonna preface by stating that I'm not distraught, not very upset, nothing....just sort of matter-of-fact about what I'm feeling right now. I'm not going to jump to any conclusions or decisions but I'm definitely mulling things over. So here it is:

My hubby is a chronic liar. Since we have lived together full-time since he arrived here, all of the lying has become more apparent. He lies about the smallest of things at times & although I don't necessary think (or want to accuse him) he's cheating, he's behaved in ways that are suspect & it's really coming to light now that he's on my cell phone plan & I can monitor things. I really don't want to go into detail cause it would be too long but basically, I've caught him in lies all along but have a specific incident on Saturday that I was able to directly call him on a lie because I could see the phone log. He received a call while we were out Saturday & I could hear it was a pretty basic (albeit short) conversation with a female. He said he'd give a call later & the response was like this (with a high-pitched very feminine voice), "Oookaaaaaaaay byyyyyyyyyyeeeeee!" After I asked who it was he tried to pass it off like it was a 'new person' at his school who is a tranny (we have many around here so it is conceivable). Well, checking the phone log this morning I saw that it was the same friend who is in his 'soccer gang' who is supposedly a girlfriend of one of his guy friends. I've called him on this before but I don't have a problem with him having female friends as long as they respect our marriage so I just let it go at that time. He tries to tell me that his friend (whose girlfriend he talks to) doesn't have his own phone (YEAH RIGHT!) so he always uses his girlfriend's phone (is this making any sense??). Well, WHATEVER. I haven't met these friends yet but I'm going to for sure now....who cares if they're young & will ridicule him about his fat, old wife. I'm also going to start answering the house phone now. I used to leave that to him cause it was always for him but now I'm going to make my presence KNOWN!

But the real problem is, he just plain lies...about his phone calls, about his friends, about random ish around the house, etc. etc. etc. I'm nearly ready to file for divorce. We've had this discussion on several occasions that he has a lying problem & I told him if he doesn't change that, I will never be able to trust him. If I can't trust him about the little things, how will I trust him when the big issues arise?? Again, I'm not distressed or depressed, I'm not all that angry, I'm just feeling exhausted with this all. Also, lately he's been slacking (again) with helping me out around the house, etc. & frankly, I'm tired of doing everything I always did for myself & now for one more person on top of it. I'll defer to the Madea quote now, "I can do bad ALL BY MYSELF!" Anyway, we may seek counseling although he doesn't want to go or we may try other things but I've been scouring this web site about lying in relationships http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ & I'm not really sure compulsive/chronic liars can be 'cured'. I know I can't live with that....to me that is a seriously fatal flaw. I'm by no means perfect but if there's one thing I am, it's HONEST. I've been honest to him about everything & he is not returning the favor. Well, WHEW....just writing this out felt much better! I'm ready for any responses....don't temper your responses, if I wanted to be coddled or told the easy stuff, I wouldn't have put this out there.

Hey Ells,

My heart goes out to you! As soon as I read your post it felt like my heart leaped from my chest into my stomach. I have to applauded you for being so opened about your marriage.

So the reason for me writing other then the above is because I have felt what you are feeling right now and I believe more then a few of us are going through the same thing and just do not have it in us to post it. I do not know if you are a spiritual person or not but I can tell you to pray, I rest to sure you that it has helped extremely in my relationship with my husband. He is a great guy yet he has some flaws and extra baggage having a baby mother here in the states actually a hour away from where we live it is a difficult situation because the baby mother makes it so.

Anyway there is book I started reading and it is helping out alot and believe it or not I am seeing changes almost immediately. The book is called the power of a praying wife By Stormie Omartian. If you can and want to it is a very good investmnent and it really soothes the soul, soften your heart towards the man you loved and became one with even when he does anger you.

I just want you to know if you ever need to talk I am here, I know I do not say much usually on the board but I do have good listening ears. If you do not mind I would love to pray for your marriage, as I believe you truely love your husband.

Lord I pray for your blood and protection to heal the wounds in this marriage where there is lies I pray they will be repented of and replaced with truth. Father I ask that you open Lehi's heart and allow the love to overflow into his wife life, Father you gave your blessing upon them to marry and it is stated in the Bible that you have given us the power of authority over all the power of the enemy (Luke 10:19) and when we pray Lord we can do great damage to the enemies plan to destroy his work. Father we know this is not your plan for our/their life and we take authoriity over this marriage NOW! This marriage will not be destroyed We/ I will not allow confusion, miscommunication , wrong attitudes, and bad choices to erode what we/they are trying to build together hurt and unforgivness will not lead this marriage to divorce.
We build a hedge of protection around this marriage Lord and we bind the enemies hand , it is stated what we bind here on earth is bound in Heaven and what ever we loose on earth is loosed in heaven (Matthew 18:18) So therfore father we call peace and harmonoy, love and kindess, respect and honor to this marriage and we pray that your hand has healed this marriage and ended the wrong doing now.

In the name of you Son Jesus Christ our Lord and savor we pray AMEN and AMEN.

Take care Julianne

Edited by Always Blessed, 13 April 2010 - 07:34 AM.

Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-13 07:30:00
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Good Morning Everyone ,
Hope you have a Blessed Day!

I am going to try an catch up but for some reason everytime I try I get sidetrack by something else I maybe fooling myself to think I will actually go back and see what been going on.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-13 07:02:00
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Good day all!!! Congrats Dillon on hubby passing road test.
I feel beat right now. I was @ bank writing statements about fraudulent activity on acct, had to file a police report b/c of amount of purchases(over$700), & then headed to work late. I'm tired & irritated that I fell prey to some dutty no good fellon. Bank is doing there investigation & assured me they'll return all my funds. As far as PayPal, I kindly called them back & requested they close my account w/ them PRONTO!!! So I hope nothing else happens. I also signed up for some " checking perks package." It basically alerts you of purchases made w/my cards, change in credit report & or inquiries, & you get rewards like coupons & discounts.
Anyhow, take care!!!! & I will try to do the same

Sorry this happened to you. The alerts are a good thing but can becoming annoying. I hope they get it taken care of fast. Take care
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-12 14:15:00
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Girl!! I already booked my tickets :yes:

My only worry is getting this medical done. Would hate for him to have to travel to Kingston for the medical- hope they can fit him in in Mobay. The info sheet says something about it being scheduled 10-14 days prior- which is cuttin it close. But I heard somewhere that you get it done and actually go pick it up yourself and take to the interview? Can anyoen clarify for me? :blink:

Congrats on the interview, When my Husband did his medical in Kingston it was pretty fast he had a appointment on a Monday and picked his results up on the Thursday or Friday.

Edited by Always Blessed, 12 April 2010 - 02:13 PM.

Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-12 14:12:00
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I'm here...got in late because I took Hubby to do his driving test. HE PASSED!!!!

Hey Dills That is great YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-12 12:29:00
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Good Morning DW, TAHM, MRStee, Irie, 1luv And anyone else I have forgot.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-12 10:02:00
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Hey Everyone ,

Hope everyone is having a great Day
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-09 10:58:00
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Yeah girl mi gwaan back ta yaad but its just a mini trip Fri-Tue..

Have a great time, I have to admit I am a tad bit jealous of all the people who are traveling to JA recently, I miss it so much. Oh well Xmas time will be here before I know it.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-08 11:40:00
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[quote name='phillyfashionista' date='08 April 2010 - 10:51 AM' timestamp='1270738273' post='3855974']
Hey Always Blessed (( waving))

Hi Philly ! How are you?
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-08 09:52:00
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CONGRATS LADY C. IAM REALLY HAPPY FOR YOU GUYS
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-08 09:42:00
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i felt relief the first day
but its more of a cumulative effect

My friend gets it done as well she has alot of different issues going on she said that it really helps her and she recommends it highly, I am a little nervous about getting it done but I have heard some really good things about it.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-08 08:56:00
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I think her date is not until the 15th or 16th.

Thanks DaDa that is great! DW I am excited for you
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-08 08:54:00
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all these states mus be different cuz we still can't call jamaica on metropcs without buying minutes..

Thats the same here in FL. I cant call JA without buying minutes, however they did start offering 5.00 extra to call home phones in JA that does no good cause everyone my husband and I know have cell phones
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-08 08:36:00
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Good morning everybody..can't believe how incredibly fast these days are going..
have a good trip jq..
anybody watch shear genius?? i am sooooooooooooo mad brig won..i think the others were sooo much better than her altho she has a great runway imagination, i don't think she does ANYTHING else well..
okay, everybody have a great day.. much love

Morning and thank you for your response to the email I sent you I passed along the info to my friend it was much apprecitaed :)
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-08 08:34:00
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Some tips from the coupon mom book, and I'm not even finished the book:
1) Buy the cheapest ground beef, even if it is more fatty. Just rinse off the extra fat after browning. (In my HEB, the difference is like $1.79 compared to $3.49/lb for extra lean.)
2) Combine store coupons with manufacturer's coupons. (I'm buying someone Crest Whitestrips. I have a $10 Target coupon & a $10 manufacturer's coupon. :dance: )
3) Shop at drugstores, but be sure to combine their sales with coupons and with their rewards programs. (Stride gum is on sale for 99cents @ CVS, with a 99cent extra buck reward good on next purchase. Plus I have a coupon for the gum.)
Bonus: If you don't think you'll be back soon to use the Extra Buck Rewards, split your purchase into 2: first buy all items that come with EB rewards, then buy all other items USING the EB rewards
4) Buy seasonings in the bulk department of an organics store. (I already knew about this. I think I showed you my pictures of seasonings that averaged 40 cents/small jar)

Wow! thanks for the info I love money saving tips
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-08 08:32:00
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[quote name='Dens Wifey' date='08 April 2010 - 08:48 AM' timestamp='1270730901' post='3855673']
:thumbs:



Morning and have a blessed day as well! Hope all is well!

All is well, Thank you. Did you close on the home yet? How is that coming along?
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-08 08:30:00
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Good Morning Everyone,

Have a BLESSED Day
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-08 07:45:00
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Good Afternoon Everyone
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-07 12:22:00
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Morning Ladies,

Hope you all have a blessed day.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-03-31 08:05:00
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Hi guys, I had my baby girl on Friday 3/26/10 at 12:22am she weighed 5'8 oz and was 18 inches long. I had to get a cesarean unfortunatly because her heart rate was dropping. Thank God we are both doing well. She is very helthy just a little on the small side but not for long because she can eat lol. I am still recovering but feel much better each day. I havent really been able to go on the computer much, but I just wanted to give you all an update. Take care and talk to you soon.

Congrats to you and your new addition. Best wishes and speedy recovery
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-03-30 14:34:00
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guess what? i can breastfeed 2 babies at the same time. i'm a superwomsn....but sort of feel like an animal feeding my litter :blush:

LOL you had me getting all loud in my office peoples looking like WTH is with her crazy tail.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-03-30 13:18:00
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Hey watch yuh mouth about Grey's :angry: !!! Me still tink its de BOMB!!!! especially wid Bailey finding a man...

LOL DADA you may be one of the only people to say that :)
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-03-30 10:18:00
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I've only made them once and with pig tails and salt beef in it. I also put spinners in it. Here is the recipe I used:
http://www.jamaicatr...k/stew_peas.htm
This site has videos too.

Thank you I will print it and try it
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-03-30 10:09:00
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i've made them with salt beef....hubby makes them with pigs tail

google a recipe..pretty easy

Thanks I will try google, sometimes I do not like there recipes but it worth a shot I love yum with the pigs tails myself

What you need help for. Sounds like you have enough space. lol




That's not too far from Ochi. When are you guys going back. We leave in June and I can't damn wait.

I want to go tomrrow LOL but he really wants to go back in either December or January. I hoping Christmas time.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-03-30 09:53:00
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Your right about that. Not like you have to go to work huh. lol

I figured you would be overwhelmed with visitors coming to see the babies. Hopefully, they will give you a one day break.



LMAO, he's from Ocho Rios.

Mine is from St mary Hamilton Mountain to be exact.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-03-30 09:51:00
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Mine too...

Sunny where is your man from??? They must be from the same blood.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-03-30 09:48:00
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Im so bad cause whenever I want Jamaican food, I just talk hubby into cooking it for me. I guess I should learn.. Posted Image

Your good cause my hubby he does cook sometime but Dang he is lazy too when it come to cooking always trying to make me cook everything :crying:
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-03-30 09:43:00
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Dayum, yall got a mansion?Posted Image

took the words right from my mouth there Mrstee
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-03-30 09:39:00
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Does anyone know how to make stew peas? That is the one thing I am wanting to learn to make

Edited by Always Blessed, 30 March 2010 - 09:38 AM.

Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-03-30 09:38:00
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LMAO.. I thought you were saying that some woman was going to be there that you don't care for so pop off meansyou get into an altercation with her and end up in a fight. A joke mi ah mek....




We ha steamed fish on Sunday too. Love oxtails. That's my fav JA meal, it just takes long to cook with a pressure cooker.

It is my favorite Meal too and Hubbys as well. It does take forever though to cook.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-03-30 09:36:00
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[quote name='Always Blessed' date='30 March 2010 - 09:30 AM' timestamp='1269959454' post='3834425']
Yum had that on Sunday today is oxtail in the Gilmore house LOL
And damn I hope he makes the rice and peas otherwise I am
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-03-30 09:31:00
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Thanks everyone for the compliments on my dinner last night. I appreciate it! Steve is making steamed fish for dinner tonight! Yum...

Yum had that on Sunday today is oxtail in the Gilmore house LOL
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-03-30 09:30:00
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I always timed my vacations right where I have never be on while in Jamaican. I know one trip I could feel my body cramping at the end I and I was like uh oh we betta hurry up and do the thing. I heard that they don’t play dat.

Now if I start these trips again I hope I will be so lucky…(crosses fingers) but my one girl friend told me if I am just get in the water and it stops there… Yeah but will the sharks start :unsure: ??

Dada I have tried that too planning trips when I know aunt flo wont be around but sometimes she just creeps up anyhow even if I already had it for the month I always was like damn again but at least I got some playtime in some of the time. That water thing I do not know if it really works I heard it a few times and yes most of them Jamaican men dont play that but then there is alot they say the dont do and yet do.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-03-30 08:41:00
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Wow these last two days I really talked alot on here :) I am usually so busy I only have a little time to read a little and respond here and there thank God schools are closed for Spring Break so I am just chilling .

Edited by Always Blessed, 30 March 2010 - 08:35 AM.

Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-03-30 08:34:00
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I am the BOMB of a mom, btw. We went to see my favorite local band on Saturday. I turned my daughter on to them last year and took her to one concert. Saturday night we saw one of the band members in the smoking area. Molly got her picture taken with him. We worked our way up to the stage during one really opening horrible bands performance (picture lead singer........a 4 foot Mad Max look alike that shrieked the entire time. UGH!) She got to talk to the lead singer of fav band who was in the roped off area. During show, lead singer (who is adorable) slapped her hand. She turned around jumping up and down and blushing and said "I'm never washing this hand again!. She caught a guitar pick during show. And, after, my friend, Walter, who owns a CD store here, introduced her to a couple of other band's members who were hanging around, and then took her to meet fav band. She got autographs and pictures. She was in heaven.

Would've been the perfect night if the truck wasn't dead and we had to have it towed from Illinois to Missouri and then repair on Sunday.

Molly's still talking and her friends are all soooooooooooooo jealous. Maybe I can score a really good Mother's Day present this year!!!!Posted Image

Yes you are the bomb of a mom! I think you did score that really great present this mother's day, I am sure Molly will be talking about it for a long time.

Its reminds me when I was 8 or 9 and New Kids on the Block came to Miami , my mom and my best friends mother took us and even though we didnt meet them we had awesome seats and geesh we talked about the concert forever.

They interviewed that partner this morning. He is freakin' hilarious.

I'm with you Always on Greys. I am really getting into Private Practice though.

I like Private Practice too. I am a little tired of the Baby saga though, I missed last weeks episode and didnt DVR it so I am going to try and catch it this Thursday.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-03-30 08:31:00