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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and a farrin, Part 27!

MOrning yall




Im upset those Lakers won!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


But anyway

Morning :P

Girl I am with you on that Boston needs to get back on track.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-06-16 11:03:00
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Good Afternoon,

Mo Happy 1 year anniversary . Hope all is well with everyone.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2011-03-07 14:25:00
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Yes TRIPLETS Brookums :blush: One for your mom, one for vk and one for ME!!!! :rofl: You are just the carrier LOL




Thats a wonderful blessing... All will go well! Hope the missus is adjusting well here in the states!:star:



Hi sista, hope all is well with you and the family



JQ boom needs to dump the bucket o' baby dust on ya.. that will do the trick... there are so many ladies pregnant now!




It RegAL's anniversary too

I knew there was someone else just didn't remember who . Thanks Regal happy anniversary to you too :)
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2011-02-09 21:40:00
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Hi Miss...how you doing? Don't shed no tears...keep having fun trying...pickney soon come!


:rofl: Poe thang!



Shaunsgal, how you been Mama? :unsure: I hope all is well!



DW_ are you serious your hubby still didnt get his GC???? that is too bizarre, have you heard anything baout it???? What are you rplanns for valentine's day? (Both our 1st Anniversarys) Thank God this first year is over it was good and bad no lie but its made me a stronger women :)
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2011-02-09 13:10:00
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Hey Always! How's the baby? :star:

I hate DirectTV....sigh :angry:

Hey she is doing great SPOILED already! lol hubby is wrapped sround her little fingers and mommy too but geesh if she so much as whimpers daddy goes and picks her up, me I will let her cry a bit even if it kills me cause I do not want her to always want to be held oh well.

How are you and the pregnancy going?

Always, Zarah is beautiful! How are you enjoying motherhood? Awww so happy for you guys...all these adorable VJ babies!!!

Hey DW,

I am loving it and hate missing my sleep but its all worth it :) that girl has me falling in love with her more and more each day!

Awwwwwwwwwwww your likkle helper! Thats whats up and how do the boys feel about yet another little girl? I know they were so used to it just being them....




Isnt she, she looks like a little doll.. and got an attitude already!:rofl:

LOL! YES she does a BIG attitude :)
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2011-01-28 13:30:00
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Hey yall!

Whats going on? OMG I can't believe we are still on part 1! This is the slowest I've ever seen the board oh well i guess everyone is super busy. Congrats on the VJ babies and mommas! Always, love the name Zarah and your little girl is a big girl already sitting up in her stroller, too cute.

Hope everyone is blessed and enjoying life. I'm not working anymore so Im home with the kids. In a nutshell....its an adjustment but good. Hubby and I will be celebrating our two yr anniversary in about two months! Man, time flies. Well yall take care.........

Thank you! yes she is a piece of work at times :) Loving every minute of her. Have a wonderful anniversary that is great you will be celebrating TWO years.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2011-01-25 10:45:00
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your baby is so beautiful she looks like a baby doll. Are you on facebook if so what is your name?

Yes! Julianne Gilmore Thank you she is my little princess!

Hey everyone,

Thanks for the congrats

She is a blessing.

Hubby is so excited but to overprotective damn, chill, I got this lol




Sugar congrats on the progress.


Holla
Stay blessed


P.S. ZARAH is beautiful Always just so beautiful

Congrats on that you and hubby did good :thumbs:

Thank you momma so is your little girl just adorable!
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2011-01-24 11:56:00
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Hey guys it has been a while since I have been on VJ. I saw all the newborn babies on FB they are just adorable. How are all the mommies that are wait for their new arrival. KJ, Mrs Palmer how guys doing? So what has been up with you guys lately?

To update you guys about hubby paperwork we received the work permit id. and the AP. green card case has been transferred to California Service station.

Hey Sugar congrats on the papers the GC will soon come
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2011-01-22 14:08:00
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Beautiful baby!

Thank you :)
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2011-01-22 10:06:00
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Hey Mrs. Palmer,

Labor HMM I was tramatized to say the least. I was induced and I have heard that it is usually a harder time (I do not know how true it is ) but anyway, I did not feel the contractions up until the very end. The pressure was unblievable. I got the epidural but for whatever reaason they did not give me the ull dose, when th emidwife cam in she did the internal and that is where all hell broke loose cause mu daughter was head down but ace up and to try to prevent a csection she decided to try to turn while doing the internal (very very painful) anyway as I started screaming she told my wonderful nurse to call for my epidural to be topped off once the nurse came back and the anastigsiologist zarah decide to start coming so three pushes an she was out .

Now, my labor started at 6 am when they induced me and lasted til 2:08 when my baby was born Like I said I did not feel the contractions until the very end. She did tear me a little i needed three stitches which is not bad at all(One thing my ob said was to have hubby use his fingers and stretch the va jay jay (this is about the one thing they were right about) cause they said my baby would be small probably lbs or so and she was 7lbs 7oz and 21 3/4 inches long.

Well I wish you and the other girl a fast easy labor and delivery . Stay blessed!


Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2011-01-21 22:16:00
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Well it looks like the VJ babies are doing their thing. Waiting on Z next right? Then a break, and then us spring babies! Seeing and hearing about all of these beautiful babies being born is making me so excited! But what I really wanna hear are the labor stories :dance: :dance:

Hey Mrs. Palmer,

Labor HMM I was tramatized to say the least. I was induced and I have heard that it is usually a harder time (I do not know how true it is ) but anyway, I did not feel the contractions up until the very end. The pressure was unblievable. I got the epidural but for whatever reaason they did not give me the ull dose, when th emidwife cam in she did the internal and that is where all hell broke loose cause mu daughter was head down but ace up and to try to prevent a csection she decided to try to turn while doing the internal (very very painful) anyway as I started screaming she told my wonderful nurse to call for my epidural to be topped off once the nurse came back and the anastigsiologist zarah decide to start coming so three pushes an she was out .

Now, my labor started at 6 am when they induced me and lasted til 2:08 when my baby was born Like I said I did not feel the contractions until the very end. She did tear me a little i needed three stitches which is not bad at all(One thing my ob said was to have hubby use his fingers and stretch the va jay jay (this is about the one thing they were right about) cause they said my baby would be small probably lbs or so and she was 7lbs 7oz and 21 3/4 inches long.

Well I wish you and the other girl a fast easy labor and delivery . Stay blessed!
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2011-01-21 22:11:00
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Here is my baby boommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!
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Damn these pics are big lolol




Thanks Always and so is miss Zarah congrats on your beutiful girl!!!
They gonna be some heartbreakers in the future lol

Girl you got that right!congrats again momma

Yayyyy!

Congrats on your movement of the case




Yep she was ready to bless us with her presence lol


Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2011-01-20 10:37:00
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Thanks alot :star:

JQ she is ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFULLLLLLL! CONGRATS CONGRATS AND CONGRATS
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2011-01-18 15:39:00
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Wow I cant believe how dead VJ is :crying: When I am bored at work I loved coming here just to say hi and see how everyone is doing. Well I guess facebook through my phone now.

Edited by Always Blessed, 13 January 2011 - 12:23 PM.

Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2011-01-13 12:22:00
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Goodmorning yardies! Hope we're having a wonderful start to our week :)

As some of you already know, I found out that I'm a carrier for fragile x and ended up having to test the baby to see if he would be affected or not. Just got the results this morning and unfortunately he is going to be mentally retarded.
As for myself, I'm pretty confident that its not the end of the world but I'm worried about my husband because he's not saying much about how he feels about it. As some of you may know, Jamaicans have a tainted picture on mentality, they don't believe it exists and they describe it with one or two words "fool or mad man/woman"

Have a good day everyone.

My heart goes out to you both and girlie know I am here for you. I am getting ready to start fasting and this will be a main focus for me all else will be for another time GOD will and has already made a way . Love ya
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-12-23 18:38:00
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http://i1021.photobucket.com/albums/af335/finessetwins/hi/Vale033.jpg

Beautiful! absolutely beautiful!

Hey all I haven't beenin in a little bit tending to my little bundle of joy. I hope all is well wit everyone, I am trying to catch up a little bit. Have a Merry Chritmas and Happy New Year! By the way I just want to big up all the mommas with more then one kid cause I am currently tramatized by the burth experience withmy daugther ( so happy its over!)
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-12-23 18:32:00
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Hey everyone,

Just a quick message I am going into the hospital Zarah will be here either tonight or tomorrow. Will post as soon as I can . Take care
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-12-13 12:00:00
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I saw your belly pic and it looks cute! You do look ready, but I actually have a new date for you. I wanted New Years Eve, but then I thought that's not fair since you so badly want January, soooo how about 1/1/11?? :bonk: :rofl:




Wow that sucks telling you all day the heat should be coming on soon and they don't even have any one working on it. I don't know what to tell you, but what about all the kids? They had to have their coats on all day too? I would not be happy if I was paying a place and they didn't have heat for my child in the winter up north. I would think the owner could be in a lot more trouble than just paying your medical bill which is what she deserves for trying to save money. That's awful that you are sick and can't hardly take any meds. I hope you feel better soon! :star:

It's freezing in Orlando and I can't manage. I didn't sign up for this when I moved south. I don't know how you northerns are dealing up there. Brrrrrr!

Always- Tomorrow is your big day! You finally get to meet Princess Zarah!!

LOL! sure hope so.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-12-12 23:43:00
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Long time not been around these parts....Been REALLY busy with the new job, really liking it so far!
But it's hard adjusting again to leaving the house at 8.30 and coming back a 8.30pm...
But I am thankful to have a steady income!

On another side, I shot a Nigerian/Zimbabwean wedding last night, REALLY enjoyed it!

The clothes were absolutely amazing, I LOVED how they colour co-ordinated down the the tiniest details....Food was amazing, and normally I won't touch African food....
Tired as hell this morning, got to sleep at 3.30 last night, had to get up at 7am this morning to start on the editing before my son woke up...

Always, where's that BABY? lol!

And where's FINESSE been?

Glad you are liking the job. She don't want to come and is making me miserable :( .
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-12-12 20:38:00
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Good mornting Posted Image


Happy HUmp day Posted Image :bonk: :bonk: :bonk: :bonk:
With all these babies being made some of yall need to slow down on the humping :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

I have a very busy day @ 11 I have a luncheon with the Board of Commisioners (sp) of this organization I am on.

Then off to the doc so I can here the baby heart beat I guess, :wacko: I dont understand these every 2 weeks appts, she is fine, she lets me know everyday,
Some of yall at 15 and 20 weeks feel your baby is doing flips at 35 weeks this girl is running for 3 minutes non stop at a time. Im like what the hell and hubby just laughs. :rofl: I hurts so bad, :crying: not flutters kicks and dancing like the Karate kid Posted Image :bonk: :bonk: :bonk:

Have a blessed day all


JQ you and I are on the same schedule, I go to my dr every Wednesday and have been since the preganncy although of course now the appointments are weekly.

I have to tell you I look forward to seeing your pictures and smileys you post daily it brings alot of joy to the board. I know what you mean about the active little girl and yes all that moving kicking and everythign else is not so fun anymore. I usually wear open toe shoes and my God the last two days hubby wouldnt let me leave the hoiuse with out putting on some closed toe shoes shoe It was a chore trying to put on shoes yesterday and today and gosh that hurt.

Any way take care

Who's not going to complain if their uncomfortable? And you ARE a trooper because there's no way in the world I'd go to work if I felt like how you say you do.


Hey sugar, thank you!


I've heard of it being spelled both ways too but Aidan just look better on paper, lol.
Oh yea, G hates to read so I can get over easy on that!

Lol @ the okra juice, you gotta remind him to make it in Jamaica, Jamaica's okra has stamina :rofl:
But seriously, I have a bunch of friends that come back from JA knocked up and it's always the steam fish with okra or something with okra in it!
After you, Asheia and I think that's it, we'll have a break from vj babies then we'll start a new trend or in thing.



I wouldn't mind moving, but you go first, get all the info we need to get ourself some good deals on appliances, carpenters etc and then we'll start moving over one by one. Don't forget to build a guest room because we'll all stay there until our house is done :star:

Awe thank you !
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-12-08 12:12:00
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Morning All!

So much I wanted to comment on but forgot...dang I'm getting old.

Den and I are doing fine...just trucking along. Den is still with this group here in Atlanta and they are in the process of getting some full time gigs so we shall see how that goes over. In the meantime, Den is applying everywhere under the sun.


Mo, I hope you feel better Mama. No worries on your trip back to JA. Everything will be fine...just relax and don't lift a finger. Enjoy your trip and take lots of pics. :thumbs:

Always, we still on baby girl watch! LOL@ her being half Jamaican thus she taking her own time. :blush:

Congrats on likkle boy, KJ!

Congrats on likkle gurl, Mrs. Palmer!

I hope all the other mothers-to-be are well and moving along in their pregnancies...Portland, JQ Smiley Boom, Mama Jew, Philly...I'm probably leaving someone out.

Congrats on the GC Mrs. Tee! I remember we sent our paperwork off on the same day...whomp whomp whomp...we still waiting on Den's...smh :bonk:


Congrats to Moira and Michael on their approval! So happy for them.


I hope everyone is doing well! :star: Miss you guys...I'm usually on FB though so I will see you there. If you're not on FB, then love ya and holla at you soon.

Hey DW , Yep she still is waiting Hubby seems to think sometime today she will come so we will see if he is right (most likely he is not ).
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-12-08 12:08:00
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Good evening ladies! Hope all are well! :star:

Always- you still holding on to that baby?!? How are you holding up? (L)

Mo- Hope you feel better soon. I can understand about your apprehension about travelling, especially when you're worried and not feeling your best. Hope all turns out well at the doctor. Keep us posted and take care of yourself and your baby! (L)

Mrs Tee- congrats on the GC! :dance:

Jess- Hang in there girl...remember at the end of every storm there is a rainbow. Take it easy! (F)

To everyone else, hope you all are blessed. Don't forget to love on those around you.

I am holding up pretty good I guess, I feel like I am constantly complaining about how uncomfortable I am but everyone is saying girl your like a true solider, I dont know , I am just ready but I guess she not yet :(
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-12-07 21:15:00
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Hi all! I'm not feeling all to well today. Just feel out right exhausted. Here @ work I took my blood sugar, blood pressure & pulse. Sugar was 130 which I think is a little high for me. I don't know. Plus I've been up & down in the way I feel & at times it is as if hubby is insensitive. According to him I'm showing him no affection. How the hell am I to do that if I feel I'll.
My doctor isn't in his office yet so I consulted w/a friends mother. She's Jamaican & a nurse practioner so when I can't locate my doctors, she always assist. Plus of the 2 jobs she has, one is delivering babies. I spoke w/her & explained how I feel plus this symptom I've been experiencing. She stated spotting is normal to an extent & based upon it's appearance. & she also asked if I was having cramps. No cramps but I'm spotting here & there. I don't know.
I'm heading to JA on the 19th & this is first trip where I'm not excited @ all. I haven't even started to pack my things. Overall I just don't know!!!!

Oh sweetie! hope you feel well soon. Definetly consault your dr (i know u dont need me or anyone to tell you that) Keep strong, How far along are you? Maybe you should rethink the Jamaica trip since you havent been feeling so great, can you get your money back? Please please keep us posted on both you and the baby health. Take care my prayers are with you
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-12-07 11:52:00
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I'm smiling at what you said about me and Palmer wanting a boy/girl...
And oh yes my boy sure has quite some options with all theses vj baby girls on the way. Hubby insists that it shouldn't be spelled Aidan but Aiden :blink:
So I said ok honey, but he doesn't pay attention to deails anyway so when it's time to name him, I won't even be worried :star:

Lilla did awesome!

I was thinking the same thing about Always' baby, showing off her Jamaican colors already by being late.

Oh boy, 49.9? :rofl:
Well I hope VK makes some more of that okra juice in Jamaica and you come back knocked up! :star:






Wasn't aware that you were injured but I hope you are healing fine!
That's great that your hospital bill was reduced, scratch that, eliminated!

Goodmorning Always, are you at work today? I hope for the sake of your comfort that by tomorrow you'll be ready to go into labor!

Good Morning Dear! Yep still here at work, I will work right up to the last minute, otherwise I will have a huge mess on my hands when I return, I am already dreading my materinty leave for the fact of the mess and but it falls in line with a vaction break for 2 weeks so shouldnt be too too bad.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-12-07 11:46:00
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Good Morning everyone,

Hope all of you have a blessed day! Tomorrow I go back to the OB and hopefully he will tell me she on her way. I had the worse back pain for a few days now, It comes and goes but the heating pad or the hot shower water seems to ease the pain just a little. Gosh the joys of pregnancy! All thought the outcome will be all in all worth it.

Take care
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-12-07 08:33:00
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Good Morning Yardies....What a Gwannnnn? Congrats to everyone that has good News (New Home, New Baby etc) Well G got his EAD in the mail yesterdy. :dance:

That is great!
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-16 09:09:00
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Evening Yardies!

Well Den and I are now homeowners!!!!! Whew...feels like I can breathe a little bit...but not for long. We got letter in the mail today...biometrics appt. 4/30 at 2:00 p.m. :dance:


Hope everyone is well! Miss you guys. I have to try to catch up!

YEAH!! Congrats on everything.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-16 09:05:00
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just passing through to say Good Morning.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-15 06:55:00
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Well good luck Always and I hope it is nothing major and you can turn it right around.

Thanks I am sure it something minor, We will see :)
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-14 12:50:00
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1luv and news about your cousin?

Hi Always! I see you are getting an RFE do you have any ideas?

Hello,
Nope just annoyed about it because I am certain everything and even more then enough evidence was provided, I wish they would at least tell us what it is in the email. Oh well just have to wait til I get the hard copy and send back whatever it is.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-14 12:43:00
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Ok so we went in and we were sitting they didnt call the number til after 8:30 I was like danggggggggggggg
So when they called me they asked for my paycheck stub and told me to sit

When they called back they asked for the original marriage cert I was like danggg left it all home.
Lady gave me a blue slip and said to call the info window for it.
So we left, my BIl called hubby he sent it and it was in Kingston Monday. i called the Embassy and got an info pass appt for this morning. My BIL took it with her passport and they approved her about 9am this morning.

So she is sad she didnt come back with me, but hubby want her to finish school because she is not going back and she graduates in June.

Congrats
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-14 12:14:00
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we love jamaica! (even tho we nah been there yet :lol: )

http://i1021.photobu...setwins/051.jpg

Absolutely Adorable!
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-14 09:53:00
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Okay I know no one is in here right now but I just need to share this with someone. I am sitting outside on the patio and my neighbor just came home and does not know I am up here. She just let out the BIGGEST fart I have ever heard...hope the smell doesn't come up my way. :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

LOL this is too funny.

1luv prayers are sent. (F)

Jamerican Queen, where our baby girl at?

Nat,I will definitely be taking notes on the whole experience...it has been an easy process for the most part. Congrats on Steve's grades...
The Rugrats I referred to was...the 5 kids I watched for a girlfriend on Saturday night!

Ells, hugs to you Mama! I applaud you for putting it out there. I pray things improve. Tell your hubby exactly what you demand...you deserve to be loved like you love.

Always, thank you for that prayer! I will definitely be going to get that book!

Lady C, don't work too hard and congrats to G!

Mo, I hope you get all your $$$ back soon.

KJ, hope you hear something soon about if you knocked up or not!

Besa, what's up?

Dills, where Nique at?

Dada, what's been up?

Char, hope all is well.

JG, Hope you been staying out of trouble. I saw you with them "CFM" heels on...sexi!!!! :devil:

Tee, hope all is well Mama! We're moving along in this AOS process!

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Hope I didn't miss anyone...that's what I get for missing a day or two! Blame my mind not my heart...miss you all!

You are welcome

Good Morning Ladies,

I want to wish you all a blessed day! However I have already claimed it for all of us.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-14 07:29:00
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Dillon & Justucia, congratulations on your men passing their driving tests!

LadyC, congratulations on hubby's job!

DaDa, is the cover letter MrsTee helped with for a job in the south?

kjenkins, I felt your wrath about your husband & the doctor situation. That definitely is a frustrating situation. But watch out with the violence.

Ells, I'm SO SORRY to hear what's going on. Growing up, my brother had that issue too: lying about things for no reason. I don't understand it at all, but from reading other posts, it appears too common. I would agree with Always Blessed's recommendation of "The Power of a Praying Wife." I actually read that book BEFORE I even had a potential husband, and wherever the prayers in the book wanted you to put in your husband's name, I put in "my future husband." It's a great book that has the reader/wife look inside herself & pray for God to work with her before praying for God to work on the husband.


That is VERY TRUE.


This almost moved me to tears. I prayed it for Ells' marriage, too, since 2 can move 10,000s.


:bonk: :rofl:

AMEN to that .

Please ladies I am begging for ur prayers right now. I just got word that my cousin is missing in Jamaica!! Please pray for us!! :(

Prayers are sent your way and your family way.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-14 07:24:00
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Afternoon Yardies!

Thank you all for your input & support. That's why the yardie thread is the best!



Thanks KJ! I know it's hard to come forward when having problems but I figure I've tried to do everything the right way in this relationship (although I'm far from perfect), I certainly don't feel like I jumped into anything with our relationship (waited a year of dating/knowing him before even filing), & I went in to the whole thing knowing full well that there's a good chance it won't work out but hoping & praying for the best. I just want to put it out there in case anyone else can gain something from it....even if it means knowing they are not alone in the issues they face. It's comforting to learn that others have a problem with their partners lying about things, especially insignificant things. It just makes me wonder, WHY??? Seriously, it's so much easier to just tell the truth & tell the story straight the first time! He did explain to me when we had our serious talk last night that his Grandpa used to tell him when he was a kid to lie if it could keep him out of trouble. I don't want to generalize & piss anyone off but it seems to be the way things go there often times.



Thank you so much Julianne! I'll check out that book you're referring to. I'm not terribly 'religious' per se but I am spiritual & I do believe that God works for those who trust in him. As for your beautiful prayer, I'm going to read this to Hubby tonight! (L)



Congrats to G! Way to go man! :thumbs:

Boy LadyC, you sound taxed right now....hope it soon eases up for you...I'm sure it will be better once you get moved.



Getting closer!



Thanks mi fren! Yeah, I'm about to get really involved! I've been feeling awkward being a bit older than him & not wanting to be the 'fuddy duddy' wife but you know what? I'm a pretty frikkin cool person & I'm about to show him & his friends what's up! Why should I be afraid to stand up for myself & our marriage?? This is no small thing so I need to just suck it up & get bold! I feel you on the 'childish' thing....sometimes I really feel like I have a toddler or teenager but I think I'm repeating myself here. I'm pretty proud of myself though...when we talked yesterday evening, I kept things real calm & fairly unemotional & just told him he had a few options. By the end of this school semester (which I'm urging him to finish), if things haven't changed for the better, he can (1) try to survive here on his own (not living with me) by getting a job, etc., (2) go back to Jamaica or (3) go to St. Maarten where his Mom is. Now I just have to see if he takes this seriously.

You are very Welcome, I hope it soothed your heart and soul. I will continue to pray for you both and I know you both and everyone else on here that maybe having issues in their relationships will receive a phonominal breakthrough soon.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-14 07:20:00
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Posted ImageHubby just called.. biometrics appointement on 4/29/10 @2:30 yippppppppppppppeeeeeeeeeee Posted Image

Yea!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-13 13:40:00
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Julianne: I want to personally thank you for this prayer!!! Even though you directed it towards Ells/Lehi.. you don't know how it spoke wonders to the soul. I think I can speak for some of us here that are going through various situations.. we needed to hear something like this.. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this....


Yes, Ells, it takes a strong person to come on this board and discuss personal issues. This is one of the reasons that we can relate to one another because we share a common link and you had the strength to say something maybe one of us wanted to and just couldn't do it!! You remind me of myself at times and I respect you for that. Don't worry or fear because whatever is meant to happen will happen! ((((((((((hugs)))))))))

MrsTee,

You are welcome! Very welcome and anyone else that needed the prayer as well.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-13 13:06:00
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Start looking for prices for airline tickets in his presence and ask him which day he'd like to fly back to JA for good... Mabye that will wake him up!

I just about spit my water across the office. :rofl:
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-13 11:26:00
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Good Morning Ladies!!!!

Always that was a beautiful prayer and I will keep you in my prayers on being pregnant. Let us know when you find out.

KJ...ggggiiiirrrrlllll...I would have been highly pissed too. Go back and give him a slap for me too.

THANK YOU DILL Hubby and I apprciate, I will.
Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-13 10:44:00
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[quote name='kjenkins86' date='13 April 2010 - 11:04 AM' timestamp='1271171048' post='3867789']
Great!

Oh ok.

On another note I'm so P'D OFF!
I'm sure I told y'all I'm not sure if I'm preggo, anyhow I had an appt today and he knew. So I woke up, got dressed and left. At the doc office he called and said he's coming so I said fine. Waiting and looking out for him, waitng and looking out for him :whistle: :whistle: Then he calls to say he's drinking tea he'll be there in a minute so I said ok. The receptionist came out and told us the doc is gonna be late so we can leave or wait so I left without calling him, I walk in the door to see him sitting on the computer on FACEFRIGGGINBOOK!! His response "you couldn't call and tell me you left the doc, what if I had walked up there?" So I slapped the ###### outta his azz (shouldn't have) and grabbed my laptop and walked away. Now tell me, if you don't wanna come to the doctor's office just fcuking say so, but don't have me sitting there looking out for you and here fcuking rapping on facebook. Rant Over.
I'm trying my best not to put my hands on him because I'd stab his azz if he dare try to hit me back but I was pissed :angry:
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WOW! KJ take it easy I understand your fustration, my GOD so did you find out are you pregnant? Do a home pregnancy test or something? I believe I might be pregnant to but I am holding out til next month just in case my cycle decided to change course this month. Anyways I am hoping I am and so is hubby

[quote name='kjenkins86' date='13 April 2010 - 11:04 AM' timestamp='1271171048' post='3867789']
Great!

I have know idea why that doubled posted.

Edited by Always Blessed, 13 April 2010 - 10:11 AM.

Always BlessedFemaleJamaica2010-04-13 10:10:00