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US Citizenship General Discussion	N-400 October 2013 Filers.	Can you please STOP quoting the old information!! Edited by Hulk, 23 October 2013 - 01:49 PM.	Hulk	Not Telling	Egypt	2013-10-23 13:41:00
US Citizenship General Discussion	N-400 October 2013 Filers.	N-400: October 2013 Applicants ====================================== USCIS Dallas/Lewisville, Texas Lockbox ====================================== UserName.........|Eligible|Sent....|ChkCashd|NOA.....|Fprints.|In-line |Int Ltr.|Intview.|Oath....|FieldOffice March2010........|10/07/13|10/04/13|10/15/13|10/16/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Lewisville, TX Monica11.........|04/09/13|10/09/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Brooklyn, NY wellmux..........|--/--/--|09/25/13|10/01/13|10/04/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Jacksonville, FL Hulk.............|--/--/--|09/29/13|10/08/13|10/12/13|11/04/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Fort Lauderdale, FL Mrsbocanegra.....|09/11/13|10/07/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Dallas, TX silvermug........|09/16/13|10/08/13|10/16/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Buffalo, NY Tmc225usc........|05/19/11|10/03/13|10/11/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Jacksonville, FL leelee1986.......|10/01/13|10/17/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|New York City, NY Deep2009.........|09/23/13|10/16/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Charlotte, NC     ============================== USCIS Phoenix, Arizona Lockbox ============================== UserName.........|Eligible|Sent....|ChkCashd|NOA.....|Fprints.|In-line |Int Ltr.|Intview.|Oath....|FieldOffice Mansarjai........|09/27/13|--/--/--|10/07/13|--/--/--|10/15/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Brooklyn, NY Ashraf_Sarah.....|09/27/13|10/14/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/-- | St. Paul, MN (I imagine)     ========================================================================== USCIS Lincoln, Nebraska Lockbox (Filing Under 319b, 328, or 329 of the INA) ========================================================================== UserName.........|Eligible|Sent....|ChkCashd|NOA.....|Fprints.|In-line |Int Ltr.|Intview.|Oath....|FieldOffice Example..........|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|City, ST     IMPORTANT! * Go to the MOST RECENTLY POSTED VERSION of this list (go to the last post and scroll UP) and "Quote" it, deleting the "quote" tags in your reply (to do this, click the little grey switch on the top left of the edit box then remove the tags). You MUST "quote" the reply instead of copying and pasting the post or it messes up the formatting. * Please add yourself to the list in "Sent" order, under the office at which you filed * Please ensure the "..." line up * Please check that you have not deleted anyone's NAME & DATA. * Please DO NOT change the font, font size, add colors, stuff like that (except when posting "I'm a US Citizen" which you should change toRED * Please PREVIEW before posting to make sure it is properly formatted. * When you're on this list, please come back to update your information accordingly (helps the rest of us) * If you cannot add (or update) your information yourself, please ask another VJ member to help you do so. * NOA1 date = Priority date, Bio = Date of appointment, Int. Ltr = date of letter, Intview = date of interview, Oath = date of Oath.	Hulk	Not Telling	Egypt	2013-10-17 18:45:00
US Citizenship General Discussion	N-400 October 2013 Filers.	N-400: October 2013 Applicants ================================ ====================================== USCIS Dallas/Lewisville, Texas Lockbox ====================================== UserName.........|Eligible|Sent....|ChkCashd|NOA.....|Fprints.|In-line |Int Ltr.|Intview.|Oath....|FieldOffice March2010........|10/07/13|10/04/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Lewisville, TX Monica11.........|04/09/13|10/09/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Brooklyn, NY wellmux..........|--/--/--|09/25/13|10/01/13|10/04/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Jacksonville , FL Hulk.............|--/--/--|09/29/13|10/08/13|10/12/13|11/04/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Fort Lauderdale, FL Mrsbocanegra...|09/11/13|10/07/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Dallas, TX silvermug........|09/16/13|10/08/13|10/16/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Buffalo, NY Tmc225usc........|05/19/11|10/03/13|10/11/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Jacksonville, FL leelee1986.......|10/01/13|10/17/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/-- |--/--/-- |--/--/--|--/--/--|New York City, NY Deep2009.........|09/23/13|10/16/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Charlotte, NC ============================== USCIS Phoenix, Arizona Lockbox ============================== UserName.........|Eligible|Sent....|ChkCashd|NOA.....|Fprints.|In-line |Int Ltr.|Intview.|Oath....|FieldOffice Mansarjai........|09/27/13|--/--/--|10/07/13|--/--/--|10/15/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Brooklyn, NY Ashraf_Sarah.....|09/27/13|10/14/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/-- | St. Paul, MN (I imagine) ========================================================================== USCIS Lincoln, Nebraska Lockbox (Filing Under 319b, 328, or 329 of the INA) ========================================================================== UserName.........|Eligible|Sent....|ChkCashd|NOA.....|Fprints.|In-line |Int Ltr.|Intview.|Oath....|FieldOffice Example..........|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|City, ST IMPORTANT! * Go to the MOST RECENTLY POSTED VERSION of this list (go to the last post and scroll UP) and "Quote" it, deleting the "quote" tags in your reply (to do this, click the little grey switch on the top left of the edit box then remove the tags). You MUST "quote" the reply instead of copying and pasting the post or it messes up the formatting. * Please add yourself to the list in "Sent" order, under the office at which you filed * Please ensure the "..." line up * Please check that you have not deleted anyone's NAME & DATA. * Please DO NOT change the font, font size, add colors, stuff like that (except when posting "I'm a US Citizen" which you should change to RED * Please PREVIEW before posting to make sure it is properly formatted. * When you're on this list, please come back to update your information accordingly (helps the rest of us) * If you cannot add (or update) your information yourself, please ask another VJ member to help you do so. * NOA1 date = Priority date, Bio = Date of appointment, Int. Ltr = date of letter, Intview = date of interview, Oath = date of Oath.   Edited by Hulk, 17 October 2013 - 12:09 PM.	Hulk	Not Telling	Egypt	2013-10-17 12:09:00
US Citizenship General Discussion	N-400 October 2013 Filers.	N-400: October 2013 Applicants ================================ ====================================== USCIS Dallas/Lewisville, Texas Lockbox ====================================== UserName.........|Eligible|Sent....|ChkCashd|NOA.....|Fprints.|In-line |Int Ltr.|Intview.|Oath....|FieldOffice March2010........|10/07/13|10/04/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Lewisville, TX Monica11.........|04/09/13|10/09/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Brooklyn, NY wellmux..........|--/--/--|09/25/13|10/01/13|10/04/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Jacksonville , FL Hulk.............|--/--/--|09/29/13|10/08/13|10/12/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Fort Lauderdale, FL Mrsbocanegra...|09/11/13|10/07/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Dallas, TX silvermug........|09/16/13|10/08/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Lewisville, TX Tmc225usc........|05/19/11|10/03/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Jacksonville, FL ============================== USCIS Phoenix, Arizona Lockbox ============================== UserName.........|Eligible|Sent....|ChkCashd|NOA.....|Fprints.|In-line |Int Ltr.|Intview.|Oath....|FieldOffice Mansarjai........|09/27/13|--/--/--|10/07/13|--/--/--|10/23/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Brooklyn, NY ========================================================================== USCIS Lincoln, Nebraska Lockbox (Filing Under 319b, 328, or 329 of the INA) ========================================================================== UserName.........|Eligible|Sent....|ChkCashd|NOA.....|Fprints.|In-line |Int Ltr.|Intview.|Oath....|FieldOffice Example..........|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|City, ST IMPORTANT! * Go to the MOST RECENTLY POSTED VERSION of this list (go to the last post and scroll UP) and "Quote" it, deleting the "quote" tags in your reply (to do this, click the little grey switch on the top left of the edit box then remove the tags). You MUST "quote" the reply instead of copying and pasting the post or it messes up the formatting. * Please add yourself to the list in "Sent" order, under the office at which you filed * Please ensure the "..." line up * Please check that you have not deleted anyone's NAME & DATA. * Please DO NOT change the font, font size, add colors, stuff like that (except when posting "I'm a US Citizen" which you should change to RED * Please PREVIEW before posting to make sure it is properly formatted. * When you're on this list, please come back to update your information accordingly (helps the rest of us) * If you cannot add (or update) your information yourself, please ask another VJ member to help you do so. * NOA1 date = Priority date, Bio = Date of appointment, Int. Ltr = date of letter, Intview = date of interview, Oath = date of Oath. Edited by Hulk, 12 October 2013 - 09:00 PM.	Hulk	Not Telling	Egypt	2013-10-12 20:56:00
US Citizenship General Discussion	N-400 October 2013 Filers.	N-400: October 2013 Applicants ================================ ====================================== USCIS Dallas/Lewisville, Texas Lockbox ====================================== UserName.........|Eligible|Sent....|ChkCashd|NOA.....|Fprints.|In-line |Int Ltr.|Intview.|Oath....|FieldOffice March2010........|10/07/13|10/04/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Lewisville, TX wellmux..........|--/--/--|09/25/13|10/01/13|10/04/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Jacksonville Hulk.............|--/--/--|09/29/13|10/08/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Fort Lauderdale, FL ============================== USCIS Phoenix, Arizona Lockbox ============================== UserName.........|Eligible|Sent....|ChkCashd|NOA.....|Fprints.|In-line |Int Ltr.|Intview.|Oath....|FieldOffice Example..........|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|City, ST ========================================================================== USCIS Lincoln, Nebraska Lockbox (Filing Under 319b, 328, or 329 of the INA) ========================================================================== UserName.........|Eligible|Sent....|ChkCashd|NOA.....|Fprints.|In-line |Int Ltr.|Intview.|Oath....|FieldOffice Example..........|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|City, ST IMPORTANT! * Go to the MOST RECENTLY POSTED VERSION of this list (go to the last post and scroll UP) and "Quote" it, deleting the "quote" tags in your reply (to do this, click the little grey switch on the top left of the edit box then remove the tags). You MUST "quote" the reply instead of copying and pasting the post or it messes up the formatting. * Please add yourself to the list in "Sent" order, under the office at which you filed * Please ensure the "..." line up * Please check that you have not deleted anyone's NAME & DATA. * Please DO NOT change the font, font size, add colors, stuff like that (except when posting "I'm a US Citizen" which you should change to RED * Please PREVIEW before posting to make sure it is properly formatted. * When you're on this list, please come back to update your information accordingly (helps the rest of us) * If you cannot add (or update) your information yourself, please ask another VJ member to help you do so. * NOA1 date = Priority date, Bio = Date of appointment, Int. Ltr = date of letter, Intview = date of interview, Oath = date of Oath.	Hulk	Not Telling	Egypt	2013-10-08 08:44:00
US Citizenship General Discussion	N-400 October 2013 Filers.	N-400: October 2013 Applicants ================================ ====================================== USCIS Dallas/Lewisville, Texas Lockbox ====================================== UserName.........|Eligible|Sent....|ChkCashd|NOA.....|Fprints.|In-line |Int Ltr.|Intview.|Oath....|FieldOffice silkafi88........|09/28/13|09/25/13|10/04/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Louisville,KY March2010........|10/07/13|10/04/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Lewisville, TX wellmux..........|--/--/--|09/25/13|10/01/13|10/04/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Jacksonville Hulk.............|--/--/--|09/29/13|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|Fort Lauderdale, FL ============================== USCIS Phoenix, Arizona Lockbox ============================== UserName.........|Eligible|Sent....|ChkCashd|NOA.....|Fprints.|In-line |Int Ltr.|Intview.|Oath....|FieldOffice Example..........|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|City, ST ========================================================================== USCIS Lincoln, Nebraska Lockbox (Filing Under 319b, 328, or 329 of the INA) ========================================================================== UserName.........|Eligible|Sent....|ChkCashd|NOA.....|Fprints.|In-line |Int Ltr.|Intview.|Oath....|FieldOffice Example..........|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|--/--/--|City, ST IMPORTANT! * Go to the MOST RECENTLY POSTED VERSION of this list (go to the last post and scroll UP) and "Quote" it, deleting the "quote" tags in your reply (to do this, click the little grey switch on the top left of the edit box then remove the tags). You MUST "quote" the reply instead of copying and pasting the post or it messes up the formatting. * Please add yourself to the list in "Sent" order, under the office at which you filed * Please ensure the "..." line up * Please check that you have not deleted anyone's NAME & DATA. * Please DO NOT change the font, font size, add colors, stuff like that (except when posting "I'm a US Citizen" which you should change to RED * Please PREVIEW before posting to make sure it is properly formatted. * When you're on this list, please come back to update your information accordingly (helps the rest of us) * If you cannot add (or update) your information yourself, please ask another VJ member to help you do so. * NOA1 date = Priority date, Bio = Date of appointment, Int. Ltr = date of letter, Intview = date of interview, Oath = date of Oath.	Hulk	Not Telling	Egypt	2013-10-07 10:02:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	now that's ridiculous!! hope that phocker has a remote control and a gps, built in mp3 and changes di pickney dem diaper fi yuh!! im really trying to justify the expense....considering it would last me 5 years, top of the line construction....come on now, tell me its worth it... LOL!	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-30 14:00:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	do you think spending $569 on a stroller is ridiculous? UMM if you have it go for it, Your beautiful little girls are worth every penny of it. If not well then maybe you should try to find something a little cheaper or go on craigslist, sometimes you can find the exact thing you are looking for for a whole lot less and barely even used. Edited by Always Blessed, 30 September 2010 - 01:59 PM.	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-30 13:59:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Mawnin Always u just wake... JQ --- unu need fi dash some watah pon mi look likeah a mi one lef Hey Tre- I wish I did just wake up I need a nap I am dragging today but Three more hours and I get to go home woohoo.. I cant wait for later I am going to do a 3d/4d sonogram, I will have to try and post the pics atferwards	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-30 12:22:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	1. JQ Smiley BOOM, (Jamerica) is growing 2. finesse, About to get preggo 3. Always Blessed, about to snap hubby neck ( but she dont know that he is going to change his ways and make her so happy) AWE!!!!! 4. kjenkins86, Preggo Going to have twinssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss 5. LadyC,-- still fabulous (Hey girl) 6. sugarapple - waiting on the money so she can handle her business and get hubby stuff situated Hey ladies	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-30 11:35:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Matt-Beautiful Pictures , you both make a lovely couple. Best wishes	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-30 10:40:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Hi everyone, it's been a looong time since I been up in here and I'm excited to be back.I really had to take some time off and take care of myself and I guess the de-stressing techniques worked perfectfly because me and hubby are expecting our first baby and we are super excited!! I have to say I love the new name, very welcoming! C, sorry that you have an interview, but you'll do great!! Lata y'all and take care. Plz don't say anything on facebook, I', waiting for the perfect time to tell someone. Congrats! I am very excited for you both. As I first read this post I thought it was DW for some reason who knows I am such a scatter brain these days so, DW if you are reading this are you prego too??????? KJ best wishes for a very healthy smooth pregnancy . Good Morning Everyone Edited by Always Blessed, 30 September 2010 - 07:23 AM.	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-30 07:20:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Hi Yardies....well we got an Interview letter today. We have an interview on 10/27/10 at 8:30am. If anyone had to do this please let me know what to expect. I thought we were in the clear when we were transferred to CSC but I guess not. C- sorry I have no information for you but I just wanted to say at least something has happen since this has been such a long wait. I am sure everything will go just fine. Good Morning all	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-29 08:17:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Morning All	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-28 07:15:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	mawin Always and cuz Morning how are you?	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-27 12:22:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Morning!! I'm just on edge waiting for the DNA results LOL!! LOL! Will let you know once theya re received hopefully by the end of the week. i'm staying tuned for this one too! LOL!	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-27 10:38:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Good Morning All, Hope your week starts off great. Be Blessed!	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-27 07:24:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Always, I think Brooke and the gang are having a yardie link up in October, you going? I have so many school friends in FLA, only thing they are SO spread out! Trying to come up with a solution that doesn't involve me driving for hours loL! I am going to try and make it. I am not 100 % sure cause I have a lot of things going on that weekend but will definitely try to get up there for it. I hear you on the driving. You can't blame yourself - all you can do is apologize and move forward - We all do it - I ripped DJ up down and sideways the other night, knowing full well he's not been feeling well, etc... but I had a horrendous day, PMS, you name it, I had it and I needed to be the one taken care of - I feel awful about it, but you can't change it, you just move on - Thank you so true I know what you mean sweety but sometimes we all dont realize how our actions affect the one we love ... so i get it just ease yourself and be calm thank you	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-24 14:05:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	My reply was simple earlier cause i was at work>>> I agrees with sus about the divorce papers that is serious talk and not something to throw around>> The DNA thing i think that will be touchy once you have to reveal the results because you went behind his back and did that maybe he was fine with not knowing and you made the decision for him. and on the him doing things and you not being a priority that you have to talk out and sometime we all need time away and he is going through emotional stuff as well as you so maybe he didnt know how to tell you he needed space... just remember you have to communicate and take care of yourself Thank you Jess. It is serious talk and yes you are both right I agree I was out of order. however at the time it felt right and I did it so all I can do is appologize for my actions, I just dont know how else to get it through to him as of late his skull has seemed so thick and talking until I am blue in the face doesn't help. The DNA yes I went behind his back and I did let him know I was going to do it just didnt tell him when so he has a idea just dont know I did it already. Yes he was probably fine with not knowing but I am not again maybe my selfishness and the aggravation that came along with it pushed me to it, basically it would have never came up if the mothe rof the child didnt say or do some things and well now its done. I agree maybe he didnt know how to tell me he needed space for the day but of all days yesterday I needed him more then ever and he didnt even give me the opportunity to say what I needed to and then everything blew up and I had about all I could take, If the shoe were on the other foot and I did something like that I would have been such a horrible person. So its a messed up situation but all in all we will see how it plays out.	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-24 13:34:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	I am glad you didn't take that the wrong way, Always - it's a hard thing to write and not offend, when it's such a sensitive topic - Plus, I am still in complete claaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat mode today, lol so my sensitivity skills are numb! I understand your frustration, and hope things work out for the best - On another note, I just want to say how much I appreciate the friendships that have been founded here - I had a situation yesterday with DJ where I got a call from a random person that he was in the hospital, I couldn't get in touch with family or trusted people that I know, didn't know what was going on - And I had yardies pouring out of the woodwork offering to send family, friends, or themselves to the hospital to find out for me. It was overwhelming, and made me truly appreciate the gift that this journey has given all of us - in addition to our spouses / SO (although at the moment, I am wondering if mine is a gift or a curse, lol!) Nope no offense taken at all. I appreciate the feedback as I am not the easiest person to live with and I know this and yes sometimes it is me even when I think I am always right However your second statement I want to second that as all of you are truly a blessing in one shape or form	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-24 13:08:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Aww ty!!You are very welcome its the truth Where are you?I am in Fort Lauderdale, however Orlando is not that far and my parents live up that way so this may work I have been trying to arrange something where I'd go and do a few sessions at once in different places, should be doing one in Texas at some point and maybe Orlando...Please keep me posted	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-24 12:50:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Morning all - Always - I completely understand your frustration - The not calling and the soon come drives me nuts as well, and is definitely worth battling over and sticking your ground - although it does sound like one positive came out of it all - he got a job? I am not too sure actually as I didn't even look at the papers or ask I know he had something this morning in regards to the job but not sure what I guess I will know once I get home this evening. What concerns me is (1) you are pregnant and cannot be getting that upset or that stressed - it's not good for you or the little one. You need to try to sit down and talk it out BEFORE the next round of fighting comes - and come to terms with some working arrangement for both of you -Thank you I needed to hear again and again this as I do jump the gun before thinking sometimes and overreact I am guilty of that Secondly - why did you have divorce papers all drawn up? [color="#008000"]This is a good question I have access to the forms due to a friend that handles divorces on a regular basis, However this does not condone the way I used the papers, I will say I am just tired of feeling second and sometimes I feel as if he is just lying to me whether or not he is not[/color] To me, that's a dangerous line to cross - You are right and looking at it how you explained it It really strikes a nerve but in a good way like a wake up call for me Because something that you said or did in a fit of anger could really backfire on you - to me the D word is death - I believe in marriage for better or for worse, and if that word comes out I will mean it, no ifs ands or buts - But if you want to be married and want to work things out, I believe you have to truly be careful not to throw those words around in anger.Thank you again needed this reality check As for the DNA - I understand your frustration and reasons for doing the test, I might have done the same - But if the test comes back and the child is not biologically his, how are you going to handle that? Honestly either way I plann on showing him the results and I plann on us coming to some sort of agreement with it, if he wants to remain in the child's life so be it that is his option however the mother at that point in time better be set in her place because she has caused alot of grief and aggravation and he tolerates it cause he wants to see the kid now and its just simply not right or far How do you think he will feel to know that, if he has accepted the child is his - or how will he feel that you did the test when he said no? I am sure if it is not he will be hurt either way he will probably be hurt and has every right to be , I am wrong to a extent i know but i also feel we need to know the truth and that is why i choose to do it this way cause it is eatig me up inside It takes nothing for a man to be a sperm donor - it takes a lot for a man to be a daddy - Edited by Always Blessed, 24 September 2010 - 12:47 PM.	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-24 12:45:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Always, first and foremost, please take it easy. You are carrying a life inside you and we want you and the baby to both be healthy. I pray that your parents are okay too and can find relief. Secondly, I understand where you are coming from with the phone calling. Just try to understand that he is still trying to adjust too and get used to the fact that he is going to be a fadda again. Im going to call you and we will talk mi sista. Not too sure if you did the right thing with the DNA thing sis. If he kept saying no, im sure his reasoning was valid. Some men don't care if the child is not biologically theirs. They just want to take care of the child, which I find admirable. I see your point of view too why should he keep taking care of a child who may not be his... Just try to stay calm no matter how much things tick you off. We will talk sis. MrsTee- I hear you and I know what you are saying I agree to but this has been a hard pregnancy for me as I been sick for the first 6mnths of it and I know my hormones are out of wack and I just feel like I am second to everything in his life lately, I by no means will tolerate that as I do not deserve it nor does anyone else. I told him from the time we met I do not tolerate nonsense and as of late he is full of it. This man became my best friend we talked about everything and anything time after time,and now he is just being foolish at times. I love myself too much to sit back and take the #######. I understand he is home sick as I can imagine how I would feel if I left eveything behind as well and moved elsewhere, I also bend over backwards for this man and in return I feel like he does not have his priority straight his first priority seems to be friends(so called) The Dna well I have mixed feelings about it as well as I also agree about a man wanting to take responsibilty but I also see the way this child mother has disrespected just about everyone that is in contact with him and constantly disrespects Odean as well. Once again I am not tolerating that. I also know 110% that I am carrying his child and I want to know (maybe my own selfishness) if this is truly my daughter's brother and if he is going to be supporting this child that indeed it is his and not being taken for a fool.` Yes mam we will talk ..	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-24 12:04:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	[/url] [/url] JE-I love it ! I wish I was closer I love your work and would hire you in a minute to do my photos when my baby arrives. My husband and soon come takes a while also but I realize they are just more relaxed about things then we are...this will all work itself out ...do you feel better after getting it all out LOL! A little bit I still would like to chop him up but I am getting to feel a little better	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-24 10:12:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Always Blessed the first fight is like a page out of my book. I would have been pissed off too. I hope he understand why you were upset. MEN. Good luck with fight #2 I think that will be a huge fight. Thank you C, It sucks! How is the little one ???? Hope is calming down from the evil child syndrome. Yes fight 2 DING DING DING ! it will be something but I figure we need to know whether or not he wanted to know after all the ####### this idiot has caused its time for her to be exposed.	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-24 09:42:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Oh and JAP-Congrats cute picture Morning all... Im feeling like MrsTee today. We called USCIS yesterday and was being told that I cant do a service request until we are 30 days outside of normal processing time. I have to call them back after October 15. #######. She also mentioned that "All Family Based AOS requires and Interview". We were transferred to CSC on 3/9, Then on 9/14 we wer transefferd to NBC then 2 damn days later we were "Sent to a USCIS office for processing". I just want this to be over. I will be sending a letter to my Senator today and I will also put in for an infopass. Can you say SUPER PISSED OFF Gosh! C, TEE and DW I am so sorry to hear of the nosense this stupid Gov. is putting you all through my God they took the money fast but dont want to act fast they all need a Fin slap	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-24 09:16:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	First, I want say good morning and Happy Friday to everyone hope you all have a exciting safe weekend planned. Second,I need to vent! Ok I do not know if its my hormones or if I am just tired of Fuckery! However, last night I about exploded on Odean, I even threw divorce papers at him and told him to sign them cause I am done! Here is what happened. I work from 8Am -4Pm Monday thru Friday currently his #### is not working (fine we are dealing with that) I am seven months pregnant and feel like I have the world on my shoulders. I have too Disabled parents that live in Northern Florida and are having their own issues. More then anything I needed my husband yesterday just to listen to me, hear me cry get his advise whatever. However this was not the case. I called several time yesterday and his dumb behind did not answer the phone each time I called. He calls me back at one point to tell me he is going up the road to his friend and he will call me back shortly (that didn't happen) so next I called around 2:30 no answer again around 3 no answer around 4 no answer now when I was calling at these time I wanted to discuss some things and find out if he cooked cause if he hadn't I was stopping to pick up food. Finally about 4:45 I get a call back after I texted him and said what happen you dont know how to work a cell phone or is it just as I am calling? He starts running his mouth at me how dare I send him a text like that blah blah blah he was in a job interview (well that would have been a good thing to tell me don't you all think? and who has a interview that last over 3hrs Bullshit) Anyway I stopped prior to get food and I even got his dumb #### a plate. 5:55 he calls I am just checking on you (I am taking a nap at this point) I said ok I soon come I am just going up the street with Gulla(his friend) 8:30 comes he still not home , I call no answer of course 8:45 He calls back me soon come baby. 9:30 still not there I call hallejeuh he answered the phone first time for the day I said you plann on coming home this evening??? HEHEHE yes baby me soon come. I said where you coming from I said me soon come, I heard you where are you coming from ME SAY ME SOON COME! I said FU and hung up on him. Then I decided I am going to Walmart and changing the locks if he wasnt home by 10. He pulls up in the car with his boy and I said since you are so important to my husband why dont you take him with you cause I currently am not that important this evening . His friend say calm down WAIT he has some good news look at the paper in his hand I said FU and the papers in his hand and walked away. This point Odean come in the house, I am so pissed I want to cut him up and send him back to Jamaica. He wont say a word to me and I keep running off at the mouth, finally that is where I told him to sign the papers and go on his merry little way let his boys support him since they are the ones that always help him out so much and checked for him while he was in JA and all. He refused to sign and left them there. (thank God in a way cause I do love the hell out of this man) but anyway He choose to sleep on the coach and since I couldnt sleep i made so much noise and was turning lights off and on just to get under his skin (yes I know its childish but I wanted to do much more)Anyway about 1:30 he came in the room and came to bed . This morning I get up and get ready for work low and behold guess who gets up not much later after WOW! I almost fell over cause mister sleeps until 11:00 or 12:00 (must be nice right)he asked me for the direction for this place he had to take a test for his job. I politely responded the direction however I had it in me to tell him to call his friend since he was much more important. (I was a good girl and kept my mouth closed for a change). So that is one. Now the next fight I am sure will come in a few more days. As some of you know he has a so called baby momma that I do not believe the child is his and frankly STUPID is the only one that thinks it is his child. So last week I had about enough of the foolishness from the idiot of a mother the kid has (to be polite) and decided I am doing a DNA at home so I took Odeans tooth brush and I swabbed the kids mouth and I sent it off I should be getting the results next week sometime. I had asked him to do the DNA prior he told me no then I asked again and still told me no, I told him dont be suprise cause I will. He told my mom he would and then he told me no so I did what I had to do. If it is his kid I shut my mouth from this point on if its not well then he has a decision to make. Ok done for now. Maybe this will bring a little more conversation to the board Miss-Glad to hear it the surgery went well praying for a fast recovery for you. MrsTEE- dont worry yourself about the interview it will be fine	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-24 09:07:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Good Morning Everyone	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-16 08:53:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	hey Always Hows little baby Shaniquiasha tantiniquasha (thats her name right) LOL! The baby is doing great growing very nicely and finally behaving her self by not make me sick much Thanks for asking. how is your baby doing? Its funny cause alot of the people in my office keep naming her all kinds of strange names so far my favorite is Kambresha! LOL	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-15 12:23:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Good Morning All, C-Just a Dills had stated & Eric_Jew Odean received the same letter before we received the card and it was fairly quick thereafter the letter. JQ-Happy to hear things are looking up! I pray they continue to blossom for you. Tee-Feel good soon. I think that is it.	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-15 08:14:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Morning Everyone, Hope you all have a good day!	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-08 08:59:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Finesse, he is a handsome young man you got there. JQ- My heart pours out for you I dont know really what to say and it probably wouldnt make much of a difference anyways. Stayed prayed up momma as I know you do I will keep you up in prayer too.	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-07 14:46:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Morning Always Blessed, same to you! How are things going? Hey Dw, Doing well Thanks! I am actually starting to feel so much better now it only took six months but I am happy the morning sickness is subsiding.	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-07 11:39:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Good Morning All, Hope today is a blessed day for everyone	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-07 09:16:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Hey Always! How are you feeling? Is that morning all day sickness gone? Have you picked out a name yet? I just love hearing baby names. I am feeling better these days ! very emotional at times but good. All day sickness LOL still exist but getting better (knock on wood!). Um we have decided on a name but I am reluctant to say until she is here ( iknow it may sound a little rediculous but I have calle dout some names and then someone else will name their baby that name. I will say I really like the name Alexus Cheyenne but hubby shut that down very quickly he wasnt feeling it at all.	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-02 14:27:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Hi Everyone, Finesse Beautiful Babies! JQ- Keep your head up momma, You do want you can and everything else will eventuallty fall into place we can only do so much even though sometimes these mens think we can produce miracles when they do nothing!, you dont need to get all stressed out(from my lips to God's ears) cause I am completely guilty of this myself and both of us have babies to make sure stay healthy while we carry them. Mo-Prayers for protection from the storm Eric-Jew- Hope the interview went well. My3- hope the job is going well DW-Sorry I missed your bday so Happy Belated bday Mrstee & Brooke- just saying hi Anyone else sorry if I missed ya cant remember everythign thesed day	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-09-02 14:14:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Morning ALL	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-08-31 10:15:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy stranger!!! Yes they will be but you know what? Im so happy to be back, Im gonna take it which ever way it comes. Im getting closer to the finish line and nothing makes me more happier to know I will be teaching soon! I will see the rewards of my efforts and Im good with that How are things with the family? Are you in school yet? Hi Ms Lady, how are you feeling these days? Are you showing yet? When I saw you, you had a lil baby bump. I hope things are going well. Any more drama with the baby mama? I am feeling well! It depends on the day though some days are alot better then others. I am still about the same from when you saw me just a tad bigger maybe Baby Mama, well she isnt even worth being a topic to discuss lets just say I have change my number and come December she best hope my feelings have changed otherwise she has some stuff coming to her. Good morning Bajan, Nat and Dillon Dillon did Marley and Jazz start school? How are they doing so far?	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-08-26 11:27:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Morning All	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-08-26 10:10:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1	Good Morning Everyone, Have a blessed day!	Always Blessed	Female	Jamaica	2010-08-20 09:40:00