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K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
QUOTE (lee b @ Jul 6 2009, 05:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Maire I am happy your situation has resolved itself for you. You are a good person and you even tried to help your ex out of her jam. It didn't work out, but now you know that there is nothing you can do to help her. You can move forward with your life and try and be happy.


good.gif Well said! I agree! And nothing in my mailbox today- I rushed home to check. crying.gif Did anyone find a happy surprise in their mailbox when they got home???

Edited by al-Hubb jameel, 06 July 2009 - 04:47 PM.

al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-06 16:45:00
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QUOTE (Maire @ Jul 6 2009, 04:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (al-Hubb jameel @ Jul 6 2009, 04:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Maire @ Jul 6 2009, 04:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
on the 4th of July we went out to see the fireworks and it happened that her ex was there...when I saw her I told her I wanted to leave and so we did.....I had lend her my laptop cus she doesnt have a computer..i just opened my laptop and she had forgot to sign off her e-mail...and of course i had to investigate and look at the e-mail she just received from her ex:

"You seriously need to stop calling me 'restricted'. I have a f*cking life I'd like to continue with, I'd like to think you have one too - apparently you don't! It's bad enough I had to see your dumb-#### at Palace and then you have the balls to call me the same nite over and over again. Thanks for the lovely music, Rachel and I had a great ol' time dancing along to it. wink.gif
If you want your stupid playstation back let me know, otherwise I am throwing it out.

that means that the same night "something" happened between us and soon as I left her she started calling her...and I gave her 300 so she could get a place..after work iam going str8 to her house ###### her out, get my money and ask her to ###### leave me alone for good....

and to think I was having doubts about my honey..wowowow


God does everything for a reason and thank goodness you were shown that e-mail......Good luck going to her place!!!!

thank u.....iam so naive after 6 years of using me I still thought she could change wow...I wanna hit myself in the head.....


Instead of hitting yourself on the head, you should be hugging yourself because you figured all this out before anything really bad happened and you did something like cancel the petition......
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-06 15:42:00
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QUOTE (Maire @ Jul 6 2009, 04:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
on the 4th of July we went out to see the fireworks and it happened that her ex was there...when I saw her I told her I wanted to leave and so we did.....I had lend her my laptop cus she doesnt have a computer..i just opened my laptop and she had forgot to sign off her e-mail...and of course i had to investigate and look at the e-mail she just received from her ex:

"You seriously need to stop calling me 'restricted'. I have a f*cking life I'd like to continue with, I'd like to think you have one too - apparently you don't! It's bad enough I had to see your dumb-#### at Palace and then you have the balls to call me the same nite over and over again. Thanks for the lovely music, Rachel and I had a great ol' time dancing along to it. wink.gif
If you want your stupid playstation back let me know, otherwise I am throwing it out.

that means that the same night "something" happened between us and soon as I left her she started calling her...and I gave her 300 so she could get a place..after work iam going str8 to her house ###### her out, get my money and ask her to ###### leave me alone for good....

and to think I was having doubts about my honey..wowowow


God does everything for a reason and thank goodness you were shown that e-mail......Good luck going to her place!!!!
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-06 15:24:00
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QUOTE (JeremySusan @ Jul 6 2009, 02:59 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
al-hubb jameel, i didnt not receive any touches before we got NAO2. it was updated the day after i received the email. NAO 2 approved on hte 30/06/09, email sent on the 1/7/09, USCIS website updated on the 2/7/09


Thank you!! smile.gif
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-06 14:03:00
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QUOTE (D_n_M @ Jul 6 2009, 02:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
my BH is nervous about the medical... they have to look at her cookie and she is a little uncomfortable with it. Blood test and mental health are the easy part. Moving past this will be a milestone!


rofl.gif I never heard it called a cookie before. I'm going to start using that.
You know in USA we are programed to go start going to that Dr. at a young age...but I've noticed in alot of other countries women don't go untill they are preggers or maybe even never. Your support is helping her tons, I'm sure!!
I'm marrying a muslim man. And I recently learned having a man as this Dr. is not acceptable so I also have to find a new one...no fun!

Edited by al-Hubb jameel, 06 July 2009 - 02:02 PM.

al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-06 13:58:00
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QUOTE (Maire @ Jul 6 2009, 02:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (al-Hubb jameel @ Jul 6 2009, 02:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
goofy.gif goofy.gif Seriously guys, I think I need to be on meds. I can not concentrate on anything today! I have checked my email, my case status online, and igors list at least 150 times. Oh, BTW, no one with my NAO1 date has been approved, although people after us have been approved. So maybe the person handling our case went on vacation or something! I also printed out pics of my SO and myself and hung them in my office, and I made a list of things I need to do for the week. But that's about the extent of my productivness. The quarter and the fiscal year just ended so I have plenty of things I should be doing.....but I think I am going to rearrange my office instead. I'm on the 4 floor and there are 2 green parotkeets that sit on my window sill and make out all day. They are so adorable...maybe I'll just watch them for awhile ......

blink.gif weirdo LMAO


LOL takes one to know one LOL.
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-06 13:55:00
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goofy.gif goofy.gif Seriously guys, I think I need to be on meds. I can not concentrate on anything today! I have checked my email, my case status online, and igors list at least 150 times. Oh, BTW, no one with my NAO1 date has been approved, although people after us have been approved. So maybe the person handling our case went on vacation or something! I also printed out pics of my SO and myself and hung them in my office, and I made a list of things I need to do for the week. But that's about the extent of my productivness. The quarter and the fiscal year just ended so I have plenty of things I should be doing.....but I think I am going to rearrange my office instead. I'm on the 4 floor and there are 2 green parotkeets that sit on my window sill and make out all day. They are so adorable...maybe I'll just watch them for awhile ......
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-06 13:43:00
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QUOTE (lee b @ Jul 6 2009, 01:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Roman I have once been a victim of this scam. Luckily I was able to get help and get in recovery. Of course I was only in the "relationship" phase of the scam. I now need to go home and take a shower and wash away my shame. cray5ol.gif


LOL. did you follow a 12 step program in recovery??
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-06 13:25:00
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QUOTE (D_n_M @ Jul 6 2009, 12:59 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
USCIS is so inconsistent that even asking that question won't really get you any information. I received little activity from USCIS up to now. I changed my address and they marked the activity of that transaction, but my case still says "received and pending" and it is at the Embassy now.


Yes, I've been reading about your crazyness with USCIS...one more to ad to the books.
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-06 12:09:00
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QUOTE (Roman&Marina @ Jul 6 2009, 12:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (al-Hubb jameel @ Jul 6 2009, 12:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
LOLOL. Too funny!!!

Hey- for those of you who had your approval sent by e-mail, did you have any touches prior to the approval?


There were none in my case.


Ok, good!!!
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-06 11:46:00
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LOLOL. Too funny!!!

Hey- for those of you who had your approval sent by e-mail, did you have any touches prior to the approval?
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-06 11:38:00
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QUOTE (Roman&Marina @ Jul 6 2009, 12:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (al-Hubb jameel @ Jul 6 2009, 12:23 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Roman&Marina @ Jul 6 2009, 11:50 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (D_n_M @ Jul 6 2009, 11:44 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
With any luck..Maria will be coming here this month! I hope we can get the interview next week. Her medical is tomorrow and she will get everything translated then too. I have all the paper work I need to send her...so it should be easy-peasy-lemon squeezy!!!


8 days until an interview for my honey. God willing everything is going to go smoothly and then she will be coming here August 6th. GOOD TIMES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


OMG that is so fast!!!!!! Way to go!!


It's seems that way now. But looking back, it has been quite a long journey.


I'm sure it felt like forever, but you will really know what forever feels like when you have the rest of your lives together forever!! smile.gif
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-06 11:29:00
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QUOTE (Roman&Marina @ Jul 6 2009, 11:50 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (D_n_M @ Jul 6 2009, 11:44 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
With any luck..Maria will be coming here this month! I hope we can get the interview next week. Her medical is tomorrow and she will get everything translated then too. I have all the paper work I need to send her...so it should be easy-peasy-lemon squeezy!!!


8 days until an interview for my honey. God willing everything is going to go smoothly and then she will be coming here August 6th. GOOD TIMES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


OMG that is so fast!!!!!! Way to go!!

QUOTE (JeremySusan @ Jul 6 2009, 11:31 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>


Thank you so much!! With prayers and voodoo, I have to get it!! smile.gif
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-06 11:25:00
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QUOTE (al-Hubb jameel @ Jul 6 2009, 11:25 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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QUOTE (al-Hubb jameel @ Jul 6 2009, 11:19 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Maire Honey, Hang in there. Everyone here is supporting you in whatever decision you make and what is best for you.....You'll figure it out. I believe in you!!!

AWWW...UR TOO CUTE..JUST FOR THAT UR GETTING UR NOA2 THIS WEEK..I PROMISE! innocent.gif


YES!!!!!!!!!! Thanks Maire!!!! kicking.gif

anytime....iam doing some "brujeria"(Cuban vodoo) right now for u... whistling.gif


Ooohhhhhh I feel it!! :-) Thanks xoxoxox
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-06 11:13:00
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QUOTE (Maire @ Jul 6 2009, 11:24 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (al-Hubb jameel @ Jul 6 2009, 11:19 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Maire Honey, Hang in there. Everyone here is supporting you in whatever decision you make and what is best for you.....You'll figure it out. I believe in you!!!

AWWW...UR TOO CUTE..JUST FOR THAT UR GETTING UR NOA2 THIS WEEK..I PROMISE! innocent.gif


YES!!!!!!!!!! Thanks Maire!!!! kicking.gif
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-06 10:25:00
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Maire Honey, Hang in there. Everyone here is supporting you in whatever decision you make and what is best for you.....You'll figure it out. I believe in you!!!
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-06 10:19:00
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QUOTE (D_n_M @ Jul 6 2009, 10:51 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
It is possible to be in love with two people at once. You, however, have chosen the one person to be in love with, and you have chosen to marry that person. It is unfair and not right to include another. You must let her go and not look back. My 2 cents is... let her go and don't look back. You will get over her soon, you can't do this to your fiance. Don't make it harder for yourself to keep her in your life...not even as a friend. You must cut her off totally Maire. I think you know this too! You have a lot of character Maire and I know you will succeed during this choice!


I think this is great advice, as hard it is might be- CUT HER OFF!! SHE IS POISON to your relationship....
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-06 09:56:00
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QUOTE (lee b @ Jul 6 2009, 10:36 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (al-Hubb jameel @ Jul 6 2009, 09:52 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Maire @ Jul 6 2009, 09:41 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I know my sunshines...thank u..but iam the one that got myself into deep $hit..anyways I hope lots of approvals this week






You shouldn't beat yourself up over something like that. It's hard to say what could have happened and it is virtually impossible to fight your instincts once the fight or flight has kicked in.


Thanks! I'm ok now and we laugh about it. But you're right...no way to know how you will react in a situation untill you are in it. Maire. I personally don't think it's possible to be in love with 2 people at once, but once again, I have never had to be in that situation, so I can't really say. Do you think it's possible that it's not really love, she is just filling a void that is missing since you can't be with your SO?

Edited by al-Hubb jameel, 06 July 2009 - 09:55 AM.

al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-06 09:54:00
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QUOTE (Maire @ Jul 6 2009, 10:02 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (al-Hubb jameel @ Jul 6 2009, 09:52 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Maire @ Jul 6 2009, 09:41 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I know my sunshines...thank u..but iam the one that got myself into deep $hit..anyways I hope lots of approvals this week


This week is a full moon Maire, and alot of strange things have been happening. Try not to put all of the blame on yourself, we never really know how we will react in a situation untill we are in it. For example, I would love to think of mylsef as a good friend who would always protect her friends, but when i was in Peace Corps Belize I had an inncident that wasn't the case. My friend and I were walking and we got surrounded by guys on bikes who wanted to rob us. At that split second I was a victim of flight or fight response and I am very embarrassed to say, my body chose flight. I took off running and left my friend there with the men. blush.gif She was fine, but I will never forgot how shocked I was when I realized how I responded. Needless to say, I felt horrible. crying.gif The point of all that is to say that sometimes we react in ways that we don't think we would ever react in stressful situations.

It is very hard being apart from our loved ones. And everyone here is right, you need to think about what is most important to you.... Is there any way you could take a quick trip over to Cuba to see him and maybe see how you feel?

wow thanks for that....it lifted my spirit a bit... blush.gif

I am going August 28..so i still have 1 2/2 month...i never thought I could be in this situation...

Richard when is ur SO leaving?


That's great you are going August 28th. What do you have to do to prepare? Go shopping? Get yourself ready?? How exciting.... Also, we can't change the past, so even if you did something you regret, you just have to look forward to the future and try and decide what is best for you and what you want!!
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-06 09:30:00
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QUOTE (D_n_M @ Jul 6 2009, 10:10 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Morning Everyone!

Another update for you. I called USCIS (VSC) about my NOA 2. After speaking with a representative who, once again knows nothing of the process, I asked to be transfered to a supervisor. After speaking with the supervisor she then transfered me to another fellow who actually knew something about the process and had access to the internal information. I told him the situation and he told me I was not approved yet and to wait. I explained that I was approved and NVC had already forwarded it to the Embassy, and I gave him the dates. He said, "Hmmm, it hasn't been updated in the system, let me send an inquiry". I waited on hold for a few minutes. He came back and said everything will be updated and I should receive the NOA 2 in about 5 days.

Lesson here... Be a complete ####### while dealing with USCIS and don't let them dictate how the conversation will go...use tact of course!

Maire... I hope you didn't do something you will regret. I know that you can fix any problem use us as a crutch if you need to! Be strong girl!


That's great and has to feel like a giant weight lifted off your shoulders!!

QUOTE (D_n_M @ Jul 6 2009, 10:17 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
And.... We have our medical tomorrow! They say she will get her results the same day!


Ooohhh...you are really moving along!! So exciting!
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-06 09:27:00
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QUOTE (Maire @ Jul 6 2009, 09:41 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I know my sunshines...thank u..but iam the one that got myself into deep $hit..anyways I hope lots of approvals this week


This week is a full moon Maire, and alot of strange things have been happening. Try not to put all of the blame on yourself, we never really know how we will react in a situation untill we are in it. For example, I would love to think of mylsef as a good friend who would always protect her friends, but when i was in Peace Corps Belize I had an inncident that wasn't the case. My friend and I were walking and we got surrounded by guys on bikes who wanted to rob us. At that split second I was a victim of flight or fight response and I am very embarrassed to say, my body chose flight. I took off running and left my friend there with the men. blush.gif She was fine, but I will never forgot how shocked I was when I realized how I responded. Needless to say, I felt horrible. crying.gif The point of all that is to say that sometimes we react in ways that we don't think we would ever react in stressful situations.

It is very hard being apart from our loved ones. And everyone here is right, you need to think about what is most important to you.... Is there any way you could take a quick trip over to Cuba to see him and maybe see how you feel?
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-06 08:52:00
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Good morning everyone. Wow, everyone is so kind to wish us all approvals this week!!! It helps alot to have all of this support. I'm sure you can all relate with what we are going through waiting. I feel like it will be our lucky week as well. good.gif

Maire, are you OK?
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-06 08:34:00
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QUOTE (Rich and Bey @ Jul 5 2009, 09:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
you will all get it soon


Thanks! good.gif
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-05 20:38:00
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Thanks to everyone for the good luck wishes for us!! I feel like a crazy woman obsessed...Igor's list is my home page at work and at home, and I check my mail and my email constantly. I really don't know how people do it, I feel so blessed that I saw my SO in April and I will see him again at the end of July. I know that there are people who have not seen their SO in many many months and my heart goes out to you, and I hope a speedy reunion for you. star_smile.gif And good point gatoula_tou!!!
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-05 12:13:00
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QUOTE (biggestchallenge @ Jul 4 2009, 06:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
im being optimistic about this week coming up these VSC folks are gonna come back from there vacations amped up and start processing those K1'ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ


Me too BiggestChallenge. This is OUR week!!!!!!!!!!
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-04 20:19:00
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QUOTE (Rich and Bey @ Jul 4 2009, 05:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
so what does everyone have planned for the Fourth?


All the girls are coming over and we're walking to the beach to watch fireworks. What are you doing?
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-04 17:33:00
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QUOTE (lee b @ Jul 4 2009, 07:59 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (mountainman @ Jul 4 2009, 07:37 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hi ever one Iam new to this! Trying to get to know about filling out a Petition for a Alien Fiancee Form I-129F and Form G-325 Can I abbraviate the name of the state and county of the state? What is better - to write or to type?



I typed mine. I wanted it to be legible since I write like a really smart 5 year old. I wrote out all the names fully. I didn't want to get an RFE, because I didn't type in the full name. Bare in mind that these forms are going to USCIS and not the embassy in your fiance's country. They may not know what the abbreviation stands for. Good luck on your journey and just know that it is a long process and patience will serve your sanity well.


I typed mine too. And I used abrviations for the states and for USA but not for any other countries. Good luck!!!! Also Happy 4th to everyone...just think next year we will be able to show our SO's 4th of July celebrations here!!! smile.gif
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-04 09:12:00
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QUOTE (D_n_M @ Jul 3 2009, 03:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I just want my hard copy for my records. I don't want any issues when I do the AOS. You would think they would have better records. It's funny how they sent it along and NVC sent it to the Embassy and USCIS can't even record it so it can be properly retrieved. Blows my mind!



Well, glad you are on top of it. Let us know how it works out. My mail already came today and nothing ......so maybe Monday will be my lucky day!!
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-03 15:21:00
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QUOTE (D_n_M @ Jul 3 2009, 01:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey Everyone... here's an update to my case from USCIS. I received a letter today from USCIS. Expecting it to be my NOA2 hard copy i was surprised when I opened it. The letter stated that in response to a call I made to them about my change of address not being recorded I asked if they would send another one. Here's what the letter said.

The status of this service is:

Our computer systems show that your I-130 petition is still pending United States Citizenship and Immigration Services consideration.

I didn't file an I-130 and the Embassy already has our petition. This is to show how truly screwed up USCIS really is.


OMG, how frustrating!!!

Edited by al-Hubb jameel, 03 July 2009 - 01:00 PM.

al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-03 12:57:00
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QUOTE (lee b @ Jul 3 2009, 10:52 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Dave I am such a bargain shopper for tv's. I have a 42' rear projection LCD for $125.00 on craigslist. I paid full price for the flat panel in my bedroom and now I am pissed at how cheap it would be. I will never pay full price again. I admit I may be cheap at times, but its really worth it to save that kind of money.


In today's economy who can afford to pay full price for anything when that is extra money that can be put away for a rainy day?! Kudo's to you!!
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-03 10:28:00
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QUOTE (Nana119 @ Jul 3 2009, 09:59 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You know, there used to be a time where I would be looking forward to holidays... now I just wish there weren't any holidays for this year so my petition can be worked on LOL... anyone feels the same way? please say yes lol


YES!! smile.gif
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-03 09:41:00
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QUOTE (lee b @ Jul 2 2009, 09:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Not a single approval. That is a bit disheartening. I was really hoping some more Feb. people would get theirs today.


Thanks for the encouragment, and yes it is disapointing. crying.gif Do you think USCIS is closed tomorrow?
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-02 21:02:00
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QUOTE (lee b @ Jul 2 2009, 04:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Either way Maire you need to really figure out what it is you want. Otherwise there are going to be three people who could get hurt. It sucks for everyone involved, but if you're having these feelings now its not fair to your SO or your ex to string them along. Take some time and really think about what you want.


good.gif
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-02 15:15:00
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QUOTE (Maire @ Jul 2 2009, 04:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Rich and Bey @ Jul 2 2009, 04:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Ok Maire after you saw her again how did you feel? Did you have old feelings come back or did you think about your current bf the whole time? this information is important to determine what you should do? did you feel like being with her again? how did you feel after she told you she wanted you back?

I dunno.... unsure.gif



Ooohhhh I agree with everyone else now Maire. Don't see her again...seems like she is doing whatever it takes to get you back and preying on the fact that you are nice. DANGER DANGER DANGER.
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-02 15:14:00
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QUOTE (al-Hubb jameel @ Jul 2 2009, 03:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (lee b @ Jul 2 2009, 03:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Nora I don't know if waiting at the embassy would do anything at all. If they haven't received anything from NVC it would be an absolute waste of time to go there and wait. They would have no record of your fiance without it. If they have it I really don't know if it would do any good, but stranger things have happened.


Thanks for responding. Yes, I agree that it would be useless unless they have already recieved info, but I still have a month for them to do so....and once they do, I will start e-mailing and calling them and asking them... I know this is crazy but I just feel like if there is even the smallest chance I have to attempt it... smile.gif



Another thing you may want to check is if the Embassy only does K-1 interviews on certain days. That may increase your chances. It will still be difficult, because I am pretty sure even if you are with your fiance might not be allowed in the embassy without his invitation. You will have no problem getting in since you're a U.S. citizen, but your fiance might have to wait outside while you see what can be done.


Oh, that's a great idea! Yes, I already figured he would have to wait outside...but it's ok. He can wait LOL. My wheels are turning.....Thanks for the encouragment and ideas. smile.gif
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-02 14:47:00
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QUOTE (Maire @ Jul 2 2009, 03:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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QUOTE (Maire @ Jul 2 2009, 03:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Guys I have a question to ask....ok here it goes
has it happened to any of you during this process that you have gotten tempted to do something that might hurt the relationship..for example...going to dinner with an ex..or gotten into a frisky situation, or something like that...


WHAT DID YOU DO????????????????????????????????????????

Ok i dated this person like 1 1/2 years ago...all of the sudden she calls me yesterday at work because she wants to see what am i up to. I was curious to see her and I said yes. We went to dinner and started drinking wine..She got soo drunk that she couldnt even walk..So i grabbed her phone and called her current gf to ask for their address so I could drop her off because she couldnt drive...when her current gf realized the one calling was her ex gf said she would not give me their address and to let her sleep on the stree...I felt bad and rented a hotel for the night..i was gonna let her sleep alone..but decided to stay with her cus I was afraid something was going to happen to her...she was like unconcious...so this morning she woke up and when she went back home..the gf kicked her out of the house and she has nowhere to go. She has no money and nowhere to go and I feel guilty cus because of me that happened...even tho we didnt do anything I put myself in that situation and now I have this drama and I feel like i should even pay for another hotel night so she can have a place to crash...this is nuts


It is kind of you to help someone in need. Just keep your "walls up" and make sure she knows there is absolutely NO way you guys will be together and don't let her get too close. That's my 2 cents. smile.gif
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-02 14:44:00
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QUOTE (lee b @ Jul 2 2009, 03:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Nora I don't know if waiting at the embassy would do anything at all. If they haven't received anything from NVC it would be an absolute waste of time to go there and wait. They would have no record of your fiance without it. If they have it I really don't know if it would do any good, but stranger things have happened.


Thanks for responding. Yes, I agree that it would be useless unless they have already recieved info, but I still have a month for them to do so....and once they do, I will start e-mailing and calling them and asking them... I know this is crazy but I just feel like if there is even the smallest chance I have to attempt it... smile.gif
al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-02 14:35:00
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Hey Guys, sorry to butt in here in the middle of your wedding plans at Maire's house but I have a question and i need some advice. star_smile.gif I haven't been approved yet (to my knowledge) but I'm hoping it will be any day now. I have a trip planned to Jordan at the beginning of August to see my baby. Here's my plan, and is it crazy? Do I have a chance in H**l? Assuming that our info would have already been forwarded to the embassy and we have gotten our instructions (which I already got from an email from the embassy months ago) I was thinking of getting everything done and ready and just show up at the embassy and talk to someone and beg them to let us go in if someone cancels or if there is extra time....I'll tell them we don't mind sitting all day long and waiting, as long as there is a CHANCE. They have been so kind with my questions via email, and I just feel hopeful. What do you think? Otherwise it's probably going to be October before we have our interview. sad.gif Also, does anyone have facebook? I enjoy looking at everyone's pics and putting faces with words, but I can't get any of my pictures to fit on here, and I have given up. but if you want to add me as a friend on fb I'm http://www.facebook.com/Nora4Nadeem . Just let me know you're from VJ please. Thanks, Nora Beth good.gif

al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-02 14:18:00
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QUOTE (biggestchallenge @ Jul 1 2009, 09:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
yeah this damm usps betta hurry up


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al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-01 20:41:00
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QUOTE (IgorK @ Jul 1 2009, 06:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Just got myself home... 1.5 hr commute vs 40 minutes...Arggg. Nothing in the mail box either sad.gif


yeah i wqaited all day on my day off and nothing back to work again sad.gif


Nothing in my mailbox either crying.gif But I bet our approvals are on their way!!!! They're probably just taking the scenic route good.gif

Edited by al-Hubb jameel, 01 July 2009 - 08:37 PM.

al-Hubb jameelFemaleJordan2009-07-01 20:36:00