ForumTitleContentMemberSexCountryDate/Time
PhilippinesWhat's the best way to send a laptop to the Phils?

It is generally best to bring the laptop with you as carry-on luggage when you travel to Phils.  Then you will not have to pay any fees.


Laser1MalePhilippines2014-01-29 15:38:00
PhilippinesDivorced in US but marriage not annuled in Philippines

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Get married in a third country. This seemed easiest to me. Don't know if it accually is or not. Report the marriage to the embassy or consulate that has jurisdiction over the place the marriage took place.

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A quick note: getting married in a third country would likely not be a valid option, because he would need approval from the Philippine embassy, which would not recognize his divorce.


Laser1MalePhilippines2014-08-18 17:53:00
PhilippinesMy wife is being nuts again..

Some people disengage as a response to emotionally heavy episodes like death.  It just seems best to them to not get emotionally involved when others are grieving.  I would try to look over this.  If she does not insist on scratching tickets in the hospital, then that is not much of an issue.


Laser1MalePhilippines2014-09-02 14:53:00
PhilippinesIn love with a girl in the Philippines.

About safety, your primary concern is if she has a husband or suitor.  Very many women there will not be straightforward or even honest about that, so try to investigate in some detail.  Some will just think it is acceptable to not tell you the truth.  Also, holding off from visiting her family home is safest, until you feel very comfortable about her.


Laser1MalePhilippines2014-09-18 17:09:00
PhilippinesIs Friend's Fiancee Scamming Him? How to convince him?

 

Jeez! And I thought I spent a lot for my fiancee's surprise Birthday/Engagement party (which was...16,000 php...). Although to be honest, I found out later that her mom put up another 15,000 php of her own money because the actual party cost was closer to 30,000..... :shocked:  (they didn't want to tell me because they knew I would be upset at that level of spending...and that I originally budgeted 8,000...). To be fair, they invited the whole neighborhood of almost 100 people with catered food, had karoke and fireworks to hear my proposal to her :goofy:.

 

Unfortunately, paying for such things without controlling how the money is spent gives the signal that your wallet is open for them, to spend as they see fit.  You can anticipate more requests that will seem difficult or heartless to say no to, until you show disapproval.


Laser1MalePhilippines2014-07-22 21:16:00
PhilippinesIs Friend's Fiancee Scamming Him? How to convince him?

You're friend has lost enough already; whatever happens now will be ugly.  It sounds like its coming to a head; those things always do.


Laser1MalePhilippines2014-06-30 22:59:00
PhilippinesIs Friend's Fiancee Scamming Him? How to convince him?

A few other notes:

 

a) Avoid using insult terms like "scammer" ( i.e. "cheater", "liar", "crazy", etc) when talking about her, no matter how you feel about her or her behavior.  They would cause many people to not listen to you, and get defensive.

 

b) He really needs to talk with her about these issues, but not take what she says at face value.  Basically advise him to ask her the hard questions, and dig deep.  And to practice "trust but verify"... to not hesitate to check if what she says is true.

 

c) Is he sure she is not pregnant?


Edited by Laser1, 21 May 2014 - 06:30 PM.

Laser1MalePhilippines2014-05-21 18:27:00
PhilippinesIs Friend's Fiancee Scamming Him? How to convince him?

I hate these things, but maybe you should advise him to write an ultimatum, and send it to her.  Clearly list out the changes he needs to let things move forward.  Even if he has trouble sticking to his demands, spelling out his needs should improve things.  And if she ignores it, breaking up would be easier.

 

 

 

 

 

 


Edited by Laser1, 21 May 2014 - 05:32 PM.

Laser1MalePhilippines2014-05-21 17:29:00
PhilippinesCFO birth certificate requirement

Can you stop at Guam for a few days on your way to visit your fiancee?  Then you should be able to get it in person.


Laser1MalePhilippines2014-10-24 13:19:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsEveryone should stop acting like big babies

I don't think the staff at the service centers are working slow on purpose. Most likely there have been a lot of applications coming in and we have the the straight up fact that Americas economy is very bad right now. So I don't think they are putting their last bucks on hiring more staff to help our love lives.



Actually the USCIS is funded mostly by fees. It may have to raise fees in order to hire more staff, to decrease wait times.


Laser1MalePhilippines2011-04-13 09:24:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsK1 just surprised us

Congratulations!!


Laser1MalePhilippines2014-04-16 17:41:00
PhilippinesGood or bad idea?
If you are towards the end of your petition getting approved (of course we never know for sure when), I would suggest you to stay. In case you get a RFE or get approved, you can response immediately and this might shorten the process in a way.

If you are just at the beginning of the journey, it won't hurt to visit your fiance! :star:

Good luck! :thumbs:
JS&PLFemaleHong Kong2012-08-14 04:36:00
PhilippinesDenied or passed fiance visa?
From what you told us, sounds like the Embassy is waiting for him to bring in the document until they could approve the K1. Good luck! :thumbs:
JS&PLFemaleHong Kong2012-09-17 04:35:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsNOA2!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Congrats!!! I love to hear great news like this everyday!!! :D
JS&PLFemaleHong Kong2012-03-30 02:12:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports6 days and counting.
Congrats Ron!! The wait is finally over! Must be the happiest day of your life! Keep us posted! ;)
JS&PLFemaleHong Kong2012-03-31 06:07:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reportssecond RFE
Good luck with your second RFE! :thumbs: I am so glad that I found VJ on time :whistle:
JS&PLFemaleHong Kong2012-04-02 22:45:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsVISA APPROVED!
Congrats!! :star: All the best to all VJers! :thumbs:
JS&PLFemaleHong Kong2012-04-04 12:13:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsNOA2
Congrats!!! :star: :dance:
JS&PLFemaleHong Kong2012-04-11 21:58:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsShould I be worried?

we are sending-date buddies!



We sent it on 19 March as well!! :dance: :star:
JS&PLFemaleHong Kong2012-03-29 02:11:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsAPPPPRRROOOOOOVED!!!!!!
Congrats! Please update your timeline! :thumbs:
JS&PLFemaleHong Kong2012-07-20 01:59:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsThis should be NOA2 but no text nor email...
Checked My Case Status on USCIS today and found out that our petition is at post dicision activity!! :blink: Didn't received no text or email like we did for NOA1 but I believe this is the NOA2!!! So we are thrilled!!!! :whistle: :dance: Any other March filers got their NOA2?? Heard that the CSC is speeding up but didn't expect it to be so soon!!! :rofl:

Below is what the USCIS posted:

Post Decision Activity
On July 24, 2012, we mailed you a notice that we have approved this I129F PETITION FOR FIANCE(E). Please follow any instructions on the notice. If you move before you receive the notice, call customer service at 1-800-375-5283.

For approved applications/petitions, post-decision activity may include USCIS sending notification of the approved application/petition to the National Visa Center or the Department of State.


Good luck to everyone else who are in the waiting game!!! B-)
JS&PLFemaleHong Kong2012-07-27 03:08:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsI AM SO HAPPY!!
Good luck to you two, Brock UK!! :thumbs:
JS&PLFemaleHong Kong2012-08-21 02:59:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsI AM SO HAPPY!!
Looking at our timeline, I think we have the fastest post NOA 2 speed! So happy that I am doing my happy dance!!! :rofl: Thank you for all the support here on VJ! You guys rock! :dance:
JS&PLFemaleHong Kong2012-08-21 02:49:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFeb 9th filer. 191 Days at VSC but finally APPROVED!
Great great news!!! :thumbs: Congrats!
JS&PLFemaleHong Kong2012-08-22 10:12:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsAfter 204 days finally we got our NOA2
That's a long wait but nothing stops true love. Congrats!!! :whistle:
JS&PLFemaleHong Kong2012-08-23 01:40:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsCharts Showing VSC Approval Trends for 2012
Impressive! Great effort! Hang in there guys! :thumbs:
JS&PLFemaleHong Kong2012-08-22 10:32:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports169 Days..... and Approval!!!
Cograts!! Enjoy!!! :whistle:
JS&PLFemaleHong Kong2012-08-29 22:42:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch (2012) filers...
Dear March filers,

We filed ours on 19 March, had our case done at CSC. We received our K1 visa in the mail today.
This process might be tough but it will all worth it in the end. Hang in there, our prayers are with you all! (F)

Best wishes,

J & P (L)
JS&PLFemaleHong Kong2012-08-30 23:12:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch (2012) filers...
Hang in there, folks who have their petitions processed at VSC! Keep the faith!

Hope for the best and prepare for the worst! Don't stop believing!! :yes:
JS&PLFemaleHong Kong2012-07-30 03:04:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch (2012) filers...
My fiance is back to Hong Kong last Saturday after spending a month here, it's sad to be apart again. Hope this waiting game ends soon!

Feb filers are getting their NOA2s, hang in there guys :whistle:
JS&PLFemaleHong Kong2012-06-19 02:56:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch (2012) filers...

Wow! Congrats to you :thumbs:

Nothing happened to our petition yet, it seems. But the estimated adjucation date on the vj timeline changed again, and now says between August 2nd and August 7th instead of end of July :unsure: I must stop checking it :bonk:



I check my vj timeline everyday and it delayed for 2 days from the last time I checked, I guess that happens to all of us March filers!
JS&PLFemaleHong Kong2012-03-31 06:03:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch (2012) filers...
Hi there everyone! We sent ours on 19 March and got a confirmation email on 27 March, routed to California Service Center! :star: Good luck everyone! :thumbs:
JS&PLFemaleHong Kong2012-03-30 03:39:00
Philippinesconfused !..pls fellow pinoy just recent had der medical and interview..

In my case we never got a letter from NVC, when my fiance called the NVC to ask for the letter they said there is no letter then thw guy gave us our case number. Then I emailed embassy, cause that time I need a request authority to get a police clearance from other country, I just gave them my MNL case number and the didnt ask any letter from the NVC. I had the medical and appointment without it. But of course it's a case to case basis, try to email the embassy

my f already set an appointment TOINKS!!! he is too excite ...i hope i wll have no problm about this..im so confused ..anyway thnk you ill just email them...thnk you :)


JowsaNot TellingPhilippines2013-08-16 07:14:00
Philippinesconfused !..pls fellow pinoy just recent had der medical and interview..

i jsut payed my visa ,im confused now coz when i tried to set an appointment fro interview it says der that wait for mail from NVC  .since we jsut got our MNL case number through phone call what should i do ...?do i really need to wait for that letter?some says as long as u hav MNL ur fine but now im really confused pls help...


JowsaNot TellingPhilippines2013-08-16 05:48:00
PhilippinesCFO TOPIC

WHO AMONG HERE HAD DER CFO EVEN VISA IS NOT YET APPROVE?DID U GET THE STICKER EASY OR NEED TO FLL IN (LONG

LINE AGAIN?THNKZ IN ADVICE MWAHHHHH


JowsaNot TellingPhilippines2013-08-23 21:37:00
Philippinesis it my documents for medical complete?

So was the nvc letter of usem instructionletter needed when u get there for the medical?

they only look for appointment for interview 


JowsaNot TellingPhilippines2013-08-31 09:29:00
Philippinesis it my documents for medical complete?
Hello girls!!!i just finished my medical!!!thnk god I passed:)I arrived der at 5am and got number 16..lucky ryt? Hehehe I'm so happy...thnx for the help!!!mwahhhhz
JowsaNot TellingPhilippines2013-08-20 07:06:00
Philippinesis it my documents for medical complete?

Hi missy! I finished my medical withn the day. Immunization shots were given n the afternoon. If there's no problem with yur medical results they can give you the immuniations in the afternoon. Sometimes it may take you 2days to complete smile.png

I was at the line around 4.30am and got inside the building around 6am. They give you queue number outside for processing after that you'll start your lab exams. I started at 730 and finished around 1030. Results at 1.30 immunization after that. Got my Xray CD and Vaccination record at 330.

I went there Wednesday and the there are only few applicants. smile.png

Goodluck on your Journey! smile.png





sister is it true that they will ask u to open ur legs wide open?;) hihiihh


JowsaNot TellingPhilippines2013-08-17 06:56:00
Philippinesis it my documents for medical complete?

ok thanks smile.png

ur very much welcome:)


JowsaNot TellingPhilippines2013-08-17 06:53:00
Philippinesis it my documents for medical complete?

hi vazpayne,

 

may i ask, how long it took you to finish the whole process at St. lukes? What time did you arrive and what day? is it true there's a long queue and it starts at 3am?

 

thanks smile.png

im not done yet wth my medical ...it will be on monday ..they said it takes 1-2 days im not sure but dont worry ill let u know and i will share my experience after :)


JowsaNot TellingPhilippines2013-08-17 06:50:00