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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaAdjustment to the United States
Okay, so how could you'll have handle this differently if you had to do it all over agian. Now I would say for myself, every family culture have dirrences even here in the US. What was the upside of being married into a white family verus a black family?
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-10 10:04:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaAdjustment to the United States
Mrs. Smith, my inital response is to stay out of this and I will, but if you had to name one big adjustment that you and your husband had to deal with, what would it be. Also, would you say this problem was new to you, or had you dealt with some aspects of it in any previous relationship. Please don't make it genralized, it must be something that you felt didn't just come with the terriority of being married and adjusting to each other.


Please this question is not just for Mrs. Smith anyone else who feels they can share or add something of substance to this is welcome to respond.

Edited by RoxcieJoe, 10 February 2009 - 10:00 AM.

LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-10 09:55:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaAdjustment to the United States
MRS. SMITH I WOULD CAUTION YOU TO REMEMBER THERE ARE TWO SIDES TO EVERY STORY, BEFORE YOU OR ANYONE ELSE MAKES A BLAKEN STATEMENT. THERE MAYBE FACTS THAT ARE NOT PRINTED IN THIS THREAD THAT YOU MAY OR MAYBE AWARE OF.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-10 08:52:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
Well, it seems like maybe they needed a break.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-16 18:49:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
So it seems like all of the VJ's have jumped ship. I see where Island woman said A needs to get another medical. That must sucks.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-16 18:47:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
Yeah, this LDR does take a toll, mentally and financially. I just want him here NOW, I'm tired of having a husband, but not having a husband.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-16 18:45:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
Spirit Airline has a $50 off sale going on right now, did you try them?
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-16 18:43:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
Yeah, I do understand D's concern about being on the road back before it gets dark. Things are still crazy there, so he just wants to be more safe than sorry.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-16 18:42:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
This was a good trip, because I need to just focus on getting my baby here and our marriage. He excited, because the time is getting close, so we want to just be a normal couple. Things are starting to become more real to him as the time moves on. This year we will be living together as husband and wife. He will have more responsible, than what he has now in Jamaica.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-16 18:39:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
You would have to take a taxi or a bus, so I wouldn't try it. How much of a difference would it be to fly into MOB, rather than KIN? The flights will be higher durning College Spring break time, so that's why the March dates are high.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-16 18:35:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
Honey it was a good short trip. I'm missing my baby as I type right now, last night at this time I was laughing and being held by him as we swayed and listerned to the music.

Honey, it is what it is, everyone has their own negative opinion about Jamaica, but Jamaica is not big on gays and lesbians. Did you know that some of them related Valentine Day as being a gay(fish) day. The guys in Jamaica says Valentine Day is Gay day.

Edited by RoxcieJoe, 16 February 2009 - 06:28 PM.

LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-16 18:27:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
Hi honey, I'm back in town... Jamaica was wonderul, Joel was GREAT, and I see things here haven't changed.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-16 18:21:00
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QUOTE (JaHoney @ Feb 12 2009, 02:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
since they just locked the Adjustment thread can someone tell me what a TOS violation is? what is that the no cussing on VJ ban?????



Honey, here is the explanation http://www.visajourn...p?showtopic=322


Lots of heart.gif heart.gif heart.gif
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-12 14:19:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
Clairen, half of yardie Vj's are over on the adjustment to the US thread posting, and you 3 are sitting over here.

Clairern, go over to the adjustment to the United States thread under the Yardie forum.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-10 21:47:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
Why is everyone posting under two seperate threads. This is so confusing..........
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-10 21:34:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
Sus here it is: http://www.shoptvja.com/



LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-10 11:29:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
Sus , there is a similar site like ebay in Jamaican also. When I find that site I will post it here.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-10 11:14:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
1luv, it's just going to be ME and our LOVe songs. Small but in volume alot.

Edited by RoxcieJoe, 10 February 2009 - 11:02 AM.

LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-10 11:01:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
Thanks Islandwoman, and yes no one but Joel will know that I am in Jamaica. I am not telling anyone, but my brother who has to baby sit for me. We are going to be staying at a Hotel in downtown Kingston for the two nights, so it will be just like we are on a date.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-10 09:35:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
I will be just going into Kingston, and he is only 20 minutes away from the airport.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-10 09:32:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
Honey I am sorry to hear that you are still sick with the flu. I decided last night to sneak into Jamaica on Friday night, and leave on Sunday, so there goes my free ticket. It maybe a short visit, but we will enjoy ourselves.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-10 09:25:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
Jakeswife they are jamming tonight..... http://876radio.com/home.html
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-08 18:49:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
QUOTE (JaHoney @ Feb 8 2009, 05:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i have the freakin FLU...does anyone have any home remedies for that cause i feel like i have a machete in my head..crying.gif



Take some thema-flu, I like the lemon flavor one,
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-08 18:00:00
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QUOTE (BELIEVE IT BABY!! @ Feb 8 2009, 05:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (RoxcieJoe @ Feb 8 2009, 04:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Shemmy and KK macr and cheese is very easy to make. 3 kind of cheese with milk and a little flour, makes it simple and easy.



dont forget an egg and some seasoning, everytime we have a family gathering thats my dish i have to make



Butter too.

LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-08 17:50:00
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QUOTE (kkholiday2006 @ Feb 8 2009, 05:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Flour?? huh.gif My recipe doesn't have flour.



KK, a little flour with milk and butter helps to thicken the melted cheese to the elbow macro.

LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-08 17:47:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
Shemmy and KK macr and cheese is very easy to make. 3 kind of cheese with milk and a little flour, makes it simple and easy.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-08 17:44:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
A full house and no one chating. Good evening ladies.......
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-08 17:42:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
Pencillin is Antibiotics are specific chemical substances derived from or produced by living organisms that are capable , and a living organsims growths fungus in wet places. That's why women get yeast infection from taking pencillin.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-08 16:19:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and Farrin (part12)
Kimmy, that why they sat drink a lot of water when taking pencillin.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-02-08 16:16:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)
QUOTE (sus @ Oct 2 2008, 06:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (RoxcieJoe @ Oct 2 2008, 06:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Ladies, I think we'll have stressed our selves out way too much on issues we know how to handle. ladies handle your business. jest.gif


We might know how to handle it - but it's always nice to have a place to vent it where you know there's a sympathetic ear that will reinforce what you did.



Sus, in my area, if I tell someone to handle their business, it means it's okay to cuss out their ###, and tell them what you want thenm to do. Sorry you didn't get this.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2008-10-02 17:29:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)
Ladies, I think we'll have stressed our selves out way too much on issues we know how to handle. ladies handle your business. jest.gif
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2008-10-02 17:24:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)
Yes, when MIL asked me for the BUTTER, did I not call him and say, baby your mama wants some Butter. He like what do you want me to do. I was like I'm asking the same thing?
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2008-10-02 17:13:00
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QUOTE (JALOVE @ Oct 2 2008, 06:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Moment o prayer needed ok. Chris just told me that his kids momma said that the girls didnt like the coats we sent last xmas they like fancy stuff headbonk.gif excuse me THEY ARE CHILDREENNNN THEY WILL WEAR WHAT I PUT ON DEM. Mind u she dont work! how ungrateful! So now he wants to send them stuff and got me lookin at some site where i would not even buy my own kid stuff from! I may not be even be into the xmas gift thing this year due to our situation right now n we will be moving and gettin settle wit the baby and finding daycare... Im all bout a bargain AJ wright ross walmart target baby depot. He will stop work soon when we move n it will be one income again so he wants to buy them stuff NOW hmmmm i do wanna do for them as well thats just me BUT i feel we need get ourselves on track for goodnes sake we aint even got a home yet! in a month or so we will be in TX startin over what is his problem! !!!!! First is was mommas false teet. Someone chime in correct me if im wrong.....




JaLove, I have a new statement for everybody that wants me to bring/buy them something. It's if Joel buys it for you can have it. So he just kiss teeth and walks away. I say, talk to Joe and he will tell you our decision.

Edited by RoxcieJoe, 02 October 2008 - 05:07 PM.

LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2008-10-02 17:06:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)
Sol, sorry about the ear infection....change of weather.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2008-10-02 17:02:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)
I was sitting here watching the news, so 9pm is the magic hour, for the debate. Honey, it must be something in the water, because last night Joe call me with this stupid conversation. Plus, I had such an headache, I couln't focus on his conversation.

Then this morning, he is sending me text messages about Hi I love you. I don't know what was going on ....
Then he has called me all day long, because he knewthis wass my work from home day. i asked him did I need to come to JA in Oct, he said no...Nov will be okay.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2008-10-02 17:00:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)
Kimmey, that is so right, jump in the nothing to declare line. If you are married jump in the resident line when you are going thru customs in JA.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2008-10-02 16:33:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)
Hey, I got search in Kingston, when I was returning, but I thought it was because they had seen Joel and I opened up my suitcase outside to put somemore things in it from my carry-one bag. His mother had given me some liquid vanilla to send to my BIl in FLL. I forgot to put all of the bottles in, so when my carry-on went thru the scanner, they picked it out. So I told the lady sorry, forgot to put this one in my bag.


The same happen to me in the Bahamas, i brought some 100 proof rum, had scrape the label off, because I was not told until I had gotten to the airport, that you can not bring it out of the country. I had to hand that over.

Edited by RoxcieJoe, 02 October 2008 - 04:15 PM.

LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2008-10-02 16:13:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)
SUNNY, SPIRIT HAS THEIR $9 AND $33 FOR THE NEXT 33HOURS SPEACIAL GOING ON NOW.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2008-10-02 14:12:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)
Marlita, I see you have booked your flight, that should take some pressure off of you now.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2008-10-02 13:52:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)
Sunny, I don't thinkl the dogs will sniff it out as ganga.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2008-10-02 13:38:00