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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part18)
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When I first join VJ, I was glad for the topics that were being discussed about the support your SO or husband would need once he has join you here in the US. I believe in returning what was offered to me. My husband has been here 2 weeks now, so I will share a lilttle what I have experienced.

1. As far as supporting your husband at his interview, I found that if you the wife is there, the interviews can be alot less stressful for the husband. This is a life changing event, and being there with him, shows your support to the person who will be interviewing you. But, again this is a personal choice.

2. Having unlimited time for your SO or husband once he has arrived here. I find that they do feel like they are fish out of the water, but the man in them will not allow them to tell you that. So, you must have alot of patient and you must spend alot of time with them.

3. Those of you who are in school and have kids may find this to be a balancing act.

4. Everyone may have some type of adjustment issues, but they may not be the same as your fellow VJ. Borden seems to be the biggest issue of all.


borden? wha dis mean?





I am sure you knew what I was trying to say, but sense you did understand, the typo was bored. This is exactly why I have stopped posting, because the stuff that some of you need to focus on, you are not focusing on.


Roxcie



ok mom

wha exactly mi need to focus on?




Finess, you don't need to focus on a thing, GF you have it all under control. I am sure life in your part of town is JUST GREAT.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-09-02 09:13:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part18)
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When I first join VJ, I was glad for the topics that were being discussed about the support your SO or husband would need once he has join you here in the US. I believe in returning what was offered to me. My husband has been here 2 weeks now, so I will share a lilttle what I have experienced.

1. As far as supporting your husband at his interview, I found that if you the wife is there, the interviews can be alot less stressful for the husband. This is a life changing event, and being there with him, shows your support to the person who will be interviewing you. But, again this is a personal choice.

2. Having unlimited time for your SO or husband once he has arrived here. I find that they do feel like they are fish out of the water, but the man in them will not allow them to tell you that. So, you must have alot of patient and you must spend alot of time with them.

3. Those of you who are in school and have kids may find this to be a balancing act.

4. Everyone may have some type of adjustment issues, but they may not be the same as your fellow VJ. Borden seems to be the biggest issue of all.


borden? wha dis mean?





I am sure you knew what I was trying to say, but sense you did understand, the typo was bored. This is exactly why I have stopped posting, because the stuff that some of you need to focus on, you are not focusing on.


Roxcie

LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-09-02 09:06:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part18)
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When I first join VJ, I was glad for the topics that were being discussed about the support your SO or husband would need once he has join you here in the US. I believe in returning what was offered to me. My husband has been here 2 weeks now, so I will share a lilttle what I have experienced.

1. As far as supporting your husband at his interview, I found that if you the wife is there, the interviews can be alot less stressful for the husband. This is a life changing event, and being there with him, shows your support to the person who will be interviewing you. But, again this is a personal choice.

2. Having unlimited time for your SO or husband once he has arrived here. I find that they do feel like they are fish out of the water, but the man in them will not allow them to tell you that. So, you must have alot of patient and you must spend alot of time with them.

3. Those of you who are in school and have kids may find this to be a balancing act.

4. Everyone may have some type of adjustment issues, but they may not be the same as your fellow VJ. Borden seems to be the biggest issue of all.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-09-02 08:46:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part18)
QUOTE (Bunzarelli @ Sep 1 2009, 08:15 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ok maybe i need to take a break from vj too
i just looked on igor's list and saw ANOTHER june filer approved
i'm annoyed, i don't care if june is not that far from may blah blah blah
i need a break
me will see onoo tomorrow if anything




Bunz, don't worry it will soon come. I remember my time in this same holding pattern that you are now face with. Just get working on having all of your documents and funds ready, because when it hit NVC, that's where you can control the time for processing. When it's at USCIS, it's really out of your control.

IT will soon come.

Kimmy, I never received any raffle tickets, where any mailed to me?
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-09-01 08:22:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaLost in The Mail
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QUOTE (lmt16 @ Sep 16 2009, 03:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hello All now that our interview letter is in the mail we have yet to recieve it. I called the Department of State for the date of interview and it is next week. We need this letter and it has not come to my fiancee as of yet.I have requested an e-mail copy from the embassy(2x) in which I have not gotten a response
Any Advice DOS said they dont have a copy



wait...how did you do his medical without the interview letter?



TRE, GOOD QUESTION.....
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-09-17 13:22:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Charity
So. does anyone have the capability to set up such a chat room for this project? That would be most helpful, and we can start by setting up a meeting date/time for that chat room. Kimmy do you agree with this?
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2008-11-24 16:19:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Charity
Hey ladies, I know we might be talking about doing this meeting durning the working hours, but won't we be more productive if we can chooe a time that might work for all the time zones. I will be able to work with any time zone as long as my wireless wii is working from Jamaica.

I do agree we should start small, and progess as time goes on and more VJ join the project to something bigger.

I don't have a problem with being an officer or maybe a project lead.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2008-11-24 14:01:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Charity
Kimmy, I'm on board, just let me know the date and time for the chat.

Roxcie-Joe
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2008-11-21 17:33:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies filing for K-1 Visas
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Great Jawi, that date is right around the corner.


Thanks! I know! I was actually thinking it would be the end of June. I guess I should have been more specific in my request...not that I'm complaining in any way! kicking.gif

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How far are you with NVC?

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Yay!!!!!!!!!! Congratulations Jawi! That's awesome!! This is a great short cut. Did they email you packet 4 or did you actually get it in the snail mail? You are only 3 days after me! This is going to be a GREAT week (atleast for us!).

Will you be able to go to the interview? I know you are still in a lot of pain.


I won't be at the interview. My doctor will be providing me with an excuse for travel. I will scan it in and email it to him. I just knew that there had to be a better way with the Kingston Embassy. So many other Embassies are much faster than Kingston with scheduling the interview. Now, we have a shortcut to save a month or two or three. LOL




We are waiting for NVC to generate the AOS bill for the 400 dollars payment, then e will send in his passport and police record information. I have everything ready to be mailed and the mone waiting to be paid. I am okay with a July date, because I want to go back to Jamaica for a week, then like you, we wnat to go back home for Christmas.


Oh okay...so you are almost at the finish line too. How is Mrs. Palmer doing?



Mrs. Palmer is probably right along side with me, but she isn't rushing because she doesn't want an interview date until late Sept or eary Oct.

LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-05-21 13:40:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies filing for K-1 Visas
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Great Jawi, that date is right around the corner.


Thanks! I know! I was actually thinking it would be the end of June. I guess I should have been more specific in my request...not that I'm complaining in any way! kicking.gif

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Yay!!!!!!!!!! Congratulations Jawi! That's awesome!! This is a great short cut. Did they email you packet 4 or did you actually get it in the snail mail? You are only 3 days after me! This is going to be a GREAT week (atleast for us!).

Will you be able to go to the interview? I know you are still in a lot of pain.


I won't be at the interview. My doctor will be providing me with an excuse for travel. I will scan it in and email it to him. I just knew that there had to be a better way with the Kingston Embassy. So many other Embassies are much faster than Kingston with scheduling the interview. Now, we have a shortcut to save a month or two or three. LOL




We are waiting for NVC to generate the AOS bill for the 400 dollars payment, then e will send in his passport and police record information. I have everything ready to be mailed and the mone waiting to be paid. I am okay with a July date, because I want to go back to Jamaica for a week, then like you, we wnat to go back home for Christmas.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-05-21 11:58:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies filing for K-1 Visas
Great Jawi, that date is right around the corner.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-05-21 11:01:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
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QUOTE (RoxcieJoe @ Oct 7 2009, 09:56 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Jawi, I had typed a whole page responds to you, then I decided that I didn't need to explain my self to you. You think what you want, I will say to JG, that all I did in my second resonds to her, was explain what I was saying, after she asked me the question.

All I can do is sit here and shake my head at your post. Be weary of judging...........


I'm happy to see we agreed on one thing. I continue to shake my head at your posts...as do a lot of other people on the thread. Your comments are comical at best...and make absolutely no sense...notwithstanding the grammatical errors. I probably wouldn't have been able to decipher half of the page you typed anyway. C'est la vie! whistling.gif good.gif



Jawi, since you have designated yourself the spokeperson for those on this board, Again I say be weary of judging....

MY God bless you in your continuous journey.....
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-10-07 09:14:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
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JG, you have said it correctly, it's later rather than sooner. Ending a relationship without legal ties is easier than ending one with legal ties.


easier technically (paperwork) but not necessarily emotionally..
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my break up w/ rg was MUCH harder to deal w/ than my divorce
..its just not always true for everyone.. so now im not married to the love of my life and we are denied, i should just dust myself off and move on? at least i wasn't married to him??
i know u probably didn't mean it this way hun, but its something u say a lot, maybe not realizing it..



Q, why don't we look at the number of relationship went enter into, they break-up and we move on to the next. Compare that the number to the number of marriages we enter into. When I use the pronoun (We) I mean the universa of people. Every relationship does not turn into a marrage, therefore a marriage does have stronger emotional commitments, than a non-married relationship.

So, Q, if your break -up w rg was MUCH harder to deal w/than my divorce, why does things your ex do, get next to you so much? Just asking, since you made the statement. Please don't explain yourself, becuse you owe noone not even me, an explanation of your feelings. Again, this is my observation from your posting....


You just don't get it Roxcie. We see women entering into marriages with Jamaican men that they have known for 1 week. Are you seriously saying that because they said vows they had stronger emotional commitments? Please! Take that WEAK argument somewhere.

Sorry Q...I know you can handle this one...but I have to say it. Q is upset by things her ex does because she has children with him...and his stupidity affects the moral well being of her children. Any good mother will be upset when the father of their children is not acting in a way that uplifts and positively teaches their children.

You posted that Joel lived here with you...so why is he having such a hard time adjusting to the States now...just an observation from your postings. Do you see how ludicrous your statement to Q was? I think I better get ready for work...before I really loose my composure and all sense of decorum.

Yuh nuh easy star. Beer phuckery yuh ah chat mi gyal. mad.gif



go jawi!! good.gif ding ding ding

Happy Hump Day!!!

Can't wait to hear the GREAT news Mrs. P!!!!!




Jawi, why are you speaking for Q, my comment was to her, she may think she was over her marrage breaking up, but she is still going thru some emotional part of that break-up. Q, again, I was not asking why are you upset at the actions your ex extend toward his children, my question was why does those things your ex- do toward you bother you. But again Q, forget I even post the question, it was a question I would have asked you if you were sitting or standing right here in front of me. It was not a question to say, hey look at your relationship, it was a question being asked to enable us to ask another question, so we could have gotten on the same page.

Jawi, the answer to your question, my husband just like any one who have left there family, was homesick. To be clear to YOU, my husband has adjusted just fine to being here in the US. If he had not shown signs of missing his family, I would have to wonder.....



LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-10-07 09:10:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
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Bunnzarelli, I know the stress for a CR1 is different than the stress for the K1. It was like if they didn't approve my husband what ws I going to do. But I will say if you follow the James short cut, everything works out just fine.



I guess I am taking this wrong cause reading it I'm saying ####### Roxie. What would K-1 people do if they weren't approved? Same thing CR1 would do........move to JA or do a LDM.

I think you are saying it's because you are already married. But, in truth, the K-1 would do exactly the same thing. There is still the commitment...just later rather then sooner in the filing process.



QUOTE (RoxcieJoe @ Oct 6 2009, 05:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
JG, you have said it correctly, it's later rather than sooner. Ending a relationship without legal ties is easier than ending one with legal ties.


Thank you JG and Quana for attempting to explain that a "process" does not make or break a true relationship. Roxcie just when I think you may be okay...you go and type something so insensitive...and excuse my french IGNORANT that I don't even have the strength to shake my head. I am a K1 filer that has been in a LOVING COMMITTED relationship for 5 years...my relationship would not end simply because the government said no. We would have figured out another course of action to give our love and relationship a fighting chance. Are you really saying that if you were denied, you would walk away from Joel...and your biggest worry is the legal ramifications of severing ties? WOW...and we wonder why the divorce rate is so high.

Your pain and mental anguish was no harder than any of the other people waiting to be reunited with their loved ones...married or not. Believe that.

Not one single solitary aspect of this process is easy for anyone concerned...how narcissistic of you! You may be able to have a cheerleading section in the CR1 forums with this backwards...nonsensical way of thinking...but I for one am sick of it. Get over yourself and the fact that YOU CHOSE to get married first and live separately from your husband. The processing time is clearly spelled out that it will be longer for spouses instead of fiance's...wayyyy before you made the MATURE ADULT decision to go with the longer of the two. You opted to marry prior to filing...and that reason was yours and Joel's...it is respected here. So why not give other couples that make the best decision for their situation the same respect?

I'm so tired of people thinking that their individual situation is far worse or more important than the next person. Man...I said I wouldn't do this again...but I had to get that off my chest. What happened to comradarie and having a little compassion for the rest of the yardie women that did decide to file K1? Then you had the nerve to thumb your nose at JG (another K1 filer). GEEEZZZZ!!!

Do me a favor when you try to respond...please use spell check first so I don't have to ask you to clarify your response.




Jawi, I had typed a whole page responds to you, then I decided that I didn't need to explain my self to you. You think what you want, I will say to JG, that all I did in my second resonds to her, was explain what I was saying, after she asked me the question.

All I can do is sit here and shake my head at your post. Be weary of judging...........

LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-10-07 08:56:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
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QUOTE (RoxcieJoe @ Oct 6 2009, 04:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
JG, you have said it correctly, it's later rather than sooner. Ending a relationship without legal ties is easier than ending one with legal ties.


easier technically (paperwork) but not necessarily emotionally..
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my break up w/ rg was MUCH harder to deal w/ than my divorce
..its just not always true for everyone.. so now im not married to the love of my life and we are denied, i should just dust myself off and move on? at least i wasn't married to him??
i know u probably didn't mean it this way hun, but its something u say a lot, maybe not realizing it..



Q, why don't we look at the number of relationship went enter into, they break-up and we move on to the next. Compare that the number to the number of marriages we enter into. When I use the pronoun (We) I mean the universa of people. Every relationship does not turn into a marrage, therefore a marriage does have stronger emotional commitments, than a non-married relationship.

So, Q, if your break -up w rg was MUCH harder to deal w/than my divorce, why does things your ex do, get next to you so much? Just asking, since you made the statement. Please don't explain yourself, becuse you owe noone not even me, an explanation of your feelings. Again, this is my observation from your posting....
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-10-07 08:34:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
JG, you have said it correctly, it's later rather than sooner. Ending a relationship without legal ties is easier than ending one with legal ties.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-10-06 16:00:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
kingston <consularkingst@state.gov>;


Try this
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-10-06 15:48:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
consularkingston@state.gov

Try this, i think you were missing one letter the o in Kingston
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-10-06 15:42:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
Bunnzarelli, I know the stress for a CR1 is different than the stress for the K1. It was like if they didn't approve my husband what ws I going to do. But I will say if you follow the James short cut, everything works out just fine.

Edited by RoxcieJoe, 06 October 2009 - 03:23 PM.

LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-10-06 15:23:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
Bunzarelli, how are you holding up? When you get this far into the process, everything starts to take a toll on you.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-10-06 15:13:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
Bunn, why do you need a non- Impediment form? Isn't this the form to say that you aren't married to anyone?

Sorry, Bunn, I see it's JP who's So is trying to get this form.

Edited by RoxcieJoe, 06 October 2009 - 02:32 PM.

LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-10-06 14:31:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
Good Luck to Mrs. Palmer and her husband on their interview for tomorrow.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-10-06 14:16:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
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Explain what the hell it even means please.


There may be a faster way to have "his" signature on the forms than sending them to him to sign.


Thanks Nat. Someone else beat you to the punch in explaining it to me; but i appreciate you as well.

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All I have to say to that is that is the stupidest fcuking idea I ever heard in my life. On official government forms that will follow him throughout the whole process..... I seriously can't say anything more about it cause I am cussing up a storm.



yea i kinda have to agree with that
but there are alot of ppl who probably do it and get away with it




JG, I agree with you totally on this, it seems like ppl wait until the very last moment to take care of these issues when they know going into the process that this stuff needs to be done.


LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-10-06 10:16:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
Philly, they are talking about your man, JJ.

http://www.visajourn...h...=221442&hl=

Don't let them get away with this. jest.gif jest.gif jest.gif jest.gif rolleyes.gif
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-10-05 10:28:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
I was trying to say confess to Hubbies stamina, from eating fish eyeballs.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-09-30 16:16:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
Now Philly, why aren't you confusing to the stamina, that the eyeballs are giving to your hubby.

Edited by RoxcieJoe, 30 September 2009 - 04:13 PM.

LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-09-30 16:12:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
Hey Bunzarelli, it's getting close for the end of your journey.

So, Nat how have Steve's 1st week been?
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-09-30 16:07:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
JaPrincess, why don't you just send the doc to your So, and he can have it ready to delivery when your case has moved on from AP.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-09-30 15:15:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
Good afternoon,

Edited by RoxcieJoe, 30 September 2009 - 02:53 PM.

LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-09-30 14:52:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
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Trelawny, Joel and I was in SS and Wheaton over the weekend, to visit some friends of his, and Joel told me that he really liked that area, better than where we presently live. He says it is too quite in our neighborhood.


move on over...I don't care for Wheaton that much anymore, area use to be more culturally rich, but not like that anymore. You should have come up a little further...I was frying fish outside yesterday.




Trelawny, I was glad he was able to connect with some more yardie's. It also gave him a sense of how multi-culturally rich our surrounding area is.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-09-28 14:16:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
Trelawny, Joel and I was in SS and Wheaton over the weekend, to visit some friends of his, and Joel told me that he really liked that area, better than where we presently live. He says it is too quite in our neighborhood.




LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-09-28 14:08:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
QUOTE (NatPatBen @ Sep 28 2009, 02:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
JaP, that was a good analogy (the boat one) that the person stuck in AP posted.

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yuh belly a get big now?


yes, it get bigger every day girl...


That reminds me.. We watched "Knocked Up" last night (unrated version) and
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I found the birth scene WAY too graphic. I commented that it makes one think twice about having a baby and having a natural birth.
Watching it seemed to have the opposite effect on Steven, though. He kept rubbing my belly as if I were pregnant and talking about how "we" will have a natural birth instead of a C-section, so that when I get slim enough to wear a two-piece ( rofl.gif ) I won't have a scar.



Nat, women have been giving births this way since the beginning of time, it seems to work just fine and it has not scared anyone away from going thru it twice or twenty times.

BTW, a C-section can be done as a binki line cut too.

Edited by RoxcieJoe, 28 September 2009 - 01:55 PM.

LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-09-28 13:50:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
Mrs. P...... THINGS ARE GOING TO BE JUST FINE. STOP THE NEGATIVE THINKING.....

LOVE U
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-09-28 12:09:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
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ok y'all here's a story whistling.gif

my brother-in-law just found out his wife had a baby earlier this year and he has not seen her in almost two years so he calls her and she says she cheated because she heard he had a woman out there....anyways his file is at the NVC stage and he sent the $400 to pay for his visa i called just now and guess what?...awaiting payment..he's asking me to help him he will send me the money to pay for it... unsure.gif ?????




MsSheka, I leave you with a piece af advise that my father always tells me, don't get involve in married folks business. They are married, let them work it out.



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my hubby says the same thing but i feel so bad for him unsure.gif




Listern to your hubby.... he knows more than you may know

LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-09-28 10:25:00
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QUOTE (MsSheka @ Sep 28 2009, 11:16 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ok y'all here's a story whistling.gif

my brother-in-law just found out his wife had a baby earlier this year and he has not seen her in almost two years so he calls her and she says she cheated because she heard he had a woman out there....anyways his file is at the NVC stage and he sent the $400 to pay for his visa i called just now and guess what?...awaiting payment..he's asking me to help him he will send me the money to pay for it... unsure.gif ?????




MsSheka, I leave you with a piece af advise that my father always tells me, don't get involve in married folks business. They are married, let them work it out.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-09-28 10:18:00
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mstee, please keep this in mind all parties involved are sworned in at the interview, so anything that you present at the interview is to be considered under a sworn testimorial.



Roxie; are you talking about her letter as to why she's unable to attend?



Tre, if it's just a why I can't attend letter, then she may be fine, but if it's anything in there about the relationship then they will prefer it to be under the sworn statement.



Okay...you know only on VJ I know of people not gettting through with the K-1 w/o the fiancee/fiance being there. Ms.tee prayers your way...



Tre, what I noticed when we went for our interview, there was no set pattern in how they were conducting the interviews. They didn't ask us for one photo, but they asked for proof of phone records, which we had. Both of us were sworn in, and inetrviewed separately. Note, we had been married almost 2 years at the time of the interview and had known each other for almost 3 years.

LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-09-28 10:14:00
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mstee, please keep this in mind all parties involved are sworned in at the interview, so anything that you present at the interview is to be considered under a sworn testimorial.



Roxie; are you talking about her letter as to why she's unable to attend?



Tre, if it's just a why I can't attend letter, then she may be fine, but if it's anything in there about the relationship then they will prefer it to be under the sworn statement.

LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-09-28 10:06:00
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mstee, please keep this in mind all parties involved are sworned in at the interview, so anything that you present at the interview is to be considered under a sworn testimorial.



I don't understand where you are going with this statement, Rox.



JG, I was answering her back regarding my statement that the Embassy, don't look at letters presented at the interview with alot of power...can't think of the right word right now. It's because they wants everything that is presented to them to be presented under the levegae of a sworn statement.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-09-28 10:01:00
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mstee, please keep this in mind all parties involved are sworned in at the interview, so anything that you present at the interview is to be considered under a sworn testimorial.
LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-09-28 09:47:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
Congratulations Marie......

Mrs. P, the same day pick up must be very new, because Joel had to go back the next week for his pick up.

Do he need to have his results this fast, if not I would advise him to not have them to rush any thing.

To all of those who are sending letters with yopur SO, I hope you don't have your hope up too high that they will be read. What I witness was if you are not in attendance than they will base everything on what your SO has to say.

Edited by RoxcieJoe, 28 September 2009 - 08:28 AM.

LIFE'SJOURNEYFemaleJamaica2009-09-28 08:27:00