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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies a home and a farrin (Part 23)

I was wondering that, too, before Sus explained. That HAS to be frustrating.

Sus, did they forewarn you of this? We had mandatory meetings a month ago where they told us not to expect raises this year. I was just glad I got mine at the end of last year, before the raise freeze.


No warnings, just rumors - I wouldn't have a problem with it if it were across the board - but execs are getting their bonuses - I am sorry, bonuses should be cut BEFORE the raises - at the very least it should have been an across the board cost of living increase - My manager is great though, just the company sucks - although we talked about pushing through my re-eval (2 years past due) and I told him today that I want to meet with HR - because they said that 20% of my duties must fall outside of my current description to justify it - About 95% of my duties are outside of my job description, so I want to sit down and go through line by line and then let them justify why my job hasn't changed.

Interestingly enough, I got two recruiter calls today :devil:
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-19 18:54:00
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Sus, how are you feeling today? Better hopefully.


Not better, Ells, thanks for asking - bout to take my grumpy butt home to bed, lol
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-19 14:59:00
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sus is the 1 good or bad???
here 1 is bad, but i really don't think you would get a bad rating
so i guess you p o'd cuz u got a good rating but still no raise right???


The 1 is the best here - and next to impossible to get - If you do everything you are supposed to do at your job and do it well, you get a 3 (out of 5) - 2s mean you went above and beyond - Maybe 100 people in the entire company get a 1 (over 35000 employees)- this is the second year in a row I have gotten a 1 - and no friggin raise - But the big wigs are still getting their bonuses - total BS
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-19 14:59:00
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My mother would not be calling too late or early - she is old school - if my phone rings after 9:30 pm she asks who is calling so late!
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-19 14:55:00
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Okay, I am going home before my day gets any worse -

Don't feel well - got my review today - a 1 rating, which is unheard of - 2nd year in a row - but, oops, guess what - no raises this year!

Then our document indexer went down - the tech person isn't here so I was getting bombarded with calls - fixed it - then get a panicked call from her asking what's wrong - Told her what I did - then she sends an email that I shouldn't touch the indexer without letting her know - then bytch, get your butt to the office!
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-19 14:53:00
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healing in the Name of Jesus

what have you taken for it?


Rum and stone ginger wine
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-19 14:06:00
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susFemaleJamaica2010-02-19 13:21:00
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Shemmy, how are you doing ? The kids are in school, so I am just surfing the internet until someone shows up, beside the rooster and the Billy goat. Other wise things are great. It is so Hot here today, I can smell the chicken being cooked for tonight.


Ah, Roxcie, you just brought a flood of good memories!

One thing I don't understand though is why JA roosters don't seem to get what time it is? They crow all hours of the night!
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-19 12:21:00
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hey Sunny, Girl right now I'm just on top of the world. I can't wait to go pick up my baby :dance: :dance: :dance:


So happy for you!!
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-19 09:52:00
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well my ring came back in time for the wedding ..we were told march 8th they came in yesterday.. i am so grateful... thank god


Glad your ring came in!
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-19 09:24:00
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Morning all!

hello, I am currently trying to get my fiance a visiting visa to come the U.S. for my graduation. I was originally consdering a fiance visa but we are waiting to schedule our marriage to when both of our families will be able to attend. I am foreign myself but hold a U.S. passport.

I currently stay at my university. Is this a problem for my invitation letter? I can give them my phone number, but would I need to give a residential address? I have a friend off campus he could stay with for a few nights but is that necessary? he would be here for about one week.

Please help, I graduate this May 2010 and would love for him to be here. I have no idea how to go about this, what I need to do etc.... and I know it's a stretch. Thank you


Getting a visitor visa is the luck of the draw - he has to prove substantial ties to JA and an intent to return - and what those ties are is up to the interviewing officer, cause we have seen people with nothing get through, and people with everything get denied - Your invitation letter for your fiance, honestly, could be an issue - because seeing that he has a fiance in the US could prove intent to immigrate.

the medical exam was completed feb 18. im thinking bout the feb 25 interview.


A little excited, jamwifey? So happy for you!

Goodmorning yardies, wish everyone a good friday and a great week.
This is my last weekend alone and I'M HAPPY. No more shopping alone, cleaning alone, sleeping alone. Ok that's enough. I got him a jacket lastnight for $28 on sale @ Macy's :dance:


Great deal!
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-19 07:34:00
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I've asked this before but we have new folks in her now, does it bother you when we call you "YANKS" or "YANKEE"


Absolutely you Southern redneck! :rofl: :rofl:
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-18 15:21:00
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My husband is like that too. Didn't even really acknowledge his Valentine's Day gift. I bought him a bracelet and matching ring and a soccer ball.. He just mumbled.. Thank you, glory be to Jah Rastafarin..etc... etc.. :unsure: No sexy party nothing!!!!


I got a t-shirt with a Jamaican flag that says "It's a yaad ting, yuh nah go overstand" - Just about killed him :whistle: :bonk:

Then on the actual day I got earrings :rofl:
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-18 14:48:00
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That we don't jointly pay bills. Not a cofirm believer in "our" money. Plus I didn't add him to my account...the one that I had for many years and worked to establish..that one.

A former VJer asked me how we bills pays and I broke it down...he pays cable, house phone, electric internet, 1/4 of rent, his cell phone....well he was making less than $10/ hour...I was told he pays wayyyyyyyy too many bills :blink: They would hate me now cuz he pays alot more. But these are the bills HE picked out in our agreement.

I can be here on all day about his money thing but I don't want to offend anyone. But I seen too many women passing through his thread who will not make their men responsible for household bills.



Shem - What works for one isn't always what works for another - and you two are a true testament to making it through the hard times and the adjustments and coming out stronger on the other side -
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-18 14:11:00
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susFemaleJamaica2010-02-18 13:23:00
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dat why she ave shades pon har eyes pon di pitcha dem?????



Girl, I noticed that too :rofl: :blush: ...but I thought it was from all the sunshine



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susFemaleJamaica2010-02-18 12:43:00
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Thanks Sus! You are right anything is possible and I just have to pray and hope for the best. I know you know exactly what I am going through and believe me I may start leaning on you.



I am here anytime you need! Lean away!
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-18 12:27:00
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:angry: When will it stop :wow:


JQ, I found an outfit to go with your boots!

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Just kidding
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are those splifs or doolies?



Mi nah smoke neida!
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-18 12:22:00
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well, did yah! :rofl: :crying: :rofl:


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susFemaleJamaica2010-02-18 12:17:00
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That really is funny. This might be too personal but once he did get the feeding tube did he pass away shortly after? Just trying to prepare for the worst I guess.


They ended up not doing the feeding tube, Dills - My Dad was too bad off at that point and his organs had already started shutting down - I have a friend who went through cancer treatment and ended up with a feeding tube - she is still here and kicking, they reversed the tube and she is back to eating.

I understand exactly what you are feeling, it sucks - no easy way to put it - But the feeding tube does not necessarily mean the end - As long as he has the will to fight, anything is possible.
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-18 12:15:00
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You mussah wan dead....I DARE you to give it to him!

I still think MAGNUM spell like GOAT piss.

Sheka ... no rum cream for you :angry: -- u might hurt someone



LMAO - I got told that this trip :whistle:
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-18 12:10:00
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Here is an update on Billy boy...he is back in the hospital to get a feeding tube. He has been eating but not enough and he is now down to 110lbs. Last night they also gave him 3 pints of blood. When I hear anything else I will let you all know. Once again thanks for all your prayers.


Oh, Dillon, I am sorry to hear that - sending prayers.

Story about the feeding tube that hopefully will make you laugh - When my Dad was in the hospital, they were talking about putting one in - I went to the hospital, and his white board said he was scheduled for a colonoscopy - I asked him why he was having that, he told me it was the feeding tube - Ummmmm................... nope, Dad - not unless they intend to feed you up your azz!
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-18 12:10:00
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"SUNNY with a chance".. lol.. my kids watch that show on disney.. everytime i say ur name, i think of it!!
but anyway.. sunny.. mista is going for his drug test w/ HOME DEPOT today!!!!!
Let me give ya'll another praise report!!
i was off from work monday for prez day right.. well roger was moping around cuz things are just rough right now for the kids in JA, he don't have much money to send, same story.. he even tried to sell his movado watch but couldn't get a decent price..
so i dreaded it, but i got up w/ him and went and did some applications.. (UGGGHHH i was kind of mad cuz it seems im always doing SOMETHING on my day off, i wanted to rest, but anyways, of course i did not show him my frustration, thats my BABAY!!!)
we filled out the home depot app, and they called us 3 hours LATER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
the HR rep asked him when did he fill out the app and when he told her, she said she couldn't BELIEVE IT!! said that ppl usually take 6 WEEKS or MORE to get called back..
i told roger that the prayers of the righteous availeth much!!! the yardies had lifted you up in prayer my bwoy!!!
now you need fi go to church more than once a month!!! LOL


i remember the donut incident too.. i told roger bout it, cuz he seems to love donuts too LOL



Home Depot is a GREAT company to work for, Q - they promote and train from within - One of my cousins started with them as a floor sales person about 8 years ago - HS diploma only - he's now a regional manager making 6 figures - My other cousin has been with them (in TX, actually) for a few years now, and he has been promoted up too -
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-18 11:21:00
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Hey Tam yes girl we having a ball LOL last night we were supposed to go to Weddy Weddy but we come in like old folks and fell asleep LOL

Sus I hope you feel better too, I am still working my way through all your pics and I love the haircolor :thumbs:



LMAO - we do that all the time too - best intentions to go out, then we fall sleep and wake up at 3 am!

Thanks - I like the haircolor, but it's not light enough yet, lol

I know it was postponed from January but wasn't sure when it was rescheduled for :unsure: If it is today then JAPrincess we waiting to hear the wonderful news!!! :dance: :dance: :dance:



She posted on FB that they were going to Kingston on Thurs - so I assume it's today
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-18 09:30:00
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Isn't JAPrincess's interview today?
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-18 09:17:00
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I'm sorry to hear you're not well, hope you get well soon. (F)



Oh no Sus! I hope you feel better soon...being sick is no fun at all and especially when you still have to push on through with work and all! Poe thang!


Thanks Tam and Dens


I'm not feeling well -- feel, like I got hit with a truck and I have so much to do at work. Been at work since 6:30 --

Sunny call me when u get a chance


Feel better Lawny! I feel the same - I have too much to do at work so I dragged in today - But I am in sweats, lol - they need to be grateful I am here and showered!
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-18 09:00:00
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Awwww! cheer up girl, you'll be on another vacation before you know it. :thumbs:


LOL, it's not only vacation - I came home with bronchitis - I got dressed yesterday and then said forget it - slept most of the day - today I pushed because I have meetings.
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-18 08:36:00
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Morning all! I am back at work today and so don't want to be - It took all my energy just to get dressed today :cry:
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-18 08:04:00
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Somebody help me I just got laughed at by the peanut gallery for buying these shoes last week



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they were on sale for 30$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$


I woulda laughed at you too
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-17 18:47:00
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GOD BLESS THEM

I am praying for all those who are stepping out of their comfort zones and heading to Haiti. We are a wonderful Country so yes lets all pray pray pray.And also pray after Haiti gets back on their feet they will be able to have a better life for all of them.


The posts are amazing - the one that got me was the child asking her for bubbles, cause she had brought them last trip - and having to explain to a child that waited 11 months for more bubbles that she needed the room for medication. She's an amazing girl - Her mom (my 1st cousin) died of leukemia when she was really young - She has grown up into such a wonderful, compassionate adult I am amazed every time I see her.

:lol: That's my husband. He used to wear shades 24/7 cuz his eye sockets were cold :bonk: I came home one day last week and Damien was sitting on the couch with his 3D Avatar glasses watching a basketball game :blink: :wacko: I just shook up head :no:



That's DJ too - It's gotten to the point that I always have multiple pairs of sun glasses with me, cause they "vanish" - this trip, I had to search out where at least 1 pair was to come home!
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-17 17:35:00
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My cousin is currently in Haiti - she has been working with Haiti Marycare for a few years - reading the blogs today has me in tears.

http://www.haitimarycare.org/
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-17 17:18:00
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Hey Ladies (((waving))) dillon, Dens Wifey, dancehallquana, DaDa, charandivan, sus, LadyC


Thanks everyone for the Bday wishes :wub: I really appreciate it :luv:


Sus I am rolling at the story about DJ jr that is too funny and he is a cutey pie looks just like his Dad :yes:


Happy Bday again - eat some fish and bammy for me!

Yes, he is the spitting image - before I met him I had my doubts about paternity (awful to admit, but based on the circumstances it made me wonder), then I saw him - No denying that boy!
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-17 11:39:00
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and wait just a darn minute..SUS had a ja trip that went off without a hitch.. no broke down cars, no issues WHATSOEVER.. now i know why it snowed for 2 days in Dallas!!


LMAO you know it Q - Been a long long time since I had a drama free trip - and we were all ova the island too! Well, not completely drama free - 1 speeding ticket going 90 in a 50 zone, lol - so you can't blame the snow on me!
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-17 11:37:00
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I know you had a blast. So when is your next trip? :whistle: I'm so craving a trip back...its weird I am so use to jumping on a plane at least every 3 months so now no trips for a while :crying: ...I will wait on Den to be able to travel outside of the US. There's plenty to see right here, so we'll start with GA first... :lol:


LOL, I am honestly looking forward to NOT travelling to JA so much and being able to go other spots. Not sure about the next trip yet - We're talking about going somewhere in May to get away from JA - but now the Air Jamaica sale is goofing that all up - Plus, I don't know if I can hold out till then, lol - I am trying to be good, because if I hold out I can fly to JA then we can fly together somewhere - But I have a free ticket burning a hole in my pocket!
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-17 11:27:00
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That is so good to hear sus...you really needed that.



Thanks, Dills - Yes, a drama free trip was LONG overdue! :whistle:
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-17 11:11:00
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Hi Sus! I saw a pic of you from Y.G.'s wedding...very nice pic! I need to check out your page of pics as well!


Hi Dens, Thanks! The wedding - and the whole week, was so so much fun -
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-17 10:58:00
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Yes I am. Check your PM, I sent you my E-mail address and you can look me up.


Only Dens? :cry:
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-17 10:29:00
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ya ever wanna jus slap somebody like on Moonstruck and say "snap outta of it!"


All the time!


Hey Q, Sus and Lady C how is everyone doing. Just chillin been nonstop since mawning ready to eat now.


Hey Philly, glad you are having fun! Was checking your pics out, you are on a roll! You are gonna beat out Cara and I, lol

OMG, me and Ray are in tears... :rofl: That was the funniest thing I've heard in a long damn time. Phew! Mi belly a pain mi from laugh...


It was funny, but the poor likkle boy! I was trying not to laugh, he was so upset!

That happens a lot Ells. We saw Serani and Mr. Vegas cancelled at the last min. As much as I love Serani's music, his performance was whack. I had fun with the girls though.

Congrats Den's Wifey on the nups.... All the best to you both.


Lady C, yuh get the package out huh.... :thumbs:


Vegas has been being promoted on a lot of shows lately that he never planned on doing - Promoters do this ####### all the time - or then the artists show and the promoters skip with the money, so they don't perform cause they don't get paid - then the artist gets the bad name. It's gotten to the point where I am very careful about whose shows I go to - I don't want to waste my time or money. I agree about Serani's performance, it is whack, lol

Hey - DJ thinks he knows Ray, I was showin him pics -

Hey everyone! Got back from JA yesterday. We were Approved!! Just wanted to thank everyone for their help! This site is amazing! Interview was really good, not bad at all. I will post my review this week! Thanks again!

:dance: :thumbs:


Welcome back and congrats!
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-16 18:29:00
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Hey Dens!!! I know you've heard it and Im a bit late.. but congrats! Im not on FB.. how else can I see the pics!! :whistle:


Join FB :whistle:
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-16 16:15:00
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honestly i thought he jherri curled it



LMAO - Nope, outta the shower, steals my leave in conditioner and goes -
susFemaleJamaica2010-02-16 13:25:00