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IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresAm I applying for the right visa?

I get where you're coming from but two issues will sink this ship prior to concerns about adjusting status.

1. Not going to get the student visa to begin with because of immigrant intent.
2. If not 1, then there will be no adjustment of status until AFTER the husband is living in the USA with his foreign spouse.

You can get an immigrant spouse visa while the USC spouse is living abroad but not for use to enter the USA prior to the USC spouse. The two education paths conflict. This conflict is the first thing to resolve.

Just FWIW,

We're agreeing that the Student Visa probably isn't the proper route to take and the Spousal Visa will have it's own problems (though they might be able to overcome them if the USC still has domicile in the US).

I'd think the USC's US domicile might come into question with clear plans to live overseas for 2 more years though.


Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2011-11-29 17:47:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresAm I applying for the right visa?

Considering the totality of the circumstances, the OP would not have (present tense) immigrant intent upon entry, BECAUSE her USC husband is not yet ready to live in the USA. If she can obtain a Student Visa, then that's the way to go. I have my doubts about whether she can obtain the visa when (as a part of the student visa process) she must disclose her spouse is a US Citizen.

Actually based on the OP's on earlier reply it sounds like the immigrant intent is present:

Once I'm a pending permanent resident, I can get instate tuition.
My concern is that I'm not sure if it's appropriate to file adjustment of status once I get to the U.S. with a student visa. And is it really easier to get a green card while inside the U.S.?

Actually based on the OP's on earlier reply it sounds like the immigrant intent is present:

Thanks for the link. Is the issue of domcile specific for the CR1/IR1? I ask because I know that my cousin's husband(USC) left the country shortly after they moved here and married. They were not living together when they filed for AOS and an interview was requested but my cousin was approved for her greencard after the interview.

I fully admit I don't know the specific details of CR1/IR1 but it seems like this may be just a technicality that the OP and her husband could overcome with a little research into the process. I know I've seen a few threads on here about proving domicile while living outside of the US.

The whole point of issuing a Greencard to an Alien Spouse is for them to live WITH their USC Spouse. I would guess the cousin's husband retain Domicile in the US and his absence from the country was temporary. You can be sure the question was asked during the AOS process about him living elsewhere (unless they concealed that fact).

In this case the OP's husband could return to the US to establish Domicile or maybe he technically still has domicile in the US as he's simply a student overseas. This is a question better asked of a competent immigration lawyer as a mistake here could cost a lot down the road.



Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2011-11-29 17:06:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresAm I applying for the right visa?

Is this a requirement? I know it is unusual but does it actually state somewhere that the petitioner needs to reside in the U.S. when the beneficiary moves?

Well since the purpose of the Visa is for the Alien Spouse to live with their US Citizen Spouse... Yes.

I generally only comes up in DCF Cases because by default the US Citizen is residing outside of the US.

Here is a direct link to the question & answer at the Department of State's Site.

Edited by Bob 4 Anna, 29 November 2011 - 03:44 PM.

Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2011-11-29 15:42:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresAm I applying for the right visa?
An issue with using an immigrant Visa is that the Petitioner must re-establish Domicile in the US either before or at the same time the immigrant spouse enters the US.

A problem with using a Student Visa is that technically you do have immigrant intent so entering with it and then adjusting status as the spouse if a USC is Visa Fraud.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2011-11-29 12:12:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedureswe needed your help/advice who are completed with their CR1-
Since interviews are very embassy specific I would suggest you find your way into the Philippines Regional Forum and read-up on the interview in Manila there.

You will find a mountain of useful information...
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2011-11-30 14:09:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresIR1 and IR2 seperate cases?
First of all are you talking about illegal entry or simply illegal presence in the US? They are two different things and each has its own affect on your process.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2011-12-02 10:24:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresHELP VISA NEWBIE

Huh - but the child would be a naturalized citizen, right? But without a certificate stating so? And with a green card and foreign passport? I suppose the green card is invalidated when the US passport is issued, but still, I can think of at least one situation where proof of naturalization is required.

No they're not naturalized, it's birthright... The US Passport is proof of Citizenship it trumps proof of Naturalization as the DOS recognizes the holder to be a US Citizen.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2011-12-07 23:29:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresHELP VISA NEWBIE

Also, if not already done, you need to obtain US passports for the two children. >>>>

http://manila.usemba...itizenship.html
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2011-12-07 10:37:00
PhilippinesFraud wife being removed from US

Yes. I could get divorced. But in interest of protecting my assets, I would rather see if I can get the marriage voided or annulled.

Your problem is that her US marriages are legal, just not recognized by the Philippines.

IIRC, she didn't divorce her first husband until after she was already married to her second husband, correct? That means her second husband could have got an annulment or had the marriage voided but since she secured divorces for both of her prior marriages BEFORE marrying you that makes your marriage valid and can't be voided. Annulment has certain requirements that can vary depending on where you live, look into it.

It sounds like you have a lot oa ammo to prove fraud during your divorce so protecting your assets shouldn't be much of a problem.

FWIW, in the Philippines she is still married to her first husband.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-01-24 06:49:00
PhilippinesBlended Family (step-parents/stepchildren)
Moved from Off-Topic in hopes that the OP will get more responses from others in similar situation (involving the same cultures)...
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-01-25 23:40:00
PhilippinesBlended Family (step-parents/stepchildren)

My husband is older than me for 23 years. Thank you again. It is really great to hear from you side which helps alot.

I has been my experience that Filipino parents are often times more permissive than American parents, that was a big adjustment for both of us.

Regarding the age, Anna is just 7 years older than CJ (my oldest daughter) and 15 younger than I am. I was worried that it would be difficult for CJ especially but she seemed to adjust okay.

You and you husband must both find a comfortable medium (between the two of you) for how to handle the kids and both must treat all kids the same. If you two can't be on the same page then things won't smooth out with the kids. They need to see that you and him stand together when dealing with them.

This topic might be better served moved to the PH sub-forum as I think there are a lot of cultural issues at play in this situation.

OP if you want it moved just send me a PM and I'll move it.

Edited by Bob 4 Anna, 25 January 2012 - 09:37 PM.

Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-01-25 21:36:00
PhilippinesBlended Family (step-parents/stepchildren)
We are a "blended" family, my 2 daughters (ages 19 & 16, oldest moved out last year) and her 2 sons (ages 4 & 7).

Initially she thought I was being too tough on "her" sons because I've always been stricter than her and she wasn't around when mine we young so she didn't see that they had expectations and rules also.

In the end we've both bent a little, it's called compromise.

If one of "his" children is intentionally making "your" daughter feel out of place that should be addressed but depending on the age of the kid it might not be malicious as much as just trying to make sure she doesn't lose her place in Daddy's heart and life. Kids can be very territorial!

FWIW, you both need to lose the concept of "Your Kid(s)" and "My Kid(s)". The boys are not mine biologically but I don't love them any less than my daughters. In fact I'll be filing for step-parent adoption for them before the end of the year.

Also, how much younger are you than your husband, that can be a point of contention for the kids.

Edited by Bob 4 Anna, 25 January 2012 - 05:34 PM.

Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-01-25 17:33:00
PhilippinesQuick ?
For her to get the Visa on Feb 1st 2Go would have in on either Jan 30 or 31st.

When Anna got Carlo's Visa In Dec (2011) it showed up in 2go tracking the evening before she received it.

Anna had asked about pick-up at the Embassy and was told they don't do that anymore but you can arrange with 2go to pick it up at one of their locations.

The time between Interview approval and Visa delivery is the longest few days of both of your loves but it will pass. Back in December it was taking just about 1 week from Approval at Interview to Visa in Hand with a few taking a couple of days more.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-01-26 14:53:00
PhilippinesParental consent from the other parent

Yes you must submit an NBI clearance on any name you have used. This includes previous married names.

NBI clearance on her previous married name.
NBI clearance for in your maiden name.

Alternative method
Also you can apply for new NBI clearance. Put your maiden name and make sure you indicate your other name under "also known as" or "alias".

Either on will work.

Exactly
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-01-29 20:08:00
PhilippinesParental consent from the other parent
If you're annulled and have sole legal custody then you won't need a consent letter from the father. Be ready to show the annulment order giving you full custody at your interview so that the CO can determine you don't need consent.

You'll be fine.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-01-28 17:29:00
PhilippinesParental consent from the other parent
Moved from "K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedures" as you'll get better answers here.

OP, please explain if you were married to the child's father and if so how was the marriage terminated?
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-01-27 21:47:00
Philippinesmedical
Depending on when she got the first shots St Lukes might give her the follow-up doses (it the timing is right).

Needed shots are included the cost of the Medical at St Lukes. If they can't be given due to things like pregnancy or timing for booster doses then she'll be issued a blanket waiver (you won't see a document but there will be an annotation on her Visa) so there's nothing to worry about.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-01-30 10:11:00
PhilippinesThings you found strange about the Philippines

The urine running across the sidewalk into the street was almost as interesting as ten year kids openly selling x-rated dvds from illegal street vendor stalls.

OMG! How could I forget about the public piss stalls all over Manila? Yuck, I still can't believe those things exist.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2011-07-25 16:21:00
PhilippinesThings you found strange about the Philippines
While I was there if I made eye contact with another American/Kano (or someone who just looked American) everyone assumed we knew each other. Apparently Filipinos don't publicly acknowledge the presence of others.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2011-07-25 14:33:00
PhilippinesCert of Legal Capacity to Marry Not Accepted?
The Philippine Document is a CENOMAR which is obtained from the NSO but as a US Citizen you can't get that.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2011-11-22 11:36:00
PhilippinesFilipina Fiancee Freaking Out
I'll be honest and say that Anna and I probably wouldn't have survived the K-1 process...

I'm so glad that I married her in the Philippines and we went the CR-1 route.

FWIW, she has the same RIGHTS as everyone else the moment she steps foot in the US. Residency, Driving and Working are not rights, they are privileges.

For all of the words int he world you'll never convince her of anything by words alone. Examine your actions. Are you treating her like and equal or not?

Let her do her share of the Visa process, it will be good for both of you.

Stop placing blame for everything that has gone wrong up to this point, it does nobody any good. In this case it actually is causing harm as you come off as scolding her which means that she's not your equal.

Don't EVER even joke about anything that could have been afforded if it wasn't for an expense related to this process, it devalues her.

Right now, open up your books to her. Let her see how your money flows. I did this early on for Anna and 9 months later it was still a bit of a shock after she arrived and truly realized the scope of money here.

Also, it doesn't matter if your saying any of this directly to her or not. If you're thinking of it in these terms them she's picking-up on it. You need to adjust that.

It's a sad truth that we each will end up paying for the mistakes of those we love the most. She has insecurities for reasons long before you came into her life and the inverse is also true.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-02-06 14:01:00
PhilippinesFilipina Fiancee Freaking Out

She is just a little upset because my mom said that she will help us until we can get on our feet. Also, my mom has a 4 bedroom house and she is also disabled. I thought it would be better to stay with her because she needs help. She doesn't drive, she is having issues so having her son and her future daughter in law being a nurse would be a good thing and plus all the mortgage and utilities will be split down the middle helping us save for a future on our own.

She feels that since we are both adult that we should be getting a house and being on our own because that is how she is right now. She is on her own paying for her own house so she was pushed to grow up faster than a typical filipina.

And maybe your Fiancee is a little worried that this will become the plan for the foreseeable future, that she's now your Mom's Private Nurse and can't be independent or work towards you as a couple building a future together.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-02-06 13:13:00
PhilippinesFilipina Fiancee Freaking Out
Every time I read your OP here one thing really bothers me...

There is a whole lot of HER THIS, HER THAT, ME THIS, ME THAT. I've read a few of your other posts and get the same thing...

Where is the US or WE?

In another thread you flippantly commented about using the "Paint job for your hood" money to pay DHL Fees, that in itself is nothing but taken in the larger context of your other posts (including this one) something is becoming very clear:

There is a disconnect between you and her.

If you want to fix things then fix that disconnect.

Some things I thought were odd (take no offense because I'm not judging, just commenting):

You have a Filipina ex-wife but seem to not understand Filipino culture very much.

Why would you leave a Sprint Phone that isn't activated with her? What use could it be to her, all phones in the Philippines are GSM (SIM) based.

In your thread about the FedEx shipment (went with DHL, good choice BTW), I already mentioned the money comment but there was a lot in there that just seemed like you hadn't given a lot of thought to what & why you're sending stuff to her.

For example:

The only documents you need to send her hard copies of are things like Divorce Decree, Affidavit of Support and supporting evidence that requires signatures or official seals/stamps.

Images, chat logs, etc can be printed by her for pennies on the dollar at any "Computer Shop".

This is a process that both parties should be invested in, if not then it will be 100 times more difficult than it needs to be.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-02-06 13:06:00
PhilippinesK 1 10 year Green Card

My answer: He could file for another K1 as long as he has all the required documents (i.e. divorce paper)

My personal advise for you. Get to know each other pretty well.

Agreed, but don't forget my previous reply...

He will have to include his ex in the household count for the Affidavit of Support as he's still on the hook financially for her until she naturalizes, works 40 quarters, abandons her LPR Status or dies.

Also, double agree with the bold part of the quote...
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-02-23 12:34:00
PhilippinesK 1 10 year Green Card
Assuming the OP's Fiance is the US Citizen who sponsored a K-1 4 years ago.

The US Citizen will need to include their previous spouse on the Affidavit of Support (counts towards their household size) but that's it really.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-02-21 11:42:00
PhilippinesCheap Air Tickets from Manila Philippines to USA?

I do find Expedia competitive but that is for certain airlines & route. For a lot of people Expedia would be great.

A lot of the cheaper fares I see on Expedia have multiple stops (more than 1).


The day before Thanksgiving 2009, 2 seats, 1 way from Manila to Chicago, 1 stop in China, $1,200! If I went with 2 or 3 stops I could have saved maybe $100 per ticket but it wasn't worth it especially since this was her first time flying and she had a deaf 2 year old with her.

Edited by Bob 4 Anna, 13 December 2010 - 03:23 PM.

Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2010-12-13 15:22:00
PhilippinesCheap Air Tickets from Manila Philippines to USA?
Last year (Nov 2009) I tired every site I could find even all of the ones listed here on VJ and Expedia was competitive with all of them.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2010-12-13 10:12:00
PhilippinesShipping Balikbayan Box in Chicago Area
We've always had good luck with Atlas Shippers:

Chicago
1563 Blommindale Rd
Glendale Hts, IL 60139
Agent: Ver Aquino
(630)-933-8881 (904)-214-5098

You can drop off either at their office or many local Philipino Stores. They also offer pick-up for a reasonable charge in many areas.

Edited by Bob 4 Anna, 31 October 2011 - 07:38 PM.

Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2011-10-31 19:38:00
PhilippinesBalikbayan Boxes
I'd sent my first BB (as we call them for short) Box before we even submitted the paperwork for Anna to come here.

The second one was sent in January of this year. There were no problems either time.

To ensure safe delivery I do a few things:

First I line the box with a large plastic bag and place all of the contents inside the bag which is sealed water tight before the box is sealed.

Second, I don't leave any empty space in the box. I use clothing, towels etc to fill gaps between items and make sure all outer sides are soft materials.

Third, I completely seal the box with 6 layers of clear shipping tape.

Fourth, I run two bands of strapping tape around the box in each direction.

All of this protects the contents from other things causing leaking or crushing damage. Additionally the excessive amount of outside tape makes it impossible for the integrity of the box to be "accidentally" compromised as I have heard stories of BB Boxes arriving with a broken or ripped side and half of the canned goods missing.

I've sent electronics, canned goods, scuba diving gear, medical supplies etc with no problem.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2010-04-04 11:58:00
PhilippinesPregnancy issue for K-1 Visa

She kept insisting that she needs to come a little early before she become 6 months pregnant based on what the Consular Officer told her? Is this a fact?

Sounds like she's the one who's confused. The Consular Officer probably mentioned that the Visa Validity is at most 6 months so she needs to travel before 6 months from the issue date of her Visa, nothing to do with the pregnancy.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-03-06 22:24:00
PhilippinesCR interview questions

they already have the signed affidavit of support in Manila
the $325 is required according to the form-169
"instructions for immigrant visa applicants"

US Embassy in Manila already has all of the forms needed (I-684, AOS & DS-230, IV Application) also you've already paid the associated Fees through the NVC.

On Interview day there is no need for any additional payment for CR/IR Visas.

As for getting her any documents needed for the interview, the best method is using either FedEx or DHL. I prefer DHL because they are the only carrier who doesn't simply contract to local (shady) courier services for final delivery. DHL shipments are handled by DHL from your hands to hers.


Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-03-09 16:38:00
PhilippinesWhen is the right time for Medical?
When to get the medical is kind of like a balancing act.

On one side you have the fact that the Medical Results will only be valid for 6 months and that the Visa once issued can't have a validity date beyond that of the Medical. This means that for each day prior to the interview you have the medical that is one day shorter validity period for the Visa once issued.

One the other side you have the concern that getting the medical done early will give you a head start on the Sputum Test Process if there is concern with the TB X-Ray results at the medical.

Weighing those two sides I would say determine how soon after the Visa is issued would you be planning to travel? If you know that you'll be able to travel within 3 months of issuance then there is no reason to delay the medical once you have your NVC Case Number since you're only 1 - 3 months from interview at that point (depending on if your K-1 or CR/IR-1).

If you hit the medical as soon as you have your MNL Case Number and do have to undergo the Sputum process then you've saved yourself a couple of months waiting at the cost of a shorter validity period on your Visa.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-03-12 09:08:00
PhilippinesNBI clerance
Moved from "K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedures"


Disregard the comment about "annulment less than a year ago" as the process takes a long time in the Philippines and it's not too uncommon in the Philippines for either party to not wait out the process before exploring new relationships.

Your NBI should include all names you've used or your decision will be delayed by the US Embassy while they wait for the updated document.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-03-19 15:09:00
PhilippinesStep daughters
The I-130 instructions only say to include G-325 for you and your wife. In the section about step children it doesn't mention the form.

FWIW, I included a G-325 for each of my stepsons when I petitioned them just in case and USCIS didn't seem to mind.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-04-03 09:02:00
PhilippinesBelow poverty line ..

because we both didn't know about CRBA before... Someone explained to me about CRBA just a few months ago.. We were afraid to apply CRBA, and my IR-1, because he didn't reach the 3 household income level/line.... He only reach two, which is himself and could be me or my son.. to bring in the US ...

Your son will be required to go through the CRBA process, USEM will not issue a visa to the child of a US Citizen without verifying that child's possible claim to US Citizenship.

If you try to hide the child from USCIS your attempt to immigrate your family will end in disaster and a possible lifetime entry ban for you.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-04-02 15:34:00
PhilippinesBelow poverty line ..
Wait a minute, if the son is a US Citizen then he doesn't need a Visa to come to the US.

Also in this case I doubt you could simply not mention the child for the Affidavit of Support as you will both be providing support for the child so your household size will still be 3.

Has he looked into getting a Co-sponsor?
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-04-02 13:39:00
PhilippinesMarriage is breaking apart

all are my opinions based on myself and my friends. we put smileys when the situation is difficult and hurtful but funny. not serious. i just cant imagine myself leaving my husband and put smileys about it unless im looking forward for something else.

Your reply here was so much more useful to the OP and didn't sound anything like an attack.

I'm not going to defend her point by point, I don't believe I need to.

I will say that if he had concerns about his equipment working (or not) then he should be able to share that with his wife if he really does love and respect her. How can anyone justify agreeing to something (having a baby) and then rebuffing her attempts to even discuss it after they're married?

How would you feel if your husband suddenly started sleeping in a different room and just yelled at you if you even attempted to discuss it? How long would you put up with it? Since you guys are able to talk about it and work through it TOGETHER you have the kind of relationship she was obviously hoping for.

BTW, just my humble opinion the different Smileys tone changes based on context just like words can.

I do appreciate your through response to my post, thank you.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-03-29 11:49:00
PhilippinesMarriage is breaking apart

im trying to know the intent of the person that gona reply based on her story. i try to analyze words and how they say things. in this story i dont know why i want to know the other side of the story.

How knowledgeable are you about Filipinos? I mean real down-to-earth good-hearted Pinays? When I put her OP in the context of what I understand of Asian women in general and Filipinas I don't get any weird vibes, in fact it fits perfectly with what I've come to expect (in a good way).

im bothered hearing the OP keeps saying she is a good wife, does everything and all good stuff that makes the husband look bad.

Why are you bothered by this? Is it difficult for you to believe that she could be exactly as described?

i hear about this nephew and he is the only close relative, which i dont know, forgive me and i dont want to entertain the bad thoughts but reading the narration played dirty in my mind.

I don't know, it seems that if there was something going on with the Nephew (as you're implying) then she wouldn't need to be on VJ crying in from of total strangers would she?

if im in a bad situation and is being helpless and narrating my sad story i wont put smileys of crying and all that stuff.

You can't compare the Op to yourself unless you're a Filipina who married an older Kano when you were 23 and now find yourself at 28 feeling betrayed and used by the man who was supposed to love you more than anyone else.

FWIW, the "crying smileys" is the exact behavior I've seen from my wife when dealing with hurtful and difficult situations. Not only is it a very "girly" thing but even more-so a behavior I've come to expect from Filipinos (not meant in a bad way).


Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-03-29 08:57:00
PhilippinesMarriage is breaking apart
I split your post in two because I can't believe these two halves can from the same mouth (well keyboard anyway)...

As a guy who has waited over 30 months to be with his fiance, this is my advice. Enjoy your life, spend his money, sleep in your own room, go find you a new love. Then when you are ready and paperwork is all finished, divorce him and enjoy the rest of your life.

WHAT!?!?

Why should she let him turn her into something that she isn't? Even worse why should she let him turn her into a shadow of what he is?

You are seriously advising her to just bleed him dry and find a boyfriend while remaining in the marriage just for immigration benefits?

This jerk doesn't deserve you. You have given him 5 years, years that appear to have been wasted on him. It is a truly sad story but one this is always a chance when you throw your heart into the ring for love. So step back and realize that you deserve to be happy, it doesn't matter what religion you are, you deserve to be happy. He also made vows when you were wed and he has failed. Do what is best for you. That is my advice.

Completely agree with this part of your post, she needs to start protecting herself...
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-03-29 08:36:00
PhilippinesMarriage is breaking apart

1.I'm always scared to file a Divorce before my Naturalization.

2.I can't stay anymore and looking myself being miserable about our situation(breaking my heart).

Then it sounds like you need to leave now.

The negatives of leaving now (have to wait 2 more years to Naturalize and Philippines won't recognize the divorce if you are the petitioner) are not worth the damage that is being done to you...

If you're not financially independent and don't have local friends who can help you then I would suggest you reach out to your local Catholic Church, they can get you in touch with Catholic Social Services/Charities who can assist you with the divorce and rebuilding your life.
Bob 4 AnnaMalePhilippines2012-03-28 13:37:00