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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
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LAWNY..no body no waant u blasted bullie beef sandwich..when u ave stew peas nobody no hear it till yuh dun nyam..so no bodda sarry fi no body ova yah so..go gi it to the Jan/Feb filers rofl.gif


Lawd Kimmy yuh no easy! laughing.gif


Leff har alone...if she waan gi away har sandwich mek she do ie



My G_d, mi can't even blame the hormones for that piece of rudeness up dere....

Lawny,

come to her shower empty handed and bring nuff tuperware and foil paper, cause she rude

Kimmy - nuh vex wid Gill, cause she like mi better dan she like u innocent.gif innocent.gif innocent.gif innocent.gif

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LAWNY..no body no waant u blasted bullie beef sandwich..when u ave stew peas nobody no hear it till yuh dun nyam..so no bodda sarry fi no body ova yah so..go gi it to the Jan/Feb filers rofl.gif


Lawd Kimmy yuh no easy! laughing.gif


Leff har alone...if she waan gi away har sandwich mek she do ie



My G_d, mi can't even blame the hormones for that piece of rudeness up dere....

Lawny,

come to her shower empty handed and bring nuff tuperware and foil paper, cause she rude

Kimmy - nuh vex wid Gill, cause she like mi better dan she like u innocent.gif innocent.gif innocent.gif innocent.gif

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First-Time Applicant (Adults):

All first time applicants must visit the Consulate General to be interviewed by a Consular Officer and submit the following documents:

Completed passport application form
Two (2) identical non digitized colour photographs one of which should be certified by the Notary Public who signs Section G
Original Birth Certificate
Original Marriage Certificate, where applicable
Original Adoption Register, where applicable
Divorce Judgement, if applicable
If Born abroad, in addition to the Birth Certificate, please submit one of the following:

Certificate of Naturalization
Letter of Certificate of Citizenship
Certificate of Registration
In addition, ONE of the following supplementary documents must be presented:

Jamaican Driver's Licence
National Voter's Identification Card
Work Permit bearing a photograph from the country of residence
Passport from country of residence
Citizenship Certificate from country of residence
Identification indicating permanent residency
Driver's Licence from country of residence
Other identification issued by a Federal/State/City authority,
which has an expiration date (subject to approval by a Consular Officer)


First- Time Applicant (Minors):

Applicants must submit the following documents:

Completed passport application form
Two (2) identical non digitized colour photographs one of which should be certified by the Notary Public who signs Section G
Original Birth Certificate
Letter of Certificate of Citizenship, if born abroad
Original Adoption Register, where applicable
Parent's ID/Guardian's ID (along with letter of guardianship for the latter)


Kimmy---

A wah do you MEEZ dress...it look like you BREAST dem and stick out to the side...or maybe it just windy weh u deh.



she need bra, bad, mek we tek up a collection, mi will give one two dollar towards one for her
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-19 12:14:00
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thanks for the b-day wishes and cakes,

Yardie- mi scared to cut dat cake, it look like it might topple over.lol

Gill - Tinkerbell??? dat small cake can't feed all a we. and i can't see the first cake, but nuh matter still, mi ungrateful don't? lol

Gill - why are sending those forms down for ken??
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-19 11:01:00
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where is everyone??? something exciting is going on in another thread and no one invite me????


oh and by the way, yesterday was my b-day, can I get some cake???

mi feel like step child, mi haffi ask for mi own cake mad.gif mad.gif
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-19 10:05:00
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Mawnin Lawny;


What you up to girl? I just booked a trip to JA (Sunset Jamaica Grande) for June for some family and friends. They had a trip for 5 days for $686 per person, so Ray's going to stay there with me and doesn't even know it. I'm going to surprise him if I can keep my big mouth shut that long. lol

My Meez is at the airport a little early, don't you think??? laughing.gif

We booked a trip for November. We're thinking of staying a few days at Sunset JA Grande. Let me know how it is and if it's friendly for locals. You know how some places are!



From the infromation I've received already, it seems as if SJG's a good place for locals and tourists. I did hear about them being strict when it comes to people coming on the property (to the lobby area) that are not guests', but I'll have to see when I get there. I'll let you know.



Girl, they are a TOO damn strict with that. I had to cuss them out in June last year. A friend of mine was getting married and Sandals, so a lot of the guest stayed at Jamaica Grande (most of the guest were Jamaica). I had to tell off the security guard, because we walked into the town and they must of changed shift. He's going to quesition my cousins and I about how long we've been on the property. Now, we all had our wristband on. I asked him if he was damn blind and when he stood in front of us I lost it. I said, you would not treat anyone else like that so step the *&%^ off. He wanted to know when whe checked in and that he had not seen us on the property. Main reason I hate staying at resorts, I think they treat the JAMAICANS differently. At the Riu, I purchased day passes for my cousins and the guard wanted them to stay at the gate then walk up. Now, the walk from the gate to the front desk is a long A$$ walk. I said abosolutely NOT! I told them to call the front desk. Why the hell would I try to sneak people into the property, which was what the guard implied. I was so damn upset. When he checked his log, he had my cousin's names there.

I love Jamaica Grande, because everything is right there. Ochi can be a little crazy at times and I'm sure ya'll already know. Hold on to your HANDBAGS...all they have to see is the WRISTBAND and you're an instant target.



That's a shame... They reason don't have to be that strict. When I stayed at Sandcastles in February, Ray bite off our wristbands. I was like omg, what are you doing. He said we don't need people knowing where we stay. It was fine to do at Sandcastles, but probably not at any of the other resorts. I wonder what he'll do when we stay at SJG together in June...


i loved sandcastles when we stayed there!!! it is such a cute little hotel and was so close to everything that we didn't need to take a taxi we could just walk!! when i go to JA again i would stay there i really liked it better then the bigger resorts!!


I'm iffy about sandcastles, we stayed there, Pluses - they had a good resident rate and you get a whole apartment , plus u can do an all inclusive if u choose, food there was good, minuses - homegirl at the desk had an issue with mr jengles checking in, telling him ok, u bought her luggage up u can leave now, when she realized he was my husband my girl put us in an apartment with no hot water...and then didn't bother to tell us anything, where the pool was, the fact that breakfast was included in our package, just being a b!tch...of course being me, i complained we got moved and got upgraded on our plan...some locals actually live there, so i think they are a bit friendlier to locals than some places....only major drawback, pool could be a lot bigger and would prefer if the beach was actually on property instead of across the road...and it's not like mi like to swim but most time i like to pose.

Jamaica Grand - love it, of course mr jengles know most of the guys and they were happy to see him and his wife...one security guard did try to give him a hard time...but i just waved the band and kept walking
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-19 00:10:00
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i'm back, lawd what a two day, i took the baby to the doctor yesterday morning and she was SICK, took her to the daycare and then took her prescriptions to the pharmacy,got to work for about twenty minutes then I had to be taken to the emergency room where i needed to have a procedure done...please pray for me....because it is really like i can't catch a break...one of my friends told me a need a bath... blink.gif blink.gif told me i have crosses pon me...lol
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-18 23:45:00
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ladies i just came out the hospital, talk to u later
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-18 21:28:00
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Gill...mi sarry dawta...MI SARRY YARDIES AGAIN...!! devil.gif


I will accept that apology but mi nah break deh line fi it no0pb.gif laughing.gif



how yuh so wicked..mi tink mi a get a bly good.gif


Hush...mi need a good excuse fi go a New York whistling.gif laughing.gif


and coming to woop my ####### is a good one... rofl.gif rofl.gif


Well if yuh muss knoa mi ago beg fi a tour guide an place fi stay in exchange for the a$$ whooping rofl.gif



rofl.gif rofl.gif ..

and yes yuh patois is very good..figet seh yuh no born Jamaican more time good.gif

Bwoy, mi was hout fuh seh deh same ting! Yardie...mi proudda yuh! Bwoy, sometimes mi figget yuh nuh a BORN Jamaican!!! Yuh cyan TEACH Patois class now! good.gif

Love ya,
Gill

P.S.- Mi nuh blame yuh fuh nuh give har a bly... a wickid ting dat Man! A give deh poor Yardie Sistren stress fi nuttin'...It's so funny...afta she post dat Ken han mi bruk hup...deh thread was SILENT fuh a MINUTE!!! rofl.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif

Love onnuh!

Gill



by the way what is your Meez doing??? practicing??? whistling.gif whistling.gif innocent.gif innocent.gif


JENGS...mi ave sitin fi ask u...you deh a di train staiton fi 2 months now...you naw reach a u yard ar weh u a go? U wah mi send taxi fi u?


mi want to buy something nice for Kimmy shower and Gill need wedding gift. U see mi?? di whole uuno expensive to rass.

I'm probably stuck to the platform i've been there so long

and who put all the emotions before me and now i can't bloody post!!
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-25 18:58:00
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Mawning Yardies,

How is everyone today?

Lawny, I am so sorry for your loss. I, too think that stress is underrated...it can do some serious damage to your body & mind! I TRY to keep it in check...but these days it can be hard!


Like right now I feel my blood pressure creeping up! Ken just called me...he was suppose to go for his driving test today! We have paid the $$ and this woman said bring a car and drive fuh a likkle bit...presto whamo we give you a receipt and you should be able to pick up your license before you leave!

Hmmmm, what was it that JG said about best laid plans.... So, he goes down there and this man calls Ken and give him a book to read! Ok, after we paid the $$ we were suppose to be able to skip this part! Ken tells the man he is confused and the man tells Ken to come back on...APRIL 24th!!! mad.gif mad.gif Mi jus tell Ken look yuh haffi guh pressure deh people yuh pay deh $$ tuh! Mek dem knoa seh yuh knoa pay yuh HARD-EARNED dollas fi dis phockery!!

Is deh same ting we JUS talking bout!!! I KNOW my man...anyhow Ken come hup here widhout em license...fi jus siddung...Bwoy, is pure misery mi in fuh!!

Ladies, that have filed before me...is this how it goes...2 days of joy...then back inna deh crosses agen??? Constant struggle!? Well, Ken ave a saying"Not heveryday deh seas are rough...wan day wan day deh seas MUS calm!!! Lawd, when is DAT day!?

Bless,
Gill



Honestly, I don't think it's gotten better yet. There is always another form to fill out and another frustrating day to deal with where if you hear the word immigration or green card one more time, you are going to scream. Today, the word of the day is "passport".

I have learned that it hasn't killed me yet, Gill, and that I am a whole lot stronger and smarter then I ever thought I was.

You can do this. Stay strong and take lots of deep breaths!



I like that...the word of the day.



Mindy is having a hell of a time with renewing Roy's passport. They have sent 2 different sets of pictures in via NY consulate and both have been returned from JA as not the right pictures......Walgreens & Wal-Mart. The word is they have to go to The Picture People and have them make high resolution pictures. Something about JA and the high rate of fraud.

Anyhow, to hear her tell it, is giving me a headache today. She's been trying to renew for the last 2 months.

We need to renew Andre's by the end of the year. Now, I'm worried.


wow she has to go to the picture people....that is so crazy.....i'm sure my head would be hurting too....




My husbands friend realized his was expired right before his trip to JA, they went anyways and he renewed it while he was there. If push comes to shove for Mindy I'll ask him what happened.


Do you think he could do that without his passport? Her problem now is they are planning an August trip and his passport is in the hands of the Jamaican consulate. I hope they get it by then.


It should take about six weeks. I think the fees include fedex to and from jamaica
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-25 18:56:00
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Gill...mi sarry dawta...MI SARRY YARDIES AGAIN...!! devil.gif


I will accept that apology but mi nah break deh line fi it no0pb.gif laughing.gif



how yuh so wicked..mi tink mi a get a bly good.gif


Hush...mi need a good excuse fi go a New York whistling.gif laughing.gif



and coming to woop my ####### is a good one... rofl.gif rofl.gif


Well if yuh muss knoa mi ago beg fi a tour guide an place fi stay in exchange for the a$$ whooping rofl.gif



rofl.gif rofl.gif ..

and yes yuh patois is very good..figet seh yuh no born Jamaican more time good.gif

Bwoy, mi was hout fuh seh deh same ting! Yardie...mi proudda yuh! Bwoy, sometimes mi figget yuh nuh a BORN Jamaican!!! Yuh cyan TEACH Patois class now! good.gif

Love ya,
Gill

P.S.- Mi nuh blame yuh fuh nuh give har a bly... a wickid ting dat Man! A give deh poor Yardie Sistren stress fi nuttin'...It's so funny...afta she post dat Ken han mi bruk hup...deh thread was SILENT fuh a MINUTE!!! rofl.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif

Love onnuh!

Gill



by the way what is your Meez doing??? practicing??? whistling.gif whistling.gif innocent.gif innocent.gif
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-25 18:52:00
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yes Jengs a u mi a chat !! so wah !!


mi will come check u in about 7 months?? mi juss will ignore you for now. lol whistling.gif whistling.gif whistling.gif

laughing.gif Don't forget that I have at her first for that trick she pulled on us about Gill. Let the line start forming from now tongue.gif


Ok, Yardie has dibs, i'm second.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-25 16:19:00
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yes Jengs a u mi a chat !! so wah !!


mi will come check u in about 7 months?? mi juss will ignore you for now. lol whistling.gif whistling.gif whistling.gif
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-25 16:14:00
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I need to vent. 8 weeks ago, my supervisors at work told me I would be on 2nd (afternoon) shift when I came back to work. Then, ONE week before I was due back, they moved me to 1st shift INDEFINATELY mad.gif because one of our suppliers is on strike and a bunch of people are laid off. Now I'm still on 1st shift, and no one can give me any info when I'll be going to 2nd. All my plans and arrangements for day care are for 2nd shift. So, Tony has been home with Monique but he's losing his mind and has to go back to work. Plus, we're broke! We need that extra income. So, I don't know what to do. I desperately want to find a new job but I can't find one that pays anything close to this one (that I'm actually qualified for!)

headbonk.gif helpsmilie.gif huh.gif



Can you find someone to watch her while on 1st shift?

First thank God that you have a good job.......then go out and solve the daycare issue!


try explaining to them that you have daycare issues and u didn't expect this to be permanent and when is it going to change?? Then hint that they might be facing two supervisors being out because your husband has to go back to work. Who on the 2nd shift now??
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-25 14:36:00
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Holy ####### I just watched a clip on Youtube and while I couldn't hear the sounds just see the images alone helpsmilie.gif I am suppose to be getting injections but I am deadly afraid of injections and needles so that is a definite no go for me no0pb.gif I will definitely have to think about this neti pot thing...all that I have read seems positive.

I will if you will JG wink.gif



You better go first, cause I have my fingers crossed behind my back!

I'd rather get a shot. I don't like things going up my nose!!!!


laughing.gif but think how much money you would save!

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the pins where in my face and behind my ears and below my chin I think. She even put some in my hands. All I know is that it worked. I was also having lower back pain and she used these FLAT stones (they were black and smooth) and they were HEATED...I felt so damn good I wanted to marry the woman.


That sounds WONDERFUL! I have back probs as well...so what kind of doc was she?


I don't think she's a doctor. She's an acunpunturist and a physical therapist...but she uses Chinese medicine. Let me also tell you this, she gave me some tea to drink, I had to fit into a bridesmaid dress and it was just a little snug and I had 7 days before the wedding. I don't know what it is, but I lost 10 pounds in those 5 days and I was eating 3 meals a day and not exercising. As soon as I ate and had to go. I never tried it again, I was too scared.


fi real??? Did it make your stomach hurt??? I want that tea.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-25 14:33:00
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Lawny

mi learn early...there are a few ppl i will express myself to..cause dem do the same..watch out fi the one dem wah just want hear and have nothing to say..dats all mi a seh


Is mi Kimmy a chat bout!!!
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-25 13:09:00
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Ladies, ever see something in your children and u know they got it from you?? little miss has zero patience, and i have to take responsibilty for that whistling.gif whistling.gif



yes !! oh yes !!..my daughte says whatever is on her mind...I wake up in the morning she's in MY bed..sh ecome wid her brite elf.."mommy ewww, ur mouth" couldn't do nuttin but laugh



I think its a hug Kimmy day!

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Mawning Yardies,

How is everyone today?

Lawny, I am so sorry for your loss. I, too think that stress is underrated...it can do some serious damage to your body & mind! I TRY to keep it in check...but these days it can be hard!


Like right now I feel my blood pressure creeping up! Ken just called me...he was suppose to go for his driving test today! We have paid the $$ and this woman said bring a car and drive fuh a likkle bit...presto whamo we give you a receipt and you should be able to pick up your license before you leave!

Hmmmm, what was it that JG said about best laid plans.... So, he goes down there and this man calls Ken and give him a book to read! Ok, after we paid the $$ we were suppose to be able to skip this part! Ken tells the man he is confused and the man tells Ken to come back on...APRIL 24th!!! mad.gif mad.gif Mi jus tell Ken look yuh haffi guh pressure deh people yuh pay deh $$ tuh! Mek dem knoa seh yuh knoa pay yuh HARD-EARNED dollas fi dis phockery!!

Is deh same ting we JUS talking bout!!! I KNOW my man...anyhow Ken come hup here widhout em license...fi jus siddung...Bwoy, is pure misery mi in fuh!!

Ladies, that have filed before me...is this how it goes...2 days of joy...then back inna deh crosses agen??? Constant struggle!? Well, Ken ave a saying"Not heveryday deh seas are rough...wan day wan day deh seas MUS calm!!! Lawd, when is DAT day!?

Bless,
Gill



Honestly, I don't think it's gotten better yet. There is always another form to fill out and another frustrating day to deal with where if you hear the word immigration or green card one more time, you are going to scream. Today, the word of the day is "passport".

I have learned that it hasn't killed me yet, Gill, and that I am a whole lot stronger and smarter then I ever thought I was.

You can do this. Stay strong and take lots of deep breaths!



I like that...the word of the day.



Mindy is having a hell of a time with renewing Roy's passport. They have sent 2 different sets of pictures in via NY consulate and both have been returned from JA as not the right pictures......Walgreens & Wal-Mart. The word is they have to go to The Picture People and have them make high resolution pictures. Something about JA and the high rate of fraud.

Anyhow, to hear her tell it, is giving me a headache today. She's been trying to renew for the last 2 months.

We need to renew Andre's by the end of the year. Now, I'm worried.


that is crazy!! but I can belive it about the fraud.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-25 11:52:00
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lawny,

for the most part i speak my mind..but some ppl act like dem life perfect..everybody here must know mine not perfect by now...it's not the worse but wi no perfect..

Show mi the "man" with a perfect relationship and i'll show u'll a liar..so mi lef sometings more time..

by di way mi a go lef dis yah thread tuh cause ppl a ignore mi...baxide..Jengs weh u deh, Gilli mi si yuh earlier..lawny yea ! i guess that's my click whistling.gif

oonuh don't falla mi yaaw mi head a go !!


Oh KimKim you say it so perfectly! good.gif

Lawny I know you didn't direct it at me but let me just say this...there is a whole lot of sh!t that goes on behind the scenes. A TON to be more precise - if you have noticed there has been a lot of people leaving the thread - this is precisely why. I wouldn't have a problem giving out personal details and sharing my life if I knew that people on here were genuine and truly my friends. To hear about the stuff that is being said about you and your relationship behind your back by your so called "yardie family" well it gets old and it's sad and immature. I guess I am just sick of giving fodder to those that like to call, email or PM others to mock, ridicule or demean me and others and what we choose to share. So I am choosing not to share anymore - as have many others. Those that are truly my friends keep in contact with me by other means and know what is going on in my life, it is as simple as that. Karma is a b!tch and to those people that don't think word is out that you are full of sh!t...well sorry but the jig is up. No need to name names...we all know who you are.


Yeah I notice that some people don't share but like to ask questions and poke, i try and keep those people at arms length. I just want to learn and poke fun and Kimmy and Lawny (because they can take my jokes). I feel if i can help someone that will help mi prosper.

lunch is calling me. Lawny yuh home and have a stomache ache and all?? but lunch finish yet??
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-25 11:50:00
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Mawning Yardies,

How is everyone today?

Lawny, I am so sorry for your loss. I, too think that stress is underrated...it can do some serious damage to your body & mind! I TRY to keep it in check...but these days it can be hard!


Like right now I feel my blood pressure creeping up! Ken just called me...he was suppose to go for his driving test today! We have paid the $$ and this woman said bring a car and drive fuh a likkle bit...presto whamo we give you a receipt and you should be able to pick up your license before you leave!

Hmmmm, what was it that JG said about best laid plans.... So, he goes down there and this man calls Ken and give him a book to read! Ok, after we paid the $$ we were suppose to be able to skip this part! Ken tells the man he is confused and the man tells Ken to come back on...APRIL 24th!!! mad.gif mad.gif Mi jus tell Ken look yuh haffi guh pressure deh people yuh pay deh $$ tuh! Mek dem knoa seh yuh knoa pay yuh HARD-EARNED dollas fi dis phockery!!

Is deh same ting we JUS talking bout!!! I KNOW my man...anyhow Ken come hup here widhout em license...fi jus siddung...Bwoy, is pure misery mi in fuh!!

Ladies, that have filed before me...is this how it goes...2 days of joy...then back inna deh crosses agen??? Constant struggle!? Well, Ken ave a saying"Not heveryday deh seas are rough...wan day wan day deh seas MUS calm!!! Lawd, when is DAT day!?

Bless,
Gill



Honestly, I don't think it's gotten better yet. There is always another form to fill out and another frustrating day to deal with where if you hear the word immigration or green card one more time, you are going to scream. Today, the word of the day is "passport".

I have learned that it hasn't killed me yet, Gill, and that I am a whole lot stronger and smarter then I ever thought I was.

You can do this. Stay strong and take lots of deep breaths!



I like that...the word of the day.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-25 11:46:00
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Ladies, ever see something in your children and u know they got it from you?? little miss has zero patience, and i have to take responsibilty for that whistling.gif whistling.gif
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-25 11:45:00
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where did Lawny go?? she must be on the highway coming to box mi down..but before she do, I'm going to have to big her a ride to Kimmy's first.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-25 11:39:00
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Have a great day Sunny smile.gif

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I agree with them staying at home does usually cause a problem..they get bored...especially if they worked all their lives. I don't like to speak personally here either cause ppl like to judge and thats why i usually dopn't participate in such topics. but adjustment is a tough time and shouldn't be taken lightly


I agree with every single word of this post good.gif


Kimmy --
WAH MEK!...mi luv it when u chat wah u wah seh...mi luv it when everi badi seh wah dem wah seh...a farum dis n if u caan seh it yahso weh u fi seh it den...mi did think seh a wah di place fah...so run it...seh wah u wah seh...besides unu always a kill mi wid joke...no mek no badi tek weh u VIBES my girl...run it.

YARDIE -- To cure my HEAT I had a double shot of EXPRESSO this morning for Starbucks and I think I'm going to lose my mind. I don't know how the hell people drink that everyday.



OKKKK, so u went from being in heat to being hyper and in heat??? whistling.gif whistling.gif

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Have a great day Sunny smile.gif

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I agree with them staying at home does usually cause a problem..they get bored...especially if they worked all their lives. I don't like to speak personally here either cause ppl like to judge and thats why i usually dopn't participate in such topics. but adjustment is a tough time and shouldn't be taken lightly


I agree with every single word of this post good.gif


Kimmy --
WAH MEK!...mi luv it when u chat wah u wah seh...mi luv it when everi badi seh wah dem wah seh...a farum dis n if u caan seh it yahso weh u fi seh it den...mi did think seh a wah di place fah...so run it...seh wah u wah seh...besides unu always a kill mi wid joke...no mek no badi tek weh u VIBES my girl...run it.

YARDIE -- To cure my HEAT I had a double shot of EXPRESSO this morning for Starbucks and I think I'm going to lose my mind. I don't know how the hell people drink that everyday.


Yuh know, sometimes patwah makes my eyes hurt whistling.gif whistling.gif



rofl.gif rofl.gif wan nes JG deh bout


Man I looked at that, and my eyes went wacko.gif wacko.gif blink.gif blink.gif
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-25 11:36:00
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lawny,

for the most part i speak my mind..but some ppl act like dem life perfect..everybody here must know mine not perfect by now...it's not the worse but wi no perfect..

Show mi the "man" with a perfect relationship and i'll show u'll a liar..so mi lef sometings more time..

by di way mi a go lef dis yah thread tuh cause ppl a ignore mi...baxide..Jengs weh u deh, Gilli mi si yuh earlier..lawny yea ! i guess that's my click whistling.gif

oonuh don't falla mi yaaw mi head a go !!



where do u live??? I'm coming to knock you down. lol bout u a leff the thread hahaha
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-25 11:34:00
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Mawning Yardies,

How is everyone today?

Lawny, I am so sorry for your loss. I, too think that stress is underrated...it can do some serious damage to your body & mind! I TRY to keep it in check...but these days it can be hard!


Like right now I feel my blood pressure creeping up! Ken just called me...he was suppose to go for his driving test today! We have paid the $$ and this woman said bring a car and drive fuh a likkle bit...presto whamo we give you a receipt and you should be able to pick up your license before you leave!

Hmmmm, what was it that JG said about best laid plans.... So, he goes down there and this man calls Ken and give him a book to read! Ok, after we paid the $$ we were suppose to be able to skip this part! Ken tells the man he is confused and the man tells Ken to come back on...APRIL 24th!!! mad.gif mad.gif Mi jus tell Ken look yuh haffi guh pressure deh people yuh pay deh $$ tuh! Mek dem knoa seh yuh knoa pay yuh HARD-EARNED dollas fi dis phockery!!

Is deh same ting we JUS talking bout!!! I KNOW my man...anyhow Ken come hup here widhout em license...fi jus siddung...Bwoy, is pure misery mi in fuh!!

Ladies, that have filed before me...is this how it goes...2 days of joy...then back inna deh crosses agen??? Constant struggle!? Well, Ken ave a saying"Not heveryday deh seas are rough...wan day wan day deh seas MUS calm!!! Lawd, when is DAT day!?

Bless,
Gill


Gill, this is just crazy. But, please mi a beg you calm down...all I need to hear now is you or any one of my sisters on here droping down. And why didn't Ken fuss with the the man. mad.gif You have to fight for your MONEY especially in JAMAICA! Him need fi learn fi put dung him FOOT!...America is not EASY! So, im bettah start from yard. That is just pure (*&##W$ #$ now mi bex...but girl please try STAY calm...

In October I dropped down at work from my EX driving me NUTS!...so mi a beg you again...try tek it easy.



I posted about the driving thing a while back, most people in j.a. just get a liscence by passing a reading test, some of them learn to drive after the get the liscence, maybe that is why the guy did that.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-25 11:32:00
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Have a great day Sunny smile.gif

QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Mar 24 2008, 08:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I agree with them staying at home does usually cause a problem..they get bored...especially if they worked all their lives. I don't like to speak personally here either cause ppl like to judge and thats why i usually dopn't participate in such topics. but adjustment is a tough time and shouldn't be taken lightly


I agree with every single word of this post good.gif


Kimmy --
WAH MEK!...mi luv it when u chat wah u wah seh...mi luv it when everi badi seh wah dem wah seh...a farum dis n if u caan seh it yahso weh u fi seh it den...mi did think seh a wah di place fah...so run it...seh wah u wah seh...besides unu always a kill mi wid joke...no mek no badi tek weh u VIBES my girl...run it.

YARDIE -- To cure my HEAT I had a double shot of EXPRESSO this morning for Starbucks and I think I'm going to lose my mind. I don't know how the hell people drink that everyday.



OKKKK, so u went from being in heat to being hyper and in heat??? whistling.gif whistling.gif

QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Mar 25 2008, 11:37 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Yardiewife @ Mar 25 2008, 10:53 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Have a great day Sunny smile.gif

QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Mar 24 2008, 08:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I agree with them staying at home does usually cause a problem..they get bored...especially if they worked all their lives. I don't like to speak personally here either cause ppl like to judge and thats why i usually dopn't participate in such topics. but adjustment is a tough time and shouldn't be taken lightly


I agree with every single word of this post good.gif


Kimmy --
WAH MEK!...mi luv it when u chat wah u wah seh...mi luv it when everi badi seh wah dem wah seh...a farum dis n if u caan seh it yahso weh u fi seh it den...mi did think seh a wah di place fah...so run it...seh wah u wah seh...besides unu always a kill mi wid joke...no mek no badi tek weh u VIBES my girl...run it.

YARDIE -- To cure my HEAT I had a double shot of EXPRESSO this morning for Starbucks and I think I'm going to lose my mind. I don't know how the hell people drink that everyday.


Yuh know, sometimes patwah makes my eyes hurt whistling.gif whistling.gif
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-25 11:29:00
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Good Morning Everyone!!

Lawny, where u at?? Feeling better??


Mi dehyah...my mom best friend of 46 years died. She went to the hospital complaining of a head ache and she coded and was placed on a ventilator. Nothing was wrong with her. Not a thing. I spoke to her for the last 3 days, becuase I was putting a trip together for her and some of her friends. JENGS I know you've warned me about STRESS and I'm telling you my mom and I think that she was so stressed out that her body couldn't take the emotional load anymore. We picked up her family at the airport and we all stood there when they turned off the machine.

Let me tell you...when this woman would pray (she's part of my mom's prayer circle) which they've had for 15 years. When she prays, IT CAN MOVE MOUNTAIN. If her words don't move you, it will make you jump up to your feet. I use to joke with her and tell her we didn't want her to bless the food becaue we would all starve to death by the time she finish her prayer. You could feel the STRENGTH in her words when she would say a prayer.


You know sometimes it just better to let things go, even though it may hurt like hell, we can't solve all problems and not everything can be worked out. My heart goes out to her family and your mother.


Thanks girl. And I agree. I took me years to learn to let things go. As my grandmother would say, Let go and Let God.



true dat, but sometimes we tink God is taking too long and he needs a little help.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-25 09:46:00
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Good Morning Everyone!!

Lawny, where u at?? Feeling better??


Mi dehyah...my mom best friend of 46 years died. She went to the hospital complaining of a head ache and she coded and was placed on a ventilator. Nothing was wrong with her. Not a thing. I spoke to her for the last 3 days, becuase I was putting a trip together for her and some of her friends. JENGS I know you've warned me about STRESS and I'm telling you my mom and I think that she was so stressed out that her body couldn't take the emotional load anymore. We picked up her family at the airport and we all stood there when they turned off the machine.

Let me tell you...when this woman would pray (she's part of my mom's prayer circle) which they've had for 15 years. When she prays, IT CAN MOVE MOUNTAIN. If her words don't move you, it will make you jump up to your feet. I use to joke with her and tell her we didn't want her to bless the food becaue we would all starve to death by the time she finish her prayer. You could feel the STRENGTH in her words when she would say a prayer.


You know sometimes it just better to let things go, even though it may hurt like hell, we can't solve all problems and not everything can be worked out. My heart goes out to her family and your mother.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-25 08:36:00
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Good Morning Everyone!!

Lawny, where u at?? Feeling better??
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-25 05:46:00
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A bike is a good idea. and yes getting everyone's viewpoint was good. I enrolled him in school because of advice from this board. I had an old car that now I almost wished I saved, but i can take the train to work, but i know that others live in areas where there is no train. The train!!!! I had to buy a map. lol
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-24 21:08:00
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Ok no more joking ting...

I see nuff approvals going on and i'm very happy for everyone...now the next part the hard part comes...the arrival...yes yes it will be the happiest day of your life...your man is with you...but I think we should have a conversation about the adjustment process.

What do you all think?



amen sistah !! adjustment is something you have to remember fi real...



Ok I will try and start..maybe someone can make a list and no it won't be me. and let's try and keep it general. I know that some of us are posting off of our experiences but mi really don't like it when people post their opnions or what they do in their relationships and it ends up in a defending contest. Everybody is different and can learn from each other.

anyhoo

It's seems to be really hard when they are left at home alone. Most of these men worked and the jamaican culture seems to be an outdoorsy one. People work, hang out and go home (someone feel free to correct me if I'm wrong) now I don't mean hang out at the rum shop or the dancehall, but there seems to be a lot of social interaction. Then they come here. We go to work and they are at home in a place where they may not have any friends, no job and familyand nothing to do.

It depends how your man adapts. Is here very social? My husband is very social and I swear has more friends in this town than I do. This is my home town. I think the first couple months are the hardest. It was easier for us because in a few months he was in school and working. I think the K-1 visa has to be hard when finding a job. If we went for the K-1 he wouldn't of been able to go to school right away with a green card. The best part is that we live in a college town which is very social. We had talked about this before he got up but nothing can prepare you for the adjustment until he or she gets here.

whoops wouldn't of been able to go to school right away without a green card.


This is very true Jax. The MAIN reason for us doing the CR1 was so that he could start school and work as soon as he got here if he wanted. I felt that the CR1 transition was much better than the others. Like my husband is already looking into schools and jobs while he is in JA. I would think that this is how I would like to do it if i moved to a new country.

One of the biggest problems I notice is that the nonUSC didn't put a plan into place BEFORE they moved here. I told my husband...."you know where you will be living research or tell me to research things you want to get into NOW so that when you get here its all set up for you".....Now I know he's not here yet but I notice how involved Evan is with my life and my neighborhood and town before he even gets here. I think this is making him feel more acquainted with the area too so that its not so much of a cluture shock plus overwhelment when he arrives. When I first me him I gave him a travel book of Los Angeles. This way he could read up about the area and all the things to do...HE LOVED IT!! Its like my JA travel book that I loved. I really think early preparation is KEY! good.gif


This is true, have a couple of different career paths to explore and try and find out about any programs as early as possible.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-24 20:22:00
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I agree with them staying at home does usually cause a problem..they get bored...especially if they worked all their lives. I don't like to speak personally here either cause ppl like to judge and thats why i usually dopn't participate in such topics. but adjustment is a tough time and shouldn't be taken lightly

especially the freedom thing. Staying in the house is so true. Another thing that helped was a drivers licenses. Its a independence thing.


agree with the drivers licsense..and i know some states let people drive on their foreign liscense for a time.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-24 20:19:00
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Ok no more joking ting...

I see nuff approvals going on and i'm very happy for everyone...now the next part the hard part comes...the arrival...yes yes it will be the happiest day of your life...your man is with you...but I think we should have a conversation about the adjustment process.

What do you all think?



amen sistah !! adjustment is something you have to remember fi real...



Ok I will try and start..maybe someone can make a list and no it won't be me. and let's try and keep it general. I know that some of us are posting off of our experiences but mi really don't like it when people post their opnions or what they do in their relationships and it ends up in a defending contest. Everybody is different and can learn from each other.

anyhoo

It's seems to be really hard when they are left at home alone. Most of these men worked and the jamaican culture seems to be an outdoorsy one. People work, hang out and go home (someone feel free to correct me if I'm wrong) now I don't mean hang out at the rum shop or the dancehall, but there seems to be a lot of social interaction. Then they come here. We go to work and they are at home in a place where they may not have any friends, no job and familyand nothing to do.

It depends how your man adapts. Is here very social? My husband is very social and I swear has more friends in this town than I do. This is my home town. I think the first couple months are the hardest. It was easier for us because in a few months he was in school and working. I think the K-1 visa has to be hard when finding a job. If we went for the K-1 he wouldn't of been able to go to school right away with a green card. The best part is that we live in a college town which is very social. We had talked about this before he got up but nothing can prepare you for the adjustment until he or she gets here.

whoops wouldn't of been able to go to school right away without a green card.


i'm in NyC it's pretty amazing what cash can do and certain programs don't even ask.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-24 20:13:00
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QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 24 2008, 08:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Ok no more joking ting...

I see nuff approvals going on and i'm very happy for everyone...now the next part the hard part comes...the arrival...yes yes it will be the happiest day of your life...your man is with you...but I think we should have a conversation about the adjustment process.

What do you all think?



amen sistah !! adjustment is something you have to remember fi real...



Ok I will try and start..maybe someone can make a list and no it won't be me. and let's try and keep it general. I know that some of us are posting off of our experiences but mi really don't like it when people post their opnions or what they do in their relationships and it ends up in a defending contest. Everybody is different and can learn from each other.

anyhoo

It's seems to be really hard when they are left at home alone. Most of these men worked and the jamaican culture seems to be an outdoorsy one. People work, hang out and go home (someone feel free to correct me if I'm wrong) now I don't mean hang out at the rum shop or the dancehall, but there seems to be a lot of social interaction. Then they come here. We go to work and they are at home in a place where they may not have any friends, no job and familyand nothing to do.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-24 20:02:00
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Good Morning Yardies rose.gif

Hope you all had a fantastic Easter weekend!

Hope you feel better soon Lawny!


Thanks Yards...mi just deayah a easy! Waiting for April 9th, so I can release some of the STRESS!!!!!!! Last night my fiance on the phone bawling out his eyes about wanting to see me and how me miss me and all that...I told him (baby the tickets are too expensive right now) he replies, mi we buy it then and I was like, well I can't now is not a good time for me to travel because of my job and I can't take off until the end of JUNE (laughing my a$$ off). He still bawling an mi dedeh a dead wid laugh rofl.gif I know, I'm terrible devil.gif -- I can't wait to see his face.


Awww, tell de poor man nah! Im so sad! It will make him feel better if he knows your coming.


Lita,

I would tell him, but the last time I told him I was coming down his family lost their ever loving mind. You see, they didn't kow I was Jamaican and I sat through 2 hours of explainations on the history of jamaica and the food and spices. I didn't want to be rude, so I kept quiet. Then all I was here was LORRDDDDDDDDDD what a ooman FAT...lawd she FAT EEHHHH! AND NICE!...ar hair so talllllllllllll look PON di BAXIDE (ONLY in Jamaica).

Lita, the amount of people that was at his people's house, you would think it was a wedding. So, mi naw tell im. I do feel sorry for him sometimes rofl.gif but the way mi inna HEAT! im bettah pray mi no kill im devil.gif



haha rofl.gif , I can juss hear dem seh!! Yuh hair tall...wooiieee!! Look pon yuh baxside?....HAHAHAHAHA rofl.gif


the first time i heard that I was like what?? Mi hair what?? Den I was like no it isn't.

Edited by Jengles, 24 March 2008 - 07:52 PM.

JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-24 19:52:00
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Ok no more joking ting...

I see nuff approvals going on and i'm very happy for everyone...now the next part the hard part comes...the arrival...yes yes it will be the happiest day of your life...your man is with you...but I think we should have a conversation about the adjustment process.

What do you all think?
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-24 19:34:00
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mi di a wonder bout dat tuh..and yuh ready fi tek beam outta my eye...check fi yuh fuss rofl.gif



how u mean?? mi a mek money...dem send u home long time, cause u nuh dress properly...yuh inna di break room a hideway!! cause u vex star_smile.gif
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-24 19:32:00
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CLaire, Lawny, and di one Jengs...mi flippers dem quite fine...mi nah flip none a oonuh so wah di problem...aleast mi nah drown...by the way mi love fi swim....
TAM..congrats...mi cyaa wait..anyway



Yuh sure, yuh flippers dem nuh cold pon di hard cold concete floor??? I'm just asking innocent.gif



yes..yuh foor dem nah bun yuh from standing on the train platform fi so long...hmmmmm..dats why like barefoot ...no toe problems



dem a bun mi yes, but money a mek, so mi just a grin and bear it.



rofl.gif rofl.gif


and yes mi arm a hurt mi too. Is long time mi want put it down.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-24 19:18:00
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CLaire, Lawny, and di one Jengs...mi flippers dem quite fine...mi nah flip none a oonuh so wah di problem...aleast mi nah drown...by the way mi love fi swim....
TAM..congrats...mi cyaa wait..anyway



Yuh sure, yuh flippers dem nuh cold pon di hard cold concete floor??? I'm just asking innocent.gif



yes..yuh foor dem nah bun yuh from standing on the train platform fi so long...hmmmmm..dats why like barefoot ...no toe problems



dem a bun mi yes, but money a mek, so mi just a grin and bear it.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-24 19:03:00
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CLaire, Lawny, and di one Jengs...mi flippers dem quite fine...mi nah flip none a oonuh so wah di problem...aleast mi nah drown...by the way mi love fi swim....
TAM..congrats...mi cyaa wait..anyway



Yuh sure, yuh flippers dem nuh cold pon di hard cold concete floor??? I'm just asking innocent.gif
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-24 18:29:00
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JENGS...r eny badi...mi need a remedi fi mi belli



P-E-P-T-O ring a bell, sound familiar????


if mi di near u mi woudah ring u ears



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She ask mi a question and mi answer it and den she get vex....and a turn violent...


But mi luv yah same way whistling.gif


mi know P-U-T-U-S, did i spell it right...
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-24 16:04:00
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JENGS...r eny badi...mi need a remedi fi mi belli



P-E-P-T-O ring a bell, sound familiar????


if mi di near u mi woudah ring u ears



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She ask mi a question and mi answer it and den she get vex....and a turn violent...


She's inna heat...yuh cyaan deal wid a person when dat a go on. Har head nah right no0pb.gif Just excuse deh rudeness an all.


fi real, mi try turn the other cheek, but mi tink mi a go get box pon dat one too.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-24 15:58:00
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Gill - that looks like a wedding cake



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The two of onnuh need fi HUSH!!! Leave poor Dimps Cyake alone!!! Mrs. Kimkim...glad tuh see yuh change yuh dress...mi like dis wan...but still NO SHOES!!!! blink.gif rofl.gif

Bless,
Gill

P.S>- Thanks Yardie Fam for all of your prayers and well wishes! luv.gif


Is what mi do??? Kimmy change her dress and tek way her bump....and u nuh see she have on designer dress



stay bout wah yuh do..lef mi alone...mi no like shoes fi di last time....so u'll may never say me wearing them smile.gif ...and yes mi tek weh di bump so oonuh can lef mi alone fi good...so mi only preggo in "real life" now laughing.gif


mi nuh no, u foot look like flippers, yuh can change u feet??


A rand wid yuh Jengs? Leave har alone, but yuh right bout the flippers dem laughing.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif waoiiiiii..Lawd me hed a hat me crying.gif



Is what u saying, she's going snorkeling???? Mi done now, between the box Lawny what to give me and the tump Kimmy is going to give me, mi might as well go ah mi bed from now
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-24 15:57:00