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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
QUOTE (clairern @ Mar 7 2008, 10:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Marlita @ Mar 7 2008, 04:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey Claire,

Well you've seen my post about Evan getting frustrated and how it was rubbing me the wrong way cause I didnt exactly get it. Well me and him spoke...thru text cause I said we should not talk for a few days. Anyway I'll update you all on that but he enlightened me to alot of stuff that he feels in this whole process and how it is very confusing to him and he's sometimes gets scared about the whole move.

So I think that maybe (not knowing to much about you and Mike) Mike could be coming to terms with leaving his home. i think many times during this journey we the USC or America Resident, don't quite put ourselves in our SO shoes. This can be extremely hard for some of them. For some the move is the best thing ever and they just cant wait to get to the US....for good and bad reasons. For others the thought of mving to a strange place where they know no one really and barely even know you (their SO) can be quote scarely and nerve racking making them not really show excitment about th whole move. If it was me and I was moving to a foreign country away from all the family and friends i ever knew i would be so scared. I think men have a hard time showing how vulnerable they are so sometimes it manifests itself in anger or frustration or non-chalantness, all the emotions that keep them holding their manhood intact. This to us as a woman makes no sense cause we are mush more open about showing these types of emotions to our SO.

Evan an I talked and he finally broke down and told me the real probelm, and its that he says everything in his life has changed since meeting me and know the future in which he imagined has to be shifted to a future in a place and surrounded by people he is not familiar with and sometimes that thoguht make him feel out of control of his life. Could Mike be having some issues like this? I mean essentially you are handling most of the visa work and you have VJ to read and get LOTS of info on this process...your SO doesn't so he is left in the dark not truly understanding what certain things like the police report can mean to the ending of this journey. Maybe the getting of the visa is also bittersweet. My husband has a countdown to when he will finally be with me permanently but he also has a countdown to when he will have to say goodbye to his grandmother, niece, brothers and sisters and it bothers him alot.

I think you should try to pull out the real issue Mike is having cause its apparent he is not telling you something. I wouldnt get to upset about it to the point of making him live with his parents if the 2 of you have a strong commitment to each other and already discussed him living with you. i think you should first start the communication with him before you make the reaction to the situation.

Lita, this is why I am addicted to VJ. The great advice and openmindedness that is offered.

Lita, he had expressed his hesitation to leave home but wanted to so we can be together. He has told me over and over again that he has totally committed himself to me and noone or nothing is going to change that.

The original plan was for him to go to his dad's first, cause he has not seen him and his little sisters in about 6 or so years. He says once he come to me, he is not going to want to leave my side. I am convinced that he loves me but some macho part of him is preventing him from expressing it. Sometimes I think he feels better when I don't call him for a couple of days. He has told me it is harder for him when I express my feelings to him, cause he is not here to hold me and stop the pain.

I am going to call him tomorrow and try to talk to him. He is not a phone person, he is more a writer and expresses himself more in his letters.


aawww, he so sweet, at night he's probably wishing u were next to him..
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-07 22:38:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Mar 7 2008, 08:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Yardiewife @ Mar 7 2008, 08:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Since I won't be on again before you leave...



Have a safe trip Gilly!!! We love you! Good luck on Tuesday!



Ditto!!!!! and yardi enjoy yourself too....I'll be doing my usual working...

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QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Mar 7 2008, 08:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Anyone know anything about student loans? I'm wondering if I can take out a larger student loan. I won't tech. be a grad student, but I'm trying to take undergrad and grad classes at the same time?


i believe u can take out a supplemental loan which falls under the undergrad loans



I've been emailing the lady, callin her and leaving messages, and she hasn't responded. I know you can take out more as a grad student, than as an undergrad.



yup u but it depends on what the school categorizes u as, undergrad or grad, u can't go up to the school?
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-07 20:13:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Mar 7 2008, 08:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Anyone know anything about student loans? I'm wondering if I can take out a larger student loan. I won't tech. be a grad student, but I'm trying to take undergrad and grad classes at the same time?


i believe u can take out a supplemental loan which falls under the undergrad loans
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-07 20:09:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
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QUOTE (JALOVE @ Mar 7 2008, 06:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ok why is my meez not doin her full break it down dance !


Mine u shake up di pickney



lol u see her tummy she supposed to be prego


Yes, I see. That's why mi seh tap shake up di pickney.



mi tink di pickney a suffer from motion sickness yes.gif yes.gif
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-07 20:06:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Mar 7 2008, 05:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 03:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
mi can't wait for clarien to come wid the topic and the day soon done...so mi have a ???


This is sort of the flip side of most of us ladies were handling our business before we met our s/o. How do u handle that because we have it together sometimes the men, think it's okay to send down unreasonable sums of money to J.A. when mr jengles first came he threw out a three figure amount that he wanted to send down every WEEK. I had to ask him who he wanted to send that too?? It does kill me a little bit, that some people down there don't work and i'm up here busting my butt every day.

I explained to him how much daycare cost, the fact that they we needed a bigger place to live and most importantly...di fact that he didn't have a job or knew how much money he was going to make. wacko.gif

off to a meeting back in a few



Not here, other than to his daughter..who we send $300 a month. No!! When everyone else come begging he usually say no, unless they make him feel really bad, then he'll send 20 bucks here and there.



Can I be nosy and ask how he sends $20?

I hate to send anything less then $100 cause of the fees associated with Western Union.

You have an easier way?




Either western union...10 bucks.... or most of the time he'll put it on his daughters debit card and they have to pick it up


it's with a jamican bank?? someone told me they have a scottia bank here in brooklyn and mr jengles should look into that
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-07 17:40:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
QUOTE (Marlita @ Mar 7 2008, 05:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 02:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Yah dyamn right,

and me a tek back mi offer fi send me and mr jengles picture to u, u might send to it marlita and mi nuh know what kind of obeah she a wuk now



Wooiiee!! haha, yuh see it. Mi already scared cause mi pikcha dem pon di internet. Mi need fi guh delete dem tuh rass. Or else sumbaddy gwaan wuk de obeah pon mi......what was i thinking helpsmilie.gif



U see it, not thinking like a yard ooman fi true, lol no0pb.gif no0pb.gif
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-07 17:37:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
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QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 05:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Yah dyamn right,

and me a tek back mi offer fi send me and mr jengles picture to u, u might send to it marlita and mi nuh know what kind of obeah she a wuk now

hahahhahahahahha lolololol

lawd yuh mek mi belly battam a hat mi!!

nuh sen nuh pikcha, sen mi one stran a fi yuh hair and one a MissaJengles own devil.gif devil.gif



yuh see it, the truth a come out now, u could almost guarantee those couples could break up right???

hair is all u want, u nuh want nuh nail clipping???


laughing.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif

Pissa hair, nail clippings, skin cells, tooth, eyelash...wha else yuh waan? True obeah woman blink.gif


sound like u a dig up grave. lol wait deh Lawny said she have six to spare.

look pon di expert dem a come out of the woodwork!!! or should i say the graveyard. yardie u forget the clothes!!
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-07 17:32:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 7 2008, 05:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 05:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Yah dyamn right,

and me a tek back mi offer fi send me and mr jengles picture to u, u might send to it marlita and mi nuh know what kind of obeah she a wuk now

hahahhahahahahha lolololol

lawd yuh mek mi belly battam a hat mi!!

nuh sen nuh pikcha, sen mi one stran a fi yuh hair and one a MissaJengles own devil.gif devil.gif



yuh see it, the truth a come out now, u could almost guarantee those couples could break up right???

hair is all u want, u nuh want nuh nail clipping???
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-07 17:24:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 7 2008, 05:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Mar 7 2008, 12:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Girl, you a mess..I knew u wouldn't let this slide. I was orginally offended by the comment. I was left wondering if it's my hubby that's leaving as soon as he gets his 10year.NOT!!! Since all the other predictions came true. It's one thing to judge a book by it's cover. Everyone on here wants the best for thier relationship. It was a pretty bold statement to make. My hubby may look snake in the grass but mi love him same way...

BTW MI NEED TO SEE THE PICTURE OF ALL THE MEN DEM yes.gif

My intention was not to offend anyone by my comment.
I am suprised you are offended seeing as though I made it abundantly CLEAR that my opinions are based on basically nothing....Also, I can't see why my opinion would MATTER!

As for your relationship, NO ONE has the right to judge it, and while one may not agree with your choices or have their opinions on your relationship, what anyone thinks of your relationship should be of NO consequence if YOU are convinced it is right for you.....



Yah dyamn right,

and me a tek back mi offer fi send me and mr jengles picture to u, u might send to it marlita and mi nuh know what kind of obeah she a wuk now

QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 7 2008, 05:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Sonshyne @ Mar 7 2008, 03:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Ok ladies next question...

I want to take something nice for my MIL and SIL when we go, they haven't called to ask for one thing since he's been here. I can't ask him what he thinks they'd like because he doesn't even no we're going. So I am asking for suggestions. I was thinking something from bath and body, or maybe a piece of jewelry.

I find perfume is ALWAYS appreciated....


anytime we wear perfume a yard the mosquoito and sand fly dem ....love mi off... yes.gif

QUOTE (JALOVE @ Mar 7 2008, 05:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 05:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
JaLove,

his schedule sounds like mr. jengles the school is at the end of our block and has weekend and evening classes now that he has his EAD, he'll probably do one of those. he used to go Mon-Fri before. and mr is dying to work, he started to apply to some stuff before he left.

QUOTE (IrieCat @ Mar 7 2008, 04:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 01:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
but I must say this mr jengles ended up staying home with our daughter until he started school and he is so into her, it's not even funny, now he sees what he missed with his kids even though he lived with them because of his work hours in j.a. sometimes when i get home he reminds me that I have to "spend likkle time wid her" lol but he didn't do it out of choice.


Yeah that is a big part of it. There is a big difference between staying home and watching the children every now and then or even for a few hours a day while the other person is working but it is completely different when staying home and watching the kids is your FT job and you don't do anything else. I think that is what gets most people (male or female) - they kinda lose themselves because they are home all day without much adult social interaction and a lot of people identify themselves through their jobs.


I AGREE! I have been teleworking since Tierra was born... 6 years now!

I go mad sometimes. Especially since coming back from St Lucia. I have no car and where I live there is no public transportation. I rely alot on my mom and friends. My friends know when it is time to get Catherine out of the house... I call them all crying!! LOL

I sure love Tierra but sometimes I need to get dressed up, have a drink and laugh and talk with some adults!!!

I am a stay at home mom that works full time. UGH!



I could never quite tell what was in style but could tell you all about the kid shows. lol


Since he got moved up he may end up in evenings or with extra classes he studys hard! always in the book when i get home. Its wonderful that its free and they really didnt ask for much info when he signed up. And he can walk to school its not so far so thats a plus.



I live in brooklyn, they don't ask anyway!!! lol



where can i buy that jumpsuit my meez is wearing??? it look good to rass,

Edited by Jengles, 07 March 2008 - 05:13 PM.

JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-07 17:16:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
Irie,

Now we watch Nick mostly. he watches pbs kids sometimes. it's all about jimmy neutron and we can't forget spongebob
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-07 17:10:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
JaLove,

his schedule sounds like mr. jengles the school is at the end of our block and has weekend and evening classes now that he has his EAD, he'll probably do one of those. he used to go Mon-Fri before. and mr is dying to work, he started to apply to some stuff before he left.

QUOTE (IrieCat @ Mar 7 2008, 04:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 7 2008, 01:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
but I must say this mr jengles ended up staying home with our daughter until he started school and he is so into her, it's not even funny, now he sees what he missed with his kids even though he lived with them because of his work hours in j.a. sometimes when i get home he reminds me that I have to "spend likkle time wid her" lol but he didn't do it out of choice.


Yeah that is a big part of it. There is a big difference between staying home and watching the children every now and then or even for a few hours a day while the other person is working but it is completely different when staying home and watching the kids is your FT job and you don't do anything else. I think that is what gets most people (male or female) - they kinda lose themselves because they are home all day without much adult social interaction and a lot of people identify themselves through their jobs.


I AGREE! I have been teleworking since Tierra was born... 6 years now!

I go mad sometimes. Especially since coming back from St Lucia. I have no car and where I live there is no public transportation. I rely alot on my mom and friends. My friends know when it is time to get Catherine out of the house... I call them all crying!! LOL

I sure love Tierra but sometimes I need to get dressed up, have a drink and laugh and talk with some adults!!!

I am a stay at home mom that works full time. UGH!



I could never quite tell what was in style but could tell you all about the kid shows. lol
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-07 17:04:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
but I must say this mr jengles ended up staying home with our daughter until he started school and he is so into her, it's not even funny, now he sees what he missed with his kids even though he lived with them because of his work hours in j.a. sometimes when i get home he reminds me that I have to "spend likkle time wid her" lol but he didn't do it out of choice.

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hi guys do u think any of ur SOs would object to being a stay at home dad if need be if its cheaper than daycare? By the way what are infant daycare costs like and the times in which u can drop them off and pick them up.


I can't say this loud enough but YES, most jamaican men do not like to be at home, looking after pickney, even if it's theres. they want to work be out the house.



yup that was his response when i asked him. My thoughts were that it may be cheaper for him stay home. Its just a thought. Now if he gets paid like 11.75 im estimating at 40 hours a week that would give about 350 maybe? and that will only just cover daycare and we need a lot more than that im trying figure what cost i will cut to afford daycare and any other expenses right now i have no extra to cover that so i been praying on it and trying find a cheaper place to live.



did u price daycare where u are??? know any older ladies who want to supplement their income??? Is your mother near you she might know someone


When my daughter was in Daycare ... and I even found preschool this way ... I called churches. Both the churches that helped me happen to be Methodist but Church people know people.... They know the community.
Open the yellow pages and call and visit everyone you can.
When I moved back to Maine I cried and cried because I didnt think I could afford it. Even though I work at home I couldnt get work done with a wired kid running around. I eventually found some GREAT care.

You have to hunt the good ones down!





I been crying and cryin too already and baby is nowhere near here yet. Going to do some OT now while i can to try save up some money and finish off my jamaica travel debt and the visa stuff. Im going to start lookign into and call some places. Im still hoping the TX thing will come through for me by summer that will tremendously cut my costs. They need 8 people to leave before i can come. So far one is leaving so now thats 7. Ill keep prayin on it. Ive also been trying to find places here cheaper where i dont have to sign a 12 month lease. Thank you all for ur advice i truly appreciate it, its like noone outside this visa/adjustment process can even begin to understand.


I know u want to transfer thru your job.

have u thought about trying to find a job on your own, after u have the baby. you can apply for jobs from up here thanks to the internet and plan a week and go and interview. that is one of my friends did. companies will/should be flexible if u say i'm coming down this particular week




Yes that is the plan if nothing comes through i have even been looking at other jobs with my company in TX, CA, ATL, FL nothing that fits what i do or thye wont pay enough. My job now is pretty flexible so im gonna need that while pregnant. SO after baby comes ill see whats next. Ive been here 7 years its kinda hard to leave but we will see what happens 10 years one more week of vacay time that makes 4 weeks vacay 7 personal 5 sick


yeah would be nice if u could stay with the company, but if not use that vacation time and find something else in the state of your choice
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-07 16:49:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
QUOTE (Marlita @ Mar 7 2008, 04:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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QUOTE (Jomo @ Mar 7 2008, 03:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Even $9.99 is too much. I hate the thought of spending that to send down $50.

One of my SIL's is 16 and she's been clammoring for hoodies. Seems the craze is sweeping the teenagers on the island. My problem was finding a hoodie appropriate for JA. I mean, hello, I live where it snows.....they were all too thick. We found some at Sears. Got her a lightweight long sleeve one and a couple light short sleeve ones. Also slippers. Old Navy (flip flops) slippers all the time.

MIL is tricker......I think both of your ideas are lovely.


mr jengles younger brother wanted a hoodie also....he wanted to be gangsta...mr jengles give him one of his...


Hubby wanted a hoodie for work too. haha, it was more of a dress up sweater with a hood though...got it at macys for cheap cheap when they were clearancing out all the winter stuff.They've already had swimwear up here since january. blink.gif


over here when they put out the stuff early they call it " cruisewear"

QUOTE (Jomo @ Mar 7 2008, 04:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
JALove.....I've had 2 kids and I want you to really remember this........

No matter how much you plan or how prepared you think you are.......there will NEVER be enough money. There will never be enough time. You will stress about everything. In the end, you will have a happy healthy child, you will have survived just fine---finding new and creative ways to work through everything, and when you look back, you'll wonder what the fuss was all about. Kind of like the whole visa process.

You will do just fine.



so true
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-07 16:43:00
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hi guys do u think any of ur SOs would object to being a stay at home dad if need be if its cheaper than daycare? By the way what are infant daycare costs like and the times in which u can drop them off and pick them up.


I can't say this loud enough but YES, most jamaican men do not like to be at home, looking after pickney, even if it's theres. they want to work be out the house.



yup that was his response when i asked him. My thoughts were that it may be cheaper for him stay home. Its just a thought. Now if he gets paid like 11.75 im estimating at 40 hours a week that would give about 350 maybe? and that will only just cover daycare and we need a lot more than that im trying figure what cost i will cut to afford daycare and any other expenses right now i have no extra to cover that so i been praying on it and trying find a cheaper place to live.



did u price daycare where u are??? know any older ladies who want to supplement their income??? Is your mother near you she might know someone


When my daughter was in Daycare ... and I even found preschool this way ... I called churches. Both the churches that helped me happen to be Methodist but Church people know people.... They know the community.
Open the yellow pages and call and visit everyone you can.
When I moved back to Maine I cried and cried because I didnt think I could afford it. Even though I work at home I couldnt get work done with a wired kid running around. I eventually found some GREAT care.

You have to hunt the good ones down!





I been crying and cryin too already and baby is nowhere near here yet. Going to do some OT now while i can to try save up some money and finish off my jamaica travel debt and the visa stuff. Im going to start lookign into and call some places. Im still hoping the TX thing will come through for me by summer that will tremendously cut my costs. They need 8 people to leave before i can come. So far one is leaving so now thats 7. Ill keep prayin on it. Ive also been trying to find places here cheaper where i dont have to sign a 12 month lease. Thank you all for ur advice i truly appreciate it, its like noone outside this visa/adjustment process can even begin to understand.


I know u want to transfer thru your job.

have u thought about trying to find a job on your own, after u have the baby. you can apply for jobs from up here thanks to the internet and plan a week and go and interview. that is one of my friends did. companies will/should be flexible if u say i'm coming down this particular week
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-07 16:38:00
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QUOTE (clairern @ Mar 7 2008, 03:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well guys; I have been logged on all morning but have not been able to catch up with the goings on (I will later). Here is my issue----

Bear with me, this is gonna be long.....sigh rolleyes.gif rolleyes.gif

Mike and I were introduced back in March 8 2007 by my sis-in-law. I went to Ja to meet him in April and then again in October. After we met for the first time, it was an instant connection and we found that we had a lot in common in regards to what our expectations are in a relationship. We grew up a couple of miles apart from each other, we are the same age--he is older by 2 months. He is a Seventh-Day Adventist. I was born one. We were both married and are now divorced. We are both educated and have great conversations.

When I visited him, I did what anyone in a relationship would do, brought him gifts (it was around his birthday) and when I got back home and he lost his job after hurricaine Dean, I helped him out financially.

After I met him I found that he was everything I wanted in a life partner. I started to look into this VJ and found this site that offered a wealth of information. As we continued to get to know each other, I told him that I wanted us to be together for the rest of our lives and he told me he wanted the same thing. When I mentioned to him about the ways we could go about achieving that in regards to the fiance visa, he told me that his father had filed a petition for him way back in 2000 and he has not heard anything about it. He went as far as to give me copies of his petition and his father's number and asked that I followup on it for him. That made me really happy because the process was already in place.

After I contacted his father and got his info I called USCIS got his NVC case number, I started to followup and was asked by him after explanation from me, to be his agent. Since then I have taken care of all correspondence to and from NVC and all fees have been paid by me.

I do not know if you all remember how stressed out I was earlier this year, about the DS-230 and police report? Well, we have finally gotten over the hurdle of having case complete.

Well, I called him last night to tell him the good news and he was all nonchalant and not too responsive to me. I asked him if everthing was alright and he said everthing was. I then said what was the matter then and he said "I want to go to sleep". I was very perturbed and pissed off because I find that very unusual a reaction for a situation like this.

Lately, as I stated in some post before, we have not been talking that much. He is hot and cold towards me. when I call him during the day at work, everything is alright and we have a graet conversation. When I call him at night (I try not to call him after 9:30pm--he goes to bed then) he is not too eager to talk to me and I find that disturbing.
I know what all has been said here on VJ and in the past few pages of posts--but I am here wondering what the heck is going on.

I called his father and step-mom last night and told them how I felt and told them that if and when he get the visa, I do not want him to come to my home. They should have him come to Florida and stay a while with them and I will see how things are and waht happens then. I want to wait to see if this behavior is just out of fraustration or what and will things change after he is here.

What do you all think about this and am I wrong in telling his father what I did?

Your thoughts and reaction to this would be really appreciated.

luv.gif Sorry for the long post, I have no-one else to share things like this with and I am counting on my VJ sistas to give a listening ear and shoulder to lean on luv.gif


I don't like that at all. Claire, my mom is also 7-day


Wonderful advice so far ladies rose.gif

I must say I agree with Lawny on the bolded stuff...that troubles me a bit. The impression I got from your post (and please correct me if I am wrong) is that him not being to eager to talk with you at night is a common occurence and not something new. Is that right? Cause if something was bothering him or he was frustrated I could see it explaining new behaviors but if it something that has been going on for a while that is disturbing.

Bring his dad into things and talking to him about stuff isn't out of line IMO...he has been a part of it since the beginning but I am with JG in respect to the fact that you probably should have talked to Mike first.

All in all a good heartfelt talk is in order. Be open, honest and upfront with him and let him know you need to know what is going on - no matter how big or small you need to know whats up.


Agreed and i'm not sure u answered the question on how far you are from florida. I would still like to see him every day or almost every day.

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hi guys do u think any of ur SOs would object to being a stay at home dad if need be if its cheaper than daycare? By the way what are infant daycare costs like and the times in which u can drop them off and pick them up.


I can't say this loud enough but YES, most jamaican men do not like to be at home, looking after pickney, even if it's theres. they want to work be out the house.



yup that was his response when i asked him. My thoughts were that it may be cheaper for him stay home. Its just a thought. Now if he gets paid like 11.75 im estimating at 40 hours a week that would give about 350 maybe? and that will only just cover daycare and we need a lot more than that im trying figure what cost i will cut to afford daycare and any other expenses right now i have no extra to cover that so i been praying on it and trying find a cheaper place to live.



did u price daycare where u are??? know any older ladies who want to supplement their income??? Is your mother near you she might know someone


When my daughter was in Daycare ... and I even found preschool this way ... I called churches. Both the churches that helped me happen to be Methodist but Church people know people.... They know the community.
Open the yellow pages and call and visit everyone you can.
When I moved back to Maine I cried and cried because I didnt think I could afford it. Even though I work at home I couldnt get work done with a wired kid running around. I eventually found some GREAT care.

You have to hunt the good ones down!





I been crying and cryin too already and baby is nowhere near here yet. Going to do some OT now while i can to try save up some money and finish off my jamaica travel debt and the visa stuff. Im going to start lookign into and call some places. Im still hoping the TX thing will come through for me by summer that will tremendously cut my costs. They need 8 people to leave before i can come. So far one is leaving so now thats 7. Ill keep prayin on it. Ive also been trying to find places here cheaper where i dont have to sign a 12 month lease. Thank you all for ur advice i truly appreciate it, its like noone outside this visa/adjustment process can even begin to understand.


I forgot i have to do my taxes too that i hope will def give me a nice refund smile.gif


right hopefully u can save some of that towards daycare
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If you get to itemize, you do get to take a portion of that daycare cost off your taxes too. It's not a big plus in lieu of the costs involved; but it is something.



right think it's between 3 to 5 thousand dollars



Holy cow! When I spent close to 10,000 on daycare .. I got $600 back. :-(
Must depend on the state.



I think that is how much u can deduct
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hi guys do u think any of ur SOs would object to being a stay at home dad if need be if its cheaper than daycare? By the way what are infant daycare costs like and the times in which u can drop them off and pick them up.


I can't say this loud enough but YES, most jamaican men do not like to be at home, looking after pickney, even if it's theres. they want to work be out the house.



yup that was his response when i asked him. My thoughts were that it may be cheaper for him stay home. Its just a thought. Now if he gets paid like 11.75 im estimating at 40 hours a week that would give about 350 maybe? and that will only just cover daycare and we need a lot more than that im trying figure what cost i will cut to afford daycare and any other expenses right now i have no extra to cover that so i been praying on it and trying find a cheaper place to live.



did u price daycare where u are??? know any older ladies who want to supplement their income??? Is your mother near you she might know someone


nope only folks i know in jersey are the peopl i work with no friends here outside. Mom is in MD. Id have more options there if i were still living there


try craigslist.com and ask your friends at work, u never know where help might come from
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If you get to itemize, you do get to take a portion of that daycare cost off your taxes too. It's not a big plus in lieu of the costs involved; but it is something.



right think it's between 3 to 5 thousand dollars
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hi guys do u think any of ur SOs would object to being a stay at home dad if need be if its cheaper than daycare? By the way what are infant daycare costs like and the times in which u can drop them off and pick them up.


I can't say this loud enough but YES, most jamaican men do not like to be at home, looking after pickney, even if it's theres. they want to work be out the house.



yup that was his response when i asked him. My thoughts were that it may be cheaper for him stay home. Its just a thought. Now if he gets paid like 11.75 im estimating at 40 hours a week that would give about 350 maybe? and that will only just cover daycare and we need a lot more than that im trying figure what cost i will cut to afford daycare and any other expenses right now i have no extra to cover that so i been praying on it and trying find a cheaper place to live.



did u price daycare where u are??? know any older ladies who want to supplement their income??? Is your mother near you she might know someone
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hi guys do u think any of ur SOs would object to being a stay at home dad if need be if its cheaper than daycare? By the way what are infant daycare costs like and the times in which u can drop them off and pick them up.


I can't say this loud enough but YES, most jamaican men do not like to be at home, looking after pickney, even if it's theres. they want to work be out the house.



Hell, I don't even want to be home exclusively looking after the kids. My personality does not allow me to stay in the house for long!


when i was home before i had the baby, i was always outside. I stayed home with my son and after a while i started feeling disconnected from the outside world. think it would be harder for someone who isn't from here..might start to feel isolated...maybe this is why English wants a job?
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-07 16:16:00
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Lawny,

I see nothing wrong with it either...but would the man like it...that is the question..
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-07 16:12:00
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hi guys do u think any of ur SOs would object to being a stay at home dad if need be if its cheaper than daycare? By the way what are infant daycare costs like and the times in which u can drop them off and pick them up.


I can't say this loud enough but YES, most jamaican men do not like to be at home, looking after pickney, even if it's theres. they want to work be out the house.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-07 16:09:00
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Even $9.99 is too much. I hate the thought of spending that to send down $50.

One of my SIL's is 16 and she's been clammoring for hoodies. Seems the craze is sweeping the teenagers on the island. My problem was finding a hoodie appropriate for JA. I mean, hello, I live where it snows.....they were all too thick. We found some at Sears. Got her a lightweight long sleeve one and a couple light short sleeve ones. Also slippers. Old Navy (flip flops) slippers all the time.

MIL is tricker......I think both of your ideas are lovely.


mr jengles younger brother wanted a hoodie also....he wanted to be gangsta...mr jengles give him one of his...
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-07 16:02:00
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Ok ladies next question...

I want to take something nice for my MIL and SIL when we go, they haven't called to ask for one thing since he's been here. I can't ask him what he thinks they'd like because he doesn't even no we're going. So I am asking for suggestions. I was thinking something from bath and body, or maybe a piece of jewelry.



they don't want clothes?? most jamaicans I know want clothes to bring unless the men want some sort of electronics.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-07 15:56:00
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mi can't wait for clarien to come wid the topic and the day soon done...so mi have a ???


This is sort of the flip side of most of us ladies were handling our business before we met our s/o. How do u handle that because we have it together sometimes the men, think it's okay to send down unreasonable sums of money to J.A. when mr jengles first came he threw out a three figure amount that he wanted to send down every WEEK. I had to ask him who he wanted to send that too?? It does kill me a little bit, that some people down there don't work and i'm up here busting my butt every day.

I explained to him how much daycare cost, the fact that they we needed a bigger place to live and most importantly...di fact that he didn't have a job or knew how much money he was going to make. wacko.gif

off to a meeting back in a few
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-07 14:17:00
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I'm sure she frozy by now. yes.gif laughing.gif



yes.gif yes.gif mek we put together and buy her some dettol!!
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Where's Claire wid deh topic?



? yes.gif



fi real....brownin....yuh man give u his heart and u gwan buy clothes for him....is that what your meez is saying.


yep..he nah realize tho no0pb.gif , i have sumting that i'll mek him forget bout those dirty dishes. lol

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? yes.gif



fi real....brownin....yuh man give u his heart and u gwan buy clothes for him....is that what your meez is saying.

laughing.gif

Mi meez cyaan bodda fi get offa deh couch tuday laughing.gif


your's and kimmy's both.


fir real, Kimmy's meez nuh get up off of the couch in weeks....mi wonder if she bathe her skin
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Where's Claire wid deh topic?



? yes.gif



fi real....brownin....yuh man give u his heart and u gwan buy clothes for him....is that what your meez is saying.
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Metal salts ??? I'm going to assume they are harmless, yes??
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Hey guys, good morning. Seems like I have to back pedal to catch up on all the juicy gossip and good news and good advice that you all have dished out. I am logged on at work and will try to keep up as much as I can. I have an orientee with me today and I gave her both patients and she is a little behind and I am gonna lite some fire under her jest.gif jest.gif Talk to you all later. I have a topic that I need you all help on but will post it later.
Love you all tons

Claire


She a tease we wid deh topic *kissteet* tongue.gif laughing.gif


Lawny glad fi hear dat deh cold shower a wuk fi yuh yes.gif Mi did worry about yuh lass night luv.gif laughing.gif


Thanks Yardie...but now mi deah a work inah HEAT...poor mi. Mi a gwaan drink some cold watah.


JENGS....weh mi food deh? I would like to place an order for green bannanas and fried liver with onions, then...2 fried rainbow snapper with BAMMI, after dat---a side of ackee and salt fish (with some FESTIVAL)...wait deh mi no done yet--time fi mi fruit (2 #12 mango and 1 juliee mango, a side a jackfruit, 2 oranges, 1 bannana). A'right...den to WASH it all down. 1/2 gallon a SOUWAH soup Juice and some REAL, CHOCHOLATE TEA...I don't want Milo and I don't want HOT CHOCOLATE...mi want di CHOCOLATE TEA...u know a wah name so? ((((((Chups))))) tanks baby luv...u a di best.



beg u pardon....mi neva hear of choclate tea and is how many u a eat fa???? Kimmy can nyam for herself now thank u very much....dat sound breakfast, lunch and two snacks.....u a breed?? and from since when mi name short order cook???

Yardie - Lawny a breed and u never tell me??? *cha*

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Morning all

Lawny mi deh yah..u sweat if off last night ? whistling.gif



Is where u come from??
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Hey guys, good morning. Seems like I have to back pedal to catch up on all the juicy gossip and good news and good advice that you all have dished out. I am logged on at work and will try to keep up as much as I can. I have an orientee with me today and I gave her both patients and she is a little behind and I am gonna lite some fire under her jest.gif jest.gif Talk to you all later. I have a topic that I need you all help on but will post it later.
Love you all tons

Claire


She a tease we wid deh topic *kissteet* tongue.gif laughing.gif


Lawny glad fi hear dat deh cold shower a wuk fi yuh yes.gif Mi did worry about yuh lass night luv.gif laughing.gif



a dat mi a seh too, we need something to do while we are at work. lol
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JENGS,

Weh mi breakfast deh?



It right yah,

yes Iriecat we can have a vege breakfast,

i'm having toast and cornmeal porridge.
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Good morning ladies,

Hope everyone has a good Friday. I'm so on this board and totally didn't realize there was a bombing here. i think it happened yesterday morning?? Ugh

I'm so glad I work closer to home now, it would still be a hike,, but i think i would just have to walk over one of the bridges and then I'd be good. and it is sad that i even have to think about stuff like this, but when looking for work, this is what i thought about, how long would it talk me to walk home... On 9/11 it took me three hours to wa;k home. but then i had no kids, now it's different.



I watch GMA every morning and saw about the bombing. I guy on a bike through a pipe bomb at the recruiting center in Times Square... It was yesterday morning at like 4am.

It is different with kids for sure.

I was pregnant and a mile from the Pentagon on 9/11 ... I was bawling all day. And then kept having crazy dreams where fighter jets and tanks were all over Alexandria VA! I am emotional as it is .. but pregant too... I was a mess!!!


I didn't start crying until the next day, that's when I started seeing the people on t.v. walking around with pictures looking for loved ones. this one guy who worked for a pager company rigged his father's pager to go off every minute or so, but of course dad was never able to call back.
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Good morning ladies,

Hope everyone has a good Friday. I'm so on this board and totally didn't realize there was a bombing here. i think it happened yesterday morning?? Ugh

I'm so glad I work closer to home now, it would still be a hike,, but i think i would just have to walk over one of the bridges and then I'd be good. and it is sad that i even have to think about stuff like this, but when looking for work, this is what i thought about, how long would it talk me to walk home... On 9/11 it took me three hours to wa;k home. but then i had no kids, now it's different.
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Cho...mi ago chop up mi neighbor dawg an curry im to baxide...im a mex too much noise

Mi nah come a fi yuh yawd fi dinna laughing.gif

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Cho...mi ago chop up mi neighbor dawg an curry im to baxide...im a mex too much noise


leff the dawg lone...which when u curry him, u house get robbed, im a do his job, u see it!!!

hey yuhhhhhhh, TEK AWF MI JUMPSUIT!!!!



tenks

can hear the convo now, Lawny, this meat taste good, what it name ?...neighbor dawg!!!


beg u pardon...mi never see yuh inna dat jumpsuit deh....that is why mi nuh like shop weh any and anybody shop



















laughing.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif



can hear the convo now, Lawny, this meat taste good, what it name ?...neighbor dawg!!!


beg u pardon...mi never see yuh inna dat jumpsuit deh....that is why mi nuh like shop weh any and anybody shop
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Cho...mi ago chop up mi neighbor dawg an curry im to baxide...im a mex too much noise

Mi nah come a fi yuh yawd fi dinna laughing.gif

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Cho...mi ago chop up mi neighbor dawg an curry im to baxide...im a mex too much noise


leff the dawg lone...which when u curry him, u house get robbed, im a do his job, u see it!!!

hey yuhhhhhhh, TEK AWF MI JUMPSUIT!!!!



tenks

can hear the convo now, Lawny, this meat taste good, what it name ?...neighbor dawg!!!


beg u pardon...mi never see yuh inna dat jumpsuit deh....that is why mi nuh like shop weh any and anybody shop



















laughing.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif

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Cho...mi ago chop up mi neighbor dawg an curry im to baxide...im a mex too much noise


leff the dawg lone...which when u curry him, u house get robbed, im a do his job, u see it!!!

Edited by Jengles, 06 March 2008 - 09:32 PM.

JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-06 21:30:00
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just talked about this at work...it doesn't get any better than this for the woman...he admits on national tv to cheating...every judge in the world will give her half...plus he had his own money...daddy left him 500 million dollars...and she has three kids whistling.gif whistling.gif whistling.gif whistling.gif good.gif


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$500 MILLION! yes.gif mi we give im a one wine fi dat... a joke mi a mek...Kimmy no badah seh nutin cause mi know u laughing.gif
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but yuh nah left nuttin for his kids???

exactly, she had to show the right face to her kids...he publicly admitted to cheating on her..with prostitues and now while cheating is cheating...one of my friends suggested that it was better that he was cheating with a prostitute because there was no attachments..it's all about the sex as opposed to cheating with one woman for a few years??

I know some of you are going to say cheating is cheating, and let's try not to get all caught up in that! but what do you all think?? is that true?

The above started out as a simple post and got turned into something else.
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weh everybody mouth join church now..wah mek di board get so quiet whistling.gif


What do my fellow New Yorkers think of our Governor???!!! Jeez louise.....


It's a dyam shame...mek dat be one of "us" and dem woulda haul and pull wi like wi kill one a dem family memba...him resign now...unbelievable..and him wife stand up proud beside him...pure foolishness



just talked about this at work...it doesn't get any better than this for the woman...he admits on national tv to cheating...every judge in the world will give her half...plus he had his own money...daddy left him 500 million dollars...and she has three kids whistling.gif whistling.gif whistling.gif whistling.gif good.gif


Of course, she could stand by him, rustle up some political clout, and eventually run for the presidential nomination!


right JG, she does have that option...first she would have to move to a state where there will be a sentor opening soon and convience the people in that state...that she loved it along and that's why she's moving there


Hmmmm......so if Clinton were to win, she could just slip on in there.


yes.gif yes.gif laughing.gif Yup, I never thought of that
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weh everybody mouth join church now..wah mek di board get so quiet whistling.gif


What do my fellow New Yorkers think of our Governor???!!! Jeez louise.....


It's a dyam shame...mek dat be one of "us" and dem woulda haul and pull wi like wi kill one a dem family memba...him resign now...unbelievable..and him wife stand up proud beside him...pure foolishness



just talked about this at work...it doesn't get any better than this for the woman...he admits on national tv to cheating...every judge in the world will give her half...plus he had his own money...daddy left him 500 million dollars...and she has three kids whistling.gif whistling.gif whistling.gif whistling.gif good.gif


Of course, she could stand by him, rustle up some political clout, and eventually run for the presidential nomination!


right JG, she does have that option...first she would have to move to a state where there will be a sentor opening soon and convience the people in that state...that she loved it along and that's why she's moving there
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-12 13:49:00