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Mexico, Latin & South America2009 Yardie Interview Schedule


Delivery, lol I need a beer already!!!

I just feel like this has been an uphill battle from day 1.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2009-07-10 20:09:00
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Ok so here is the update, I called the embassy on Monday, of course this being the embassy I had to back into someone to talk to. So they transferred me to the mailroom blink.gif he in turn transferred me to someone, who told me to check with dhl, because since the passports were in house since the 6/16 surely they had gone out. whistling.gif told him I didn't think so mad.gif he then told me they would be done next week, wacko.gif but when I asked why he couldn't really answer me. he transferred me to a nice lady good.gif who put me on hold for a half hour mad.gif ( did I mention I was calling from my cellphone) mad.gif she said she thought the visas had been printed into the passports but they weren't unsure.gif so they couldn't send them out unsure.gif

I called back on Tuesday, still had to go through the mailroom cause I had no names, but I needed helpsmilie.gif . the coversation went like this, remember me, I called u yesterday and u transferred me to someone can u please transfer me to that same person blush.gif . anyhoo he didand the same man said he had the names written on his desk as an alert and it will pop up. I said if the passports could just pop out of the embassy i would like it very much, he rofl.gif

I didn't call him on Wednesday.

I called yesterday from new york after meeting the insurance adjusters about my tree. offtopic45vn.gif Do you know that I am responsible for removing the dyam tree, because it was alive, if it were a dead tree my neighbor would have to pay for removal but not me but it Off-Topic2.gif

and was told by the person that the visas were printed yesterday.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2009-07-10 13:18:00
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Ok so we still haven't gotten the passports, so face is starting to screw up. Spoke to someone on the 26th who told me the girls got two year k-4's and just had to wait for final approval from the state department and the visas getting printed. my sister is in j.a. so she is calling for me and I'm going to send them an e-mail. tomorrow makes three weeks they have the passports.

Hotlegz- u never deh bout when mi deh bout.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2009-07-06 12:22:00
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my blue slip appt was on 6/16. I heard it went ok now just waiting for the visas whistling.gif
JenglesFemaleJamaica2009-06-22 17:52:00
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Yup it is working out, the girls grandmother called yesterday and said she went to the passport office and they said the soonest they could get her a passport was June 4th, so of course now I am praying for a date after that. lol

It was my first time in Kingston, I was sooooo excited, that is where my mother is from. The only that could have made me complete was if I actually got to go to a dance in Kingston. but alas with two underage girls in tow that was not to be.

Hope everyone's interviews work out well
JenglesFemaleJamaica2009-05-15 21:23:00
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hello everyone I'm back from J.A. good news and bad news. bad news I listened to my sister and didn't take the girls birth certificates with me and asked the girls grandmother to let me use her copies. I could have cried and almost did when on Sunday night, I opened the envelope and realized that mr jengs name was not on the grandmother's copies. I had a fit.

anyhoo I went to the embassy anyway and got the white lady who I was dredding she was denying visas left and right and ordering dna tests and telling people come back with more evidence and husbands/wives. I was praying i didn't get her. anyway so of course I got her. I gave her all me and mr jengs paperwork, she took want she wanted and gave me back the rest and told me I needed the orignal certificates on security paper because the send them to the U.S. I was trying to have her use the notarized copies I had sent down.

Another lady came over while she was digging thru my paperwork and they started wispering. The black lady seemed to be telling her, that usually the couples aren't together at this point. They actually asked me who filed for me. So I corrected them and said no I filed for my husband. That was the only question they asked me. She gave me a blue sheet and said i must follow the instructions for the info appt to just drop off the certificates and the girls passports for their visas. then I started asking questions, because mr jengs visa expires in july. I asked them how long would the girls visas be good for. they stated the girls visas would be good for a year.

It all worked out because the eldest girl's passport expires in November of this year. The lady at the window said it would be better if when we came back with the certificates we also come back with a new passport for her. So we are working on that right now.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2009-05-12 22:05:00
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Ok called down to the embassy this morning, my same angel answered the phone and faxed a copy of the letter to me innocent.gif . Of course it was dated today, but at least I have it.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2009-04-14 13:01:00
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ok we have no interview letter and the medical soon come.. I asked them twice to e-mail me a copy and asked them to verify that it was mailed to the girls grandmother and of course no response.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2009-04-11 20:57:00
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I got a date May 4th at 8:30 am. I spoke to the same lady I got a month ago, who said they just got it. I'm happy


Congrats Jengles!! Does the Mister have to go back to take the girls to the interview?




Who???? after all the work and phone calls I put in. I am going.!!!!!!! whistling.gif me and my sister,

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I got a date May 4th at 8:30 am. I spoke to the same lady I got a month ago, who said they just got it. I'm happy



it's about damn rass time



U know that's right!!!



So because the interview date took so long to assign, the mr has to put in his I-485 without the girls and a I-539 to renew his k3. *more money*
JenglesFemaleJamaica2009-03-30 15:59:00
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I got a date May 4th at 8:30 am. I spoke to the same lady I got a month ago, who said they just got it. I'm happy
JenglesFemaleJamaica2009-03-30 09:44:00
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Hi Thompson2B,

I added my email address to the 3032 form, they also had my email from any inquiries I mailed to them. My girlfriend who was pending her interview date from Columbia also recvd hers via email last week. My SO has yet to recv anything in the mail and the medical is tomorrow. I would just contact them to make sure the have yours on file.


Thanks!! Anything not to have to rely on the mail is a plus!



Hey Thompson I know that's right, it is truly undependable, my Hubby never recvd anything for the K3 and he is in Kingston and normally gets everything. Damn shame blink.gif


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Perfect- Thanks for updating us! How long did it take to the get the perm res card and did they need to see that at the SS place?]

I hope you guys are having fun! McKoy gets here Friday!

Thanks!



Great news Melissa I know you are so excited kicking.gif star_smile.gif kicking.gif

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I am about as fustrated as I can be, I know the documents were recieved the beginning of this month and the person I spoke to told me she would send the girls grandmother an letter just letting her know the documents were in Kingston, instead nothing, spoke to some one on Monday and today and was told, they can't tell me anything over the phone. I don't want to deal with the whole we never got the documents thing again, but got the address for complaints and will be sending out a letter if I don't hear from them by Monday. I am so DONE.



Hey Jengles I know you are frustrated but hang in there and keep doing what your are doing. I would surely follow that complaint route as well. THE POWER OF THE PEN!



There's no hope if the mail system can't get a letter from Kingston to Kingston. wacko.gif


So I get a response from them friday afternoon, that says the following

Hi,

K4 case purge on 24may08.

so of course I'm like huh???

so I sent the following response "please confirm interview date is may, 29th 09

got back the following response "sorry can't confirm visa date"

so i sent the following response, when will i get a date I was told I should have a date by the end of march.

was told to send my name and case number?? which i did and I'm still waiting for a response.

I think this only responding by e-mail is stupid
JenglesFemaleJamaica2009-03-29 18:38:00
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I am about as fustrated as I can be, I know the documents were recieved the beginning of this month and the person I spoke to told me she would send the girls grandmother an letter just letting her know the documents were in Kingston, instead nothing, spoke to some one on Monday and today and was told, they can't tell me anything over the phone. I don't want to deal with the whole we never got the documents thing again, but got the address for complaints and will be sending out a letter if I don't hear from them by Monday. I am so DONE.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2009-03-27 11:49:00
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mrs hamiliton.

I see you are doing a k-3, if you haven't done so already, download the ds-230 part 1 fill it out send it to hubby for him to sign and have him courier it to the embassy if u can.

my whole process was delayed about six weeks because kingston mailed out his packet 3 and he never got it, when all they needed was the ds-230 part 1 to schedule the interview.

good luck, u can pm if u have any questions
JenglesFemaleJamaica2009-02-24 10:07:00
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hey sus,

thanks for the response, yesterdays e-mail subject line was "third request" and it doesn't help that I don't have a case number. hopefully they won't toss the documents out after my response this morning.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2009-02-20 11:02:00
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I think flirting with another woman in front of me is DISRESPECTFUL...I would never do that and I'm sure my man wouldn't like it.

Years ago I was dating this guy and we went out to eat. I noticed from we sat down that this woman kept flirting with my date and we kept talking about it. So, I told him I'm going to get up and go to the restroom. The woman's date went outside to make a call and the woman walked by and handed her business card to my date. She also wrote on the back of the card (call me after 11pm he'll be at work. When I got back to the table my date gave me the card and YES, I got up walked over to her table and handed it to her date (which was her husband) and told him to read what's on the back. Was I wrong to do that?


yes.gif

I don't think we all flirt. I think to flirt while your SO is or isn't around is completely disrespectful.

I would have done the same thing Lawny. I don't think it was wrong at all...the woman asked for it IMO.



Lawny,

what that woman did was past flirting, to me flirting is just a few words u say to a person in passing. handing out numbers is a come on and she knew he was with you, but was trying to be the side chick.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-05 14:24:00
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The thing I am trying to say is there is no going back. If a man cheats on me, he better be willing to move forward. I have never, nor will I ever take a cheater back. It is my one rule I have never, nor will I ever go back on.

So, no, the answer is that it is not hard to stick to a rule you make if you really believe in that rule.

In a marriage, or any relationship for that matter, there are always grey areas to compromise on. However, I believe cheating breaks ALL the rules. I never compromise on this issue.



Just to play devils advocate here....what if you found out your partner cheated say, a year ago? You just find out, would you leave him now, or forgive what he did a year ago? Also, what if this same situation had children involved, meaning you have a young child between the 2 of you?


Yes, one of us would have to go. There are not "what ifs" in this one for me. If he cheats....at any point during our relationship.....and I find out about it, it's over. I believe in this issue with everything I have. There is no gray area here. I make it very clear from the beginning of a serious relationship. If you want me, you can have only me. If you want others, then move along.

No other scenario would make a difference. I am not dependent on any man. I need my husband in many different ways but to say I am solely dependent on anyone but myself is absolutely ridiculous. I am a strong woman completely capable of taking care of myself. My husband does not complete me, nor vice versa. We compliment each other.


WOW! Well I don't think anyone questions your "independecy" JG. You make it quite clear that you can take care of yourself. However, I don't think that has anything to do with a partner that cheated a year ago.



Of course it does. If I set ground rules that say I am unbendable on this subject, why would any time period or dependents make a difference?

QUOTE (Jengles @ Mar 5 2008, 01:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
all i did was go to lunch and you all chat up two more pages,



uhhummm (clears throat) and who started it?


whistling.gif whistling.gif whistling.gif whistling.gif innocent.gif innocent.gif innocent.gif ok I see your point
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-05 14:16:00
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The thing I am trying to say is there is no going back. If a man cheats on me, he better be willing to move forward. I have never, nor will I ever take a cheater back. It is my one rule I have never, nor will I ever go back on.

So, no, the answer is that it is not hard to stick to a rule you make if you really believe in that rule.

In a marriage, or any relationship for that matter, there are always grey areas to compromise on. However, I believe cheating breaks ALL the rules. I never compromise on this issue.



Just to play devils advocate here....what if you found out your partner cheated say, a year ago? You just find out, would you leave him now, or forgive what he did a year ago? Also, what if this same situation had children involved, meaning you have a young child between the 2 of you?


I'm just not willing to say what I would or would not do. Cause SHYT HAPPENS. and I just wouldn't know till it happens.


agreed, and for some women they need to get to the point where they are no longer emotionally attached to where they can leave, that can take some time
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-05 14:13:00
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all i did was go to lunch and you all chat up two more pages,
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-05 14:00:00
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Cheating is cheating....and that is anything he wouldn`t do in front of me



I agree with both of the last 2 posts on this subject.

We are all adults here. We know what friendship entails and when know when it crosses over the boundry into something else. If he's hiding stuff from you, that boundry has been crossed. If me or my husband can't say something in the presence of the other to one of our "friends" then we have a problem.


agree with what i've bolded

but i'm thinking i'm not understanding what emotional cheating is! i'm thinking that it is stuff u should be telling your wife and your not, maybe because the two of you have grown apart, i'm picking up from the other posts..that in really almost come in like flirting?? is this right?? like fishing to see if u can go there (sexually) helpsmilie.gif


I thinkin it can be both ways. I think flirting can be strictly physical. Heck I flirt. But when you to get to confiding in another man or woman that's different, you look foward to your interactions with the other person, they start to make you feel good( need being met) They are forfilling a neet not being met by the husband or wife or not realizing their need can only be met by the MAN ABOVE. They are headed for trouble.


Ok so what happens when the other party realizes what is happening and steps in? and says i am uncomfortable with this relationship, let's say then the person talks to his/her SO and says the reason why i was sharing things with the other person is because we were growing aprart and they work on it. I think at that point the relationship can be saved, no??

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Cheating is cheating....and that is anything he wouldn`t do in front of me



I agree with both of the last 2 posts on this subject.

We are all adults here. We know what friendship entails and when know when it crosses over the boundry into something else. If he's hiding stuff from you, that boundry has been crossed. If me or my husband can't say something in the presence of the other to one of our "friends" then we have a problem.


agree with what i've bolded

but i'm thinking i'm not understanding what emotional cheating is! i'm thinking that it is stuff u should be telling your wife and your not, maybe because the two of you have grown apart, i'm picking up from the other posts..that in really almost come in like flirting?? is this right?? like fishing to see if u can go there (sexually) helpsmilie.gif



I think it boils down to how you feel when you are saying whatever it is you are saying. If it's something you feel you can't tell your spouse, then it probably is wrong to be discussing it with another person.

If you are fishing, isn't the fat lady singing anyhow? Why would someone even "fish" if they didnt' think they needed to move on?


Plenty of men fish without thinking they need to move on, lol
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-05 13:00:00
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QUOTE (Yardiewife @ Mar 5 2008, 12:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
A quick google search...

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Definition: An emotional affair is a secret relationship that involves intimate sharings with some one other than a spouse.
If a person is no longer confiding thoughts and feelings with his/her spouse, the individual is either in an emotional affair or ready for one.

Examples: For some individuals, the most hurtful and painful consequences of an emotional affair is the sense of being deceived, betrayed, and lied to.

http://marriage.abou...ionalaffair.htm

An emotional affair is when a person not only invests more of their emotional energy outside their marriage, but also receives emotional support and companionship from the new relationship.
In an emotional affair, a person feels closer to the other party and may experience increasing sexual tension.

If you believe that a person's emotional energy is limited, then if your spouse is sharing intimate thoughts and feelings with someone else, an emotional affair has developed.

Although cheaters are often guilt-free in an emotional affair because there is no sex involved, their spouses often view an emotional affair as damaging as a sexual affair.

Much of the pain and hurt from an emotional affair is due to the deception, lies, and feelings of being betrayed.

http://marriage.abou...nalaffair_2.htm


Ok no not down with any secret relationship,
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-05 12:55:00
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Cheating is cheating....and that is anything he wouldn`t do in front of me



I agree with both of the last 2 posts on this subject.

We are all adults here. We know what friendship entails and when know when it crosses over the boundry into something else. If he's hiding stuff from you, that boundry has been crossed. If me or my husband can't say something in the presence of the other to one of our "friends" then we have a problem.


agree with what i've bolded

but i'm thinking i'm not understanding what emotional cheating is! i'm thinking that it is stuff u should be telling your wife and your not, maybe because the two of you have grown apart, i'm picking up from the other posts..that in really almost come in like flirting?? is this right?? like fishing to see if u can go there (sexually) helpsmilie.gif
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-05 12:39:00
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I know that for men it would eventually lead to something sexual but say there is just the emotional/intimate/getting to be more than just a friend side of things first. If you found that out before anything sexual happened would you still feel like he cheated? Would you consider that to be just as bad as doing something of a sexual nature?



Yes. Yes. It goes back to respecting me and the vows he made. No one is holding a gun to his head and making him stay with me or married to me. He is free to go at any time he wishes and then he is free to persue anyone else he wants to.


but technically at that point they would be just friends, if at that point you expressed to your s/o that you were uncomfortable with the relationship and the friendship changed. I wouldn't look at it as anyone should end their marriage over that.

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I do think some women are scared of being alone, scared of losing the time `invested`...instead of wasting more time on the man who has proven himself worthless on the premise that they decided to fight for their relationship, they need to leave and start afresh with someone who has respect for them.



Amen.

There are so many great women out there wasting their time trying to rehab a loser cheating man.


yes.gif I totally agree.

Now to throw something else into this discussion...

Do you think there is such a thing as emotional cheating? Everyone assumes cheating to be on a sexual level but do you think such a thing exists as cheating on your wife emotionally?




Ditto...and can go both ways. When needs are not being met...You can betta believe you open yourself to crossing some boundaries.


true dat!!!
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-05 12:23:00
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I do think some women are scared of being alone, scared of losing the time `invested`...instead of wasting more time on the man who has proven himself worthless on the premise that they decided to fight for their relationship, they need to leave and start afresh with someone who has respect for them.



Amen.

There are so many great women out there wasting their time trying to rehab a loser cheating man.


yes.gif I totally agree.

Now to throw something else into this discussion...

Do you think there is such a thing as emotional cheating? Everyone assumes cheating to be on a sexual level but do you think such a thing exists as cheating on your wife emotionally?


thanks for that breath of fresh air and I say yes, I don't mind woman friends, but when it comes to to telling them things you wouldn't tell or share with me then i would have a problem with that.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-05 12:04:00
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mr jengles has agreed to take the car to the junkyard, so it looks like he might be back next week!!
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-05 11:53:00
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Yes, I can agree with that.
But I also feel that the wife doesn`t mean much to them either if they are willing to disrespect her by cheating.


Men will do what they feel they can get away with.

If they were 100% sure the wife would leave, then they wouldn`t...



I agree 100%!



Me too.

Which is why it is important to set ground rules and stick by them.


but sometimes isn't that hard?? One always knows what should be done....but what actually gets done is sometimes something different.
i.e. English's friend who went back to her boyfriend or whatever he is to her and now he's making kid number 2 with the baby mother. Deep in her heart she knew she should have left him the first time she found out and look at what has happened now??

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JENGS........wake up....wake up


fi real, i was on time today, so the day is going to drag, helpsmilie.gif


??? Here's my question for the day and when thinking about the answer let's try to leave our husband's/SO's out of it.

Do you believe the statement. She means nothing to me, when a man is caught cheating? Men (friends) have told me over and over again that men can sleep with a woman and have zero feelings for her. From observing men, I in part do belive that statement to be true, but when it goes on for a long time, that's when i'm like NOT. Long time meaning years and then they start having kids and all that stuff and he's still with his wife.

I'm awake now



She means something to him. If a man cheats on his wife, that other woman had some sort of pull, even if it was just to stroke his ego to know someone else still wants him. She meant enough for him to completely disrespect his wife and the vows of marriage he made.

That being said, I think a man can have casual affairs without it meaning any matter of the heart. He can have sex without being in love with the woman, sometimes without even really liking her. Women are usually much tougher on their hearts in these matters.

The very first time he cheated it would mean something to me. Something I could never forgive nor forget.


I agree 100%. I wasn't until recently I found out my ex is/was engaged to another woman in Jamaica. Doesn't even make sense for me to confront him about it now. It just explains (A LOT), him never wanted to take me to Jamaica with him the 10 years we've been together. That was the LAST thing on my mind, besides, I would have NEVER forgiven him. When men have cheated on my in the past, all I ask for is a little honesty. I won't take you back, but I'll have a LITTLE respect for you down the road. Just be honest. Like grandmother would say...bettah u HURT me now, than HURT me later.


but isn't he with someone else up here??
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-05 11:43:00
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JENGS........wake up....wake up


fi real, i was on time today, so the day is going to drag, helpsmilie.gif


??? Here's my question for the day and when thinking about the answer let's try to leave our husband's/SO's out of it.

Do you believe the statement. She means nothing to me, when a man is caught cheating? Men (friends) have told me over and over again that men can sleep with a woman and have zero feelings for her. From observing men, I in part do belive that statement to be true, but when it goes on for a long time, that's when i'm like NOT. Long time meaning years and then they start having kids and all that stuff and he's still with his wife.

I'm awake now



She means something to him. If a man cheats on his wife, that other woman had some sort of pull, even if it was just to stroke his ego to know someone else still wants him. She meant enough for him to completely disrespect his wife and the vows of marriage he made.

That being said, I think a man can have casual affairs without it meaning any matter of the heart. He can have sex without being in love with the woman, sometimes without even really liking her. Women are usually much tougher on their hearts in these matters.

The very first time he cheated it would mean something to me. Something I could never forgive nor forget.



QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 5 2008, 10:02 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Again, forgiving infidelity in my eyes is a licence to cheat. He knows you`re not going anywhere, despite your threats...



I completely agree with this statement.

I, too, believe that if you let him get away with cheating at any time, he will KNOW he can do it again and again without consequences. He'll just get better at hiding it from you the next time.


Not even liking her, that is scary and English i totally agree with your second statement. Forgiving it the wrong way, just leads to more cheating, meaning there has to be some type of consequences. A long time ago one of my friend's uncles told her the same thing, if you make it to easy on a man to come back to you after he's cheated on you then he'll do it again.

I think women get stuck there. U might want him to suffer something but then their scared that they might drive him away to the other woman. but i think they should thing postive if he really wanted to be with her...wouldn't he have left you and went to her?? So sometimes the woman sho has been cheated on has more clout then she realizes...makes sense??
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-05 11:39:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Mar 5 2008, 10:25 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
JENGS........wake up....wake up


fi real, i was on time today, so the day is going to drag, helpsmilie.gif


??? Here's my question for the day and when thinking about the answer let's try to leave our husband's/SO's out of it.

Do you believe the statement. She means nothing to me, when a man is caught cheating? Men (friends) have told me over and over again that men can sleep with a woman and have zero feelings for her. From observing men, I in part do belive that statement to be true, but when it goes on for a long time, that's when i'm like NOT. Long time meaning years and then they start having kids and all that stuff and he's still with his wife.

I'm awake now
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-05 10:43:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Mar 4 2008, 09:59 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
OMG it's raining so hard outside and all I can think of is a song my LADY SAW

It's raining my body is calling I'm in need of my darling mi well want di fiyah under mi hering..baby luv (okay mi afi stop dehso) di rest to HOT fi unu... lawd mi bad devil.gif

Come on April 9th


Lawny,

look on the bright side, if you shave your meez mohawk, it will look just like her whistling.gif good.gif

ok i'm going to my bed, before Lawny come and cuss me off

Edited by Jengles, 04 March 2008 - 10:45 PM.

JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-04 22:44:00
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QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Mar 4 2008, 10:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Mar 4 2008, 09:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
but si yah wah di baxide part 6 ??? how oonuh chat so blinkin much..ever since lawny ketch ova yah bwoy none stop...gwaan back a ja/feb filers man...lol....

mi si Cpt Ewok post and mi seh..huh..wah apen laughing.gif mi tink a lock him a lock wi dung smile.gif wi a slow up di board laughing.gif laughing.gif

AND BY THE WAY...I WANT A ICEY..NOW tongue_ss.gif ohmy.gif


Mi naw go back ovah deh...dem too factey...no wah chat to mi...

Kim, u know dat dutty gyal to talk to the HR manager about mi since me lef wurk...girl me and she tomorraw...MI A SHE....CALAMITY



SHE LUCKY..u fi tell dem she ave a issue wah she need fi deal wid b4 she can come address odda issues..out of order...a same mi did know dis girlllmi wonder is she neva smell harself..she TINK..my gosh a alwasy dress lakka prim puss....i tell yah



Dwlllllllllll mi baxide a lang time mi no hear dem talk deh PRIM PUSS! Kim, she don't like mi and mi wusah no like ar...Since ar man a jamaican and im lef ar...a pur bad mout she deh pon...mi rass mi dah lef ar lang time



she did ave man wid dem dere smell ..lawrks


that's why he left helpsmilie.gif
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-04 22:11:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
Lawny,

she was out of order big time. when u go in tomorrow just keep it professional she made the personal comment and stick with that o and bye the way, when u was talking to her in patios all u said was mind your business. no one else understood you so it's all good and if they say what u said sounded like it was more than that, just tell them in patois it tek more time, to say what u want to say. what will they know??
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-04 22:09:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)
I logged on and thought oh no, my computer ate the thread. lol some very weird stuff was happening over the past few days
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-03-04 21:11:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaExisting in Shades of Blue
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QUOTE (jawi876 @ Jun 4 2008, 05:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
"Ah. You aspire to become a doctor I presume? Morehouse is a good school…not as good as our University here in Jamaica of course. So, you will be graduating NYC this year? That makes you around 21 or 22 years of age correct? You have done a lot of traveling to be so young."

"Yes ma'am you are correct on all accounts. I will be 22 in October. I love to travel. I hope to travel more once I complete my residency."

"Mummie, why are you giving him the third degree? It's only a wedding for goodness sakes." Natalie spoke while rolling her eyes upward.

"It's okay bab…Natalie…really." Tony corrected himself.

"After one chance encounter, such intimate terms of endearment Mr. Morgan?" Mrs. McCoy spoke with a raised eyebrow.

"Mummie! Yuh tuh rude and facety right yereso! Chat bout mi manners and yuh ah gwaan so!"

Tony grabbed Natalie's hand assuredly. "Natalie, baby. Don't get worked up over nothing sweetie. It's fine…really. Have a seat okay.

Mrs. McCoy, I hope you don't find me too forward, but I am a firm believer in love at first sight and destiny. I can see myself loving your daughter for the rest of our lives. If she will have me, I aim to make her my wife one day. I mean with yours and Mr. McCoy's blessings of course. My goal is to treat her as the queen you and your husband have raised her to be…always."


Wow!! Tony made a new world record with this here proposal.



good.gif good.gif fi real, mi almost did think they wedding they was talking about was fi dem own, mi say to myself boy him move fast.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-06-05 16:24:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaExisting in Shades of Blue
QUOTE (Jonesie @ May 25 2008, 12:29 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
She's working on more to post yes.gif



when????

is looking like i'm going to have to freeze myself, so uuno can wake me up when the next part of the story come....mek mi log off now. before me get ban from read the story... crying.gif crying.gif crying.gif
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-06-03 20:25:00
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QUOTE (Jengles @ Jun 2 2008, 10:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (jawi876 @ Jun 2 2008, 08:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey peeps...missed you guys too. I'm trying to add more story...but I have been out of town and I stay busy at work. Soon come. good.gif



whistling.gif whistling.gif whistling.gif typical yardie....a chat bout soon come... whistling.gif whistling.gif


Eeehhhnnnn. *laang dutty kiss teet* Soon come!



good grief, we lucky u nah feed we, cause we would have dead wid hunger...

but mi seh, me get into this story from the top and mi want more, don't let me start chanting and banging on the drums.....what was that?? is mi house and as long as u can't hear mi u fine?? Yuh see Jawi876 now u have me a chat phockery to myself..... mad.gif
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-06-03 20:23:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaExisting in Shades of Blue
QUOTE (jawi876 @ Jun 2 2008, 08:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey peeps...missed you guys too. I'm trying to add more story...but I have been out of town and I stay busy at work. Soon come. good.gif



whistling.gif whistling.gif whistling.gif typical yardie....a chat bout soon come... whistling.gif whistling.gif
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-06-02 21:41:00
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QUOTE (Deyoungting @ May 8 2008, 08:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (jawi876 @ May 8 2008, 08:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
***Hint*** The story covers past and present. good.gif

Pree slammed all thirteen inches of his unyielding manhood inside of Maureen’s dry womb.

Lawd Gawd blink.gif ...dat not nuh simple 'manhood' Jaws...Dats a WMD...a Weapon of MANdistruction!!! ohmy.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif

Don't stop...getting good Man!!!

Love ya,
Gill


LOL...I know. I know. He would have never had a chance with me...I'm lying. I would have been intrigued. devil.gif whistling.gif innocent.gif blush.gif blink.gif



13 Inches wacko.gif how come Pree don't have no interview a Kingston good.gif
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-05-08 20:45:00
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QUOTE (Jomo @ May 8 2008, 12:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I dont' care what you said in the disclaimer............I see shades of people I know in this story.

You go, girl!!!!!


mi a one a dem ? whistling.gif



oh yeah!!, that's right, U making $1000.00 a night???? even wid u belly u go girl!!!!! blink.gif
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-05-08 11:41:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaExisting in Shades of Blue
i'm just so happy, i get to be able to read this from the beginning, more please!!!!
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-05-05 14:45:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)
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QUOTE (Jengles @ Oct 17 2008, 09:28 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'm just trying to deal with life...mi alright I just so need a vacation two weeks ago I felt like a complete basket case and just run down, mr jengs told me I could take a vacation but I said no, didn't want to leave him alone, his grandfather died and they finally buried him on Saturday.



Hey Jengs;

Tell mistah mi sorry to hear dat. How are the kids? Did you move or are u still up so?


the kids are fine, just had to deal with a stomach virus and colds this weekend. I have not moved yet, but I pray I will do so by the end of the month.

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QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Oct 17 2008, 08:43 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
OMG.. finesse that is too funny!!! Girl I bet they didn't have much to say after that answer.. I can't even imagine


they sure didn't. we got our approval and everyone was cheering us as we left. even the interviewer was smiling!



that is too funny, but glad everything worked out for u.

QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Oct 17 2008, 09:38 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Sorry about you guys loss, much strength to mr jengs. If u can't take a physical vacation, I pray God can give u a mental one by relieving ur burdens and giving u rest..
Stay up mami..


mi alright now, turns out my iron was superlow. the doctor put me 325 milligrams three times a day. I think that is a bit much but as long as I can go to the bathroom i'm happy whistling.gif
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-10-17 09:16:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)
I'm just trying to deal with life...mi alright I just so need a vacation two weeks ago I felt like a complete basket case and just run down, mr jengs told me I could take a vacation but I said no, didn't want to leave him alone, his grandfather died and they finally buried him on Saturday.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-10-17 08:28:00