ForumTitleContentMemberSexCountryDate/Time
K-3 Spousal Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports4 months pregnant out of the U.S and waiting for my K-3 or I-130 to be approved!

I am also pregnant and haven't gotten aproved but i think as others said they don't care much about it. In my case we are very lucky that my fiance is getting a month of work and will come next week so he can be there for the birth but besides that i don't think that there are much options besides that unfortunately... But good luck to you hopefully your petition gets aproved soon


SteffileinFemaleGermany2014-01-27 17:24:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanThink carefully before you marry a Nigerian, I regret doing so!

I am not saying that they are all bad.. Many are very good.  His family members are all very good.  I thought that was a good sign, but aparently he was a bad apple in the bunch.  They are all very angry that he is behaving like this.   Of coarse his father also says that if I want the marriage to last,  I should close my eyes to anything he is doing as if I am not seeing it.   (basically to pretend I don't see him cheating.)        Please ask all the questions you want.    I don't want anyone else to get hurt like I did.  I know its hard because these men are so sexy and wonderful to talk to .  I really believed him .  Now I wish I didn't.

I am sorry to hear that you had to make that experience. And i can understand that the cheating is nothing any woman want's to just take like that i wouldn't do so either. But to me it just sounded that you were saying all Nigerians are the same i apologize if i misunderstood you. 

And it is very nice of you wanting to save others of making mistakes but i think that everybody is different. In my case people warned me not only once and it almost broke us because i almost started to believe them. But there are definitely good once out there and i feel very lucky to have met one of them.


SteffileinFemaleGermany2014-01-15 16:18:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanThink carefully before you marry a Nigerian, I regret doing so!

I know that there is a bad reputation of Nigerians in general and i was also very careful in the beginning of our relationship but i don't think that it is rite to say all of them are a certain way. my Fiance is originally from Nigeria and in our case he is the petitioner however he has always treated me with respect and always made me feel very special and proved his love so many times for me i am very thankful that i met him . But what i actually want to say is that i find it somehow ignorant to put all Nigerians in the same pot. 


SteffileinFemaleGermany2014-01-15 15:25:00