Forum	Title	Content	Member	Sex	Country	Date/Time
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	omg JQ~ i literally laughed aloud, you are funny as **! im dying and now hubby is giving me the stink eye b/c i just snorted a laugh that woke him up Just yuhseeit?? I did the same thing too....	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-05 08:02:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	JQ you are S..T...U..P..I..D!!!!!!! I LOL so hard.... KJ I hear yuh girl I just can't feel yuh girl..	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-04 22:26:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	MrsTee, who's asking you to mop the floor? Don't you have children? Reason #4 to have children: so they can clean the house. I love how your reasons to have children are so low and your reasons to NOT have them are so high!!! LOL	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-04 21:23:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Happy Resurrection Sunday!! I'm working with the 2nd/3rd graders today, on the busiest day of church in the year. KJ, it's hard to have sympathy for you with the #s you gave, but I did laugh at the picture of someone running in a park with a trash bag on. O.k.so Nat it wasn't just me? As she was talking I was like umm add another 200 to that number and then I'll have sympathy for you...	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-04 10:45:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	You ladies are wondeful, but I would handle things a little differently because I believe you can show a person better than you can tell them, especially when you've explained things over and over again. Im older and Im just not gonna tolerate a whole lot of bullshyt. Love, you shouldn't be doing a whole lot of nothing because you just had a baby and that alone changes your body. You don't want to cause more damage. Let me tell you I had one c-section and ended up being re-admitted to the hospital because I had an infection and I had to be cut back open and they had to irrigate the wound and use binding to help me close back up. It was traumatic!!! like ShaNette said, take Alleve and try to sit your butt down somewhere (as much as you can) being a mommy. You need to put the cards on the table and let him know what's what. If you gotta cry, yell, scream to get your point across then do so. With men you got get a little crazy on their rasses so they understand! Then pray on it after you've said your peace. I know personally, Ive spent too much time coddling, explaining, being sensitive, walking on eggshells blah blah blah. But there comes a point and time where enough is enough. Just as much as you try to "let them be the man", you deserve respect and honor just as well. Pain aint no friggin joke. My husband is not sensitive either and it pisses me the hell off cause when you was running up in my azz in JA you was as sensitive as they come. You gotta stand your ground when you feel as though you are right and not being heard. I know alot of you may not agree with me but Im just giving my own opinion. In the long run LoveSponge, the decision on how you handle it is yours to make sis and i wish you the best of luck. Yup Tee I'm convinced..Yuh need a check!!!!! Whoo I say I agree with what you said men just don't know what's it like to have a baby. They could neva deal with it that is why God made it where women give birth. If it was up to them I bet 1/2 of us wouldn't be here right now!!! I had all vaginal births and it hurt afterwards is I can't even imagine having a C-Section!!	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-03 12:51:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Happy Easter weekend to everyone, I hope everyone is doing well. I am doing better and better each day and the baby is great she only cries when she is hungry. I have a question to ask all of you, I know this is the best place for any type of advise. Its hard to get friends and family involved with maritial issues cause then they just hate your spouse. Its about my hubby. Yesterday I had an emotional breakdown at the supermarket. First of all the dr took me off my pain meds until I go to the office for a visit. I have been toughin it out for about 2 days now and it has been tough but I am dealing with it. Anyway I have been in moderate to severe pain( I got a ce-section a week ago). Yesterday was a severe pain day, My stiches hurt, I am breastfeeding so my boobs hurt, I am still having after birth pains, and to top it off I slept bad so my neck was killing me. I was complaining and hubby didnt even look at me, I asked for a massage and I got nothing. He is not the most sensitive person in the world, so I just said whatever and moved on. We went to the grocery store just to pick up a couple of items while he stayed in the car with the kids. I had to go because I had to use my card that he was not a signer on. Anyway I couldnt find what I was looking for(mind you I am in pain) I wanted to cry in the store. Finally I found it and a worker helped me out so I was happy. I got back into the car and told him " I am in so much pain I almost broke down crying in the store" He didnt say anything so I asked him if he was mad at me and if he didnt have any sympathy for me, you know what he said " hurry up and do what your doing so I can get the baby out of the dark" Girls I was ready for a Divorce, I broke down badly, I havent cried like that in a long time. When he asked me whats wrong I just told him to leave me the hell alone and we havent spoken since. Today is our 3 year anniversery from the day we met and I am so hurt. I dont know what to do??? HELP Sponge (((hugs))) man I wish I was anywhere near FL right now I would be ova der in a heartbeat helping yuh out!!! First of all it does sounds like you need a minute. So do you have any friends or family who can come over for a minute so you can sit down? I say from here on out don't move unless its for the kids. I think you should call your dr and tell them how much pain you are in. They can probably call you something in over the phone. If you tell them you're hurting enuff I'm sure they will. As far as hubby he is just being insensitive. My ex was insensitive too because had a high tolerance for pain so when I complained he acted like I was being a drama queen. Yeah I wanna see a cantaloupe come out your hole and see how you feel . You had every right to break down plus your are sometimes more emotional after having a baby any way. Something about pregnancy and birth just makes you sometimes cry at the drop of a hat. I'm glad you told him to get the hell away good for you. Once your calm I would say talk to him to see what's his beef. But in the mean time make sure you take care of you. Umph he got me hot acting like he had the baby tell him he better get his ish together or else his hand is about to be em BEST Friend!!!	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-03 12:41:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	That's alot of money! Hopefully the pain will go away. I wish my bill was dat cheap... Jeez just thinking bout dat bill makes mi shiver!!!	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-03 12:13:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	i feel so lost cant catch up .. i miss you guys...not feeling well so im up hubby is sleep.. hope everyone is good . What's wrong?? Dats cause since ur hubby has come you act like yuh na have time for us anymore. See how you do us just use us and lose us.... LOL No I'm joking how are things going?	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-03 12:10:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Hello everyone.....I am back and doing alright because this trip was FABULOUS! I tried to post from there but I was trying to hurry since I wasn't sure if I was gonna get charged on my phone ((even though I had it on airplane mode) using wireless internet) that the post deleted itself...I think. I will go back and try and catch up on what yall been doing the last couple of days... Michael was so surprised...he was about 3 minutes late which gave me time to exit and watch from the side when he ran upto the front to see if he can find my "friend in jeans" who would be looking for him in his "oregon" shirt.... I came up behind him and bout near gave him a stroke (as he say's). We locked lips (after he said...I cyant believe!!) for what seemed like forever.... He kept calling his friends and family to tell them "my wife is here!" then handed me the phone to say hello.....it was toooo cute. We made it to the Bed & Breakfast which OMG was wonderful....if anyone EVER needs a place to stay in Mobay I have the perfect place!!!! Will review it for yall later... I posted pic's on facebook...let me go back and catch up.... Why everytime I read Mobay mi face lights up!!!! Ahh I think you so needed this. Bet you get on ur grind for the BC now won't you... LOL	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-02 14:48:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Dada, Sounds like you had a beautiful time in JA. Your friend seems to be rolling out the red carpet for you. I'm not mad at you girl. You deserve to have you some fun. When is the next trip? He did but it wasn’t a corny rolling out the red carpet it was like he was just trying to show me his town. He wanted me to feel at home. He knew I was bummed Star canceled out on me and well he just was him I guess. I can’t explain it but this trip was so different not like the ones I am used to. There was no arguing fussing and fighting and he just was cool with chilling. We grabbed a bite to et wherever we could and we just made do. He didn’t make me feel like a tourist. I can’t put my finger on it but it was really cool.	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-21 13:47:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Dada weh yuh deh my girl, and check yuh inbox plz Hey girl mi miss yuh!!!! Mi checked mi inbox and no message der.... more please Dada Luv mi ave ta inbox yuh.... Whoooo I have an example ta give yuh fi sure!!!!	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-21 13:43:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	DaDa, how did your trip go? Not going to keep you in suspense like I did last trip plus this wasn’t that kind of trip. It was smooth sailing from the time I reach until the time I left. Something I’m so not used to. With my last friend it was constant fighting the whole time. This guy is different when I tried to pick an argument which was hard because there was nothing to fight about he told me point blank Dada mi naa going ta quarrel with you you’ll quarrel by urself. I’m also on patwa over load. Mi lub de language but after hearing it for five days straight me juss wan sum English please He spoke straight patawa to me the whole time. Once he learned that I knew some of the language he pretty much talked it the whole time. I met his family. Mi lubs his sisters and they are so very pretty. They started off in English but once they seen him talking in patwa they joined in too so the whole time I’m reading lips and using context clues to figure out what they were saying. I did very good. So many times at the end em was like yuh ovastand and yes I did. He would sey wah me sey and I told him and he was like hmm yuh do ovastand. Now I know I should have said NO…. The sisters house was BEAUTIFUL. She has an upstairs and downstairs five bedroom 2 bath home and her second bath has a huge jacuzzi tub. She has Kenmore appliances with the ice maker and nice rass stove. She has it going on. We had dinner der Sunday night and then we watched the new show. It’s like Rising Star what Princess Tia was on (by the way Nat they know Princess Tia they said she is from there town. They know her and her parents. They said they all can sing but they weren’t familiar with Steven.) Anywho its like Rising Star but instead of singing they dance. It was funny watching them shout at the tv. We watched Cry Baby afterwards. His nieces weren’t to happy with me at first I guess they were like who is dis fluffy farrin ooman wid mi uncle but after a while they warmed up a little .Well two out of the four did. I went to a wedding reception on Sat. I was so mad he didn’t tell me we were going so I only had on a sun dress. Now of course I rocked this sun dress but they were all really dressed nice so I felt under dressed. We didn’t stay long at all. I see he is a popular guy loved by his family and friends. He went out of his way to introduce me and they were nice and greeted me. I went to all his hanging spots and he showed me his house. He really really lives in the country. When he said he is a country boy he meant it man.. He’s not a drinker and at the wedding reception he had a little too much. I stopped him from drinking I told him no more until he ate. He went all day without eating. His sister loved that I stopped him and she helped me make him eat. After a while he sobered up some. But he went right to sleep and we were supposed to be getting ready to go to the Jungle and meet some of my JA friends. Well they came to the hotel and he wouldn’t budge so I got dressed and left. I didn’t come to JA to sleep. I had a BALL. The club was mad packed but it was so darn hot. The DJ was on firyah!!! Let’s see umm I went to Rick’s for the first time it was so nice and breezy but I didn’t like how the boys begged for money to jump off the cliffs. They were kind of blunt about it. I played Ping Pong for the first time into the night. I learned how to play Dominos while drinking vodka and BOOM on the street.. I also got proposed too …	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-21 13:20:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Welcome back Caribbean queen. Thank you!!! In a way its good to be back then again it isnt....	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-21 11:20:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	I'm good. Yes, we closed last Thursday...we should be all moved in by next weekend. Yayyyyyy congrats!!!!! This has to be so exciting!!!	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-21 11:16:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Dada, wah ta gwann? Hey lady how you doing?? Did you close on the house?	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-21 08:49:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Hey Ladies wah ta gwaan!!!!	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-21 08:23:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Pretty sure today is going to be the best day of the week. Had so much fun last night. BF is on his way back from being gone 4 days. I'm bouncing around this office waiting! And, whether you care or not, I am telling you...........I gained 10 points yesterday and flew into 2nd place in Fantasy Baseball. Been smack talking all morning! I AM THE QUEEN!!!!! Now to get this day over with so I can be off for the entire weekend. Move clock, move!!!! I'm with you JG this time 2morrow I'll be on my way to the airport!!!	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-15 14:32:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	hi peeps!! baby girls going off on me today !!!! HI JQ! So glad to hear the interview was a success!! Wha kinda questions dem ask? What's all this chat about sex positions?? LAWD!! This is torture!! Mi feel like a virgin U think this is bad we had a good Sex talk de odda day...	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-15 09:21:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Girl I love to hold him why we doing the doooo and get hella affectionate and its arousing!!! Skin to skin, when we sleep when we kiss when we Do It Got you...	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 14:39:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Although I am down, You made me laugh Awww I'm glad....	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 14:37:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	I can't exactly pull up a picture. I'm at work. Remember I work for PRIESTS. That's all I need is to get busted for some porno images on my computer. Let me try and explain. I'm laying on my right side on the bed like I would normally lay. He's laying across the bed, but sort of on his knees, yet curled my way. My left leg is up by my head......... Whew......sounds really complicated when I write it like that. Anyhow, that was my favorite postion last weekend. We will see what tomorrow brings when he gets back from being gone for 4 days. Y am I sitting here following JG's directions and turning my body so I can picture what position she is talking about... That would be funny to get busted for pics..	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 14:32:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Like this The smiley at the bottom isnt that the froggy position??	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 14:29:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Yall know ima freak right, but why is my fav position Missionary. Girlllllllllllllllllllllllllllll BOOM mi love it!!! Y cuz yuh like ta look in em face? Yuh like yuh legs stretched back by your head or cuz it’s the easiest position there its? You guys want a confession from me? I'm fighting back my stalker a little bit. Sat outside her house Monday and Tuesday after work and Tuesday and Wednesday before work. Took some pictures. I am soooooooooooo good at this. If I had a cooler of diet and a porta potty in my car, I could do this for a living. Even charmed some old guy who caught me this morning and asked what I was doing on his parking lot again. At the end of our conversation, he told me to come in to his bar and he'd give me a free drink after work tonight. What yuh plan on doing with de pictures??	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 14:26:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	We can discuss sexual positions again. Maybe this time we could talk about crazy places to have sex. We can't then Luv won't concentrate on finding her cousin.	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 13:21:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	oK , WHY THIS GHETTO FABULOUS GIRL WITH A BIG AZZZ PERFECT BOOTY from NY, was raising hell. She was mad because when the first people get in the embassy they get the seat until they are called for there interview. She was like if they get up we are getting they seat. This Jamaican woman was like try it and I'll show you. She started arguing with the lady and they were about to fight so they kicked them both out Ha I love how the woman was like try it and I'll show you.... I know dat's right you should have been here earlier...	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 13:08:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	That is soooo wrong, but I ain't mad at cha, I had to pay $50 to have mine taken down and to think I could have done it at work by putting the psych patients to work. Girl you should have seen there faces when they came out. I tried to put the remaining kinkys in a pony tail so you couldn't see my hair but I don't think it worked... LOL	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 13:06:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	It sure has Dada...it is like the two of us are just chatting with each other. I know right!!!	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 13:04:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	We missed you too...it was so dead in here I mean we had lots of bad husband talk and that is always needed to make sure everyone don't think it is just thier man, but other than that no fun smileys or crazy pic's that we can always count on you for! I am about to log out for the day....Its my long day were I work at the clinic all afternoon giving massages..then sports massage class tonight til 10. Still waiting on the BC from the RGD...Michael just text me he has good news and will call and tell me so I am hoping its about that cause that is the only thing holding up the process of getting case complete and an interview Everyone have a splendid day!!!! It has been MAD slow in here lately....	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 12:50:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	HELLLLLOOOOO!!!! What did I tell you? I know Dills yuh juss can't tell des youngens anything.... LOL	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 12:12:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	What you talking about Dada.??? @ Dills yes it will be great when she comes. Congrats!!! The ladies told you, you were going to miss your hubby... Alright so move on how was it when you returned?	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 12:10:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Dara when you leaving???and how long you gonna be gone??? Friday... Short trip I'll only be gone Fri-Tue...	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 12:08:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Good for you girl In my mind I did this tooo I know right!!!! I'm praying my daughters feel this way cuz we all know der momma don't...	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 12:07:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Hey ladies good morning!!! Came back from jamaica yesterday. had an ok time but missed my hubby so much!!!! When I left he didnt kiss, say goodbye or anything! I was like forget him Im going to have fun with out him and I did but why the hell did my bff have her likkle friend there, and my other homegirl met some dude that wasnt leaving her side. I was so mad at they azzz because I didnt want to be a 3rd or 5th wheel, and this suppose to be a girls trip!!! But any ways Interview: It was at 7:30 am and my BIL and hubby's friend was there from 4:30am . the baby was there also. We got there they had no passport-pictures for her, so we got them from the embassy personnel of the jamaican people dang my boss wants to brief me since I have been gone BRB ladies Does anyone want to say I told you so …. LOL Girl you know how those men are the grab on and don’t let go.. I see why cuz when you leave another one swoops in.	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 12:03:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	You get it on the spot if you are a US Citizen. Since he is a PR they have to send all his info off to Jeff City (the capital) and then he gets it in the mail. They even had to do that for his state ID. Oh o.k.!!!! I was about to say man your city is slow...lol I see all dis really can be a long drawn out process...	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 11:55:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Ms jenkins Ms jenkins lol... mi not picking up fi dem but men are terrified of change. Thats why they act all retarded when the probability of change arises- I hate it but its true. They cant always put on their big-boy briefs and stand up to it, especially when they feel like they are losing control of a situation... Yes, hubby was/is my first but I learned a lot about men through him and my dad. Its actually funny to hear them admit their faults lol. My three cents P.S. I dont have a problem with getting my azz beat, as long as its him doing the spanking Awww hubby was your first?? I think dat is so tweet !!!	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 11:51:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	I can't even get Louis to the the driving portion!!! He is failing the dang permit test!!! That's it Irie you are no longer allowed to discuss this topic anymore.....	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 11:29:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Kjenk... Louis has never,ever had a DL. In St Lucia everyone gets around by bus. He signed up for lessons once and the teachers car was totalled before he got a chance to take any lessons. I let him drive a block once and it scared the ever living ####### outta me! He forgot which was gas/break and it was so nerve racking! Now he would have 3 pedals to choose from! LOL My aunt says she will get him driving lessons for his birthday. All I know is I don't have the patience or the talent to teach him to drive! He has failed the permit test 3 times! He gets so angry I told him I can't even take him to do that anymore. I went into a coughing fit reading this!!!! I still can't believe. I just keep picturing you in the car and I start laughing all over again. I know you are excited. Yes he did get his picture taken for the DL. Then they handed him a piece of paper he can drive with that has his picture on it until his DL comes in the mail. In the mail?? You don't get it on the spot?	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 11:23:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. It's time to rise & shine. Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. I hope you're feeling fine. It's time to get up, get out of bed. You've gotta get up, you sleepy-head. (don't know the rest) Jamerican Queen, what's the word? Umm someone had a good night.....	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 11:17:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	we love jamaica! (even tho we nah been there yet ) http://i1021.photobu...setwins/051.jpg O.M.G LUVS IT!!!!	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 11:16:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Good Morning Yardies....Its HUMP two days left day O.k. ladies you know your ghetto when your whole office is at a meeting so you decide to take out your kinky twist because you have a hair appt at 7:00 p.m. today. Yup dat be me.... Edited by DaDa, 14 April 2010 - 11:12 AM.	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 11:12:00