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K-3 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresVSC - New processing dates 130/129F for Feb 2009
QUOTE (Dave 'n' Hai Au @ Feb 21 2009, 03:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hi to our fellow VJ'ers,
I am feeling guilty after reading these posts. We filed only I-130 for cr-1. Our NOA1 was Dec. 24, 2008 and we just recieved our approval Feb. 19, 2009. I was not looking at USCIS too much because our projected approval time was late May-mid June. Maybe we will get a payback and be mired at NVC. This whole thing makes no sense, everything seems so random. We pray for success for everyone so we all can be together with our SO's soon. Some posts and surveys I have read recently at this site leave me speechless. Survey question: Is it ok to cheat on your SO while you wait for the visa? Because of stupidity like that, honest people here pay the price with these long wait times. The government is inefficient enough and then they have to try and weed out these clowns. Sorry for the rant but it irritates the hell out of me. I am asking for some help from someone that reads this. Some people in earlier posts mentioned about shortcuts in NVC proccess. I don't recall seeing or reading about them. Could someone please guide me to where they are? Thanks in advance.

God bless and good luck to all !!



you are filed at the CSC. I think you are pretty much within the NORM.
Those of us at the VSC have been rotting away for months.
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-21 17:28:00
K-3 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresVSC - New processing dates 130/129F for Feb 2009
Remember, your priority date changes to the NOA1 for the K-3 when you have both. My CR-1 is out of date range but the K-3 is not. They put in a service request anyway.... so with that said...... When they tell you they can't put a service request in and their computer sytem won't let them... they are full of #######. The first rep I talked to gave me ####### so I hung up on her and called right back. I got what I wanted form the second rep. It all depends on who you get on the phone.

Being on VJ gives us a leg up on what dates are being processed. Thank god they are working on July.

Next week NEEDS to be the lucky week !


LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-21 08:36:00
K-3 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresVSC - New processing dates 130/129F for Feb 2009
QUOTE (Princess In Love @ Feb 20 2009, 03:59 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
that's greaaaaaaaaaaaaaat; i'm happy that we didn't send I129F....now CR1 is faster then K3



ONLY during the petiton approvals When you get to the Visa part the rep told me it could take 6-12 months longer than the K-3.
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-20 16:11:00
K-3 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresVSC - New processing dates 130/129F for Feb 2009
QUOTE (Serendipity_ @ Feb 20 2009, 01:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Jen you should request an expedite...based on the fact that you are outside processing times.

Call USCIS - ASAP

Jen can you call USCIS through Skype? The 1800 number does not go through Canada.



Yes, When I was in Costa Rica, Tucho and I called the 800 number and it worked perfectly. It was a little choppy but I got to talk with someone.

I will call in a minute. I have a project I need to e-mail first
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-20 13:26:00
K-3 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresVSC - New processing dates 130/129F for Feb 2009
QUOTE (Serendipity_ @ Feb 20 2009, 01:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Posted: February 20, 2009

Service Center Processing Dates for Vermont Service Center as of: December 31, 2008

I-129F Petition for Alien Fiance(e) K-3/K-4 - Already married - spouse and/or dependent child - May 12, 2008
I-130 Petition for Alien Relative U.S. citizen filing for a spouse, parent, or child under 21 - 6 Months


Our Noa1 is July 10th 2008 not sure if we can file as expedite...its as of December 31, 2008.


Hmmmm My I-130 daye is June 23rd What do we get if we are outside the dates????
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-20 13:07:00
K-3 Spouse Visa Process & Proceduresexpedite request Feb 10 , no sign since. good sign?
QUOTE (notime4haterz @ Feb 22 2009, 02:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
if they didn't approve the I-130 they won't approve the I-129F...not sure why your lawyer made another request? Do you have new evidence to provide?



you can make a service request for your petitions. You can also get your congressional office involved. One would think it would put a flame under some a$$es but it doesn't seem to do anything.
I have an attorney and even he told me there is nothing he or any other attorney can do to speed up the petition approval. You can ask for an expedite but they are super strict. Waiting in line is what I do best these days. I went for an info pass appt hoping I could get some different info..... They had NOTHING to tell me except they can only see what I can see on the USCIS website.
I chatted with them for a good 30 minutes and got useful information about other things I was asking about but nothing that pertained to my petition. It was really frustrating... especially since I got a $78.00 parking ticket too.

Edited by esposadetucho, 22 February 2009 - 02:49 PM.

LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-22 14:47:00
K-3 Spouse Visa Process & Proceduresexpedite request Feb 10 , no sign since. good sign?
QUOTE (Frenchwife @ Feb 22 2009, 01:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hi

At VSC
we did an expedite request in December on I130 and got mail within 3 days saying no
we did another expedite request (on K3 and I130) on Feb 10, with an attorny
no sign since
(Attorney plans to call Wed 25th)

good sign?


Good Luck. I requested an expedite. It took a month and me bugging them to get my denial. tThey are SUPER strict on expedite guidelines.
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-22 14:03:00
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QUOTE (Married2aTico @ Feb 22 2009, 06:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hi everyone! Just thought I'd check in for the first time today. It's been a thrilling day of running errands in the rain. I have a raging headache too, but got to talk to Diego on the phone, so I can't complain too much. Business was good today and his crabby brother was slightly more tolerable than usual, so he was in a good mood. Tomorrow he is going to San Jose to work on getting some docs certified. It may be a while before we get our apporval, but we want to have all the CR1 stuff ready and will hopefully flip things from a K3 to CR1.

Lisa, Jen is right. There are lizards to spare in Costa Rica. Outside of my husband's cafe there is one that comes and begs like a dog. If one drop of smoothie or a piece of lettuce hits the ground, he's all over it. I think they even have a name for him by now.

Jen, Tell Tucho no matter what, go to a private dentist. The free public ones will not do any repairs, but just pull the tooth. There is good medicine in Costa, just not the free kind. When Diego broke his wrist (yes, one day before our wedding, he fell from 2 stories stringing lights at my request- still feel guilty on that one), we took him to the Clinica Biblica and the treatment was excellent. BUT this a private hospital. The whole deal (x-ray, consult with ortho surgeon, cast and meds) came to about $200. On the other hand, we just had a friend who went to have her tubes tied at the public clinic and they cut her from hip bone to hip bone. Diego said it was horrifying.


He is home suffering. I think he is worried about driving the motorcycle by himself all the way down the mountain tothe hospital. I don't know how to tell him "private dentist" so he understands. I am waiting for him to call me. He couldn't talk earlier. He was in too much pain. UGHHHH this language barrier sux sometimes. I'm not sure what hospital is in Acosta. I know there is a dental clinic there because I've seen it but I don't know if it is private. I don't care about the cost. I would rather have them fix the problem then pull the tooth.

My sister-in-law had a c-section 6 years ago in Costa Rica. ( her first baby) they cut her vertically from the belly button to the pelvic bone. They did a really crappy job. I had 3 c-sections here, all cut on the same scar and the they only cut me about 8 inches at the most below the bikini line. I can wear a bikini and you can't even tell I had a c-section.
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-22 18:51:00
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QUOTE (notime4haterz @ Feb 22 2009, 03:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Jen you're so funny jest.gif Next thing you know, you all will be posting on some "expecting a baby" forum rofl.gif

I know what you mean though...when my husband was sick awhile back, I felt terrible. I couldn't even be there to take care of him. It's like, I'm his wife and it's my duty to take care of my poor baby! I can't even do that! Such a terrible feeling!!! Well after that, when I visited with him, I made sure to bring lots of medicines, and comfort things (like a nice robe, slippers, and some natural/herbal throat drops and stuff). I figured if he got sick again, he would at least have those things there with him. He actually did end up using them later.

Steve, do you have an online account set up with USCIS? I'm only asking because maybe the address change is causing a delay in mail delivery??It would suck to know you had an approval, but got it so much later because of a mailing address issue!!!



Yea I feel like the worst wife ever. I just talked to Tucho's Cousin. She only lives 2 houses away. She said she went to see the baby and asked where Tucho was. Tucho's sister said he was in the house sleeping. It was around 2pm Costa Rica time. He must feel really bad because Jessica said it is really a nice day. Really hot there. UGHHHH my heart... I wanna be there !!!

Narina, When I go to Costa Rica I always take two big suitcases and my carry on backpack with my laptop. In one suitcase is my stuff. The other suitcase is full of medicine and clothes and stuff for Tucho and his mom and sisters. It only costs me $25.00 for the extra bag instead of $130.00 to send a box.
I get all the J&J products for dirt cheap so I stock up while I am home and I take it with me when I go. The only thing I won't bring is infant tylenol or any infant meds because the label is not in Spanish and I won't take the responsibility if they overdose the baby. I used to work in the pharmacovigilance dept and I used to see so many adverse events come thru about people who killed thier kids because they didn't dose them according to the instructions. And these were english speaking people reading english instructions.

Edited by esposadetucho, 22 February 2009 - 04:46 PM.

LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-22 16:45:00
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QUOTE (SteveColo @ Feb 22 2009, 03:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
GS, thank you for the compliment. Ksenia is very pretty, but she is even more beautiful on the inside. She is an amazing woman and we really have a great connection. She has a golden heart.

Thanks for wondering about my health too. I went in to the doctor on Friday to get checked out. The EKG says my heart is fine, but my blood pressure was 178/127. Dangerously high. So the doc put me on some high does BP medicine and also gave me some Lexapro to try to help my system handle all this stress.

Jen, you sound a little like my Ksenia. She keeps telling me she has so much love to give to another child. Mine are all grown and I was not planning on another little one. But when you fall in love with a younger woman, especially from a culture where children are the most important thing in life, well it looks like I'm going to be a dad again wink.gif

Narina ... I actually get the Stone Cold Austin reference quite a bit tongue.gif I don't look that good, it's just that Ksenia is so pretty she makes the pictures look better tongue.gif



Steve, I think you are very handsome ! Muy Guapo en Espanol. HEE HEE
Your wife is beautiful ! Muy Bonita!
You two would have a gorgeous baby.
I say go for it ! as a matter of fact, I think that everyone should have another baby !! YAY !!!!!
Oh god. now I sound like a retard !!!
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-22 15:17:00
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QUOTE (notime4haterz @ Feb 22 2009, 02:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hello darlings!

Glad to see everyone posting. Today is..ah! Yesterday was better. Went by faster.

You all made me laugh! I also haven't been feeling too hot. I keep feeling nauseas and like Tucho, my mom insists I'm pregnant. Even though I have an IUD, have had 2 cycles, and even took a test to appease her (which was negative) - she still thinks I'm pregnant. Can wishful thinking make someone pregnant? Cause if it can, I think I'm in trouble! LOOOOL I personally don't want kids but everyone in my family keeps bugging me about it. I refuse to be pressured into motherhood LOL Besides, I'm too paranoid about aging and gaining weight. Bad enough struggle with my weight now. You can't diet away stretch marks and saggy skin, which with my luck, would be exactly what would happen to me.

Crying? Oh I didn't know that was abnormal. It's pretty much my new normal, to cry everyday. As a matter of fact, I think my eyesight has gotten really bad in this last year. I am planning on an eye doctor's appointment soon. I really think it's from the crying...what do you think?

Steve, I love the pics! You look like a professional wrestler LOL Actually you remind me of "stone cold" Steve Austin.

Well last night I had the worst sleep, if you can call it that. I think I was wired on the cholcolate LOL So today I'll be more careful...eat chocolate now instead of later tongue.gif laughing.gif

Well only a few more hours till Monday. Let's see what Monday brings!!! I'll be seeing everyone later tonight on facebook.


AHHH NARINA.... That is why I didn't tell anyone about how i feel ( only my friends on VJ) either they talk SH!T or they make up stories. SO I keep my mouth shut.

I don't want to sound like I am pressuring you into motherhood but my personal experience is that my kids are the very best things that EVER happened to me and I can't imagine life without them. There is no other love in the world. I thank God everyday for giving them to me. Even with Julia's tumor, I wouldn't trade any of it. The only thing I would change is marrying my ex-husband. But hinde sight is 20/20. I won't go there.

I have been a paranoid freak my entire life about my weight. I always went back to my pre-pregnancy body afterwards. I don't know what will happen now that I'm so freakin' ancient .. But I don't care. I love my husband and it would all be worth it to me.

Im kinda bumming out because Tucho is suffering with some kind of infection in his mouth... He has antibiotics BUT he can't talk. His mouth is really hurting him. He just told me he needs to go to the hospital but he doesn't have anyone to take him because they are so far up the mountain. He can't drive his motorcycle himself. He sounds horrible. Times like these make me crazy. I wanna be there with him to take care of him. I feel helpless.
Medical care in CR isn't like it is here. UGHHHHHH.
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-22 15:11:00
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QUOTE (GS4EVER @ Feb 22 2009, 01:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Lisa wa Yazied @ Feb 22 2009, 01:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (esposadetucho @ Feb 22 2009, 12:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (GS4EVER @ Feb 22 2009, 11:40 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Yeah I wasted my entire Saturday with the cable company changing my modem. I have been been experiencing intermitent internet service for the past 2 weeks which can get extremely aggravating when u rely on the internet to chat with ur husband!!! So I make an appointment and they send me a nice worker who had absolutely no clue what to do with connecting me back on the internet after he finished installing my modem. He tried to tell me it's time to buy a new TV a new router and a new laptop!! Needless to say, I am already on edge and financially streched extremely thin, so hearing him mention 3 things I needed to buy in this economy was enough to make me cry crying.gif I felt so alone w/o even the one thing that ties me to my husband so I called him though I only had 2 dollars left on my calling card so it didn't give us enough time to talk...then I called my niece and cried and cried and cried.... and when my sister called to check up on me I cried some more cray5ol.gif

So I had a sappy saturday but at least my internet is back on. Thank God! Now I hope to say a THANK YOU GOD once we get our STUPID approval...(he he tongue.gif it's stupid now but won't be stupid anymore once I get it wink.gif laughing.gif lol)

Sorry to bore everyone with the crybaby details...These days VJ is another place we can turn to when the rest of the world has come down crashing on us. So thanks for all of your support. Know you are making a difference in someone's life no matter how small smile.gif



Im a crybaby too. Don't worry. I've had a crappy 2 weeks.
Tucho called last night and I called him back to talk but the connection was sooooooo bad I couldn't really hear him. Maybe when I call today the connection will be better. He lives so far outin the mountains. I think it has alot to do with the calling card not the phone. If I call direct I can hear just fine.... Phone cards are a rip off but I don't have any other choice

DOn't worry Crying is ok. We all do it ! and we are here for you to vent to.


Thanks for making me see I am not officially crazy, Jen. Maybe we can write letters to Washington asking they redo this process over and shorten the amount of time it takes to get our spouses here or else they will have to deal with a bunch of crazy USC SOs running around town laughing.gif

Sorry about the size, I still can't figure out how to respond to various quotes within the same post. Uploading pics is the next thing I need to work on as well whistling.gif

Ya! crying/whining is totally safe here tongue.gif

GS, isnt it like touture to not be able to get online? This computer is my main means to talk to Yazied!
We lost power for 8 days in sept due to a storm, then 5 days from the ice storm last month... i think i have ptsd, everytime the lights flicker..im like girlwerewolf2xn.gif laughing.gif
I hope next week is better for you.

And thanks, Lisa for all the support. You guys have been wonderful listeners smile.gif Too bad they have not added a HUG smiley...

Jenn, I think you guys are really liking this baby idea wink.gif

And BABY? WHAT BABY? I am lost here lol but I will assume this is that same backward VSC tradition or am I really missing something unsure.gif

Steve, glad you have something to keep ya occupied. and omg, you guys are a cute couple btw!

And Steve I have to agree. Your bride is so pretty and you guys make a nice couple yes.gif . I was thinking about you and wondering if you were feeling better since that last post you posted about your health in the other forum.

Serendipity, how are you holding up?

Serendipity, w/o meds I am a mess and depressed. Hang in there rose.gif . We hope this will all be over soon! You and Jen should be next.

where's candid?

Narina, is the shift going quickly so far? i hope so smile.gif

Narina, I can't wait to see how this whole thing with K3 vs. CR1 plays out for you and queuedup. Good luck to you both! star_smile.gif

everyone else missing the loved one




HAHAHAHAHA no baby. Just a pipe dream for me. Im not feeling well and my husband is telling me it is because of the "baby" hahahahaha.

YOu didn't miss anything Don't worry

BTW... does anyone know how to post a video that converted from Kodak camera to Itunes and put it on here. I wanna share a video of what the rain is like during the wet season in CR. Caroline will be able to relate very well. Just something to pass the time.


Edited by esposadetucho, 22 February 2009 - 01:43 PM.

LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-22 13:41:00
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QUOTE (SteveColo @ Feb 22 2009, 01:02 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Lisa ... thank you for the nice compliment.

Ksenia would really like another child but I'm hesitant. It's hard enough to find quality "us" time with a 5 year old and no sitters around (when she was here). Imagine having a new born too. And there is a lot of costs too.

We have decided to concentrate on getting her back home ... then get settled ... then let the 'baby' conversations begin tongue.gif

Jen, do you have any kids from previous relationships?

GS ... I feel your pain about losing the internet. We are all so dependent on it. I feel totally lost when I can't reach Ksenia. When she travels to another city to see her mom, we can't skype for sometimes a week and I go crazy! wacko.gif


I have 3. 17, 12 and 8 and he has one , 7. I am baby crazzy. I love everything about them. I love being a mamma. Best thing that ever could have happened to me. But if I don't get to have another before the bakery closes I am perfectly happy with what I have.
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-22 13:16:00
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QUOTE (Lisa wa Yazied @ Feb 22 2009, 12:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
well, after he gets here..you guys can really get to work on that wink.gif

i know what you mean about the tv. Jordan has many english channels, but they are all older shows and some lame ones as well. i can only pick out every 10th word of arabic so watching the arabic channels was out laughing.gif



my brother showed me how to get tv shows and how to download them. I just downloaded seasons 1-5 of Two and a half men. I am about to download the 6th season of One Tree Hill. ( love that show) Tucho works 12 hour shifts so it gets kinda boring. But now that he moved back with his mom I should be much more entertained even though they don't understand me. We get by.

I hope he gets here soon because my biological clock is ticking very load. I am old.
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-22 12:35:00
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QUOTE (Lisa wa Yazied @ Feb 22 2009, 12:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (esposadetucho @ Feb 22 2009, 12:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (GS4EVER @ Feb 22 2009, 11:40 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Yeah I wasted my entire Saturday with the cable company changing my modem. I have been been experiencing intermitent internet service for the past 2 weeks which can get extremely aggravating when u rely on the internet to chat with ur husband!!! So I make an appointment and they send me a nice worker who had absolutely no clue what to do with connecting me back on the internet after he finished installing my modem. He tried to tell me it's time to buy a new TV a new router and a new laptop!! Needless to say, I am already on edge and financially streched extremely thin, so hearing him mention 3 things I needed to buy in this economy was enough to make me cry crying.gif crying.gif crying.gif I felt so alone w/o even the one thing that ties me to my husband so I called him though I only had 2 dollars left on my calling card so it didn't give us enough time to talk...then I called my niece and cried and cried and cried.... and when my sister called to check up on me I cried some more cray5ol.gif cray5ol.gif cray5ol.gif

So I had a sappy saturday but at least my internet is back on. Thank God! Now I hope to say a THANK YOU GOD once we get our STUPID approval...(he he tongue.gif it's stupid now but won't be stupid anymore once I get it wink.gif laughing.gif lol)

Sorry to bore everyone with the crybaby details...These days VJ is another place we can turn to when the rest of the world has come down crashing on us. So thanks for all of your support. Know you are making a difference in someone's life no matter how small smile.gif



Im a crybaby too. Don't worry. I've had a crappy 2 weeks.
Tucho called last night and I called him back to talk but the connection was sooooooo bad I couldn't really hear him. Maybe when I call today the connection will be better. He lives so far outin the mountains. I think it has alot to do with the calling card not the phone. If I call direct I can hear just fine.... Phone cards are a rip off but I don't have any other choice

DOn't worry Crying is ok. We all do it ! and we are here for you to vent to.

Ya! crying/whining is totally safe here tongue.gif

GS, isnt it like touture to not be able to get online? This computer is my main means to talk to Yazied!
We lost power for 8 days in sept due to a storm, then 5 days from the ice storm last month... i think i have ptsd, everytime the lights flicker..im like girlwerewolf2xn.gif laughing.gif
I hope next week is better for you.

Jenn, I think you guys are really liking this baby idea wink.gif

Steve, glad you have something to keep ya occupied. and omg, you guys are a cute couple btw!

Serendipity, how are you holding up?

where's candid?

Narina, is the shift going quickly so far? i hope so smile.gif

everyone else missing the loved one rose.gif




AHHHH I like the idea but I don't think it is reality.

I decided to color my hair SO I'm in the waiting 20 minutes stage... I am downloading some sitcoms for my next trip to CR. I don't understnad all spanish and it gets really annoying when I can't even watch TV and to tell you the truth... they have the DUMBEST TV programs. I can watch the soaps with my hubby and get the jist of it but I can't catch all the words. SOOOOOO annoying. I wish the bandwith was faster so I could stream in some american TV shows.
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-22 12:26:00
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QUOTE (GS4EVER @ Feb 22 2009, 11:40 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Yeah I wasted my entire Saturday with the cable company changing my modem. I have been been experiencing intermitent internet service for the past 2 weeks which can get extremely aggravating when u rely on the internet to chat with ur husband!!! So I make an appointment and they send me a nice worker who had absolutely no clue what to do with connecting me back on the internet after he finished installing my modem. He tried to tell me it's time to buy a new TV a new router and a new laptop!! Needless to say, I am already on edge and financially streched extremely thin, so hearing him mention 3 things I needed to buy in this economy was enough to make me cry crying.gif crying.gif crying.gif I felt so alone w/o even the one thing that ties me to my husband so I called him though I only had 2 dollars left on my calling card so it didn't give us enough time to talk...then I called my niece and cried and cried and cried.... and when my sister called to check up on me I cried some more cray5ol.gif cray5ol.gif cray5ol.gif

So I had a sappy saturday but at least my internet is back on. Thank God! Now I hope to say a THANK YOU GOD once we get our STUPID approval...(he he tongue.gif it's stupid now but won't be stupid anymore once I get it wink.gif laughing.gif lol)

Sorry to bore everyone with the crybaby details...These days VJ is another place we can turn to when the rest of the world has come down crashing on us. So thanks for all of your support. Know you are making a difference in someone's life no matter how small smile.gif



Im a crybaby too. Don't worry. I've had a crappy 2 weeks.
Tucho called last night and I called him back to talk but the connection was sooooooo bad I couldn't really hear him. Maybe when I call today the connection will be better. He lives so far outin the mountains. I think it has alot to do with the calling card not the phone. If I call direct I can hear just fine.... Phone cards are a rip off but I don't have any other choice

DOn't worry Crying is ok. We all do it ! and we are here for you to vent to.
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-22 12:09:00
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Hey Narina.... Buenos Dias !
I had a hard time falling asleep last night even though I was soooo tired. My stomach wasn't upset when I first got up but now its a little queezy Head is still in a cloud. I think Im just sick. Tucho says its the baby.... LOL.

Where is Sarita anyway? I hope she is ok.

Why hasn't Sonia joined us on FB?

Im gonna bring an Iguana back from CR next time for Lisa's reptile paradise. Those icky lizards are all over the place in the mountain. I've probably shared a bed with one of them and didn't even know it.
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-22 10:05:00
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I just wrote up this long response and the stupid thing just erased it for some unknown reason #######???

I still feel disgusting. I didn't talk to my husband for almost 2 days and he just called and surprised me. It was a really bad connection but it was so good to hear his voice. I told him I still feel disgusting and he told me it is because of the baby. So, I guess he is ok with the idea...hmmmmm.
He is having dental issues and is on antibiotics. He said he couldn't work yesterday because he couldnt talk. hmmmm
Anyway... this is how our life is. I really want to be there with him. I was chatting on WIndows Live with his cousin who lives two houses away from him. She bought a internet card so we could chat. I miss Costa Rica so much.

My 8 year old loves snakes and reptiles and all that gross stuff. She would be so into having something like that for a pet. But for me, one dog is too much. Anyone want a dog? he's a good boy ! you can have him for free. Really !!!
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-22 00:50:00
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QUOTE (Lisa wa Yazied @ Feb 21 2009, 11:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (notime4haterz @ Feb 21 2009, 11:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
That's pretty...forgive my ignorance...but what will you put in there? Just plants? I think it's really nice! But I am not into reptiles, rodents, arachnids or any other "exotic" pets LOL I like cats and birds and that's about it LOL

ya, thats it Narina. just plants was the initial plan anyway, but then i thought some lizards,newts or toads would be neat. That was a fleeting though..too much work lol
so i had to find some low light loving plants since the placement of it wont get much light at all.

Yazied isnt a fan of the "exotics" either. Before Achilles(python) died, he was like..um, ya..you can keep him, but dont EVER take him outta that tank! laughing.gif





That is soooooo freakin' funny.
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-22 00:11:00
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QUOTE (Lisa wa Yazied @ Feb 21 2009, 10:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Lisa wa Yazied @ Feb 21 2009, 10:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I finished the terrarium today..no animals, i dont want to be buying crickets or mice every week again lol
anyway, its quite pretty...If i can figure out how to imbed pics, ill come back and share. biggrin.gif



lets see if this works..





REALLY COOL LISA !!!
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-21 22:54:00
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QUOTE (notime4haterz @ Feb 21 2009, 08:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I so wish FB wasn't blocked at work! I really have a need to b1tch and vent...big time!



i was wondering why you didn't respond to my post...

Edited by esposadetucho, 21 February 2009 - 09:09 PM.

LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-21 21:08:00
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went to the Outback for lunch. My brother-in-law took me and my two youngest kids. My stomach is so nauseous, I didn't eat much. Had fun though. I just wanna sleep ....



http://www.visajourn...tion=2&sortby=2[

Edited by esposadetucho, 21 February 2009 - 05:07 PM.

LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-21 17:06:00
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went to the Outback for lunch. My brother-in-law took me and my two youngest kids. My stomach is so nauseous, I didn't eat much. Had fun though. I just wanna sleep ....

Edited by esposadetucho, 21 February 2009 - 04:59 PM.

LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-21 16:58:00
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CONGRATS !!

Im one of the 7 leftover filers. One more day for this week... Hopefully good news for all !!!!
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-26 17:56:00
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QUOTE (tysalanna @ Feb 27 2009, 06:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I just wanted to see if I have this right. If I apply for a K-3 visa, does it include my children under the cost? My US spouse sends in the I 130 for me which is $355. Then we send in the I-129F for $455 which includes my 3 children at no extra cost. Is this correct? I know that we have to pay the cost of the medical for all four of us. Then once we get to the USA, I can file for AOS which is $1010 for me and since I am applying for my children at the same time, it would be $600 for each one of them. Do I have it right?

I130 for me $355
I129F for me and 3 children $455
AOS for me $1010
AOS for 3 children 1800

Total $3620



I think you need a separate I-130 for each kid and they waive the K-3 fee since there is an I-130 for you. I believe the I-129F is only for you

LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-27 18:32:00
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QUOTE (bridgettarik @ Feb 27 2009, 11:28 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Application Type: I130, IMMIGRANT PETITION FOR RELATIVE, FIANCE(E), OR ORPHAN

Current Status: REQUEST FOR INITIAL EVIDENCE SENT, CASE PLACED ON HOLD

On February 27, 2009, we mailed a notice requesting initial evidence in this case. Please follow the instructions on the notice to submit the evidence requested. Meanwhile, processing of this case is on hold until we either receive the evidence or the opportunity to submit it expires. Once you submit the evidence requested and a decision is made, you will be notified by mail. If you move while this case is pending, please use our Change of Address online tool to update your mailing address

WHAT THAT MAENS? I THINK IS RFE



YEP, RFE....
Just respond as fast as you can. Document how you send it so you can track it. I would also call to make sure they receive it a few days later. At least someone is looking at your papers..
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-27 11:31:00
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THanks Guys. I hope tomorrow brings good news. Then again, if it snows in Vermont... maybe they will have a snow day too. That would suck. Wow, leave it to me to think of that ....

Buenas Noches a todos.
Good night everybody...

See you on the new thread tomorrow morning.

Jen
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-03-01 22:15:00
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Hey Everybody. Just got home. Was out all day. I found this ghetto store in Philly that has all kinds of cool spanish stuff. I bought an American flag and a Costa Rican flag. I'm hanging them in my room. HA And I bought these cute little things that say cute little love blurbs in spanish. I am not sure if I will keep them or send them to Tucho. Tucho was in a "RAW" mood today. He is mad because he has to work on the weekend.

Tomorrow is a new day. I was thinking about laying off the computer tomorrow. Maybe its like watching a pot of water boil or watching the grass grow...its so addicting though. I really don't want to go to work tomorrow. UGHHHH.
We are supposed to get between 8" and 12" of snow in the Philadephia area tonight. at least I can wear jeans to work ...HAHAHAHAHA and the kids can sleep in.
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-03-01 19:49:00
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QUOTE (notime4haterz @ Mar 1 2009, 10:16 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Whoa Jenn! I'm awake now! LOL
The day is DRAGGING...waiting for a little while longer then I'm gonna call my husband. Usually he calls me everyday but I'm not working in my office today sad.gif
Did you fix things up with your sweetheart? Hopefully his phone is back on now???



Hey
Yep, I just talked to him a second ago. His battery was dead so he had to charge the phone. He just got dispatched so he couldn't talk long. I can't wait til he is here . Throw some good Karma my way for the coming week.
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-03-01 10:21:00
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QUOTE (notime4haterz @ Mar 1 2009, 08:53 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Good morning ladies and Steve!
Well I'm back at work - Yay! LOOOOOOL
How is everyone doing this fine Sunday? It is unusually cold today. Hope it warms up later on.
Well since I'm stuck here for 8 hours I'll be on all day long...drop a line! LOL



GOOD MORNING NARINA AND EVERYBODY !!!!
There is snow on the ground today !
BOOOO I want spring to get here.
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-03-01 10:08:00
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QUOTE (Married2aTico @ Feb 28 2009, 10:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Just thought I'd check into the fiesta for today. I was supposed to help out at a food drive this morning, but woke up a migraine paired with a full on head cold. Lucky me! I finally ran some errands and went to a low key benefit dinner tonight. Now I'm chatting with the hubby, so gotta go.

Hope everyone is doing well! yes.gif


FEEL BETTER CAROLINE !!
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-03-01 08:42:00
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I am feeling old. All this talk about babies makes me sad because my biological clock is really loud these days. Time is a tickin' Its a huge reminder that my time is running out.

I went to the Pennsauken Flea Market today. It is in New Jersey. Actually, right over the Tacony Palmyra Bridge. 2 minutes from Philly. It was cold and windy. I bought a pair of Timberland boots for my husband and two bottles of perfume for myself. The boots were only $40.00. Real or fake, I don't care.
Now I'm home trying to get warm.

About the weather... I b!tch and complain about the cold and the heat and the humidity in the summer but I have to say... I think I would really miss having 4 seasons if I had to move away from Philly. I love Costa Rica, but the rainy season really sucks. I have curly hair so when it rains I just feel hideaous.
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-28 20:58:00
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QUOTE (childress_london @ Feb 28 2009, 01:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Lisa wa Yazied @ Feb 27 2009, 11:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (notime4haterz @ Feb 28 2009, 12:35 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Oh good... none of those ladies has blonde hair! Thank God! LOOOOL I definitely don't wanna be a mama!!!



i was gonna say, wheres the blonde!! laughing.gif

nah, we'll wait for a year or so who knows..it will happen when its supposed to.
secret7vf.gif but we already have names picked out heee



Ha ha. We have names picked out too and my husband insists he never wants kids! But he loves to talk about it. He confuses me sometimes. LOL

QUOTE (esposadetucho @ Feb 28 2009, 07:46 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I have a hang over form all the partying last night... And I only drank punch in the corner WOWOWOWOWOWOWWOOWW !!!

All of you are young. Am I the oldest broad on the forum here?

Good Morning to all. Buenos Dias a todo !

I am going to this huge flea market with my friend who married her Guatemalan Prince ( HAHAHAHA)

I'll ask her 1000 questions to see where she is with her petition.

If you write on my FB wall it will go to my cell and I can write back.

I wish VSC was working some OT this weekend.


How old are you? I probably have you beat. crying.gif




If you ask my daughter how old I am , she will tell you that Jesus signed my yearbook. LOVELY CHILD !!!!

I was born in 1967. My husband laughs everytime he hears me say that....
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-28 20:31:00
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I have a hang over form all the partying last night... And I only drank punch in the corner WOWOWOWOWOWOWWOOWW !!!

All of you are young. Am I the oldest broad on the forum here?

Good Morning to all. Buenos Dias a todo !

I am going to this huge flea market with my friend who married her Guatemalan Prince ( HAHAHAHA)

I'll ask her 1000 questions to see where she is with her petition.

If you write on my FB wall it will go to my cell and I can write back.

I wish VSC was working some OT this weekend.
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-28 08:46:00
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QUOTE (notime4haterz @ Feb 28 2009, 12:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I THINK WE CAN ALL USE SOME!!! laughing.gif FOR THOSE WHO WANT BABIES AND THOSE WHO JUST WANT SOME FUN!!! LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL




I love it....I need to go be with my husband now ! whistling.gif

Thank god we have FB.
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-28 00:09:00
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QUOTE (notime4haterz @ Feb 27 2009, 11:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>



You EFFIN KILL ME !!!!! rofl.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-28 00:02:00
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I fell asleep for a little while and WOW... so much action. JEEZE...

For the record... I would have been totally ok with being pregnant. Actually, I would love to have one more baby before my biological clock explodes. I have a gorgeous husband who is only 28. If I can't have at least one baby, OMG he might kick me to the curb. sad.gif
No.. seriously. He wouldn't do that.

Steve, I love that you are a chick deep down inside. That makes for the best husband. My husband would like to think he is a MANLY man, but I've seen him while he shaves and gels his hair... HAHAHAH No comment. Your wife is very lucky. I'm sure she knows this already.

Narina, I love that you are protesting. Unfortunately, VSC doesn't give two shitskis. I need desperately to hear something next week. Tucho too. He was soooooo dang sweet to me tonight. I hate that he isn't next to me in bed every night. I hate that I can't kiss him goodnight every night.

As for my house. Well, it is very small. I don't have any money to fix it up how I want it. Tucho doesn't care because where he comes from... well, if you knew parts of CR you would know. He doesn't come from money. Enough said. I'm not saying I live in a dump, I'm saying my house isn't how I would like it. AS for couches.... I bought 3 in the last 4 years. I never sat on any of them. I have kids, they are gross by nature and the couches are theirs. EWWWW. IF I want to watch tv, I have a big TV in my room. Im good . They all fight over what channel to watch even though they all have their own TV's and DVD players and stereos in their rooms.




LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-27 23:54:00
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My husband makes the best Cevichi. Should I add that to my hardship waiver? I need HIS cevichi. I will die without it. Period !


LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-02-27 22:30:00
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HAHAHAHA not a honeymoon but maybe a bit similar !
I am leaving on Saturday morning . My flight leaves at 7:15 am. I arrive in CR at 2:15pm . His cousin is meeting me at the airport since he is working until 6pm. I'm not sure I want to take a taxi by myself now. Anyway, Jessica will be there this time. Alot of the employees at the airport know me by name. I love that !!!

I am dying to talk with him today. I know he is sleeping now because he worked all night til 6am this morning. ClockWatch2.gif
I am sure he will call me when he wakes up and finds a public phone where I can call him back.
UGHHH I miss him

Today is 218 days that my papers have been in process at VSC. 218 happens to be a lottery number I used to play way back when I was in High School. I feel optimistic today. Maybe 218 is lucky. I feel like I should go play the daily number. Maybe box it for a few bucks. Something needs to happen today... Approvals, Lottery winnings SOMETHING!! girlwerewolf2xn.gif
LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-01-27 09:52:00
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My husband did call me around 10:45 last night. He said he was really busy at work. His phone card ran out before he could give me a number to call back mad.gif I only got to talk for 3 minutes
I didn't even get to tell him I liove him. He felt bad because he woke me up....

My lawyer wrote me in an e-mail that he is sending me all the documents that my husband needs to sign so we can get all that out of the way while I'm there.

AND If I had my way, I would take my kids and fly to Costa Rica so I could be with my husband. The Englsih schools are very good in Costa Rica. I think my kids would benefit huge from culture shock. I was searching for jobs last night in Costa Rica just for kicks ! I could definately find a decent job there even without speaking Spanish. Most of the jobs I was looking at needed someone who was 100% fluent in Englsih. Including reading and writing. HA HA That would be me. !!! But I am the unproud owner of an EX-MONSTER. He would NEVER even let me take Julia for a visit to Costa Rica, let alone live there. And Julia is treated at Children's Hospital. I can't take her out of Philly even if there wasn't an EX-MONSTER. My heart is spilt in TWO...

I have a decent job here and we live pretty decent for what it is. Of course there is always room for improvemnet but we have what we need. I'm not at all a material girl. Reality is that I am at the mercy of IMMIGRATION to allow my husband to come here and be part of my family.

It kills me how all the illegals are here working, having babies, making money, having parties, driving nice cars ETC... and my husband is back in Costa Rica getting held up at gun point and getting robbed of the only money he has and having to wait for Immigration because we decided to do things legally. I was looking at the long term. I never thought about how bad things would be while waiting. I guess I never thought it would take this long...

TODAY has to be a better day. I'm glad the gang is all here. Its nice to know I can vent and there are people who actually understand.
I want approvals for all of us so we can move over to a NEW THREAD ! After we are all finished here we can move to FACEBOOK ! HAA HAA

EVERYONE.... Have a GOOD MORNING. Stay in touch all day .
APPROVALS APPROVALS APPROVALS !!!!

LoveMyTicoFemaleCosta Rica2009-01-27 05:44:00