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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!

JG Earth City isn't that far away from us. Probably just about 10 minutes. It would work out perfectly...drop the kids to school in the morning, take him to work and then get to work myself. I already have it all planned out in my head. Posted Image Posted Image



Ha ha.....the Dillon bus!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-04-05 15:01:00
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Very true...the job is at some warehouse in Earth City. The hours would be great 9-6.



Yikes.....long trek in traffic. Definately not my cup of tea. Wish him the very best Dillon.

jg..interviews don't last that long my girl LOL

congrats steven..thats WONDERFUL nat!!!



I've never been to an interview that was 15 mins and included travel time. What was this like a drive-thru interview window??????
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-04-05 14:50:00
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Dillon, he wore brown pants & a purple button-down shirt.

So I'm ALL excited to hear EVERY detail. His recap "It went well." I'm like, What! I need more info than that! I told him to pretend to be a woman for a minute & tell me what happened from the minute he got there. His story:

"I got there & they were talking to another chef so I had to wait a few minute. Jacqueline used to work for P.J. Patterson (former prime minister) and has owned a restaurant in JA for 20 years. Wendy asked me about my references."

Then it was like he got exhausted from all the talking & said he'll tell me the rest when I get home. I did get a bit more from him: The restaurant doesn't open until May 15, but they want him to start next week. Posted Image The interview couldn't have been too long because it was at 1:30 & he called at 1:45 already back at home.



Are you SURE he went to the interview? 15 mins???????
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-04-05 14:43:00
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Yep I think so too... Posted Image I was like but baby I met you in JA and he was like that's the point...I said baby it doesn't take me leaving the country to meet someone...trust is something we've never had a problem with so I don't want that to even start even if he was just joking! Posted Image

These men...I tell ya!



If you go and men hit on you, you just say you want to come home with me and meet my husband......the guy with the machete waiting for me in baggage!!!!!!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-04-05 14:38:00
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I am pryaing too. Yep just a matter of time and it will be so nice to have two incomes. Don't even know what I will do with myself. LOL!!!



All I'm going to say is don't get too comfortable with that thought. When you make more money, you find a way to spend more money!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-04-05 14:34:00
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Good Morning Ladies...

We had a good weekend too. Friday I left work early and Hubby and I went to see the Tyler Perry movie. We both liked it a lot and it was fun having a date in the middle of the day while the kids were in school.

Please say some prayers for Mikel he finally has a job interview tomorrow Posted Image and I really pray that he gets it. It has been very stressful at our house since he has been back from JA and this is the main reason why. We have been filling out applications and sending his resume out like crazy and this is the first call he has gotten.



Well?????

That's great news. I hope he gets it or it leads to other opportunities. Where is it, Dillon?
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-04-05 14:31:00
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Well I left for work and called my Mom since she is off today so she is gonna take him to school and I have already emailed his team leader about his Phockery to let him know why he is late and what his major malfunction is today so when he gets there he can jack him up too! I don't care how late he is but he will be in school!

Needless to say he is gonna have to sign a new contract and I took everything out of the room no Direct TV, laptop, MP3, Phone, DVD and XBOX GONE Posted Image oh well too bad so sad but I ain't playing no games no more nor am I stressin Posted Image



Seriously, will you adopt me? I promise to be quiet. And, I don't eat much. I LOVE to clean. Please!!!!!

Edited by *JG*, 05 April 2010 - 02:29 PM.

*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-04-05 14:28:00
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MrsTee, who's asking you to mop the floor? Don't you have children?

Reason #4 to have children: so they can clean the house.



Ha ha ha ha...............OMG, I'm sorry............."cleaning the house" is totally different in kid language then in mine.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-04-05 14:23:00
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My classic husband- to him its NEVER that serious... like yesterday we were srguing about a female friend (whome I never met but aint concerned about) texting him at 5 am, which I think is disrespectful and rude. he claims to not care whether he talks to her or not but that its not that serious for us to argue over. Like what you mean, you'd be p*&&ed off if a friend taxt me that early- UGH they are completely unfair and insensitive. In fact I think MOST if not ALL men are insensitive and think we should bare the S#!T they give us



Well, in his defense...........that time is when you're coming home from a party or dance in JA. You are thinking in US time where it's while you are sleeping.

I wouldn't like it; but it may not be anything at all to him.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-04-05 14:22:00
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Im glad you feel better. Please take care of yourself because if you don't get back to 100% then you won't be doing any good for your family. In reality, I really hope the two of you can come to an understanding and he can be a bit more sensitive of your feelings mi sista! Posted Image




I have a MoBay man too... see! It's something in da water! lol



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*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-04-05 14:17:00
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It must be emotional hubby weekend.

When I tell my husband Im going to my friends house he literrally tels me "You not going no where" but when he wants to go with his friends I dont say anything.

Well he tried to pull that with me last night because I was going to my bf house to exchange things for our JA trip and also to get my hair done.
Before I left bought him Panda Express and we ate together.
Then I went to the beauty supply to get what I needed and went to my girl house. Maybe got there around 8pm. She did my hair had some family over so we just chilled.
When I looked up with was 10pm. I was like dang gotta get home. Walked in the house about 10:30 pm and he on the couch sleep. Im like hey, he looks at my hair and says you lied you aint get your hair done. But I got it press and flat iron ####### and just straight back because Ima get it styled later.
He gets a big azz attitude. I ask him to put the car in the garage and he says Im not moving from this spot.
I tell him your attitude is amazing Posted Image What you mad for? He just ignores me.
So I get in the shower and get to bed. Do you know his mom called this morning and I took him the phone on the couch.

He slept there all night Posted Image

I dont understand what I did and really dont care.

But if I go to my friends house for a few hours and he is mad how he going to do JA for 6 days next week. Posted Image Posted Image

Yall pray for me and hopefully we get stronger b4 I go because I cant manage!!! Posted Image Posted Image

Off to go to my Cen$u$ part time job. Then who knows

Be encouraged and blessed ladies and gents. Posted Image


OK, here's the deal....I am going to take names and start paying visits to these stupid men. #######? He's mad at you so he acts like that? I cannot stand accusations just to get someone to feel bad, apologize, and pump up some man's ego.

YOU did nothing wrong. You are allowed to spend some time with friends. And, you certainly don't deserve that kind of treatment. Don't back down on this. Control is a horrible thing.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-04-05 14:12:00
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Happy Easter weekend to everyone, I hope everyone is doing well. I am doing better and better each day and the baby is great she only cries when she is hungry.
I have a question to ask all of you, I know this is the best place for any type of advise. Its hard to get friends and family involved with maritial issues cause then they just hate your spouse. Its about my hubby. Yesterday I had an emotional breakdown at the supermarket. First of all the dr took me off my pain meds until I go to the office for a visit. I have been toughin it out for about 2 days now and it has been tough but I am dealing with it. Anyway I have been in moderate to severe pain( I got a ce-section a week ago). Yesterday was a severe pain day, My stiches hurt, I am breastfeeding so my boobs hurt, I am still having after birth pains, and to top it off I slept bad so my neck was killing me. I was complaining and hubby didnt even look at me, I asked for a massage and I got nothing. He is not the most sensitive person in the world, so I just said whatever and moved on. We went to the grocery store just to pick up a couple of items while he stayed in the car with the kids. I had to go because I had to use my card that he was not a signer on. Anyway I couldnt find what I was looking for(mind you I am in pain) I wanted to cry in the store. Finally I found it and a worker helped me out so I was happy. I got back into the car and told him " I am in so much pain I almost broke down crying in the store" He didnt say anything so I asked him if he was mad at me and if he didnt have any sympathy for me, you know what he said " hurry up and do what your doing so I can get the baby out of the dark" Girls I was ready for a Divorce, I broke down badly, I havent cried like that in a long time. When he asked me whats wrong I just told him to leave me the hell alone and we havent spoken since. Today is our 3 year anniversery from the day we met and I am so hurt. I dont know what to do??? HELP


All I am going to say is you should not be out running around anywhere right now. Girl, you are trying to do too much too soon. Take care of yourself.

And, if you ask me, he sound a bit like a spoiled child......jealous of less attention now?
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-04-05 14:09:00
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Why should he be mad? He is the one who ran up the $%^&* bill and to not care that you bought him clothes (after runnin up the bill mind you) and then not watching lil man properly. Go head girl and get your stuff done....He needs to think about it... He is right though, Sprint a thief.. but thats besides the point...



I agree. He needs to take responsibility.....he is not a child.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-04-05 14:04:00
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Mawnin and Happy Good Friday to all....

Thanks for all the pic comments.

I want to leave work early to go see Why did I get married 2. I wonder if hubby is up for that? lol

It's so beautiful out today and I don't want to spend my whole day at work. Ugh!



Huh? What? What picture did I miss?????
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-04-05 13:56:00
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Guys, I'm in a cranky mood now....people are just ticking me off around here...., so I am hopping off of here.

Have a nice Easter weekend all. Be safe.

I will see you on Monday.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-04-01 13:45:00
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And the year before that 3 years in a row of being hit! No im not suing what for? As long as she pays the damages and my hospital bills Im straight. I wouldn't want anyone to sue me cause im a broke biotch lol



When it rains it pours!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-04-01 13:18:00
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Aww, thanks JG



When did you turn 80?????Posted Image
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-04-01 10:56:00
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God, I don't want to be here. Sunny beautiful 80's second day in a row. If I make it through the day, I'm going bike riding after work. And, I'm O--F--F tomorrow!!!!Posted Image
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-04-01 09:17:00
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Hey Yardies,
I hope all is well. I am still breathing and still working like a Hebrew Slave. My life should return to back to normal after I get donewith my two projects this week. Ivan and I are doing well. We finished our 16-week marriage class at church and excited to be done with homework. I have also been trying to finish up my Master thesis this semester, but things are not looking good. I may have to go the summer semester to finish. I'm a little bombed out, but will get over it. Also irritated about our AOS/AP/EAD. We were expecting to receive the AP by this week, but there is no action. WE had planned to be in JA next week for a wedding. We considered just leaving anyway, but didn't want to take the risk. If we don't see any action in the next couple of days, we plan to go April 15-20 for his son's b-day. Anyway....I MISS YOU GUYS!! What's new? What's up with the yardie hookup??


Finesse - Congrats on the babies, they are gorgeous
DW - Good luck on your closing. We have got to link up soon!!! I need a break Posted Image
Ms. Tee - Congrats on your upcoming trips. I mentioned going somewhere by myself and my hubby looked at me like Posted Image He told me I have been enough places by myself and even had the nerve to ask in our marriage class if everyone thought is was ok for their spouse to travel alone.

KJ and 1Luv - Good luck on the baby making..I will leave that up to you guys!
JQ - I am so mad that we will miss you in JA...We were still considering hopping our crazy selves on the plane and having hubby stay until AP comes

Good Luck, Congrats, Happy Birthday, Anniversary, Wedding Day, to anyone else that I missed.


Be careful with that. AP has no set date of arrival. Seen crazy thing happen.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-04-01 09:13:00
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In the past I've used the Pill, but I couldn't never remember it. The DEPO is a weight-gainer for real. Had to get off that. Currently I'm on Mirena and I LOVE IT. I did bleed for 3 wks after placement followed up with spotting. Now its all good. No side effects. Granted I'm not thrilled to dig around for this daym string but I'm way too fertile and Hubby s*it is an Olympic Medalist in swimming (we got pg with our son 8 days after his Visa entry) so for now its whats working.


TOO CUTE



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Not to dig but I must've missed this one. I thought you were still married?



CONGRATS!



Your a friend in my head. I love creative idea people. Cute ideas




Been divorced almost a year.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-04-01 09:09:00
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hey guys I'm planning a small wedding in Jamaica so my fiance can have his family and stuff there and then planning a big wedding when he gets into the states any suggestion on where I can have it I want to do in Montego Bay but are there any nice places in Kingston



You can't actually have any kind of wedding IN Jamaica BEFORE you have the US wedding if you want him to come on a K-1.

And, you better ask him who he thinks will come.....not who he wants to invite......parties in JA often turn out a LOT bigger then you would expect.

Edited by *JG*, 31 March 2010 - 02:17 PM.

*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-31 14:16:00
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damn, jg....i'd prolly have a hard time with that too

was this the beginning of the end...or the end of the end?



This was the in the first 6 months of marriage. We were married 3 years.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-31 13:23:00
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Thats the JG we know and love!!! Posted Image




Thank you! Yes I miss my second home dearly. I just want to stay in the pool all day and swim up to the bar lol oh and spend time with my husbands family lol



Well, Tee and Finesse....I experienced this first hand and let me tell you, it was not pretty.

One of my kids jokingly put a pair of my CLEAN underwear on Andre's head one day when they were all goofing off. I mean, pulled right from dresser drawer clean. The look of distaste, the kiss teeth sound, and the words that flowed from his mouth....Posted Image

Let's just say, he learned not to open his mouth like that again. I pretty much flew into a rage and cussed him out before I left for a while to cool down and not kick his a$$......muttering, oh, it's good enough to put your....(Not kind words for #######) in. Go ** yourself then. I was "cool" for a long time after that.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-31 13:09:00
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That has always scared me with infant identical twins. They look so cute laying together. Awww.... Finesse, what state are you in?



My friend has identical twins. They develop their own features and personalities and it's not a thing.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-31 12:52:00
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That was more for Sunny LMAO sike.. Um I'd like a card from you! Posted Image



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*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-31 12:51:00
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i'd tell my hubby where to go too if he said some crazy stuff like that...



I would say then I guess you are going to starve. And, BTW, I'm not "touching" anything else you might touch like dirty dishes, the laundry, cleaning the house, shopping for groceries, the bed sheets...............I'll be on the couch watching my shows. See you in a week!Posted Image
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-31 12:51:00
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Both of you let me know...I could definitely link up.. early birthday gifts are being accepted Posted Image



What? My presence would not be gift enough??????Posted Image
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-31 12:47:00
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we just had a bath and now we're sleeping!

we are 2 weeks old today!! Posted Image

http://i1021.photobu...setwins/053.jpg



Awwwwww....that's sweet, Finesse.

Umm whats wrong with seperate sheets? My husband hogs all the sheets so its like I don't have any Posted Image



I need the feel of skin when I sleep.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-31 12:46:00
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Separate sheets Posted Image ? Wow he is serious…..



Yeah. I was thinking I would cuss any man who said that to me.

I'll be here in Sept JG...

DaDa, that might mean a little something something if ya'll running out the mins that quick girl. lol When your next visit again? Is it next month?

I'm hungry and my co-workers want me to go with them to get pizza Posted Image

Hey Dills...

DW, girl they are really keeping you away from us huh? Hurry back on FT.

Always was chatty cathy yesterday and this morning we just get a good morning and she's gone. lol

I still walk around in my panties during that time and hubby's always saying go put on some clothes. Nope! Posted Image


It's the weekend of the 10th, Sunny. We will be in Baltimore.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-31 10:54:00
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MB for life baby!!!! LOL

Why did I talk to my bartender friend last night who doesn't drink. Well he was off from work cause em manager mad em mad so I guess he decided to sit down with the fellas and have a few drinks.. Whoo that conversation was too funny. When he called me I knew something wasn't right he sounded weird and then as he started talking and I figured out what it was.

He kept saying Dada yuh hear what mi sey. I was like yeah he was like good. Just to repeat emself "yuh hear what mi sey" and he didn't say anything.. I tried to tell him he wasn't saying anything so he told me to listen up I did and then he was like "yuh hear what mi sey" I told him dude leave the juice alone yuh cant manage it, it has your tore up he was like no mon… but did you hear what me sey. I ended up hanging up on him. So a few minutes later he was home. I guess his dad is buried at his house so he told me he was sitting pon de grave. I was like get up you're not supposed to sit pon de grave you're supposed to sit next to it he was like nope I'm sitting on it I feel closer to my dad. I was like o.k. He was trying to tell me how his dad passed but all he kept telling me was what hospital he was at .He told me how to get to the hospital about five times I'm like dude get to the story. Needless to say I still don't know how he passed. The phone ended up blonking out as he call it. I think we went through the 1000 minutes already. Dang did we talk dat much??



No fresh as in you can tell they were made this morning…


I had oatmeal and rock hard peeps.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-31 09:57:00
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The link-up is from May 20-24. I will be driving up on Saturday the 22nd just for the day.



Ok. No, I can't go then.

Just an FYI.....I think I may be going to MD in September. If anyone is around.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-31 09:52:00
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JG, that's how it normally is with women... Like you said your face was in the place and nothing was said. lol Don't let them stop your flow girlie. Do you!



No worries, Sunny. I'm actually getting a kick out of it today. I don't like that chicken shyt high school games.

When is this meet up again?
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-31 09:12:00
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You have to do what you feel is best. I still have a good feeling about this car situation...




LOL my bad




Aww man, not the story I wanted to hear lol... I know Posted Image



Yes, well, I'm sure when I left they had a little meeting of the minds and something will come soon. They are brave again now that they can't see me. Probably trying to break into FB right now.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-31 09:10:00
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OK, so I did the bar scene last night with Daniel and Rob. Was a whole lot of fun. Her friends showed up first. By that time, I had 2 beers and was feeling just fine. The pointing and stares didn't bother me a bit. Plus, honestly, I hang out there all the time. Most I would count as MY friends so the few pathetic women in her coven don't bother me at all. I didn't hear her broom swoosh in; but I felt the death rays on the back of my head before I saw her. Besides a lot of staring, she was too chicken shyt to say a word to me...they all were. That actually makes me mad cause she and her friends sure can throw out the words when we aren't face to face.

Ah, well.....she had her chance to woman up. Predictably, she didn't.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-31 08:24:00
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Morning Ladies….

Nothing like some fresh donuts in the morning to get the day started right….



Mmmmmmmm....fresh as in hot?????
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-31 08:19:00
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I was reading other portals and found this story. I am outdone!

http://www.visajourn...rport-in-accra/

Edited by Shaunsgal, 13 April 2010 - 08:11 PM.

Tosh LoveFemaleGhana2010-04-13 20:11:00
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Please ladies I am begging for ur prayers right now. I just got word that my cousin is missing in Jamaica!! Please pray for us!! :(

1luv, my prayers and best wishes to you and yours! (F)
Tosh LoveFemaleGhana2010-04-13 18:17:00
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Afternoon Yardies!

Well, WHEW....just writing this out felt much better! I'm ready for any responses....don't temper your responses, if I wanted to be coddled or told the easy stuff, I wouldn't have put this out there.


Hi Ells, I am so sorry to hear about this. Whatever happened to the honeymoon phase? To be honest, the first year was rough for us also and this second year I can finally say we are finally "speaking the same language" so to speak.

Anyway, my advice is for you is to seek some talk therapy--either through a church, school, a mutual friend who is an older person, etc. It sounds like he is used to "covering up his actions (lying)" for no reason and it is a habit he defers to when questioned on the spot. This is just my opinion--It does not sound to me that he is up to anything insidious, it just seems that somehow your relationship has become one of mother/son or teacher/student, instead of equal partners. I do think it is worth it to give it your all before you give up. Much luck and Best Wishes!
Tosh LoveFemaleGhana2010-04-12 17:47:00
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Hi All,
Congratulations Dillon and Mikel!
Just checking in to say hi to all
and Happy Opening Day to JG. GO CARDS!
Miss you all!
Tosh LoveFemaleGhana2010-04-12 13:04:00
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It's funny now Cat, but when it happened I couldn't even talk and the funny thing is, the whole wall is mirrored in from of the steps so I saw it all in the mirror as I was tumbling down. :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:



And that whole slow motion thing......I'm so clumsy, I would never laugh at you for this one.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-04 15:20:00