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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!

Wow great minds think alike...I was just having the same thoughts. Although mine was Lawyers and Paralegals. Posted Image



My list is a little longer; but yes lawyers on mine as well!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-09 12:54:00
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Dillon.....IMO, cut her loose. I had a friend who went off on me for something bugging HER when I was knee deep in my own issues and apparently missed her telling me something. I mean she went off with hurtful words. I just stopped talking to her. No yelling. No mean words. Just cut her off. She has since emailed me and asked me what happened. I told her. I was and still am deep in my own problems and you said things I can't just put up with and pretend it's all good.

Not saying I won't ever forgive her. But, if she was truly the friend she said she was, she would know those words stung me too much at this time. And, that I'm not a person who you can do that to and I just take it. I don't need friends like that.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-09 11:41:00
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Question....

My friend just got married to a guy from JA that was on a visiters visa. he has 2 kids the he brought here with him one is in school and one is not. They were olso on a visiters visa. If he sends them back to JA will they be allowed to re-enter since my friend will put them on the I130 petition? They have all over stayed their time.



If they go back, they are stuck there till new visa.

I would leave them all here and file for adjustment of the status now.

yes.. and you know what.. i finally have experienced the MONEY/GIFT REQUESTS..
ive heard vjers talk about it for years now, and because roger is not in contact w/ pretty much anybody LOL i always just LISTENED, but BABAY, now i can RESPOND!!

i am all for helping family, but roger has had ppl ask him for things just cuz they COULD..
his older brother has worked for a bank in kingston since he graduated high school, he has one child and his wife is a nurse..tell me why he told roger to bring him a laptop!! roger told him he couldn't afford that so he said some work shoes..which for him would be dress shoes.. still fairly expensive when you have to buy for 3 kids of ur own, ur dad, mom and step mom..GOSH.. i facebook w/ him sometimes so one day he asked me did roger get his shoes, i told him i didn't know..(even tho i knew he had opted to get an outfit cuz he ran out of money) but i railed in on him (in my sweet, u can't even tell im being mean way) about roger being so stressed about money when he should be looking forward to seeing his family after all these years.
the mnth before he went he called his mom after 7 yrs now remember, they talked a few times and he sent her some money..COOL the week before he came, she asked him for money to get his lights back on.. i was thinking?? after all this time of not talking to him, is there NO ONE else that can help w/ this??

he took alot of money w/ him, and hardly came back w/ any cuz he said everywhere he went ppl ask for money and cuz he has been gone so long he wanted to help as much as he could..he said next time he go, he will not be doing that..

im not knocking it, he was so happy to have bought his mom and them some things.. and he is not free w /his money AT ALL so i knw he won't let it get out of hand, but he's my husband and i hate to see him stressed behind these things..



Good luck with that!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-09 11:37:00
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I have found that it is the tough times in life that show you who your true friends are - I had a similar experience with people I would have thought were good friends - And support that showed up in unexpected places - It hurts, there is no way around that - But in the end, I have come to realize that I am better off without them - cause if you can't be by my side when I am down, don't expect to be there when I am up.


We had an interesting talk about the value of true friends this trip - The reason we started the trip in Negril was to go to Western Consciousness (rained out) because one of my friends from here was playing at the show. I talk about him all the time to DJ - he's an incredible person. On Saturday, we had a battery issue with the car (shocker, lol) - I called my friend to see if he knew a mechanic in the area, because I didn't want to get raked over the coals for fixing the problem. He was up in Grange Hill with his family - Told me he would call me back in a few. He called back and said I am on my way. He grabbed up his nephew, and some friend who is a mechanic (the guy closed down his shop) and drove to Negril - the friend fixed the car and didn't charge us a dime. DJ was floored by it all, said you really have a good friend there -

Some people you know you can just count on, no matter what -



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*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-09 11:02:00
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morning peeps! i dont feel like working today..



I am there too, Finesse.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-09 10:18:00
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Hey Kelly how are you doing?



Bored today. But, good otherwise.

Tell us some good news, Nells. Something exciting.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-08 14:00:00
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No she didn't ask him that? Posted Image



What I want to know is was it like change change for the do it yourself car wash? Was it dollars for the drive thru car wash? Or did he break a hundred and she's getting the full detail done?
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-08 13:57:00
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Hey Nells. Long time, no see.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-08 13:47:00
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I am BEYOND pissed....Friend of mine lives in Michigan and was getting married.

She did ask me about taking photos, but I kind of was reluctant, assumed her budget wouldn't cover my airfare, hotel and prices.

She just put out her photos of FB.They are TERRIBLE. DISGUSTING. Shadows, no attention to skyline, no attention to posing etc.

I called her and asked her how she felt about the photos. She told me she knew they were terrible (didn't want to infere if she thought they were great).

I asked her how much she paid and the photographer charged her TWICE as much as I would have!

I feel PISSED as HELL, with myself AND the photographer.

The work is TRULY HORRIBLE!



Moral of this story, JAE, is we all have to stop assuming. Worse case, she would've said she couldn't afford you.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-08 13:11:00
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Sus yuhseeit!!!! Whoo I have tears coming out I'm laughing so hard and I'm shocked and then you know me I'm trying to figure out what position were they in??



When you figure it out, pass it on. I'm sitting here wondering too.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-08 09:20:00
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For some reason I agree with Steven. You look like you can make a dolar HOLLA!!!!



I'm with Nat on this one. I know men who can blow thru money like water.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-08 08:58:00
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GIRL that base is at least an hour and a half away. So it isn't even close...the only thing related to that trip was the fact that you flew into St Louis.



Ha ha.....I was just going to say that!

I came in at 9:10 today, since I had no meetings. Tomorrow my first meeting is at 6:30am and my last meeting ends at 9:30pm, so I will prob take a long lunch & grab a nap.


The restaurant has had another delay in opening. Both of us look forward to him working full time. He thinks I'm stingy with money, even though we get the SAME amount of random spending money each paycheck. Mine lasts until the next paycheck & his lasts 2 days.


Unless DaDa knows something we don't .... Posted Image


How'd you manage that?


Congratulations!



Don't make me track you down, Nat, and slap you upside the head!

Can I just say ya'll always have it poppin' here! Sub Saharan has just about died! Can I be a stepchild??? LOL.



Of course. Just know, we talk some shyt in here!

Ummmmmmmmmmmm....................... Nat is giving Sex tips??????
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STOP IT!!!! I still think of her as a virgin.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-08 08:36:00
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BTW.....all that stuff is useless information if you ask me. I just want him to talk you silly!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-07 15:18:00
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I am telling you the truth he can just look at a horse and knows which one will win. The first race we walked in on he said he liked the #4 and #2 horse and they came in first and 2nd. He was pretty on all night. He used to have horses back in Jamaica that they used to breed.



Hmmmmmm.....maybe I'll follow him around then. I can use some $$$
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-07 15:13:00
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Okay we will talk towards the end of the week.



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I'm going to teach Mikel how to read the programs to figure out which horse is on drugs, how they did in their last races, the weight difference of the horses and/or jockeys, etc. I will have him driving you insane by the time I am done. Posted Image
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-07 14:50:00
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Okay here is the deal....We took 270 to 55 and I thought it was right there. I didn't realize it was at 255 @ 70. That is how I got lost and yes we found it and had a great time. We didn't get there until the 4th race but Mikel was so into it and actually picked a winning horse on one of the races. Posted Image I am sure we will be going back very soon, maybe even this Friday.



I may just be free this Friday.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-07 14:27:00
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Once you have one you will be trying to give yours away too. Posted Image



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*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-07 14:21:00
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Good thing it wasn't in St Louis so you can come to St Louis anytime you want to. Posted Image




I was lost trying to find the race track and was calling you for directions.



HTH did you get lost? Did you find it?
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-07 14:21:00
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Errr umm but it aint JG having a baby its JQ!!!! Posted Image Posted Image Posted Image Posted Image



I just cussed under my breath and knew you would figure it out eventually.

I am GIVING my kids away if anyone wants any teenagers.

Ive been at my job for so long I dont know how to go on an interview... I hope I learn though when its time for me to get hired as a teacher Posted Image




Well my experience left me never wanting to go back again! Not even for vacation...Posted Image



You DO NOT vacation in Ft. Leonard Wood. Ever.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-07 14:03:00
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Good Morning Yardies....this weekend sure did go by way to fast. I need an extra day so I can relax a little.



I see you called me the other night. No message? What's up?
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-07 13:58:00
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I remembered after talking to a guy for a while we finally got together to get it on. OMG it was horrible. His size wasn't the problem it was his pace. I swear he tried to do 50 positions in like 2 minutes. I didn't know if he was running a race or what. Needless to say I made him stop and NEVA called him again. He had the nerve to text me like what's wrong. Cha!!!



Oh yeah here go another for the records and yawl betta not laugh at me. O.k. so I was checking this guy for a while. He was chocolate and thick I mean the guy had arms, muscles and a stomach to die for. Well I finally worked up the nerve to invite him over for dinner. I cooked baked fish with salad because he told me what he likes to eat. We had a good time during diner and we sat on the couch to watch some tv. Well the president Bill Clinton at the time came on and I was like oh what does Bill have to say now. He was like Bill who, I said Bill Clinton the president. He looked at me so serious tilted his head to the side and was like ................" Dang you smart huh?" I laughed I thought he was joking. Ladies he was dead serious!!!!! I wonder how's he doing?



But, what was the size of his #######????????

Kidding. You should've played that up a little though girlfriend.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-07 13:51:00
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that leonard wood sounds familiar, it was years ago... all i remember is getting off the plane and waiting hours for a greyhound and dude picked me up at the greyhound station.. thats how bad of an experience it was for me... I waited hours and it poured cats and dogs....I felt stranded



Yep. I took a grayhound to ft. leonard wood one time. I was single, in my early 20's, and it was a bus full of men going to/from the army. It was interesting.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-07 13:45:00
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She linked up wid a man that couldn't Posted Image



Yeah, um......guarentee they aren't all like that.




I'm out ladies. See you all on Monday. Be safe.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-04 15:27:00
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I know my ex bad mouths my dates to my kids he actually told them they are the reason why we are not together anymore. I wish my kids were grown for a good five minutes so I could tell them the real truth and see what they thought of daddy then. I just tell the kids that is not true and mommy and daddy like each other but we just can't live together no more is all. No other man has anything to do with this (as I fill out K-1 forms) No I'm joking but that is what I explain to them. I am worried because my husband has bad mouthed my possible future mates my kids will really not take to them well.



Man I can't wait to get home to listen to this. I can't pull the link up at work.

I always listen to Gyptian's version cuz mi like de beat but today I listened to the words and it made me blush. Someone made a remix to it but its called Ganja....




I PM'd you.

omg..dada..ur ex need to stop..ur kids are alot smaller than mine, thats just no right..when i tried to tell my daughter the truth it didnt' help, she aaid i hurt her to let her know her dad and i were having problems alot longer than she ever knew.. it was like her life was a lie..



But what if the ex won't stop?
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-04 15:09:00
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and u right..a staycation is nice too.. a differnt atmosphere and time away from the "world" does wonders.. the hotel we got last week runs 120 but we got it for $80 on hotels.com..



I have a free night at any Drury Hotel. Just have to find the time to use it.

how a firefighter gonna be afraid to fly LOL



He's not afraid to fly. He's a stubborn jackass sometimes!

jg got her own bar??



I wish.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-04 14:11:00
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Q-I would want to experience the Bahamas the same way you did..nothing fancy so try to remember where you stayed. The last time we were in Jamaica together was for his interview in 2009. We went to Chicago together last 4th of July and all our other trips this year have been with the kids so we need a trip together. Even if it is a staycation.

JG it would be a blast if we were there at the same time. Tomorrow is when I am going to Ft Wayne to meet up with the kids. Is the race track happening tonight? Might try to hit that up.



Yes, every Friday night.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-04 14:08:00
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LMBO you cant be for real lol... why he so 'fraid of flying>


How corny is that?



IDK. It is irritating though.

I don't call it corny. I call it underhanded. Like they want to trip you up. BS if you ask me.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-04 13:16:00
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Dillon.....does Mikel play soccer?

Reason I ask is we used to have an indoor soccer team at Old Navy and I ran into one of the guys who used to be on it. He said he wanted to start another. We aren't very good; but it was fun. Co-ed so you could play. Was Sunday nights at 270 and Tesson Ferry. And, before you hem and haw.....I couldn't even walk the day after our first game....for days. They ended up putting me at defender and telling me to stand there.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-04 13:14:00
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So does anyone have any idea if anything is wrong with the medical will they notify you?



IF you are lucky, they may tell you at medical. Otherwise Posted Image it's a nice little surprise they throw at you at the embassy.

I think they should let you know by mail



They SHOULD but do not.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-04 13:11:00
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The man is fighting me about going on a trip that will just pretty much cost us plane fare only. I want to bash him upside the head sometimes. I told him I would drug him and cart him on the plane in a wheel chair if I had too. I'm not kidding.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-04 13:08:00
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It is kind of scary JG. I was going to stop by your bar last night but got too tired were you there? We went to Ted Drewes so we were kind of in the neighborhood.



No. I know it will be a shocker; but I didn't drink last night at all. Overdid it the night before. I took a walk with my son and chilled at Chuck's for a NCIS marathon and some Uno. I'm thinking about going tonight after the firehouse. If Rob or someone is up there. Daniel's car is broke down so I know he's not going.

What are you doing tomorrow night?

Hey... and dont they have all-inclusive resorts? Would be perfect



Pretty sure most places do now.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-04 13:03:00
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I want to go there for a quick trip this summer for Mikel and I. I will have to link up with you so you can give me the 411.



If I listened correctly (and I only listen 1/2 the time), I think they bought cause a friend of theirs has a guest house type deal. I might be able to hook you up on a deal. Don't quote me on that; but I would try.

How cool would it be if we could meet up in the Bahamas? I just have to get a new passport, save some $$, and drug Chuck to get him on the plane.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-04 13:00:00
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i love nassau!! i was going there like some of you were going to jamaica LOL



I'm not sure where in the Bahamas. I know they closed on the house last weekend. Doesn't matter to me. FREE room, transportation, and food/drink is ALL good to me. Hell, I drive to their house 3.5 hours away from me now just for that. I just can't eat for a week before or after a visit cause they cook way too much!

Dillon, they live near lake of the ozarks now. I'm living vicariously thru them!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-04 12:58:00
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hell no!

ok, nevermind...i'll just attend and party all night



Not sure we were actually invited. We just sort of all invited ourselves!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-04 12:56:00
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Yep you are included you just got the job of watching the kids.



Ha ha....you and I are in perfect agreement today. Kind of scary.

Hey guys- only have a few mins...

Making beef steaks... hmmmm
My mom mad at me cuz i aint going all the way to detroit for graduation tomorrow
hubby wants ideas for our vacation?

IDEAS ANY?



My aunt and uncle just bought a house in the Bahamas. That's where I am going for my next real vacation.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-04 12:52:00
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JG yes they need to put me in charge of the bar...the party would be on and poppin! Posted Image



You know if you drank while you watched the kids, it might be kind of fun to observe.

what the phock is this? mi nah included?



Well, since Dillon not watching the kids, you can. What's a few more?????
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-04 12:48:00
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Remind me what happened to you NEAR St. Louis, Tee.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-04 12:47:00
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umm I beg your pardon i was in SAINT LOUIS AT SOME DAGGONE ARMY BASE... HMPH LOL



Huh? We don't have an army base in St. Louis. Ft. Leonard Wood or Scott AFB closest. Neither in St. Louis. No Hugs for you......Posted Image
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-04 12:45:00
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which woulda been you and dillon LOL



Of course! Posted Image And Shaunsgirl. And JOURNEE if she's ever in town.

jg.. my kids dad did it for just a lil while in the very beginning, and my children understand their dad and his mental limitations LOL.. they don't pay him any mind.. my youngest said he told them to cuss out roger if he tries to talk to them and she told me "mama, i listen to daddy, but i know not to do that".. its sad, i thank God they are so sensible, but i do think it may have a lil to do with their acceptance of roger..



OK, let me rephrase a little.....what if they do listen to the parent bad mouthing the other and behave accordingly.

You were lucky, Quana.

The heck I will!!!!! Put me in charge of the BAR!



Oh HELL to the NO. I've seen you drink. Like a damn FISH!!!!!!

FOR THE LAST TIME....you were NOT in St Louis! You were in Illinois!



Please don't tell me she was in East St. Louis.

Where????????
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-04 12:43:00
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I could just hug you right now JG.. you know how long Ive been looking for a site with bras for my size Posted Image Thank you



I am just a wealth of useless information.

You are right but the downside to that is when you file ead seperately it takes just as long to come (they say about 3 months) that is why they suggest you file with AOS because its included in the cost of 1010.00 filing fee. You may end up spending an extra 340 for nothing. They not gonng let no one work before their time.. thats the government with our tax money at work!



That is exactly what happend to us. It sucked so bad. I didn't ask first. My fault.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-06-04 12:38:00