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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)
I couldn't move to cali, too far from the east cost, where the family is. People are talking about north florida, and the tampa area. anyone no something about the home prices there. I've been thinking about moving to queens, in nyc because i'm sick and tired of apartment living, I want a house with a backyard. I live on the top floor in my house, but with kids, u need somewhere for them to play.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-06 20:35:00
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good grief, makes me want to move to pittsburgh....i wouldn't mind moving someplace else but it has to be somewhere where there is a decent west indian population. I know mr jengles would love miami and i have family there, but i'm not sure. i have family in west palm beach, but u can't even find a beef patty around there.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-06 19:37:00
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QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Feb 6 2008, 02:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Jengles @ Feb 6 2008, 12:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
mr jengles will probably be getting me on the phone screaming at him because he's will not be back by then. lol


the whole dna thing, what do u do, when sort of everyone involves knows he's not the father, but he's supporting the child because he doesn't want the child to feel bad. Oh and everyone knows who the real father is and the mother's dead. I'm at a loss as to what to suggest, but the money could be used elsewhere. Is that cold??

Bwaay....is ongle when mi hear Dee and Tam a tawk mek mi even reconsider how mi feel.
Caws di way mi seet is, if anno fi him, fair enough if him have extra money fi mine di pickney, but in my book, meeda have a BIG problem wid him using our money fi mine a pickney weh anno even fi him....ESPECIALLY if money tight!

I think it's a WONDERFUL thing for them to continue, but mi cyaa seh I would be happy with my husband doing that!

Mi feel in your situation, meeda be like mek di REAL father mine di pickney.....Maybe would be a different story if I was in the situation...


He feels very bad, because the mother is dead, and he has another child with the mother. He says the child that isn't is acts funny around him and when he calls, the grandmother put the child that is his on the phone. almost never the other child, the real father is married. he said dna tests down there costs $700 U.S.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-06 14:57:00
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mr jengles will probably be getting me on the phone screaming at him because he's will not be back by then. lol


the whole dna thing, what do u do, when sort of everyone involves knows he's not the father, but he's supporting the child because he doesn't want the child to feel bad. Oh and everyone knows who the real father is and the mother's dead. I'm at a loss as to what to suggest, but the money could be used elsewhere. Is that cold??
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-06 12:41:00
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QUOTE (sunnyja21 @ Feb 5 2008, 09:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Thanks everyone. I haven't seen my honey since Sept so the hormones are jumping....lol Has anyone been to Evita's in Ochi? It's an Italian/Jamaican mix restaurant. I plan on taking Ray there for his birthday...



I haven't been there, it s u that steep hill. A lot of celeb's eat there when in Ochi, so hopefully its good
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-06 09:44:00
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QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Feb 5 2008, 01:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Jengles, if him cyaa hear, him will FEEL!

But God nah sleep, yuh nuh si him set up a plan fi yuh??
Is like him did wah Mr Jengles fi learn a lesson dat's why him mek him run gawn and a mek sure seh yuh criss up yah...



EXACTLY!!!
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-05 14:52:00
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QUOTE (Jengles @ Feb 5 2008, 07:18 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
All is well the world ladies, i'm eating my first serving of cornmeal porridge of the day.

Oh what I woudn't do to be eating some cornmeal porridge as well blush.gif Enjoy Jengles!

So who out there actually gets to vote today? Our primary isn't for a few more weeks but we are all mail in votes so I have actually already voted good.gif It feels so good to vote and be a part of this amazing process.


well don't mean to rub it in, but it taste GOOD. I forgot it was voting day today.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-05 10:53:00
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All is well the world ladies, i'm eating my first serving of cornmeal porridge of the day.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-05 10:18:00
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QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Feb 5 2008, 06:50 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Jengles @ Feb 4 2008, 10:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
The most amazing thing happened to me this evening. I hired a babysitter to watch the kids while I go to school. She started this evening. From inital contact she told me she was a christian and when she went to church ok cool. Just wanted her for one night. So she starts tonight and I asked her if she cleaned. I knew she did because one of her references told me. So I asked her how much additional she would charge. (a sister is TIRED when she comes home and weekends all I do is sleep on saturday and do laundry on sunday) anyway my girl told me that the spirit spoke to her and she can't charge me for babysitting. I had to look at her twice and said excuse me and she repeated it. She said the spirit spoke to her and she can't charge me for babysitting and she's only going to do it until mr. jengles comes back. She said when she goes against God something bad happens. I gave her offering to put in the plate.

God knows what no one else knows .. who God Bless no Man curse...BELIEVE THAT..


Now on the keeping it real, speaking to her on the phone, she sounded like a big west indian woman and when I opened the door mi sey...the gyal pretty bad...I was like oh hell no...but she was so sweet...can't judge a book by its cover...

Wow, that is truly amazing!!!
God works in mysterious ways!!!
It's like he's preparing the road for you......How is Mr Jengles getting with the visa/passport thing?


Mr. Jengles went to JA because he listened to his cousin. Like I stated before he was the one supporting all of them, even those that worked and when he came up here they missed that or at least she did. Let me not talk about the rest of his family. she would call my house and tell him things like how his job called looking for him, and how his kids were sick and his brother was letting his house go and not working the car, just stuff to make him think whatever he had in jamaica was going to go up in smoke. She even found people to borrow the money for his fare. So he goes to JA, he has a buyer for the car, but no title. Kingston never processed the title.

He didn't listen to me. I told him to go when he got the title and a buyer. he didn't listen when he got the dream telling him not to go. he didn't listen when he lost his passport, he started getting the hint when he lost his JA liscense. I spoke to him on Sunday and he said "he's down there like a damn fool" he is miserable. He thought he was only going to be there for 2 weeks. I'm going to let God deal with him. When God opened the door for him in america he closed the door in jamaica. God knew I needed the childcare help, because now I'm paying for afterschool for my son and soon i'm going to be paying daycare for my daughter by myself. I couldn't drop out of school not for my last class.

God knows just how long I would be needing the babysitter for and sent her for just that long. While he teaches my husband who is the real boss.


So I'm thankful and need to get myself in somebody's church soon.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-05 09:32:00
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QUOTE (clairern @ Feb 4 2008, 10:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Totally offtopic45vn.gif
Well guys and gals I got the RFE letter in the mail today. I don't have a scanner but will type as much as I can, here goes;

MISSIING DOCUMENT LIS FOR ..........(beneficiary's name)

_________________OF 230-I:____________________________________________

Please submit a completed copy of form DS230 Part 1, Application for Immigrant Visa and Alien Registration - Biographic Data, for this applicant. In reviewing the form DS-230 Part 1 that you submitted, we note that you have either skipped Item 20 entirely or provided imcomplete information. You will need to complete and submit a new form with the changes. Your visa application cannot be processed until this form is complete.

A gap exists in your residency history of more than six months. When completing the information in Item #20, please refer to the following instructions below on how to obtain Police Certificates from these countries:

It goes on to give info about obtaining a police certificate although we have already submitted one. I plan on calling them this week to verify that they have the police cert.

Can anyone interpret this for me? I will update this thread when I am able to get through to the NVC while I wait for Mike to send a new DS-230 to me.


so they have the certificate that they are asking for??
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-04 22:57:00
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QUOTE (nannygirl82 @ Feb 4 2008, 07:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
fianlly some good news today.....i got approved for MA!!!! sssoo happy about that...interesting how it worked out...i had actually e-mailed the Governor about how i was in support if his health care idea and how it is frustrating for me who needs help and all the hoops i have to jump through....well guess who called the local office today to check on my case....the Gov's office....so the case worker called me just to let me know i was approved and hove to drop off a couple extra papers....i am just so happy this all came out the right way!!!!!!!!!



CONGRATULATIONS, i am so happy for you, that is one less thing u have to worry about!!!!!!!!!!!!
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-04 22:55:00
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So totally offtopic45vn.gif I was reading another thread where people were looking for suggestions for welcoming your loved ones on their first night here. What have those of you who have your SO here did? For those who are expecting their SO, what do you plan to do to welcome them stateside? I get excited just thinking about the fun and exciting things you ladies will come up with yes.gif yes.gif jest.gif jest.gif

Mike will be in Florida with his dad for a while before he comes here to me (I'm not sure how long, haven't asked)so I have not thought about what I would do unsure.gif unsure.gif .


Thats a good question. My hubby has already "hinted" to the fact that he likes surprise parties dry.gif . So he's a little full of himself! I have no idea, cause I'm not sure if we are flying back together or not, and its so far away who knows. But I'm interested in hearing how the other ladies went about it.


well mr jengles got to see his daugther for the first time, she was a month...
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-04 22:34:00
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The most amazing thing happened to me this evening. I hired a babysitter to watch the kids while I go to school. She started this evening. From inital contact she told me she was a christian and when she went to church ok cool. Just wanted her for one night. So she starts tonight and I asked her if she cleaned. I knew she did because one of her references told me. So I asked her how much additional she would charge. (a sister is TIRED when she comes home and weekends all I do is sleep on saturday and do laundry on sunday) anyway my girl told me that the spirit spoke to her and she can't charge me for babysitting. I had to look at her twice and said excuse me and she repeated it. She said the spirit spoke to her and she can't charge me for babysitting and she's only going to do it until mr. jengles comes back. She said when she goes against God something bad happens. I gave her offering to put in the plate.

God knows what no one else knows .. who God Bless no Man curse...BELIEVE THAT..


Now on the keeping it real, speaking to her on the phone, she sounded like a big west indian woman and when I opened the door mi sey...the gyal pretty bad...I was like oh hell no...but she was so sweet...can't judge a book by its cover...
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-04 22:31:00
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Gil,

but I see u had to throw in that 1 didn't u.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-04 12:42:00
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Well, all I can say are words like , deeply saddened, tragic, despair, devesated.

Please pray for the Pats, because those Boston fans can be ROUGH!!!
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-04 11:43:00
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************HAPPY BURTHDAY USA-JAMAICA**********
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-03 12:44:00
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thanks for the food ladies....dem taste good ya see....and the drinks were GOOD.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-03 08:13:00
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Well can someone please mix me up a virgin Pina Colada. I had one today, I could only imagine it with rum...and what kind of party dis...where is the food, oh wait ms. nelly bought food, but it look well spicy . The long belly gyal come.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-02 22:25:00
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lol, I stayed out of the pools too, don't quite understand them...and mi nuh have no money fi lose right now....
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-01 19:48:00
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hAPPY b-DAY mS English....hope u have a good time tomorrow.


Gil - FINALLY ---- kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif Now we can get a better time frame for that baby devil.gif devil.gif

I had a sage green wedding, love the colors together

and Congrats on the other NO2s received today.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-01 19:39:00
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Thanks Shauna..yea ginger ale makes me feel worse...crackers nothing...I'm taking a RX the doc gave me but it rarely works..He now wants me to try Zofran..but I really didn't want to start taking all these pills....and plus I don't know what I did with the Rx..so I gotta call the office for a new one...then he mentioned steroid shots if all else fails...I haven't been to work since last Friday...I am so uncomfortable and it drains the energy...i'm on the batheroom floor throwing up..I can't do that at work.

bwaay, mi nuh really have nuh advice fi yuh, NUTTING worked fi mi!!
I tried the sea bands, I tried the ginger tea, I tried crackers, I tried the vitamin B12, I drank bottles of mylanta.....NOTHING WORKED!

My doctor prescribed an anti-nausea medication, but I decided not to take it, they can't promise you it has NO effect on the baby....


U see it..nothing..i came out the batheroom and hubby cooked chicken..let me tell u i made a U turn back to the bathroom..my gosh...I HATE IT..nothing works..and ur right I really don't wanna take all these meds..I take the Reglan once in a while..but i don't know why I throw up anyway...I would hate to take too long off work it cuts into my maternity leave..but wah mi a go do....


why would it cut into your maternity leave, this should be a seperate disabilty, no??
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-24 10:13:00
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QUOTE (JA Tam @ Feb 24 2008, 12:10 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Lawd ah massi...what ah pissa calamity pon VJ...Lawny, mi sarry bout everyting weh happen to yuh cousin; What ah wickid brute. JAE, yuh hit di nail pon di head, di gyal nuh have nuh shame tree...mi happy fi hear seh di interview cancel. Gill, yuh haffi come back an tell wi if di ole fart show up fi di interview. Him sound brazen enough fi do dat, because ah him have di golden #### and di visa coulda nevah cancel, ole wickid. Mi heart hurt mi fi read it.

Jengles, mi happy fi hear seh yuh uncle awright. Him mussi ah wonda wah all di excitement fah when him see police turn up ah him yaad laughing.gif laughing.gif
Alright, mi ah go read part 2 ah di thread lata, because di two likkle day mi gone, di whole ah unnu decide fi chat up ah storm. Ah wah, since Kimmy ah have all ah har pregnancy symptoms, unnu ah try compete fi har title??!!! laughing.gif laughing.gif It nah go wuk! Mi love unnu bad doa.


why all mi ex dem did think them did have that and mi could a never leff dem, but when mi leff, it turn out mi have the golden pums because dem all want to come back. lol

Uncle finally got to call me last night, very pleased that i was looking out for him. I was sick as a dog still am. i could barely croak into the phone. i think he was chatting about gettng a regular old-fashion land line. but that nah go do nuttin if the phone line is out. think i'm just going to put him on my family plan.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-24 10:10:00
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QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Feb 23 2008, 10:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Thanks Shauna..yea ginger ale makes me feel worse...crackers nothing...I'm taking a RX the doc gave me but it rarely works..He now wants me to try Zofran..but I really didn't want to start taking all these pills....and plus I don't know what I did with the Rx..so I gotta call the office for a new one...then he mentioned steroid shots if all else fails...I haven't been to work since last Friday...I am so uncomfortable and it drains the energy...i'm on the batheroom floor throwing up..I can't do that at work.


please ask him if these shots will effect the baby!!
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-23 22:51:00
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QUOTE (BelwinMills @ Feb 23 2008, 05:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I was trying to tell Dwain about the Rastas house and if he was well known but I forgot his name. I don't think I could eat like a Rasta either. I like the jerk meat to much.


Mutabaruka is a famous dub poet - http://www.mutabaruka.com/

I thought the Anthony Bourdain show was great - although I could have done without the bat cave, that was gross! There are so many beautiful waterfalls, etc... they could have picked a better activity. I thought he did a really good job of showcasing a variety of food and music, though.


i think one of my friends was talking about this show, she said the host said he could have been doing better things than going into the bat cave. like staying at the hotel and smokinga spliff, lol
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-23 20:13:00
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QUOTE (nannygirl82 @ Feb 23 2008, 03:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
don't need to be a downer....but i need to vent....i have talked to mike and he has just made me physically sick....i feel so drained and just sick to my stomach....everything is about him....he is stressed cause he has to pay rent and can't save....hello get another job he won't for whatever reason....we still have a family phone plan and well he went over on the minutes and then procedes to tell me oh ya i also called Canada and i didn't time myself but i talked for like 25 mins. so that is extra money on the bill for next month as well...and why can't i get over everything...he thought this was a new year and i should just get over it all...and i said what get over everything that you have said and done to me over the past year and not be angry or upset about anything....and he thinks yes i should be able to get over everything....also when is he going to get his green card...i meaning me needs to fill out the 1-90 to send in...yet i called the senator and i am waiting to here back...well that isn't good enough....blah blah blah blah.....30 mins of how he is so stressed and how can i do this to him bring him here and then do this....

you know am i crazy....i would think that i am not...but maybe i am....i don't know anymore....



I don't see anything in what you typed as to how he plans on changing. or not doing whatever it was again. like Jomo's girl said, fight for what u want or belive in. it's your relationship and you know what u want out of it. i hope u nicely called him back and told him, he would be paying for that extra call to canada. It sounds like he wants u back and maybe counseling can help. sometimes men need to hear it from an independent source. and as for the comment as to u bringing him here, remind him that he wanted to come and j.a. doors are always open.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-23 17:15:00
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QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Feb 23 2008, 11:48 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
wah gwan Jengles?


mi deh yah bored like hell sad.gif

mi need a JOB!


well, if u must get a part time job, don't forget most companies over here only give 2 weeks vacation. so enjoy your time with your son.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-23 17:04:00
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good morning everyone!!
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-23 11:12:00
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QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 22 2008, 03:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Howdy Family, luv.gif

Lawd wat a way onnuh can CHAT!!!! laughing.gif

Kimkim, I hate to tell you this, but Chica I damn near drove myself CRAZY wacko.gif ...trying to potty training my two! Finally, when I let go and let G-d...they figured it out on their own! (I just wish they would LIFT UP the toilet seat instead of playing 'How well can we pee in the toilet set hole!!' mad.gif ) Kimorie will git it...don't push her too much! I did what Nans recommended, pull-ups, every dyam ting...and finally it wasn't til they were ready...be patient Sweets. I used to say well sometime before they reach 18 hopefully they will pee in the potty!

Lawny, sarry fi ear bout yuh nast fall Chica! Iam sure yuh a guh ave some nasty bruise dem inna deh mawning sad.gif . Also sarry fi ear bout yuh friend ...it's a disgrace how some lawyers will take advantage of innocence people in need of assistance! She should call about 8-12 immigration lawyers and get an average cost of a how much they charge for a k-1 visa! I would then submit my information and a letter to the State Bar of Lawyers in her State! This way he is on record of overcharging. They will let him know that he is now on probation and one more complaint in this nature could get him disbarred. That's if no one else has made a complaint against him for this same issue in the past!

SJB laughing.gif laughing.gif ...You're my type of Gurl!! good.gif ...Hopefully, my bedroom will be more for rooksing and less for sleeping when Ken gets here! devil.gif

IslandWoman, WELCOME WELCOME WELCOME!!! luv.gif It's so nice to have you with us! I know what you mean about the ice rink! My job closed today...I went out shoveled 10 inches of cold wet snow of mu property for an hour and a half! Came back inside...feed the boys and went to sleep!! Just think the official start of spring is only a month away! rose.gif rose.gif Again, welcome and it's nice to have you!

Jengy SISTREN!!! You were the first one I thought of this mawning!! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE...TEK HIT EASY OUT THERE!!!!! Tonight it's gonna freeze...suh JUST TEK YUH TIME GOING WHEREVER YUH GOING!!!!! unsure.gif
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-22 21:10:00
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Welcome to VJ.

Your guy may welcome the cold weather. Damien enjoys it for some reason wacko.gif


Thank you. And I am certainly glad to hear that! I can only hope Anthony will feel the same way.


My hubby didn't wear a coat the first winter...just a long sleeve shirt, gloves, sunglasses, jeans and boots helpsmilie.gif

I always have to remind him to wear a coat. He's loves the cold weather...not me.

We recently switched cars because the heat works better in one car than the other. I let him drive the "icebox".



sounds like mr jengles. i don't understand how he doesn't get sick, says he loves it, in J.A. he would sweat all time.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-22 21:06:00
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...............mi have a question. Well, my co-worker have a question. What is the difference between a I-134 and I-864. My co-worker used a lawyer, her fiance is from Jamaica. She doing K-1. I was on the phone with her and the lawyer's assistance and the woman told her that she needs to pay $380.00 more once the received a bill from NVC. $80.00 for the visa and $300.00 to process the I-864? What is the I-864 for? I thought you had to file a I-134. And I thought you paid for the visa before the interview. Please correct me. She pay all this damn money and the attorney can't even talk to her or answer her e-mails. I would cuss some BBclatt if that was me. But she's a quiet lady and well...cho. I just hate to see people taken advantage of. I don't remember reading anything about I-864 when I put my packet together. Lawddd did I miss something.

Little Red Riding Hood is quicking my body with CRAMPS this month.

ok the I-864 is for the AOS unless she needs a co-sponser and sometimes the embassy will request the co-sponser fill out a I-864..that happend to me....

from what i remember and when is being done as of today she has to pay for the visa/interview ahead of time...i think it is 100.00$

i am a little confused...is she doing a k-1 or or k-3/cr-1......because i thought when you send the packet in for the K-1 you send a long the money you don't get a bill...

Lawd...now now mi worse confused. She filed K-1. So, you do have to pay for the visa for the K-1 ahead of time. They're telling her she has to pay the visa fee for the K-1 here in the US and NVC will send the receipt to the consulate in Jamaica. I don't remember reading that anywhere.

She did send the packet for the K-1 and paid $455. She's received her approval I think last month or December. She doesn't have an interview date yet. I have to ask her again. The paralegal in her attorney's office is told her she needs to pay $80.00 for the non-immigrant visa and $300 to process the I-864. And all her fiance need to do is show up with the police certificate and the approval notice and attend the interview when it's scheduled. Her fiance will not need to bring an affidavit of support, tax records, employment, etc...anything like that at the itnerview. I told her to go to the attorney's office. Does that sound right?


Dunno what they talkin about chris paid 100 for the visa at paymaster in Mobay a few days before the interview and i filled out an I134 and had it notorized.. didnt do the 864 till AOS. We did K-1 finished in October 07.


Thanks Jah'love, that's how I remember reading it. I think the fee is $131 now. She just read what you posted, now she upset. I told her to go to the attorney's office and sit there until he talks to her. They charged her $2250 to process her K-1. Mi wah know wah dem do fidat mout a money.


bumbocleet!! Mi a go still file visa fi people!!!!
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-22 20:58:00
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before i start reading up on the day's doings. Me muss tell uno this story. so i go the hospital stumble across where i'm supposed to go and these people have the nerve to tell me. I'm supposed to come between 8 and 11 for registration. So I said why do I need to get registered when ya'll have all my paperwork, sonogram and health information from last week. Oh they do a different registration than the ER. OK, then she says when u come into register, we give u an appt to come back and get the procedure done. huh?? so at this point i'm like, i just took a half day from work to get it done. here the next nurse. next time take the morning off from work, so now you planning my days for me. then she says.we register you in the morning and IF THE DOCTOR FEEL LIKE, he will do it that day. If him feel like!!!! What kind of bandoulo hospital is dem running???!!! Mi just jump inna di car and head over to my doctors office. Where they can SCHEDULE ME. cha!!
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-22 20:54:00
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lawny

have to run, ya'll know i'm always late...mek her give u the money and file them for her. if she's doing a k-1 and he isn't here yet, she doesn't have to file a I-864 right now. just the other one u mentioned and that goes down to him for the interview. dem just a tek her money and screw up her case and den going to charge her more to FIx it. cha.


my son't father who is a typical j.a. man had one advice when it come to potty training. THE WRONG ONE. yardie or nanny is right. i would tell him it's ok it is an accident. then next thing, him a turn up him nose at the pull-ups.

lata,

don't have too much fun without me and Lawny if Kim a get on too bad, just drape her up for me.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-22 12:28:00
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potty training question/answer - I just left him alone after a while and then he announced to me that he didn't want to wear pull-ups anymore and then he did the same when it came to wearing them at nite. I used to try and force him and didn't want to get into the disciplining thing. when he would be lazy to get up from the tv. mad.gif

Give her time, maybe buy her some nice underwear and tell her she can't wear them now because she will pee them up. let her pick out the underwear, so u know she likes them.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-22 11:54:00
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I'm a little late been laid up since earlier... and hubby was trying to put music on his MP3 wacko.gif ....JG glad everything is on the up and up and ur on the road to recovery...

Classy ..a doan blame u..save that money..i'm jealous for sure

Lita hunny hush a so it go..time baby luv time..easier said dan done mi know but tek time get bad inna tings..
Sunny welcome back...

Ton mi wish mi did a go tuh..mi bex ..bad

ok...OF TOPIC..for all di momma's

KIMORA ASK TO DO #2 BUT SHE NOT BLASTED PEEING IN THE BLASTED POTTY OR BLINKING TOILET..IT IS DRIVING ME NUTS !!! OONUH HAVE NO ADVICE ??? MI NEED IT.. mad.gif


My girl...wah u a do up so late...mawnin same way. How old is she. Potty training is not easy, for some it may me. My son will be 5 in July and I attempted to train him when he was 16 months...that was a joke. I left him alone until he was ready. Funny thing is, I trained him while I was in Jamaica for 2 weeks. I think is was 2 then. See in Jamaica you can let your 2 year old run round naked inna u yard and no bady naw bada u...I left him with my sis to go to Negril for 2 days mi no know wah she do...when I came back he was doing it all by himself and telling everyone.

Just be patient and let her follow you to the bathroom. I remember when my son started to answer the phone would tell whoever is calling "MY MOMMY IN THE BATHROOM POOPING AND SHE GOING TO BE IN THERE LONG"...kids got to love them.

My son was given a (cho wah dem call it)...training potty or toilet...he use it as STORAGE whistling.gif


Thanks Lawny and nanny..she is 2 1/2...I tried when she was 18mths..gfiget it..left it alone...all of a sudden before she was 2 she always asked to do # 2 but she Will not ask to pee...i would love if something would work by time she is 3...

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Hope everyone in the northeast made it too work ok, we got hit with a surprise snowstorm, this morning. it was supposed to hit tonight, but it hit very early this morning instead and is going to last until tomorrow morning. wish these weather men could get it right at least once.


JENGS,

Please be careful. I fell this morning and ended up under my truck (don't ask). My neighbors had to pull me out. Had to go back in the house and change my clothes and I was wearing what I thought were good snow boots. My driveway is an icing ring. I'm made it to work, the streets were okay. People speeding like it was a regular day. So, be careful.



OMG, hope u are ok. i got up early this morning and shoveled. I drove like 10-15 miles/hr. the streets are BAD up here, it's supposed to turn into rain and then back to snow. it is going to be a big mess. I have to go back to the hospital this afternoon crying.gif and i think i might take the train, not even a cab, after i drop the kids off.


Baxide Lawny how u batty ? u OK ?...Jengs ie start from bout 1 dis morning...mi get up to mi suprise fi si everthing covered in white..glad mi deh home tideh


careful, that could be a new nickname devil.gif blush.gif


a got a call from my school at 5am. i just rolled back over as i was saying to myself, why are they cancelling classes when the snow ain't going to start until this afternoon. and i pulled the covers back over my head.

wish i was at home. i had my company laptop, but no connection, this is the perfect day to work from home.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-22 11:48:00
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Hope everyone in the northeast made it too work ok, we got hit with a surprise snowstorm, this morning. it was supposed to hit tonight, but it hit very early this morning instead and is going to last until tomorrow morning. wish these weather men could get it right at least once.


JENGS,

Please be careful. I fell this morning and ended up under my truck (don't ask). My neighbors had to pull me out. Had to go back in the house and change my clothes and I was wearing what I thought were good snow boots. My driveway is an icing ring. I'm made it to work, the streets were okay. People speeding like it was a regular day. So, be careful.



OMG, hope u are ok. i got up early this morning and shoveled. I drove like 10-15 miles/hr. the streets are BAD up here, it's supposed to turn into rain and then back to snow. it is going to be a big mess. I have to go back to the hospital this afternoon crying.gif and i think i might take the train, not even a cab, after i drop the kids off.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-22 11:30:00
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Hope everyone in the northeast made it too work ok, we got hit with a surprise snowstorm, this morning. it was supposed to hit tonight, but it hit very early this morning instead and is going to last until tomorrow morning. wish these weather men could get it right at least once.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-22 10:54:00
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I am feeling okay. Thanks for asking. Sore and a little loopy from the Tylenol #3. Sore as hell. I've only been able to sit here for short periods of time.

Andre,(God help us all) has been trying to "help" me.
I am missing you girls.


You want to tell him to leave u alone, don't u?? but if he wasn't trying to help u would be mad at him for that so leff him alone.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-21 21:18:00
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wow it got quiet in here all of a sudden unsure.gif


cause everyone goes home. and then hops back on later.
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-21 17:18:00
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YardieWife....Are you saying that someone on here told your husband how to file for LOC without you by using information that I said on here? OMG....if that is what you are saying, I am so sorry. I posted that info. to help you, no him. In no way would I even unintentionally help him.

Who the hell on here would help him?


well hello, how are u? I was looking for you yesterday, but Gill remeinded me you were having surgery
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-21 16:36:00
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Could you maybe shed some light on that!
Bless,
Gill



but as far as i am concerned you really don't have too.....now back to the regularly scheduled programing...for me its all about the music when i go to ja

Arright Jengy...aright! Fuh mi it's about sittin on my verandah in Greenwood on a clear night han lookin hup han feeling like you can touch the stars dem inna sky!! It's about going to a club asking for a rum cream and NOT having the bartender look at you like yuh mad...it's about Lobster patties from Juicy patty inna town...it's about nyamming down some REAL TO G-D Finga lickin Chicken at a KFC!!!!

It's HALL ABOUT....YARD!!!!!!!!

Gill



BIG SIGH blush.gif Mi miss mi juicy patties crying.gif

Lawd gawd, right now mi nuh miss mi Juicy patty deh weh mi miss mi Juicy...#######!!! laughing.gif laughing.gif laughing.gif


You a mess...soorry mi have nuff juicy #######......I'm so glad when aunt Flo come. She mek sure mi get a break blush.gif



LYRICS!!!!!!!!!!
JenglesFemaleJamaica2008-02-21 15:30:00